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  • Опубликовано: 16 окт 2022
  • Do you ever struggle with prioritizing your to-do list?
    The ability to prioritize tasks is a core skill of peak performers.
    But, when you have too many competing priorities, it can be a struggle to know which to do first.
    Too many options leads to mental overwhelm - it’s called ‘the Paradox of Choice’, first researched by psychologist Barry Schwartz.
    Here are 2 helpful tools for managing priorities:
    1. Binary Comparison.
    Given the brain has a preference for binary decisions, compare only 2 options at a time and narrow down priorities that way.
    2. The Eisenhower Matrix.
    Look at each task and ask two questions: (1) How urgent is this? (2) How important is this?
    What’s your best tip for prioritization?
    Schwartz, B. (2004). The paradox of choice: Why more is less. New York.
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Комментарии • 123

  • @abdulrazzak3976
    @abdulrazzak3976 Год назад +42

    I feel delighted after watching this video. It really helpful to prioritise the tasks. My favorite is second tip (The Matrix)

  • @zealparikh6017
    @zealparikh6017 Год назад +11

    So eloquent, so to the point, so sensible,so concise. This shorts are like reading whole chapters of books.

  • @joyce_oates
    @joyce_oates Год назад +23

    Shadé, you come up with so many practical, simple time management, work-related, and mental health tips! Thank you so much for the help you bring to us ❤❤❤❤❤❤

    • @kensalamba324
      @kensalamba324 Год назад

      Couldn’t agree more. Thank you Shade. Blessings

  • @peaceofmind6141
    @peaceofmind6141 7 месяцев назад +2

    That’s how I feel about food… only problem is they’re all urgent and important lol

  • @vicentesenajr869
    @vicentesenajr869 Год назад +1

    Great learning.. Thank you 😊 God bless

  • @bawselife6859
    @bawselife6859 9 месяцев назад +3

    Except when u are like me u wait till everything is urgent and important 😅

  • @deepakkumaar9665
    @deepakkumaar9665 Год назад

    Kaam ki baat.🎉ek dum

  • @rubinahbernadina3771
    @rubinahbernadina3771 9 месяцев назад

    Thank you for sharing.

  • @ayathav
    @ayathav 11 месяцев назад

    Thanks. It sounds practical. I am going to use it right away.

  • @santhoshmittapally4129
    @santhoshmittapally4129 Год назад

    The Eisenhower box 😊

  • @kabhis2002
    @kabhis2002 Год назад +1

    Important tips explained in simple way👌🏻👌🏻👌🏻

  • @nikhil_06_
    @nikhil_06_ Год назад +1

    Wow, this is gonna be so helpful for me. Thank you so much Shade!😊

  • @kevinb4419
    @kevinb4419 Год назад +4

    Its not only that we are not machines we are creative human beings in the morning I will do my morning routine and after I will do my creative work and then I will workout, eat lunch, and then I will handle other tasks when I’ve done what’s most important for my well being and main work goal which will fill up my cup and energize me so I can handle things that may disrupt my mood and then hinder me from doing important work and will get me closer to my dream and make feeel great

  • @thatgui88
    @thatgui88 10 месяцев назад +1

    Good content. Well spoken as always

  • @jamiehenriquez5
    @jamiehenriquez5 9 месяцев назад

    I learn a lot from these videos pls do more

  • @giovannidigitalart
    @giovannidigitalart 10 месяцев назад

    Very helpful.❤

  • @LucyPooh777
    @LucyPooh777 Год назад +2

    Binary Comparison! Who knew?! Thank you so much for this simple yet powerful tip! 👍

  • @RohitMishraBrand
    @RohitMishraBrand Год назад

    Awesome it's really helpful 🙏❤️

  • @maximciucvaleria9589
    @maximciucvaleria9589 Год назад

    Brilliant!

  • @nikhilhazare6534
    @nikhilhazare6534 10 месяцев назад

    Superbbb

  • @arturocarrillo9809
    @arturocarrillo9809 Год назад

    Nice seeing you again doc.georgousmGodvBless.

  • @Stoic_Paatthh
    @Stoic_Paatthh Год назад

    you talk so practical 😂

  • @arseniodelossantos7357
    @arseniodelossantos7357 Год назад

    For managing prioritize

  • @-AkhilTej-
    @-AkhilTej- Год назад

    💎Great informative video

  • @hsafi9393
    @hsafi9393 11 месяцев назад

    Loved it ❤

  • @kaladinstormblessed2211
    @kaladinstormblessed2211 Год назад +1

    This is such a useful tool for decision making. Thanks for sharing!

  • @manikyasheela1
    @manikyasheela1 Год назад

    Wow that is a good one !

  • @FriendlySilverseller
    @FriendlySilverseller Год назад

    Thank you so much

  • @urbanjunglesystemsev
    @urbanjunglesystemsev Год назад

    Thanks 👍

  • @akhiltej4604
    @akhiltej4604 Год назад +1

    Nice golden tips 💎

  • @DoctorSoyemi
    @DoctorSoyemi Год назад +4

    Thank you for these Wisdom tips

  • @ErikKristoferAnderson
    @ErikKristoferAnderson 8 месяцев назад

    How about a tournament bracket to put all of your competing priorities into: Then you can work your way through the bracket, making many binary decisions, until the most high priority items bubble up to the top.
    I will explore this idea soon.

  • @kshetrimayumdiamondsingh5660
    @kshetrimayumdiamondsingh5660 Год назад

    I can listen whole day

  • @rajvellaturi
    @rajvellaturi Год назад

    Love it ❤

  • @israellohora5786
    @israellohora5786 Год назад

    Holy cow, I'm going through so much to do and this helps a lot. Thank you. God bless

  • @hindavinasery2338
    @hindavinasery2338 Год назад

    Surprisingly this actually helped me prioritise my assignments. Thanks alot dear .. I really appreciate your every single video just makes my life easy !

  • @deepalipimpale309
    @deepalipimpale309 Год назад

    Thanks so much ! Kindly make more videos on this topic. 🙏

  • @Mushroom321-
    @Mushroom321- Год назад

    thank you for this !! advice!, " prioritze priority "

  • @code-master
    @code-master Год назад

    Thanks, I have also come up with prioritising with time estimates, high priority with less time take precedence. Helps in feeling accomplished.

  • @sajidminhas6714
    @sajidminhas6714 Год назад

    Excellent

  • @ashrafhassan6610
    @ashrafhassan6610 Год назад

    Binary decisions are the best👍
    Thanks Shadé.

  • @abinyturbo4x476
    @abinyturbo4x476 Год назад +2

    I kind of do this in my head.....😁.....I kind of know on spot if something is urgent and the rest I sort during the day. Still good advice 😉👍🏽

  • @BaileyZLeone
    @BaileyZLeone 9 месяцев назад

    Omg thank you. My brain feels better now ❤😢

  • @englishliteraturestudies
    @englishliteraturestudies Год назад

    What a good strategy to fight mental conflict

  • @kamraz5474
    @kamraz5474 Год назад

    you are doing a great job....your clips are so informative 👍

  • @KARINA29534
    @KARINA29534 Год назад

    You are amaing Shade, thank you 😘

  • @mavrosyvannah
    @mavrosyvannah Год назад

    Thank You Steven Covey. 7 habits of highly effective people.

  • @niteshkumarmanjhi5474
    @niteshkumarmanjhi5474 Год назад

    Thanks a lot ma'am!🙏🏻

  • @praveenkumaer4502
    @praveenkumaer4502 Год назад

    Superb advice

  • @anandswamys
    @anandswamys Год назад

    I am falling in love with you every video of yours

  • @ogbawa7881
    @ogbawa7881 Год назад

    Your voice is very calming

  • @abdulrazzakulday5580
    @abdulrazzakulday5580 Год назад

    Thanks for the information

  • @IslamThePeace1
    @IslamThePeace1 Год назад

    Thank you, now its done.

  • @basharalrefaee6953
    @basharalrefaee6953 Год назад

    You’re amazing!

  • @kathijamohamed9966
    @kathijamohamed9966 Год назад

    Your videos are awesome 👏

  • @brettweerasooriya3776
    @brettweerasooriya3776 Год назад

    Great stuff.

  • @piusgabson2573
    @piusgabson2573 Год назад

    This just made my day💪

  • @mukeshjoshi7467
    @mukeshjoshi7467 Год назад

    Excellent. You have very lucid stuff as well gift of gab. God bless u. Regards

  • @GovindKumar-jh4cv
    @GovindKumar-jh4cv Год назад

    Thank You 🙏

  • @VerrilloTrading
    @VerrilloTrading Год назад

    Thank you

  • @Bill0102
    @Bill0102 5 месяцев назад

    I'm enamored with this. I had the pleasure of reading something similar, and I was truly enamored. "The Art of Saying No: Mastering Boundaries for a Fulfilling Life" by Samuel Dawn

  • @venkatnarasimhan
    @venkatnarasimhan Год назад

    Really informative video👌

  • @IskanderYari
    @IskanderYari Год назад

    The most beutifu and intelegent persian girl in the Universe ❤

  • @hadibq
    @hadibq Год назад

    awesome 👍 works for me ... I'm so binary!!

  • @kabirsharma9957
    @kabirsharma9957 Год назад

    First tip is just one iteration of bubble sort to find the highest priority task

  • @ambermin5442
    @ambermin5442 Год назад +1

    your youtube clips are top priority to me !

  • @chrisgrootwassink7488
    @chrisgrootwassink7488 10 месяцев назад

    I just make a huge list and put the most urgent and important things at the top. I do the rest randomly. Just doing it is the most important task, don't think about it too much

  • @thangaraj1463
    @thangaraj1463 Год назад +1

    You should be CEO of the Company 👍

  • @mohittaneja7452
    @mohittaneja7452 Год назад

    Sending LOVE from India dear mam.
    This one is a great help.
    Pls make some content on MBTI personality type. How important is it? And can it be change to some extent?

  • @gokulsaravanan4564
    @gokulsaravanan4564 Год назад

    Johari window!!

  • @aliasgur3342
    @aliasgur3342 Год назад

    Never understood how something can be urgent but not important. If it's urgent it must be important.

    • @ShadeZahrai
      @ShadeZahrai  Год назад

      e.g. Coffee and bagels before the team meeting.

    • @aliasgur3342
      @aliasgur3342 Год назад

      @@ShadeZahrai Okay, thought about it and yes that makes sense. Thank you!

    • @ShadeZahrai
      @ShadeZahrai  Год назад

      You're welcome!

  • @chuckcharm424
    @chuckcharm424 Год назад

    incredible, thank you for these observations. I was thinking today whether to eat a pizza or take the car to the interior wash. both give me approximately the same satisfaction. I am a fan of pizza. :)) but after seeing this video I weighed and chose car.:)) I feel much more satisfied.

  • @JamesR404
    @JamesR404 Год назад

    I don't like the Eisenhouwer Matrix, it is a nice thought experiment but at the same time it's a trap. When you prioritze all your tasks like that, in this modern era, you'll have a gigantic list of priority 2 tasks and also a lot of priority 1 tasks. Then later, if you want to add a priority 3 task to your list, you know it is pointless, because you'll never see the priority 3 tasks. So I rather prioritze almost never and instead sort mainly on "time modified", so each recently added item is immediately visible and receives its fair chance to get done.

  • @johnabraham8297
    @johnabraham8297 Год назад

    1. Binary choice
    Decide only between two things at a time.
    2. Eisenhower matrix
    a. Important and urgent - Do it
    b. Important but not urgent - Decide to do it at a suitable time.
    c. Not important but urgent - Delegate to someone
    d. Not important nor urgent - Delete it.

  • @remusgherman4602
    @remusgherman4602 Год назад

    You know what I do when is too many options? Well in fact is always only one good option... Check your money, check your time available, check the weather, and check which one is urgent to do... Soo it easy... To find the best choice...

  • @robertcoulter2072
    @robertcoulter2072 Год назад

    Be still and know

  • @hariharanummadisetti8088
    @hariharanummadisetti8088 10 месяцев назад

    Helpful tools:-
    1) Binary comparison
    2) Eisenhower Matrix

  • @jefffairchild1854
    @jefffairchild1854 Год назад

    Your voice sounds like you'd be a great singer. Have you tried singing before?

  • @ahmedfarag7506
    @ahmedfarag7506 Год назад

    🤝🏻🤝🏻🤝🏻🤝🏻

  • @riddhimporwal
    @riddhimporwal Год назад +1

    Was just looking for this! Thanks❤

  • @user-or3ig3ev3f
    @user-or3ig3ev3f 11 месяцев назад

    Thanks gorgeously Alegent and smart girl

  • @aliaamash4877
    @aliaamash4877 Год назад

  • @bhanu99-1
    @bhanu99-1 Год назад

    Nice

  • @satishhpatel621
    @satishhpatel621 Год назад

    Hey ma'am make video for me specially learning English very easy way within short period......

  • @chetan8177
    @chetan8177 Год назад

    How do I decide between 3 carrier options , think about it since many months stuck in one just deciding and not taking actions

    • @ShadeZahrai
      @ShadeZahrai  Год назад

      List the pros and cons of each option in a matrix and then use the process of elimination. You can also attribute a score to each criteria. Make sure you include criteria centered around your values, innate talent, vision and interest. Ultimately trust your intuition.
      Once you decide then act with full determination. Remember you can always adjust your career direction in the future should you need to.
      All the best!

  • @lorriheffner2747
    @lorriheffner2747 Год назад

    I had to listen several times because some thing was there that my mind wanted to grab and it was the “urgent - but not important” column: delegate it !
    that was the aha moment. Thank you.
    IE: it feels urgent, to me, but I could delegate it. Omg. Just so eye opening to the possibilities of freeing up my time literally.

  • @MeetPatel-nl2yj
    @MeetPatel-nl2yj Год назад

    This is just common sense everyone has the ability to prioritize multiple tasks .

  • @Sathish_Kumar_S
    @Sathish_Kumar_S Год назад

    7 habits of highly successful people

  • @didikwahyudi8270
    @didikwahyudi8270 Год назад

    ask a question: what's the most important thing you could do today?

  • @ChandraShekar-nz4tc
    @ChandraShekar-nz4tc Год назад

    👍💝

  • @lin0613
    @lin0613 5 месяцев назад

    how do you know how important a task is 😅

  • @seageo4303
    @seageo4303 9 месяцев назад

    Watching RUclips-Delete & Eliminate.

  • @Conald_isAfalseProphet
    @Conald_isAfalseProphet Год назад

    Help a family member or best friend who is like a brother to you?
    The friend also has been waiting on you to help for almost 2 years and very upset now, and so is his wife 🙁

  • @CosmicDesending32534
    @CosmicDesending32534 11 месяцев назад

    Can you do it for me?

  • @larsswig912
    @larsswig912 Год назад +1

    how can something be urgent but not important

    • @abhishekghosh4384
      @abhishekghosh4384 Год назад +4

      Urgency means how soon something needs to be done, importance shows the stakes involved in it.

    • @larsswig912
      @larsswig912 Год назад +1

      @@abhishekghosh4384 thanks!

    • @abhishekghosh4384
      @abhishekghosh4384 Год назад

      @@larsswig912 you're most welcome 😊

  • @platyadmirer
    @platyadmirer Год назад

    Wait what's urgent and not Important?? Doesn't that defeat the purpose of urgent?

    • @ShadeZahrai
      @ShadeZahrai  Год назад

      Grocery shopping when the fridge is nearly empty.

  • @Lolxoxoxo
    @Lolxoxoxo Год назад

    Who advises you on your makeup and clothes ?
    Always the perfect colors and shade

  • @shekhargupta6718
    @shekhargupta6718 Год назад +2

    Wow you look like diva in this video, how you manage to keep yourself so energetic .

  • @darwinmendoza7061
    @darwinmendoza7061 Год назад

    That is just common sense .

  • @azdinz5757
    @azdinz5757 Год назад

    I wonder how you hav accumulated all these infections, very impressive.