Why blame the common man for buying something he/she can afford? If public transportation is so good, lesser people will see the need to buy cars. So it is the government who should think about this issue.
this is like per capita energy spending of US Vs India, more than one car @ home Vs No car, i think government must support mass transport system and support reduction of cars/home. Energy crisis is on...we need to support energy conservation as a developed society. Nagappan made sense in his talk supporting mass and public infastructure.
We bought Ford Figo 2011 model from our uncle in 2017 at that time i don't even had interests in car so that i have not went to my hometown to see the car. I was studying 2nd year BE mech in st.josephs, chennai. Then after 5 years we sold in 2022 as we rode it around 1 lakh kms and we had a lot of issues also Ford went out of India so it is not advisable to spend lot of money in ford car. After that my mom can't even go to any functions and hospital so that made our family worry a lot. But immediately we can't buy a new large car at that time as we are spending a huge amount for my higher studies in canada. So it stressed me a lot as my mother is spending a huge sum of money for my studies but she can't afford for a basic comfort for her life as she had pain in her legs and ankles. Then after so many confusions. One day mother of my uncle passed away in Chennai yet we had attend the death ceremony. But, our relative each and everyone had there own work on that day. So, it pushed my family to finalize our decision then we attended the ceremony and booked hyundai i20 starry night as i already compared multiple cars and decided that if we want a car then we had to opt for i20. Finally, On 10-05-2023 We bought our Hyundai I20 sportz starry night, which made me to give that car a great respect and always take utmost care for that car. But, i haven't not gave this much importance even for the first car.
1:05:00 to 1:06:00 - A father who gave his daughter to the guy because he got car. I accept money is needed for life. But parents should make sure that a guy will never leave her at any cost and won't cheat her by having any affair. See the quality of a guy. Will he respect his wives parents and siblings? Will he help if his wives' siblings are in loans/credit? Having a car or house shouldn't be a qualification to get married. What happens if a recession comes and every IT guys loses their job? First learn to save. "Never buys things in loan. It will make you slave" - Warren Buffet.
After seeing this I recollect a saying, people r created to be loved and things r created to be used.The whole world is in chaos bcoz we all do it viceversa.hmm what else to tell
All of these people are spoiled. They have become slave to material things. They equate car to achievement but don't respect someone in bicycle. If by chance they come to Europe, they will see all bicycles and be surprised how humble everyone is.
1:18:45 According Arathu it is not necessary to clean the car, just leave it dirty with all the dirt. Next Indians buy car due to slave mindset, not because of need or buying capacity. He used to be intelligent when he was one of the participants. Now as a special guest he is all n....se.
If you have enough income to maintain the car, there is noting in wrong in keeping the car. Instead of couple with 2 children going on two wheelers, risking all their life, they can buy used 800 cc car and they can travel safely. ( government has the responsibility of improving mass transit infrastructure )
Car is essential for a middle class family VS Car is trouble for a middle class family! கார் நடுத்தர குடும்பத்திற்கு அவசியம் Vs கார் நடுத்தர குடும்பத்திற்கு அவதி! The speakers are Writer Araathu and Financial Advisor Nagappan.
He will know why she asked to construct complex and rent is very imp for her when he is aged out. Our parents who don't have pension need some money at their old age to live peacefully. all sons think u can come and stay in my home .. but the homes are not theirs its daughter-in-law home so some parents are not willing to come .. they stay somehow in their home..Think in that way ..
Enakum car vanganumnu romba periya kanava iruku yen na vayadana kalathula amma appaku mudiyathu emergency situation ,illa avangala romba long pogatha idathuku avangala kootitu poganunu asa kandippa orunal nadakkum 👍.
Everyone in life has to look up, not down. If you are in college, you have to aim to someone who is top ranker, not the guy in last bench sleeping. But I don't see why she is crying. It is not that she is going to die if the complex was not built.
this mother has an ego that her only son is taking care of his wife and 2 other girls that are his children. she has an image for herself and her son should keep her very high and only do what she wants him to do. The wife seems to be understanding. This is high time that the mother realizes her mistake of her ego and expectations.
Rathamani Muthusamy I think whether mother's wish is wrong or right, the son should at least try to fulfill. If she dies without fulfilling her wish, son will feel bad rest of his life.
First , why she wants that complex instead of car , because for her living she is heavily dependent on that rent. She cant ask her sons money each month, but he constructs complex, after her death it is going to him only , also she mentioned he is the only son. Next she is not against buying the car, she is not against anything about him, she just want that rent for her living as she cant ask money to that son or daughter ... Also parents will feel pain when they ask money to their sons .. As a mom i can understand her feelings..Also as daughter in law said they got land, constructed , everything anyway she made him stuck in lot of loans separately .. but mother cant...she is not asking for luxury , she is asking for rent only as without that she cant manage day to day expense or ask his son everymonth .. that is the whole story here ..
Very illogical. Basically she seems to be greedy. Instead of asking son to build complex, the son can pay for her monthly expenses. Because building a complex is going to cost much more than what he is going to pay for her monthly expenses.
Those who buy car don't have parking area. THEY PARK THEIR CARS ON THE ROAD SIDE BOTH LEFT AND RIGHT. WHEN THEY DO NOT HAVE PARKING AREA, BETTER LET THEM NOT BUY. INFACT THEY ARE BLOCKING THE WAY TO GO BY OTHERS IN TWO WHEELERS ALSO. THE REASON IS THAT THEY GET SECOND CAR FOR ONE OR TWO LAKHS THAT TOO ON INSTALMENET BASIS. FOR ECAMPLE IF A PERSON EARNS RS30000/ PER MONTH, BUY A CAR ON LONG INSTALMENT BASIS SECOND HAND CAR. GOVERMENT HAS TO INSTRUCT THE POLICE TO TOE THE CARS TO MARINA beach AND FINE IT. NOWADAYS A CAR IS A PRESTGIOUS ,SHOW THEM THEY RICH. I SAW PERSON HAVING CAR PARKING ON ROAD SIDE, TAKEN OUT MONTHLY TWICE. LET THEM BUY BUT NOT PARK ON THE ROAD. IF NO PARKING ATEA, DONOT BUY CAR
Exactly even I felt the same. a true genuine mother will always be happy for her son’s decision admitting , at least her son’s dream has come true, and If the son is happy automatically, a. mother should also be happy right!! but this old lady is so envious so jealous and very selfish only thinking about her dream. At that age is it necessary?? Her son said after the car EMI he will definitely build the complex, but this old grandmother couldn’t wait.
looks like they are treating her very well......Why mum is crying like a child for a complex....very childish .......Son and Daughter in law seem to be good people,,,
There are lots of people at her age who still doesn't even have a own house but that lady is crying for complex shows how greedy she is. Yes there are greedy parents not all are sacrificing ones. She could think like Instead of paying a hefty interests to banks the son can give that money to her on monthly basis.
People using 4 cars in home. It is justifiable if they are working in four corners of city. A better solution would be CAR POOLING as done in western country. We follow everything from west, why not this? Just think, if 100 cars or in front of you in signal/queue, it will take 10 minutes to reach the signal lamp post. If only 10 cars in front of you, you will reach your desitnation fast. A wealthy country is not where everyone has a car. Its where every rich travels in public transport. Even Mark Zuckerberg, CEO of Facebook owns a Nissan. Not a brandy Porsche or Ferrari or BMW or Benz.
@ 20:36 that orange saree kezravi rombo perasa pudichu mental. her dreams to build complex will never come true, never will it ever happen. she will worry and die very soon due to ageing. a mother at that age should be happy for her son just bcos he fulfilled his wish to buy a car, but this old devil couldn't digest it. India kezra vaisile yedhuku indha aasai? sudukadu vaa vaa inu kopadhu intha munjeku complex maligai venuma. Mental pombale dreams will never ever come true The truth is she wants to show off by buying gold jewellery and showing off to others. Her dream is not genuine at all. And she couldn’t also digest her daughter in law is living a decent comfortable life by using that car to locomotor when going out.
After seeing this I recollect a saying, people r created to be loved and things r created to be used.The whole world is in chaos bcoz we all do it viceversa.hmm what else to tell
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Sir u r my inspiration. ...
I have watched this show almost 10 times
இதல பேசுனவா பாதி பேரு நடுத்தர குடும்பம் கிடையாது..
LOL!!! "Idilliya podu!" @ 40:46 Hilarious Gopinath!
Why blame the common man for buying something he/she can afford? If public transportation is so good, lesser people will see the need to buy cars. So it is the government who should think about this issue.
Super concept and explanation. ..
this is like per capita energy spending of US Vs India, more than one car @ home Vs No car, i think government must support mass transport system and support reduction of cars/home. Energy crisis is on...we need to support energy conservation as a developed society. Nagappan made sense in his talk supporting mass and public infastructure.
We bought Ford Figo 2011 model from our uncle in 2017 at that time i don't even had interests in car so that i have not went to my hometown to see the car. I was studying 2nd year BE mech in st.josephs, chennai. Then after 5 years we sold in 2022 as we rode it around 1 lakh kms and we had a lot of issues also Ford went out of India so it is not advisable to spend lot of money in ford car. After that my mom can't even go to any functions and hospital so that made our family worry a lot. But immediately we can't buy a new large car at that time as we are spending a huge amount for my higher studies in canada. So it stressed me a lot as my mother is spending a huge sum of money for my studies but she can't afford for a basic comfort for her life as she had pain in her legs and ankles. Then after so many confusions. One day mother of my uncle passed away in Chennai yet we had attend the death ceremony. But, our relative each and everyone had there own work on that day. So, it pushed my family to finalize our decision then we attended the ceremony and booked hyundai i20 starry night as i already compared multiple cars and decided that if we want a car then we had to opt for i20. Finally, On 10-05-2023 We bought our Hyundai I20 sportz starry night, which made me to give that car a great respect and always take utmost care for that car. But, i haven't not gave this much importance even for the first car.
Very interesting
Good Luck Brother
Complex Amma, பார்க்கவே அருவருப்பை உண்டாக்குது.
Perassai perum nastam she is never happy for her son evil old lady
🤣🤣
Good show I like%
1:05:00 to 1:06:00 - A father who gave his daughter to the guy because he got car. I accept money is needed for life. But parents should make sure that a guy will never leave her at any cost and won't cheat her by having any affair. See the quality of a guy. Will he respect his wives parents and siblings? Will he help if his wives' siblings are in loans/credit? Having a car or house shouldn't be a qualification to get married. What happens if a recession comes and every IT guys loses their job? First learn to save. "Never buys things in loan. It will make you slave" - Warren Buffet.
complex aa aaatthaaaaaa...... amma naa amma neee dhaaan ammma..... complex illanaaaa kanla thanni varudhaaa :D
super....superooo super....... nalla munukku varuvinga.....
After seeing this I recollect a saying, people r created to be loved and things r created to be used.The whole world is in chaos bcoz we all do it viceversa.hmm what else to tell
good
இந்நேரம் அந்தப்பையன் "மாளிகை" கட்டிக் கொடுத்திருந்தாலும், அந்தம்மா அந்த மாளிகையை அவுங்க பொண்ணுக்கு எழுதி வச்சிருப்பாங்க.
பேராசையின் மொத்த உருவம் அந்த அம்மா
@@vetrivelmurugan1942 😊
அவங்க பொண்ணுக்கு தானே!
Car is a necessity for many of usbut it all depends on how u take it.it is not a status a status symbol.
All of these people are spoiled. They have become slave to material things. They equate car to achievement but don't respect someone in bicycle. If by chance they come to Europe, they will see all bicycles and be surprised how humble everyone is.
1:18:45 According Arathu it is not necessary to clean the car, just leave it dirty with all the dirt. Next Indians buy car due to slave mindset, not because of need or buying capacity. He used to be intelligent when he was one of the participants. Now as a special guest he is all n....se.
Gopi disco dance from -
@1:22:37 to @1:22:42....
paaa... chance'ae illa :)
Red T shirt man wife pavam.
Fanatism should be avoided. Only if it is necessary, a cycle,scooter ,car should be bought, not for BANDHA
complex amma is mental pombla
If you have enough income to maintain the car, there is noting in wrong in keeping the car. Instead of couple with 2 children going on two wheelers, risking all their life, they can buy used 800 cc car and they can travel safely. ( government has the responsibility of improving mass transit infrastructure )
நான் கூட என்னமோ ஏதோ ன்னு பதறிப் போய் வந்தா....... மாளிகை கட்டித்தரலன்னு அழற? பாவம்டி யம்மா உம் புள்ள......
loosu atu maaligai illaaa. rental house a perusa kattanum avlothaan.
நடுவுல கொஞ்சம் "கதை அல்ல நிஜம்" மாதிரி போகுது...
Anda amma ku ippa avaru complex katti kudutaara enna aachi bey therila 😪😪😪
Car is essential for a middle class family VS Car is trouble for a middle class family!
கார் நடுத்தர குடும்பத்திற்கு அவசியம் Vs கார் நடுத்தர குடும்பத்திற்கு அவதி!
The speakers are Writer Araathu and Financial Advisor Nagappan.
47:00 Theivame.. Neenga entha voor.. Ippo ethavathu car resale iruka?
Disgusting to see the complex mother !! Pity to see her son in this situation.. Women's always pressurize men in any form of relation.
He will know why she asked to construct complex and rent is very imp for her when he is aged out. Our parents who don't have pension need some money at their old age to live peacefully.
all sons think u can come and stay in my home .. but the homes are not theirs its daughter-in-law home so some parents are not willing to come .. they stay somehow in their home..Think in that way ..
Enakum car vanganumnu romba periya kanava iruku yen na vayadana kalathula amma appaku mudiyathu emergency situation ,illa avangala romba long pogatha idathuku avangala kootitu poganunu asa kandippa orunal nadakkum 👍.
all the best ❤ you will get one day 🎉 wish your parents live long
where r u from bro?
Best wishes Bro
Avan avan moonu vela saapadradhukkum, thangarathukum kastapattutu irukaan. Ithula complex ilanu nu alugara andha pombala. Enna koduma da. Unakkum keele ullavar kodi, ninaithup paarthu nimmadhi naadu!
Arun.. Naan nenachen.. neenga sollitinga...
Everyone in life has to look up, not down. If you are in college, you have to aim to someone who is top ranker, not the guy in last bench sleeping. But I don't see why she is crying. It is not that she is going to die if the complex was not built.
this mother has an ego that her only son is taking care of his wife and 2 other girls that are his children. she has an image for herself and her son should keep her very high and only do what she wants him to do. The wife seems to be understanding. This is high time that the mother realizes her mistake of her ego and expectations.
Rathamani Muthusamy
I think whether mother's wish is wrong or right, the son should at least try to fulfill. If she dies without fulfilling her wish, son will feel bad rest of his life.
Danno Williams Sorry Danno. I think someone has hurted you a lot. Hope everything goes good. All the best.
First , why she wants that complex instead of car , because for her living she is heavily dependent on that rent. She cant ask her sons money each month, but he constructs complex, after her death it is going to him only , also she mentioned he is the only son. Next she is not against buying the car, she is not against anything about him, she just want that rent for her living as she cant ask money to that son or daughter ... Also parents will feel pain when they ask money to their sons .. As a mom i can understand her feelings..Also as daughter in law said they got land, constructed , everything anyway she made him stuck in lot of loans separately .. but mother cant...she is not asking for luxury , she is asking for rent only as without that she cant manage day to day expense or ask his son everymonth .. that is the whole story here ..
Hello she can wait. And he also says he will do that for that selfish old lady. If that’s fate she will die before that let it be
Very illogical. Basically she seems to be greedy. Instead of asking son to build complex, the son can pay for her monthly expenses. Because building a complex is going to cost much more than what he is going to pay for her monthly expenses.
21 vayasula velaiya kathuka vanthu atha kathu kittu thaniya seylamnu ninaicha tholil aarampikkirathuku panam irukkathu
appakitta ketta avaru thannala mudinchatha tharuvaru ana athavechitu tholil thodanga mudiyama kadana vangi tholil senji
nammala ealanama pathavangha munnadi nalla vanthuttennu katrathuku kashtapattu veeta onnu kattalamnu ninaicha,,,athu katrathuku velaiya ketamna thala suthum..athiyum meeri bank,banka eari loan ketamna avan nammala ealanama pathutu atha konduva itha konduvaanu solli 3,4 masam kalichi loan tharuvan..atha vangi veeta vangittu antha veetu kragapravesham
pannalamnu patha selavu kanna katttum athaiyum meeri kragapravesham senji mudichi thirumpi patha EMI vanthu etti pakkum appuram athaiyellam kashtapattu kattitu nimmathiya thoongarathukulla kalyanam seyyanumpanga...
athuku seetu keetu pottu atha eduthu kalyanam panni kolandai pethu atha valakarathuku nanga padra kashtatha nenaicha
eppa samy !!! ennada intha polapu...mudiyala..YARODA UDHAVIYUM INDRI SAMUTHAYATHULA THALAI NIMIRA THUDIKIRA ILAINARGALUKKU EN VANAKKAM.... Ithula enga irundhu car vangarathu??? aana vanganum kashta pattavathu atha adaiyantha pala ilainargalil nanum oruvan enpathi enaku perumaiye....nandri
goood show but i dont like
podaaaaaaaaaaaaaa
divya barathi the why u r saying good show ;)
ya
Those who buy car don't have parking area. THEY PARK THEIR CARS ON THE ROAD SIDE BOTH LEFT AND RIGHT. WHEN THEY DO NOT HAVE PARKING AREA, BETTER LET THEM NOT BUY. INFACT THEY ARE BLOCKING THE WAY TO GO BY OTHERS IN TWO WHEELERS ALSO. THE REASON IS THAT THEY GET SECOND CAR FOR ONE OR TWO LAKHS THAT TOO ON INSTALMENET BASIS. FOR ECAMPLE IF A PERSON EARNS RS30000/ PER MONTH, BUY A CAR ON LONG INSTALMENT BASIS SECOND HAND CAR. GOVERMENT HAS TO INSTRUCT THE POLICE TO TOE THE CARS TO MARINA beach AND FINE IT. NOWADAYS A CAR IS A PRESTGIOUS ,SHOW THEM THEY RICH. I SAW PERSON HAVING CAR PARKING ON ROAD SIDE, TAKEN OUT MONTHLY TWICE. LET THEM BUY BUT NOT PARK ON THE ROAD. IF NO PARKING ATEA, DONOT BUY CAR
Pathetic mom, she will never let her son live happily!
Exactly even I felt the same. a true genuine mother will always be happy for her son’s decision admitting , at least her son’s dream has come true, and If the son is happy automatically, a. mother should also be happy right!! but this old lady is so envious so jealous and very selfish only thinking about her dream. At that age is it necessary??
Her son said after the car EMI he will definitely build the complex, but this old grandmother couldn’t wait.
ennayya andha amma, loosu madhiri inga vandhu car'kum complex'kum aluguthu. Sariyana mokka
Mokka illai perasai pudicha mental kezravi
looks like they are treating her very well......Why mum is crying like a child for a complex....very childish .......Son and Daughter in law seem to be good people,,,
There are lots of people at her age who still doesn't even have a own house but that lady is crying for complex shows how greedy she is. Yes there are greedy parents not all are sacrificing ones.
She could think like Instead of paying a hefty interests to banks the son can give that money to her on monthly basis.
Because of show off....!!!!!!!
@20:00 vampire women
People using 4 cars in home. It is justifiable if they are working in four corners of city. A better solution would be CAR POOLING as done in western country. We follow everything from west, why not this? Just think, if 100 cars or in front of you in signal/queue, it will take 10 minutes to reach the signal lamp post. If only 10 cars in front of you, you will reach your desitnation fast. A wealthy country is not where everyone has a car. Its where every rich travels in public transport. Even Mark Zuckerberg, CEO of Facebook owns a Nissan. Not a brandy Porsche or Ferrari or BMW or Benz.
That lady is ful of negative energy 😢
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Some mentals must read the book psychology of money.otherwise they will become bankrupt
Transport system in India is very bad....plenty of room for improvement
@ 20:36 that orange saree kezravi rombo perasa pudichu mental. her dreams to build complex will never come true, never will it ever happen. she will worry and die very soon due to ageing. a mother at that age should be happy for her son just bcos he fulfilled his wish to buy a car, but this old devil couldn't digest it. India kezra vaisile yedhuku indha aasai? sudukadu vaa vaa inu kopadhu intha munjeku complex maligai venuma. Mental pombale dreams will never ever come true The truth is she wants to show off by buying gold jewellery and showing off to others. Her dream is not genuine at all. And she couldn’t also digest her daughter in law is living a decent comfortable life by using that car to locomotor when going out.
After seeing this I recollect a saying, people r created to be loved and things r created to be used.The whole world is in chaos bcoz we all do it viceversa.hmm what else to tell
Super concept and explanation. ..