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Lessons Through Love & Conscious Uncoupling - A Chat With My Ex Blu | Know Thyself Podcast EP 30
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- Опубликовано: 7 авг 2024
- After 2.5 years of being in relationship with each other, Blu and André share why they ended things and what they learned. They dive deep into how to create the foundations for a healthy partnership with love, respect, and play. They explain some of the challenges they faced together, and how they moved through conflict with grace.
They also share how they individually processed their breakup, and what the pain taught them. On the other side of grieving their relationship, they have remained close, despite new loves coming into their lives. Reminding us that true love lasts forever.
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Timecodes:
0:00 Intro
4:54 Why We Stayed Friends
10:55 Conflict in our relationship
24:42 Processing Difficult Emotions in Partnership
33:52 Facing Jealousy
47:07 True Love Lasts Forever
51:26 What We Learned
55:04 Why We Broke Up
1:08:20 Grieving Our Break Up
1:23:14 Dating Other People
1:33:05 Our Key Takeaways
1:38:25 Answering Your Questions
1:44:47 Conclusion
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Blu:
Blu is a motivational speaker, artist, musician, podcast host and co-founder of Florescence - a modern mystery school for women. She has dedicated the past decade to her understanding of the medicinal nature of the plant kingdom as well as the archetypal nature of the collective unconscious. Blu’s genius is in her ability to connect with the world that lies beyond our 5 senses while keeping her feet firmly planted on the ground so that she can bring us golden truths of beauty, love and unity in a way that is playful and authentic.
Instagram: / bluofearth
Website: www.bluofearth.com/
RUclips: / @bluofearth
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Know Thyself
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Hello incredible humans. Just spent some time reading these comments & I just wanted to say that it’s so heartwarming to feel you all - thank you for all of your beautiful reflections and for sharing how this was moving for you. I’m honored to be connected in one way or another to all of you beautiful souls, no matter where you’re at on the planet.
Keep shining & I hope to give you all a hug one day 🫶
appreciated ❤❤
@andreduqum Know thyself World tour? 🥳💃🧘
Hello Andre,
Thank you and Blue for sharing with us. I am after breakup of being In beautiful relationship. Thanks to your video I learn and acknowledge so much.
Me and my partner did plant medicine ,he did it one Saturday in different state and I did it at Sunday.We both get the message ,, it's time to separate". But we separated with love and respect. It's still 3 week's,but thank you for your video. Many things open up for me and I relate with Blue a lot. The same wound's. ♾️ Times thank you.
From my heart to your heart guys . You are absolutely amazing!
Y’all both so beautiful humans-
I had no idea you were together, just finding both yr a podcast recently - so much love.
Wow…. That is phenomenal 🙏
"Don't enter a relationship with someone you wouldn't want to be." This is one of the most profound pieces of relationship advice I have ever heard in my life.
At the same time - don’t renter a relationship just because you’d want to be that person.
Really? I have never met anybody who I d ve wanted to BE?! Even people that I admire and love deeply, I still wouldn't want to BE them. What a strange thing to propose.
Wow!!! Let’s spread this message!
@@Wandering.HomebodyI agree. I don’t want to be anyone other than myself, but I also don’t want to not be In relationship 🙃
Whoa.
Blu deserves the most safe and nurturing relationship with no strict rules n regimens. She's so real and has zero ego and is a free spirit❤
Blu, your power and presence. Strength and vulnerability. Articulation and respect. I am in absolute awe. THIS is what it feels like to witness another being in their truest and highest form of self. You my friend, are a gift to our planet
Thank you for your vulnerability. I was married for 22 years. My soul contract with him morphed from friendship/romance to friendship/one of my best friends.. He is one of the most virtuous and loving men I have ever known. I love him so much and was honored to be his wife and honored to have him as one of my best friends. We will forever be supportive of one another. I would be so nice to see more couples come out as friends, but I comprehend all relationships are different. Mine was respectful and full of love from the beginning and to this day.
This conversation has TRULY helped me in my healing process. I was so hesitant at first to listen to it because I've been really triggered lately, but I can see now that there's nothing to fear. Nothing lasts forever because change is the only constant, yet, at the same time, love remains in different containers and it just transforms and trascends. As someone who has gone through the birth and end of a relationship that felt secure and a safe place to be myself like the one Blu and Andre had, it's such a miracle to experience a love like this that helps you grow in the most incredible way possible ❤️
I feel so much lighter and closer to closing out this cycle for me. Thank you so so much for this episode!
I don’t comment on much.
But man…thank you!
I’m 47 and your depth of Wisdom, vulnerability, openness, humility, true love is outstanding. You are both leaders of this time and this speaks to us all ❤
Hey Blu, i hope you realize how special you are. You have so much access to deep insight and I can see how andre gives you space to be your full self. Thank you both for sharing.
Therapy has nothing on this authentic, insightful, heartfelt and real conversation. Blu you went straight to the core, your burning love evident and your transparent vulnerability evoked tears in so many. Of that I've no doubt. You took responsibility for your feelings and by claiming your power back grew tenfold... You give love a GOOD name and I have hope and joy for humanity when shining lights with clear voices such as yours are seen and heard. Thank you,
So absolutely true ❤
Blu is so beautiful and absolutely authentic in how she expresses herself. He love was so real
A beautiful example of what love is. We rarely get to see ex's with so much respect and love for eachother, truly beautiful. Thank you for sharing so vulnerably!💗
Hello Andre and Blue. This has been a very special video and I commend you both for your vulnerability. I wanted to offer my two cents in case they're helpful. It seems what Blu valued most in this relationship was how you were able to receive her Andre without judgment, without deflecting and arguing. And what a gift that is! Not many relationships have that pleasure. However, I also did not feel that the depths of Blu's heart were matched by you Andre, and I am saying this with no judgment. You can be spiritual and still live on the surface and you can be spiritual and like delving deep into the unconscious. There's no judgment if one is naturally a diver and the other a swimmer. However, the diver and the swimmer will have difficulty meeting in their natural element. Andre did not share much about his "dark time" whether its because he did not want to or because he didn't reflect as much on it - some might feel the emotions and let them go, without going into stories & the subconscious. There are many ways to do the spiritual path, but for the deep divers, it's necessary to find each other, to find a match that will dive with them, or at least, be crazy curious about their dive...Aubrey Marcus would be an example of a man I see having the depth and thirst for self-knowledge that Blu does, although I don't know if two divers partner up - will they ever come up for air? Maybe a mix of diver and swimmer is a good thing after all, as long as there is interest and capability of each to occasionally match the other in their element.
It was Andre interviewing Blu, so maybe he wasn’t able to express whatever, because this feels like the openness of the conversation was directed more towards Blu- maybe?
I think it would be fascinating to get this from the perspective of Blu’s podcast, with her directing the questions.
I feel like Andre held back a lot. I wonder if he has an avoidant attachment style in intimidate relationships. I absolutely love how you described this with divers and swimmers. I believe that society programs men to be swimmers on the surface and it's safer for women to be emotional divers.
I could feel him holding back too. He is a beautiful soul and it would be interesting to hear more from him on it as I felt that blue literally opened up herself 100%
Thank you for sharing your thoughts… Agreed 100%
I am excited to watch her SOAR 🦅
"Grace is the frequency devoid of all blame" Blu
I am only 27 minutes in to this podcast and I can confidently, and adamantly tell you… I have never felt more connected to my own authentic self, or two complete strangers to me, in my entire life. This is some powerful, fucking magical, respectful, deeply loving and authentic chats. I am so grateful to have found this podcast. The entire world is benefiting from humans like you two. What an absolute fuxking gift it is to witness this. I thought stories like this were only ‘actually’ real in my imagination. Thank you so much. Xx❤❤
I love Blu so much for her honesty and vulnerability. It made me realize a lot of the deep wounds I have in myself, and very similar ways on healing them or working through them. And what that might look (or sound lol) like. This was exactly the type of interview/podcast I needed to watch at this time in my life. Thank you, so much to both of you for sharing ♥️🙏🏽
Definitely watching more then once! Lol
I have no idea how to get 😊
"Love is the Greatest Superfood" - Blu
"We're all just here to walk one another home" - Ram Dass
This is the most powerful, incredible, transformative talk full of so much wisdom. It is a treasure on the internet. Thank you, thank you, thank you 🙏🏻
Love you both so much and very grateful you felt the safety & inspiration to share your journey with us all xo ❤
I related so much to Blu’s experience. After meeting my TF last year, I’ve felt unconditional love outside of paper and in the 3D. A connection that could not be broken. While feeling this unconditional love, my abandonment wounds and fear of rejection resurfaced. It’s been a raw process of separation, healing and reunion. Through it all, we observe each other as mirrors and grow towards our truest, most authentic selves. I’ve never felt so heard in blu’s description. We are so lucky to have her share her wisdom❤
Thank you both for being teachers and being vulnerable. As I watch a few of the videos of being together early on, I see natural tensions:
* Andre is not as emotionally responsive as Blue by 50%. This will leave Blu feeling less met and Andre feeling more impatient/overwhelmed.
* Andre is not as interested in Blu's voice. I see many comments in response to Blu online being more effusive than Andre.
* Andre seems more confident/competent around money/form/editing and more focused on getting hard work done, which takes lot of time. Podcasting production is incredibly detailed, focused work and Andre is in on the technical side of that.
* Blu seems to doubt herself - her value - and also to judge her own lack of normalcy without 100% committing to loving all her uniqueness. I think this will create a need (hunger) to be re-affirmed that Andre's emotional reserve would make it hard to respond to.
* Blu seems a bit more mature emotionally, while Andre seems more confident/competent technically.
* Living separate lives often brings divergence. The most emotional elements of one's experience need to be shared, understood and respected or there will be pain. Psychedelics are always the most emotional part of any life, so must be shared together to have a growing relationship.
I'm really proud of her for being so vulnerable and reflective and authentic. I'm also going through a breakup so this comes at the right time. It's good to hear others speaking about breakup, which is probably one of the toughest things we go through in this experience of life
My partner of 4 years and I are currently facing a period of disconnection in our relationship and it‘s been a very lonely and disorienting time. Only 25 min into the video I find myself sitting down to take notes to bring to a conversation with him, as you express what I haven‘t been able to find words for.
We have been operating from our wounds, so raw and afraid that we have built thick walls around our hearts. We defend these walls by shooting shots of blame, creating an illusion of strenght over the other while actually giving away the power of holding our own emotions.
I see now that what we need to work on is not to make eachother feel better, but to create a container in which we feel safe to explore eachothers emotions without blame and judgement.
I thank you deeply for sharing your inner worlds and experiences and for the piece of guidance you have given me on my path to a fulfilled and nurturing relationship.
You two are truly role models, what an extreme blessing that both of you have podcasts and share your incredible divine wisdom with the world. I cried listening to this, I learned, and my heart was beating out of my chest the way it does every time my soul is telling me how excited it is about what I'm thinking or doing in that moment. You both are such gifts, such incredible souls, I really can't thank you both enough for your courage, wisdom, vulnerability, just everything. All my love Blu and André
I have slightly different perspective - i thought they were completely mismatched and was not surprised in the slightest. Not trying to be harsh but he comes across as well meaning but too immature.
Just to add, I feel that blue was attracted to Andre's masculinity and forward moving ness. But engertically she would be better suited someone her own age or older who can just be the container without having to explore the concept.
It makes me sad to hear that she has struggled with feelings of unworthiness , she is beyond gorgeous and so emotionally intelligent and well intentioned I know scores of worthy men would be lining up.
Andre, I'm sorry just giving spiritual fboy vibes. I think America and especially LA isn't a mentally healthy place. Like all this spiritual talk ( the 'mumbo jumbo' ) makes me mill my teeth to dust. Anyone can sproat phrases off but does actions match up.
I feel this particular type if la spiritual Instagram commune vegan farts is highly questionable, seems like people could talk in circles to death and all that it amounts too is polyarmory.
I don't see the fboy here. I believe youth and a bit of an introverted personality is present here in Andre.
I see that more in Marcus types- extroverted, potentially narcissistic energy, reaching out for a hit of admiration coupled with a little grease.
Is LA toxic? For sure! Safely down in San Diego myself.
But you wasn' t even a match guys, André looks more young for Blu
This was so raw and real. Big respect for showing up for the public in such vulnerability! It really sets the tone for the work you guys do individually and the personalities you have. Cheers for that!
"I celebrated your joy, even if it did not involve me"... what a start. There is something in here to learn from, I can clearly feel it. Thank you. Much love.
Oh my goodness you two! I haven’t even finished yet (just watched the first 30 minutes on my lunch break) but I just want to say how much I love you both and I am in deep appreciation for your healthy relationship and willingness to share it with all of us. Deep bows.
Love to see this. A rarity for sure. Did not think two humans could work together in this way. Beautiful people. Thank you both!
This to me is multidimensional, multi-emotional with an ongrowing awareness of self and eachother: love.. ffing heartblasting and transforming while witnessing you both talk. Collecting all the golden nuggets and being ever so thankful that you are living this beautiful example for everyone who’s wanting to perceive and receive this.
Hey Blu and André, thank you so much for modeling this new way of uncoupling. I recognize myself so much in the vulnerabilities about jealousy and feeling unworthy sometimes in a romantic relationship, like blu shares. It gives so much hope that in a loving container, this can be healed. Thank you for showing your authentic selves and inspiring me
I wish there were words that could accurately express my gratitude for how nourishing your raw vulnerability was for me in this beautiful conversation. Your courage to be this intimate and transparent gives ME courage to be this intimate and transparent. 🙏🏻 SO much love to you both 🫶🏼
sexiness in expansion! The podcast has not started that I am crying already... thank you so much for offering such a beautiful testimony of what love is capable of.
I've so far only watched a few minutes, and already I'm weeping tears of gratitude & joy. Thank you, friends, for so courageously helping humans write a new narrative for Love.
All blessings to you XO
Thank you beautiful souls 🙏for being so brave to demonstrate the world conscious connection on many levels!
I love the self awareness that you both have. This interview is so unique. Thanks for sharing.
I really appreciate how within the weaving of your conversation, you each presented how your uncoupling process unfolded. Like 2 pillars; one black; one white, each having their unique (different) experiences while weaving their way to Unity… within and with one another❤️
So good. So healing. Well done. Love you both!
Blu is like a legendary portrait ethereal beauty in a magical world.. her articulation and her humbleness .. elegant soul ❤😊
This was a great conversation!
I resonate so deeply with your journey together ❤
My husband and I separated 3 years ago now and have managed to walk through our separation (with 2 children) with deep love and friendship, still co-creating with our children, our buisness and our deep love of personal growth and spirituality.
One of the biggest challenges is explaining it to others and having many people take the point of view that we should still be together and being unwilling to let it go. Its confusing for many people.
As other people come and go throughout our lives our friendship and love has remained strong.
We both feel so blessed and are proud to carry the light forward for others to see.
Well done you two and may you continue to weave your unconditional love through out this life together ❤
I was blown away listening. Your journey hasn’t been only medicine for you both but now medicine for so many in your brave willingness to share. I don’t know you but I do. You are speaking my language. Thank you ❤
What a beautiful reflection of unconditional love. Thank you for sharing this story🙏 this is so special😇
this was rly powerful, thank you both so much for your vulnerability
This is great. I'm in the middle of a divorce after 20 years of "making it work" that was BS. You guys are way younger than us and WAY wiser!
oh my heart feels so tender from watching this. Thank you for sharing so authentically and vulnerable. Much love
I really needed to hear this. The whole thing on jealousy was really eye opening and helpful to me because I deal with this often. Thank you
Well if the rest of this episode is anything like the intro I better get the tissues. I just want to wrap Blu up in a blanket of love and light. Thanks for being so open you two, it’s really an inspiration seeing where you are at now. Bravo, I wish the very best for you both always 💓
I knew this type of connection is real. I am yet to experience it and I am so excited for when divine timing orchestrates a connection like what I feel from you two. Thankyou for showing up. Thankyou so much 🥰❤
Wow this podcast has taught me so much and how conscious, vulnerable and mature two individuals can be through relationship and uncoupling. Thank you for this.. so juicy! ✨️
This was a beautiful podcast, I really resonate with Blu, being very feminine myself and having a very masculine partner, when it ended, my feelings of self worth being shattered, feeling afraid, feeling alone. This really helped me, as I am going through a break up right now.
Thank you for this vulnerable and wholesome chat. ❤
this episode made me cry multiple times! thank you for being a true medicine to the world!
Wow, Blu. Your thoughts on jealousy are mind-blowingly amazing. Thank you!!
I am always finding myself in awe of this woman! Such a beautiful soul ✨❤️🙏🏻 This was truly a treasure of a podcast and even though I am married, it created a lot of space for contemplation and self reflection! So thank you both for your genuine vulnerability 💫
Thank you both for showing up and sharing this and for allowing your love to lead the way in the most challenging of times, it’s truly beautiful to witness true love. Sending you love and heart hugs ✨ blissings
Andre your perspective vulnerability, and presence in these conversations is 🔥✨ As a “why” oriented being, I deeply appreciate your content.
Blu I love your energy and your expressions ✨ you’re a beautiful creature / creatrix and you touched my heart 💖
Wow, I love the image on being a team and facing the issue together, thank you for your depth and love and openness 🙏❤️
WOW! What an incredible journey you guys took me on. Thank you so much for being vulnerable and sharing your story, I’m so thankful people are able to get to the point you got to in terms of being friends and transmuting any negative feelings such as jealousy, it is sooo inspiring and you guys are paving the way forward for others! It is beautiful to see how you treat yourselves and each other and immediately fills my cup. Thank you for showing us there is another way and being open and honest with your story 😊🥰♥️
Such a beautiful podcast! Truly you both are an inspiration and validates that true unconditional love exists. Thank you so much for being so vulnerable and for sharing your experiences. 🙏🏼
This shows why self love is truly unconditional love that you can give yourself first while being in your own power by sharing the love to others. 💜
Both of you are just so evolved and tapped in, it's absolutely magnificent to experience ❤ thank you for this beautiful episode ❤️ it's been such a gift to watch.
Every young person needs to watch this and the 2nd Blu interview. This is how you survive the difficult break ups. Kudos to you both for teaching the world about loving ourselves unconditionally. ❤
This was beautiful to witness. I will be sharing this "truth and love" with my partner. This exchange between the two of you, is for Everyone who is in a partnership...Not just those that are choosing to walk their paths without one another. Thank you for allowing us all to witness what Love can look like. Many miracles and blessings to you both 💫🙏🏾💜
Thank you both so much. Jealousy topic was bog for me. Aside from the podcast in its entirety. Very grateful for receiving this. Mahalo!❤ big love🌟🙏🏻
This was beautiful, thank you all for being so vulnerable and sharing ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️
What a beautiful love story! I have learned so much from you two loving spirits, thank you for sharing...my best friend is my ex,we were together 13yrs,we've been friends 35yrs.Your loving relationship will open many hearts.
But what exactly is beautiful in love story where she wanted so much but he didn't want to have children so left her. But because he works on spirit Staff he Has to explain that someohow so they made complicated story from the story that was very simple and common?
I feel like I’ve grown and healed so much by just listening to you guys…thank you so much for sharing! So much wisdom!
So much love for you both! 🤍
Thank you for sharing. I find this episode truly inspiring, it's filled with love, authenticity and purity.
I love her personality❤child like vibe are rare I feel your spirit guides preparing you for something so much more❤🎉 keep shining 😊
Thank you both for sharing. Very powerful and beautiful to hear about your process.. Have loved you both individually for a while now. This podcast episode inspired me to go deeper into self worth
Beyond beautiful and POWERFUL! Thank your for being role models and paving the way for what love, intimacy and evolution look like in a higher, more love filled vibration. Beautiful souls, sending you so much love!
You both are amazing & such an inspiration! After 15 years and two young boys I'm now divorced for a year and a half. I am still healing, learning, expanding, evolving and processing it all. Holding myself capable of being the change I seek. I'll be 43 this year and to see both of your maturity is remarkable! 🥰 Thank you for sharing authentically and vulnerably your story! You both are inspiring one soul at a time! 🌟 Thank you to the both of you. Sending you both so much love and light! 🙏🏼❤️✨ Namaste! Delfina 🐬
I think this is my favorite podcast of all time!! Two beautiful beings being so authentic and honoring of your Selves and each other ♥️♥️♥️
What a beautiful, pure interview. Such a testament as to the truth that we don't need to go into the old paradigm negative space of hate-filled resentment when we decide to go our separate ways with a former lover. A romantic partnership is sacred, whether it is your combined destiny to stay together till the day you leave your physical body or for 3 months. Love regardless. Thank you, André and Blu. Blessings and love. ❤
This is one of the most beautiful authentic conversations I’ve ever watched. Blu is truly an angel 👼 Thank you for sharing this with the world. It’s transformational! 💫🥰🥰
You two are true source of inspiration!! This podcast was so needed. I wish more couples could do this because this was a masterclass of emotional intelligence in practice. So so grateful for your sharing and rawness. This already helped and will keep helping in my process because I will certainly go back to this. Also, I need to say how beautifully you both put words together. Your vocabulary is so rich. I want to speak like you guys!! But Blu speaks very fast so I had to slow down the video to keep following the speech 😂 But anyway, I love you guys and I not even know you personally! That’s crazy 🫶🏼💜
If you hit the "...more" link under the video there is a transcript for most videos now. I think AI does them? Even a lot of older videos have them, too. I have tinnitus really bad at night so I use the transcripts. 🙂
Thank you for the depth and vulnerability. And for showing others what it could look like when both are genuinely respectful, gifted, open, spiritual, intelligent and well articulated. So brave.
Am in awe - as well as in tears (some old wounds are triggered here).
Listening to this makes me realize and shift my perspective of the "toxic" relationship I was in from unfortunate and traumatic to very eye opening and a catalyst/bridge to my own growth and understanding of self 🥰
I'm so grateful I got to witness this union. AMAZING. Thank you for showing it is possible.
Only two great souls could do what you did here. Chapeau ❤ thanks for your service.
Took me and my husband over 20 years to figure some of this stuff out. So good for you two!
I’m a bit confused by some of the comments on here. Some people really enjoy projecting their own feelings on other people’s connection. Emotions are NORMAL. The healing journey is NON-LINEAR. Just because someone cries and is Raw about their feelings it doesn’t mean they were unable to fully heal or grief the relationship. Memories come up, nostalgia resurfaces. She felt opened enough to talk about it on a Podcast and you can literally feel the unconditional love flowing in between them. Stop projecting.
Thank you for this podcast ❤ I’ve been sitting with a bit of pain in my heart atm. Thank you to both of you❤
What grace and gifts you share with us Andre and Blu - you beauties. I feel your joy, love and affirmation of one another - your deep, considered honouring of the relationship, its unfolding, dissolution and rebirth of life/love force. You are such remarkable, articulate, honest beings unwaveringly committed to the spiritual and healing path. May you both continue to flourish with radiance, clarity and love.
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I want to thank both of you for being so honest and brave and vulnerable in this episode ❤ really spoke to deep parts of my heart.
Wow!!! You two have really evolved so many relationships patterns & programs! I feel so inspired and amazed by both of your presences & journeys! Thank you for sharing your wisdom and experience. 💖
Stumbled on this - have listened to both people’s podcasts and such - and struck by 1) how generous it is to suggest this kind of humane dissolving is possible for people by sharing an intimate experience and 2) how, in spite of being an evolved couple and so on, it looks like the same old dynamic - the woman doing more of the emotional labor, her being way more vulnerable and him kind of behind a wall, him not able to be curious about her work just because it wasn’t for him, him moving on quickly. Wild how little vulnerability he showed in this, but ultimately a very traditional dynamic. All fascinating and generous to offer!
You said it all. She does all the hard work on the emotional level. Such a traditional dynamics.
Love you Blu and André😘 From the perspective of this podcast it seems it is much better to be 'separated' than in a love relationship!!! You are so meant to be together😉
Wow… how rare for people to be so open and vulnerable..who would have thought that in a time in history when innovation is a word being used so much in the progression of the world that the true innovation is to watch two people gracefully unravel and in some ways undo what was done and allow it to change form and become whatever it will become and for them to be ok in the not knowing of what that will be ❤❤
Beautifully articulated....❤
wow. what Blu just said giving credit to your mom and sister - and you giving that loving space - so powerful! I just got goosebumps! and I am balling my eyes out!
Aww blu, I related to you so much - thank you for sharing this - it was so powerful for me - Andre you remind me of my bf - always holding space for me as I move through and heal my wounds - you guys are both so special - so grateful to have found this video✨
Thank you Blu and Andre, having recently broken up aswell, it's really inspiring to see that love can go on and the relationship can change without dissapearing. Truly and deeply, thank you for opening up ❤
Holy crap. I’ve been waiting for this video. I went through a break up shortly after the two of you did, and I feel like your finalization was a foreshadow to what I knew was coming with my own relationship. Thank you both for this. I’m anxious to watch but so grateful for the medicine I know I’ll receive. ❤
Whhhheeeewwwwwwwwww. I cried my way through that. The resonance of my story to yours is uncanny. I received so much from this. Thank you both. 🙏🏻❤️🩹🕊️✨
This was an amazing podcast to watch. Thank you so much both of you for all your vulnerability and truths. You two are amazing humans that I have had the privilege to listen to and I cannot be thankful enough for happening across Blu’s podcast a few weeks ago. 🙏🏼♥️
I’m totally trying to catch up on hers and have come across a few others that I also want to check out.
Thank you for creating such an amazing community ✨ truly grateful for all you both have created 💖
You guys this was so good! Thank you for being so open and transparent ❤️
Wow this was such a powerful episode to watch. I was in tears at some parts because I could feel how vulnerable you were both being in that moment. Thank you so much for the content you provide Andre. I really feel you are changing people's lives. You certainly shift my perspective on everything every time I watch one of your podcast episodes. I am in absolute awe of you both ❤
Blue is beautiful, genuine and authentic. Her message about jealousy at 40 minutes really resonated with me - about lack of self worth and feeling unloveable. I felt that maybe Andre was holding back a little? Love to hear more from him ❤
Thank u so much for this beautiful conversation. Not many talk about brake ups in this way coming from point of such love. I'm dealing with my grief after brake yo and your conversation helped me a lot to heal.❤️❤️ thank you both
Thank you both for this podcast. Thank you, Blu for understanding the assignment. You were open, undefended and took responsibility. Any partner you have been with could learn a lot from you. I celebrate you, sister
Wow! Thank you guys for sharing yourself in this vulnerable way for showing people what they need to see! Big respect to both of you :)
As always great podcast episode my brother!
Thank you both immensely. Love and light to all! Higher love is the True Love
37:40 wowwwww Blu describing exxxxxactly what I've experienced but have never had such clear language for it! Thank you soooo so much!!!
Such a raw talk!! Thank you to you both, your relationship is inspiring ❤
Wow! This was a beautiful gift for me to witness! Thank you so much for sharing! 🙏🏻💗🥰
So thankful for this material. It was so touching for me, especially now that I am going through this process myself. Your perspectives helped me so much to really seemyself and trust in the process and just let go into it. This is trully an amazing way to show the world that love can conquer all and that, beyound our imagination there is magic. We just need to have the confidence in our selves and step into the unknown with the deep desire to know love in all its beautiful aspects. Thank you so much you guys! So grateful for you as I aknowledge that we are all parts of the same consciousness and that we do walk ourselves home ❤
Beautiful souls having an open and authentic conversation about the deeper meaning of relationships
Sending you both so much love 💕
This us just beautiful. What a gift and result of a union who continue to love despite going seperate ways. 🙌