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  • @t_adams
    @t_adams 3 месяца назад +105

    What the woman said was all CAP. She will only listen someone that she already agrees with.

    • @coolbreeze2.0-mortemadfasc13
      @coolbreeze2.0-mortemadfasc13 3 месяца назад +36

      Bingo. She will let you “lead” her if you are telling her to do what she wants to do. Otherwise, she will manufacture a reason not to do it.

    • @kevindavis3598
      @kevindavis3598 3 месяца назад +14

      A woman who has agreed to marry is supposed to already agree to submit
      If the Bible tells me to love my wife, there are no conditions to it and men accept it.
      Likewise when it tells the woman to submit, there aren't any either. But women always have a caveat or excuse why they don't or won't submit or respect their men.

    • @saintgermain6031
      @saintgermain6031 3 месяца назад

      Thank you I'm glad you caught that because I did too. I wouldn't waste my time with a woman like her.

    • @miguelstigler9170
      @miguelstigler9170 3 месяца назад +2

      Correct 💯 💯 💯

  • @colinscrypto3307
    @colinscrypto3307 3 месяца назад +79

    Led by your husband and not the TV and social media.

    • @MD-DLive
      @MD-DLive 3 месяца назад +2

      Exactly!!!!

    • @Abizmal425
      @Abizmal425 3 месяца назад +3

      Man as a adult now I had a oldie mindset where I would look at my mum or aunties young/old and be amazed how they'll be influenced by these TV shows but more shocking that it's ghastly shows such as love and hip hop. Like for real? And then imagine as a late teen hearing or the jargon about you can't trust men and all men are the same yada yada yada.

    • @MD-DLive
      @MD-DLive 3 месяца назад +2

      @@Abizmal425 It's sad for us and ridiculous. What's worse, the majority of us don't care!

  • @hatkingempire6286
    @hatkingempire6286 3 месяца назад +62

    You can’t lead me was definitely a shot. And I would have checked that shit. My father don’t even played that shit.

    • @chrischreative2245
      @chrischreative2245 3 месяца назад +15

      He should have stopped her right there. Showed her toxicity right there. 😊

    • @PD-qu8dq
      @PD-qu8dq 3 месяца назад +2

      I would have told her “and if a man attacked you infront of me, I wouldn’t submit to my urge to protect a woman because you can’t submit to my manliness”

  • @steveh1137
    @steveh1137 3 месяца назад +65

    Drizzle Drizzle, your a Single mom now😂😂😂😂

  • @terencedaniels2487
    @terencedaniels2487 3 месяца назад +23

    She wants to be masculine, but doesn't want to be called masculine.

  • @G.A.Hamilton
    @G.A.Hamilton 3 месяца назад +46

    They have all these requirements after spending most of their lives on the carousel 🎠 and after having one or two children out of wedlock by other men.

  • @K.mit338
    @K.mit338 3 месяца назад +34

    Crimson is absolutely right that submissive women are seen as stupid, doormats, and foolish women. I recall an older male cousin-in-law saying that my unmarried sister was the smart one. I looked at him and laughed because he used to beat his wife (my actual cousin) and she undermines him.
    My husband has never and would never hit me. He respects me and my opinion. He is an impeccable leader, and I honor, respect, and love him. My life is fully in his hands.
    It’s just such a shame that a woman who fully submits to her husband is seen as less than in the black community specifically.

    • @evos469
      @evos469 3 месяца назад +2

      Only those that are dysfunctional

    • @PD-qu8dq
      @PD-qu8dq 3 месяца назад

      You missed his point.
      And you don’t understand abuse.
      Women commit verbal, mental, emotional and physical abuse before men even think about abusing y’all.
      If you are a combative undermining Witch, you are asking to be punched in the mouth.
      Men don’t like to be abused and we fight back.

  • @ronellwilliams9569
    @ronellwilliams9569 3 месяца назад +19

    She was upset at the very question of her being led. That's why she opened her answer with a shot!!

  • @sincerecrisp
    @sincerecrisp 3 месяца назад +24

    How can you be led in a relationship by everyone but the person in it with you?

    • @stevieg5907
      @stevieg5907 3 месяца назад +7

      Bingo! I know she thought that was good answer however these types of women will listen to their boss and ignore their husband.

    • @darrylbrown6144
      @darrylbrown6144 3 месяца назад +1

      That Part!!!

    • @jasonruff1270
      @jasonruff1270 3 месяца назад +1

      Stop it, you're making too much sense

  • @BjtheLawyer_
    @BjtheLawyer_ 3 месяца назад +35

    “Feel safe” is such a broad ambiguous phrase that can be arbitrarily used by women in any circumstance they don’t agree with that is a threat or non threat. IMO it’s really an excuse to not follow their husbands!

    • @coolbreeze2.0-mortemadfasc13
      @coolbreeze2.0-mortemadfasc13 3 месяца назад +17

      That’s the whole purpose of vague terms like “feel safe” and “emotionally available.” It gives them unlimited wiggle room.

    • @mcole442
      @mcole442 3 месяца назад

      It's really a bunch of 🧢, because they don't have nooooo smoke for Zaddy at work, or Leotis, Ray Ray, and Pookie in the STREETS 🚦👈🤔
      They only run that ish with good, decent BM, and that's FACTS 👈
      A lot of it is just misplaced hostility, but BM are starting to realize it's not our job to make and keep these Hyenas happy, and they're LEAVING these chicks where they lay, in the Boneyard......🤔

    • @tsadaq144
      @tsadaq144 3 месяца назад +1

      Let's see how safe they all feel when this war hits America.

    • @mcole442
      @mcole442 3 месяца назад +1

      The "feel safe" trope is 🧢 at best because these chicks be all out here in these STREETS 🚦👈, and the things they want a regular dude to do they would NEVER ask a street dude to do, because they know better🤣

  • @R3dsigma76
    @R3dsigma76 3 месяца назад +52

    Young black men please stop trying to find a valuable women in this toilet,all the good ones are gone or where chamelions to begin with.Dont waste your youth,build your future,focus on you,let the Umars have them,Drizzle Drizzle.

  • @mijacologymijacology4631
    @mijacologymijacology4631 3 месяца назад +21

    @1:14 "by my friends, I'm led" 🚩

  • @IAlwaysCare
    @IAlwaysCare 3 месяца назад +11

    Submission is only for your husband, masculine respect is for all men.

  • @greatestever80sbaby
    @greatestever80sbaby 3 месяца назад +10

    If you know what good leadership is, you wouldn't need to be lead. The problem is they dont know what theyre looking for. Most women dont know whether theyre coming or going.

  • @diallo6197
    @diallo6197 3 месяца назад +15

    Her answer was very combative which shows she's a combative woman. She couldn't even give a simple answer to a simple question without taking a shot.

  • @MylezNevison
    @MylezNevison 3 месяца назад +12

    So basically, all women's submission (lioness or hyena) is always conditional and always temporarily based on their discretion/state of mind. They choose who, when, why, and how they submit & if their conditions/price of submission is not met, they won't willingly submit.
    Logically, if a woman is always in charge of when and who she submits to, that means she is always leading herself (passively/actively) because if she ever feels like she doesn't trust or like or want to submit she can stop being passive & re-establish leading herself actively again. Women seem to essentially treat men and their leadership like owners of self driving cars treat their cars driving them. They already have an idea where they want to go and only submit to their car(man) driving them there. However, if the car seems to veer off course or go down an unexpected route, they take back control of the wheel or get out of it. Illustrating that they never really completely submit to being taken where they don't know, understand or feel safe.
    Thus, they only submit to the extent that allows them to still have/maintain passive control... it's always conditional, and any situation that takes away their ability to have passive control (their autonomy) they won't submit. In short they never want a self driving car with no manual option... For lack of a politically correct example, women's submission is similar to the dynamic of sadomasochistic bedroom play where a woman may like harsh physical sexual intercourse but still wants control of it so she creates a safe word. She will submit and consent to all sorts of painful things being done to her until she feels she can't take it & uses her safe word to opt out (women's submission is like this in that it always has an out/eject option)... the philosophical quandry/question here is that if one always has control (passive/active) of a situation/dynamic, are they really following or in full submission?🤔 To me, it all seems circumstantial and controlled by the woman, even when she is "in submission." Plus, the existence of an option to opt out after having already submitted makes it seem disposable & noncommittal like modern marriages with a divorce option; as opposed to old fashioned "till death do us part" marriages in which people stood by their choices/vows...

  • @yolandalindsay8368
    @yolandalindsay8368 3 месяца назад +10

    This is an attitude that is ready to compete rather than submit to a trustworthy husband.

  • @mikenagol69
    @mikenagol69 3 месяца назад +10

    If she can’t be lead, she should be abandoned… She becomes dangerous to the group, let the predators feed on her.. Her sacrifice will buy the group time…

  • @treyille
    @treyille 3 месяца назад +30

    It's so weird. Why make life so complicated?. You have sex with someone you can't submit to insane.

    • @briannawoodard3040
      @briannawoodard3040 3 месяца назад

      You would know being that you’re a man that sex doesn’t equal a relationship so why would it equal submission. You must believe in waiting for marriage because that’s the only circumstance that I would agree with your statement.

    • @canadianbrotv1303
      @canadianbrotv1303 3 месяца назад +1

      304 mentality

    • @Nabs1980
      @Nabs1980 3 месяца назад

      💯💯💯

  • @user-gi2et5oc8v
    @user-gi2et5oc8v 3 месяца назад +27

    All I could focus upon was the tone in her voice...it was very argumentative, disrespectful and combative. She would be extremely difficult to live with on a daily basis 🤨

    • @tracydukeplump
      @tracydukeplump 3 месяца назад +5

      I agree

    • @desmondjefferson2127
      @desmondjefferson2127 3 месяца назад +7

      💯
      If she acts like that in public over a question, she'd be WAAAAY worse at home when she feels comfortable. She'd be pure HELL to be with, I guarantee that

    • @elmahdi5
      @elmahdi5 3 месяца назад +1

      I'm sure jer amd her Cane Corso get along quite well.

  • @csideblue1
    @csideblue1 3 месяца назад +7

    He should've checked her as soon as she said that snarky comment

  • @axxelfoley3304
    @axxelfoley3304 3 месяца назад +81

    These women dont have an issue submitting being led by Brad

    • @chrischreative2245
      @chrischreative2245 3 месяца назад +1

      They get led by pookie and ray ray all the time down the single mom path and toxic relationship path. Nothing to do with race

    • @quantumsolace5864
      @quantumsolace5864 3 месяца назад +11

      Facts!😎

    • @rod_da_poet
      @rod_da_poet 3 месяца назад +3

      None!

    • @187Blackheart
      @187Blackheart 3 месяца назад +19

      They can only fake it for a little while even then

    • @RodneyD
      @RodneyD 3 месяца назад +4

      Or their boss

  • @robherringjr5018
    @robherringjr5018 3 месяца назад +18

    This is why witnessing a healthy family with a mom that submits to her husband is crucial for a daughter to see

  • @paulwilson4747
    @paulwilson4747 3 месяца назад +24

    I am also not familiar with this podcast. HOWEVER, the lady came off as a hyena! Perhaps that brother said something earlier that she didn't like. But her snarky comment was unnecessary, disrespectful and didn't really answer his question.

    • @nvr2much
      @nvr2much 3 месяца назад +5

      Yes, she comes off as very combative in the way she responded to him.

  • @markkindle8114
    @markkindle8114 3 месяца назад +9

    Damn, why did she come at buddy like that?

  • @Daybreakhasme
    @Daybreakhasme 3 месяца назад +2

    Above all, be honest with thyself.

  • @Mr.Boring_Man
    @Mr.Boring_Man 3 месяца назад +10

    Easily led by anyone... no. Of course not. The question is who do you choose to Follow? I would say a woman who's looking for a leader should Follow a man they respect. Being led by friends and family sounds good, but is HORRIBLE. Relationships are broken all the time because a bitter outsider is giving "advice" from a "place of love". The love exist. The interest of love is to serve themselves. That's how the sisterhood infiltrates and adds bodies to the boneyard.

  • @ruminantmelanoid5444
    @ruminantmelanoid5444 3 месяца назад +45

    Submissive doesn't equal crash test dummy.

    • @WomenLoveDelusions
      @WomenLoveDelusions 3 месяца назад +5

      Exactly

    • @thecodetalker5742
      @thecodetalker5742 3 месяца назад

      Females like this have the Jezebel d3mon passed down from their momma or they adopted it from societal brainwashing.

    • @little95
      @little95 3 месяца назад +1

      Facts

  • @deegee3293
    @deegee3293 3 месяца назад +4

    Another thing i wanna highlight here, is Women are competitive. They compete with each other relentlessly. As they carry ,however, this mindset into a relationship with a man, it creates a submission issue. The moment she starts to compete with her man in the relationship, the deal is sealed and the relationship is over. You submit to ppl who are superior to you,like the police. You compete with people who you think is equal to or are superior to..!

  • @briannawoodard3040
    @briannawoodard3040 3 месяца назад +2

    Key statement "just because it’s different doesn’t mean it’s oppositional". Thank you so much Kendra. I believe that this message was especially for the men. A women can have a different opinion and express her opinion without her being written off as "masculine" or difficult. Yes, her approach and attitude does play a key role. I do believe that men can be too stubborn to take his woman’s view point into account for no reason other than the fact that she’s a woman.

  • @wesleyhillard4491
    @wesleyhillard4491 3 месяца назад +6

    All I hear is attitude and defensiveness. A big problem. A man would have to argue with her everyday. She almost thinks she's the man. Who wants to deal with that?

    • @jasonruff1270
      @jasonruff1270 3 месяца назад

      No one and it reflects in the marriage statistics

    • @wesleyhillard4491
      @wesleyhillard4491 3 месяца назад

      @@jasonruff1270 yup 💯

  • @thebrothersuk6868
    @thebrothersuk6868 3 месяца назад +4

    Peace sister

  • @MichaelEBeard
    @MichaelEBeard 3 месяца назад +4

    That woman is the farthest thing from a submissive wife. The conditions she added negated biblical submission. Eve and her daughters were created to be a helpmate to her husband and her desires are to be only his. The second part is where most modern women get it wrong.

  • @commonman80
    @commonman80 3 месяца назад +2

    She Answers The Question, (Do You Think You Can Be Lead?) With A Question, (By Who..) 🤬🤬🤬 I Hate That Mess, When Woman Do That... Because I Feel, They're Looking For A Lie In Their Minds.. The Answer To Her Question? Should Have Been A Simple (YES) Or (NO)... Incredible...

  • @MrSmellGoodt
    @MrSmellGoodt 3 месяца назад +4

    Lioness are feminine with everyone, but should only submit to their Husband

  • @coreysanders6197
    @coreysanders6197 3 месяца назад +2

    Save yourself BM, laugh in these demons face and thank God you don't have to deal with them

  • @Pride0FTh3Lion
    @Pride0FTh3Lion 3 месяца назад +8

    My thing about the whole leadership/submission convo is, while a woman is assessing a man's leadership capabilities (which is fine), has she also asked herself: Am I a good follower?

    • @SuburbanoidMisfit111
      @SuburbanoidMisfit111 3 месяца назад

      Where y'all supposed to be leading a woman to?? What qualifies you to lead any woman and in what capacity??? What if this woman is more learned than yourself...then what 'lead' do you have over her???

    • @Pride0FTh3Lion
      @Pride0FTh3Lion 3 месяца назад

      @@SuburbanoidMisfit111 Whatever goal that the leader envisions. Once again, while you’re asking those questions are you also asking the same of yourself? If you do think that you’re more qualified to lead, are you fully prepared to embrace ALL of the responsibilities that come with that? Are you prepared to take the blame if you fail? Leader is more than just a title. These are the things that come with leadership as well. While you’re so busy questioning him, you should also be questioning yourself.

    • @SuburbanoidMisfit111
      @SuburbanoidMisfit111 3 месяца назад

      @@Pride0FTh3Lion This is not cutting the mustard nor passing the litmus test, bruh.

    • @Pride0FTh3Lion
      @Pride0FTh3Lion 3 месяца назад

      @@SuburbanoidMisfit111 Soooo that's "No"

    • @SuburbanoidMisfit111
      @SuburbanoidMisfit111 3 месяца назад

      @@Pride0FTh3Lion I'm just not the spineless handmaiden type. Your people are out there, they getting scarce, but they out there. 🦤

  • @zaheerahshareef8131
    @zaheerahshareef8131 3 месяца назад +1

    11:22 no truer words spoken. If others cannot trust you I can’t either.

  • @masai711
    @masai711 3 месяца назад +1

    You can't be a good captain without being able to be a good number 1....for all the desire to be in a leadership position....nobody seems to want to learn how to follow...
    Only job that starts at the top is digging a hole...

  • @reggyburnett9029
    @reggyburnett9029 3 месяца назад +10

    Danielle Johnson, misled a lot of black women😮😢....

    • @mysticakhenaton1701
      @mysticakhenaton1701 3 месяца назад +6

      MOST fe-fails do. MOST of the time, MOST... going to fe-fails for advice/direction in life, is a recipe for disaster for MOST who listen and follow them.

    • @WomenLoveDelusions
      @WomenLoveDelusions 3 месяца назад +9

      ​@@mysticakhenaton1701 Yea I follow very few women when it comes to advice. Most don't give good advice. Very few women are like Crimson Cure of any race. Smh

    • @mysticakhenaton1701
      @mysticakhenaton1701 3 месяца назад +1

      @@WomenLoveDelusions that's true, you do have a small few fe-fails who do give GOOD advice. but a guy has a better chance winning a $Million dollars in the lotto finding those few. my own mother gave bad advice/MOST of the time.

  • @antwunejohnson1482
    @antwunejohnson1482 3 месяца назад +1

    Every king has counsel

  • @rennell1
    @rennell1 3 месяца назад +6

    "You can't lead me"
    Then why all the ranting then? Hush.

  • @rayonhughes6696
    @rayonhughes6696 3 месяца назад +11

    Leave these women alone! The video started off with her being disrespectful and sarcastic. Who in the hell wants to be with someone like this, less likely lead them. This type of female would sabotage the relationship and disrespect that man on a normal basis. Fellas, walk away and then run as fast as you can. She turned me off as soon as the video started. What this female really meant to say is, "I will be led by my girlfriends and everyone else accept you!" Because she named everyone, including her boss! Take care fellas, and they say, "we're supposed to marry these females."

    • @teenermeener971
      @teenermeener971 3 месяца назад +3

      She didn't even mention her pops. Like you said run.

  • @axxelfoley3304
    @axxelfoley3304 3 месяца назад +3

    Women dont want to be led regardless of his income he has to make 6 figures the man does still wanting control over the relationship refusing to submit adding another reason why she won't submit/be led a corosel of masculinity that ends with the man being at fault for everything bad in the relationship

    • @ajdynamo6866
      @ajdynamo6866 3 месяца назад

      Control without responsibility and accountability.

  • @woodsman2789
    @woodsman2789 3 месяца назад

    Yes

  • @teecarter4900
    @teecarter4900 3 месяца назад +2

    Is there enough equity possible in black relationships to make it last. Seems a Stalemate. Like two kings on a chessboard.

  • @baugus07
    @baugus07 3 месяца назад

    I never noticed the good women is considered dumb in things of such. I noticed that a lot of women that say they good women but to have a bad bad record

  • @Chitownsfinesthoops
    @Chitownsfinesthoops 3 месяца назад +4

    I saw this clip posted on IG and people immediately clapped and applauded her response. However I saw a woman that was bitter or has some personal feelings against the Man that asked the question.

  • @takeheedtothemessage
    @takeheedtothemessage 3 месяца назад

    💯💯💯

  • @DarienWhite-vm2hb
    @DarienWhite-vm2hb 3 месяца назад +1

    The woman in the video doesn't present as easily lead. That would mean it doesn't require alot to lead her. She said herself all the requirements it takes to lead her. I honestly think the list is longer than what she disclosed, because l think she's a more difficult woman than she is letting on.

  • @rahimi4762
    @rahimi4762 3 месяца назад

    And they are BY THE POWERS THAT BE

  • @ZayMoral
    @ZayMoral 3 месяца назад +1

    But where to you find a young lioness or a lioness in general. Will they send me choosing signals? What are the external signs of a lioness

  • @DCRefugee123
    @DCRefugee123 3 месяца назад

    I wonder if she uses her same logic about being led with her employer, the legal authorities, or with others on whom her success depends on their success? If one doesn’t accept their role in any relationship they shouldn’t be in it because their resistance will tear down the entire group. If a woman isn’t willing to be led by a man she shouldn’t lay with him and potentially make a life to bind them, nor should she waste his time and money dating him. This is, unless, she is openly willing to assume the leadership role in the relationship and to partner with a man who is willing to support, rather than be obstinate.

  • @keepemcumming4417
    @keepemcumming4417 3 месяца назад +3

    I usually rock with you but saying that Men who lead look at women as dumb,is far from the reality, and saying they don't have an opinion is another miss calculation,most men who lead always wants his other half thoughts on what's going on,or something he has in mind, and is very open to her ideas as well

    • @DiarraHarris
      @DiarraHarris 3 месяца назад +1

      a whole lot of projecting there.

    • @keepemcumming4417
      @keepemcumming4417 3 месяца назад +1

      @@DiarraHarris and she wasn't, that's all I'm saying

  • @Tential1
    @Tential1 3 месяца назад +6

    Being "sassy" for black women is seen as being tough, when in reality, 90% of the world views it as rude.

  • @saintgermain6031
    @saintgermain6031 3 месяца назад +10

    Women are lead by their husband noone else. We can seek counsel from our parents and elders. But the husband makes the final decision.
    When my wife and I were going thru bullshit. I wasn't trying to get divorced. I told her when we got married there will be no divorce going on here no matter what we are going thru. We will ride it out and weather the storms.
    She listened to her mother and divorced me. She realized she made a mistake and started calling me back 4-5 years later. It was too late, I moved on and found me another wife to build my family with.
    No man ever asked her to be his wife again and she ended up becoming a sinlge mother at 35 years old since she wanted a baby.
    God hates divorce it's in the scriptures. Women who file almost 80% of these divorces and destroy their families learn this the hard way in their lives.

    • @SoundReflex
      @SoundReflex 3 месяца назад

      Totally agree!!!! Plus, the system will weaponize women against the men and then soon the block on them and they can't see it and refused to be lead.

  • @timestampingarmy
    @timestampingarmy 3 месяца назад +2

    I watched this episode and wanted to know your opinion

    • @idonttakemyselfasseriousasUDo
      @idonttakemyselfasseriousasUDo 3 месяца назад +4

      Why the shot at the beginning? It makes me believe everything she said after that was all cap.

    • @timestampingarmy
      @timestampingarmy 3 месяца назад +1

      Basically a man wanted his wife to stop listening to their show because she was getting good advice from David Shands and he felt a way about his wife moving in a different direction. They brought him on the show to question his reasoning and he basically didn't man up and say I don't want my wife listening to you I want her listening to me. And it triggered Donni Wiggins because she thought he was abusive by being that way.

  • @briannawoodard3040
    @briannawoodard3040 3 месяца назад

    Feminine and submissive and two different things. I love Kendra for this sooooo much. Men have to understand the thought process of a women when choosing to follow a man

  • @dronamite
    @dronamite 3 месяца назад

    Color purple

  • @PD-qu8dq
    @PD-qu8dq 3 месяца назад +4

    If you are in a relationship, your mother, your friends and even your father are not your leader, your spouse is the leader.

  • @dbrown8553
    @dbrown8553 3 месяца назад +3

    One of the first negative visions of a submitted wife was when I seen 'Love & Basketbal.' The daughter looked down on her own mother and thought her weak for being a nurturing homemaker.

  • @ekonkante
    @ekonkante 3 месяца назад +1

    This entire topic is exhausting. There are far too few women who are agreeable nowadays compared to the number of men who would like to be with an agreeable woman. It's basically the same ratio as you find on dating apps. No matter the intentions of this channel, the result is still men ending up in a scarcity mindset (see AMS), fighting over, or trying to get the attention of, a handful of "Lioness" ladies in a sea of "hyenas".

  • @kelvinshorter2990
    @kelvinshorter2990 3 месяца назад +2

    If only they were as easily led, as they are misled.

  • @williambell4576
    @williambell4576 3 месяца назад

    I don't think I'm missing it, this whole concept about submissive is a European concept, which is being perpetrated every day in movies books everything this term defeat the purpose.(Is the past create the present in the present create the future, this issue will never be solved) Because of the psychological condition.❤

  • @deegee3293
    @deegee3293 3 месяца назад

    The guy on that podcast , not the guy she talking to but the other guy, is a millionare biz coach. And on this podcast they tell women what is wrong with ther biz..!!

  • @Tential1
    @Tential1 3 месяца назад +2

    10:44 I agree, but I disagree. leaders don't tell the plan, and this has nothing to do with you being a woman. being in a fraternity, and leading men, I always tried to explain the plan. and got nowhere. when I finally paired up with former leaders of my fraternity, and learned to lead, I stopped spelling out plans. do what's necessary, and tell people what's necessary. the visionary NEVER gets credit for spelling out a plan, or executing it. Even after you deliver improvements, they will most likely not be acknowledged or downplayed the significance of. You do your vision for you , because you just have to do it. I put thousands in those kids pockets, and very little thanks returned, not that I care about that. Just to say, leaders lead because they have to. And you should do what you need to do to accomplish your vision, and explaining your vision is rarely useful. Discuss portions, short term objectives, but you rarely get anywhere thinking you'll explain everything to people and have them see where you're leading them.

    • @KendraDLive
      @KendraDLive  3 месяца назад +2

      Telling the vision and general direction is different from spelling out every detail. I never said every details needs an explanation anyway. Giving a woman the general plan isn't asking her permission nor does it take anything away from the authority of leadership. It allows her to assess her own ability to follow and to adequately help her husband achieve what he has set out to achieve. We have to get on board not only from an emotional space but from a practical space. As dynamic of a woman as I am, I am unable to adequately help every man with his vision. I had to help the man I am best suited for, but I can only ascertain this by asking what I'm signing up for , for the rest of my life. Make sense?

  • @pikesstar
    @pikesstar 3 месяца назад +1

    I won’t protect, how I can’t correct.

  • @anticssmantics8446
    @anticssmantics8446 3 месяца назад +4

    I don't think men think submissive women are stupid. One of the rare times I disagree with Kendra. Women earn paychecks everyday. They submit for a check. Feminism has made relationships transactional

  • @kingscotty2018
    @kingscotty2018 3 месяца назад +2

    So she admires,loves and respects her gps🤔

  • @lylechippah858
    @lylechippah858 3 месяца назад

    Yall should see the movie Poor Things. It's about that subject

  • @jayblack4195
    @jayblack4195 3 месяца назад +1

    All these excuses when it comes to a man

  • @Sambi4349
    @Sambi4349 3 месяца назад +2

    They should be submissive and teachable but have discernment about who they submit to and allow to lead them

  • @elizamack4512
    @elizamack4512 3 месяца назад

    We submit to what we picked. What we picked, picked us too

  • @mikewillis3016
    @mikewillis3016 3 месяца назад +1

    They can't submit to what they don't respect and they don't respect black men some don't even like men let alone love

  • @saintgermain6031
    @saintgermain6031 3 месяца назад +1

    This young lady in this video said... you can lead me if what you are saying makes sense.
    Men that lead have vision to see down the road 5, 10, 15, 20 years down the line. A lot of things that he thinks and sees will not always make sense to a woman.
    She needs to be submissive, listen and follow if you trust your husband even when he doesn't make sense to you.

  • @AboveAverageAndAbove
    @AboveAverageAndAbove 3 месяца назад

    Salute. Salute. I believe you def described the beauty of a woman’s femininity, which most men seek after even if they never witnessed it prior, or understand what it means. The beauty of feminity, no price can ever be placed on that. It’s like finding a needle in a haystack. But what if that was jus talking points. I have a black mother that’s 72 this year, and she could lead me anywhere at 5. At 13, I’m questioning her moves, as I should, as a young man growing into his manhood. On the flip side, although all that makes complete sense, no objections at all, CHAMELEONS know that as well. They actually look to ask a question to make a man… “ugh duh why she say that” while she tryna line up her next landing spot. Or at least a portion of what was stated. The woman’s demeanor towards the man on the vid being discussed is what men are actually encountering, they find a woman, marry her, then divorced within 5 years. she wasn’t his, it was his turn. And I can’t speak for all brothas but it’s clear that wives are on the decline. If we being real, this is the age of the 304’s with grossly absurd expectations. I have a teenage son. What you think I’m telling him, even after reviewing this vid with him. I also have an 8 year old daughter, what you think I’m telling her while review this vid with her? If a man display leadership, even an 11 year old, cuz I was learning how to follow at 11. The best leaders, excelled at followership first. If a man is not confident in his progression towards leadership, that’s an L. If a young lady don’t recognize followership, to one day be led by a husband, that’s an L. Solution. In the sound bite we gotta read between the lines. I think there is more to the story because CHAMELEONS, will purposefully lie to unmarried lionesses to make them believe a lie. Salute the sisterhood. Again, salute.

  • @Tential1
    @Tential1 3 месяца назад +2

    It's hilarious how she couldn't just answer the question, she had to take a shot. This is black culture(and white women are adopting it too). Not sure why women think this is acting tough.

  • @AccidentlyHero
    @AccidentlyHero 3 месяца назад

    From my reference experience, I’ve come across two types of women, both of which can be easy to led. One is led by the broader society and earthly desires and the other is led by a God-fearing man or has been raised within a community and has become god-fearing herself (which is beyond rare).

  • @azariahyisrael3209
    @azariahyisrael3209 3 месяца назад

    That was an interesting question: Should a woman be easily led ? Yes, led by a lion by with great foresight, good integrity, spiritual foundation( that's a must),and a strong sense system order and structure to a beautiful feminine woman who he has vetted properly and has courtshiped in good time frame. In light of that, a strong, beautiful feminine woman is to vet him likewise to see if he's the right lion for her. In my opinion, both parties should strive to see if they are attracted and like each other on a spiritual base that help a great deal because the love bond is much better and will resolve any marital issue that may arise. Brother and sister, I truly recommend you all get Crimson Cure's book. It certainly helped me to understand my sisters better and avoid the pitfalls of wayward women and anyone outside the black community as well. You will not be disappointed. Shalom 😎

  • @sorcelord65
    @sorcelord65 3 месяца назад

    What was her point on telling him he couldn’t lead her? .. everything she said after that went into one ear and out the other 😂

    • @imetaboyiusedtoknow8308
      @imetaboyiusedtoknow8308 3 месяца назад

      I don't know who these people are but there seems to be a history of her saying whatever she wants to the guy and he doesn't push back or set boundaries at all.

  • @bobbyhamilton9799
    @bobbyhamilton9799 3 месяца назад +2

    submissive: is a intelligent, (ESTHER), humble, hardworking, easily lead by her husband or father, she is a wife before she is married she is more than human in disguise. because she has power, purpose, peace, protection, provision and the ability to pray for husband. what the world thinks is weakness is actually strength. every thing the world thinks a submissive wife is is wrong and backwards.

  • @noahcrockett9641
    @noahcrockett9641 3 месяца назад +2

    That was just a badly executed question on his part.
    She made that question personal and answered emotionally with a cheap shot.
    This clip just shows how unprofessional they are.

  • @blackexcellence4166
    @blackexcellence4166 3 месяца назад

    What's the original podcast name ????
    Anybody knows it ?

  • @MrCantfindanynames
    @MrCantfindanynames 3 месяца назад

    "By who?!?!?" "I do whatever he say, so yeah i can be submissive" Ummmm sweetheart that aint submission 🤨🤨🤨

  • @Marduk88
    @Marduk88 3 месяца назад +1

    Led by your Husband.

  • @m.t.frieson3551
    @m.t.frieson3551 3 месяца назад

    Tricks are full of sh!t. As a follower, your role is to follow not question as if you know better. If you knew better, you’d do better.

  • @imetaboyiusedtoknow8308
    @imetaboyiusedtoknow8308 3 месяца назад

    She is out there, yikes. These men seem terrified, their body language alone says volumes. I don't think she would have acted as she did if they had presented a masculine position.

  • @swfusi
    @swfusi 3 месяца назад +1

    There is a lot of context missing from the clip and the comments here reflect this.
    For about 40 mins before this clip from the podcast, the man in question comes off as controlling of the friends/content/spaces his girlfriend can enjoy- for reasons he can’t explain. The woman in the video - and the other man and co-host of the podcast - clearly believe the man to be on the path to abusive. She says he can’t lead her because of his inability to explain directives he has given his girlfriend to follow, including cutting her off from friends and family.
    The man seems to be abusive.

  • @xavierjames9270
    @xavierjames9270 3 месяца назад +1

    Typical not worth the energy

  • @user-wf7gg8iw1p
    @user-wf7gg8iw1p 3 месяца назад +1

    This commentary sounds personal for you? Like something unresolved between you and your peeps

  • @KH-qs1di
    @KH-qs1di 3 месяца назад

    In today's society, women follow who they're attracted to by in large. Attraction as in physical attraction. The man's character, etc., is not a topic of discussion.

  • @CarlMoore79
    @CarlMoore79 3 месяца назад

    Through out my journey of this life I've only seen 4 women that were truly submissive but they were submissive to the Pookies & Ray Ray's!!
    So fellas it will never happen for you here in America & you do not have that much time on earth waiting & hoping if you're going to find her here!!

  • @kingpepper8570
    @kingpepper8570 3 месяца назад +1

    These dude are laaaaame 😅still arguing n talking 👄 to kiesha foh go get out debt n raise ya kids ...who still wants kieshas n 24?

  • @sfreshdagreat9715
    @sfreshdagreat9715 3 месяца назад

    I don’t agree crimson in the Bible the story of Abraham n Sarah says this not the way it goes

  • @reginathompson2449
    @reginathompson2449 3 месяца назад

    How do I become a member @thecrimsoncure

  • @lamontjames8156
    @lamontjames8156 3 месяца назад +1

    Keisha the hyena only wants to be led by Zaddy Brad, Zaddy Chad, Pookie and Ray Ray in that order // all others need not apply for the job!