Thank you ladies.. I’m looking for strength in my friendship.. but we are a busty old car in the middle of a desert with no wheels or water... I’m trying to not have expectations at her stage in life..I prayed to God to help me let it just be.. yup the first one is my situation.. yes boundaries is to be mindful.. this was just so amazing and great conversation. Reflecting is hard but growing out of it is where the blessing and energy flows better.
I enjoyed this and got some good points. I think it can be confusing though, because all these types could be the same person... The (1) people-pleaser/empath feels resentment because she's (2) taking everything too personally/oversensitive and then (3) shit talks behind your back because she's too resentful but too "nice" to say it to your face
People-pleasers do attract the entitled crowd. I used to be one of those people-pleasers. I have one very entitled person in my life, who most definitely thinks they reciprocate tenfold.
I wish everyone the very best in life in 2021 and every one true friendship! Christal and Chrissy are right you need people in your life who want the best for you in life! check the power of positivity video on true love on Facebook. True Love is the same as True Friendship.
You're welcome Chrissy I saw that video on the power of positivity on Facebook on true love and it made me cry ! I guess in my old age my black hearts getting a little golden
Great video. I am finding my best friend in the world has been changing and we have been changing in opposite directions. She is re-married and has a new very close relationship with his friend who I feel is very manipulative. It’s been so hard being around my best friend because she seems to be brain washed by this person. She seems like she is very comfortable not talking to me anymore until one day out of the blue, messages me that she misses me. Id LOVE more about this specific topic. And what’s been the most rough, is that my best friend has 2 children who I have been with since they were born. I feel like if it wasn’t for her 2 children, I would have given up this friendship with her long ago. I am holding on because I love those 2 girls to death. Would love advice from anyone about this! 💜
Hi Lydia, if this is a friendship you still cherish even though you both don't see eye to eye, hold space for her. Especially since you love her kids. Time-outs are ok from friendships and that may be what you need. Sometimes giving people their space to go through what they need (even if you don't agree and believe she's hanging with the wrong people) is what you and your friendship needs. Create some space but hold that love in your heart for her. xx
Thank you ladies.. I’m looking for strength in my friendship.. but we are a busty old car in the middle of a desert with no wheels or water... I’m trying to not have expectations at her stage in life..I prayed to God to help me let it just be.. yup the first one is my situation.. yes boundaries is to be mindful.. this was just so amazing and great conversation. Reflecting is hard but growing out of it is where the blessing and energy flows better.
I enjoyed this and got some good points. I think it can be confusing though, because all these types could be the same person... The (1) people-pleaser/empath feels resentment because she's (2) taking everything too personally/oversensitive and then (3) shit talks behind your back because she's too resentful but too "nice" to say it to your face
People-pleasers do attract the entitled crowd. I used to be one of those people-pleasers. I have one very entitled person in my life, who most definitely thinks they reciprocate tenfold.
I wish everyone the very best in life in 2021 and every one true friendship! Christal and Chrissy are right you need people in your life who want the best for you in life! check the power of positivity video on true love on Facebook. True Love is the same as True Friendship.
Love that Michael!
You're welcome Chrissy I saw that video on the power of positivity on Facebook on true love and it made me cry ! I guess in my old age my black hearts getting a little golden
Great video. I am finding my best friend in the world has been changing and we have been changing in opposite directions. She is re-married and has a new very close relationship with his friend who I feel is very manipulative. It’s been so hard being around my best friend because she seems to be brain washed by this person.
She seems like she is very comfortable not talking to me anymore until one day out of the blue, messages me that she misses me.
Id LOVE more about this specific topic. And what’s been the most rough, is that my best friend has 2 children who I have been with since they were born. I feel like if it wasn’t for her 2 children, I would have given up this friendship with her long ago. I am holding on because I love those 2 girls to death.
Would love advice from anyone about this! 💜
Hi Lydia, if this is a friendship you still cherish even though you both don't see eye to eye, hold space for her. Especially since you love her kids. Time-outs are ok from friendships and that may be what you need. Sometimes giving people their space to go through what they need (even if you don't agree and believe she's hanging with the wrong people) is what you and your friendship needs. Create some space but hold that love in your heart for her. xx
Fantastic 😍💋 💝💖♥️❤️
Need lovely 😍💋 💝💖❤️
This episode is the best love you both and love friends that can adapt to the changes in your life like motherhood they’re the best.
I love the matching drink cups too!! FYI lol