I can see your authenticity, it seems very obvious to me and I enjoy the realness! Some people are just very critical. To be honest, I’m not even a minimalist, let alone an extreme minimalist, and I love your content. I found your channel after searching minimalism for inspiration. It’s inspiring to me because I’ve been overwhelmed with stuff so I’ve been watching minimalist videos and slowly decluttering over the course of the last 2 years. It started when our basement flooded and all that junk and stuff had to be thrown out or washed/aired out. I was embarrassed when we called the company to come drain our basement and the workers were having to move all the overwhelming amount of items around. It was a real turning point for me and listening and watching your process has helped me with my own journey of simply decluttering. Right now for me it’s about being less overwhelmed by clutter by having less items. Your content has been sooo helpful with considering what we truly need and being intentional with purchases. Thank you for your videos and for being authentic, I look forward to watching your future videos! :)
She's very inspiring. I've decluttered more of my sewing stuff because of this channel and realized I can still make garments with even fewer sewing tools and notions. I found a store nearby that takes donations of art and craft supplies and they take fabric scraps and things like elastic, lace, etc. She's also a vegan and we're vegan, I respect her so much for that. She's so genuine.
Awww ❤ Lydia, thank you for your vulnerability and truth. It’s lovely knowing your name. I don’t just watch your videos for the minimalism aspects, I truly appreciate your personality and sweetness that you bring through in your work. It’s like hanging out with a good friend and having a good chat. Haters ultimately hate themselves but want to strike out to what they are seeing, instead of turning the light on themselves and asking “Why do I feel the need to shame or attack someone else!” Sending you so much love. 🙌🏻❤️🌈 Looking forward to your new channel too. ❤
Thank You Amy, 😊 You and Many of the others, who always send your love and encouragement are the thing that drives me on and motivates me. But much bigger than that, the ‘lovers’ of which you are & not the haters in the world, are the fountain of inspiration, peace and joy 🕊️ 💚
I LOVE Your channel and Your videos. Please ignore the haters, they're everywhere, there is plenty of hating comments under the kindest videos in the whole youtube. Don't pay attention to them. There is plenty of people that watch your videos, getting inspiration from you everyday and usually those people (like me) never leave comments but maybe we should be. I had a huge instagram few years ago and I deleted it because of haters. I feel like I let down all of the other people that were supporting me. We should just ignore them. And I love to watch any minimalism videos, both extreme and not extreme. Your content is amazing, please do not change! :) Greetings from Maidenhead xxx
Lydia you have a beautiful soul. Yours is my favorite RUclips channel and yes, I found you because of your extreme minimalist videos but have stayed because I found inspiration and courage to try something new as well as to keep going on my own journey. Your videos are calm and soothing to my soul and I look forward to each new video and am excited for your new channel. Simply put, thank you for sharing yourself, your heart and your life with us.
I’ve followed for a while but I don’t think I’ve ever commented before, but now seems a good time to chip in. I’m sorry you are getting such negativity from haters. I think extreme minimalism is one of those subjects that is by its nature polarising, because it’s very challenging to the status quo. Your haters are probably just triggered by their own insecurities and find it easier to be mean than to do any self inquiry. I enjoy your content and when I see “extreme minimalism” in a video title I click on it because I’m fascinated by it and find it aspirational. I have always found your process-oriented videos interesting and real. I hope you keep doing your extreme minimalism videos.
What is the problem people have? I mean you watch youtube videos because you like them and get inspired or you don´t! Ofcourse you make videos for others to enjoy! The ones that don´t enjoy them or have problem with their ego they will just have to go somewhere els.
Hi Lydia, please, please ignore the haters. People have a choice to watch or not.Your channel is great, you have a purpose, a goal; travel. You’ve done nothing wrong. You are an ‘extreme minimalist’, please do not change for people who do not agree with you, understand you. Your 14 item challenge was enjoyable; an experiment. Believe it or not, some people live this way. Like others here, your channel has helped me a lot. I too have been decluttering for several years. It helped me to understand my discontent with having too much stuff around me. You are growing, changing, all the things you want to put on your new channel, I am happy to see on this channel. You do what makes you happy…I’ll be watching.🌺🌸🌼💐PS you don’t need forgiveness…💖please do not be hard on yourself.
I've been watching your channel for a while now, but I don't always comment on videos. I really recommend you turn off notifications for comments and only check comments maybe once a week or so just to get a feel for how people are reacting to your videos. Pay most attention to the comments with the most likes. And remember that some people go around making negative comments because they have nothing better to do in their life. They just have a sad negative life and they don't have a better way of dealing with it other than spewing hate and negativity all over the internet and all over the people in their lives and you shouldn't take everything to heart. I do hope you continue to make the videos you want to make. I am enjoying your path to extreme minimalism, but if you want to make other types of content I'm here for that as well.
Thank You… I do plan to do all types of minimalist content and limit the ‘extreme’. As part of auditing my life this month I made the decision to only answer comments on Thursday evenings when the video comes out. Then also to get caught up on replies before Thursdays video at one other point of the week. I’ve also now just started completely blocking overly hateful comments. Thank you 💚 😊
Screw what anyone thinks, you have a minimalism/decluttering channel so there will be minimalism content and titles as well. Hope you will enjoy content creation more in the future.
I’m so impressed you’ve undertake a challenge of making a new video for 31 days - it’s such a huge amount of work. Please don’t worry about the stats of views on them, a lot of your audience might not be able to catch each one as they are released - some might binge them later on when they have more time. I’d also be interested to know if the people who make the most unhelpful comments are subscribed, or even watch all your videos, or just jump in on the ones that are the most high profile.
Thank You. Yes I wonder that too. I think they only watch the most ‘extreme’ videos ironically… then complain I don’t make other content. For them to not watch. 😂 🤦♀️ it really is farcical. I’m not going to let it bother me anymore. This video as aired my thoughts about it 😊
Your my fave You Tuber. I always love your content and I'm happy every time I see a new episode.You are a breath of fresh air. I log in every evening to watch you and a select few. Thank you Lydia for all you give us.🙂
I have absolutely loved watching your journey!! I love the challenges you do! It inspires me to play along and do my own challenges. I’m sorry that people have put you down. Just know not everyone views you negatively. Auditing our lives was such a brilliant idea! I will continue watching and recommending your channel!
Hi Lydia, fellow human here 😊. I just wanted to let you know that I enjoy watching your content whether it be extreme minimalism or not. I think you have a sweet, loving and kind personality that truly shines through. You've inspired me to go minimalist because I bought way too much stuff during the pandemic. So now I have a journey ahead of me when it comes to the decluttering process. Also, dear try not to focus on those 10% naysayers. I know it's difficult and I understand what it feels like. But they are everywhere in life sadly. They are just immature human beings that have a lot more maturing to do on the planet. Best to ignore them or kill them with kindness. You just do you boo ❤. I look forward to seeing your second channel and learning more about you and your way of life. Just know that your content and work doesn't go unnoticed. I find people like you refreshing and inspiring. I'm sure you have lots of things to share and teach and not just about minimalism. Know Lydia that you are loved 🥰 and very much appreciated. Sending you love from San Diego, California. Erika ❤️✨
I only just found your channel this week, but it's so clear how genuine you are! I'm probably pretty far from being a minimalist to people who want to be rigid about it, but I think it's unfair for people to question your personal definition of extreme minimalism. Everybody is on a different journey, and I feel like channels like yours are meant to inspire people. I know it's inspired me to reconsider some aspects of my life. 😊
Your videos are awesome ! You are so genuine in your approach to minimalism and I love the tips that you give , the easy going way you talk on your videos and make them funny and exciting and you make it a point to ask for feedback and customise your content to suit all your viewers Don’t stop making them ,they are lovely 😊
I think other people have said most things but I wanted to show my continued support. It is easy to say ignore the negativity but clearly you care and have integrity so it has greatly impacted you. Hopefully getting it off your chest will help. You are a great content creator but I follow you because I like you as a person. ❤
I am in the 90% category here. I love everything you do. Your care and inspiration shines through each and every time. Please just keep being true to you because there are so many of us that look forward to your videos. ❤
I don’t comment on videos. I did have to jump on and say I love your content 🤍 I find you inspiring, encouraging and yes, authentic. I appreciate the effort you put into all your videos.
Love seeing the process, because I'm going through the process myself :) It takes time, and trying out different methods can help us to see how we can continue to pare down possessions while still enjoying life. Mistakes can happen both ways, whether decluttering an item we actually need or purchasing one we don't. Life is not perfect, enjoy the experience! I enjoy trying out different exercises like wearing the same few items for weeks at a time. It helps to see how often things need to get washed, and how I feel about it. Your videos have been helpful for me :)
I really like your content and I'm inspired by it. I like your authenticity as well. Keep on creating the content that is in line with your highest values. The world needs it. Sending you love, light and courage ✨
Please don’t listen to people who comment negatively on your content. If they don’t like it, they can just stop watching. I love your content and will definerly continue watching ❤️
Please just keep doing what you're doing. I'm a minimalist who leans toward extreme minimalism. Maybe I'll get there, maybe I won't. I don't count my things or stress about any "rules." I watch videos on RUclips for inspiration and have been quite inspired by yours. Thank you.
Thank you for your videos! I'm on a journey from minimalist to extreme minimalist and find a lot of food for thought, motivation and entertainment on your channel! 🙏
Please don’t let the people who are hating get to you. I listened to something recently that talked about how we live in such a weird time because people can say and do whatever they want without any consequences with social media. I’ve never once had the thought that you’re an extreme minimalist just to get a leg up. I’ve really really enjoyed your videos
I enjoy your videos!^^ I am not a minimalism, but they inspire me to be more intentional. Personally, I am interested in videos about extreme minimalism, but also about minimalist, zero waste, sustainable living, intentionality, our relationship with clothing and shopping, among others. Also, as other people mentioned, please ignore the haters, some people are just dumb and/or mean. Greetings from Quebec! :)
I think a major point is what we do as part of a community. And I see your videos as a dialog of possibilities. But all the ideas are community positive ideas.
I love watching your extreme minimalism content, and you are so easy to watch and listen too because of how your personality shines through in your videos. You are a breath of fresh air and have inspired me to change a lot of things in my life that have really brought me so much peace and calm and I can’t thank you enough for that. There’s another extreme minimalist channel that I love, Exploravore, she has so very good videos on positivity etc that maybe you might find helpful , just remember for every 1 person spreading hate, there’s 100 spreading joy. Please don’t stop doing what you do, I am a huge fan and will continue to watch your content❤️
Thank You ☺️ I am very positive 99% of the time. In fact in all my videos I’ve put out I’ve only ever put 2 out just to address some issues. That I’ve really wanted to do to deal with mindful thought process as a part of minimalism. I honestly really don’t feel that I need help in this area. In fact after a lot of perspective gathering over the past few years I’m doing a video soon about finding my own path with minimalism. That will involve never watching or barely watching any other minimalist channels. As obviously all our lives are sometimes not transferable or comparable. I made this video despite being a very positive person to also question any egotistical thoughts. I didn’t want to think or assume I am always right in my choices. It was a thought out intentional decision to make this video. So I can deal with this growing issue once and for all and continue with a positive minimalist mindset. Thank you for your consideration and care 😊 💚 I’m glad you enjoy my videos 😊
I'm not a minimalist at all (quite the opposite) and I enjoy your videos. I enjoy them just as they are. I find them most easy to watch when they are simply done like this one is.
@@SagelifeMinimalism some people genuinely are unhappy, and that unhappiness will come across with them spending time trying to make other people feel down too. Most of them won't realise they are doing it for that reason. But most negative comments come from someone who has their own things going on. The happiest people I know either don't care what other people are up to, or stick to things they can feel enthusiastic about, or pop a bit of sarcasm/good humour on. People who are hurtful, usually are hurt. You don't have to inherit their misery.
Also, watching RUclips is a funny thing. People feel like they know you enough to pass an opinion. The problem is you don't know them. Sometimes I watch things you do or don't have and I think "gosh that would be a bit of a nightmare not having that" or "why if she's not got an extra t shirt has she got xyz thing". But that's the beauty of it, you've got things you feel you need to live your life as best you can. You'd have heart failure in my house some of the things I keep that we don't need. But I like having them and it's my house. On the plus side, if people are questioning things, it's all engagement and trotting you up the algorithm. So it's not all bad...
Hi Lydia! Love the content - all of it and is so inspiring . I wish I became a minimalist years ago- it's great reassessing your life when you get a bit older.....Try not to get too upset by other people's views- they are just that- other people's views. Take care and looking forward to the new channel. .
Omg yes. Some even used the word clout towards me like that, when i was only making things for fun. Lol. Recently on my personal tiktok where i dance and do fun things, i accidentally saw all the hidden comments that went months back. Basically it was a bunch of guys negging me. So i immediately turned off comments, and put in my bio that i post for fun and have a bf. Lol. It made me feel creepy that anyone would think i was posting for a man or out of desperation. Ffs! Can't do anything on the internet without some suffering, apparently... *hugs* ❤😊
You are such a brave young woman for making this video and explaining your heartfelt reasoning to all the nay sayers. I will continue to watch and enjoy tour channel.
I am only about 15 minutes into the video as I am writing this but I have to say I fully enjoy your content and have never questioned your motive. In fact when you did the videos about the bum bag etc I was just thinking that you were so excited to go travel that you just couldn't wait to try it out so you "lived out of your bum bag" whilst still at home. I can see how naysayers will argue that is not good enough but I found it adorable lol. I know this is soooo much easier said than done but if most comments are nice, you need to learn to ignore the rest because if someone takes time out of their day to drag you down that says everything about them and nothing about you. This is your channel, this is YOUR part of the internet. I am rooting for you! Hugs from your "Canadian Internet Cousin" 😄
Thank You ☺️ you’re right yes. I think subconsciously I maybe was doing it for that reason 😂 😂 I will be putting it all behind me now. I wanted to get it off my chest as there’s been a growing number of comments lately. Now it’s been said. I plan to block hateful commenters right away 😊 Hello 🇨🇦 👋🏻
@@SagelifeMinimalismThe haters will probably also complain about their deleted comments (I have seen that too on other channels) BUT I agree, whatever keeps your peace is the right thing to do! We don't have time for their negativity now do we??!!
You are very inspirational and I love to watch a bunch of your videos. I play them while I'm doing things in my apartment to hear what you have to say, and I take the time to sit down and watch a lot! You will always have a positive subscriber in me :) no room for negativity. I've had times in my life where people have been so mean and unkind, and it really tends to get you down. Keep doing you because the people who enjoy watching you because they like you as a person will stick around! You could make any type of content, all kinds including the topics you mentioned about a new channel, I'd watch them because I like your personality and your mindset! It's similar to my own. I support the fun challenges and experiments you do to switch things up! I'm so sorry you've had mean comments, it's disheartening. Try not to let it bother you, I think I speak for a lot of us when I say that you have some genuine followers that just like watching you talk about all kinds of life things! :) keep going
Lydia, your videos are great and I love the topic of extreme Minimalism. Ignore the haters, you definitely come across as very authentic. You do you! 🙏💕☯️ XX
Hi, I love your videos, and I love extreme minimalism. Through experience, when you live a counter cultural lifestyle, people will either feel threatened, or confused about who you’re becoming. Ignore them and continue to be unapologetically you. Be your own kind of minimalism for yourself, but continue to share that wisdom with others if that’s what you feel called to. ❤ one more thing, almost all successful people have a tonne of haters out there. To be so known you have haters can be seen/framed as a positive thing.
Dear Lydia, I don't know where to begin. I have so much to say. Like a few others on this video, I am not a regular commenter. I am definitely more of a lurker! 😊 But I really really enjoy your videos. I look forward to watching them on my breaks at work and when I am washing up at home as your content makes my day brighter. I really enjoy your thoughtfulness and analytical nature that you have (I do too) and appreciate hearing about your extreme minimalist journey. I started decluttering in October 2020 (I didn't know I was going to become a minimalist then). Then in the last year or two I have been drawn more to extreme minimalist content as I can relate more. As you've talked about in a prior video, some minimalist channels seemed more like just organised homes. Which is fine, but I started to feel overwhelmed by seeing how much stuff they had left (silly, I know). But watching your channel makes me feel so peaceful and I can actually take ideas and thoughts away from watching you, as well as being entertained. I want you to be happy and make videos that you want to make first and foremost. My favourites are the challenges you do and the extreme minimalist content, however I do enjoy topics like mindfulness, slow and intentional living, just chatty updates. Anything you want. Your joy and enthusiasm for a video makes your video brighter, even if it not as many people click on it due to it not having extreme minimalism in the title. But of course I understand that you want people to watch due to your efforts in making your videos. One last thing I will say is that I think people are really drawn to extremes of things (not just minimalism). In the case of stuff, people seem to love watching hoarder-related content because that level of hoarding is not something you see everyday. On the flip side, people who are not even interested in minimalism are drawn to videos about living out of a backpack (or bum bag! 😊) because it is an extreme that most people will never see or do for themselves. Having an interest in viewing these things is not wrong, of course. What I do think is wrong is when people choose to click on and watch this type of content but then proceed to complain about it in the comments. I don't understand. If it offends them that much then why do they watch it?! I feel as if people are trying to have their cake and eat it too. Watch something extreme out of curiosity but then reserve the right to complain that the lifestyle choice is too extreme. Anyway, I'm sorry for the long message. I hope you are doing better and feeling a weight off of you now. Love from another human in an English coastal town, Emily. Xx ❤
Lovely beautiful message. Never too long. I value the thoughts of people who enjoy my videos and them giving me feedback about what they take from them. Yes the cake 🍰 🎂 analogy is good and true I completely agree. It’s like come on 😂 I do…I feel better for addressing it and now I can put it behind me. Continuing with the positive vibes 💚 😊 🌊 xx
I am always amazed at how many people have so much time to watch videos and leave such negative, nasty, and non constructive advice. I'm much older than you, but I can assure you that with time, you will come to realize that their comments say much more about them and their sad lives than they do about you. There is an old saying that I live by and it goes something like this, " Those who matter don't mind , and those who mind, don't matter"
Hi Lydia, I cannot believe that someone like you is getting flak for not being authentic… Wow, you are one of the most authentic creators I watch. Your content is very helpful!! You are my go to for minimalism and it is very obvious you work very hard to bring us content that is fun, fresh, & and a deep dive into the subject of minimalism. It sounds to me like the haters are trying to tell you how to run YOUR channel. You do you!! here to support you what ever you choose.
I love all your content. You discuss a variety of things. I love how you care about our planet. Take care please. There is more love here for you than negativity xx
Lydia, your honesty and authentic human self is exactly what viewers NEED. I always enjoy watching your content specifically for that reason. There is enough of false narratives and down right negative content on youtube , and I personally think you're a breath of fresh air. Please keep being your authentic self. Love and much respect to you 🎉
Very nice to “meet “ you Lydia! Your name is as beautiful as your heart. I’m no where close to being a minimalist, but, do very much desire a simpler life. I have been decluttering, and working toward a minimal waste lifestyle. Also, getting my bearings on having a chemical free, or as close to it as I can, home. Sometimes I experience anxiety when watching the extreme content, nevertheless, I watch it anyway, because I do find it inspiring. I don’t believe I have ever commented on your channel, but, felt this video deserved it. Thank you for sharing today. Take care and looking forward to the new channel as well.
Thank You very much for taking the time to comment. It means a lot. Also that’s an interesting perspective - that it’s the extreme content that gives you anxiety. You’re the first to say that. It’s interesting to know some people watch for my other content 😊
You haven't done anything wrong. But I HAVE seen the hatered on Reddit and other RUclips channels and its not nice. BUT even if you have, I love that you have taken accountability. It looked like you might cry at the end Lydia, I hope you was able to do some self care afterwards. ❤ Do you ever discuss the tougher side of YT with your partner?
Thank You. I have support from my partner & my mum who is very wise. So I have support. I do 99% of the time brush the comments off. But Today I really wanted to address some of the things I’d seen in the comments. I’m going to put it behind me now and continue to make the videos I love 💚
I don’t think you’ve done anything wrong. I don’t agree with some of your views on not living with certain things, but I still enjoy watching your videos. I’m not a minimalist at all but that’s why I enjoy your videos. I do find you inspiring which is why I come back. I also don’t mind that you don’t share your name because maybe you wanted privacy. Either way I enjoy your content!
I haven’t been following you for very long. But what I can say is. I do like the content that you share here. Unfortunately, the world is now having to deal with a lot more mean spirited / small minded people. with nothing better to do than to click away their frustrations and have nothing better to do. They want a reaction. Don’t feel the need to apologise. Just remember. This is your channel. So just keep doing what you do best and ignore the rest.
I've watched you from probably the beginning....and I can say that I have ALWAYS seen you as completely authentic. It's quite surprising that there would be anyone who would speak against what you do! A thought came across that if you're being successful, could it be youtube 'bots' who are putting these comments forward....in the hopes YOU'D maybe go away? You know one of the things that I love about your channel...is you and your accent. Even after I've seen one of your videos, the way you say words lingers long after in my mind...and I love that! (Sorry, kinda weird, but....wonderful for me nonetheless!)
I have been here on this channel since the beginning and i am so grateful youre making These Videos. I also recently stumbled over certain subreddits regarding you and i find what people say there just mean. Just think about that, the people who like your Videos don't comment most of the time. Because they don't have a problem of the video and are happy with it. The others that write bad things are disconnected or don't relate to the topic in Person or some weird different reasons. I am in extreme minimalist too and I appreciate your videos very much! Normal people just don't get how it is with less and how you can want less on your own choice So dont let anything anyone says here get to you I feel connected to you even if I don't know you We have been through this journey together and I know that a lot of others feel the same way So don't change yourself or change something for people who you wouldnt even want to understand I feel like you are a really good person Please stay yourself I hope some of this resonated with you❤ You live on your terms and you decide to shared your life on the internet. People dont have the right to speak ill about you or judge in any possible way. The only judge of yourself is you and that the only person you should trust with your own values and decisions🥰
Hi, I don't usually comment on your videos but I wanted to say that I find them interesting and helpful. Please don't take the criticism to heart as there are many reasons that people make these sorts of comments. Your content is authentic, original and fun. You experiment and think about what you do and the feelings that arise in an effort to live your best life without negatively impacting the environment. I have watched most of your videos but sometimes I'm not in the mood for content that might challenge me or make me feel uncomfortable and I found that I couldn't watch your daily extreme decluttering videos every day but watched several in a row when I was in the right frame of mind. Many people like variety and watch content according to their mood and energy levels. I hope you keep making your content whether it be about extreme minimalism, zero waste or whatever you feel drawn to say because you are making a difference.
I never feel that you made mistakes on your channel, you always wanted to make people happy 🥺 and your content is great, interesting and inspiring ✨ I'm happy for you if you find a way as create a second channel and propose other contents but I think negative people will always be negative people 😟 hope you'll not take this too much in consideration. Thank you for this video and your honesty ✨♥️🫶🏻
It’s easy for me to say this because I’m not the one experiencing it so please take my recommendation and thoughts with a grain of salt. 1. You are in the entertainment industry and anyone who pretends to be blind to that fact is fooling themselves. 2. Even with your having taken on this type of entertainment job, you are sharing your personal life with a worldwide audience meaning the audience should offer levity with their comments. 3. If YOU are interested in extreme minimalism then you should make content on that because your passion will show through and that makes it entertaining. Additionally, when it is your passion, this includes the challenges, then your point and the lessons come across much clearer than when you are just trying to please everyone. Final thoughts, I know this is a business and that is wonderful, but do what is important to you. When you come across “those” comments, delete them and block the person. Life is way too short and full of obstacles to allow additional nonsense in. Personally, I am a minimalist but not extreme and I am VERY interested to learn more about being extreme. I see your struggles when you go around declutterring and trying to work out the “should I, shouldn’t I” because I experience it too. Don’t change unless it’s for you!
Yes i one of the 90%. I love extreme minimalism. It makes me happy seeing nothing in a house except the stuffs we use everyday. ❤ Don'r get stress with those 10%😅
Funny you wanted to fill the gap after heal your living. I felt sad when she left too. I was so chiffed to find your channel especially as you are UK based. Quite frankly your amount of stuff is extreme in relation to the "average" UK home content. Anything that helps people see that there are ways to live woth a lot less is needed. Please don't give up on talking and showing your stuff cos it is such an important part of changing toxic consumerism habits. Consistant content about staying minimal is a way i stay on yrack or get back on track. Please ignore the negativity. You have a right to do what you love. ❤
I hope everyone acknowledges how hard it would’ve been to make this video. I really love the considered way you worked through this. And at the end of the day, this is for you, you should make videos the way you want to make them. I also loved Heal my Living, also Lefie, Rebecca Sisson and some others who have stopped making or greatly reduced their YT output. Those throwaway comments of people hating on you are just that: people searching for places that they can make a comment on. They aren’t your audience, I see them on vegan channels too - they can’t just move on without comment. I watched channels for the person, or the production style, not the title of the video. I seem to gravitate to smaller, newer channels, because I like the authenticity that small channels have, so many I have stopped watching, or don’t watch all of them any more, because they became all about sponsors, and the person became less themselves. I don’t mind sponsors, especially if it something I want to consider, but it can overload and also cause weird videos just to try and tie a paid slot in. I like Leena Norms’ approach to this. I think most people feel pigeonholed as their channel gets older, and have to have a think about how to handle it - it’s a process. Patricia Mycyk used to be called A Small Wardrobe, then she started a second channel to talk about style because she didn’t feel it fitted in to having a tiny wardrobe, now she has changed the channel name to her own, so she can have more freedom to make videos on what ever topic she wants to.
Hello Lydia :) I feel like a hater, because I asked for your name on the last video. Other than that, I just realized, how personal name is powerful and make us feel closer to the ones, that know it.
Don't loose any sleep over the haters. Those people live to be negative. They won't listen to your well intented explanations. Just enjoy making the content you want to make and forget about everything else.
There's a word for the people who take pleasure in criticizing and complaining about things they know nothing about and who try to make others feel "less than", and that word is "bully". I don't know why some people are bullies or how putting others down somehow seems to make them feel better about themselves. I don't understand it, I've never understood it and I doubt I ever will. What I do know however, and this is the part the I hope you'll really take to heart and realize, is that the problem isn't and never will be about you, it's about them. And because the issue is with them and not with you, unfortunately there's nothing you can do to fix it, or appease them, or change them in any way. I know it's difficult, but the only thing you can really do is ignore them. There's another youtuber I watch who will block anyone who repeatedly makes negative comments and honestly I think this is justified and I hope it's something that you'll consider. I've always enjoyed your videos no matter what they're about and I hope all the love and positive comments that I've read here help you to know that you are appreciated and valued. Before I retired, I had a sign on the wall in my office that said "I can only please one person per day. Today's not your day, and tomorrow isn't looking good either". Spending your time and energy trying to please everyone isn't worth the heartache and anxiety, it'll never be 100% and if it's 90% now than I'd say that's pretty darn good!
That’s brilliant ‘I can only please one person a day’ 😂 I’ll have to remember that. Thank you. I made this video to address some of the comments. To get it all off my mind. But I will be putting it behind me now 😊 and focusing on my passion of making videos. You’re right 90% is pretty good 💚
Dear, sweet Lydia. The most important thing to declutter is concern over others' opinions. Maybe even turn the comments off. It is messing with your peace. It makes me sad to see you stressed and grieved. Just be your authentic you. ❤
Thank You. ☺️ it’s been a funny journey with RUclips because in everyday life I really don’t consider people’s opinion about me personally. But I suppose because I put a lot of effort into my videos I do sometimes question feedback I’m given about videos. Then question my choices about making them. I made this video for the people that made me question my choices. So I don’t have to question them again. I will now be decluttering opinion about my video choices 😊 Thank you for your kind words 💚
It a funny one though isn’t it because clickbait is really defined as the video being nothing at all about what was proposed in the title? Whereas I believe my video titles, do just describe what is in the video. So I’m not sure how it would be possible to have a good catchy title otherwise? I’m sure content is made to be of interest to people and the title reflects that? So I’m not sure what the remedy is? To not make content that is as interesting on a broader scale so the trolls don’t come 🤷♀️ I suppose I need to embrace the fact that with a successful video (in terms of views) also comes the trolls 🧌 😊
I think some people wouldn't be content until you're living with a blanket (no pillow) on a wood floor. They'd still wonder if you lived somewhere cold enough to need a blanket. One dress (jeans and a top is 2 things so can't do that) and a door key. But you have to consider whether their comments matter enough not to make those videos, or whether you can still make that content and ignore it. Those people won't stop so you can only think about how you can best act and react, to promote your own happiness.
True, that’s why I think I will just choose to not stop but limit how many of those types of videos I make. Also because I genuinely want to do some other minimalist content 😊
@@SagelifeMinimalism actually, you could forget the door key too. Just leave it unlocked as you'd be wearing the dress and there wouldn't be a blanket to steal. So that's 1 extra item to declutter, the key.
Unfortunately and sadly I don't think you are alone in getting unkind comments to your content. I subscribe to several other channels who have the same issue. I am not sure what motivates these people to be so unkind. Please don't give up, there are very few true genuine minimalist channels like yours, so many people enjoy and look forward to your content. On a lighter note, how did you keep the seagulls silent during this video ..
Thank You ☺️ I won’t give up. I’m in it for the long haul. Because it’s a passion… 😂 I don’t know about the seagulls. I thought the same. I think they either sensed my annoyance and stayed away 😂 or I have a new guard pigeon that makes them stay back 😂 or The babies are getting ready to leave the nests 🪺 so they’re starting to quieten abit 😂 I love them. But they are so noisy May to August 😂 September will be a return to quieter videos 😂 Thank You ☺️
I’m wondering if you’re not giving the haters what they wanted by showing that they got to you a little, but hopefully not as you mentioned they should declutter their hatred which hopefully gets to them in turn. I’m sure I’m one of the people who are not subscribed and only watch whatever minimalism content of yours is suggested to them by the algorithm but it’s fine for me because watching the same person all the time would be annoying, I wanna keep up with other people as well and I hope that’s fine with you.
Well I did consider this myself too before doing the video. But really I wanted to address it, for anyone who was on the fence aswell. That may have been thinking 🤔 I really enjoy that channel but the ‘extreme minimalist’ content is over done. I definitely didn’t want anyone to think it was for any other reason than the pursuit of minimalism and creative video making. It’s ok because I’m brave enough to ‘feel’ and be vulnerable. I feel I’ve set the record straight and can move on. No comments will stop me making videos as the joy of others is greater than the few who hate. 😊 💚
In an act of sincere & earnest intention, I have turned adverts off for this video…Minimalism.
Hi I still have them
Report bad and negative behaviour to RUclips and get em barred. I don’t tolerate rodents…
That’s weird? I’ve checked my settings and definitely have them turned off? Don’t mean the RUclips bottom of screen ones or mid roll?
I will 🛑 😊
It's at the beginning screen ones
I can see your authenticity, it seems very obvious to me and I enjoy the realness! Some people are just very critical. To be honest, I’m not even a minimalist, let alone an extreme minimalist, and I love your content. I found your channel after searching minimalism for inspiration. It’s inspiring to me because I’ve been overwhelmed with stuff so I’ve been watching minimalist videos and slowly decluttering over the course of the last 2 years. It started when our basement flooded and all that junk and stuff had to be thrown out or washed/aired out. I was embarrassed when we called the company to come drain our basement and the workers were having to move all the overwhelming amount of items around. It was a real turning point for me and listening and watching your process has helped me with my own journey of simply decluttering. Right now for me it’s about being less overwhelmed by clutter by having less items. Your content has been sooo helpful with considering what we truly need and being intentional with purchases. Thank you for your videos and for being authentic, I look forward to watching your future videos! :)
Thank You very much. That is lovely to hear. 💚 😊
She's very inspiring. I've decluttered more of my sewing stuff because of this channel and realized I can still make garments with even fewer sewing tools and notions. I found a store nearby that takes donations of art and craft supplies and they take fabric scraps and things like elastic, lace, etc.
She's also a vegan and we're vegan, I respect her so much for that. She's so genuine.
@@MegOfBroccoli Thank You ☺️ 💚
Awww ❤ Lydia, thank you for your vulnerability and truth. It’s lovely knowing your name. I don’t just watch your videos for the minimalism aspects, I truly appreciate your personality and sweetness that you bring through in your work. It’s like hanging out with a good friend and having a good chat.
Haters ultimately hate themselves but want to strike out to what they are seeing, instead of turning the light on themselves and asking “Why do I feel the need to shame or attack someone else!”
Sending you so much love. 🙌🏻❤️🌈
Looking forward to your new channel too. ❤
Thank You Amy, 😊 You and Many of the others, who always send your love and encouragement are the thing that drives me on and motivates me. But much bigger than that, the ‘lovers’ of which you are & not the haters in the world, are the fountain of inspiration, peace and joy 🕊️ 💚
@@SagelifeMinimalism Oh that’s so wonderful to hear. 🙌🏻💖💖💖
Perfectly stated sentiment. I feel exactly the same❤
I LOVE Your channel and Your videos. Please ignore the haters, they're everywhere, there is plenty of hating comments under the kindest videos in the whole youtube. Don't pay attention to them. There is plenty of people that watch your videos, getting inspiration from you everyday and usually those people (like me) never leave comments but maybe we should be. I had a huge instagram few years ago and I deleted it because of haters. I feel like I let down all of the other people that were supporting me. We should just ignore them.
And I love to watch any minimalism videos, both extreme and not extreme. Your content is amazing, please do not change! :) Greetings from Maidenhead xxx
Thank You ☺️ 💚 🕊️xxx
100% agree
"You can be the most beatiful and delicious peach and there still might be some people that don't like peaches."
Sending a big virtual hug! 🫶
True 😂 very true 😊I like the analogy 🍑 😊
Lydia you have a beautiful soul. Yours is my favorite RUclips channel and yes, I found you because of your extreme minimalist videos but have stayed because I found inspiration and courage to try something new as well as to keep going on my own journey. Your videos are calm and soothing to my soul and I look forward to each new video and am excited for your new channel. Simply put, thank you for sharing yourself, your heart and your life with us.
That is beautiful 🥰 thank you ☺️ it means a lot 💚
I’ve followed for a while but I don’t think I’ve ever commented before, but now seems a good time to chip in. I’m sorry you are getting such negativity from haters. I think extreme minimalism is one of those subjects that is by its nature polarising, because it’s very challenging to the status quo. Your haters are probably just triggered by their own insecurities and find it easier to be mean than to do any self inquiry. I enjoy your content and when I see “extreme minimalism” in a video title I click on it because I’m fascinated by it and find it aspirational. I have always found your process-oriented videos interesting and real. I hope you keep doing your extreme minimalism videos.
Thank You… I will I just think I need to integrate other minimalism content too 😊 💚
What is the problem people have? I mean you watch youtube videos because you like them and get inspired or you don´t! Ofcourse you make videos for others to enjoy! The ones that don´t enjoy them or have problem with their ego they will just have to go somewhere els.
Thank You 💚 😊
Hi Lydia, please, please ignore the haters. People have a choice to watch or not.Your channel is great, you have a purpose, a goal; travel. You’ve done nothing wrong. You are an ‘extreme minimalist’, please do not change for people who do not agree with you, understand you. Your 14 item challenge was enjoyable; an experiment. Believe it or not, some people live this way. Like others here, your channel has helped me a lot. I too have been decluttering for several years. It helped me to understand my discontent with having too much stuff around me.
You are growing, changing, all the things you want to put on your new channel, I am happy to see on this channel. You do what makes you happy…I’ll be watching.🌺🌸🌼💐PS you don’t need forgiveness…💖please do not be hard on yourself.
Thank You very much 😊 very reassuring 💚
I've been watching your channel for a while now, but I don't always comment on videos. I really recommend you turn off notifications for comments and only check comments maybe once a week or so just to get a feel for how people are reacting to your videos. Pay most attention to the comments with the most likes. And remember that some people go around making negative comments because they have nothing better to do in their life. They just have a sad negative life and they don't have a better way of dealing with it other than spewing hate and negativity all over the internet and all over the people in their lives and you shouldn't take everything to heart. I do hope you continue to make the videos you want to make. I am enjoying your path to extreme minimalism, but if you want to make other types of content I'm here for that as well.
Thank You… I do plan to do all types of minimalist content and limit the ‘extreme’. As part of auditing my life this month I made the decision to only answer comments on Thursday evenings when the video comes out. Then also to get caught up on replies before Thursdays video at one other point of the week. I’ve also now just started completely blocking overly hateful comments. Thank you 💚 😊
Screw what anyone thinks, you have a minimalism/decluttering channel so there will be minimalism content and titles as well. Hope you will enjoy content creation more in the future.
Thank you 💚 😊
I’m so impressed you’ve undertake a challenge of making a new video for 31 days - it’s such a huge amount of work. Please don’t worry about the stats of views on them, a lot of your audience might not be able to catch each one as they are released - some might binge them later on when they have more time.
I’d also be interested to know if the people who make the most unhelpful comments are subscribed, or even watch all your videos, or just jump in on the ones that are the most high profile.
Thank You. Yes I wonder that too. I think they only watch the most ‘extreme’ videos ironically… then complain I don’t make other content. For them to not watch. 😂 🤦♀️ it really is farcical. I’m not going to let it bother me anymore. This video as aired my thoughts about it 😊
Your my fave You Tuber. I always love your content and I'm happy every time I see a new episode.You are a breath of fresh air. I log in every evening to watch you and a select few. Thank you Lydia for all you give us.🙂
Thank You that is truly lovely Claire 😊 💚
I have absolutely loved watching your journey!! I love the challenges you do! It inspires me to play along and do my own challenges. I’m sorry that people have put you down. Just know not everyone views you negatively. Auditing our lives was such a brilliant idea! I will continue watching and recommending your channel!
Thank You very much 😊 💚
Hi Lydia, fellow human here 😊. I just wanted to let you know that I enjoy watching your content whether it be extreme minimalism or not. I think you have a sweet, loving and kind personality that truly shines through. You've inspired me to go minimalist because I bought way too much stuff during the pandemic. So now I have a journey ahead of me when it comes to the decluttering process. Also, dear try not to focus on those 10% naysayers. I know it's difficult and I understand what it feels like. But they are everywhere in life sadly. They are just immature human beings that have a lot more maturing to do on the planet. Best to ignore them or kill them with kindness. You just do you boo ❤. I look forward to seeing your second channel and learning more about you and your way of life. Just know that your content and work doesn't go unnoticed. I find people like you refreshing and inspiring. I'm sure you have lots of things to share and teach and not just about minimalism. Know Lydia that you are loved 🥰 and very much appreciated. Sending you love from San Diego, California.
Erika ❤️✨
Beautiful 🥰 Thank You very much 💚
Ppl are weird. Thanks for a great channel! 💖💖💖
Thank You ☺️ 💚
I only just found your channel this week, but it's so clear how genuine you are! I'm probably pretty far from being a minimalist to people who want to be rigid about it, but I think it's unfair for people to question your personal definition of extreme minimalism. Everybody is on a different journey, and I feel like channels like yours are meant to inspire people. I know it's inspired me to reconsider some aspects of my life. 😊
Thank You ☺️ 💚
Your videos are awesome ! You are so genuine in your approach to minimalism and I love the tips that you give , the easy going way you talk on your videos and make them funny and exciting and you make it a point to ask for feedback and customise your content to suit all your viewers Don’t stop making them ,they are lovely 😊
Thank you ☺️ 💚
I think other people have said most things but I wanted to show my continued support. It is easy to say ignore the negativity but clearly you care and have integrity so it has greatly impacted you. Hopefully getting it off your chest will help. You are a great content creator but I follow you because I like you as a person. ❤
Thank You Natalie 😊 it has unburdened me. Thank You for your continued support 💚
I am in the 90% category here. I love everything you do. Your care and inspiration shines through each and every time. Please just keep being true to you because there are so many of us that look forward to your videos. ❤
Thank You 💚 😊
I don’t comment on videos. I did have to jump on and say I love your content 🤍 I find you inspiring, encouraging and yes, authentic. I appreciate the effort you put into all your videos.
Thank You very much 😊 very reassuring and appreciated right now 💚
Love seeing the process, because I'm going through the process myself :) It takes time, and trying out different methods can help us to see how we can continue to pare down possessions while still enjoying life. Mistakes can happen both ways, whether decluttering an item we actually need or purchasing one we don't. Life is not perfect, enjoy the experience! I enjoy trying out different exercises like wearing the same few items for weeks at a time. It helps to see how often things need to get washed, and how I feel about it. Your videos have been helpful for me :)
Thank You 💚
I really like your content and I'm inspired by it. I like your authenticity as well. Keep on creating the content that is in line with your highest values. The world needs it. Sending you love, light and courage ✨
Thank you 💚 lovely ✨ 😊
Love ALL of your videos! Thank you for sharing and inspiring!
Thank You 💚 😊
Please don’t listen to people who comment negatively on your content. If they don’t like it, they can just stop watching. I love your content and will definerly continue watching ❤️
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Please just keep doing what you're doing. I'm a minimalist who leans toward extreme minimalism. Maybe I'll get there, maybe I won't. I don't count my things or stress about any "rules." I watch videos on RUclips for inspiration and have been quite inspired by yours. Thank you.
Thank you ☺️ ❤️
I love your videos. Sending you encouragement and love 💚💚 you're so genuine.
Thank You 💚
Thank you for your videos! I'm on a journey from minimalist to extreme minimalist and find a lot of food for thought, motivation and entertainment on your channel! 🙏
Thank you very much that means a lot 💚 😊
Please don’t let the people who are hating get to you. I listened to something recently that talked about how we live in such a weird time because people can say and do whatever they want without any consequences with social media. I’ve never once had the thought that you’re an extreme minimalist just to get a leg up. I’ve really really enjoyed your videos
Thank You ☺️ That’s reassuring 💚 😊
I enjoy your videos!^^ I am not a minimalism, but they inspire me to be more intentional. Personally, I am interested in videos about extreme minimalism, but also about minimalist, zero waste, sustainable living, intentionality, our relationship with clothing and shopping, among others. Also, as other people mentioned, please ignore the haters, some people are just dumb and/or mean. Greetings from Quebec! :)
Thank You ☺️ oh I love Quebec 🍁 and the maple Candy 🍬 😊 💚
Thank you for sharing your heart and cheers to being a multidimensional human! Create for you, allow any haters to fall off💐🌟
Thank You ☺️ 🌟
I think a major point is what
we do as part of a community. And I see your videos as a dialog of possibilities. But all the ideas are community positive ideas.
Thank You 💚
You made me cry at the end😢 I love your videos, just do what you like to do❤❤❤
Thank You 🥹 people with true empathy make the world keep turning. Thank You 💚
@@SagelifeMinimalism❤
I love watching your extreme minimalism content, and you are so easy to watch and listen too because of how your personality shines through in your videos. You are a breath of fresh air and have inspired me to change a lot of things in my life that have really brought me so much peace and calm and I can’t thank you enough for that. There’s another extreme minimalist channel that I love, Exploravore, she has so very good videos on positivity etc that maybe you might find helpful , just remember for every 1 person spreading hate, there’s 100 spreading joy. Please don’t stop doing what you do, I am a huge fan and will continue to watch your content❤️
Thank You ☺️ I am very positive 99% of the time. In fact in all my videos I’ve put out I’ve only ever put 2 out just to address some issues. That I’ve really wanted to do to deal with mindful thought process as a part of minimalism. I honestly really don’t feel that I need help in this area. In fact after a lot of perspective gathering over the past few years I’m doing a video soon about finding my own path with minimalism. That will involve never watching or barely watching any other minimalist channels. As obviously all our lives are sometimes not transferable or comparable. I made this video despite being a very positive person to also question any egotistical thoughts. I didn’t want to think or assume I am always right in my choices. It was a thought out intentional decision to make this video. So I can deal with this growing issue once and for all and continue with a positive minimalist mindset. Thank you for your consideration and care 😊 💚 I’m glad you enjoy my videos 😊
I'm not a minimalist at all (quite the opposite) and I enjoy your videos. I enjoy them just as they are. I find them most easy to watch when they are simply done like this one is.
Thank You 💚
@@SagelifeMinimalism some people genuinely are unhappy, and that unhappiness will come across with them spending time trying to make other people feel down too. Most of them won't realise they are doing it for that reason. But most negative comments come from someone who has their own things going on. The happiest people I know either don't care what other people are up to, or stick to things they can feel enthusiastic about, or pop a bit of sarcasm/good humour on. People who are hurtful, usually are hurt. You don't have to inherit their misery.
Also, watching RUclips is a funny thing. People feel like they know you enough to pass an opinion. The problem is you don't know them. Sometimes I watch things you do or don't have and I think "gosh that would be a bit of a nightmare not having that" or "why if she's not got an extra t shirt has she got xyz thing". But that's the beauty of it, you've got things you feel you need to live your life as best you can. You'd have heart failure in my house some of the things I keep that we don't need. But I like having them and it's my house.
On the plus side, if people are questioning things, it's all engagement and trotting you up the algorithm. So it's not all bad...
Thank You ☺️ very true 💚
Hi Lydia!
Love the content - all of it and is so inspiring . I wish I became a minimalist years ago- it's great reassessing your life when you get a bit older.....Try not to get too upset by other people's views- they are just that- other people's views. Take care and looking forward to the new channel. .
Hello 👋🏻 Thank You ☺️ 💚
Omg yes.
Some even used the word clout towards me like that, when i was only making things for fun. Lol.
Recently on my personal tiktok where i dance and do fun things, i accidentally saw all the hidden comments that went months back. Basically it was a bunch of guys negging me. So i immediately turned off comments, and put in my bio that i post for fun and have a bf. Lol.
It made me feel creepy that anyone would think i was posting for a man or out of desperation. Ffs! Can't do anything on the internet without some suffering, apparently...
*hugs* ❤😊
Thank You ❤️ 😊
You are such a brave young woman for making this video and explaining your heartfelt reasoning to all the nay sayers. I will continue to watch and enjoy tour channel.
Thank You ☺️ very appreciated 💚
I am only about 15 minutes into the video as I am writing this but I have to say I fully enjoy your content and have never questioned your motive. In fact when you did the videos about the bum bag etc I was just thinking that you were so excited to go travel that you just couldn't wait to try it out so you "lived out of your bum bag" whilst still at home. I can see how naysayers will argue that is not good enough but I found it adorable lol. I know this is soooo much easier said than done but if most comments are nice, you need to learn to ignore the rest because if someone takes time out of their day to drag you down that says everything about them and nothing about you. This is your channel, this is YOUR part of the internet. I am rooting for you! Hugs from your "Canadian Internet Cousin" 😄
Thank You ☺️ you’re right yes. I think subconsciously I maybe was doing it for that reason 😂 😂 I will be putting it all behind me now. I wanted to get it off my chest as there’s been a growing number of comments lately. Now it’s been said. I plan to block hateful commenters right away 😊 Hello 🇨🇦 👋🏻
@@SagelifeMinimalismThe haters will probably also complain about their deleted comments (I have seen that too on other channels) BUT I agree, whatever keeps your peace is the right thing to do! We don't have time for their negativity now do we??!!
You are very inspirational and I love to watch a bunch of your videos. I play them while I'm doing things in my apartment to hear what you have to say, and I take the time to sit down and watch a lot! You will always have a positive subscriber in me :) no room for negativity. I've had times in my life where people have been so mean and unkind, and it really tends to get you down. Keep doing you because the people who enjoy watching you because they like you as a person will stick around! You could make any type of content, all kinds including the topics you mentioned about a new channel, I'd watch them because I like your personality and your mindset! It's similar to my own. I support the fun challenges and experiments you do to switch things up! I'm so sorry you've had mean comments, it's disheartening. Try not to let it bother you, I think I speak for a lot of us when I say that you have some genuine followers that just like watching you talk about all kinds of life things! :) keep going
Thank You very much 😊 💚
I think your authenticity shines through!
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Lydia, your videos are great and I love the topic of extreme Minimalism. Ignore the haters, you definitely come across as very authentic. You do you! 🙏💕☯️ XX
Thank you 💚 ☯️ 😊 💕 xx
Hi, I love your videos, and I love extreme minimalism. Through experience, when you live a counter cultural lifestyle, people will either feel threatened, or confused about who you’re becoming. Ignore them and continue to be unapologetically you. Be your own kind of minimalism for yourself, but continue to share that wisdom with others if that’s what you feel called to. ❤ one more thing, almost all successful people have a tonne of haters out there. To be so known you have haters can be seen/framed as a positive thing.
Thank You very much 😊 I suppose it is a back handed compliment 😊 💚
Dear Lydia, I don't know where to begin. I have so much to say. Like a few others on this video, I am not a regular commenter. I am definitely more of a lurker! 😊 But I really really enjoy your videos. I look forward to watching them on my breaks at work and when I am washing up at home as your content makes my day brighter. I really enjoy your thoughtfulness and analytical nature that you have (I do too) and appreciate hearing about your extreme minimalist journey. I started decluttering in October 2020 (I didn't know I was going to become a minimalist then). Then in the last year or two I have been drawn more to extreme minimalist content as I can relate more. As you've talked about in a prior video, some minimalist channels seemed more like just organised homes. Which is fine, but I started to feel overwhelmed by seeing how much stuff they had left (silly, I know). But watching your channel makes me feel so peaceful and I can actually take ideas and thoughts away from watching you, as well as being entertained. I want you to be happy and make videos that you want to make first and foremost. My favourites are the challenges you do and the extreme minimalist content, however I do enjoy topics like mindfulness, slow and intentional living, just chatty updates. Anything you want. Your joy and enthusiasm for a video makes your video brighter, even if it not as many people click on it due to it not having extreme minimalism in the title. But of course I understand that you want people to watch due to your efforts in making your videos. One last thing I will say is that I think people are really drawn to extremes of things (not just minimalism). In the case of stuff, people seem to love watching hoarder-related content because that level of hoarding is not something you see everyday. On the flip side, people who are not even interested in minimalism are drawn to videos about living out of a backpack (or bum bag! 😊) because it is an extreme that most people will never see or do for themselves. Having an interest in viewing these things is not wrong, of course. What I do think is wrong is when people choose to click on and watch this type of content but then proceed to complain about it in the comments. I don't understand. If it offends them that much then why do they watch it?! I feel as if people are trying to have their cake and eat it too. Watch something extreme out of curiosity but then reserve the right to complain that the lifestyle choice is too extreme. Anyway, I'm sorry for the long message. I hope you are doing better and feeling a weight off of you now. Love from another human in an English coastal town, Emily. Xx ❤
Lovely beautiful message. Never too long. I value the thoughts of people who enjoy my videos and them giving me feedback about what they take from them. Yes the cake 🍰 🎂 analogy is good and true I completely agree. It’s like come on 😂 I do…I feel better for addressing it and now I can put it behind me. Continuing with the positive vibes 💚 😊 🌊 xx
I am always amazed at how many people have so much time to watch videos and leave such negative, nasty, and non constructive advice. I'm much older than you, but I can assure you that with time, you will come to realize that their comments say much more about them and their sad lives than they do about you. There is an old saying that I live by and it goes something like this, " Those who matter don't mind , and those who mind, don't matter"
Thank you 💚
Hi Lydia, I cannot believe that someone like you is getting flak for not being authentic… Wow, you are one of the most authentic creators I watch.
Your content is very helpful!! You are my go to for minimalism and it is very obvious you work very hard to bring us content that is fun, fresh, & and a deep dive into the subject of minimalism. It sounds to me like the haters are trying to tell you how to run YOUR channel.
You do you!! here to support you what ever you choose.
Thank you very much 💚
I love all your content. You discuss a variety of things. I love how you care about our planet. Take care please. There is more love here for you than negativity xx
☺️ Thank You, I have time for all you ‘lovers’ 😊 💚 xx
Lydia, your honesty and authentic human self is exactly what viewers NEED. I always enjoy watching your content specifically for that reason. There is enough of false narratives and down right negative content on youtube , and I personally think you're a breath of fresh air. Please keep being your authentic self. Love and much respect to you 🎉
And by the way, Lydia is a beautiful name.
Thank You that’s lovely to hear 😊
Thank You 💚
Very nice to “meet “ you Lydia! Your name is as beautiful as your heart. I’m no where close to being a minimalist, but, do very much desire a simpler life. I have been decluttering, and working toward a minimal waste lifestyle. Also, getting my bearings on having a chemical free, or as close to it as I can, home. Sometimes I experience anxiety when watching the extreme content, nevertheless, I watch it anyway, because I do find it inspiring. I don’t believe I have ever commented on your channel, but, felt this video deserved it. Thank you for sharing today. Take care and looking forward to the new channel as well.
Thank You very much for taking the time to comment. It means a lot. Also that’s an interesting perspective - that it’s the extreme content that gives you anxiety. You’re the first to say that. It’s interesting to know some people watch for my other content 😊
You haven't done anything wrong. But I HAVE seen the hatered on Reddit and other RUclips channels and its not nice.
BUT even if you have, I love that you have taken accountability.
It looked like you might cry at the end Lydia, I hope you was able to do some self care afterwards. ❤
Do you ever discuss the tougher side of YT with your partner?
Thank You. I have support from my partner & my mum who is very wise. So I have support. I do 99% of the time brush the comments off. But Today I really wanted to address some of the things I’d seen in the comments. I’m going to put it behind me now and continue to make the videos I love 💚
I don’t think you’ve done anything wrong. I don’t agree with some of your views on not living with certain things, but I still enjoy watching your videos. I’m not a minimalist at all but that’s why I enjoy your videos. I do find you inspiring which is why I come back. I also don’t mind that you don’t share your name because maybe you wanted privacy. Either way I enjoy your content!
Thank You 💚 Yes Privacy too 😊
Lydia, I love your channel! Inspiring, challenging, thought provoking and encouraging. God bless you!! 🐱🐱🐱
Thank You ☺️ 💚
I absolutely love your wavy hair! So beautiful
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I haven’t been following you for very long. But what I can say is. I do like the content that you share here. Unfortunately, the world is now having to deal with a lot more mean spirited / small minded people. with nothing better to do than to click away their frustrations and have nothing better to do. They want a reaction. Don’t feel the need to apologise. Just remember. This is your channel. So just keep doing what you do best and ignore the rest.
Thank You 💚 😊
@@SagelifeMinimalism
“Take it from an old🏴hippie.
Wee, will never allow anyone to mess
with our vibe..😑”
I've watched you from probably the beginning....and I can say that I have ALWAYS seen you as completely authentic. It's quite surprising that there would be anyone who would speak against what you do! A thought came across that if you're being successful, could it be youtube 'bots' who are putting these comments forward....in the hopes YOU'D maybe go away? You know one of the things that I love about your channel...is you and your accent. Even after I've seen one of your videos, the way you say words lingers long after in my mind...and I love that! (Sorry, kinda weird, but....wonderful for me nonetheless!)
Thank You ☺️ haha that’s funny yes 😂 not weird. I love to know the things that people enjoy about my videos 😊 💚
I have been here on this channel since the beginning and i am so grateful youre making These Videos.
I also recently stumbled over certain subreddits regarding you and i find what people say there just mean.
Just think about that, the people who like your Videos don't comment most of the time. Because they don't have a problem of the video and are happy with it.
The others that write bad things are disconnected or don't relate to the topic in Person or some weird different reasons.
I am in extreme minimalist too and I appreciate your videos very much!
Normal people just don't get how it is with less and how you can want less on your own choice
So dont let anything anyone says here get to you
I feel connected to you even if I don't know you
We have been through this journey together and I know that a lot of others feel the same way
So don't change yourself or change something for people who you wouldnt even want to understand
I feel like you are a really good person
Please stay yourself
I hope some of this resonated with you❤
You live on your terms and you decide to shared your life on the internet.
People dont have the right to speak ill about you or judge in any possible way.
The only judge of yourself is you and that the only person you should trust with your own values and decisions🥰
Thank You very much that means a lot 💚
Hi, I don't usually comment on your videos but I wanted to say that I find them interesting and helpful. Please don't take the criticism to heart as there are many reasons that people make these sorts of comments. Your content is authentic, original and fun. You experiment and think about what you do and the feelings that arise in an effort to live your best life without negatively impacting the environment. I have watched most of your videos but sometimes I'm not in the mood for content that might challenge me or make me feel uncomfortable and I found that I couldn't watch your daily extreme decluttering videos every day but watched several in a row when I was in the right frame of mind. Many people like variety and watch content according to their mood and energy levels. I hope you keep making your content whether it be about extreme minimalism, zero waste or whatever you feel drawn to say because you are making a difference.
Thank You ☺️ I will. I’m going to make sure a create a variety too to reflect my own and other peoples moods 😊
I never feel that you made mistakes on your channel, you always wanted to make people happy 🥺 and your content is great, interesting and inspiring ✨
I'm happy for you if you find a way as create a second channel and propose other contents but I think negative people will always be negative people 😟 hope you'll not take this too much in consideration.
Thank you for this video and your honesty ✨♥️🫶🏻
Thank you 💚 😊
It’s easy for me to say this because I’m not the one experiencing it so please take my recommendation and thoughts with a grain of salt. 1. You are in the entertainment industry and anyone who pretends to be blind to that fact is fooling themselves. 2. Even with your having taken on this type of entertainment job, you are sharing your personal life with a worldwide audience meaning the audience should offer levity with their comments. 3. If YOU are interested in extreme minimalism then you should make content on that because your passion will show through and that makes it entertaining. Additionally, when it is your passion, this includes the challenges, then your point and the lessons come across much clearer than when you are just trying to please everyone. Final thoughts, I know this is a business and that is wonderful, but do what is important to you. When you come across “those” comments, delete them and block the person. Life is way too short and full of obstacles to allow additional nonsense in. Personally, I am a minimalist but not extreme and I am VERY interested to learn more about being extreme. I see your struggles when you go around declutterring and trying to work out the “should I, shouldn’t I” because I experience it too. Don’t change unless it’s for you!
Thank you ☺️
That green is great on you!
Thank You 💚 😊
Yes i one of the 90%. I love extreme minimalism. It makes me happy seeing nothing in a house except the stuffs we use everyday. ❤ Don'r get stress with those 10%😅
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Funny you wanted to fill the gap after heal your living. I felt sad when she left too. I was so chiffed to find your channel especially as you are UK based. Quite frankly your amount of stuff is extreme in relation to the "average" UK home content. Anything that helps people see that there are ways to live woth a lot less is needed. Please don't give up on talking and showing your stuff cos it is such an important part of changing toxic consumerism habits. Consistant content about staying minimal is a way i stay on yrack or get back on track. Please ignore the negativity. You have a right to do what you love. ❤
Thank You that’s lovely ☺️ 💚
I hope everyone acknowledges how hard it would’ve been to make this video. I really love the considered way you worked through this. And at the end of the day, this is for you, you should make videos the way you want to make them. I also loved Heal my Living, also Lefie, Rebecca Sisson and some others who have stopped making or greatly reduced their YT output.
Those throwaway comments of people hating on you are just that: people searching for places that they can make a comment on. They aren’t your audience, I see them on vegan channels too - they can’t just move on without comment.
I watched channels for the person, or the production style, not the title of the video. I seem to gravitate to smaller, newer channels, because I like the authenticity that small channels have, so many I have stopped watching, or don’t watch all of them any more, because they became all about sponsors, and the person became less themselves. I don’t mind sponsors, especially if it something I want to consider, but it can overload and also cause weird videos just to try and tie a paid slot in. I like Leena Norms’ approach to this.
I think most people feel pigeonholed as their channel gets older, and have to have a think about how to handle it - it’s a process. Patricia Mycyk used to be called A Small Wardrobe, then she started a second channel to talk about style because she didn’t feel it fitted in to having a tiny wardrobe, now she has changed the channel name to her own, so she can have more freedom to make videos on what ever topic she wants to.
It really is a process. I think I may have found the answer by branching out. Thank you very much for your reassuring words 💚 😊
Ignore the haters. Love ALL your content.
Thank You ☺️ 💚
Hello Lydia :) I feel like a hater, because I asked for your name on the last video. Other than that, I just realized, how personal name is powerful and make us feel closer to the ones, that know it.
No I don’t think you’re a hater. 😊 I believe it is important now too. It allows us all to see each others individual humanity and identity 😊
I’ve recently found you on RUclips and I’m really enjoying your content ❤
Thank You very much 💚
I love you videos please carry on and dont listen to negative people who have nothing better to do than upset others x
Thank You - I will x 💚
Don't loose any sleep over the haters. Those people live to be negative. They won't listen to your well intented explanations. Just enjoy making the content you want to make and forget about everything else.
Thank you ☺️ 💚
There's a word for the people who take pleasure in criticizing and complaining about things they know nothing about and who try to make others feel "less than", and that word is "bully". I don't know why some people are bullies or how putting others down somehow seems to make them feel better about themselves. I don't understand it, I've never understood it and I doubt I ever will. What I do know however, and this is the part the I hope you'll really take to heart and realize, is that the problem isn't and never will be about you, it's about them. And because the issue is with them and not with you, unfortunately there's nothing you can do to fix it, or appease them, or change them in any way. I know it's difficult, but the only thing you can really do is ignore them. There's another youtuber I watch who will block anyone who repeatedly makes negative comments and honestly I think this is justified and I hope it's something that you'll consider. I've always enjoyed your videos no matter what they're about and I hope all the love and positive comments that I've read here help you to know that you are appreciated and valued. Before I retired, I had a sign on the wall in my office that said "I can only please one person per day. Today's not your day, and tomorrow isn't looking good either". Spending your time and energy trying to please everyone isn't worth the heartache and anxiety, it'll never be 100% and if it's 90% now than I'd say that's pretty darn good!
That’s brilliant ‘I can only please one person a day’ 😂 I’ll have to remember that. Thank you. I made this video to address some of the comments. To get it all off my mind. But I will be putting it behind me now 😊 and focusing on my passion of making videos. You’re right 90% is pretty good 💚
Dear, sweet Lydia. The most important thing to declutter is concern over others' opinions. Maybe even turn the comments off. It is messing with your peace. It makes me sad to see you stressed and grieved. Just be your authentic you. ❤
Thank You. ☺️ it’s been a funny journey with RUclips because in everyday life I really don’t consider people’s opinion about me personally. But I suppose because I put a lot of effort into my videos I do sometimes question feedback I’m given about videos. Then question my choices about making them. I made this video for the people that made me question my choices. So I don’t have to question them again. I will now be decluttering opinion about my video choices 😊 Thank you for your kind words 💚
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Don't ever get upset, there always will be bad comments, and haters will see you walk on water and say it’s because you can’t swim..😂
😂 thank you- good analogy 😊 🏊 💚
you seem like a really sweet lady but you can't have clickbait trolling titles and not expect to attract the trolls... like attracts like.
It a funny one though isn’t it because clickbait is really defined as the video being nothing at all about what was proposed in the title? Whereas I believe my video titles, do just describe what is in the video. So I’m not sure how it would be possible to have a good catchy title otherwise? I’m sure content is made to be of interest to people and the title reflects that? So I’m not sure what the remedy is? To not make content that is as interesting on a broader scale so the trolls don’t come 🤷♀️ I suppose I need to embrace the fact that with a successful video (in terms of views) also comes the trolls 🧌 😊
I think some people wouldn't be content until you're living with a blanket (no pillow) on a wood floor. They'd still wonder if you lived somewhere cold enough to need a blanket. One dress (jeans and a top is 2 things so can't do that) and a door key. But you have to consider whether their comments matter enough not to make those videos, or whether you can still make that content and ignore it. Those people won't stop so you can only think about how you can best act and react, to promote your own happiness.
True, that’s why I think I will just choose to not stop but limit how many of those types of videos I make. Also because I genuinely want to do some other minimalist content 😊
@@SagelifeMinimalism actually, you could forget the door key too. Just leave it unlocked as you'd be wearing the dress and there wouldn't be a blanket to steal. So that's 1 extra item to declutter, the key.
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Darling you have done nothing wrong. Forget those people u can't please everyone. Do what u do u do it good
Thank You very much 💚
@@SagelifeMinimalism your welcome love . Ur videos are great
Unfortunately and sadly I don't think you are alone in getting unkind comments to your content. I subscribe to several other channels who have the same issue. I am not sure what motivates these people to be so unkind. Please don't give up, there are very few true genuine minimalist channels like yours, so many people enjoy and look forward to your content.
On a lighter note, how did you keep the seagulls silent during this video ..
Thank You ☺️ I won’t give up. I’m in it for the long haul. Because it’s a passion… 😂 I don’t know about the seagulls. I thought the same. I think they either sensed my annoyance and stayed away 😂 or I have a new guard pigeon that makes them stay back 😂 or The babies are getting ready to leave the nests 🪺 so they’re starting to quieten abit 😂 I love them. But they are so noisy May to August 😂 September will be a return to quieter videos 😂 Thank You ☺️
I’m wondering if you’re not giving the haters what they wanted by showing that they got to you a little, but hopefully not as you mentioned they should declutter their hatred which hopefully gets to them in turn.
I’m sure I’m one of the people who are not subscribed and only watch whatever minimalism content of yours is suggested to them by the algorithm but it’s fine for me because watching the same person all the time would be annoying, I wanna keep up with other people as well and I hope that’s fine with you.
Well I did consider this myself too before doing the video. But really I wanted to address it, for anyone who was on the fence aswell. That may have been thinking 🤔 I really enjoy that channel but the ‘extreme minimalist’ content is over done. I definitely didn’t want anyone to think it was for any other reason than the pursuit of minimalism and creative video making. It’s ok because I’m brave enough to ‘feel’ and be vulnerable. I feel I’ve set the record straight and can move on. No comments will stop me making videos as the joy of others is greater than the few who hate. 😊 💚