The Psychology Of Hate - What Is Hatred & Why Do We Experience It?
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- Опубликовано: 26 янв 2025
- #Hatred is a concept widely studies in #psychology. Psychologists have tried to understand what drives our hatred and why certain group hate other groups. On this weeks episode of #GetPsyched, we are going to take a look at the psychology of hate. What happens to people that elicit hatred and where it might stem from.
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You have heard that it was said, ‘Love your neighbor and hate your enemy.’ But I tell you, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you, that you may be children of your Father in heaven. He causes his sun to rise on the evil and the good, and sends rain on the righteous and the unrighteous. If you love those who love you, what reward will you get? Are not even the tax collectors doing that? And if you greet only your own people, what are you doing more than others? Do not even pagans do that? Be perfect, therefore, as your heavenly Father is perfect.
_ Matthew 5: 43-48
I need help no one has been able to give.. I was born unable to hate, and I mean anyone. I have to be strong putting in boundaries, because, it doesn't matter what they do, who they are I don't feel hate. I can't even type it in to youtube, it doesn't come up. I'm 53, I realised this when I was 9. I don't want to change it, but boy is this world getting so much harder to live in 😑🥺❤❤❤.
I'm not sure what hatred is. All I know is that I sometimes feel that I want some or all others to cease existing,because I'm bitter inside.
You're not alone in that
But there I always wonder? There are people who deserve to cease existing? Would've been Hitler be one of them??
I experience hatred as the result of psychological abuse.
@@risingphoenix505 same and I can’t stop thinking about it!
It's important though to find the right thing to do. You have to find the right way to turn the situation into a worthy offering to God. Satanic pedo-vores want to take over the Earth. You have to find the right way to confront wrongdoing while you still can.
Man this is so good. I feel like this explains the root of mob mentality.
Hi Rochek! Really glad you like the video. I would totally agree with you. That sense of fear and group identity is well established in mob mentality I feel. Thanks again!
“ If you love those who love you, what reward will you get? Are not even the tax collectors doing that? 47 And if you greet only your own people, what are you doing more than others? Do not even pagans do that? “
_ Matthew 5: 46
@@elijahgreen2479 I like the reference but all these different versions...I was literally going to post "This is already covered in the Bible"
For me, I hate this one person. We use to be best friends, but she would always downplay my emotions and feelings. I was never allowed to say what I wanted to and she’d get mad when I would tell her how I feel. Eventually these built up into uncontrollable rage and mental instability.
do you talk now
Sounds like someone who was like a cousin to me. She has always acted better than me. Always treated me like crap. She took my sister away from me. She took my daughter away from me and now she had my daughter marry her son so her son wouldn’t have to pay college and she disowned my other daughter because she’s divorcing her nephew I mean this woman is a narcissist, manipulating BNshe gets everything that she wants like she’s got a nice house. She’s got nice cars she’s got all kinds of friends, but yet she’s the worst person in the world. I don’t understand how people want anything to do with her and this is why I have hatred towards her and I always will. Oh and her name is Karyn.
@@kristencampbell7993you made me laugh. Thanks for that.
My hate stems from being used and abused over and over again by someone that I love. All my relationships from childhood onwards were like pushing rocks up a hill. I began with hateful people and continued with hateful people. I kept forgiving and loving but now I'm done. I've wasted my life being loving to hate filled people and now I've become one of them. I'm raging and full of hate.
You have heard that it was said, ‘Love your neighbor and hate your enemy.’ But I tell you, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you, that you may be children of your Father in heaven. He causes his sun to rise on the evil and the good, and sends rain on the righteous and the unrighteous. If you love those who love you, what reward will you get? Are not even the tax collectors doing that? And if you greet only your own people, what are you doing more than others? Do not even pagans do that? Be perfect, therefore, as your heavenly Father is perfect.
_ Matthew 5: 43-48
Sorry pal :( your a great soul xo
Having hate is ok imo. Hatred is an imperfect emotion that is innate to all humans. Even more so to men, dk if u are or not but yh. U shld just learn to harness and control ur hatred. Either direct it at the people who wronged u or use it for good, i.e becoming a better person partly to spite those who wronged u.
Same here. For me sadly its my siblings. My older sister has always been mean, arrogant simply narcissistic. The middle sister bullied me all my childhood then she moved out to live with her boyfriend. When I reached adolescence, i had a heart full of hate and rage and I was ready to stand up for myself. She then came back to live with us and I was horrified but ready to even fight her physically for all the physical abuse she put me through. Well guess what? She came back all nice and doscil wanting to be my best friend only to benefit off of me in every which way shape and form. Im 35 now and It's been 3 years since I consider myself an orphan. I don't have any family. My biological mother is still very much alive, but she also is a narcissist. Im basically a scape goat. But I don't let anyone of them step over me or gaslight me anymore. Im done being nice and taken advantage of. F*k all of them. I hate them. Users and abusers is what they are.
@@vanessita4138 Relatable, only that I have one older brother and shitty mother.
I'm generally distrustful of "psychology research." It's odd to me that while no one bats an eye at "hating" certain foods or art styles or other animals, one particular kind of hatred--that of other humans--is so often portrayed as objectively wrong. I've read some psychologists argue that humans who hate dogs--a very popular animal in the West, at least--likely suffer from mental disorders. But interestingly, hating other animals that are no less sophisticated than dogs (like pigs...) doesn't earn the same social or professional condemnation. Seems to me that how much society values the thing being hated often determines whether hatred is a problem in psychology. If it's natural to hate, and it seems to be, then some people will just hate thing the rest of us don't.
Why do i cry after i stoped being angry
emotions can make us do interesting things
@@GetPsyched
Expanding on this question would be good topic for a future video.
Relief.
I don't know why he didn't answer you. Sadness and depression are the inverted form of anger.
Anger’s a safe secondary emotion. What was underneath finally came out. Probably hurt
hatred is often used by politicians as a tool to unify people and and gain power.
Very true
I'm a easy going person, not a mean bone in my body. I've learned many of life's lessons. I didn't just wake up and decide I hate people. It's people's actions that made me hate and for good reasons. I'll never forget and I'll never forgive.
You have heard that it was said, ‘Love your neighbor and hate your enemy.’ But I tell you, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you, that you may be children of your Father in heaven. He causes his sun to rise on the evil and the good, and sends rain on the righteous and the unrighteous. If you love those who love you, what reward will you get? Are not even the tax collectors doing that? And if you greet only your own people, what are you doing more than others? Do not even pagans do that? Be perfect, therefore, as your heavenly Father is perfect.
_ Matthew 5: 43-48
You just gave me a huge breakthrough man, thanks a million!!
You are so so wlecome
Hatred at least in my view as someone who experienced intense hatred is an intense form of passionate anger,
Often unfiltered and the reality of our initial feelings. I think the purpose is to push away the perceived threat that has utterly shattered your trust as a means of regaining control and a sense of self. Anger is often a response to a loss of control of your state of happiness or what you see as an important part of your life, hate is something personal and vicious partly due to fear of being hurt further when you’re deeply wounded towards the cause.
An example is I hate one of my longest-standing friends for committing an act of taking every fearful experience I had everything that hurt me, put it into one action despite being the one I trusted the most, someone I grew up with who knew exactly what my fears were. I hate them because my wound is fresh and deep, I hate them because they will never understand my trauma and thus don't understand how deeply hurt I really am they can only see the surface and think the pain is mutual and blame me. I can't forgive that though I hope one day I will, I ended the friendship walked away from that as I still care for them despite my intense hatred, I left them because neither of us deserves the toxic friendship it's turned into.
Now I use my energy from my hate towards exercise, creative outputs and hopefully that fuel will dim and I can move on but know that hate is there for a reason to teach a valuable lesson in moving on and accepting your feelings. The only thing I'd note is never take that anger and turn it into a weapon, use it constructively not to hurt yourself or others. Once the new year comes I aim to completely wipe my past and move onto something new.
Congratulations. Great expectation on the emotion.
You have heard that it was said, ‘Love your neighbor and hate your enemy.’ But I tell you, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you, that you may be children of your Father in heaven. He causes his sun to rise on the evil and the good, and sends rain on the righteous and the unrighteous. If you love those who love you, what reward will you get? Are not even the tax collectors doing that? And if you greet only your own people, what are you doing more than others? Do not even pagans do that? Be perfect, therefore, as your heavenly Father is perfect.
_ Matthew 5: 43-48
Nice explanation
I’m having a very difficult time getting over my hatred towards my ex girlfriend. She broke up with me on my birthday and then died in a car accident 2 weeks later. I found out she cheated on me for a year after she died. She was also extremely emotionally abusive.
It’s wild that the love I felt towards someone became just as strong as the hate I feel now.
I don’t want to feel this way anymore.
try to forgive her!
Breaking up on your birthday showed she enjoyed cruelty. Think of how good it is to be free of a cruel person. "Rejection is Gods protection." We pretty much all come accross bad people through life sometime. All those things she did, was her being cruel to give herself a buzz. Not someone you want to know. Focus on it being good to be free of a bad person.
You have heard that it was said, ‘Love your neighbor and hate your enemy.’ But I tell you, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you, that you may be children of your Father in heaven. He causes his sun to rise on the evil and the good, and sends rain on the righteous and the unrighteous. If you love those who love you, what reward will you get? Are not even the tax collectors doing that? And if you greet only your own people, what are you doing more than others? Do not even pagans do that? Be perfect, therefore, as your heavenly Father is perfect.
Matthew 5: 43-48
It’s good she’s no longer with you…or us.
I've found hatred is masking my grief at being used, abused and betrayed by my family.
Then I experienced deep shame at being "weak" which was how they made me feel. Sooner or later you'll get in touch with your inner stuff too.
Allow yourself to experience it fully and deeply. It helps shift the stuck energy.
Wishing you well. ❤️
People disliking this video is the greatest irony 😂
hahahaha
I can't believe i barely came across this video! I have a project that deals with the psychology of hate and this helped a ton with understanding and grasping the concept of it. Thank you so much and keep up the good work man! Instant subscribe.
I’m so delighted you enjoyed the video and got some real value from it. Thanks so much for your feedback and support and all the best for the future in your studies!
The best way to avoid hate is to understand how it is created in our minds. And your video helps a lot to create this awareness. 👌
some people hate happy people they cant stand seeing someone happy because it reminds you how your not happy
You have heard that it was said, ‘Love your neighbor and hate your enemy.’ But I tell you, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you, that you may be children of your Father in heaven. He causes his sun to rise on the evil and the good, and sends rain on the righteous and the unrighteous. If you love those who love you, what reward will you get? Are not even the tax collectors doing that? And if you greet only your own people, what are you doing more than others? Do not even pagans do that? Be perfect, therefore, as your heavenly Father is perfect.
_ Matthew 5: 43-48
Simply put; any time someone doesn't agree with our perspective is against us; therefore we have anger towards them!
It's amazing that those who act most hatefully and try and destroy you (family members) are the ones who profess to LOVE you.
Im a person that can easily hate another person when im angry,but i do only when he provoke me and claim something false against my opinion.Sometimes i feel hate like feeding to soul,i think i lost my logic i became a monster.
I think that’s a perfectly natural feeling and doesn’t make you a monster. The key is realizing that the level of passion and desire to hate is usually out of proportion to the threat they pose. The best thing to do is simply remove yourself or minimize contact. Likewise, also practice mindfulness and learn to realize when you feel anger coming on; in such cases it’s good to recognize your triggers and work to minimize them.
I am suffering from hatred and I know it is harming my own life. My sister-in-law (husband's sister) has been financially supported her entire life. Her parents pay for everything. She refuses to work and expects everyone to give her support whenever she needs it (financial or emotional). For many years, she was just that annoying family member that we avoided like the plague. Recently, we found out she was abusing her daughter. (I tried warning everyone but no one would listen until it the situation became very bad). My Husband and I took in our niece (we convinced her by telling her that she has too much on her plate and that she needs to focus on herself - not her child. She agreed and let us take full responsibility of kid). I, now, feel like my SIL has a rope around my neck. I have grown to love her daughter as my own. She will constantly use our love for her daughter as a weapon to control us. "Well, if you don't do this then I will just take my daughter back." I literally hate this woman. Once my niece is 18, this woman will be dead to me. The issue is I have many years to go and I am miserable. Am I afraid of my SIL? Yes. My Dad was a malignant narcissist and I feared his outbursts and rage. My SIL has the same issue. She has "rage blackouts." I feel like, deep down, I hate her because I fear what she will do to me..... and I fear that I won't be strong enough to protect myself because I am weak. I was a doormat for many years and my defense was always to just kick these people out of my life. Problem solves. However, this is the one situation where I can't do that. If I am mean to my SIL, she will take back her daughter and she will suffer. (and yes, I contacted CPS). They said it was "good ol' fashioned bad parenting" but until she has evidence of physical or sexual violence, they couldn't open a case. I feel so trapped and angry.
this video is awesome! I'm suprised that you don't have a lot of subs!
thanks so much, that’s really kind of you. We are trying to grow everyday 👍🏻😊
Quality coverage of the subject matter...
One realization that I just had thanks to you, your efforts to educate, is that many practicing psychologists or those in school for it and a wide array of other authoritarian positions thereof of which are applicable to cognition, experience hatred towards me because I figured all of this out without School and I'm better at it than the majority of people who have phds that I run into and they hate me for the same reasons that nationalists hate immigrants, the fear that I might be better than them at their jobs and of course economic bias is attached to our biological survival and our R-complex...
these so-called professionals display their hatred in the form of hasty generalization logical fallacy leading to ad hominem red herring rabbit holes of deflectionary modality and project all the fears of their own insecurities onto me or apply some sort of false analogy logical fallacy in relation to some hate Trend vocabulary like "armchair theorist"... Usually without a word, the hatred is expressed through avoidance of speaking with me or observing my work in order to find out how very fucking wrong they are about a great many things and that they lack logic and wisdom but hey, they got a PhD so they're the experts, right? As if all knowledge only originates from a textbook? Fucking asinine. And of course hate breeds hate and as I get no respect from the intellectual community and no support or protection from abuse, no economic support and I'm trivialize and ignored and Shadow banned by the likes of RUclips, further hatred because of "me" being different or my inability to conform to the unrealistic expectations of the delusional majority with their subjective, arbitrary, opinionated definition of what is socially acceptable or "normal"...
And of course almost all of this is rooted in the m8 structure of the perceptual Paradigm of excessive individualism of which is dreadfully overly simplistic and scientifically illiteracy or myopic perspectives are required to think is more reasonable and applicable than it actually is...
so in an attempt to distract their Petty sense of self and their sense of self-worth or identity thereof, or Economic security or social survival and an attempt to secure a mate there of oh, they will destroy the most intelligent people alive through a slow torturous process of hate fueled, ignorant abuse in the form of social, psychological and economic terrorism, but it's subtle but it is still terroristic to ostracize someone, to enable the majority to vilify them further etc.
now bring that to your Collegiate environment and all of you can put that in your pipe and smoke it then you can actually shut the fuck up with your mentally lazy bulshit and go watch my content and accept the fact that some people don't need school as much as others do and there are tremendous failures to curriculum in regards to the removal of logical fallacy and cognitive bias as a Paramount prerogative.
Yes, I cuss and I am annoyed and justifiably so but not as much emotional intensity is attached to my cussing as the majority usually perceive to be attached to it and then label me as some irrational fanatic or whatever serves their dumb fuck bias so they don't have to have their existential crisis or face their insecurities, grow up from a universal perspective, put down their scissors and take off the fucking blindfold.
Heh heh heh... echo echo echo echo echo as I scream into the void my pointless existence and hasten my entropic demise. Yee haw! I say as I ride the beast of entropy as it applies to our burning of so-called modern civilized society to the ground. LMAO #fuckmylife
My first cousin abused me and i cannot stop hating him. I hate him with a passion.
I was looking and trying to understand why I was moving away from metal music festivals, now I get it fully. Alot of the metal music artists I really liked listening to years ago I've met in person but without talking to each other I felt their hatred. It was very obvious. After I learned about narcissism/NPD, I understand more why people hate. It's actually about themselves. I understand also why so many hateful people are there, they are attracted to the whole hate element in metal etc, because thats what they feel in themselves. You have to face your fears as you say, ironicly narcissists want to control those they fear, so they never resolve it.
I experience hatred as so much more.
It's a powerful powerful energy. Not depressing, not anxious, not debilitating...its almost the opposite of these... just raw and robust.
I’m happy I watched this cause sometimes I just randomly hate ppl
You have heard that it was said, ‘Love your neighbor and hate your enemy.’ But I tell you, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you, that you may be children of your Father in heaven. He causes his sun to rise on the evil and the good, and sends rain on the righteous and the unrighteous. If you love those who love you, what reward will you get? Are not even the tax collectors doing that? And if you greet only your own people, what are you doing more than others? Do not even pagans do that? Be perfect, therefore, as your heavenly Father is perfect.
Matthew 5: 43-48
What I got from this is that it comes from the perception of there being a threat; whether it's a real threat or not.
So people might sometimes put things that are different under that category
Hatred is like darkness
Can you please do a video on stalking on social media and hatred?
That actually could be a very interesting topic.
I was raised in hate. Now I just want to share love & tolerance of others
You have heard that it was said, ‘Love your neighbor and hate your enemy.’ But I tell you, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you, that you may be children of your Father in heaven. He causes his sun to rise on the evil and the good, and sends rain on the righteous and the unrighteous. If you love those who love you, what reward will you get? Are not even the tax collectors doing that? And if you greet only your own people, what are you doing more than others? Do not even pagans do that? Be perfect, therefore, as your heavenly Father is perfect.
_ Matthew 5: 43-48
Depends what you mean by "tolerance"?
What about the reverse. Can one hate the group for it stripping away the individual's identity?
I think thats a really interesting point, worth researching more on i think
Oy vey
Hatred destroys the hater, not the hated. I have a saying...If someone dislikes me..for whatever the reason, real or imagined. Not my problem.
Or simply you can say people hate because others are not like what and how they want them to be.
Ah sweet sweet hatred, just what I'm used to. Makes me feel more at home than the illusion of love. Hatred from the good, hatred from the bad, makes you holy, makes you distinguished, makes everyone else die spiritually, as you never will. Makes you understand human nature, and you can't fear what's understood. Makes you realize that everyone is truly the same, deep down they all want you to fall, though they speak words otherwise. And knowing this makes you appreciate just how fair things really are. Hatred of the best makes them all slaves of the worst, by their own free will. All kinds are this way, power to the worst, nothing to the best. You get to go free, no connection to anything, no wants or cares, nirvana.
Can you answer this, why would higher achievers hate on people that take longer to learn / achieve things in life? They have no reason at all to be jealous, nor does a person with learning difficulty or even just delayed learning due to delayed education, have anything they need to be jealous over, but they still hate on those people.
There's only one hate in this world, it boils within. Clean yourself of hate and you remove it from the world
When it comes to hatred I must be an anomaly. Sports is too trivial to incite hate in me. I may not particularly like athletes but just competing against others isn't reason for me to hate. I don't hate very many people at all but the ones I do hate have this in common: they all have focused negative energy at me in some way. The person I hate most is a person that usually should be trusted but betrayed me.
Then your hate is rooted in fear. You’re afraid of being wrong again. You created an idea of someone and they shattered that idea by betraying you which now makes you not trust your judgement. But if you understand that they’re actions were based on how they perceive the world and they’re ability to love and be honourable which varies with each person depending on they’re upbringing, they’re life experiences and they’re motivations but not because you are lesser than or deserve to be betrayed or dumb. It’s harder to look at people who hurt others as people who lack the ability to love therefore, actually feel sorry for them and understand that it’s not our fault these people hurt us, however it’s easier to hate these people instead because that allows us to protect ourselves and shield ourselves from trusting again and risk being betrayed/hurt again
I am highly interested in Psychology,Psychiatry & Neuroscience 🧠! So According to you hatred comes from fear 😨 of that thing/person! But I think hatred also arises after disrespect ,contempt ! Fear of Losing our interest, benefit etc!
I want you to ask a question ❓please answer! why we are tend to support our caste(community) here in India even when they are not providing any benefit to me ! Due to being forward caste I have to face so much hardship in getting my Medical College or a Good Job in this Country & my caste people don't support me but they are jealous of me ,they ignore me which make me so angry 😡 & hateful ! I want to hate them & completely avoid them but I am unable to do so !
You have heard that it was said, ‘Love your neighbor and hate your enemy.’ But I tell you, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you, that you may be children of your Father in heaven. He causes his sun to rise on the evil and the good, and sends rain on the righteous and the unrighteous. If you love those who love you, what reward will you get? Are not even the tax collectors doing that? And if you greet only your own people, what are you doing more than others? Do not even pagans do that? Be perfect, therefore, as your heavenly Father is perfect.
_ Matthew 5: 43-48
All hatred stems from jealousy whether adverdantly or inadvertently.
I feel like your points are more about un liking someone rather than hate. Hate is murder and torture, stealing lying to/about a person or group of people
You have heard that it was said, ‘Love your neighbor and hate your enemy.’ But I tell you, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you, that you may be children of your Father in heaven. He causes his sun to rise on the evil and the good, and sends rain on the righteous and the unrighteous. If you love those who love you, what reward will you get? Are not even the tax collectors doing that? And if you greet only your own people, what are you doing more than others? Do not even pagans do that? Be perfect, therefore, as your heavenly Father is perfect.
Matthew 5: 43-48
great informative material, thank you very much for creating it.
You are very welcome. Delighted you enjoyed it!
I think you are doing very important thing for us, making a education video on such crucial and fundamental core properties of humans, and not another useless entertainment stuff. Pity people do not dig deeper in that direction. Looking forward for more videos. Hands down
KingZuluKing thanks so much
I’m afraid of hurting other people.
What if someone has actually hurt you or betrayed your trust and you feel hatred towards them? Those reasons weren’t covered.
do you have a book recommendation for hate?
What if a person only feels hate?
Then the problem is theirs and theirs alone. It will lead to an unhappy life and can destroy them.
@@jackcumming3663 or they could do something positive with that negative energy, like destroying others.
@@volkoff6357 how about I destroy you
it is beautiful to hear you talking, thank you
How do you stop hating a man who raped you, used you, lied to you, cheated on you and then left you?
Made you waste the youngest years of your life, then 2 years of psychoterapy, 3rd year of antidepressants.
I hate everything in this
Seek therapy
Get help
"Shit happens" to many of us at sometime in life. It pays to take the attitude that you are glad to be free of that toxicity. In every life some rain will fall. Its about acceptance that shit happened to you and that you want to step away from it. Dont waste time on wanting justice. Use your focus on loving and improving you.
people who live in their egoes have a lot to learn
Yes, Hate is learned, and compassion too... But why do they teach only 'hate' and not 'compassion ...'
Because those who only hate are actually the weak. They are hiding their true selves with a false self, which is a scared trauma child. They dont want anybody to know this, so they use their self-hatred to PROJECT it onto others. "I feel like a loser" ---> "Hey you, stranger, youre a loser!"
hate is powerless anger
Actually hate is preventing you from beingl like someone you hate.Definition of hate is when you want something or someone to get hurt.Furthermore only idiots fear someone else then God.
Honestly, the reasons I do hate some other people sometimes:
1. Unwanted Abuse
2. Unlawful Cruelity
3. Constant insults
4. Totally Ignoramus
5. Constant Selfish - Other people care about something they want, but they don't care about something I want
6. Being Unreasonable
7. Totally Horrid
8. Being overly accused & judgemental (especially without any reasons)
9. Being either exploited or taken advantage of, which would lead me to be set up & cause lots of suffering or reget
10. Living in the life of constant lies & injustices
11. Unwanted Sexual harassments
12. Constant suffering & Oppression
13. Totally being unfair & and disrespectful - Yes,
Wallahi!.
Nowadays someone will call you a “hater” but that’s not the case for me. I truly hate a person within the very depths of my soul and they deserve it. I don’t waste my time “hating” on anything they do, I no longer care, it’s just that as a person, I hate them and everything they stand for. Thinking about it, I’m glad I don’t have to see their pathetic face again in life, that job can be someone else’s, I’m learning to be thankful for that.
(FACTS OVA FEELINGS). Hatred is Neva Appeased by Hatered in this Whrild by Non-Hatered Alone is Hatered Appeased this is a Law Enternal
It depends on each person some babies seem to born with a hate inside , mental health is one thing at the same time a decision to hate is something else
It’s not my nature to experience this very often but I don’t want to allow psychopaths or narcissistic people in my life anymore because they cause grave harm to people that are usually very accepting of them.
And I don’t think people have to sacrifice anything for success. Where did you hear that??
Are you saying my haters love meeeeee!!!! ❤️ awww I had a feeling!
You have heard that it was said, ‘Love your neighbor and hate your enemy.’ But I tell you, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you, that you may be children of your Father in heaven. He causes his sun to rise on the evil and the good, and sends rain on the righteous and the unrighteous. If you love those who love you, what reward will you get? Are not even the tax collectors doing that? And if you greet only your own people, what are you doing more than others? Do not even pagans do that? Be perfect, therefore, as your heavenly Father is perfect.
_ Matthew 5: 43-48
Yes. They abused you out of love! 😄
"Hate on" is bad English. You can't "hate on" someone unless you've mounted them somehow.
Seriously...I don't think mere aversion to someone who is "different" amounts to hatred. As a child, I didn't like clowns. I recoiled from the "different" way they looked. But I didn't become a serial murderer slaughtering anyone I saw wearing a clown costume. It was passive prejudice at the worst.
As I've gotten older, I've found that I tend to feel the most intense anger not toward strangers, but toward people to whom I am close or at least to whom I feel spiritually bonded. I've heard it said that hate is really just heartbroken love turned rabid, and I agree. Whenever someone I care about disappoints or "betrays" me in some way, I can feel hatred growing within me. But I still feel love for the person; it's just that I hate the "monster" they have "become." To me, they are no longer really themselves.
I was intellectually gifted super over average and became a high achiever. I became hated and they deliberately tried to destroy me with drugs. I'm alive and pretty well. I plan to study again and be able to do things geniuses and brilliant people did. I illustrated light waves in 7th grade. Also in 7th grade create two calculus experiments. I was so intelligent by 9th grade i could date my teachers and anyone i wanted. Including my friends , neighbors, and in my community. Girls my and own age and older age. Etc.
Im doing a greater study on anger ,hate which is a word , which we use to try and express our thought about this emotion is hard to pin point it’s cause, which has many.
I believe you were closest to the root with something other than us evokes survival instincts. Difference is the key word. As far as nationalism, again different is the key, language is what forms separate groups even societies. We generally don’t like when someone can’t understand us or vice versa. We don’t even like others when they sound different yet speak same language, dialects. There is an inner survival instinct, fear of germs that triggers defensive postures,yet we are unaware of this. Anything different can kill us in other wards. Not true , but it’s a deep psychological instinct. Ever hear why not try something new and different?
This shouldn’t even be a thing…
I'm pretty sure hate is an inevitable vicious circle. Difference to other groups = fear since one does not understand it, fear = aggression towards said group, aggression = hate, vice versa for the targeted groups.
Typical example = morals in Islam and western culture are two extremly polarized groups. The first Liberal and loose, the other Conservative and restricted. It's quite obvious that hate and fear will be present as long as the two worlds collide
Love each other as brothers and sisters
So good. Make more please. Very helpful
Thanks so much, we have loads more on GetPsyched, make sure to check them out
You hate someone because they could find a way to do something you want. And you didn't.
That’s generalizing not everyone is like that
not really.
Is envy and jealousy a kind of hate ?
I have hate it doesn't consume me understand that, its useful keeps people away I don't want around because of actions towards me or family, I hate them because I can it's my rights as being human .Its my fuel man
Yes I agree. In extreme levels there is a link with phobias with manifestations, or colonisation in racism, and with homophobia is stem "homofemii" and more a power. It depends what that hate is based on. We naturally identify with group traits, and if we don't have the right knowledge, or limited knowledge of other groups then we are likely to stereotype (it helps to have a basic understanding of diversities). That itself isn't bad (if its being accused of racism or homophobia), mainly because the information at hand. It's more political in today's climate, and its a mix of false and fact information. In my own personal word, it's more challenging and I agree to have compassion for yourself. I mean to say, depending where you live its more "in your face" as it about rights and equality. Thanks for the video and appreciate the information there. ❤
"phobia" is very different from hatred. "phobia" literally means irrational fear. Nobody who would hate these groups of people you name is because of fear.
@amberslahlize7961 Yes, thanks for sharing that. The examples I have encountered show both phobia and hate. The two can be irrational aswel. But both of these are not mental health issues, more disorder.
I've never seen irrational hate, not when applied to this subject anyways. I think you're confusing "hate" with disgust.@@christopherwinstanley1348
@amberslahlize7961 I'm not confused with disgust. The topic of the video is on the psychology of hate, in grouping and outcasting in society. Although, hate and fear are negative they are emotion the same as other emotions. I'm not confused about anything with disgust. An example: I was assigned as a health worker to a client back in the 1990s. This client had been influenced with Hitlers youth and was extreme. At most times deeply offensive, but also violent. It may seem like privilege treatment to everyone else but this person got everything they wanted because they constantly complain without any validation. There would be no credibility in their complaints only disgust. At most times deeply offensive when expressing themselves, but its a characteristic and they can express that to a degree. This person got the room they wanted that didn't have any visibility on the other clients, was seen only with professional that they wouldn't hurl abuse. It was difficult to contain that and didn't stop them from shouting abuse and accusations from the window and constantly complaining to the authorities. Hate is not one driving force, there are other negative emotions in that extreme hate. The end that kind of trigger comes to isolation. It's not really targeted at a particular group, it will be everyone that is not in their identity. This is extreme, and it's irrational depending on the perception. It's not a mental illness. I said disorder because it can lead to other things, the best way to contain this is for expression in a none aggressive manner.
People who oppose this subject do so without being aggressive all the time. They often will say things like "I believe it is sin", which isn't aggressive.
I think you might be feeling aggression to people who have a different opinion from you on this subject.
The person in your story is ungrateful, not disgusted. I think ungrateful people are hateful.
I think what you're trying to say is there are lots of factors to hate. I would agree with you. Jealousy is also a degree of hatred, and it's controversial, but I believe love is also a factor.@@christopherwinstanley1348
Outstanding!!!!
hahaha thanks so much
That is very true. Accept yourself. Both good and bad
How can I add French subtitles please ?
Since August third nineteen nineteyeight they have shown me only hatred anger and injustice towards me.but have no intentions to stop nor release they grip on me and what I do for they all as a civilization.no hope .
❤️🧡💛💚💙💜 we are all the same person, living life in a bunch of different bodies!! Which means that... Every person that you meet...is really just YOU.... LIVING IN ANOTHER BODY!!! You see...you are INTERACTING with YOURSELF at ALL TIMES! & Once you understand this...you understand UNITY!
Hippie nonsense
You have heard that it was said, ‘Love your neighbor and hate your enemy.’ But I tell you, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you, that you may be children of your Father in heaven. He causes his sun to rise on the evil and the good, and sends rain on the righteous and the unrighteous. If you love those who love you, what reward will you get? Are not even the tax collectors doing that? And if you greet only your own people, what are you doing more than others? Do not even pagans do that? Be perfect, therefore, as your heavenly Father is perfect.
_ Matthew 5: 43-48
My last job was mostly hispanics. I was not a supervisor. I would of rejected the position just to stay humble. Where I work now is mostly asian. If I was hateful I wouldn't of lasted my former job.
precious content bro
I...I just want the world to stop hating. It’s not realistic I know. But I’d be lying if I said it wasn’t my greatest wish. I’m only 21. My perspective still needs to grow, but that fact does not sway my thoughts. To anyone who reads this, especially my generation, can we do our best to let our pain, our hate, our traumas, our disputes...die with us? Can we pass down the growth instead? Kids born into the world don’t deserve the baggage of it’s mistakes. Can we try to lessen the burden? Please? We can’t keep doing this. We’ve been doing it since humanity existed. Passing on our prejudices, traumas, and grievances while expecting the next generation with their “greater resources” to tend to the wounds. That shouldn’t be their job to do alone. No one asked to be born, but for those that are here today, I beg of you one more time. Let the hate die with us. Let it die, so they can live.
You have heard that it was said, ‘Love your neighbor and hate your enemy.’ But I tell you, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you, that you may be children of your Father in heaven. He causes his sun to rise on the evil and the good, and sends rain on the righteous and the unrighteous. If you love those who love you, what reward will you get? Are not even the tax collectors doing that? And if you greet only your own people, what are you doing more than others? Do not even pagans do that? Be perfect, therefore, as your heavenly Father is perfect.
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This is who I am, full of hatred. 99% is hatred.
You have heard that it was said, ‘Love your neighbor and hate your enemy.’ But I tell you, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you, that you may be children of your Father in heaven. He causes his sun to rise on the evil and the good, and sends rain on the righteous and the unrighteous. If you love those who love you, what reward will you get? Are not even the tax collectors doing that? And if you greet only your own people, what are you doing more than others? Do not even pagans do that? Be perfect, therefore, as your heavenly Father is perfect.
Matthew 5: 43-48
Scottish people like Myself experience hate quite a lot! It's not a good feeling, I tell You...
Your very smart information intelligence is awesome waow thanks I learn something about it thanks so much thanks again your smart smart man!
Short, informative, unbelievably helpful.
Thanks
I think this video was so bad. You just projected your own feelings. We hate people who abused us in any condition. But since hate doesn’t work and just increases blood pressure, I personally have ways to address
It
Hate is my comfort feeling
You have heard that it was said, ‘Love your neighbor and hate your enemy.’ But I tell you, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you, that you may be children of your Father in heaven. He causes his sun to rise on the evil and the good, and sends rain on the righteous and the unrighteous. If you love those who love you, what reward will you get? Are not even the tax collectors doing that? And if you greet only your own people, what are you doing more than others? Do not even pagans do that? Be perfect, therefore, as your heavenly Father is perfect.
_ Matthew 5: 43-48
How do you beat it
You have heard that it was said, ‘Love your neighbor and hate your enemy.’ But I tell you, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you, that you may be children of your Father in heaven. He causes his sun to rise on the evil and the good, and sends rain on the righteous and the unrighteous. If you love those who love you, what reward will you get? Are not even the tax collectors doing that? And if you greet only your own people, what are you doing more than others? Do not even pagans do that? Be perfect, therefore, as your heavenly Father is perfect.
_ Matthew 5: 43-48
Um no ,people hate because putting others down lifts rhem
When women hate me, i am good (women hates honesty...and themselves).
When enemies hate me, i am real.
When friends hate me, they are enemies(pretending to be friends).
My racial-group begets jealousy across the world
My dialect group begets jealousy from chinese
My religion begets hatred from everyone else
My abilities and knowledge begets jealousy and hatred from most people
Calculate my position relative to the world
@jazr3232 i am god
Hear ye, hear ye, the most blamed sentient-being around is ... ... god. Trust some parrot to tell me that
If you know what you had been doing to god, then you will understand the feeling of being SMITE.!
Blame, Malign, Lie, Bargain, Argue, Insult his intelligience, Blaspheme, Discredit, Misinformation, Schism, Treat him like your servant, Take him for an idiot, Play him for a fool, ... ... you religions and countries have it coming. Just wait for it...
The fear about immigrants, to use your example, is real, just ask the native Americans. It’s not ALL irrational projection.
@Andorian Nationalist absolutely right.
Busted lmao
Everyone needs someone to love. Everyone needs someone to hate. It is like a cat instinctively batting way at any moving object, with its claws. Hatred exists for the same reason that the shark has its teeth, or the skunk has its bad smell. It is a product of brutish Darwinian evolution, in an indifferent universe that has no real plan to nurture living things
You mentioned _nothing_ about hatred for DEEDS. Such as 'The shedding of innocent blood' ...yea God hates that one the most. Hatred of warmongering, pedophiles, hatred of evil. You're darn right we should fear those things! ''Love the sinner, Hate the sin'' ~ Jesus
Can't you make a video about how to gain hatred
You have heard that it was said, ‘Love your neighbor and hate your enemy.’ But I tell you, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you, that you may be children of your Father in heaven. He causes his sun to rise on the evil and the good, and sends rain on the righteous and the unrighteous. If you love those who love you, what reward will you get? Are not even the tax collectors doing that? And if you greet only your own people, what are you doing more than others? Do not even pagans do that? Be perfect, therefore, as your heavenly Father is perfect.
_ Matthew 5: 43-48
🌍 It is very much known that most of the psychological personality is formed by the age of 9. The identity is formed and developed in time of course socially and beyond… yet it really isn’t to the individual. In most people often cling to their in groups many reject them or are turned into something else all together by abuse. The personality disorders and mental health conditions that arise can be staggering and complicated surrounding identity. Globalization has torn away at in groups. As societies mix and become more connected by tech and travel the endless warring has changed. Medieval structures still play out in many personalities in the world as people are to weak to evolve and go darker. Yet mankind has evolved from that legally/ ethically despite the use of group pressures. Fear in identity (the fuel of much of this) certainly is changing as we move into a collective survival of climate changes, bizarre world order tech and endless self development pressures and goals. 🌎
You have heard that it was said, ‘Love your neighbor and hate your enemy.’ But I tell you, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you, that you may be children of your Father in heaven. He causes his sun to rise on the evil and the good, and sends rain on the righteous and the unrighteous. If you love those who love you, what reward will you get? Are not even the tax collectors doing that? And if you greet only your own people, what are you doing more than others? Do not even pagans do that? Be perfect, therefore, as your heavenly Father is perfect.
_ Matthew 5: 43-48
@Еламан Казбеков this video could help you, it'll assist your transition from hater to influencer.
That's not real hatred. Its today's society everyday hatred. But I like the video.
You have heard that it was said, ‘Love your neighbor and hate your enemy.’ But I tell you, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you, that you may be children of your Father in heaven. He causes his sun to rise on the evil and the good, and sends rain on the righteous and the unrighteous. If you love those who love you, what reward will you get? Are not even the tax collectors doing that? And if you greet only your own people, what are you doing more than others? Do not even pagans do that? Be perfect, therefore, as your heavenly Father is perfect.
_ Matthew 5: 43-48
I dislike people who give me advice even if he/she is anyone
🔐 Thank you. Your perspective has just helped me to learn something new. That fact makes my entire day worthwhile.
You have heard that it was said, ‘Love your neighbor and hate your enemy.’ But I tell you, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you, that you may be children of your Father in heaven. He causes his sun to rise on the evil and the good, and sends rain on the righteous and the unrighteous. If you love those who love you, what reward will you get? Are not even the tax collectors doing that? And if you greet only your own people, what are you doing more than others? Do not even pagans do that? Be perfect, therefore, as your heavenly Father is perfect.
_ Matthew 5: 43-48
Thank you
1.) I hate my phone. I want to smash the blasted thing with a brick.. I can't destroy it though because I cannot afford a better one.
2.) I hate the people who made my phone. They fucked up twice with me. They should be testing their stuff before they sell it but I guess that wouldn't help them steal money from people.
3.) I hate the fact that this is the second faulty phone they have given me. This phone was meant to replace the bad one they sold to me that I spent years trying to get them to fix. They won't and could not care less about the problems it causes in my life or that they ripped me off twice now. It has been an even longer struggle trying to make them fix the one I have now. They just keep me going in circles. I don't fear them, I want them to suffer some karma and be forced to stop selling bad products. By the way, the problem with the phone(s) is that it doesn't work outside the house and cannot make phone calls. A lot of the times it ignores my poking at what I want it to do. At first I thought it was the game I was playing but then it was all the games had this issue so I am pretty sure it has to do with the phone itself being as incompetent as the people who made the damn thing. Explain that one, Hatred Expert. >_>
Which phone are you using!?
Get in touch with some kind of Consumer Affairs in your country. (I dont think there is a cost,) especually if you want out if a contract.
I had a phone like that, and I just took the loss and got out. (Had to pay quite high exit fee) Then went to a reputable phone company and got a free phone with a 2 year contract. Cutting your loss is less stressful.
AWESOME.
THANKS SO MUCH!!!!!!!!!
some people are seeking for being hatred.
In my opinion they just want to kill but can't because of legal consequences. For example, know you have an allergy but try to expose you to an allergen. Or know you have an ill heart an expose you to what provokes it. Unnoticed but really criminal.
For example your mother purposefully exposes you to your allergen and beats, your coworkers put you in a room near smoking area while you have Princemetal stenocardia, bypassers beat your spine when it hurts, that's hatred.
And you can't prove any of this because of all ccyour acquinances mutual cover-ups. And you are alone. What would you do? Ah?
That's SS in action
Thank u so much 🙏
You are very very welcome
The world and all of it's people hate me.
Well I think most of the people in the world don't know you neither you know them. So let's expect that there are so many people who are actually good and will love you. I actually didn't want to bother you or something. I am very introverted person so I don't comment or reply very often but I just felt your comment so I did. Don't mind me.
There's a reason for that
@@Mr_Mistah Because I'm special
@@loveyourself7272 I'm introverted to
I smile, say hi and make them feel like the best person in the room but avoid being around them at all times. It's the biggest mind f*ck reverse psychology EVER! I don't bother being friends with insecure people and boy there are tons of them out there.
This is so off. And I wanna ask a question if i can.
I've been told by people I'm a ''hater''. The reason is I'm very passionate when I speak about things that I believe are wrong. For example, I dislike people who the world rewards with millions when they are factually doing nothing to earn them in the context of such disastrous wealth distribution. And no. It's not ''envy''. I hate my city for being lazy at fixing it's infrastructure, cleaning, offering culture when it's factual that there's more than enough money to address all that. I hate that people are so pusillanimous and conformist about their realities and mask their mediocrity behind ''being positive''. I hate that living abroad is such a complicated thing to do specially when you're well over your late 30's. I hate feminists because they're making women's lives harder and men's also in the process. I hate the ridiculous social conventions that have proved not to work like school and work(as we know it today). Etc etc etc. A huge list of things.
Yes, I use the word hate lightly and often. Does that mean I'm a ''hater''? It just seems to be a lazy way of trying to shut down a person with an opinion based on facts and not just subjectivity and bias. And I AM filled with a certain desperation when I think or address these subjects but it's certainly not hate.
You have heard that it was said, ‘Love your neighbor and hate your enemy.’ But I tell you, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you, that you may be children of your Father in heaven. He causes his sun to rise on the evil and the good, and sends rain on the righteous and the unrighteous. If you love those who love you, what reward will you get? Are not even the tax collectors doing that? And if you greet only your own people, what are you doing more than others? Do not even pagans do that? Be perfect, therefore, as your heavenly Father is perfect.
_ Matthew 5: 43-48
If you start from lower level it will become Theory else it will only be an example.simplify your true feelings
You have heard that it was said, ‘Love your neighbor and hate your enemy.’ But I tell you, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you, that you may be children of your Father in heaven. He causes his sun to rise on the evil and the good, and sends rain on the righteous and the unrighteous. If you love those who love you, what reward will you get? Are not even the tax collectors doing that? And if you greet only your own people, what are you doing more than others? Do not even pagans do that? Be perfect, therefore, as your heavenly Father is perfect.
_ Matthew 5: 43-48