She's basically a thoughtful girl, but slowly getting mold into a people pleaser.🥺 In fact now I'm thinking about it, when she get to Japan for her dreams, she have to start everything all over again. Alone. This explains why her masking skill is really good. Well her jobs also required her to do it, so.... Be happy❤ be happy❤ be happy❤, blue woman.
Being a people pleaser is hard. The balance is learning in how to not make it detrimental to yourself. It does suck though that when its your turn the favor never seems to be returned or the "rules" are not enforced equally. I recently went to a wedding of a family friend and my coworkers were there (long story). I am not a wedding type of person; I showed up for support but being there doesn't really do anything for me personally. So instead, I just made sure everyone at my table of 14 was having a good time; getting them drinks, snacks, sharing funny stories between family and coworkers, handing out sunscreen and jackets. Hell, I even cleaned the bathroom at one point (it was one of those fancy mobile bathrooms) because I didn't want it to reflect poorly on the bride. Ultimately, everyone else had a good time, and I guess that kind of made me happy.
They should've paid you for that crap. I usually try to get water & supplies while I'm on break. Whst you is nice, but if they asked you to do all that, but if I was gonna go thst far, then I'd expect to be paid. Be careful that someone doesn't come in to take advantage of your kindnees.
@@MrRAGE-md5rj I mean, the event was catered so the food and drinks were free. The bride was also the one who got me my job. Only time I would try this hard is a wedding. Would put my foot down if at a friend's house and their bathroom was getting raunchy; I ain't that nice.
My mom and I got into an argument about parties before and how we were gonna go out with mom dad grandma grandpa brother sister and I asked if they would consider not drinking that day cuz they get a bit loud and I wanted to be considerate of the other people around so we dont ruin their night cuz its a public space, shouldnt be loud. She got mad cuz I simply wanted to just ask the others guests if it was okay with them, if they said no then it was no and my mom was all "The parties are for the other people who are going" and Im all "No its not?? Its celebrating ME, thats the who point of a birthday, celebrating my next year in life." I would understand if it was a regular party but no it was my birthday, we were going out to celebrate MY day but she doesnt agree so we didnt go out that year
I stay way too busy at parties. I love to cook for people, dish out drinks, and keep things moving smoothly. I spend my time running around and I do have my fun and am usually hammered by nights end, but have a bad habit of playing host. Someone has to do it though.
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Parents approaching Clara like, "Hey you, I want to make you my daughter. I'll trade you my son."
She's basically a thoughtful girl, but slowly getting mold into a people pleaser.🥺
In fact now I'm thinking about it, when she get to Japan for her dreams, she have to start everything all over again. Alone.
This explains why her masking skill is really good. Well her jobs also required her to do it, so....
Be happy❤ be happy❤ be happy❤, blue woman.
Masking skill?
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Being a people pleaser is hard. The balance is learning in how to not make it detrimental to yourself. It does suck though that when its your turn the favor never seems to be returned or the "rules" are not enforced equally.
I recently went to a wedding of a family friend and my coworkers were there (long story). I am not a wedding type of person; I showed up for support but being there doesn't really do anything for me personally. So instead, I just made sure everyone at my table of 14 was having a good time; getting them drinks, snacks, sharing funny stories between family and coworkers, handing out sunscreen and jackets. Hell, I even cleaned the bathroom at one point (it was one of those fancy mobile bathrooms) because I didn't want it to reflect poorly on the bride. Ultimately, everyone else had a good time, and I guess that kind of made me happy.
They should've paid you for that crap. I usually try to get water & supplies while I'm on break. Whst you is nice, but if they asked you to do all that, but if I was gonna go thst far, then I'd expect to be paid. Be careful that someone doesn't come in to take advantage of your kindnees.
@@MrRAGE-md5rj I mean, the event was catered so the food and drinks were free. The bride was also the one who got me my job. Only time I would try this hard is a wedding. Would put my foot down if at a friend's house and their bathroom was getting raunchy; I ain't that nice.
I'm sorry what? This sounds closer to being an utter doormat rather than being a people pleaser.
There a fine line between being nice and being taken advantage of.
My mom and I got into an argument about parties before and how we were gonna go out with mom dad grandma grandpa brother sister and I asked if they would consider not drinking that day cuz they get a bit loud and I wanted to be considerate of the other people around so we dont ruin their night cuz its a public space, shouldnt be loud. She got mad cuz I simply wanted to just ask the others guests if it was okay with them, if they said no then it was no and my mom was all "The parties are for the other people who are going" and Im all "No its not?? Its celebrating ME, thats the who point of a birthday, celebrating my next year in life." I would understand if it was a regular party but no it was my birthday, we were going out to celebrate MY day but she doesnt agree so we didnt go out that year
Poor UAP 😢
Those parents gave good taste, at least
...Fine, I'll get the horns.
I stay way too busy at parties. I love to cook for people, dish out drinks, and keep things moving smoothly. I spend my time running around and I do have my fun and am usually hammered by nights end, but have a bad habit of playing host. Someone has to do it though.
Yay, low self-esteem.