I grew up very "comfortable". I went to the best schools, had nice things, and no real worries. Everyone on the outside thought our life was perfect. My dad however, struggled deeply and never let it out. He took his own life via gunshot, in front of me and my mother when I was 16. I'm sharing this because YES! feel your feelings! I'm no longer "privileged". When my dad died my mom was a sahm, and suicide voided all insurance policies so I was actually homeless for a bit. Were not poor now, but we struggle for sure. No matter what your bank account says, your feelings are legitimate and I think if my dad took his feeling seriously and got help, I may have him today! Please take care of you!
Thank you for sharing your story. I have nothing clever to say, just wanted to let you know that I was really touched and thankful for the way you use your experience as a lesson to others. x
You are a brave and precious soul to share your story for the benefit of others. Thank you seems so little to respond to you. What else to say but grateful for you
How much more peaceful would the world be if we all realised that money doesn’t make you happy and it certainly doesn’t erase problems. I’ve been both very poor and very comfortable and neither has had any effect whatsoever on my feelings or general life experience. All happiness comes from within.
I heard it once said that just because there may be someone else that is doing worse than our particular situation doesn’t make ours any less, doesn’t make our feelings any less. So no matter what our situation is doesn’t make bad feelings or bad things not happen to us all. Jen thank you for sharing your life and feelings.
I’m sorry but I personally don’t think about your lifestyle when you are struggling with feelings. We all struggle. We have all been through things in our life that deserve support from others. I couldn’t care less what you have or had. Xoxoxoxo!!!!
Yes a 47 minute vlog!! 😍🙌🏻😘 I’m so early and can’t wait to watch Jen! Love your videos and your personality. Long time fan and you’re my favorite channel to watch!
You are entitled to your feelings no matter your economic level is. Never apologies for your feels! It’s how we cope! I watched you years ago but stopped. I’m glad I’m back to see this Jen! Love these!
Yea, as long as someone isn't being insensitive (i.e. rich celebrities complaining about having to stay home with their fully stocked pantries in their mansions with Olympic-sized Infinity pools), I think anyone can feel equally frustrated about this situation.
All the feelings on this post!!! You’re amazing! It takes so much to live unapologetically ..... you be you, share what’s in your heart to whatever extent you want! We appreciate you and are here to support you! ❤️
Thanks for the vlog Jen. I loved it as usual. As a respiratory therapist on the frontlines, we wear a mask for our entire 12 hr shift. I also wear goggles, bonnet, gown, gloves & booties in pt rooms. I have gotten used to it & I am thankful to have PPE to use. I am also thankful to have a job. Take care!
Hope your mom had a happy birthday! I appreciate the authentic, having all the feelings, real chatting you bring to your videos. Stay well, sending hugs!
Maybe you don't play by the rules in the planner-influencer world, but you are the person who introduced many of us to EC. I got my first lifeplanner with your link years ago.
Alt Sask so unnecessary. Your comment says a lot more about you than it does about Jen. I hope you are more supportive in the real world. If you don’t like -don’t waste your time watching!
I'm gonna tell you something...I love this Jen!!!!! You're more relatable and more connected to viewers. Never hide who you are. Let that light shine girl!!!!!
When you said you haven’t felt like you were allowed to feel your feelings; wow, I felt that! I, more often than I care to admit, feel that way! Thank you, so much, for sharing. Truly!
LUV YA JEN!! You made me smile at a time when I have every reason to cry. Just know, this video, right here made a difference for me today!! Thanks for sharing.
I have been loving watching normal content these days. It’s a nice refresh to watch a planner review and not have to think about corona for however long that video lasts. I think you should make whatever content you would like!
The sticker pages were not a mistake. They said it last year and again this year that they don’t know how many people will order binders, so they order the sticker sheets as they always have and then include them in with the binder orders. I feel like they should order the same amount of sheets as they do binders and punch them appropriately, but that’s the WHY.
I've been watching your content for a few years now and just wanted to say how refreshing this vlog was! Lately, I've been coming to terms with my feelings in a whole new way. I've been spending the last few years not only apologizing for my feelings, but actually feeling like something was wrong with me...maybe I'm too sensitive, maybe it's all in my head, maybe it's me yadda yadda. I had years filled with self doubt and not setting healthy boundaries with people in my family gaslighting me. No more! It was so encouraging seeing you being you!
Lol! I’m not a planner person at all so it was funny watching you gush over them. We’ve all got our ‘thing’ so no shame for your excitement. It’s just funny how we all have different things that make us happy. 😊
I really enjoyed your vlog. I was able to relate to your internal dilemma. You should not feel awkward about your station in life or sharing it with us. That is what we love about you. Your heart is so good and you are always putting others ahead of yourself. You regularly share you thoughts about the world and how we should be caring for and loving one another. It is clear that you have a passion for people and you’re empathetic. We love your planner videos. We all need a diversion now and your cheerful review is exactly what takes us to that place where we can just enjoy and not worry about the world for a while. Thanks for your gracious content.
I've been thinking about this a lot in quarantine because compared to everyone else we are doing fine. We have a 2 year old and I'm exhausted and lonely for company, but my husband still has his job and works full time from home. We have a big beautiful home and neighborhood and can afford the extra things we need to entertain our son. I'm a stay at home mom so we're not juggling two jobs at home and taking care of our toddler. And I felt like I didn't have a right to be sad. But you would't tell someone "You're not allowed to feel happy because there are LOTS OF PEOPLE WHO FEEL HAPPIER THAN YOU!"... I'm allowed to feel grieve this weird time, even if I have it better than most people...
You are a human being and therefore entitled to have feelings. Period. Also, I so appreciate your honest feedback on the EC stuff. While it's fun to watch all you EC influencers, it often grates to watch everyone gush over every single product like it's amazing (when we know we will never, ever see them actually use them the remainder of the year) when they know there are a few stinker products in there.
“No planner is going to be perfect” I felt that! Every time I order a planner from EC, there’s always something wrong with it. They need better quality control.
So literally peeling apples for the apple pie I’m baking 🍏 🥧 ....as I am watching & mostly listening to you Jen, and we literally say at the SAME EXACT time “ It is what connects us”🥰🙏🏻🙌🏻👏🏻👍🏻🥳💖 Please keep being yourself(ALL of yourself) and Thank you for sharing what connects us as humans👊🏻
I have the same period scenario as you. I have 2 kids, was on the pill since my late teens and didn’t have cramps then. Once I went off the meds I got light to medium cramps. However, since my second baby and the return of my period, they have become much more painful and heavy. I’ve heard it’s normal and very common. I enjoy your “ramblings” and your honesty. Thanks for being you.
Jen, it’s refreshing to see you “feel all the feels.” No matter your situation, we are all having good and bad days and trying to figure it out. I appreciate you being raw and real. Keep sharing the honest real truth. The followers that care will not mind one bit. As far as my cycle is concerned, totally changed after having two kids. Talk to your doctor when you can.
The sticker pages are punched the way they are so they fit in both the ringed binder and the coiled planners. I just watched Cindy Guentert-Baldo's video. She seemed to have no problem with them. Hers fit the ringed binder perfectly.
I've been on both ends of the life spectrum....raised my daughter alone for the first nine years of her life and really struggled but built a life for us, then life changed for us when I met my husband 21 years ago and now here I am at 58, comfortable and so grateful....but emotional struggles for me have always been the same. I think that my early years struggling but making a beautiful life were honestly my favorite years...the best memories....the most accomplished for me. As far as masks go BOY do I understand....wearing them and seeing them on others is so surreal - scary - anxiety provoking.....I've suffered with anxiety all of my life....but THIS. I FEEL THE SAME. Try not to look to far ahead about the upcoming school year (my daughter is now a teacher) - I'm trying too. If we just do the best we can each day, and that may change day to day....that's something to be proud of. God bless you and your little ones, Jen... 🙏❤️🇺🇸🌏
I will never understand the allure of the planner (or multiple planners), but I do REALLY like you, Jen. Long time lover of the rambly Jen vlog. Hang in there!
Lisa Ellis I agree about the planners. Seems like an extra job to do. Then to hear about the pens, stickers ,etc. I don’t get the allure. ( or the excitement!)
I’m loving the more you...you...if that makes sense. Cuss, vent, share, be YOU!!!! Please!!! I am loving the vlogs. I’m a old school sub. I’ve been with you a long time. Sending much love! 💕
Kellie Wyllia me, too. She seems to be shedding some of the perfection she expects of herself and now she has some very real, very adult things going on in her life. It’s hard to watch at times but it’s part of life. I hope she’ll continue to relax into it and work through things. She seems to need some help right now and I bet the loneliness is getting to her.
Love this “random collection of ramblings” or whatever you called it! Thanks for sharing vulnerable stuff with us! You are lovely. The periods after kids thing-mine never got better without BC to be honest! I wish I had better advice for you, but that was what my body did! BC helped so much (with heaviness, cramps, and acne). Good luck and yes, we all deal with it. Hang in there. 😘
Yaaassss girl! So proud of you! I don’t comment often but I’ve been watching your videos for years, and always cheering you on from afar! I also went through a messy separation, where I put the kids first but struggled so much with my internal feelings. What is okay for to feel, etc, etc. It’s a journey, and you are in the thick of it, with every emotion as valid as the next! You will look back someday (as I do know on my life) and think, “I am such a bad ass! How did I get through that? And how freaking lucky am I that life is so amazing now?”
I find planning videos very relevant right now. I have depression and anxiety and I always feel better when I plan my days out. It helps me keep a schedule, feel productive and helps occupy my thoughts with positive things.
Omg I used to work in parish youth work and working on weekends was more common than not. I looked for FOREVER for a daily planner with Saturday and Sunday on separate pages... Then I found one and I've been buying it each year ever since... Even after I changed fields, I now work in a library
I'm loving your posts lately. I know I'm one person, but I find your posts real and I can identify with so much of your feelings right now. I'm not going through a divorce, but the other stuff. Many safe distant hugs and much peace and love to you, Jenn.
Wow 47 mins of Jennifer absolutely love it. Your long videos are so calming to me 😊. FYI as we get older for some of us our cycles become heavier with stronger cramps. This is the next stage of life called menopause. Some women can begin to experience as early as in their mid 30’s. Before full blown menopause kicks in there’s peri and post menopausal symptoms. For me, I experienced what you mentioned. When you’re able to see the specialist try to have your hormones checked and also rule out fibroids or cysts. Fibroids can also cause heavy, painful cycles. Glad you were feeling better by the end of video. Thanks for sharing 🥰🙏🏼
you're totally allowed to have feelings and express those feelings. Even if you're life is privileged, it doesn't change the fact that hard things happen. It doesn't make you ungrateful. Sending love!
We all have the right to be happy and enjoy or share the happiness and joy. No matter what is going on in the world. We can all take the time to appreciate and grieve whatever bad thing is happening, but as humans we need to live our own lives.
I grew up always feeling like I had to apologize for something and feelings of guilt. Part of that I know was growing up Catholic, and it has taken years to overcome that. A real journey for sure.
To keep it short, thank you for this. I have not been able to get or keep my stuff together since all of this started. I am all over the place and my mental health is suffering, to put it lightly. I hate living like this and I know that when things get better, it's not going to be like it was and the uncertainty of what that will mean is hard to reconcile. Take care of yourself and your family and thank you for posting when you have.
Please keep gynecologist apt. I had 2 children by age 30. My youngest was 6 months. I found I had cervical cancer. So. Don't worry but I advocate all women of every age to keep regular gynecologist apts! 💗
Kathy McKelvey I can see people who are without medical insurance and have no money skipping medical screenings but not people who have insurance and money. Taking care of yourself is called “adulting”.
Doesn’t matter how “comfortably” you live, everyone’s brain goes into “survival” mode when something like a Global Pandemic happens, which you have no control over, and you to deal with the thoughts and feelings this mode throws up
Courtney Roberts she is a person just like rest of us and is dealing with a hard life changing experience during a pandemic. We should support her wellbeing above our needs for distractions.
You seem to be struggling so much right now, so as a long, long, long-time viewer, I am going to offer you some very raw advice. Of course, you can share any feelings you want. But so can all of us, your viewers. This may mean that you get negative feedback when you do share, and that is absolutely OK (barring abuse, of course). Your feelings are valid, and perhaps some of the negative feedback is also valid. You cannot control how people perceive you, and that seems to be a big hurdle for you. With all due love and respect, get over it (said hurdle). Some viewers, veritable strangers, will love you as if you were family. Some viewers will hate your privilege and see you as whiny every time you open your mouth, even though they do not know you personally. To be OK with who you are, you must embrace both opinions and release your control and ownership over either. Other people's opinions do not define you. As making entertainment content and hosting ads is your business, your viewers are your customers, and frankly most of us are discerning and all of us choose to be here. We will likely not be swayed from our own positions on how good of a person you are. Much love!
Jen could never handle any negative feedback or constructive criticism. She always responds in an extremely passive/aggressive manner. It is sad that all those years of therapy have done little to help her grow as a person. I think it would greatly benefit Jen to get a job outside of her home once this all calms down. It will put some things into perspective for her and provide a lot of opportunity for growth.
@@jennyfromthehood1 I know it's a long shot, but I think it's her only shot at growing as a person. She will be stuck (literally and figuratively) within the walls of her house indefinitely if she does not step outside of her comfort zone. It would give her the opportunity to interact with all different types of people and hopefully show her that there is life besides planners, yoga, Disney, and fancy tea mugs.
Well said. I think she needs to hear this and accept it. We are her therapy but getting out of her world at home and working at a job would be beneficial for her to be around others. I get tired of hearing about how privileged she is.
Kimberley Paige she is perfectly fine, I think you are a bit jealous, she did not ask for your opinion, she is sharing personal moments, these kind of comments hurt people, please think about what and how you are saying things.
T Mac I agree. I think there’s been a lot of jealousy over the years over the lifestyle Jen has been able to keep. Now that she is going through a divorce and understandably struggling, everyone feels the need to point out every little thing as well as what she needs to do with her life. That’s all up to Jen. I’m laughing at the comments on hair not being brushed. Really? I suppose we all , including our children should have their hair neatly brushed every second of the day. Such a lame observance. I’m sure Jen will get past this period in her life and do well ( without all the suggestions of what others think she needs)
Of course you deserve to have feelings! And of course you deserve to express them! It breaks my heart that you feel any different. No matter where your station in life, you are not any less human or important than anyone else. Those who say you should shut up and can’t see you as a human being only do so because they can’t see. :)
So thankful for your vulnerability, especially during this "twilight zone" time. Your self-awareness is beautiful! I'm sending you so much love and a big virtual hug
Ahhh I think these "rambling vlogs" are my favourite of all time! Brilliant. Your so unapologetically you, and have brought a smile to my face and some laugh out loud moments!! Actually love you Jen #wearedoingit x
I am loving seeing this side to you!! I’ve been watching you since you basically started RUclips and the personal growth you have shown is inspiring! You should be so proud of yourself.
I saw on a live Instagram, Erin said the notebook stickers are coil punched because while the books are printed and coiled in the US the sticker pages are not printed in the US. They order those. So the sticker pages are all coil punched because they don’t know how many they will need coiled vs notebook punched. She said the holes line up for them to go in both. 🤷♀️
Love your vlogs Jen. Thanks for your honest sharing. But, I feel like the most useless product of 2020 is a planner :D , not planner’s fault, it is the nature of 2020.
That's funny. I struggle with feeling like I don't have a right to complain because I am not privileged. I also feel very much like you right now with myself and life. You are indeed very brave.
I am a long time subscriber since around 2012 and I absolutely love how raw and real you’ve started sharing in your videos. Watching your videos is now like chatting with a close friend and I agree the feelings connect us as humans, women, moms, etc. Thank you for sharing with us!
I once read somewhere - the only thing that money can really buy you is space. It cannot buy good health, it cannot buy love or happiness and it cannot buy peace of mind. If you struggle from a position of privilege, you still struggle and hopefully grow. Of course you are allowed to share your struggles - it shows us that money does not protect one from heartache, insecurity or unhappiness. Hopefully, your criticisers will realise that. I'm so sorry that you are suffering right now, and I hope that it will go better eventually.
Love you Jen. I love that you share and I value your content bc you are authentic. I’ve loved seeing your evolution over the years, and I think you are strong and courageous.
I think I can relate to your discomfort in feeling overwhelmed and sad. I am not “well-off,” but I am a teacher who is able to homeschool my own children right now, while still getting a full paycheck, and my “essential worker” husband is still getting his full paycheck. We received a stimulus check that we didn’t really “need”. I feel guilt for being stressed, inconvenienced, and sad. Most of my students are home alone because their single parent is still working. They rely on the free breakfasts and lunches we provide. They have it much worse than me and my family, right? So how can I justify being upset? The bottom line is: everyone lives their own experience. We can’t continue to gauge our own mental state against the hurt of others. You are entitled to feel what you feel and share it how you are comfortable. For what it is worth: hearing your struggle has helped me validate my feelings as well. Thank you for that.
Such a bratty response to not getting the coil colour of choice when it was all gifted for free which drives up the purchase price for those who have to buy it!!!!!
it's not complete off-point to do planner video: many people are still working and managing multiple kids with new home school routines... many people are still deep in their planners and it could still be relevant... are you still working on the office organization??
Do and film what makes you feel happy Jen. 🌻 It is so calming to me at these times. Laugh and film whatever you feel you want to film - don’t worry about anyone else’s thoughts on it. Breathe and enjoy the escape. We so need to see that there are good days too. Great to see you having more “feelings” or just showing us them. I think everyone is having lots of feelings too. Your two children are so sweet and darling little souls. Thanks for sharing them with us and you.💗
I’m an RN & have had many occasions to wear masks. Many of us still hate wearing them. But, they do prevent airborne illnesses. I had a doctors appointment yesterday, my daughter went with me (she’s 22 & in school to be an RN as well & works in a hospital) & even we felt ackward with the masks on. They basically suck. They are never comfortable. But they do the job. ☺️
Gina Miller I was watching the nightly news and several doctors were on talking about how masks don’t really protect people and they only serve to make people feel safe. They said the N95 or whatever it’s called does protect but should be changed out often and that most people don’t have this type of mask. My brother is an ER doctor and he said the same thing.
I think most of us are having good days and bad days... you’re not alone in your feelings! I just had 3 days of such intense anxiety that seemingly came from nowhere and just knocked me off my feet. Back up and functioning now though. Hang in there!
I feel you... I’m going through something similar. Sometimes I need to take all the crap feelings out and then I feel soooo “light”. Do whatever makes you feel good. Hugs! 💖
I think the EC “overlook” of details is hard to take because they have set a high standard for themselves and the products are expensive. When you pay a lot you expect a lot and that is okay. I want the daily coiled but I haven’t pulled the trigger yet. We shall see.
the stickers punched isnt a mistake. erin said in a live it's because they dont know how many binders will sell and they dont want to end up with a bunch of binder punched sheets that cant be coiled into the planners.
Girl. This is the Jen I’ve always wanted! 100% unfiltered and raw. Everyone, no matter their situation, are entitled to their feels!!
Agreev😗😀
So agree!
100% I love this Jen!
Yes, her saying shut it. Made me literally lol
Omg yes! Been a follower for years and love to see her like this!
I grew up very "comfortable". I went to the best schools, had nice things, and no real worries. Everyone on the outside thought our life was perfect. My dad however, struggled deeply and never let it out. He took his own life via gunshot, in front of me and my mother when I was 16. I'm sharing this because YES! feel your feelings! I'm no longer "privileged". When my dad died my mom was a sahm, and suicide voided all insurance policies so I was actually homeless for a bit. Were not poor now, but we struggle for sure.
No matter what your bank account says, your feelings are legitimate and I think if my dad took his feeling seriously and got help, I may have him today! Please take care of you!
Thank you for sharing your story. I have nothing clever to say, just wanted to let you know that I was really touched and thankful for the way you use your experience as a lesson to others. x
❤️❤️❤️
You are a brave and precious soul to share your story for the benefit of others. Thank you seems so little to respond to you. What else to say but grateful for you
That is so heartbreaking. How generous of you to share and give your perspective. ❤️
TFS. I know that can t be an easy subject for you.
I’m living for this JENN. Who’s with me?👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
How much more peaceful would the world be if we all realised that money doesn’t make you happy and it certainly doesn’t erase problems. I’ve been both very poor and very comfortable and neither has had any effect whatsoever on my feelings or general life experience. All happiness comes from within.
I heard it once said that just because there may be someone else that is doing worse than our particular situation doesn’t make ours any less, doesn’t make our feelings any less. So no matter what our situation is doesn’t make bad feelings or bad things not happen to us all. Jen thank you for sharing your life and feelings.
I’m sorry but I personally don’t think about your lifestyle when you are struggling with feelings. We all struggle. We have all been through things in our life that deserve support from others. I couldn’t care less what you have or had. Xoxoxoxo!!!!
Yes a 47 minute vlog!! 😍🙌🏻😘 I’m so early and can’t wait to watch Jen! Love your videos and your personality. Long time fan and you’re my favorite channel to watch!
You are entitled to your feelings no matter your economic level is. Never apologies for your feels! It’s how we cope! I watched you years ago but stopped. I’m glad I’m back to see this Jen! Love these!
The human condition is the human condition no matter your tax bracket.
Well said.
You have to have some perspective though.
Bessie Malt absolutely!!!!!!!!
Yea, as long as someone isn't being insensitive (i.e. rich celebrities complaining about having to stay home with their fully stocked pantries in their mansions with Olympic-sized Infinity pools), I think anyone can feel equally frustrated about this situation.
All the feelings on this post!!! You’re amazing! It takes so much to live unapologetically ..... you be you, share what’s in your heart to whatever extent you want! We appreciate you and are here to support you! ❤️
Thanks for the vlog Jen. I loved it as usual. As a respiratory therapist on the frontlines, we wear a mask for our entire 12 hr shift. I also wear goggles, bonnet, gown, gloves & booties in pt rooms. I have gotten used to it & I am thankful to have PPE to use. I am also thankful to have a job. Take care!
Hope your mom had a happy birthday! I appreciate the authentic, having all the feelings, real chatting you bring to your videos. Stay well, sending hugs!
Maybe you don't play by the rules in the planner-influencer world, but you are the person who introduced many of us to EC. I got my first lifeplanner with your link years ago.
Me too and have been buying every year!
Alt Sask so unnecessary. Your comment says a lot more about you than it does about Jen. I hope you are more supportive in the real world.
If you don’t like -don’t waste your time watching!
I'm gonna tell you something...I love this Jen!!!!! You're more relatable and more connected to viewers. Never hide who you are. Let that light shine girl!!!!!
When you said you haven’t felt like you were allowed to feel your feelings; wow, I felt that! I, more often than I care to admit, feel that way! Thank you, so much, for sharing. Truly!
LUV YA JEN!! You made me smile at a time when I have every reason to cry. Just know, this video, right here made a difference for me today!! Thanks for sharing.
I hope whatever you are going through improves for you.
Thanks, me too!
I have been loving watching normal content these days. It’s a nice refresh to watch a planner review and not have to think about corona for however long that video lasts. I think you should make whatever content you would like!
Let’s keep talking about normal stuff openly as this entire vlog was refreshing and just so pure. Thank you Jen.
I agree! Thanks again Jen!
The sticker pages were not a mistake. They said it last year and again this year that they don’t know how many people will order binders, so they order the sticker sheets as they always have and then include them in with the binder orders. I feel like they should order the same amount of sheets as they do binders and punch them appropriately, but that’s the WHY.
Makes sense .
~ Tackling that office would probably take your mind off your troubles.
These Long vlogs I’m living for them. I do dishes and fold laundry 😂
Same!
I've been watching your content for a few years now and just wanted to say how refreshing this vlog was! Lately, I've been coming to terms with my feelings in a whole new way. I've been spending the last few years not only apologizing for my feelings, but actually feeling like something was wrong with me...maybe I'm too sensitive, maybe it's all in my head, maybe it's me yadda yadda. I had years filled with self doubt and not setting healthy boundaries with people in my family gaslighting me. No more! It was so encouraging seeing you being you!
Worse then being disconnected from others is when we hold back feelings, it keeps us disconnected from SELF. Feel the feels girl, and share them.
Lol! I’m not a planner person at all so it was funny watching you gush over them. We’ve all got our ‘thing’ so no shame for your excitement. It’s just funny how we all have different things that make us happy. 😊
I really enjoyed your vlog. I was able to relate to your internal dilemma. You should not feel awkward about your station in life or sharing it with us. That is what we love about you. Your heart is so good and you are always putting others ahead of yourself. You regularly share you thoughts about the world and how we should be caring for and loving one another. It is clear that you have a passion for people and you’re empathetic. We love your planner videos. We all need a diversion now and your cheerful review is exactly what takes us to that place where we can just enjoy and not worry about the world for a while. Thanks for your gracious content.
I've been thinking about this a lot in quarantine because compared to everyone else we are doing fine. We have a 2 year old and I'm exhausted and lonely for company, but my husband still has his job and works full time from home. We have a big beautiful home and neighborhood and can afford the extra things we need to entertain our son. I'm a stay at home mom so we're not juggling two jobs at home and taking care of our toddler. And I felt like I didn't have a right to be sad. But you would't tell someone "You're not allowed to feel happy because there are LOTS OF PEOPLE WHO FEEL HAPPIER THAN YOU!"... I'm allowed to feel grieve this weird time, even if I have it better than most people...
yes Jen! live unapologetically! you are entitled to have human feelings no matter in what financial position you are on!
Sending love Jen. I appreciate your authenticity! May you and your family be happy and safe. 💓
You are a human being and therefore entitled to have feelings. Period. Also, I so appreciate your honest feedback on the EC stuff. While it's fun to watch all you EC influencers, it often grates to watch everyone gush over every single product like it's amazing (when we know we will never, ever see them actually use them the remainder of the year) when they know there are a few stinker products in there.
“No planner is going to be perfect” I felt that! Every time I order a planner from EC, there’s always something wrong with it. They need better quality control.
So literally peeling apples for the apple pie I’m baking 🍏 🥧 ....as I am watching & mostly listening to you Jen, and we literally say at the SAME EXACT time “ It is what connects us”🥰🙏🏻🙌🏻👏🏻👍🏻🥳💖 Please keep being yourself(ALL of yourself) and Thank you for sharing what connects us as humans👊🏻
I have the same period scenario as you. I have 2 kids, was on the pill since my late teens and didn’t have cramps then. Once I went off the meds I got light to medium cramps. However, since my second baby and the return of my period, they have become much more painful and heavy. I’ve heard it’s normal and very common. I enjoy your “ramblings” and your honesty. Thanks for being you.
Jen, it’s refreshing to see you “feel all the feels.” No matter your situation, we are all having good and bad days and trying to figure it out.
I appreciate you being raw and real. Keep sharing the honest real truth. The followers that care will not mind one bit.
As far as my cycle is concerned, totally changed after having two kids. Talk to your doctor when you can.
The sticker pages are punched the way they are so they fit in both the ringed binder and the coiled planners. I just watched
Cindy Guentert-Baldo's video. She seemed to have no problem with them. Hers fit the ringed binder perfectly.
Also Erin Condren's video explains this I believe.
I've been on both ends of the life spectrum....raised my daughter alone for the first nine years of her life and really struggled but built a life for us, then life changed for us when I met my husband 21 years ago and now here I am at 58, comfortable and so grateful....but emotional struggles for me have always been the same. I think that my early years struggling but making a beautiful life were honestly my favorite years...the best memories....the most accomplished for me. As far as masks go BOY do I understand....wearing them and seeing them on others is so surreal - scary - anxiety provoking.....I've suffered with anxiety all of my life....but THIS. I FEEL THE SAME. Try not to look to far ahead about the upcoming school year (my daughter is now a teacher) - I'm trying too. If we just do the best we can each day, and that may change day to day....that's something to be proud of. God bless you and your little ones, Jen... 🙏❤️🇺🇸🌏
I will never understand the allure of the planner (or multiple planners), but I do REALLY like you, Jen. Long time lover of the rambly Jen vlog. Hang in there!
Lisa Ellis I agree about the planners. Seems like an extra job to do. Then to hear about the pens, stickers ,etc. I don’t get the allure. ( or the excitement!)
Enjoyed the vlog Jen, you are doing great. Not sure if it was mentioned, but what size did you get in the kate flowers sweatshirt?
I’m loving the more you...you...if that makes sense. Cuss, vent, share, be YOU!!!! Please!!! I am loving the vlogs. I’m a old school sub. I’ve been with you a long time. Sending much love! 💕
Kellie Wyllia me, too. She seems to be shedding some of the perfection she expects of herself and now she has some very real, very adult things going on in her life. It’s hard to watch at times but it’s part of life. I hope she’ll continue to relax into it and work through things. She seems to need some help right now and I bet the loneliness is getting to her.
Love this “random collection of ramblings” or whatever you called it! Thanks for sharing vulnerable stuff with us! You are lovely.
The periods after kids thing-mine never got better without BC to be honest! I wish I had better advice for you, but that was what my body did! BC helped so much (with heaviness, cramps, and acne). Good luck and yes, we all deal with it.
Hang in there. 😘
Yaaassss girl! So proud of you! I don’t comment often but I’ve been watching your videos for years, and always cheering you on from afar! I also went through a messy separation, where I put the kids first but struggled so much with my internal feelings. What is okay for to feel, etc, etc. It’s a journey, and you are in the thick of it, with every emotion as valid as the next! You will look back someday (as I do know on my life) and think, “I am such a bad ass! How did I get through that? And how freaking lucky am I that life is so amazing now?”
I find planning videos very relevant right now. I have depression and anxiety and I always feel better when I plan my days out. It helps me keep a schedule, feel productive and helps occupy my thoughts with positive things.
I think it’s really sweet and extremely mature that you still buy things for your MIL and SIL. Good for you Jen 😊
Erin explained the coil/binder stickers. It is 100% on purpose. Not a mistake.
You are human, therefore you have feelings, therefore you are entitled to express them. Thanks for the long vlog.🎉
Omg I used to work in parish youth work and working on weekends was more common than not. I looked for FOREVER for a daily planner with Saturday and Sunday on separate pages... Then I found one and I've been buying it each year ever since... Even after I changed fields, I now work in a library
I LOVE your realness in this video and your realness and real first impressions in your unboxing.
Thanks for still filming things. We appreciate anything that seems normal in this crazy crazy time. hugs
I'm loving your posts lately. I know I'm one person, but I find your posts real and I can identify with so much of your feelings right now. I'm not going through a divorce, but the other stuff. Many safe distant hugs and much peace and love to you, Jenn.
Wow 47 mins of Jennifer absolutely love it. Your long videos are so calming to me 😊. FYI as we get older for some of us our cycles become heavier with stronger cramps. This is the next stage of life called menopause. Some women can begin to experience as early as in their mid 30’s. Before full blown menopause kicks in there’s peri and post menopausal symptoms. For me, I experienced what you mentioned. When you’re able to see the specialist try to have your hormones checked and also rule out fibroids or cysts. Fibroids can also cause heavy, painful cycles. Glad you were feeling better by the end of video. Thanks for sharing 🥰🙏🏼
Um you know those stickers are supposed to be punched that way right? Erin Condren has talked about that herself in a bunch of her live videos.
you're totally allowed to have feelings and express those feelings. Even if you're life is privileged, it doesn't change the fact that hard things happen. It doesn't make you ungrateful. Sending love!
Your overthinking everything made MY brain hurt, so I can’t imagine the hell it must be in your own mind.
We all have the right to be happy and enjoy or share the happiness and joy. No matter what is going on in the world. We can all take the time to appreciate and grieve whatever bad thing is happening, but as humans we need to live our own lives.
I grew up always feeling like I had to apologize for something and feelings of guilt. Part of that I know was growing up Catholic, and it has taken years to overcome that. A real journey for sure.
I totally understand exactly what you mean! I went to Catholic school and am still dealing with those feelings!
Yeah Catholic guilt is a real thing.
Yay for long vlogs!!!❤️ you are so so loved, Jen!
To keep it short, thank you for this. I have not been able to get or keep my stuff together since all of this started. I am all over the place and my mental health is suffering, to put it lightly. I hate living like this and I know that when things get better, it's not going to be like it was and the uncertainty of what that will mean is hard to reconcile. Take care of yourself and your family and thank you for posting when you have.
Please keep gynecologist apt. I had 2 children by age 30. My youngest was 6 months. I found I had cervical cancer. So. Don't worry but I advocate all women of every age to keep regular gynecologist apts! 💗
Kathy McKelvey I can see people who are without medical insurance and have no money skipping medical screenings but not people who have insurance and money. Taking care of yourself is called “adulting”.
We are not all in the same boat, but we are all in the same storm ⛈ xxx
Why don’t you continue your office decluttering series?
SaxyStar I am guessing she gave up or abandoned it for now.
SaxyStar especially because isn’t that what most of us are doing in our houses?!
I'm decluttering at the moment but there is nowhere to declutter stuff to so it is just going into big boxes in the corner of the room.
Doesn’t matter how “comfortably” you live, everyone’s brain goes into “survival” mode when something like a Global Pandemic happens, which you have no control over, and you to deal with the thoughts and feelings this mode throws up
People need regular content as a bit of distraction from real life right now. I would love to see the rest of the office organization!
Courtney Roberts she is a person just like rest of us and is dealing with a hard life changing experience during a pandemic. We should support her wellbeing above our needs for distractions.
LaLaunicorn Well said.
You’re awesome! Thank you for sharing. Your videos help make my day brighter 💚
I finally found a mask. I’ve worn it once. I felt claustrophobic too. I can’t wait for all of this to fade away.
CeCeCT Connecticut same here
Mother of 4 here chiming in. The increase in rate if fluids is an accurate observation. Thanks for sharing!
You seem to be struggling so much right now, so as a long, long, long-time viewer, I am going to offer you some very raw advice. Of course, you can share any feelings you want. But so can all of us, your viewers. This may mean that you get negative feedback when you do share, and that is absolutely OK (barring abuse, of course). Your feelings are valid, and perhaps some of the negative feedback is also valid. You cannot control how people perceive you, and that seems to be a big hurdle for you. With all due love and respect, get over it (said hurdle). Some viewers, veritable strangers, will love you as if you were family. Some viewers will hate your privilege and see you as whiny every time you open your mouth, even though they do not know you personally. To be OK with who you are, you must embrace both opinions and release your control and ownership over either. Other people's opinions do not define you. As making entertainment content and hosting ads is your business, your viewers are your customers, and frankly most of us are discerning and all of us choose to be here. We will likely not be swayed from our own positions on how good of a person you are. Much love!
Jen could never handle any negative feedback or constructive criticism. She always responds in an extremely passive/aggressive manner. It is sad that all those years of therapy have done little to help her grow as a person. I think it would greatly benefit Jen to get a job outside of her home once this all calms down. It will put some things into perspective for her and provide a lot of opportunity for growth.
@@jennyfromthehood1 I know it's a long shot, but I think it's her only shot at growing as a person. She will be stuck (literally and figuratively) within the walls of her house indefinitely if she does not step outside of her comfort zone. It would give her the opportunity to interact with all different types of people and hopefully show her that there is life besides planners, yoga, Disney, and fancy tea mugs.
Well said. I think she needs to hear this and accept it. We are her therapy but getting out of her world at home and working at a job would be beneficial for her to be around others. I get tired of hearing about how privileged she is.
Kimberley Paige she is perfectly fine, I think you are a bit jealous, she did not ask for your opinion, she is sharing personal moments, these kind of comments hurt people, please think about what and how you are saying things.
T Mac I agree. I think there’s been a lot of jealousy over the years over the lifestyle Jen has been able to keep. Now that she is going through a divorce and understandably struggling, everyone feels the need to point out every little thing as well as what she needs to do with her life. That’s all up to Jen. I’m laughing at the comments on hair not being brushed. Really? I suppose we all , including our children should have their hair neatly brushed every second of the day. Such a lame observance. I’m sure Jen will get past this period in her life and do well ( without all the suggestions of what others think she needs)
Of course you deserve to have feelings! And of course you deserve to express them! It breaks my heart that you feel any different. No matter where your station in life, you are not any less human or important than anyone else. Those who say you should shut up and can’t see you as a human being only do so because they can’t see. :)
So thankful for your vulnerability, especially during this "twilight zone" time. Your self-awareness is beautiful! I'm sending you so much love and a big virtual hug
hahaha laughing out loud at "just shut it" :-D Go Jen keep it real X
Ahhh I think these "rambling vlogs" are my favourite of all time! Brilliant. Your so unapologetically you, and have brought a smile to my face and some laugh out loud moments!! Actually love you Jen #wearedoingit x
I'm a content creator and I surveyed my readers. They said they want normal content, they need an escape. I get it, I like it too.
You will be fine. Time makes it easier. You are a sweet person and a great mother.
I am loving seeing this side to you!! I’ve been watching you since you basically started RUclips and the personal growth you have shown is inspiring! You should be so proud of yourself.
Thank you for uploading and sharing, I hope you and your family are all safe and well at the moment x
Hi Jen! What brand milk frother do you use? That foam looked amazing
I saw on a live Instagram, Erin said the notebook stickers are coil punched because while the books are printed and coiled in the US the sticker pages are not printed in the US. They order those. So the sticker pages are all coil punched because they don’t know how many they will need coiled vs notebook punched. She said the holes line up for them to go in both. 🤷♀️
I'm new to your channel....omg I love you. You are a hoot and so real.
Jen give yourself a mental hug and keep doing what feels good ❤️
Love your vlogs Jen. Thanks for your honest sharing. But, I feel like the most useless product of 2020 is a planner :D , not planner’s fault, it is the nature of 2020.
Where is the office decluttering videos I waited it since last fall😭😭😭😭😭😭
Me too
That's funny. I struggle with feeling like I don't have a right to complain because I am not privileged. I also feel very much like you right now with myself and life. You are indeed very brave.
I am a long time subscriber since around 2012 and I absolutely love how raw and real you’ve started sharing in your videos. Watching your videos is now like chatting with a close friend and I agree the feelings connect us as humans, women, moms, etc. Thank you for sharing with us!
I once read somewhere - the only thing that money can really buy you is space. It cannot buy good health, it cannot buy love or happiness and it cannot buy peace of mind. If you struggle from a position of privilege, you still struggle and hopefully grow. Of course you are allowed to share your struggles - it shows us that money does not protect one from heartache, insecurity or unhappiness. Hopefully, your criticisers will realise that. I'm so sorry that you are suffering right now, and I hope that it will go better eventually.
I love how you are growing and dealing. Non apologetic !!
Love you Jen. I love that you share and I value your content bc you are authentic. I’ve loved seeing your evolution over the years, and I think you are strong and courageous.
I think I can relate to your discomfort in feeling overwhelmed and sad. I am not “well-off,” but I am a teacher who is able to homeschool my own children right now, while still getting a full paycheck, and my “essential worker” husband is still getting his full paycheck. We received a stimulus check that we didn’t really “need”.
I feel guilt for being stressed, inconvenienced, and sad. Most of my students are home alone because their single parent is still working. They rely on the free breakfasts and lunches we provide. They have it much worse than me and my family, right? So how can I justify being upset?
The bottom line is: everyone lives their own experience. We can’t continue to gauge our own mental state against the hurt of others. You are entitled to feel what you feel and share it how you are comfortable.
For what it is worth: hearing your struggle has helped me validate my feelings as well. Thank you for that.
Such a bratty response to not getting the coil colour of choice when it was all gifted for free which drives up the purchase price for those who have to buy it!!!!!
You just feel your feelings!! Share them if you want! And most of us will still 💕 you! The rest don’t matter !
In Finland all adults are recommended to use a mask everytime we're in public. I find the surgical masks easier to breath through than canvas ones.
it's not complete off-point to do planner video: many people are still working and managing multiple kids with new home school routines... many people are still deep in their planners and it could still be relevant...
are you still working on the office organization??
I love this new raw Jen.
Do and film what makes you feel happy Jen. 🌻 It is so calming to me at these times. Laugh and film whatever you feel you want to film - don’t worry about anyone else’s thoughts on it. Breathe and enjoy the escape. We so need to see that there are good days too. Great to see you having more “feelings” or just showing us them. I think everyone is having lots of feelings too. Your two children are so sweet and darling little souls. Thanks for sharing them with us and you.💗
I’m an RN & have had many occasions to wear masks. Many of us still hate wearing them. But, they do prevent airborne illnesses. I had a doctors appointment yesterday, my daughter went with me (she’s 22 & in school to be an RN as well & works in a hospital) & even we felt ackward with the masks on. They basically suck. They are never comfortable. But they do the job. ☺️
Gina Miller I was watching the nightly news and several doctors were on talking about how masks don’t really protect people and they only serve to make people feel safe. They said the N95 or whatever it’s called does protect but should be changed out often and that most people don’t have this type of mask. My brother is an ER doctor and he said the same thing.
I think most of us are having good days and bad days... you’re not alone in your feelings! I just had 3 days of such intense anxiety that seemingly came from nowhere and just knocked me off my feet. Back up and functioning now though. Hang in there!
I feel you... I’m going through something similar. Sometimes I need to take all the crap feelings out and then I feel soooo “light”. Do whatever makes you feel good. Hugs! 💖
Jen, do you mind me asking what kind of frother do you use? Thank you in advance!
This is very random but it’s really nice to watch you grow throughout the years and through all that is going on in your life right now. Thank you!
OMG I LOVE THIS NEW ATTITUDE!!!! Cannot wait for the next vlogs
I think the EC “overlook” of details is hard to take because they have set a high standard for themselves and the products are expensive. When you pay a lot you expect a lot and that is okay. I want the daily coiled but I haven’t pulled the trigger yet. We shall see.
Listened to your vlog while I went for a long walk. Felt like a chit chat with my friends. Thank you!🤗
the stickers punched isnt a mistake. erin said in a live it's because they dont know how many binders will sell and they dont want to end up with a bunch of binder punched sheets that cant be coiled into the planners.