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The dad was definitely giving “best selling author” vibes. Like, “she has a PHD in my sarcasm,” like why he making the scene so descriptive like that?!
thankyouuuu😭 and when he said "i received an eye-roll" i was like okkkk pack it up YA novelist!
He describing the scene like it was the prologue of the story. SLAYYYY
IKR!? like, Sir, just write a YA book already or something, I'll eat that up rn thank you.
not us simping for the dilf
Facts
Nah the fact that her bf was MORE than comfortable with letting his gf STARVE because she got robbed? At that point leave him for your safety. Run, don’t walk, run.
no, no... i dont run.
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The 14 year old's date refusing to even be seen by her dad makes me think he's definitely much older than her
That’s what I thought
Yeah, or he’s a criminal. Or someone the dad knows. Either one, hell naw.
kids these days are hella anxious and its not out of the realm of possibility. Especially if that kid had trouble with their own parents. what's weird is the girl sticking up for someone she would barely know .i remember being young and short sighted.
And the fact the girl didn’t even ask him to show up and just cancelled it without explaining is also fishy
Yeah. Immediate red flag
The therapy one sounds like something he should be discussing with his new therapist and not Reddit. 😂
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literally tho
Fr
to be honest, people usually see therapist once a week or every few weeks and reddit is there 24/7
@@Kokose yea but why was he gate keeping therapy 💀
not the dad literally giving his daughter A PERMISSION TO DATE AT THE AGE OF 14 while also making sure that she is safe in a cool and not too invasive way and her being ungrateful 💀
You do realise you're talking about a child, right? What did you expect, a response that a wise, old 64 year old woman would respond with? Jeez
Also "a" permission? It's not that weird to start dating at 14, that's often when kids start to get interested in relationships. They're going through puberty
@@HobieInTheBox my comment was influenced by how I was when I was 14, which was not that long ago. I did not have a permission to date and I would really appreciate that kind of effort from a parent, no need to "jeez" at me
It's such a tough situation because teenagers are dumb AND horribly mean, and that dad is doing so good making sure she's got freedom while being safe. I hope he has someone to give him a hug and encouragement. What she said hurts even if she doesn't mean it and may regret it some day.
@@HobieInTheBox I think a „child“ that is 14 should realize not everyone has a dad supportive like this and that he is protecting them she is just spoiled that’s it bc the dad is way too nice thats why a brat like her don’t wanna take a no as an answer
@@yinyangbtsorblackpink6757 hey bro it aint that serious 💀we dont know nothing about this girl or her dad from one little reddit post, calm tf down with the name-calling
“He said he had a good childhood” so did I. Then I realized I was emotionally and mentally abused by a teacher for 5 years. my mom having meltdowns because of her depression, dad in the hospital for months, and much more! Then I went to therapy, realized that no! It wasn’t all the happy! That ass made me so mad jeez.
I'm not a psychologist yet I'm just starting the career but the fact that person said "he makes therapy seen so casual and easy" it really hurts, like yes! Therapy SHOULD be seen as something easy and casual to do, like therapy is not something that you need some kind of requirements to get, you just need to want to get therapy and that's all, you don't need to have childhood trauma or any kind of trauma and the worst thing about it is that most people don't get therapy thanks to that harmful stereotype, because then people thinks that their mental health is not struggling or that they don't have any kind of trauma so they shouldn't get it and that's why we have so many teenagers and adults with mental health problems now.
My point is that if you think that you need therapy or if you want to get therapy for whatever reason then just get it! It's your mental health and your life, don't ever let other people to tell you that you're selfish or a copycat just for wanting therapy.
you took the words right out of my mouth!
FR I got soo annoyed to that guy bc trauma is not a competition and he was kinda making it out to seem that way. Like “Nuh uh you have had an easy childhood so you shouldn’t have therapy”?? No, that’s not how it works. I have had/is having a normal pretty easy life and yet I still have problems with friends, school, stress, and slight burning out issues. Hardly anyone has a perfect life (if anyone does) where they wouldn’t benefit from therapy.
Not to mention that the bf probably got the idea of doing therapy from the first guy and he wasn’t actually “copying” him anyways…🙄🙄 I don’t ship them lol
Agreed
Exactly! Like, the fact he actually postponed his own session just for them makes me feel awkward, like maybe that's a reason he needs to get therapy because of getting walked on like that. I dunno; simply put, no one needs the saddest story of the year to get therapy (ik that sounds so judgemental, but it's truly just annoying when ppl gatekeep stuff surrounding mental health).
@@sonjasocks Whilst I wouldn't use the word "ship," I definitely don't think they're a good match, or at least it's kinda super toxic. Anyways, I agree 100% that the BF most definitely just mulled over therapy after OP telling him about it. Like, it's nothing short of normal, even *rational,* to think about getting therapy, especially after talking about it.
Imagine calling to get therapy and the person on the line is like “Im sorry, call us back when you are TRAUMATIZED enough 🥰”
kinda happens like that in CAHMS with the waitlists lol
In a way, that person would be helping you get closer to getting therapy! Because I certainly would be traumatized from that.
"if u like, we offer up our diamond, premium and platinum trauma packages buy 1 get none free :)"
@@nbankole2024 I'll take a platinum package please! Only $19.99 right? Do you guys take card or would I have to come into the building to give you the cash.... I don't have enough trauma points unlocked yet to reach that level, but I can always speak to your manager.
Exactly! I think EVERYONE can benefit from therapy
Not only is the boyfriend a red flag but also the friends that wouldn’t pay for her meal or at least share theirs??? Like she even could pay them back as soon as she has her card
It's so disgusting they wouldn't invite her, like? If like five people go eating out and want to split the bill, fine, but the idea that they'd be so obsessed over it that they couldn't invite her once? That's so selfish honestly.
Those were probably not her friends but the boyfriends friends...birds of a feather flock together or wtv they say
@@coochieflipflops2700I was just about to say this. Because no one who is not biased would side with the bf
its their money? they get to do with it not hers
I had a friend who got mad that I started therapy. We were online friends for years at this point both of us were aiming for art school and meet on one of those art forums. We would talk everyday and she would constant tell me about her problems l at the time I was a huge pushover since I was being abused at home and a way to escape the abuse was to just be quiet and do as I was told regardless of my feelings so I never told her no or anything like that. Apparently bcs I live in a country that has free health care and she didn’t (aka US of A) I wasn’t allowed to go to therapy since she can’t afford it. I think that’s when I realized how toxic she was I told her I’m going since I need to deal with the abuse I was going trough and wanted help and she threatened me with ending her life and telling me it’s my fault. She has done this many times and each time I would freak out and not know what to do since I didn’t know where she lived or how to contact anyone to help her. This time I was done I told her to go ahead and just blocked her I could care less if she is still alive or not bcs who tf does that to a friend.
I’m so glad you left her toxic ass omg I’m so proud of you that was Def the right move, I HATE HAAATEE it when people guilt trip people with suicide it’s such a shitty thing to do bro
let me tell you that btch probably is still alive. ppl who act like that and treat people like shit and the=resten them eith suicide are narcistic. narcisists dont kts that easily
Nah using suicide as a manipulative tactic is wild… so glad you dropped her
That's called "emotional threatening" and it's one of the most toxic things anyone could ever do. I hope things are better for you now and I wish you the best. And you did the right thing to cut her off. People who threat others with killing themselves don't know how terrible that is.
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@@debsmikle It's reasonable, very reasonable.
@@debsmikle girl not anytime soon 💀
@@debsmikle well…it was gonna happen again at some point
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@@Idolbottle but you don't even pronounce the b in that 😟
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“Is it bad that I would break up with somebody that did that to me?”
OH NO NO NO NO it is *NOT* if you explained the situation of being robbed and then the man that owed you (who was also your boyfriend) really said oh well “starve then” like he owed ya and then told you no to getting food. I’m glad she left I would to
Imagine you feel horrible and feel like you need to talk about something, so you call a therapist and they’re like “Sorry, but i can’t give therapy. Come back when you have a little more, mmm, trauma.”
It's heartbreaking how many ppl asking AITA are very sweet and are used, gaslit, etc. They're usually being taken advantage of or purposefully misunderstood and when they don't want to any more they're treated like the villain smh :/
Yes i remember asking that because a kid at school broke my inhaler as a "joke" in the middle of one of my asthma attacks I got angry I told a teacher and she said that I shouldn't have gotten angry I had to tell the teacher the next day cuz i had to be rushed to the hospital AND I FELT SO BAD FOR GETTING ANGRY ! BECAUSE since the kid who broke the inhaler was popular alot of the kids started telling me I was in the wrong and that I was rude and arrogant btw all I said to the kid was that he was rude a peice of crap and garbage I just passed out after that .if u want the details like why he broke my inhaler and stuff just tell u want them and I'll give them
I still feel a little bad for calling him those names
@@flowra19 I totally get how you’d be angry & hurt, the kid shouldn’t have been touching your things and definitely shouldn’t have broken your inhaler that’s pretty messed up. He should’ve been reprimanded for that instead of you. But just remember in a couple years you’ll likely never have to see or deal with these people again! 😀
either that or they seem like the worst people ever
@@aliciadeadlydaisy7543 thx sadly in 2 weeks schools starting again and hes in my class 😔
Not only does the girl who’s bf didn’t pay for her meal need to dump the bf but she also needs to dump her friends, because what friends are those who could just sit there and watch their friend pick the scrapes off of her bfs plate?!? 😀if that was my friend I would happily pay for their meal 🤦🏾♀️
Fax, or at the very least split the meal in half if your hard on cash 😭 like if I care about you we're gonna be equally full or hungry 50/50 for sure
And they had the NERVE to say that she was the one being rude and in the wrong like huh???
@@superg6787 Righttt
Tbh if it was a stranger i would buy them some food literally insane i cant imagine not offering my friend a meal if they they got their purse stolen 🧍🏾♀️
In my opinion I saw the five day thing as a slight overreaction for me it would've been simple enough waiting five or more days to be paid back, and then when I heard the robbing part my feelings changed. It's not polite to get up and leave when your bf is, whether he realizes it or not, being a jerk but it's perfectly polite for him to say she could eat his scraps? Paying a meal for himself with her money?? Those friends must've been originally his friend group or something, I wouldn't know
My daughters father literally said this to me because I had my mom with me during my c-section. He didn’t go to any doctors appointments or even see me the entire time I was pregnant didn’t even show up when I had the baby. But had the audacity to get that I didn’t want him in the room. Lmao
I hope the kid from the dad story learns that her dad cares so much about her, as a teenager it might not be obvious at first but the date could have been a horrible creep, not wanting to meet her parents is a big red flag. I wish I had a dad like him
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I would bet my life on the fact that after girly left the restaurant, the boyfriend played victim and turned the entire story on his back to make her seem in the wrong
He seem the type idk but I feel it
And the “friends” she had even was against her wthhh I hope she dropped them all
She let him borrowed money and when she didn’t have none to buy some food her boyfriend and “friends” didn’t buy her none 💀💀 and just told her to eat his leftovers what kind of animal do they think she is 😭💀
I'm surprised the friends didn't buy her anything. If my friend got robbed I'd buy him a meal.
I hope it's ex boyfriend by now.
Saying "going to therapy should be like getting a check up or going to the dentist" was actually a really good observation. I never thought of it that way but it makes a lot of sense, someone's mental health can be just as susceptible to illness or stress as their physical health.
the last one threw me for a loop bc at first i was like “a relationship shouldn’t be so transactional and you shouldn’t demand someone to pay you back like that unless it was a large amount of money” i’ve had friends demand i pay them back for meals (when we go out to eat and it’s just easier to pay all together) when it’s easier to just go back and forth paying for both meals (it’s not perfectly even but we were both financially comfortable and i don’t mind it not being totally even). it just feels so transactional to keep a tally of how much i owe you. of course it’s not right to take advantage of a friend’s kindness and just be a money leech but that wasn’t the scenario.
anyway, i feel like this situation is completely different. this person got ROBBED and their bf won’t even get them a meal??? i get being broke but goddamn why even go to dinner if you’re that broke? at that point, stay at home and figure out your life. also why do ppl date ppl they obviously don’t like. it does not feel at all like the bf likes his partner one bit 🙄
imagine a parent that would listen to your frustration, actually reflect, and even write a REDDIT post to get a better understanding of their actions !!! he's a gold tier dad
So many people would kill for a dad like that ( i would too since my dad is absent in my life ), i’m around the same age as that girl and she honestly just annoyed me since she thought her dad’s opinion on the relationship didn’t matter. Girl you are 14, a CHILD, your parents have every right to monitor your relationship and if they feel like something is up they have a right to step in, that is their job.
Bare minimum
@@humanbean4037 it’s not bare minimum to ask Reddit lol
@@n0x_childe493 u right
@@humanbean4037 Whole lot better than some parents.
y’all let’s just take a moment to appreciate how she called us her *debussies* I feel so special rn 😭😭
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fr
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swaht im sayin
The last one i must admit i didnt think such a horrible and disgusting behaviour was even possible.
When I heard they were 14 and one didn't want to meet the parents my immediate thought was the "shy" one was probably older or was sketchy. As a parent you should never let your kids go off with someone you don't know, if anything happened you don't know anything about the stranger last with your child.
To the last one: She not in the wrong for being upset. She was robbed which is something very scary or even traumatizing. The boyfriend was not understanding and the a-hole. She gave him money too, so the least he could do is pay for her meal OR order something for the both of them. Idk if I would breaking up with him for this but if is how he usually treats her then that will be the final straw. (Also the friends need to be dropped, how are they siding with him)
A lot of people’s friends are actually scared to tell them the truth, they just agree with everything
Yes. I almost think this is a sign of what he would be like in the future too. He clearly lacks empathy, and I wouldn't let it slide.
For real, and it's so weird why the friends didn't order and pay for her meal too
drop the friends AND dump the boyfriend 🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️how they letting you sit there with no plate?!!Like nobody could’ve offered to at least SHARE? She just had to get her boyfriends scraps as if she’s a dog?🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️
i would've also broken up with him after that. how do u just let someone, your own gf, watch you enjoy ur meal after she just got ROBBED?? that's so inconsiderate and rude i-
“your a good dad”……”and a good writer to…” had me rolling on the floor laughing 😭 NAH BUT FR HE WAS SO GOOD AT WRITING IT WAS LIKE A BOOK
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The way the boyfriend in the last story is basically eating the meal from HER money cause he didnt even pay back yet UGHHH AND SHE DIDNT EVEN GET TO HAVE HER OWN FOOD
“Billy bob jr
Age:American
Job:harassing native speakers” why is this so funny to me 😭
The fact that the last girl even told her friends and bf about being robbed, is beyond me. Drop them and get your money back at a small claims court💖
Agree
Fr he told her to not to worry then tell her to eat off of his plate🙄
Tbh Kinda weird how her friends didn’t offer to buy her a meal either
@@sparkleytxt4041 unless they didn’t know about it that is strange
@@sparkleytxt4041 yea I would never let my friends just sit there with an empty plate while me and my others friends are all enjoying meals like they all sound bad drop all of them
One of my psychology professors pointed out that EVERYONE should see a therapist. It's not possible, partially because there aren't enough therapists, but EVERYONE can benefit from therapy. Therapy isn't just for trauma. Therapy can help you better understand your environment, your relationships, and your own thoughts and behaviors. Therapists can help you with communication with others, reducing stress in your life, developing coping strategies and working with your weaknesses, understand other people's viewpoints, deal with grief, manage anger or toxic behaviors, and more. And best of all, your therapist can tell you whether you're the asshole or not! There isn't a single person who couldn't benefit from a good therapy session.
Yess I’m glad someone spoke abt this, there is this stigma around therapy but it’s not just for “mentally sick” anyone can benifit from it, venting and having someone to listen and respectfully give advice is a wonderful thing even if ur fucking richest
i hated therapy so much, and i agree that everyone Theoretically can benefit from it but it also isnt for everyone
@@_lexi definately, not for everyone but the stigma shouldn't be the reason you don't go to one. very good point
The function of a therapist has been fulfilled by others in an individual's environment since forever. It's not the same as someone who has training in how the mind works on a technical level, but a good mentor with a healthy dose of compassion, active listening skills, and experience is a substitute that shouldn't be scoffed at for those who don't have that option.
I still think people should have access to therapy universally, I'm just putting this out there for the benefit of maybe opening some people up to the opportunities in their lives that might be neglected because certain criteria about them aren't met. This isn't meant to be an endorsement to just make a mentor/confidant out of just anybody- they have to be willing and able to hear your struggles without using them against you to even come close to fulfilling this role.
I have about 4 years of pent up rage, I need to let it out but I know that it would only hurt me worse, (fear of therapy, psych wards, hospitals, doctors, ect)
I was so so happy, when my partner and my friend both decided they also want therapy after I started one. I felt like it was a personal gift to me (of course it wasn't; I know that), to heal together and build new communication and support each other.
“Subscribe or I’ll bite you” love the positive energy 😭
The therapy one had a happy ending! People gave him good advise and he’s now going to encourage his boyfriend to get therapy and talk to his own therapist about his fears and insecurities. I love a happy ending! 💕
Phew, that's good to know
Thank god! I was rooting for the BF to dump OP’s sorry ass for how they reacted. Imagine thinking someone is COPYING YOU GETTING THERAPY. how fucking self centered!!!
ayy i'm glad, and hats off to his boyfriend for being so patient LMAO it isn't as if i'd break up with my partner if they said what the MC said to me but i know that i definitely would get pissed
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"he made therapy seem so casual and easy to do" isn't that what it should be?? isn't that what therapists hope their patients feel like??
Ur right but also i feel like for HIM it was probably hard to go to therapy And its hard to talk abt ur trauma so i feel like thats what he meant yk
Maybe after a while, but when you've lived through very traumatic and painful experiences, reliving them in therapy can be extremely hard to do even if you find the right therapist for you. The healing process is not the same for everybody and it's not necessarily easy or enjoyable.
It's like saying that someone who is on rehabilitation for a broken hip should find their sessions easy and casual just because the person with a wrist sprain finds them easy and casual. The pain and complexity levels (plus the person receiving the therapy) are just not the same.
God I hate hate hate when people gate keep mental health. This person is either extremely immature or weaponizing their trauma or both
I understand what some of these replies mean but people have different ways to cope and react to trauma. Not everyone feels like it’s hard to go to therapy. Perhaps that’s what the situation was for the guy
@@Papasmurf47829 mental health and trauma do not justifie your actions. This is why generational trauma happens with kids who had bad parents. The parents are traumatized, justify their actions and abuse their kids through that. Same situation with this person. They're justifying their actions by having a rough childhood.
I'm not a parent but it's very important to know who your kid is going with incase you get kidnapped it's a huge red flag that the guy was so sketch about meeting the girls father I wish teens knew about safety and just how important details like this are the dad wants to keep you safe you're lucky you get dates most dads say no all together
DUDEEEE I TOTALLY AGREE! as i was watching i was like i would directly break up with a boyfriend like that. you are NOT alone LMAOOOO
I hate when people feel like they have the “right” to be in a delivery room. The only person who has the right to be in there is the pregnant person delivering and any necessary doctors. All other people should be invited, INCLUDING the father.
I don't understand your comment. All other people should be invited but only the one giving birth & doctors have the right to be there?
@@tata8495 correct. what dont you understand?
@@hamildiggthonysauce So the other people should be invited but don't have the right to be there?
@@tata8495 yes - in other words, nobody should be allowed in the room unless invited (besides necessary doctors)
@@terrortax oh thx
I love deb's little giggle it's so cute 😭
right!!
Fr ❤
Agreed💕
I was just about to comment that lol
The first story. Smth like that happened to me and my mom for speaking Spanish…….in a Mexican restaurant…..and our server was also Mexican and speaking Spanish. The Caucasity
I had to qualify for therapy, I’m not even joking. They talked to my mom and went At first I didn’t qualify, but they decided that I would have a few sessions to see if I did. It’s been around a year since then, and I’m still in therapy
The therapist one rlly had me on the edge of my seat. Like yes of course u have trauma but that doesn’t give u the right to say someone who’s had a supposedly good childhood doesn’t “need” therapy. It’s for anyone who’s interested and yes there r always things to improve. To me it seems like HES the one undermining his bf. and for all he knows maybe he just inspired him to finally get a therapist to, it doesn’t mean he never had the thought of having one before. Sorry for the paragraph, luv you deb
I've always said regardless of childhood everyone should go to therapy after a friend of mine started I might go as well. I am amusing the bf started to think about some things in his life after OP mentioned going 🤷🏾♀️
Exactly!! Just because one had a good childhood doesnt mean that their mental health is okay…
why does the guy in the therapy one remind me of my friend when i was going through something like she was getting therapy for the first time and then someone in my family died and i had a breakdown in my exam and this girl acted like i infringed on her rights of being the mentally ill friend
omg ikr 😭 and it’s also the fact that even dealing with a person who went through trauma (and, i can assume, discussed it with them) can be really taxing on their own mental health. why is OP so against his BF getting a safe space? god i was so mad when deb was reading that post.
This hurt me personally cause on the surface level i too seem to have a good childhood, a perfect one even and for a long time i thought so too I'd be like i have this and that so i have no right to be sad about such and such but then when I took my mental health seriously i started to realize many issues in my childhood and the way i was raised that contributed to me having to deal with anxiety and depression among other things now and if it wasn't for me taking that step even though I thought everything was fine i wouldn't have gotten better. So i agree with the friends,you have no right to tell someone wether or not to get therapy.
The last story tho, I can't imagine being around someone so toxic that they will not pay you back EVEN THO YOU GOT ROBBED and won't even pay for your meal, THEN GO AND ORDER SOMETHING BIG INFRONT OF YOU and say, "oh I can't afford to buy you food just sit there and starve" 😘😍
Frrr tho drop his ass asap
they need to drop that baggage asap. delete the whole relationship
BRO EXACTLY They borrowed money that haven't payed back yet AND refused to buy them a meal, that's an INSTANT break up. They need new friends too for thinking that getting up and leaving was an overreaction.
I can't get over the friends' reactions. Like, it's one thing to have a toxic SO - it's so common that you basically go "oh, here's another" when you hear about it - but how the hell did an entire group of people she think _she_ was the one in the wrong? Even if they didn't have the full story of her getting robbed and him owing her money, how did they think it was okay for the SO to get a nice dinner and toss her scraps as if she were a begging dog?
@@raerohan4241 I agree, I couldn't believe that none of her friends offered to pay for her meal or just have everyone pitch in a little...
girl i love your energy and as someone who watching stuff with subtitles when i’m not deaf i’m so grateful you put a ss on screen
That dad really was giving author vibes like it sounded like a book
Fun fact: The whole «checking if youre eligible for therapy” thing is like actually a thing in my country. You straight up can be refused help if they think you’re not sick enough, and the waiting lists can be yeeears long. A lot of people die just waiting for therapy. And even crisis help is hard to get, if you’re suicidal they likely won’t get you committed before you actually attempt, sometimes if they don’t think your attempt was bad enough they don’t do anything then either. It’s insane
holy fucking shit. i would’ve kms-ed in your country!!! i’ve never attempted but without therapy i probably would have… that shit is CRAZY!!!!!
Is there no option to pay for therapy in your country? In the US people pay for their own therapy unless they have insurance.
Where are you from?
Finland?
Gosh u cant be serious where are u from???
Ain’t no way the friends WATCHED her being fed literal SCRAPS AND SLOP and didn’t say anything or even offer to pay for her. I really hope that she isn’t associated with any of those people anymore and I hope the next time she goes out to eat she buys herself a nice meal and posts it for her (supposed) ex to see because girl you best believe I would’ve done the same..
Edit: OMG I just checked this comment and it has 1.8K LIKES? Thank you so much :)
AGREE. This story literally ruined my whole dayyy They must have been her bf's friends because there is no way real friends would just watch you starve, knowing that you got robbed
This!!! I was so confused on why her friends didn’t even bother to ask if they can pay for her meal or even let her borrow some money to get a meal
Yeah I would’ve definitely left them 😒
@@stormy3758 literally the boyfriend said eat my leftovers ?? HUHH bye he better be her ex now 🙄😪
if I were one of her friends I would just get up and leave with her then pay for dinner at another restaurant or just go home and order pizza
Stop you're so charismatic and chill and hilarious at the same time and also like an artist too?? (no srsly the sketches helped entertain me and made me retain the info in this vid much better) bestie this is my first video of urs and I'm alr subscribing
you make these stories so much more entertaining with your commentary and editing
No because why was that dad’s confession actually good in terms of the writing 😭
Fr like wtf?? It puts wattpad to shame lmaoo 😂
Boi has been paying attention in English class😂
@@SSetsuka that’s not much of a comparison TBH
The therapy one…… YIKES!!! Telling someone that they’re not “messed up enough” to go to therapy is something that should be discussed with her therapist bc that is toxic
I thought it was a guy.
@@Israel_Augustine it was
Dw they had an update, They ended up talking it over and they ended up encouraging their bf to get therapy and talking to their therapist ab their own insecurities and behavior!!
@@Israel_Augustine they are both men
Talking about the therapy one, I literally had the best childhood I could’ve ever asked for and I’m still in therapy 😭 like girly that’s not how it works 💀
Girl, you NEED to do more of the these confessions!!!
The dad is correct to meet the people his 14 y/o daughter dates, teens are so impressionable and could easily get caught up with an older guy
I felt it was a little bit overbearing personally, maybe he could just ask for a description of him or why he doesn’t want to meet him
@@CursedCaptainGaming it's not overbearing if she's 14.
@@NoiseDay ah yes, if your daughter is 14, you are not legally allowed to ask her any questions about the guy she’s with
@@CursedCaptainGaming it’s for safety, she could be going on a date with a senior as an 8th grader and that’s not safe
@@lilbuttfart7652 That’s not safe I agree, that’s why you should just ASK her questions about him, you’ll probably know if she’s lying too.
The birth giving situation she is not the a hole…. She’s doing something deadly terrifying and excruciating and should be surrounded by love and support. It’s the entitlement for me.
not to mention PRIVATE. he has no right to be there just because he’s the sperm provider lmao
@andersonparl7405girl no it did not 😮💨
yeah imagine just GIVING BIRTH FOR THE FIRST TIME and instead of support you get a selfish entitled bastard who is being angry with you?? uh no.
I simply DEMAND 😩👏 more of these videos this is entertaining af
imagine calling the suicidal hotline and they put you on hold with that elevator music
If your partner says "oh you can eat the scraps off my plate" instead of just like, ordering appetizers to share, nah. I'd toss his food on him, flip him off and leave. Like we're done, you're done.
THIS energy 💯
If I had a girlfriend who was like that- Like it's done. We are done. Your DONE
nah fr cuz wdym i can have your scraps when im literally ROBBED 💀
you’re the perfect person to do Reddit reactions I’m so glad you made this!!!
same
FRRR
Imagine not knowing Eugene 🤓
@@hohoho2368 who..
Breaking the likes of 333 likes
16:16 those friends are fake af. The boyfriend is a bum, how do you borrow money from your partner and you can’t even pay for their meal wtf.
Honestly some of my friends tries to make it look like my trauma isn't a good enough reason to be sad to the point where I think I am attention seeking when I talk to someone about something that happened. I can't even talk to people anymore bc of it. Not even a therapist.
About the BF Going To Therapy one:
I have had a much, much, much worse childhood than the guy who posted that AITA. But I am NOT going to gatekeep therapy. In fact, I actively ADVOCATE for "normal" people to go to therapy because it is HEALTHY.
Therapists and psychiatrists help us understand how to process our emotions (and for others, our trauma) in a HEALTHY and POSITIVE way, and I think more people should really learn about how to do this stuff!
And just because someone had a "good childhood" does NOT mean they're mentally stable. Plenty of people who end their lives have had a "good childhood" or have "seemed normal". It is NOT okay to tell someone not to get therapy just because you have trauma they don't have.
I knew someone IN MY OWN FAMILY who passed away from a sudden pill overdose, and they were an incredibly cheerful and "normal" person! You NEVER know what someone else is going through, EVER. And it is fucking INSULTING that someone would think that way about other people.
So yes, OP is 100% the asshole in that situation. NEVER tell people NOT to get therapy, and shame on him for thinking that way!!!!
i had a pretty depressing childhood and never got a therapist, my friend got a therapist, and from what i heard my problems were worse?? idrk, but literally had no issues, its helped her so good for her.
They're making this whole therapy thing all about them too. I'm glad their friends know that's messed up. Good friends let you know when you're wrong.
Uhm ur right and all but let's not compare traumas
@@bgggg4168 no ones comparing trauma
@@cupcatte
they literally said “i have a much, much, much worse childhood than OP”…
The fact that her friends thought it was low of her her to get up and leave, and she should just be polite and stay there 🤦🏽♀️
Like those aren’t friends…
right, because it's rude to not stay and watch all your friends eat while you sit there starving
She DEF needs new friends
and the fact that if the roles were reversed and she was the boyfriend whose girlfriend wouldnt pay them back, NO flack would have been given. almost guaranteed. it reeked to me personally of "well you should just be polite and stay (because it's more lady-like)"
Those some fake ass friends she's got
And also like the boyfriend is so inconsiderate like I would throw his meal on him if I was in her place
Literally kept checking my internet to see why the heck discord wasnt connecting to load the message I got, only to find out you added that sound in omg lol
Deb: What’s that thing the judge bangs on
Me: the secretary
not that one guy gatekeeping therapy ☠️
his logic in questioning: “why do you always have to copy me 🥺🥺 be original for once 😒”
No offense but he sounded like a crappy bf like your bf just wants to self improve but you don't like it cause he lived a good life and doesn't deserve it like you don't want him to be happy. The bf seems too nice to just quit exploring his mental health just for a self centered bf. It might be from all his trauma so I hope he gets help from therapy
LMFAOOO FRR and the fact that he thinks copying is a bad thing in this situation like what
idk if i should be intimidated, impressed, or scared after those confessions
why did i read one of those as impregnated- 💀💀
@@maggiiee3583 👀
girll. this is my first time watching you and absolutely loved it. the editing and personality were 🤌you really had me cracking
I've seen an IG post from Reddit once, where this girl was talking about how her sister was pissed she hadn't used contacts to hide her heterochromia once (she did it usually to "not drive attention from her sister at school") and that had somehow ruined the sister's date and upcoming wedding. And their mother was on the sister's side. If everything laid out was true, the girl must have been gaslit af, she started sensing something was wrong with the whole situation only after Reddit's reaction. I'm still a bit haunted by that story, that's so damn sad.
brooo the birth one 💀 imagine how dehumanizing it is just being seen as a birth giver by your ex. Like, shes not even friends with that person at that point but shes expected to do something so personal and vulnerable as let him watch her give birth??? And not him being SHOCKED that she would say no to that?????
The Therapist Gatekeeper definitely has some unresolved envy from his traumatic childhood towards people who are able to openly express their needs and wants and having access to a safe space. While the Gatekeeper mentioned that he had therapy when he was younger, he claims it was just sort of like making a pros and cons list for each parent. Seeing his partner just being able to up and say "I think therapy would be good for me because I feel like I could work on a couple of things in my life" pisses him off because he wasn't able to have that in his childhood, and he probably couldn’t properly communicate his needs to his parents like his partner did to him so easily. The focus was on his parents and their divorce, who's fault this and this was, not on their child and how it was affecting them. The way the Gatekeeper reacted to his partner wanting therapy was definitely shitty, but I can see why he acted that way if he has never been able to resolve his childhood trauma from the divorce and has had to be a parent to his parents, rather than living life as a child and having his problems truly dealt with. Good on him for getting therapy now after all that time; he needs it. Keep doing these videos, I like Dylan’s reactions to r/AITA submissions as well, and you both have great things to say about the submissions. If you’d like, you should also look at and include some of the comments under the submissions (what other people are saying/think about the situation, and whether or not they’d deam the submittor the “a**hole”). Dylan did that in one of his videos and I liked seeing his reactions to what other people had to say/ just him reading the comments in general. Love your hair by the way, the blonde is super pretty! I have been debating whether or not I should get blonde colored braids, but I fear it may look weird on me. May I ask what type are they, and how did you get the pretty curls at the top? :) Have a great day!
the curls at the top of her braids are from curling the ends and using a claw clip!! (half up half down style)
very well put, i completely agree.. you clearly have an amazing amount of emotional intelligence and empathy- this kind of response is what i hope to see from everyone, but rarely find, especially on the internet
@@angelab4077 thank u so much!!
@@theasewell4037 thank you so much, i totally agree. It's definitely easy to see the submitter of that as selfish, but it's important to see why they reacted that way. have a great day
@@michelle-qg9td yea everyone should be able to get therapy if they want to no one should be stopped because you think your trauma is bigger then theirs that just sounds selfish and bad
I have the exact opposite problem with therapy from my partner.
He refuses to go to therapy for his trust issues because.. he has trust issues.
THERAPY FOR EVERYONEEEEEEE
this is the first video i’ve ever seen of you and you’re literally so hilarious 😭
“The gf after eating a fresh bowl of oxygen for dinner” had me dying on the floor. I can’t Deb is soooo funny 😂
She’s way too funny for her own good😭😭😭
the girl: i have anxiety and i think those people are talking about me
also her: im gonna go confront them
PLSSS like why she so bold and for what 🤣
@@thriftskull5549 fr like if she really had anxiety she wouldve sat there and minded her own gd business
hearing you speak french so nicely as a french girl just convinced me to follow you, also spanish is so easy and hard at the same time but i feel u it's so cool to just speak spanish
watching this video HAS to be the most i have laughed in a while, like your humor and editting style is SO FUNNY I SWEAR TO GOD subscribed and will be binge watching your content
The lady that made a scene of people talking a different language... where does the confidence come from when she thinks strangers shittalk her? ☠
Edit: I loved the video, Deb, more wouldn't be bad at all! Also, bro if my boyfriend tried to be cute like that at a restaurant, giving me table scraps like a dog? Done and dusted. 🥰 Like, no.
right, like everything ain’t about her
Maybe she has schizophrenia and she hears voices that aren't there, +it would explain the paranoia.
She's likely just insecure and had a bad day though.
I can kinda understand how she feels (I get paranoid really easily due to childhood trauma from bullying), after going through that for your developmental years I can certainly see where you’d automatically assume people are talking about you, in fact I’m guilty of it too (I’ve never lashed out or anything but I’m constantly worried people are judging my body/actions or talking about me), but she certainly wasn’t in the right for yelling about that. I understand it’s a really difficult thing to overcome but it doesn’t excuse being a complete asshole to strangers
If anything, I thought the whole story was going to lead to a third friend making a scene. Not a random person on a different table lol
I got karen vibes from her tbh
Wtf if she's not comfortable with him being there while she's giving birth, why is there a problem? Like the audacity of this man.
Fr let me just leave and come back and now that I’m back in your life for a second I want to see the baby 🙄 that not how it works damn people have audacity fr 😫💔
“Your a GUD DAD.. and a goood writer too ..” 😂😂
7:05 This person really just said that therapy "wasn't a casual thing". Daughter of someone who owns a therapy practice here, almost everyone i know wants, has had or has a therapist, its very common. Lots of people want one just to talk to and it makes them feel good, they aren't there to only diagnose you with childhood trauma believe it or not. I know lots of therapists who have therapists.
Deb: “Why does everyone think I’m a furry??”
Also Deb: “Subscribe or I’ll BITE YOU” 😸
*edit* Holy tysm for the likes 😭
that’s what i’m sayin
But humans can bite too and it’s actually quite dangerous with the chance of getting infected by one
@@spiritsofwolves the comment was a joke idk if yours is satire tho 😭
@@Mayysflores i am confused can i not say that when someone is joking?
@@spiritsofwolves you can
Honestly the therapy one enraged me. Regardless of trauma or past if you feel you need therapy or even just want it go ahead. Nobody gets to judge why you get to go to therapy, because things effect people differently, so something one person doesn’t need therapy for another person could.
I first went to therapy because of an irrotational fear when I was a kid, my parents didn’t think I needed it but they decided to try it. After doing therapy frequently we realized I had multiple anxiety disorders and some trauma from being forced into things that terrified me too fast. Therapy helped me and my family realize that I, unlike was first thought was not mentally healthy and probably never will be. It helped me realize that I need and always will need extra support, and to not be ashamed of it. Therapy is an amazing tool and I recommend everyone who can tries it at least a few times.
Rant over, just wanted to complain about how gatekeeping therapy is awful lmao
Exactly everyone needs therapy for something and I went to therapy for the same reason like as a young kid I had irrational fear of death and I would think of ways I could die in my head or how my family could die, like anything triggered those thoughts even just walking down the street made me think of buildings falling on me. So my mom got me therapy and I was diagnosed with anxiety, unfortunately I stopped going to therapy but I plan on going back when I can.
@@Galaxylion_omega yeah, mine was a different fear but it was kinda like yours because I would think of it every time I was around water even if it was just a glass of it, which is kind of a problem lmao. I had and still have a lot of ear problems as a kid and my entire life I was strictly forbidden from getting water in my ears so when I was allowed to for a couple years before it went to shit again I was terrified to even take showers because it was just something that I was told my entire life. Last year I was told I can get water in my ears finally and it’s the same cycle again unfortunately:(
As someone who's been in therapy for five years, I always advocate that people go if they feel they may need it, no matter the reason. Even if it's "just" the daily stresses of life, having a non-biased third party to help you think over big decisions, work on personal issues, etc can be a huge quality of life improvement.
@@Galaxylion_omega Literally the exact same thing. Thought I was okay, that my intense crippling fear of death was normal, went to therapy, yeah no. So happy I went, because now I know how to silence those fears.
the age-old question of "Am I an asshole?" which just leads us into self-spiraling hatered towards ourselves and the birth of our villain origin arcs
this is my first video of yours but you are so insanely funny omfg 😭
reddit is absolutely UNHINGED sometimes😭
Ikr
no it's unhinged like all the time
THE WAY THE BOYFRIEND EXPECTED HER TO JUST SIT THERE WITH NO FOOD AND ALL HIS FRIENDS MADE ME THINK OF THE ALL TOO WELL SHORT FILM, SHE EVEN GOT GASLIGHTED SMH-
after that wonderful speech, i cant believe im not subscribed (no, i genuinely thought i was lol)
deb is so funny omg gotta hit that sub button
Honestly, I think therapy should be casual since it makes it easier for everyone. Making therapy a more normal thing takes the tabu that seems to still be there away or at least makes it smaller. It makes it easier for everyone to get help without the fear of getting judged
The stepmom is just one of those rude stepparents who try so hard to control and low-key harass their other partners children
as someone who is currently invalidating my own mental health, the therapist reddit post really got me. i've personally put off seeking help because i believed my trauma, childhood, and mental health was not as bad as others and therefore therapy can't be an option. also opening up to someone whom i don't know and being alone while discussing my problems seems so scary to me (it genuinely makes me feel anxious), i feel like i'll immediately start crying as soon as i speak and that i'll be judged for being so sensitive lmao. i recently had a huge rant about my mental health on a gc with two of my very close friends, it felt good finally being transparent and honest about my health to them. im so thankful that they appreciated me being able to speak about my slight childhood trauma and all the events that lead me to who i am today, i remember that they told me to try to get help. but like- girl i dont have time?? anyway the main reason i've kept telling myself not to get therapy is the anxiety, what if my problems aren't that bad and that it's just a phase and that i'll get over it? despite what everyone has been trying to tell me, my brain cant help but deny it and invalidate it. i genuinely feel so lost and wrecked. school is stressing me tf out, my self esteem has gone to shit, but i feel like it'll just go away over time. sorry for the long ass paragraph, whoever read through it ily and i hope you're doing okay
idk where you live, but any form of trauma, little or big, is trauma and if you've been having all these issues, you should definitely get therapy. if u don't want to go out, you can get online therapy, if it's too expensive, idk where you live but where i live, the government covers therapy bills and there are free therapy services and activities program for teens so maybe you'll have that where you live?
I immediately had tears running down my face during my first therapy session. It was like all my feelings had been bottled up too long and I never let them out to anyone, until that point. I was in your exact spot once. I thought those feelings would go away too, but I found that talking to someone and letting them help you is better in the long road.
Even if you feel like your problems are minuscule compared to others’, therapy is still good if you feel you need it. People go to therapy for all different reasons, it doesn’t have to be something big. Problems are problems, don’t let other people make you feel invalid or like what you’re going through isn’t worthy of being talked about.
I feel like getting/needing therapy can sometimes have negative connotations when in reality, it’s the complete opposite. Therapy is meant to help you and I feel it’s a sign of strength when you go out of your way to get it, and you seek help; You want to get better, so you take it into your own hands to do so. It makes me proud when people do that.
@@raenia3655 fortunately, where i live there are some places where therapy is being funded by organisations and the government so i'll do some research and try to figure out some places, but i wouldnt wanna be doing online therapy when my family is in the house all the time. i still havent opened up to any of them and i'm still way too afraid to be honest with them. anyway ty for your reply!!
@@1dlce1 thank you for this, i'll try my best in finding help. i still have underlying worries about opening up and talking to a therapist but your reply has definitely lifted some of those. ty for sharing your first experience and ty for the reassurance, it really means a lot!
although from this youtube comment it seems to me like it's not just a bad phase, my point of view is: if it is, so what? why would it being a phase forbid you from going to theraphy? the worst that can happen is you doing something pointless for an hour a week. your brain may not see any good reasons to go to theaphy but there aren't any good reasons to not go either! if you have the means, trying it won't be worse than not trying.
wishing you all the best 💕
I absolutely loved it and NEED a part two!!!
So want more of this😭🤞🏽