Lets End It | Short Film on Divorce | Women Empowerment | Why Not | Child Custody
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- Опубликовано: 21 апр 2023
- Nandini is a successful & an independent woman with two kids Kavya and Kiaan, and a husband Aaditya. She is trying to provide for her kids but lacks the support of her husband. Aditya has a failed career and is highly critical of Nandini. Society applauds her for how wonderfully she keeps her personal and professional life balanced. But the reality is starkly different. What could have possibly led her to take a drastic step and seek DIVORCE with the husband she has been with for over a decade and have raised two beautiful kids with? Watch the full video to find out what happens with Nandini & her family. Do share your thoughts with us.
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Good message. The silly fare that "divorce affects kids" must be stopped . Kids growing up in a hostile environment but showing a face of happy family to the rest of the world is even worse.
You are talking silly. Of course divorce does affect kids. What are you even talking about. Even kids living on hostile environment also affects them. So, the first thing couples should do is to figure out ways to adjust and live better. They should sincerely try for things. If nothing works as the last option they can divorce.
Can relate to Kavya. By God's grace, problems in my house have reduced a lot but my whole childhood and teenage have been all about watching my parents fight at every little thing. I was shocked at how they asked me not to interfere even though their toxic relationship affected my mental health and traumatized me in every way. I requested my parents to get divorced and everytime they asked me to stay out of it. RIDICULOUS ! Fights to some extent is normal and healthy in every household. But fights everyday, every week, every month and even on special days? UNBEARABLE !
I completely endorse you views and wish you a peaceful and normal healthy life.
@@nareshdev4119 Thanks a lot.Wishing you the same !
God bless you with strength to overcome this trauma. if you are old enough then clearly state to your parents that if they want you to stay out of their fights then they mustn't fight in front of you or your siblings, else I shall get involved and do whatever is possible to earn peace.
@@neelthenaughty I do not have siblings. So, it was more difficult. But now Idk why but my parents have really stopped fighting and even if there are fights, they make things normal immediately. Better late than never. This makes me feel relieved a little bit. Thank you for your kind words
Sooo true...exactly for me..i can relate to each word...for them it was routine...it destroyed my health and mental well being.Why i feel..such constant everyday fights r mostly in bengali families more..i am also bengali..they are toooo critical..both strong..no one melts down..n abusive language all time..despite being highly educated
Unhappiness together, happiness apart..? I'll go for happiness apart , it's not easy but good things won't come for easy. ❤
It is really very disappointing that even today most men don't know how to live with a successful women and share all responsibility.
@Duranta3 What is the explanation for domestic violence which is mostly done by men?
@Duranta3 bro really..? Which man marries a homeless women huhh..!! Lol!!
@@togethers women do more. it's just that men do physical and women do mental.
@Duranta3 bro like literally..!!! ...like if men and women both are employed so they have to divide the household chores...nobody is saying all the work has to be done by the man...but they have to do it incase both are employed coz it's their duty and responsibility.....
@Duranta3 this shows your mentality
Toxic men spotted guys
Story relates deeply with my family... As a daughter i always do kavya's role but unfortunately my parents are not understanding.. they want to be in toxic relationship but not will titled as divorced😢
One suggestion stop talking to them for some days except few words that are really needed. Gradually they will understand. I can assure
@@sanjoydey3593 don't give such suggestions... Her parents are already in pain due to fights.... @megham u do one thing ... Just let them fight .. dont resolve....
Pray for them... Prayers work miracles dear...❤
I can understand the trauma you are passing through. Patience and perseverance is the only option to make your parents understand to decide the future course of "family." Living apart is not a bad option; it may make them feel their mistakes in due course of period.
This is the story of almost all families.
Marriage cannot be 50-50, it is 100-100, if one expect women to be available at work and at house, same goes for men also. Most of men complain when their support is needed at home. Both partners need to support each other in all aspects with mutual respect. If things are not working after raising issues also then its better to leave. In this story also, she is raising a concern to man to resolve it but he finds it irritating and continuously taunting her. More than her, he is insecure, yes the discussion is needed when you are changing plans but feeling offended if she is taking care of finances shows male ego.
Very true
Very well said!! Mostly working women face this. They have to manage work and domestic chores. And the same men taunt women if they leave early. Been there. Thankfully this lady was financially doing well
We don't want to be as per these restrictive norms we want our life
I may not agree with what you have said, but I defend to the death your right to say it. Here the issue of ego is from both sides because neither was ready to go for any compromise nor had any care for children, especially teen daughter who completely understood the prevailing vicious atmosphere,
You women need to pay alimony and maintenance to men. You also need to fight at the borders like men. You need to marry unemployed men. So stop complaining about men based on half truths. You women are so highly privileged. And you still find ways to complain
Divorce can be avoided if we keep our egos aside and start understanding our partner. In this case, I believe the father was wrong. He always started the fight. If he kept his ego aside, he would have understood that his wife is working for the family. She was trying her best to look after the home as well.
I may not agree with what you have said, but I defend to the death your right to say it. However, was huband not working and taking care of his family?
Don't talk nonsense
@@nellaiguy8582 I may not agree with what you have said, but I will defend to the death your right to say it. However, could you please elaborate your views? Thanks.
Ego ok but insult no man will tolerate
@@iambeingsarcastic7116 same goes with women
Nice video stay away from toxic relationships 👍 👌 #Lifetak
Need to adjust and maintain peace for the sake of children though difficult but many lives ruin coz of toxic relationship..This is a big pblm the world is facing today...Loads of love and best wishes to the makers...❤👍
Kabhi kabhi kuch couple mei duriyaan hi achi hoti hain ye duriyaan hi nazdikiyan laa deti hain..nice message given by this video. 👍👏👏
This is truly how the toxic men are
She made the best decision of her life
Never stay with a man who shouts at you and is always insecure
You will ruin your life
Stay away
Leaving is better than staying and rotting
I may not agree with what you have said, but I defend to the death your right to say it. What about a female who always shouts/insults her husband? Won't you call this her insecurity?
Men should never get married. Marriage is a scam and women are manipulative
Mr feminist stop Targeting whole men's you have never heard about male abuse
@@nareshdev4119 toxic feminism
@@umeshralekar5543 I can share your concerns. Family disputes are always a two-way traffic. Peace in a family is possible if both partners work for it together -- it can't be a one-sided game or an egoistic game to make the society happy. Family is a closely knit unit which includes children as well. Ego clashes have to be avoided at any cost by both partners.
I am watching chanel this from 3 years and I love u guys u just rock everything love u 😭👍😘😂😘😘 u all are awesome keep going
Best flim that I have watched. Lot's of things to be learnt.
I can never support divorce…..I would try my best not be get so far in arguments to the point where we need divorce.
Yes. I will divorce should be valid in case of domestic violence, which I believe is unacceptable.
In this video, the problem is ego. If we keep our egos aside and try to understand each other, I believe marital problems can be solved
Excellent acting !!!! A wonderful piece !!!! Very real !!!! So many working couples face this kind of stress & strain in their marriages which inevitably impact the children negatively .
Happiness apart ofcourse..... it never mean that you have to leave happiness after being a parent.... though parenthood is a great responsibility but it never demands to sacrifice your happiness.
Is it life tak or aaj tak.....😅
With no reason just make an issue big.
"Women empowerment" how?? As you mentioned.
Both were wrong.but u write women empowerment.....
but how were both wrong ?
@@vishakhaarya-jh5uj you have to be compassionate towards your partner. Both of them were not treating each other with respect. She also had a condescending attitude. She unilaterally decided vacation spot and even announced it to the friends. If the positions were reversed, the wife would also have wanted the husband to discuss vacation spot with her before announcing it to the friends.
@@mist00007 yup thats right she was absolutely wrong there but still we cant say that both were equally wrong.
Ending anything that is not working is anyday better than enduring it for a life time..... marriage is all about loving and respecting each other with small adjustments and a little bit of sacrifice from both the husband and the wife....but when it becomes compromise the relationship ends then and there .....and there is a patch created between the two once upon a time madly in love people, that is beyond repair ....it's better to be separated and happy than feel trapped being together
A better understanding is most important in any relationship , specially in marriage. If you have a supportive & a well understanding partner any marriage can last long . If you own a Family then it's very necessary to deal with these things.
Try to be happy together. Change one self and be together.
Not really possible
People are saying divorce is not the solution but they must not have had such relation
Sometimes we get too broken and no counselling can help us
Whenever you feel like this is the endgame
Go for it
Think about all reasons you want to leave also think about the obligations that make you stay
Then do what you feel is right
Our society is not great hence there are people who wont support us
But find your happiness
Help people you love find happiness
Ad long as you and kids dont suffer
It is good
It's easy said then done. A lot of us, irrespective of gender go through this. There is this constant fight of being correct and painting other people responsible for all is happening to oneself. We don't know how to deal with our own emotions and then start putting blame on others just to comfort us.
Happiness together always ♥️
The best comment among all ❤
Sometimes happiness is also in letting go.. 😊
This same situation is going with my family too.
My mom also go to work and my mom dad always fight with eachother.
I am just scared, I don't want them to be get separated.
I don't want anything besides a happy family that's all.
yep.. i understand ..
It’s so real! We see them in daily life. Unfortunately, ego spoils everything.
No forced relation for kids and family especially in case of abuse etc
My uncle got laid off during covid and my aunt earn more money than my uncle and had job but it's not always true women are victims it's men too bcoz she use to taunt him look at the society what they will think you are sitting at home and I'm going to work. So I just want to say lifetak don't always be one sided show such incident too..
Really nice topic
Your happiness is of utmost importance..if you are happy together, carry on the relationship and if not , just throw the burden off!
no, happiness is not of utmost importance. family is most important. your happiness is your responsibility, not your partner's. and people like u do not deserve to get married. stay away from marriage
No matter who earn more money man will always give money at the time of separation.
You come up with realistic topics Great work
Its better to get a divorce than ruin the future and mental peace. Lets just see the kids.. they have to suffer the most because of their parents. Its good to be apart rather than be together forcefully. Everyone should live for themselves not for their family or relatives.. none should bother about "log kya kahenge" log toh kahenge hi.. if you do something or not.. everyone will try to find your negatives only.. so we have to live for ourselves..😊
The one who suffers the most is KIDS... so be sensible both spouses and start correcting yourself as the kids did not come to the world by their own choice. Sacrifice... and start loving each other and make your kids happy so they can manage their relationships in the future... Legends say Everything is POSSIBLE ....Seperation isn't always a Good Decision
Brilliant acting.... And specially the newbie... Girl playing Kavya.
There shouldnt be forced relations for the sake of society, larger agenda, you have to put a break somewhere, everything can't be forced in life
Divorce, stayed too long in a unhappy marriage hoping things would change.
They can't and shouldn't get worse anyways society must look after it
If u are not happy in a relationship whatever the relationship is apart from it
Just a bad phase not a bad life
You will find someone who understands u
Make u feels special either is men or women
Go with them
Not pretend in your life to someone that you are happy with them
And I request all the parents not to fight in front of your child it not a really good impact to them
Nd they lost your respect too
Again in love with #lifetak
You guess are so so so good everytime 🧿💌
So practical
Love this❤
Happiness together
nice concept 😊😊
Happiness apart
Btw it's a wonderful video
See being successful is not bad but bragging about that is and according to me that is what destroys the relationship
Divorce and separation law in favour of women indulges man life is ruining
Happiness apart. Sometimes there is no solution. One has to go for divorce.
In today's world we all particularly Indians wants us to be a successful men / successful women but very very pathetic we don't want to have a successful relationship or family . Knowingly or unknowingly we all are running brutally after only MONEY , MONEY AND MONEY .
There’s plus and minus in everything..
It’s not just the fight that is harming..
Won’t the children feel insecure when only one parent or none is available at a time when they are challenged, hurt , need help ahead of a deadline? Are you sure that the children will not meet such egoistic people later in life? In that case, they will learn how not to be egoistic and how to see the good part, happy times of being together, not just the negative part.
If the guy can understand and ask a lunch out together., why cannot egos clashes thought over, understood with help of friends, heal with time and or distance?
People we loved change to people or character that we hate who can again change to people we love or at least put up with.
Promoting divorce will lead to marriage less world tomorrow with children insecure deep in their hearts.
I didn't expect this from life tak. the story is not up to the mark to portray the idea of ending an unhappy/suffocating relationship based on insecurities and misunderstanding.
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Also I see fault in the woman. Even is she can afford and transferring money to her husband she should not say it in front of guests. Lot of ways to say that without hurting. These little mistakes and lack of thought brings" what could have been a happy marriage to an end". When you are marrying and starting a family please think if you can manage both well. If a little bit of compromise will cost you heavy. If that is the case then don't marry. Marriage is not for everyone.
Yeh meri samajh ke bahar hai. Pata nahi ab log mujhe troll karenge par koshish pariwar ko jod ke rakhane ki honi chahiye. Hum janwar nahi hai ki Jo mil gaya, jaroorat poori ki aur aage badh gaye. Kya fark padta hai koi jyada kamaye. Rishton main vishwas aham hona chahiye, Paisa nahi.
I am completely agree that if married relationship is getting toxic then it is better to be divorced
That strong independent divorced woman claiming that she bought a house and had a paid-off car and did it all by herself ... is leaving out that she is getting alimony and child support.
Modern women☕️
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Part 2
Shuru se hi men ek women ko jada kmate hue ni dekh skta. Jealousy ki vja se tahne marta h, family life spoil krta h, and never regret.
Divorce is not always solution..., being a divorcee i would say t s better to sit and sort out the solution f daily fights are happening stay far from each other for some months they can talk wat s causing the issue and wer each of dem should compromise and adjust ....here daughter s saying to get divorce she s still so young but couple have seen more life than the kids ....and sometimes f the couple are soooooo unhappy with one thing and each have der own reason of happiness lik trips food clothes vehicle give freedom to choose alone .....divorce should happen only wen the situation will be soo toxic like domestic violence and husband or wife cheating on others....
Not for the silly reasons because at the end of your life wen u grow old u will have to depend on family not ur boss colleagues or office ...every husband needs a wife as much as every wife needs husband both should take equal responsible for marriage.....👍...
In my case t was different my husband was not ready to live with me even after so many people convincing like lawyers and courts and family members as I have some health issue like bronchitis respiratory issue my in laws and husband told they won't take any responsibility of me and dey feared my disease would inherit into kids and I may die early.....so at last after trying so much he was not ready to take me in t ended up n divorce 😐
What about self respect everyone needs it
@@lakshyavarshney9942 s
Divorce is not the only option. They would have consulted a good counselor
If for such reasons people start falling apart then world will be a big gigantic problem. Only in case of loyality, excessive mental and physical abuse people should go apart.
Such makers in the name of content want to be different and affect the mindset of viewers. Less than 1% people would be happy after divorce.
Prohlems are part of life. Marriage as an institute have served humanity for millions of years. Believe in it please.
Apno ko chhod dena aasan nahi hota, but agar koee kare to reson bhi bahut bada hona chahiye, radhe kiai ko aise din na dikhaye
Everywhere man i wrong!😇😇😇
Ok
Problems ko solve bhi kar sakte the mutual understanding se, zaroori nahi ki har cheez par divorce lele, life mein har baar koi happy nahi ho sakta, sad moments bhi hote hai, ye aisi video hai jismein silly reason par divorce liya gaya hai Jo ki bilkul sahi nahi tha aur ise women empowerment ka naam dekar aur bhi pati patni ke rishte ki value Kam ki hai, I know career women empowerment is important but family is equally important too. They will regret for sure in the long run. Sorry life tak muje yeh video bilkul bhi pasand nahi aayi
Ma'am u r right ✅️ but husband v supportive hona chahiye, har kisi ka sapna hota hai age badne ka..or households dono mileke kar na chahiye na ki ladki hai to sab karegi...husband to betha tha table pe or insured ho ke boss ko work husband bol raha matlab ..wo bilkul v tolerate nahi kar pata uski wife ki tarki ko...sorry par ese husband koi v ladki deserve nahi karti...
Physical ,verbal abuse roz ho toh adjust karna chaiyea??
@@Firstinformation1 yes right but wife ko bhi guests k samne apne husband ko nicha nhi dikhana chahiye tha paison ke mamle me..........dono husband wife ek team ki tarah hote hain, ek dusre me thodi bahut kuch upar niche ho jaye jaise ki paise ke mamle me hi to ye duniya ko nhi dikhana chahiye tabhi rishta strong hoga.
@Sweta Kumari may b u r some extent right but I personally feel the husband is not understanding he neither care nor respect his wife. According to u if wife also like that then what is wrong in separation bcoz everyone deserves love and respect so may b they are not made for each other.
So it's but to separate and think again
Women empowerment hardly matters to them
All they want is just to destroy indian culture and society by giving couples divorce as a solution but not counseling
It's not about men and women it's about anti hindu propaganda driven by india today on the foot steps of justice D.Y chandrachud .
Happiness apart
The male insecurities at wife earning more should stop . It is a patriarchal mindset. Being a man I understand. Whether the wife is a sitathome person or working she is used as a punching bag. Before tying the knot couples should converse with each other to see if it works for them.
aankhe kholo prabhu. agal bagal dekho.
Single life is bests for all the women's
Nothing leaving alone for internal peace though I am married
Happiness apart for sure
If women earing more than man and still choose that man and stay with her without cheating him......
She is godess.....
I dont understand one thing, why don't we men concentrate on our career and achieve our goals instead of thinking about women career. We should avoid insecurities.
इन सारी समस्याओं का बस एक ही ईलाज है रोज ध्यान करना
But the women should have taken a little care of her husbands feelings. She sounded ittle arrogent in start while she was saying that ee can afford even paris.. why all this discussion infront of outside ppl.
I don't think, our culture is so. Instead of projecting like this it be in our own way like adjustment from everyone's side to lead a better life.
Children need both mum and dad while growing. We had such rich culture.
First of all yonger generation is loosing all the values of our culture. By showing these types of values it becomes easy for everyone to opt divorce for small issues.
In this senerio, the issue was that major in front of kids.
By showing this it's not so that people are broad-minded .
Divorce is not a solution
You people are misleading our generation.
Discussion with each other, expert consultation & building trust on each other are the solution here.
Not this nonsense
Divorce is not always the solution. Amicable conversation can solve any problem in marriage. This is so misleading on many levels.
I think the husband was right cause she was like yaa Bali yaaa etc etc so I would say this the worst acting and I am not saying that men have the right to anything with woman but for some reason nobody is talking about the woman's on t tik tok talking shit about cause they were like teased by some men but that does not mean every man is like that and also if every man was like that then women can't even live in this socitey and y'all tell me we all have mothers and sisters right? But I can't let to know from which logic
Those woman talk that shit that's all I am gonna say 👍🏻
If a women can be happy and proud with his husband earning more then why can't a man be happy and proud about his wife. It works both ways.
Female would always complaint they are underpaid in the corporate world. But than Divorce is always better than staying together. Girls would have always have a office husband. It's a new trend catching up.
Happy apart because it is just ego clash, nothing more. If ego is there, then bettter to retain ego & empowerment and be happy apart. Who is the sufferer in all this: Children. If "experiment" of marriage has failed, then what's wrong in it? Is divorce not a good option to end a toxic relation, live apart and be happy. Marriage is the single social institution that requires compromises and sacrifices from both ends. At least, for the sake of children, retain peace or bring peace with proper understanding. Marriage -- good or toxic -- is not the end of life. Single parents could bring more cordiality in the so-called "family." According to an estimate more than 50% marriages are toxic due to modern rat race, still being dragged due to stigma of Divorce.
Just tell me one thing sir , we are indian and mostly we don't know how to use chopsticks then what should we do just start eating Chinese and Japanese food with hands or stop eating japanese food . What we do is learn how to use chopsticks.
This what life is about learning new things from problems with our egos on side we should not run away from problems .
Hope so u got it .
Jai hind
@@pushpapandey3917 I may not agree with what you have said, but I will defend to the death your right to say it. In case ego clashes cross the roof, then it is better to part the ways and start anew relation or remain single than sticking to domestic fights thru out the life. Have we ever pondered that how our dumb egos affect our children. Children are miirror of any family; if parents are not happy, always fighting, then how would children behave in the society. Just think over it. Adjustment is good and always welcomed if it is equally and done from both the sides. Thanks.
Part2 is coming r8????
Relationship is drugs
It is reality of our society if mam and women both do job then women will be expected to do household chores also after coming from office but they have to think that women also does work all the day after that men don't think about women it is very bad thing men have to change their mentality
Very sad
Jab ghr.mai.ladi.hoti tu masla kch bhi nhi hota h tu bhi hoti h likin bhot feel hota h buri
The issue here is the guy- the wife is not doing anything wrong
Sab problem ka ek hi solution, shaadi hi mat karo. Meri biwi ne bhi mentally bahut torture kiya ab divorce le ke azad hoon.
This not a solution of a problem I dis agree with happeness in apart
Been divorced 8 yrs, been alone by choice for 3 yrs. I prefer the peace and quiet. The longer I'm alone the more I want to be alone...women bring chaos and discord. It's better just to be single..
Fight the devil not each other
1st time, 1st view, 1st comment
Divorce is not option always in this case both were wrong working women is very new for indian men and suddenly everything will be ok is not going to work Bali planned should be discussed with husband frst he was not wrong in that and if husband is feeling insecure wife should talk to husband and if still this behaviour continue then go for divorce
A lot of viewers in this video are complaining about divorce not being an option and that the couple should have consulted the therapist or gone to a marriage counselor rather than seeking divorce on such trivial grounds. Not that anybody has asked, but I would like to share my two cents on why divorce is always an option and separation is not as big a deal as many people think.
First, the couple jointly agreed to seek divorce. Now, who do you think you tell them that they should have taken the other road?
Second, nobody is promoting divorce. The only idea is that if the couple is not happy together, and that it is impacting children’s lives in the worst way possible, they should consider separating their ways. Why should anybody on earth try to be a perfect couple when they are not? Yes, I agree, divorce is a huge decision and needs counseling on so many levels. But again, if you are not happy, leave alone happy, but fighting all day, and have no respect for each other as a couple, then what’s the point? What are you teaching your children by screwing their childhood and traumatizing them for life by fighting and yelling? If you want to set an example for kids, show them how toxic relationships are not worth sticking with. There’s whole life ahead of you and there’s no reason why you should suffocate in a relationship when you can have all the freedom and love; all you need to do is take a step and seek the love that you give.
On your first point is the point. Why they decided to seek divorce without seeking alternate path. You may be brainwashed by westernism, but having married one should try to save it first and then as a last option go for divorce. but you started with 1st point being divorce. Wow. And by doing that yes, you are promoting divorce and not the other path. If you are not happy, the first path is not to leave & stay alone, but it is to figure out ways to work together, understand each other better etc. Divorce is not a solution until the very end. I would say you should come out of the westernism brainwashing you have gone through. Save your brain and the future of humanity.
Divorce hote hi kya pyaar se baat karne ki angel aajati hai inke andar. Patience n maturity runs a marriage. Husband was idiotic here
I did not like this video. Poor analysis, poorly scripted, poor solutioning. As a content creator, you want business, but your whole USP is compassionate and objective handling of sensitive topics. You have lost it here.
What is compassionate? No forced abuse for society
Both are toxic from thier perspective
So it's better to end the marriage
U mean to say every divorced couple live happily ever after in their separate lives..
pls stop advocating divorce and separation in such a blatant way...
Mere mummy papa to daily jhagda krte h but shaam Tak dono normal ho jate h
Aise to divorce hona chahiye unka har din 😂na hai na
Jhan ladai hoti h vahin pyaaar bhi hota h bas adjust Krna aana chahiye
Last me vo dono lunch pr gye naaa sab kuch bhool krr esliye thoda time denaa chahiye naaaa ki seeeeha divorce 😂😂😂
Matlab kuch bhiii yrrrrrr 7:33 rr😅
Aur abusive language etc not possible to live with criminals ?
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Women earning more money is a case 1 in 10000
What about rest 9999 marriages
Separate