What Doctors Wish Their Patients Knew About Death
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- Опубликовано: 12 сен 2024
- Having a loved one in the hospital, knowing that they are approaching their final days here, is really difficult to process, but being there for that person and helping them enjoy they time here is really important. Today's episode is a tough look at the inside of hospitals and hospice care when someone is approaching their final weeks to live, and what doctors say could help their patients.
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I’ll die but at least my comments here forever
EssentialEvil98 true or until RUclips goes obsolete. Although it will be in cyberspace forever.
Everyone make this the most like comnent
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@@letstryinsertgame5025 no
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My grandmother raised me. She passed at 90yrs. I promised her and myself I’d be there until her very last breath and I really was. I was caressing her face while listening to her heart through a stethoscope. I was able to hear her very last heartbeat. Im honored I was able to be there with her when she left. RIP my sweet grandma❤️
That's really beautiful!
The comments on this video are so wholesome
RIP
That hit me hard man
Did you really hear a last heartbeat and then just nothing?how did you feel in the moment
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Eight months ago my entire life was the same way it always had been. I was about to graduate high school and I was gonna play college football. Six months ago I went to go see a movie with my father (whom I saw every weekend and summer for the last 18 year.) I could see he lost a lot of weight and began to worry. A month later we flew him out to Michigan to be with family so he could get back on his feet medically and financially. Two weeks later he told me he had terminal cancer and had 1-2 years left. I spent the summer with him and put college on hold so I could spend time with him and take care of him. He died this last Monday exactly 5 months after he had been flown out to Michigan. It’s been the most heart breaking thing I have ever had to deal with. My chest feels like it’s being weighed down by a car and I lose my breath when I remind myself that he is gone. His funeral is in 8 hours. Never take the ones you love for granted. I love you dad, you were my best friend.
May he Rest In Peace, I hope you are doing well
Any update??
I'm so sorry. This is still one of, if not the absolute worst experience in one's life. May he rest in peace and may his loving energy remain with you and everyone who loved him.
Sad * sobbing and then loud crying*
Shane, I'm so sorry. Come talk to me if you ever feel the pull to.
My father was diagnosed with stage 4 melanoma 9 years ago. I remember the oncologist said he had a 10% chance of living the next three years. Well he is still alive and kicking. Life is definitely full of surprises!
You have a strong dad
Dad: well now I don't wanna die *pout*
Melanoma is skin cancer.
My grandmother has beaten cancer twice. I wanted to tell everyone that there is ALWAYS hope!!
No. There isn't. As harsh as this sounds, sometimes it's a blessing when they finally pass. As much as I miss that person in my life, I was so happy when he passed as he was no longer suffering.
@@queenmaeve2861 may all our dead go to heaven.
That’s kind of sweet to see.
Still having such thoughts.
I think everyone deserves the right to cope.
Strong grandma
Mine too. She’s gone now but she beat cancer twice and made it to her 90’s. She outlasted all her siblings who died fairly young from heart attacks and cancer. I think she was a mutant.
A doctor told my grandad he'll live for 4 days
Its 11 years later and hes still alive
hero
My uncle had a massive heart attack and was told medicine couldn't help him. He was sent home to die. That was 1994, and he's still alive.
He's really Lucky
Doctors: you’ll only live for 4 days
Your grandad: Uno reverse
Jahya Mack not funny, death isnt a joke
Whenever I think about death, I just remind myself that the past, present and the future are happening all at once and that from the perspective of the universe, I am already dead and non existent. That somehow makes me feel better
Monch Enomoto thanks that does help
I feel better now...
That’s deep Af
Monch Enomoto I always think about this. There will be an alternate reality one second before and after this reality. It can go on almost infinitely either way.
And it also makes you always alive!
I've seen this happen with three people, three different ways.
First, was my mother's mom.
Cancer. We struggled for months with the doctors, the chemo changing her, and the family battles. She was angry, irritated all the time. My mom stayed by her side the entire time. I was 6 years old, and had just started the first grade. My mother held her hand as she took her last breath. I'm typing this 11 years to the day later.
Second, was my father.
I was 13. It was March 24th, 2016. it was my last year of middle school. My dad was the kind of guy that refuses to go to the doctors. After 13 days in the hospital, they realized he was brain dead, a rare fungal infection called Aspergillosis had taken him. He was an HVAC worker, had his own business, a wife and a daughter. He got infected with the aspergillus fungus when he was working on someone's house during allergy season. My mother and I remember him saying he saw black mold growing. This was during allergy season. Long story short, it went to his lungs and eventually his brain. He wasn't the best parent, but he was my dad. I was the last person he talked to before he went into a coma. His last words were "I love you." The first day he went into the hospital, he told my mother and I to spend time together, and we now realize that he knew. I held his hand as they turned off the machines.
The third was one year and 360 days later, my mother's father. Cancer again. In 2017, we moved in with him because we couldn't keep our old house without my dad. He refused chemo, remembering what it did to his wife. I remember when they called Hospice. He was high off the morphine all the time, glassy eyes, speaking nonsense. He was aggravated that morning because his chest hurt. A few weeks before, the cancer took the right side of his lung and was hurting his heart. I was horribly ill that day, I had a fever of 103, but I didn't care. My mother held him as his heart stopped, we were so scared. My mom had called 911, but he had an order saying not to help him. We hoped he would make it through March. He died at the same time my father was ruled dead, 4:48pm.
Death is unavoidable, but it comes in many ways. I lost three people within a decade, but that wasn't the end. My mother was an orphan and a widow. I lost the connection with my father's side of the family, as they treat me and my mother as outcasts. I realize that you never get over death, but you do come to terms with it and find peace.
My bro I am so sorry
i hope ur okay
Im really sorry for what you've gone through. I'm praying for you and your mom
Do you need a hug?
Death is inevitable.
Doctors gave my father 6 months to live after being diagnosed with testicular cancer. That was 17 years ago.😉
Hope he lived
@Jon Dillon
I guess the rates have changed since he was first diagnosed.
Glad your father is still alive.
Oh so sorry to hear he died 16 years, 6 months ago.
ok boomer
Please keep in mind that palliative care doesn’t always mean end of life care. I have Sickle Cell Anemia and I’m on palliative care at 32 years old. I’m not dying (at the moment lol, but we’re all actively dying day by day 😅) but my illness *IS* life threatening, I’ve almost died several times from SCA.
Palliative care can start at the time of diagnosis on wards, whereas hospice care starts when treatment is stopped and is no longer working for the patient and it’s clear they’re going to die. But I guess like the video says, how can one be absolutely sure someone is going to die? Someone can pull through and then oh, oh my gosh golly, it’s a miracle!
I know I can’t speak for others, but I can speak for what I’ve been through. Just know that it’s not always for someone at the end of their life and can also be for people with illnesses like mine that require treatments to stay comfortable with pain they experience, the stress from what is happening to them, and to get a team involved in your care. And with everything that’s going on with the medical community and with it getting harder and harder to get your pain meds unless you have cancer (happening in my area now), it takes a toll on us. But I wanted to mention that. Thanks!
My uncle has sickle cell trait he almost died
I hope you'll make it
Mαяsbαяs my son’s aunt passed from S.C.A 😞 take care and much love xo ❤️
As a medical student this one my fears,as to how I have to break the news.
I think if you say your name they should get healed
@@ciribiribela5338 Lool
Straight up tell em
This is something that I've always asked for. With my gf or my family or friends. If there's something I should know... Be honest and direct. It may hurt you to tell me it... And it may hurt me a insane amount.... But I'd rather know now than it be last minute... Give me time to come to terms with everything. It will save a lot more pain in the long term... Even if in a medical case I may not have a long term...
Tell them it's gonna feel like a dmt trip or a never ending dream. Idk. 😐
Man what a crazy subject. My mom January 24th 2017 RIP cancer
Cool
Mystic Paranormal I’m sorry for your loss ❤️ don’t listen to that cold hearted Malik karma will get him
Mystic Paranormal In very sorry you went through that
I sympathise
yeah sad 2017 was just a bad year for death in general, my mom too July 31st, 2017 RIP cancer D:
guy: the doctor gave me six months, so i killed the doctor and the judge gave me 20 years.
Dead meme
🤣->😡
Smart 100
*BIG BRAIN*
Stonks
Death is the passing of one life into the next. Souls are energy and energy can neither be created or destroyed
Hold on man, i didnt hit the blunt yet!
@@WashBearfrl Lol
bruh
We have no scientific proof that souls even exist
@@leviathan-8579 but energy exists, and our consciousness must be made out of something. It can't be made out of nothing, it must be some kind of energy.
I work hospice and this hit so close to home. I was really hoping to find something I personally could say to my patients but I see this is more for family and loved ones. I'm glad you have something like this video out here. I'm going to start sharing this with family of my patients. Thank you so much
Doctor ( We want to care for you ).
Patient ( I'm Poor ).
Doctor (....NEXT ).
Hahaha, PewDiePie/Aristotska meme.
Great to live in a country with subsidies health care. Sure taxes is a bit higher but if you or some poor person is in need of health-care no worry.
@@notsureiL Lucky you. Sadly I live in a Country afraid of Healthcare.
Hector Vega not the doctor itself fault tho it’s the governments
@@itachiuchiha664 I know, but it isn't 100% the Government fault when people elected the Government.
This video should be named "what you should do if someone you love is dying" because that's the biggest amount of most useful, wholesome information I've gained from this video.
Now let us just hope we have to use this information as little as humanely possible…
Let's hope we experience this a lot, because it means there are a lot of people worth knowing for life and grieving for after they're gone
This made me cry 😢 my grandfather passed away recently
I'm sorry for your loss. Rejoice for the time spent together, the fond memories made. Time will be the best helper/healer. Are you ok?
I'm sorry for your loss
💙💚💛
Rip
Yeah I like this channel but seems like they been covering a lot of depressing topics lately.
I used to drive people who were very ill to hospices and hospital for end of life care. It's so difficult to get your head around this small Child in your Ambulance who is dying, but what amazed me was the braveness I saw from them and their relatives, it's like they have totally accepted their fate. This was my experience of most dying people, and my experience of hospices for dying with dignity (especially Children's hospices) was they are cheerful and amazingly happy places. I was terrified on my first trip...but come out feeling uplifted.
"a patient died during an act of intimacy"
Imagine being the significant other of that patient
He'd probably still be going at it with the dead body lol
He came and went at the same time. Actually it you knew that they were going to die soon, it might be a pleasant way to go.
If the living person keeps going at it. Necrophilia.
@@Coincollector81 Not until the corpse cools.
...lol...
When I die, I'm going to be a tree. Toss my carcas in a hole, plant a tree on top and let me become part of the universe again by providing fuel for new life. Come give me a hug and talk whenever you'd like. I'll still be here, just in a different form.
The fact that we exist is astounding. We may only get less than 100yrs of the billions before us and trillions after, so do your best to make it count and leave our world better than when you got here.
Carrie Wafer I quite like the idea of hugging a tree!
We need more people like you. Thanks for being hope for humanity.
Carrie Wafer until they cut you down for a house.
Tafari R now she’s a house.
Carrie Wafer the fact that you specfically, your exact DNA makeup is something like 10 to the 10,256,900 power. How insane is that?!
I’m actually finding this helpful thank you. I looked after my ex partner for the 6 weeks until he passed away and now my mum is suddenly having palliative care for cancer too.
Thank you ❤️⭐️
“My doctor gave me six months to live.......When I told him I couldn’t afford to pay his bill, he gave me another six months”. (Henny Youngman)
This just makes me miss my mom. I took care of her for 9 months (cancer) and I went through all of this with her and she wasn't always of sound mind. It was the hardest thing I ever had to do but I have no regrets. She didn't deserve to slowly die in a hospice ❤️
NOW YOU MADE ME THINK OF ALL THE CANCER CAUSING WOOD CHIPS I INHALED TODAY
Sorry about your mom. Went through same thing with mine. There is no harder thing than seeing your mama, your own private wonder woman, going through such battle.
Sending hugs. Take care.
When my mother was ill, she stayed at home until one morning my parents decided she should go into palliative care. I believe she was there for about 10 days before she passed but I'd say she was only sort of alert for the first two days. All the nurses and doctors were amazing in that ward.
This video reminded me of my grandma who passed away 17 years ago from, cancer makes me teary eyed. I remember how sad she was that we were sad for her so that point made in the video is so true
Same here my grandpa passed 2002
My sister's one year death anniversary is coming up. My advice for people, treat your loved ones as if it's the last time you're going to see them. I was aware of that most of her life and when she died last year, my very last words to her was "If you need help, call me and I'll do my best to be there". Not much of a last words I'm sure, but I do know if she had called, even if it was in the middle of the night, I would have immediately drove over to where she is and helped her out. With that thought in mind, I always did my best to help her, no matter how angry I got at her. The point is, when she died, I do not regret how I treated her. I have her last Christmas card that summed up on how I treated her. The only thing negative thing I have is that from time-to-time, I miss her but I'm glad she's no longer here so she won't have to suffer anymore.
Slowly approaching 40 and I still feel like my time is nearly at an end. Weird.
Stop it ,live your life to the full ,do everything you want to do .you are young don’t dwell on dying you’ve got a lot of living to do .❤️
Honestly same but I’m still in my early teens. It’s just weird to think that any day could be my last
Thata because the worlds gonna end in the next 20ish years. WW3 Here we come
My grandmother fell down the stairs and broke her leg a few years ago. While recovering the doctors discovered she had bone cancer. At first, they were optimistic and said she’d recover in about 6 months. A few days later, she only had a couple months to live. Then, back to her recovering. Then they discovered the cancer had spread to her blood. At this point, she was delirious. Mumbling random things and talking nonsense. She was coherent about 20% of the time. Towards the end, she was completely gone. Whipping her head back and forth in agony, constantly calling out for my grandfather. His heart couldn’t stand seeing her like this and he had to leave. The doctors said she wouldn’t make it past the next morning. I went and said my goodbyes. I don’t know if she heard me or understood anything, but that was the last time I ever saw her.
You have no idea how close to home this hit. That ending was comforting. Great video as usual!
Studies have shown that being alive is the leading cause of death.
And marriage is the number one cause of divorce.
😂😂
with a 100% chance rate as estimated by scientist
Studies have shown that death is the leading cause of sadness.
And your parents smashing is the essence of you acually existing
This made me tear up. Brought back childhood memories of my father. :(
You met your father?
I watched my dad pass away after a seven-year extension beyond expectation. He had two types of fungal meningitis, and seven years before he passed, he stared having symptoms and wandered off in his confusion. His symptoms flared up often in the first six years, and the last year he had a steep, speedy decline. He passed surrounded by his family: me, my mother, my brother, and his (dad's) brother.
My beautiful little sister passed away in palliative care in a hospice on January 22nd this year after an 18 month battle with cancer. She was 35 years old, and left behind 2 little boys. We also share the same birthday. I say 'share', because I still talk of her in the present tense. This video has helped me understand many things. Thank you author.
Part of me wants to believe that my mom intentionally waited till she was alone to pass, but I'm constantly tormented with the thought that she cried out for me and I wasn't there. She was my best friend....I miss you so much mom....it breaks my heart that I wasn't there.
I'm scared of missing the final moments of being around my grandparents. If I get a random phone call hearing that one of them is in the hospital and I have no money to even catch a plane to see them...I would be depressed til no end. I want to BE around them
Anni Lyn I hope you spend time with them as much as possible while they’re still here.
Thanks for this, as a hospital chaplain it rings true. I will add the doctor provides the diagnosis; however, there is a much larger team around that supports the patient and family. Nurses, social workers, physical/occupational therapists, nursing assistants, and chaplains. I have helped doctors have these conversations and helped the doctor put words to the hard truth of and end-of-life decision.
I was with my dad when he went into the hospital and that was the last time that we spent the day just me and him. I was with him when he went into the hospital but i didn't realize that he wasn't going to leave it alive because 3 months later 1 week before his birthday(2 weeks before mine) he pass while in hospice with my mom by his side.
Me and my 2 younger brothers weren't there but when my mom called us we drove as fast as my car could go to be there by his side.
It tough losing someone especially when they mean so much to you.
But it may not soon but one day we will see each other again and when that day comes hopefully I've made him proud.
444ford sorry for ur loss man
It is so grim and depressed. This wants me to celebrate each and every moment of my life with my loved ones
As a nurse of 40+ years who has been with hundreds of dying patients, sometimes dying is a very private thing. I have seen many a patient hold on to life until the family leaves the room before they die. It might also be worthwhile to share, especially for those facing decisions about IVs and feeding tubes: they’re not dying because they’re not eating, they’re not eating because they’re dying. There. Ones a time when things of this earth are no longer important to a person who is preparing to leave it.
Im 13 and my mum died 2 years ago it was very difficult to get through but keep 1 thing in mind family is everything and thay are there for you if your there for them
Doctor: Are you sexually active?
Me: 👀
Doctor:👀
My Mom:👀
Mr. Ditkovich youre Dog bearing your children : 👀
@@cezearr34 whoa..
@@cezearr34 sweet home pet tycoon
@@cezearr34 OOOOOOOF that hurts XD
Cesar Robles excuse m-
Patient : I'm I gonna survive
Me as a doctor: well...tell coco I said hi
The Dr told my grandmother she had 3 months left to life.... 26 years later she's still here!
My father in law was diagnosed with stage 4 lung cancer in Nov. 2019, he passed away 1-6-2020. he was put on life support, on a Saturday until his body couldn’t handle it... he passed just 3 days later. All I can say is be there for the person, stay positive. I was fortunate to be there when he passed. It gave me peace of mind that he wasn’t alone. During is last minutes of life I had family tell him their final goodbyes over speaker. it was so hard to leave him afterwards, I spent a few hours holding his hand. I still can’t believe he is gone. My babies lost an amazing grandfather.
I won't lie, I couldn't help but cry at the end. My grandmother passed away a few years ago, the first death I experienced of someone close to me. I wasn't there when she died and ever since, I felt incredibly guilty. I miss her so, so much!
*That I can't die because the grim reaper is too scared of me*
You're not real.
Mr.Norris would never use His last name in vain.
Maybe but your looking old chuck and it's only a matter of time...
Cause your Chuck Freaking Norris
Funny Bruce said the same thing
The Chuck Reaper shows up for you
"So uhh... how's death going?"
Slowly must be the traffic
@@TeRenner123 lol
Sup.
Quite slow but it's FINE
It’s in the air 😳
Yep, I spent years living on in-home palliative care, and in home hospice twice. 4 months the first Time and 9 months the second time.This last experience changed my life for the better. Still, I have the illness that put me there, but I am grateful for this part of my life.
Edit; I find it a bit Ironic that now I sell health and life ins.
I’m in the process of taking care of my uncle with ALS, I left where I lived and moved in right when we found out. It’s great to see i have been doing some things right, I treat it like he doesn’t even have a disease and try to make him feel as comfortable as possible when having two assists him in things he was able to do on his own before. This was one of my favorite videos of yours because this can really help people.
I'm 20 years old now and I started working at a retirement home 2019 for a so called "voluntary social year". I've seen 16 people die so far. Some of them passed away pretty quick, when no-one noticed, some had quite a fight and some just shut their eyes and never opened them again.
Idc, I will never let a family member die alone. Just imagine that, how sad and lonely that would be.
What if you don’t have any family?
Makaveli I always say You know, there's that silly saying 'We're born alone and we die alone' -it's nonsense. We're surrounded at birth and surrounded at death. It is in between that we're alone.
I want to die in peace.
"I spent a week dying in a palliative care home, here's what I learned" **que angry girlfriend noises
That sign cant stop me cause I cant read
This video gave me flashbacks from when my father was in the hospital following a motorcycle accident. The deathbed delirium was very unnerving. Dad was calling cows to come to the barn, talking to his father, singing, and other things. In between one of his bouts of delerium, he put his hand on my shoulder and said, "You know, boy, I've always admired you". I still get choked up thinking about it.
Thank you for this video. ❤️
This is one of the best and most important videos you have made. I have saved it so I can remember it the next time I am in one of these unavoidable hardships. Or share it with a friend who who is going through losing their loved one.
"People are still alive until they are dead" is truly done off the best advice I've head regarding how to treat someone who nesting the end of their life.
Thank you.
That poorly labelled pie chart has got me dying inside
(Edit: Over 80 likes!!! Thanks!!!)
Poor choice of words...
I just gave you your 100th like 😝
On September 26, 2019, I was thinking about a hospital and death, perhaps coincidence but strange
FractalBuilder On September 26, 2019 I broke my wrist. Literally. 2 Bones were broken surgery was needed. And all I could hear with loud moaning noises.
My grandpa died the day before that happened
Thank you this helped my sister is experiencing this right now
Hopefully she recovers fast
cool
It's hard, I know. Show her love and tell her, even stranger like me, is praying for her.
Quite often, people hang on living in pain because they think that’s what the family wants them to do. They may not want to be alive, but they feel obligated. If you tell them something like “if you want to go on fighting, we’ll all do everything we can to help you, for as long as you want. But if you’re tired and you want to leave us, that’s okay too. Either way, we love you and we only want you to be happy,” it can remove a lot of anxiety and guilt in the final days or hours of their life. I’ve done this with 4 family members and I know they were much more at peace when they finally did move on. Start off by telling them how much you love them and how grateful you are to have had them in your life.
Loved this video, amazing how the channel is covering such topics with such ease and understanding. Keep going!
When a RUclips channel teaches you more about coping with dying loved ones than hospital staff...
When my dad died, I told the nurse giving him an xray that I wasn't leaving my dad, he'd just had a small complication and we had gone there late, I'd been sleeping when we got the call, so I was tired, and fresh out of AIT, so I went in summer pt's to the hospital and laid down on the floor and had a lead blanket over me and my mom left the room, something tells me it was either respect or no wanting to be thrown out a 3rd story window
One of my cousins was gave less than like 5 months
to live like 21 years ago.
Dawg i bet you didn’t witness that, you’re like 10 and somebody told you that story. You’re grammar is REALLY bad
My dad passed away this year. I got a call from the doctor saying he didn't have long left. I sat at his bedside for 30 hours not wanting to leave. When I finally did I got the call that he's passing. I sprinted up 3 flights of stairs to catch his last breath. It was the worst experience of my life.
It took my Mum 23 Years to die after her "6 months to live" diagnosis. When she did finally pass I was with her. When I was at the funeral home I found a booklet" the signs and symptoms of death" , really at the funeral home after she was already gone I find a booklet telling me the symptoms of the end. 1. sleep more in irregular patterns. Check. 2. Begin talking or reminiscing about the past. Often wanting to talk about family or friends that passed prior. Check. 3. Discover that foods that were once loved are no longer palatable and or stop eating . Check. the list went on and on with the symptoms I missed cause no one told me what to look for. The Day before she slipped into a coma she was talking about grocery shopping, getting a hair cut, going to visit my Brother. 3 days later she was gone. Death is something no one wants to talk about but everyone needs to.
Do you remember where you were before conception and birth? Well when you die that is where you go back to. Enjoy your life, love the people in your life and live for the day.
Man this is so sad. I have already started making up scenarios in my head when my loved ones are about to leave.
Wether you're a king or a street sweeper, everybody dances with the grim reaper
This is a fantastic video. Humor during palliative care is really a great thing. The dignity given to a person during their final months/weeks/days is without a doubt one of the most important and noble things we can do.
My grandmother just past today and this video helped me realize not to be regretful about not being their by her side but yesterday I got to tell her I love her, kiss her on the cheek, and get one last personal and family photo with her. She couldn't say it but i know she was happy we were all there being ourselves. Thank you for this video. Its really helping right now
Yeah as a patient I can confirm this
Oh
My condolences
What happened to you?
Get some head before you leave
Be a lesson my friend not only a memory
Honestly, if you really think about it, whoever's in the bed isn't actually the person that dies in the end but rather, it's the people they leave behind that have to go on living the rest of their lives longing that individual's presence and eternaly feeling their absence who actually "die" in that moment. The person we classify as "dead" will never feel any of the turmoil or emotional upheaval we have all come to associate as the inevitable consequences of "death". In reality, for all we know, they could be experiencing happiness and joy of the likes of which they never even came close to experiencing during their entire time on earth.
HOW DO YOU KNOW??? U done it before? U can say with 100% surety that you wont feel anything? Idk making alot of assumptions
@@AnahataOpals What? What assumptions am I making? Lol you're literally making zero sense.
Sir he is in a state of emergency!
Does he have insurance?
*No*
PUSHES HOSPITAL BED INTO THE STREETS
I work in a nursing home and it took me a long time to come to terms with this...but there is nothing that you can say to a person to make them ok with the idea of their own death.
So my grandmother has been very ill for a little while. She raised me, alone. And I've always been too afraid to think of the end of her story, but honestly this video helped a lot. It made me cry, but helped a lot. Thank you, Infographics.
Thanks for having me think about death while I'm about to go to sleep🤦🏾♂️
Antoine Cooke sometimes I'm scared to sleep becuase I don't think I'll wake up :)
@@urmum7461 I often block out the thought of it happening during my sleep because of the extremely low probability of it happening. But I would hate to be the small percentage that dies at a young age in my sleep.
Antoine Cooke yeah that's true it's pretty much not going to happen especially if ur healthy and don't have anything else going on
Same😐
I think it would be better to die before i see my loved ones go
It's going to come to us all whether we want it to or not
Brings back memories of my mother on her deathbed. I was right there with her the whole time. Even to the last breath
I took off a month from work to take care of my grandfather when he was in his last days. He was my best friend. It was the hardest thing I've ever been through. He said some of the meanest things I've ever heard come out of his mouth but I don't regret one second of it. I know he didn't know what he was saying most of the time. I'm glad I could be there for him.
Last year, I lost my grandpa. A few months later, I lost a close family friend to cancer. I visited his hospital room the day before he died.
What Doctors wish patients knew about Death:
*That everyone dies*
@e C Xd
Who knows the guy’s name talking in the video
This had me in tears lmbo
Basically
The body will die but the soul goes on.
Infographics: *uploads a new video*
Me: *99% level of stress*
So uh I'm depressed now
I'm currently going through the horrible process of sorting all my uncles stuff as he has been diagnosed with terminal lung cancer this video has helped me a little but still got a hard journey ahead
I unfortunately wasn't there for my mother when she died in the hospice, but I did get to spend time with her the day before. She was unconscious but the nurse told me she could still hear, so I sang our old favorite Queen songs to her, kissed her on her head and told her "Love you momma, I'll see you again tomorrow" little did I know that would be the last I saw her alive. My point is that even though I wasn't there for her in her final moments and say goodbye I still had closure knowing she heard me tell her how much she ment to me. That's been 6 years now, the pain of missing her is still there but I'm living my life and moving forward like she wanted me to.
On my way home from school
-does not cry
Cry's on inside
This hits me very hard. I as a 24 year old had to see my father pass away two weeks ago on Sep 10th. Its the hardest thing to know he was going to pass and for him not fully understanding what was going on... The doctor that was taking care of him was the nicest human being I have ever meet. I cant imagine being in her shoes having to watch death everyday; after witnessing my fathers.
100th lol keep up the daily uploads. Have u got a vid about Golipoli in WW1
I almost cried from this video,ur story telling is amazing it really makes u think about ur loved ones
This hits home. It is better to have a bitter truth than a sweet lie. Given the right information you can make a decision based on reality and not prolong a loved one’s suffering. I had to make the decision between having my dad live a month in pain or a week in comfort. I chose the latter. He lived a week in hospice. If I hadn’t had a nurse tell me that we were in the end, I would’ve chose the former and prolonged the outcome. A man that dies at twenty and one at ninety have both lost the same thing. Death smiled at us all. All a man can do is smile back
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Everyone :(
Doctor: :D
I'm not dying, I'm tracking down the dragonballs now.
Someone remember this comment so when I die I’m somewhat not forgotten
You have my word friend :) I'll never forget you if you never forget me
dYiNg iS bEtTeR tHaN wEaRiNg sIzE 13 nIkEs
*MENS sIzE 13* 👁👄👁
@@suzyyyyyyy9872 Big o0F
I got u
@ no I will remember him!
The end made me cry a bit. My grandpa passed away this February after a 3 year battle with terminal colon cancer. He went through stages of seeming cured, only to suddenly relapse hard. We were told in January he had 6 months left. He died on February 18th. He was in hospice care in our home because he wanted to die surrounded by family and those he loved. My brother was the only one home. I left at 10 am that day to be with my friends, and he passed almost immediately after I left. I've had severe regrets all year for the fact I wasn't there with him like he wanted. Just hearing someone say not to hold onto those regrets meant so much. He was loved until the very end
Im really glad you understood not to regret someting you really couldn't change. You had to leave at some point and that definitely doesn't mean that you care about your grandpa any less.
One of the most genuine video about the edge between life and death. That's the reason i am a huge fan of infographics. Keep the great work of spreading knowledge which is the ultimate key 🗝 for life.
0:59 why is the doctor smiling while he is telling him he is going to die???
Have to try to say it in a caring manner
When I die just download my consciousness onto an anatomically correct robot, thanks
San junipero
I remember when my father-in-law had to enter hospice care, and he died 6 weeks later. ;(
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Im sorry for your loss. We just lost my wifes grandfather 3 weeks ago. This video hit home.
Sorry for your loss mate
Sorry for your lost. So sad and I don't get how can people die so fast from a terminal Ill? Or was he in pain for a long time before he found out he was going to die?
I did not expect this video to hit me as hard as it did. A little over a month ago now, I lost my cousin, my best friend and my brother, to a 5 year long battle with leukemia. The wound is still immensely fresh and this video just split it wide open. The video is right, being there when the end happens or not is completely random chance. Fortunately for my mother, my father and I, we were all in the room as we watched his heart stop beating. Unfortunately, his girlfriend, who was also in the same hospital, wasn't. She was on the 4th floor while we were on the 3rd, and I had to go deliver the news. Death is never ever an easy thing to deal with, especially when it's someone close to you. I've been dragging, slowly but surely, everyday since then, just trying to get by. The best thing to do is, as they said in the video, try to move on and live a happy life. I'm trying very hard to do that myself with the thought that he's no longer suffering and is able to live the life cancer took from him.
When my grandmother passed away I wasn't informed till she was already unconscious, I never really had that chance to say goodbye when I saw her. I recently found out that my father has opted out of treatment and I'm personally taking as much time as I can tobe with him, when I am not working and such, I'm just glad in knowing that this time I not only have the opportunity to say goodbye but just the ability to spend time with him in general. Honestly, I think the hardest part of all this is just seeing someone that's always been just a big guy become so week and fragile.