Family of Dallas woman police say was shot and killed by husband speaks out

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  • Опубликовано: 6 сен 2024
  • Dishaye Stevenson was bubbly - always the life of the party and always loving on her family.
    She carried a heavy load, making sure her 16-year-old daughter had it all, serving as a caregiver for her mom who had a stroke and is now partially paralyzed. And to top it off - trying to be the perfect wife.
    “[Dishaye] did everything in her power to show him that she loved him no matter what,” Dishaye's sister, Jasmine Stevenson, said.
    But, Jasmine Stevenson says somehow that love was not enough.
    “It was a lot of red flags,” Jasmine Stevenson said.
    They were red flags that their family didn’t catch in time. Police found Dishaye Stevenson’s body Wednesday morning after she’d been shot point blank in the chest. Police said Michael Smith, who is her husband, is to blame.
    "Like I just don't understand. I just wanna know why,” Jasmine Stevenson said. “Why would you take my sister from us? Like why?”
    Dishaye Stevenson's family told WFAA they knew something was wrong on Tuesday night when her daughter called to say she couldn’t get a hold of her mom.
    “She never leave my niece no matter what, she never leaves my Mama no matter what,” Jasmine Stevenson said.
    So, Jasmine Stevenson called her cousin, Anita, and they started looking for her. They tracked Dishaye Stevenson's car to the Pleasant Village Apartments, where her father-in-law lives.
    “I seen a big handprint on the driver window. And you know, I'm a criminal justice major, so I start trying to use like different context clues,” said Stevenson’s cousin, Anita.
    Then came a post from a community blog.
    “It said that it was a lady shot to death, which was like three minutes from where we was at,” Anita said.
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Комментарии • 891

  • @reddawn613
    @reddawn613 10 месяцев назад +482

    My sister said, "I feel like I am going to be dead by the end of the week." That was a Monday and she was killed on Wednesday. When I tell you I have NEVER fully recovered from that ordeal. It was 1988 and every morning at 4:45am I wake up and think about her. Domestic violence affects the whole family and destroy numerous lives.

    • @reddawn613
      @reddawn613 10 месяцев назад +42

      They never tell you everything. You think it is not that bad but then it happens and you are raked with guilt for not digging deeper, asking more questions, doing more. It is so depressing.

    • @GimmeDat-jc9qh
      @GimmeDat-jc9qh 10 месяцев назад +19

      PRAYERS of Strength 💪🏽🙏🏽 and My condolences to you 🌹

    • @Jebbyfur61
      @Jebbyfur61 10 месяцев назад +14

      So sorry 😢

    • @1984kkennedy
      @1984kkennedy 10 месяцев назад +50

      No way my sister could tell me that and we carry on like normal. That's a cry for help & I'm helping whether she wants it or not!!

    • @BeautifulX454
      @BeautifulX454 10 месяцев назад +17

      @@1984kkennedy I said the said thing . That was weird. She went to sleep thinking it was normal ?

  • @queengfamilyempire9536
    @queengfamilyempire9536 10 месяцев назад +173

    Her cousin crying just broke my heart. I'm crying with her she really just touched my heart.

  • @talisharose3842
    @talisharose3842 10 месяцев назад +127

    I have faith that this interview has delivered someone that’s in a domestic violence situation! Rest well! 🕊️💔

  • @vanessahardrick4115
    @vanessahardrick4115 10 месяцев назад +100

    They be jealous! Ladies when a man treats you like s*** please please leave you can't help them!!! We give them the compassion and love we give our kids.
    They not our kids.

    • @gabriellebrown513
      @gabriellebrown513 10 месяцев назад +10

      Facts and very true!! Can't let these ninja get away with nothing... They only get worser and worser and please don't move them in your HOME...

    • @valdenelucas2349
      @valdenelucas2349 10 месяцев назад +1

      Everyone say the same thing, but it's easier said than done for most people...

    • @ree6553
      @ree6553 10 месяцев назад +4

      ​@@valdenelucas2349It can be done.These young females shouldn't settle for bad or even worse.

    • @msharris2319
      @msharris2319 10 месяцев назад

      This a FACT smh

  • @Bobbie82
    @Bobbie82 10 месяцев назад +127

    My husband doesn't physically abuse me but he does mentally and emotionally😢.. everyone think he's a great man because he's a good provider and he never let them see the side of him i see... I've finally got the strength to leave my marriage and never look back. I've tired to end my life because i felt that was the only way out for me but it's not and I'm learning to love myself

    • @chosenray1
      @chosenray1 10 месяцев назад +15

      Jesus loves you and can keep you. You deserve to live and you’re worthy of true love.

    • @VeBlessed
      @VeBlessed 9 месяцев назад +4

      Bless your heart for being strong enough to do something some people aren't able to do. Stay positive and keep putting that love into yourself

    • @lisawhite9578
      @lisawhite9578 9 месяцев назад +12

      GLORYYYYY!! Glad you got out, mental abuse is just as bad as physical, words hurt

    • @cc7346
      @cc7346 9 месяцев назад +14

      My mother always told me 'no one is going to love you like you"

    • @patcharles1146
      @patcharles1146 9 месяцев назад +3

      Thank you for sharing! I just said this to a family member who is being emotionally abused. Abuse is not always physically

  • @kosmicinclinations3333
    @kosmicinclinations3333 10 месяцев назад +338

    You cannot love people more than you love yourself. You cannot love the attention you get from couples goals more than you love yourself

    • @mariastewart9820
      @mariastewart9820 10 месяцев назад +9

      Preach !!!!!

    • @thatjtyp
      @thatjtyp 10 месяцев назад +12

      Welp religion teaches different….Jesus loved us more than himself. You’re basically victim blaming and saying She’s gone because she loved him more than she loved herself. She did what SHE thought was best, he was just a monster.

    • @bonnyedaise9465
      @bonnyedaise9465 10 месяцев назад +15

      God always send you a pebble before a stone there's a lot of times we are in denial but when it happens hind sight we saw it all the time,

    • @laughoutloudtv2104
      @laughoutloudtv2104 10 месяцев назад +7

      Yes God ❤

    • @John-ls4xh
      @John-ls4xh 10 месяцев назад +12

      You see here's the thing we teach, Jesus sacrificed himself on behalf of others. You can still love people, and not have to be a doormat to people's abuse. You can still, if God wills it, place boundaries and do these things and love, because He is holy and blameless And judges righteously. In Jesus name.

  • @DivineGoddessFreda
    @DivineGoddessFreda 10 месяцев назад +327

    This is so tragic😢 Domestic violence is not a joke, goal or cute. We got to do better, lives are not worthless. Condolences to the family.

    • @feefs2139
      @feefs2139 10 месяцев назад +6

      ​@IyamSoRayaAbsolutely true.

    • @sheimellwells7371
      @sheimellwells7371 10 месяцев назад +7

      DMV is not a safe place to be in love is not worth your life

    • @theinsightfulvisionary0197
      @theinsightfulvisionary0197 10 месяцев назад +2

      Amen!!!

    • @bonnyedaise9465
      @bonnyedaise9465 10 месяцев назад +1

      @@sheimellwells7371 let them know from the start that you hit back and stick with it 😜

    • @doperesilienthustla
      @doperesilienthustla 9 месяцев назад

      Sorry for you all loss and my prayer is with you all. This is so sad😢

  • @Venee777
    @Venee777 10 месяцев назад +50

    He hated her, he hated his life. He was also jealous of her, who she was. He is a sick, sad, delusional, horrible monster. Rest young, beautiful one. And family, prayers for strength are with you.❤️

  • @jewellee7107
    @jewellee7107 10 месяцев назад +139

    19:41 I am in tears 😢 this hit me really hard! My sister went through exactly the same thing…my sister was 4 months pregnant when her husband shot her 5 times…luckily she made it but is a quadriplegic and can’t do anything for herself…the baby didn’t make it but she also have 2 other kids who love her dearly and take such great care of her! The signs are always there we just don’t pay attention 😢 I’m so sorry this happened to y’all…y’all are always in my prayers

    • @user-su7do8wf7x
      @user-su7do8wf7x 10 месяцев назад +4

      😢😢😢😮😮😮 hug's

    • @user-su7do8wf7x
      @user-su7do8wf7x 10 месяцев назад

      ​@@bravob6344really 😢😢😮😮😮😮you troll 😠💔🦾 why I never stay or go back men like you stay ruthless on how them mfs act with me I fight a mf too you low for that 👿😈😈😈 all you is a shame of you 😮

    • @ericabootzgibson4755
      @ericabootzgibson4755 10 месяцев назад +1

      ​@@bravob6344Really?? Smdh please $tfu🙄🤦🏿‍♀️😒😑

    • @a.jordan7235
      @a.jordan7235 10 месяцев назад

      @@bravob6344....Why do you believe you are capable of getting a lady angry, who couldn't care less about your nakerish point of view? I can tell you're one of the angry ones....forced to experience a shift you thought you'd never face, from dynamic Black Women....just be truthful with yourself and admit you can't take it....😂😂🤣🤣

    • @jewellee7107
      @jewellee7107 10 месяцев назад +5

      @@bravob6344she didn’t want to be with him anymore because he was very abusive…and still just because he’s angry doesn’t give him the right to hurt someone 🤷🏾‍♀️

  • @Butterfly_47
    @Butterfly_47 10 месяцев назад +179

    Her family spoke so well and this interview was very good! Condolences to everyone that loved her. This is so sad 😢😢

    • @tinawindham6958
      @tinawindham6958 10 месяцев назад +1

      I was watching something else I guess

    • @novaleeseabolt6797
      @novaleeseabolt6797 10 месяцев назад

      @@tinawindham6958🤭

    • @NaturalJoy50
      @NaturalJoy50 10 месяцев назад +12

      @@tinawindham6958Is the reason for your statement because of her pronunciation of words!
      She speaks better than trump; she was making complete sentences.

    • @reginalda.bellsr.249
      @reginalda.bellsr.249 10 месяцев назад +2

      @@NaturalJoy50💯💪🏾👑

    • @ericabootzgibson4755
      @ericabootzgibson4755 10 месяцев назад +1

      ​@@tinawindham6958Why are you even here if you going to be a negative Karen??🤔🤨🙄🤦🏿‍♀️👎🏿🤫Shh, go away.😒😑😏✊🏿✌🏿

  • @ivonnekazapua5200
    @ivonnekazapua5200 10 месяцев назад +35

    My mother told me if a man hit you once run and don't look back no matter how much you love them cause when someone love you they will never do anything to hurt you physically, and emotionally... MAY THE LORD BE WITH THEM

    • @PHlophe
      @PHlophe 10 месяцев назад +2

      Yvonne and what she said is true but the trouble is a lot of people are tied with mortgage, additional debts , difficult workplace and God knows what else. its the main reason that prevents folk from taking swift action when they are in danger. Too many conflicting factors and escalating issues beyond marriage.

    • @mahoganygrayson1374
      @mahoganygrayson1374 9 месяцев назад

      @@PHlopheThe unfortunate reality. 😞

    • @Gracekeys5
      @Gracekeys5 2 месяца назад

      Yes!! Also when he calls you out your name, even once .. please leave him. Walk away.

  • @my.0224
    @my.0224 10 месяцев назад +116

    He didn’t authentically want her, he wanted what she had to offer.

    • @ShadesOfIvory
      @ShadesOfIvory 10 месяцев назад +22

      I think, he was into something or someone else, but not her at all. 😔

    • @badgeewest4237
      @badgeewest4237 10 месяцев назад

      It seems like he was on drugs or mental illness and it took over his mind.

    • @duncanpenderhughes8865
      @duncanpenderhughes8865 10 месяцев назад

      You know dude 🤔🤫💯

    • @duncanpenderhughes8865
      @duncanpenderhughes8865 10 месяцев назад

      @@ShadesOfIvory oh well you live and you die 💯🥱

    • @my.0224
      @my.0224 10 месяцев назад +19

      @@duncanpenderhughes8865 Don’t have to know him. Was evident. MOST men incarcerated needs a pen pal and a woman that’s an ATM to “ hold them down” Upon release they need an address to be paroled to. He didn’t want her, he needed her and she fit the criteria for what he “needed” God rest her soul. Hopefully, women will wake up and stop supporting men who are incarcerated. MOST are users.

  • @nicoleallen9491
    @nicoleallen9491 10 месяцев назад +31

    She gave him everything..That's the biggest problem you can't buy love and loyalty..So sad😢

    • @charlottejackson7690
      @charlottejackson7690 9 месяцев назад +1

      Exactly what made him deserve everything?

    • @dccd7120
      @dccd7120 8 месяцев назад +1

      She wasn’t trying to buy him, her love language, could have been to giving to people she love. Look around she to all. Generous person.

  • @mz.smokinghotchocolate6205
    @mz.smokinghotchocolate6205 10 месяцев назад +132

    This broke my heart. My condolences and prayers to the family 💔

  • @TheWallacePlace
    @TheWallacePlace 10 месяцев назад +36

    This interview was handled so well. Much respect for this reporter as a professional.

  • @patriciahorton6674
    @patriciahorton6674 10 месяцев назад +36

    Sending my deepest condolences 🙏. My brother was killed by his girlfriend. He was the oldest out of 11 children. She said if she couldn't have him nobody else will not have him. My father and mother spoke to him Wednesday evening he stated he will be home to visit early Saturday morning. Friday night we get a call that my brother got killed. My brother was a tall medium build man. Make it short ....my brother got off from work he got home her and her sister was there. She came towards him with a knife and stabbed him in the heart and killed him instantly. My mother rest her soul never got over that. I notice she got through it from Grace from God. My father which my brother his name sake lost his best friend. I will continue to pray for your family that God give you comfort and strength 🙏.

    • @krounsaville3359
      @krounsaville3359 9 месяцев назад +4

      Sorry to hear what happened to your brother. 🙏🙏🙏

    • @patriciahorton6674
      @patriciahorton6674 9 месяцев назад

      @@krounsaville3359 thank you

    • @bonnyedaise9465
      @bonnyedaise9465 9 месяцев назад

      She probably grew up in a violent environment and didn't know any better 😭

  • @phoenixrising5062
    @phoenixrising5062 10 месяцев назад +161

    This is happening ALOT in the black community. Women need to focus on themselves and their children and leave these demonic men alone. RIP and I pray protection over her daughter and comfort to the family as they deal with this terrible loss. RIP 💔

    • @tamikaruskin2345
      @tamikaruskin2345 10 месяцев назад +18

      Exactly what I been saying!!!

    • @blkprl7945
      @blkprl7945 10 месяцев назад +22

      Yes, it is..we all know that they need to get out! These men are strategic in what they do...they break that woman down and then put fear in her... CONTROLLING! And they better not tell anyone what's truly going on in the home!Then she's terrified of leaving! How do you convince them to get out...when they're scared???

    • @phoenixrising5062
      @phoenixrising5062 10 месяцев назад +3

      @@blkprl7945 YOU can’t.

    • @chiiix33
      @chiiix33 10 месяцев назад +2

      We’re already 4 times more likely to be k***led by our partners than other women. We need to stop dealing with these men all together. It’s a risk that’s not worth it.

    • @VCurtis7
      @VCurtis7 10 месяцев назад +1

      ​@@chiiix33
      True! But somewhat not all the way true! (The other nationalities of men, have been also killing their women, wives, and even killing the Blk women.) Its not just the Blk men. It's all men!

  • @kellyfredricks12
    @kellyfredricks12 10 месяцев назад +76

    Sending lots of love, hugs and prayers to you and yours, I'm a survier of domestic violence. Thank God I got out in time . I never realized how bad it was till I see others . My heart goes out to you all.

    • @Erika-EJ
      @Erika-EJ 10 месяцев назад +6

      True I'm a survivor and I never think of how bad it could have gotten

    • @jackiehumphery2445
      @jackiehumphery2445 10 месяцев назад +3

      God Bless you Safe

    • @3Bnannylounge
      @3Bnannylounge 9 месяцев назад +1

      🙏🏾

  • @user-dz9tb2hl8m
    @user-dz9tb2hl8m 10 месяцев назад +70

    Really heartfelt. My family suffered the same loss. September 30 of 2022 my sister and her daughter was killed by my sisters boyfriend. The pain is still deep my sister left behind a son 20 years old. My niece had a 3 year old and a 1 month old
    This is sooooo very sad for her daughter and family to go through. My mom begged this coward not to shoot them and he did right in front of my mom

    • @michelleruffin6903
      @michelleruffin6903 10 месяцев назад +14

      Deepest condolences 😢❤

    • @GimmeDat-jc9qh
      @GimmeDat-jc9qh 10 месяцев назад +9

      My condolences 🌹Hugs Strength & 🙏🏽's

    • @user-dz9tb2hl8m
      @user-dz9tb2hl8m 10 месяцев назад +8

      Still so hurt my niece was only 23 and my sister only 44 my niece was in the military she was on maternity leave and was only home to visit for a few weeks. They say God makes no mistakes. He let my niece come home to visit when this happened.

    • @fatonyalmitchell3281
      @fatonyalmitchell3281 10 месяцев назад +8

      WTF... sorry 😔 for your losses ugh 😩 I'm Sooooo hurt for you..... Yeah this is definitely painful..I'm nothing but a bag of water 💦 bless ❤️ you and this family...... How are you holding up ⁉️ hopefully swell 💕 I have zero answers but God loves you and so Do I....I know the pain 😕

    • @Cake269
      @Cake269 10 месяцев назад +4

      Sorry for your loss

  • @CenturyHomeProject
    @CenturyHomeProject 10 месяцев назад +41

    This breaks my heart and soul. This lady deserved better. Offering up prayers to her family through this trying time.

  • @tljackson2026
    @tljackson2026 10 месяцев назад +72

    Lord Jesus! This is horrible. I'm sending prayers up for her family, especially her daughter.

  • @BeautifulWoman31
    @BeautifulWoman31 10 месяцев назад +59

    This one broke me, I don't know this beautiful woman or her family. This is just beyond sad, she had so much Love for him. My Heart and Prayers to this family. This is just hard, because our men are killing us instead of protecting or loving 😔

  • @ellenhunt8445
    @ellenhunt8445 10 месяцев назад +58

    This is a hard pill to swallow. She appeared so vibrant. What a loss. This lady has strength in the pain.

  • @valoriecarmona1982
    @valoriecarmona1982 10 месяцев назад +132

    What a tragic loss! Condolences to your family. May she rest in paradise 🕊️

  • @thisisHowHedidit
    @thisisHowHedidit 10 месяцев назад +99

    I'm sending sincere condolences and prayers to her daughter, extended family, and friends. It's sad to think just how much we accept violence and dysfunction in our community. Her sister literally said, "You could've BEAT HER UP!" She is grieving and I understand that part, but there's NO FORM of ABUSE that should be TOLERATED, LET ALONE SUGGESTED IN EXCHANGE FOR DEATH!!
    WHAT ARE WE DOING OUT HERE??? WHAT IS REALLY GOING ON??? 😡😡😡😢😢😢💔💔💔🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

    • @stopit41
      @stopit41 10 месяцев назад

      Coward

    • @lenettranixon4683
      @lenettranixon4683 10 месяцев назад +16

      I heard that as well. It's like people are conformed into believing they are not worthy so they are ok with being abused. 😮

    • @bonnyedaise9465
      @bonnyedaise9465 10 месяцев назад +12

      Some women think men have to hit you in order for it to be abuse,

    • @adrianhill2240
      @adrianhill2240 10 месяцев назад +4

      We're so desensitized!

    • @bonnyedaise9465
      @bonnyedaise9465 10 месяцев назад +2

      We are at a loss and didn't know what to do 😭

  • @Dimples411
    @Dimples411 10 месяцев назад +60

    Wait what??? She said she feel like she was gonna die? Did she say why she felt like that? Omg so sad

    • @user-ij4sz8ki7v
      @user-ij4sz8ki7v 10 месяцев назад +24

      Exactly , I would've been so worried

    • @CupcakeBeauty24
      @CupcakeBeauty24 10 месяцев назад +15

      Exactly...that was her way of asking for help smh...more should have been done in that moment, but I don't want to blame her family either smh. I just don't understand how/why more questions weren't asked after she made thar statement because I would've had tons smh😢

    • @BlankCanvasProductionss
      @BlankCanvasProductionss 10 месяцев назад +13

      Yea it aint adding up. If my family say some like that we sharing locations. Checkin around clock. What? Family aint really family no more i guess wth

    • @ThatAlleyCatsBack
      @ThatAlleyCatsBack 10 месяцев назад

      @@BlankCanvasProductionssit’s not thanks to social media

    • @PHlophe
      @PHlophe 10 месяцев назад

      Erica Mba, i think folk would have paid attention if they had been the ones doing intentional welfare check. Because sometimes folk can speak the truth out loud and people wouldn't pick up on it because the cry for help is too faint. Its the reasons why we have hindsight unfortunately. I personally , i do ask questions and i do do intentional welfare checks . when i was 12 my uncle did the unthinkable and ever since then i decided it ain't finna happen on my watch or behind my back.

  • @jaycostewart8
    @jaycostewart8 10 месяцев назад +31

    What a wicked evil demon. Terrible acts. Poor woman. May her soul rest in perfect peace and condolences to the family. 🕊

  • @terriekurney6548
    @terriekurney6548 10 месяцев назад +61

    I left the meanest man I ever met in my life. I just went silent

    • @tgirl1012
      @tgirl1012 10 месяцев назад +7

      Bless you

    • @ritawilliams2359
      @ritawilliams2359 10 месяцев назад +15

      I’m on the silent train too

    • @fatonyalmitchell3281
      @fatonyalmitchell3281 10 месяцев назад +7

      Keep hiding

    • @lenettranixon4683
      @lenettranixon4683 10 месяцев назад +11

      ​@@ritawilliams2359Father God protect Rita, hem her in behind and before. Confuse the enemy in Jesus name I pray amen 🙏🏾👏🏿🙌🏿

    • @tinawindham6958
      @tinawindham6958 10 месяцев назад +5

      Only way to get out and stay out👍🏻they’ll move on sooner than later when they need something

  • @JERZEEBYNATURE
    @JERZEEBYNATURE 10 месяцев назад +65

    This is so sad my deepest condolences to her child and family and friends 🙏🏾😥😔

  • @meosha4580
    @meosha4580 10 месяцев назад +34

    Let us pray for families that are suffering in silence from Domestic Violence and let us uplift and keep this grieving family in our prayers 🙏🏾 Lord have mercy and shed your light and justice for this family... Amen 🙌🏾🙏🏾

    • @Pshell
      @Pshell 10 месяцев назад +3

      Very well said sister! Amen 🙏🏾 ❤

  • @katrinajackson5061
    @katrinajackson5061 10 месяцев назад +32

    Man this hearts my heart! I’m so tired of this happening to women from people they love! It’s not fair! At all!! I’m sending prayers, strength, and comfort to her family!!!

  • @LaydeeMunch
    @LaydeeMunch 10 месяцев назад +108

    She gave this ngga the world it hurts my heart RIP to her smh

    • @GRoyale
      @GRoyale 10 месяцев назад +26

      And it still wasn't enough. I feel like he hated her deep down BUT he also didn't want to release her. He wanted to take her away, get rid of completely. RIH🕊️

    • @bonnyedaise9465
      @bonnyedaise9465 10 месяцев назад +18

      He was a looser and he was angry 😡

    • @quiquimcleod1518
      @quiquimcleod1518 10 месяцев назад

      Domestic violence is an evil demonic entity brewing in their core I made a promise to god get me out of this alive I promise I will not come back to this person and we have kids. That was n July of 91 and if I didn’t stand on any other promises I made to god I stood and still standing for on that promise 😞😞
      And my children’s father told me years later that he had prepared his self to go to prison forever cause killing me was his mind set😭😭..
      A nightmare/ dream saved my life may their cousin sleep in peace and our most high give their entire family strength to carry on
      GOD BLESS

    • @vivianmckeithan7487
      @vivianmckeithan7487 10 месяцев назад +8

      May she Rest in peace so sorry for the family loss 🕊️🕊️🕊️💐💐💐💜💜

    • @tinawindham6958
      @tinawindham6958 10 месяцев назад +1

      Loser???

  • @TrueCrimeUnforgotten
    @TrueCrimeUnforgotten 10 месяцев назад +20

    I’m in so Much tears right now it hurt Bad and I don’t even know her personally

  • @michelelee909
    @michelelee909 10 месяцев назад +24

    my heart just aches for her family. they’re obviously very close. her cousin’s pain is difficult to watch w/o crying too. my deepest condolences to her baby girl and her family who love her so much.

  • @queengfamilyempire9536
    @queengfamilyempire9536 10 месяцев назад +40

    Sending up prayers and condolences for you and your family. She did not deserve this. This breaks my heart. I'm so sorry, she was beautiful.

  • @jeaneallen4969
    @jeaneallen4969 10 месяцев назад +13

    This has happened to black women far more times than it should have. I'd rather be alone than deal with ill behavior from a man/woman. Condolences to the family.

    • @PHlophe
      @PHlophe 10 месяцев назад +1

      Jeanne, poverty plays a part in this as a lot of BW do not have the immediate means to skip town and places to stay are far and few between .

  • @maincharactermisty
    @maincharactermisty 10 месяцев назад +21

    Ladies we gotta stop attaching our worth to having someone, keeping someone, enduring bs w someone, what we can do for them and looking past “small things” that are actual red flags.
    Don’t get me wrong, I’m not victim blaming. I am just speaking to those that do and that’s how women have been brainwashed to be over time period.
    Put all that love into yourself first bc that’s already challenging enough.
    Coming from a dv situation where I had to get my child and myself away completely…remember this, small red flags again, are still red flags. You never really realize how close you are to death until you leave for good.
    As someone’s grandmother once said “Don’t give someone so much that they fall in love with your hand before they fall in love w your heart.” Another said “Anyone who wants a husband only does because they haven’t had one.” Both still stands true years later to me unfortunately. Be safe out there and put yourself first!
    I hope he never gets to appeal and is placed in cells w men who are in there bc they were trying to protect their families and women!

  • @rhonnie404
    @rhonnie404 10 месяцев назад +21

    I cried the whole interview and these are some strong women to tell the truth that there were red flags 🚩 and they had to ignore them because she wanted to save her marriage God give them justice and peace and Strength 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🩷

  • @cheryl5994
    @cheryl5994 10 месяцев назад +8

    THANK YOU FOR GIVING DISHAYE’S FAMILY A VOICE.

  • @gwenscott6242
    @gwenscott6242 10 месяцев назад +18

    This broke my heart...I am praying for the family. Her life was represented in such a loving, caring way. I could feel the emotion as her story was being told. Thank you to her love ones for sharing! ❤ May God give you strength during this difficult time.

  • @lakiamalloy03
    @lakiamalloy03 10 месяцев назад +24

    This is so sad. May her beautiful soul rest in peace.

  • @solidsista2389
    @solidsista2389 10 месяцев назад +45

    Sending my DEEPEST CONDOLENCES and PRAYERS to this family. So sad on many levels. BLESSINGS TO ALL ❤️

  • @yvettatirado5685
    @yvettatirado5685 10 месяцев назад +26

    My Heart Goes Out To Her Family

  • @april6662
    @april6662 10 месяцев назад +18

    If your loved one tells you that they feel like they are gonna die, get to them or send someone to them asap., do not brush it off!! My Deep, Deep Condolences. Your healing will take a lifetime, you actually learn to accept and live with such a painful truth. Peace&love

  • @CandySweetTexas
    @CandySweetTexas 10 месяцев назад +13

    As a DV survivor my hearts just breaks, nobody understands what a person goes through in them situations its not easy to just walk away, u dont tell ppl cause yes true u dont want ppl to feel a type towards that person so u do remain quiet and suffer in silence its horrible may God place His hands on this family this is heartbreaking

  • @CodyCole80
    @CodyCole80 10 месяцев назад +20

    🤦🏽‍♀️ Her sister said that she gave her husband everything. That’s the problem. A lot of women think they’re helping men, but deep down, men resent it because that’s not the nature of their role. Plus, niece says she was opening a new business. He was a “street dude” and extremely jealous of his own wife. He’s trifling and needs to be locked away for life.

  • @susanrobinson3745
    @susanrobinson3745 10 месяцев назад +5

    Love doesn't hurt. Not like this....

  • @liztaylor3578
    @liztaylor3578 10 месяцев назад +9

    This was one of the saddest while realest interviews I’ve watched🥺 my heart goes out to this BEAUTIFUL FAMILY 🙏🏽

  • @kishia3468
    @kishia3468 10 месяцев назад +15

    Ladies stay single this is going on to much runnnnnn if you see signs 🙏🙏🙏my condolences

  • @tamaracarbo1531
    @tamaracarbo1531 10 месяцев назад +15

    I'm soooooo sorry your family is hurting. Your sista seem amaaaaazing and soooo loving. Just from what I saw, she gave him her world. She loved him with no regrets. Let GOD and let her light continue to shine thru you guys. Her daughta will for evva carry her momma torch. SHE'S GONNA CONTINUE TO MAKE HER MOMMA PROUD TOO. My prayers are with y'all 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @Pshell
    @Pshell 10 месяцев назад +18

    This is so heartbreaking 💔!! Lord pls give this family you comfort, peace and strength right now! My sincere condolences to this entire family 🙏🏾❤️

  • @user-kw7uv3fs1v
    @user-kw7uv3fs1v 10 месяцев назад +15

    She have some strong sisters and cuz

  • @maggieedwards3951
    @maggieedwards3951 10 месяцев назад +5

    You represented you amazing cousin with the greatest strength and love , so sorry for your great loss , may Almighty God strengthen the family in the days and months ahead .
    May her soul rest in peace.

  • @dezaraywilliams5393
    @dezaraywilliams5393 10 месяцев назад +27

    May god keep y’all wrapped up in his arms I couldn’t imagine how you all feel but just know me and my family are praying for y’all and god will give y’all strength to make it through this.... I’m so sorry for you all lost.... we Dallas strong and we praying for y’all.... prayers and condolences

  • @itsdriaworld5165
    @itsdriaworld5165 10 месяцев назад +9

    For them to know she is missing and attempt to find her goes to show you she was extremely loved.

  • @Bri.Ann.
    @Bri.Ann. 10 месяцев назад +9

    This story been so heavy on my heart. Thank you for speaking out❤

  • @dawnlove3888
    @dawnlove3888 10 месяцев назад +11

    I’m so sorry for your loss….I am praying for the entire family. GOD BLESS YOU ALL💔💔💔💔

  • @ceeadams-robinson7554
    @ceeadams-robinson7554 9 месяцев назад +3

    Ladies LEAVE!!!! Dont wait!!! My 24 year old cousin rest her beautiful soul was killed violently in front of her whole apartment complex by a sorry jealous man that didnt deserve her and because of what he did her 4 kids are motherless. LOVE isnt abuse, violence, or pain

  • @fairuh520
    @fairuh520 10 месяцев назад +6

    OMG "she felt her death coming" - wow. RIP Dishaye. I hope her killer is brought to justice.

    • @cgtcne
      @cgtcne 10 месяцев назад +1

      So sad and scary 😔

  • @frankbrown7121
    @frankbrown7121 10 месяцев назад +7

    Ladies stay away from weak, emotional and fragile men! You can’t saved them no matter how hard you try. Let a man figure it out on his own because we can if put in a position to do so...

  • @ulandablanchard120
    @ulandablanchard120 10 месяцев назад +10

    Rest in peace ...God needed an Angel 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 sending condolences from Barbados 🇧🇧 truly sad😢

  • @venusdove9213
    @venusdove9213 10 месяцев назад +22

    💐😔❤️ Don't worry her spirit is in good hands. God has her personally.

  • @BerniceJackson-kr9dh
    @BerniceJackson-kr9dh 10 месяцев назад +13

    I'm so, so sorry 😢 My heart goes out to her daughter 💔 and rest of the family and friends who loved her. SIPP

  • @nitagoodgood1of1
    @nitagoodgood1of1 10 месяцев назад +14

    🙏🏽 I’m sorry she didn’t make it out.
    I was in a abusive relationship and I know exactly how she felt about trying to hold up her relationship it wasn’t hard me leaving my sons father.
    We need awareness of domestic violence we are losing so many to domestic violence I see these videos everyday of a new victim that did not survive, and it breaks my heart.
    I will pray for this family that god give them strength.🙏🏽

  • @mrsjmilladge08
    @mrsjmilladge08 10 месяцев назад +10

    This is so sad and hurts but when someone leaves in a family another comes, her niece that was born that same day will definitely remind them of her and care a part of her spirit

  • @ajcollins8849
    @ajcollins8849 10 месяцев назад +6

    Listen to this lady talk it's so heartbreaking prayers going up for her and her family

  • @missbehaving9128
    @missbehaving9128 10 месяцев назад +14

    He was saying that “ she was trying to set him up” for what? Why? RIP to this young lady.

    • @najahc.3081
      @najahc.3081 10 месяцев назад +24

      He was on drugs! That probably causes him to be paranoid. SMH!

    • @TakodaKapri7779
      @TakodaKapri7779 10 месяцев назад +14

      Sounds like he was on that ‘wet’ suffering symptoms of paranoia

    • @lavenderblu253
      @lavenderblu253 10 месяцев назад +3

      @@najahc.3081exactly

    • @user-rg8ip2ek7v
      @user-rg8ip2ek7v 10 месяцев назад +2

      He was on pcp

    • @MiaMya396
      @MiaMya396 10 месяцев назад +4

      You didn’t watch the video? They said he was sent to the hospital because he was full of so much PCP. So he was overly high on once of the worst drugs which can cause hallucinations and delusion. But he was also jealous it seems as she was the breadwinner even with a child.

  • @evelynguy8586
    @evelynguy8586 10 месяцев назад +9

    I’m truly sorry for your loss. You have my deepest condolences!!!!!!!! You will be in my prayers. Be strong. I know what you are going through. My mom was in abusive relationship.

  • @vanessahardrick4115
    @vanessahardrick4115 10 месяцев назад +16

    Sending my sincerest condolences and prayers to this family. 🙏

  • @BryantBryant-jt9uj
    @BryantBryant-jt9uj 10 месяцев назад +8

    I admire the grace of these wonderful women. She will be missed dearly and if she is anything like you strong, well spoken women, I can only imagine what she was like in life. Rest well. I’m devastated for the family especially for the daughter she was taken from her daughter . I HATE DOMESTIC VIOLENCE.

  • @valariefluker4060
    @valariefluker4060 10 месяцев назад +11

    I’m so sorry for you guys loss … stay strong !

  • @teresabartlett8110
    @teresabartlett8110 10 месяцев назад +8

    May we all work to destroy the devil that brings evil to this world. My condolences to you and family

  • @davonjohnson5528
    @davonjohnson5528 10 месяцев назад +15

    Well spoken I see nothing but courage and strength on this soul

  • @iamthatiam1618
    @iamthatiam1618 10 месяцев назад +7

    This is so messed up. Im truly sorry for your loss.

  • @N0U0R0S0EOO7
    @N0U0R0S0EOO7 10 месяцев назад +8

    I can see, hear, & feel the pain in her family members faces, & voices. This truly breaks my heart. To see this young lady literally give this sick excuse for a human being any and everything, & him return her love & gratitude by taking her life is beyond words. DV is not a joke (speaking from experience). Please take action as soon as you see the signs & never underestimate anyone thinking you know how far they may go. She didn’t deserve this. My heartfelt prayers & condolences go out to her family & loved ones. Heavenly Father please provide them with comfort, strength and peace like only you can. May she rest peacefully 🙏🏽💔🕯️🕊️.

  • @vanessahardrick4115
    @vanessahardrick4115 10 месяцев назад +11

    Lord! What's wrong with men!😢

  • @ebbypetes
    @ebbypetes 10 месяцев назад +26

    Y'all these people are demon possessed. Trust in the Lord and clean up your life because the devil is BUSY. The bible said it would be times like this. Prayers to the family. ❤❤❤

  • @sherrywilliams7090
    @sherrywilliams7090 9 месяцев назад +3

    So sad to hear… women please learn from this, wake up from this and don’t tolerate the abuse on any level. Don’t ignore signs! Again don’t ignore the signs. Be safe out there much as you can.

  • @Alyssabacq
    @Alyssabacq 10 месяцев назад +3

    For anyone going through DV reach out and tell someone I’m lucky to be alive the person I was with almost killed me and my son he is now in prison for 10 yrs get help talk love is not enough and it’s not real love if they are hurting you or ur children rest in piece 🕊️🪽🙏

  • @cupcake2009ist
    @cupcake2009ist 10 месяцев назад +5

    Wow this is so sad that family is torn into pieces behind this their family will NEVER BE THE SAME!!!😢😢🥺🥺

  • @raeshellspeaks5716
    @raeshellspeaks5716 10 месяцев назад +10

    Soo sad..😢 I'm praying for the family 😢

  • @TheWallacePlace
    @TheWallacePlace 10 месяцев назад +6

    Her family speaking brings tears my eyes. This is so sad and that family sounds so loving. ❤🙏🏽

  • @sarahj4329
    @sarahj4329 10 месяцев назад +5

    Terrible!…so sorry for your loss❤may God be with you all❤️❤️

  • @kj42497
    @kj42497 10 месяцев назад +8

    I’m so sorry for this families loss😢😢

  • @layanyabownens66
    @layanyabownens66 10 месяцев назад +3

    That was one beautiful girl ❤️🙏 hope they get Justice for her prayers go out to her and her family and daughter

  • @momonique09
    @momonique09 10 месяцев назад +6

    I’m so sorry ❤My prayers go out to you all💔🙏🏾

  • @queenrc4372
    @queenrc4372 10 месяцев назад +9

    I seen this story on Twisted Crimes.This is so terribly sad.That monster will surely have to answer to God one day reaping what he sow.My Thoughts & Prayers Goes Out To The Family & Friends.May Dishaye's Soul R.I.G.😢😇🕊🥀🙏🏽

  • @Deon_swavae
    @Deon_swavae 10 месяцев назад +2

    She told you she was about to die and you brushed this off?? And now your on tv?

  • @littlelettuce1215
    @littlelettuce1215 10 месяцев назад +18

    I’m so sorry for her loss 😢 I’m sure her sister was so wonderful❤️

  • @MZDUUVAL6986
    @MZDUUVAL6986 10 месяцев назад +8

    Was he Abusing Drugs......😮😮😮
    Sounded like he was Paronoid

  • @marthayurnet2280
    @marthayurnet2280 6 месяцев назад +2

    My heart goes out to you and your family .god bless her soul😢

  • @kikijohnson5211
    @kikijohnson5211 10 месяцев назад +8

    Prayers High for all family and friends

  • @toya3687
    @toya3687 10 месяцев назад +5

    You cannot idiolize a man and put him before God! God is a jealous God! He wants to be number 1 in your life. I’m sorry this happened to Shaye but God is God all by himself!! Put nothing and no one before him🙏🏾

    • @chosenray1
      @chosenray1 10 месяцев назад

      Idolatry never ends well.

    • @carolharris1236
      @carolharris1236 3 месяца назад

      That is 100 percent correct. She worshipped that man, and it was her downfall.

  • @simonebreakerscott1594
    @simonebreakerscott1594 10 месяцев назад +8

    Praying for the family 🙏🏽🌹😢🕊💜

  • @gilvettab222
    @gilvettab222 10 месяцев назад +6

    This is very horrible, and I pray for her daughter and entire family. You can feel their lost.

  • @molliesmith418
    @molliesmith418 10 месяцев назад +8

    Y’all are amazing people bless you ❤

  • @angelam1817
    @angelam1817 10 месяцев назад +7

    Sending the family my prayers 🙏🏾. God please give this family the strength and peace, during this time. 🙏🏾

  • @HopeTM71
    @HopeTM71 10 месяцев назад +7

    So so sad for the family and especially for her baby 😢💔🕊️

  • @user-zz4vi1xv6z
    @user-zz4vi1xv6z 10 месяцев назад +8

    LORD, please comfort and strengthen this family! Peace be still🙏🏽

  • @mr.wilson381
    @mr.wilson381 10 месяцев назад +43

    I wish I could have been there to protect her😔

    • @fatonyalmitchell3281
      @fatonyalmitchell3281 10 месяцев назад +3

      N what would you have done

    • @lenettranixon4683
      @lenettranixon4683 10 месяцев назад +4

      ​@@fatonyalmitchell3281Don't underestimate another person's mindset

    • @chillinwiththerealistmaryb6494
      @chillinwiththerealistmaryb6494 10 месяцев назад +8

      @@lenettranixon4683right! There’s a lot of men out here that don’t play about women.

    • @chillinwiththerealistmaryb6494
      @chillinwiththerealistmaryb6494 10 месяцев назад +6

      @@fatonyalmitchell3281a lot more than what these police officers would’ve done. There’s some men that don’t play when it come to women. I’ve been protected many of times by black men.