No More Trash Bags for Foster Kids! This Family Argues They Deserve Better

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  • Опубликовано: 15 фев 2017
  • He wants to make sure no other child in the foster care system has an experience like the ones he and his children had. Warning: descriptions of abuse.
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    Video by Jess Blank, with special thanks to www.comfortcases.org.
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Комментарии • 112

  • @jacobthompson6265
    @jacobthompson6265 5 лет назад +11

    I am a former foster kid. I aged out 3 years ago. I’m graduating from college in May. It’s been a long uphill battle.

  • @flensdude
    @flensdude 7 лет назад +111

    I only see a loving family.

  • @karenhunter1120
    @karenhunter1120 7 лет назад +51

    So glad you decide to tell your story. Your declaration of "I Needed to be Wanted" not only brought tears to my eyes. But your words clicked in my heart.
    I realized that, that is what I've been seeking. No I'm not from the foster system or anything like that....and I am a giver. Almost to a fault. But because of your testimony I now have a little more insight into who I am.
    God bless you and your entire family.💖

  • @nicolacairns1884
    @nicolacairns1884 7 лет назад +28

    You have made a difference . The greatest gift is love .

  • @richardhutchison3123
    @richardhutchison3123 7 лет назад +46

    What a powerful story Rob. God bless you and your husband for making such a positive difference in the lives of children. You are an amazing man!

  • @dianawright2128
    @dianawright2128 7 лет назад +13

    What a beautiful thing...you are wanted by these beautifully aaawesome children you are raising

  • @novasonjupiter6593
    @novasonjupiter6593 7 лет назад +13

    YOU & YOUR HUSBAND ARE SO BOMB!!!!!!!!

  • @sophia-yq3qh
    @sophia-yq3qh 6 лет назад +7

    Why aren’t there people more like this 😭

  • @jasoncarpp7742
    @jasoncarpp7742 7 лет назад +29

    Beautiful story! It makes me cry listening to his story. I cry with sadness for the children abused in the foster care system. It's a damn disgrace to the Child Care system. It also makes me cry with happiness to know that he's made something positive of himself and that he and his partner is caring for children, despite what system says, that because they're homosexual, that they're gay, that they're incapable of providing a loving, caring home for children. If only all foster homes cared for children like this couple is doing. A home should be a place where one can feel safe.

  • @jccarey4585
    @jccarey4585 7 лет назад +33

    We need more ppl like this in the world! Children need love...Period

    • @jasoncox-rogers4842
      @jasoncox-rogers4842 6 лет назад

      Jc Carey they also need a mother but no one seems to care about the childs need for one

  • @rachelgundersonashley7845
    @rachelgundersonashley7845 7 лет назад +9

    this is such a beautiful story of love. Thank you for sharing.

  • @itheprophet6777
    @itheprophet6777 4 года назад +1

    I saw this video last year and it made me cry. I was a foster kid as well so everything he was saying hit home. I have a song on my page that I wrote specifically because of this video and the generosity of these men. I hope Rob doesn't mind being in a song... lol.

  • @jeffeffinalastname895
    @jeffeffinalastname895 4 года назад +1

    This story has touched my heart for all the years since I first saw it. Goddess bless these guys

  • @AnitaD28
    @AnitaD28 7 лет назад +5

    What loving wonderful parents!

  • @tastysnack1
    @tastysnack1 3 года назад

    Wow.. Such a powerful story. We have fostered our first day of kids for the last seven months. Can't remember when I have shed so many happy tears.

  • @suzyharthcock7913
    @suzyharthcock7913 7 лет назад +14

    You are so beautiful, your family is beautiful, they are adorable and you are teaching all the right stuff..God bless you, I love your chicken whisperer! I love the cases, the blanket...you guys are the Best!

  • @adrianmechelle3784
    @adrianmechelle3784 7 лет назад +4

    First time I saw this, bawled my eyes out. Amazing, beautiful story.

  • @coym5452
    @coym5452 5 лет назад +1

    OMG, 1 I'm the baby out of 4 kids. And I can't wait to be a mom. Thank you so much for all the love u give ♥️♥️♥️

  • @PrinceChris93
    @PrinceChris93 6 лет назад +3

    I just searched foster care and this was one of the thing's that came up. My life ever since I got out of foster care has been a struggle but I'm working so hard to open my business and help my foster brother's and sister's. it's been really difficult but I promised myself I would open my business and not only write my story but make a difference thanks for everything your doing I can't wait to join the fight because I remember very well putting my thing's in trash bags but no one ever reports on all the hardship that foster kid's go through especially after were on our own you see all these pro and anti plan parenthood people fighting but non of them ever does a damn thing to help foster kid's who need help non and the whole thing just pisses me off.

  • @reneefle6234
    @reneefle6234 6 лет назад +4

    Need more of you. Be blessed

  • @cece2007howell
    @cece2007howell 6 лет назад +4

    I was in foster care and hauling my stuff around in trash bags made me feel terrible like I didn't matter Idk kind of hurt in ways I could not see them but as a adult I can see where the pain was and the effects small things sometimes are very significant

    • @catherinerothe7629
      @catherinerothe7629 5 лет назад

      sierra howell I realize now that I am not worth it, everyone was right over the years.

  • @amberhall1288
    @amberhall1288 6 лет назад +3

    BLESS YOU and your precious family! ♥️ Every child needs and deserves to be loved unconditionally and to feel safe and wanted in this big crazy world. YOU deserved that as a child and you deserve that today. It’s wonderful what you’ve done. ♥️ All my love to you! 👨‍👨‍👧‍👦

  • @loismiceli3990
    @loismiceli3990 6 лет назад +4

    I love that your life corrected itself for you and that now you feel wanted and are able to pass on your love to so many others.

  • @jlcollins7673
    @jlcollins7673 7 лет назад +4

    Thank you. Thank you.
    A million times thank you.

  • @FionaBranker
    @FionaBranker 6 лет назад +5

    You know what Rob? We're gonna ban trash bags

  • @paulaclivatiprado5271
    @paulaclivatiprado5271 7 лет назад +4

    such a wonderful man! amazing!

  • @simoncatt95
    @simoncatt95 6 лет назад +3

    You are an inspiration and completely amazing - thank you for sharing this. It's such a shame people like you weren't around when I went through the system in the 60's. I'll never know what it's like to have true love.

    • @terrywren5176
      @terrywren5176 6 лет назад +1

      Simon Catt I’m sorry you had to go through the system. I can’t imagine the loneliness you had to endure. It’s very sad and I agree that this man and his partner are really caring and loving people. I only wish that we had more people like them to care for and love the children they adopt. Best wishes to you!!

    • @catherinerothe7629
      @catherinerothe7629 5 лет назад

      Simon Catt I realize that it is true that I am not worth it.

  • @conniemcfeely4115
    @conniemcfeely4115 7 лет назад +4

    you are a very good person. God bless all of you 👏👏👏

  • @rayna599
    @rayna599 6 лет назад +2

    Thank you for the gift of your story, you family's story, and for taking action to create a positive impact in the lives of foster children.
    Much love to you!

  • @mexicanmuslim
    @mexicanmuslim 6 лет назад +3

    Thats amazing, I am planning to have a family, and because of this video I will Adopt 2 children, this video was very heart touching.

  • @artsylovelylady
    @artsylovelylady 7 лет назад +2

    Your story is beautiful. Thank you!

  • @elioabelle9388
    @elioabelle9388 5 лет назад +2

    Someones cutting onions!!! 😭

  • @wildatartcamp
    @wildatartcamp 20 дней назад

    Thank you for sharing your story. Beautiful. I’m currently making alternatives to trash bags and found your story. Inspiring. Go you guys!

  • @michelezapata-sotelo1453
    @michelezapata-sotelo1453 7 лет назад +3

    What an amazing story. Thank you for raising awareness to such a sad cause. My son recently filled 100 duffel bags for teens in foster care here in California. God bless you and your beautiful family!!

  • @lisaannmartinez555
    @lisaannmartinez555 3 года назад

    I’m a past foster child...I’m still struggling mentally to find my place I would love to meet you and hear encouragement from both...I’ve tried everything...I’m still fighting...because it’s survival that’s all I was taught but no one taught me more. I want to a advocate just like you.

  • @IHopegood
    @IHopegood 3 года назад

    This man is 10x the man I could ever be.

  • @teriscallon
    @teriscallon 7 лет назад +8

    you are all wonderful!

  • @sopraltenass13
    @sopraltenass13 7 лет назад +1

    So beautiful.

  • @marys3127
    @marys3127 6 лет назад +1

    My Stuff Bags organization does this too. Love these guys!

  • @valentinarosas5322
    @valentinarosas5322 6 лет назад

    This is one of the most beautiful things I've had the pleasure of watching. Truly humankind at its best.

  • @magdalenaeislr3057
    @magdalenaeislr3057 7 лет назад +3

    what an amazing story. i am in awe, what an inspiration.

  • @grantw9235
    @grantw9235 7 лет назад +2

    Thank you! Thank you! Thank you! Blessings to you and yours!! :-)

  • @tikitokbops4754
    @tikitokbops4754 3 года назад

    Thank you 🙏🏾

  • @susanhall3513
    @susanhall3513 7 лет назад

    I came across this video accidentally but felt so much love. Please don't let me down...keep up the love. This made me so happy to see you all find each other.

  • @kendraplayzrobloxgamer8413
    @kendraplayzrobloxgamer8413 4 года назад

    Such an inspiring story Rob and yes everyone needs to feel they’re loved and you have done just that for these kids. Your family is beautiful in every walks of life. Such inspirational message shinning through your heart. What you have with the bag program it’s amazing because that’s all you hear about when these children come into foster care with their trash bags. My husband and I are at the end of the process of becoming Licensed Foster Parents and here in Pa I want to make that change as well. Many Blessings for you and your wonderful family.

  • @jasperjasper813
    @jasperjasper813 4 года назад

    Absolutely wonderful family! I was never wanted by my foster careless parents but at least I was wanted by my wonderful natural parents (one of which unfortunately was addicted to alcohol). Trash bags are just one way of making children feel worthless. I was sent to a week long camp each year by foster parents who put my things in a trash bag. Never really thought much of it because I was so happy to get away from them for a week.

  • @Chocokaylarobin
    @Chocokaylarobin 7 лет назад

    i respect him so much.

  • @nonenone5247
    @nonenone5247 6 лет назад

    thank you...God bless you

  • @tamarathiebaux-heikalo1547
    @tamarathiebaux-heikalo1547 7 лет назад

    Beautiful.

  • @cmmndrblu
    @cmmndrblu 6 лет назад

    This really inspired me. If I have kids some day I´m gonna do the same thing.

  • @vivianmolina6302
    @vivianmolina6302 5 лет назад

    I love you all. I love is love is love

  • @theboss-vr1jj
    @theboss-vr1jj 7 лет назад +3

    perfect church goers adopt kids, kids grow up and say they had an awful childhood, .. I hope my point is made.

  • @bondiaajeasease9219
    @bondiaajeasease9219 6 лет назад

    Thank You❣️🤧😢😭😪🤧❣️

  • @onurgokturk
    @onurgokturk 7 лет назад

    you are a great dad!

  • @AG-hp1yo
    @AG-hp1yo 6 лет назад

    Beautiful!!!!!!

  • @Ladybugsong101
    @Ladybugsong101 7 лет назад

    Very inspiring!

  • @nityanandaburgess2553
    @nityanandaburgess2553 5 лет назад

    this made me cry ;0

  • @kinlol
    @kinlol 6 лет назад +2

    Gay means happy, living with gay fathers, it creates happy and loving family!!!

  • @ryanwalsh5019
    @ryanwalsh5019 7 лет назад +12

    Is it just me, or do families with gay parents seem way happier and closer than most families.

  • @jazz692
    @jazz692 6 лет назад +3

    Does this family have their own vlog channel?

  • @GreetingsFromFlorida
    @GreetingsFromFlorida 4 года назад

    3:10 crying with him

  • @greghansen870
    @greghansen870 Год назад

    i think everyone should have a choice to live in a trash bag or a real bag

  • @freya002YT
    @freya002YT 3 года назад

    ❤️

  • @brendarevella
    @brendarevella 7 лет назад

    So, tell us how we can help this project, please!

  • @michellegriffoul9287
    @michellegriffoul9287 6 лет назад +2

    how do we help you and your cause?

  • @sofiahhizami5372
    @sofiahhizami5372 6 лет назад

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @kaysmith6810
    @kaysmith6810 3 года назад

    I'm also becoming a fostor mother single and I'm a lesbian and I want to fostor to adopt kids under 5 and doing iui I'm open to all color background thankyou for adopting and showing them kids love and posting your video

  • @dyynncs9787
    @dyynncs9787 6 лет назад

    and if you wanna hear more of my story follow me on Instagram @realdevo or just comment on my RUclips

  • @maggieotsuka1266
    @maggieotsuka1266 6 лет назад +1

    I bet homeless in a way was better than that foster care. you were in

  • @paillette2010
    @paillette2010 7 лет назад

    So, what monsters negged this?

  • @dominickholbrook6586
    @dominickholbrook6586 7 лет назад +1

    I only watched this to see if I can find someone in a foster home

  • @HLABCGLP
    @HLABCGLP 6 лет назад

    Rob you are beautiful

  • @ryanwalsh5019
    @ryanwalsh5019 7 лет назад +3

    Religious people: don't kill babies!
    Also religious people: you're gay, don't reduce the amount of pain caused to unwanted children

  • @sg-vn9tv
    @sg-vn9tv 7 лет назад

    1st

  • @anssiulmala3778
    @anssiulmala3778 6 лет назад +1

    It is possible to get delivered from this failure in Jesus Christ Name. Not every man in his situation is a raper. I can see he has good heart anyway.

  • @trumpsycho28
    @trumpsycho28 7 лет назад +1

    he joined the army, but he didn't loved his country so I would like to see this guy as gay in a islamic country. Humm

  • @rockysharp5817
    @rockysharp5817 7 месяцев назад

    What was the foster parents doing with the money from the state that they couldn’t by the kids suitcase 🧳 ???