I’m so proud of you ❤🎉 those men don’t deserve you and I’m proud that you stood up to them and those haters! They don’t pay your bills or feed your children. They can hate all they want. As long as you can take care of yourself and your children. You are independent and don’t need any negativity in your life. Your parents should had been on your side but they chose not too. I’m sorry for that because some elders still believe in the old ways. My hope for you is to live your life to the fullest and listen to your heart. Best of luck!! Don’t let any haters ruin your life. You are such a great role model for us Hmong women. Thanks for sharing ❤
Hey lady professor, you did the right thing! We Hmoob ladies should always be like you. You set your own fortune and I'm loving it and you, cause you had set a hight standard for us Hmoob women and may God continue to bless you.
Wow! I’m happy you got your degree and have children. You made the right decision by divorcing your 3rd husband. You should’ve reported him to his job. He did his wife and children wrong by cheating, controlling, emotionally abusing her, and living in a polygamist life. Don’t allow these men to get away with living a life full of lies. Thank you for not allowing a Hmong man to have a 2nd and 3rd wife by being one. Don’t allow others to bully you because they don’t wear your shoes. I’m happy and proud of you! You are right, it’s all your parents’ fault by forcing you to marry early.
Sister you did the right thing for you. I would do the same like you if I was strong mind when I was young and your teacher probably support you and her daughter. I am glad you got what you deserve and good luck to you.
Tus me viv ncaus, Koj es ua cas yuav ruam ua luaj. Koj twb tuaj loj hlob nyob tebchaws mikas no es Koj tseem ruam tag npaum ko, Koj yeej paub tseeb tias nyob tebchaws mikas no tsi muaj txoj cai yuav niam yau. Tsi tag li ntawd xwb, yog Koj tsi muaj menyuam Koj kuj mus kuaj Doctor es mus tso menyuam los pob! Ua cas yuav ruam ua luaj li. Nej txhob muab liam rau txoj moo, yog tim Koj txoj kev ruam xwb! Vim Koj yuav Koj tsi ua tib zoo saib thiab Koj tsi xav kom zoo2 you do things are always in a hurry not thinking what’s right or wrong you always so hurry to get married you never learn from your mistakes.Koj tus Doctor ko tej zaum yog ib tug Doctor khib kaij nyob online xwb Koj thiaj ua neej ua rov ua rais li ko.
Your mistake was thinking that in order to have a life you needed a man, and therefore, jumped from one relationship to another without REALLY checking up on the 2 men you dated and ultimately married. What idiot just takes the word of the significant other's friend?! YOU, apparently! Should have hired yourself a private investigator, sheesh! All that being said, I do support you in staying strong and not accepting anything less than a monogamous marriage. Forget what your family and relatives say because it's YOUR life and you do what is best for you and your children! Next time, don't rush into marriage, really get to know the guy (regardless of ethnicity) well (background check) before saying yes. And if no worthy guy ever comes along, who cares, you have a great job and 2 kids to love.
I didn't hear any khav theeb from you at all in the story. Your last 2 marriage didn't work out because of the husband. Proud you stood your ground and respect yourself as a woman.
I don't understand how u could marry someone without knowing his background? Didn't u talk to his family? I find it very hard to believe. And it happened to u twice. U should have learned the 1st time. U married both men and didn't know about their past until a few yrs later. Don't u talk to their families, parents, siblings, cousins at all? Or go visit them? If u did talk to them, there's no way u didn't know the men were still married. Unless u kept your husbands wit u and never bothered to connect with their families.
You are a strong woman! There is nothing here that you did wrong. I'm glad you got your two children. They are a blessing. You live to make yourself happy and at peace. Don't do it for anyone else because you owe them nothing. This life is yours.
People who judge you are people who are selfish and inconsiderate. Just live ur life and be happy. Be careful because married men who cheats are very secretive. U need to give it time, meet their family and relatives first before getting marry. Don’t trust anyone but urself. And don’t allow a man to force u to marry him by making all these excuses. When a man does that, it’s fishy and they are hiding something about themselves. Best of luck. Be happy u have ur kids now.
Beauty and brains, but pretty dumb to get played so many times. Yet you won't even take any accountability. Fooled you once shame on them, fooled you twice shame on you! If he said he didn't have a wife but kids, you didn't even wonder to find out about his kids or baby mama. Even illiterate people can find out info on what they really want to know.
You fall in love too fast, Sis. Instead of investigating who they are and their past. You are gullible. You turned a blind eye and married them. Sure, your second and third husbands are to be blamed, but you are too because you made the choice yourself. No one put a gun to your head. Let bygones be bygones. You have your children and education now so no need for men or if you do. Just date. No marrying.
Kuv mas kuv hais li no nawb twb yog tim koj xwb os me ntxhais tos kuv hais li nav nws zoo li no koj ces lam tau lub npe zoo nkauj xwb koj lub siab tsis zoo nkauj no nawb lam yog tau lub npe Dr xwb hauv koj lub plawv daim nplooj siab ruam kawg kiag li nawb koj yeej tsis ntse kiag li koj ces tsuas yog ntse tog qwb xwb tsis btse tog hniav li nawb yeej tsis mam xaiv mam yuav tsuav yog muaj tus noov xwb na. yog li no koj lub neej thiaj yuam kev tag li nawb koj pom xeeb yog ib tug niam Dr na koj muab kuv lo lus hais tias ntse tog qwb xwb tsis ntse tog hniav no coj mus xav rau hauv ncoo siab2 xav 3 hnub seb yog li cas lawm no nawb
Twb yog doctor no es tseem ua neej yuam kev 3 zaug thiab li ko ces tsis nre kiag. Txawj2 nre2 tseem tsis paub los lus tias investigate ua ntej mam yuav. Koj nre tsis tau txaws
Peb cov niag poj hmoob ruam ces yeej pheej xav hais tias yuav tsum muaj tus txiv thiaj li yuav ciaj ib yig tab sis peb tiam tam sis no peb yeej tsis need niag txiv dev liam ntawd li lawm los peb yeej ua tau ib yig neej muaj kev thaj yeeb tshaj plaws li os .
Story sound too fake how can they not know. We as hmong people ask around n everyone knows everyone so how can they not know the guy has a wife or not lol
Don’t degrade yourself for treating yourself with value and respect. There is nothing wrong with leaving a man who is selfish with his heart. I had said this before and I will say it again please learn to fill your life with purpose once education is over with other things in the community other than finding a man/woman.
How do you not find out about their backgrounds? Smh, it's not that hard if you really want to know 🙄 You just sound really desperate and think they won't lie to you because of your looks and education 😂🙄🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️
Alright!!! I’m proud of you for being a strong woman and standing your ground! HOWEVER, I have never heard of someone brag about how beautiful they are in a story before. So, let see a picture of how beautiful you are😂
I think you just need to date outside of the hmong community...you might find somebody...also don't fall for men's b.s. of showering of flowers and love...those are b.s....
This story sound so unbelievable but if it's really true then like my mom say maybe it's your fate sis. But regardless...you have a good job, kids and can take care of yourself. That's what matters most. Even if you don't have a husband to love you, your kids will. Make sure you really do a deeper background check. Don't just believe a guy and his words esp his own friend lol
In this country everyone have to work for themselves, these hmong og's don't matter, you're living for yourself not for them. Just because you don't allow them to make decisions for you doesn't automatically mean you're a bad person, No means No. And if they can't accept that so be it.
Sister, just ignore the negative comments. You made mistakes, but you have chosen the right path for you. Only strong women can make such decisions. Most other women will use love as an excuse to stay in a polygamy relationship.
Wow! KOJ COV TXIV DEV NO PHEM TIAG2. I SUPPORT YOUR DECISION SISTER..... IB TUG DR. TSIS TSIMNYOG LOS UA NIAM 1,2,3 TSIS YOG KHAV2 THEEB.... TXHOB UA NIAM YAU OS MOG. KOJ KHWV TAU KOJ NOJ LAWM THOV QHUAS KOJ OS MOG
You should have divorced him instead given $55k. Your parents ruined your entire youth life. You have such a high degree and why you still look back to hmoob Txiv neeg. Thaum txog li kj qhov level lawm ces tsi tas ntxhias hmong Txiv neeg lawm os, niam tais aww. Sic kj daim doctor degree pab kj ua neej mas.
Yawm saub tsim peb los ua neeg nyob hauv lub ntiaj teb no, nws yeej tsim 1 leeg muaj 1 qhov zoo. Koj zoo nkauj thiab txawj ntse lawm ces koj thiaj li tsis muaj me nyuam. Tsawg2 tus thiaj li tau txhua yam xwb
Zoo kawg os sister aws yus nyob yus os tsis need tej niag txiv dev lwj siab lim hiam os kav tsij khwv nyiaj mus vacation xwb! Hmoob ces yus lub neej tsis lucky es zoo li koj ces yeej kawg raug thuam li os tabsis peb cov hluas no peb tsis thuam os! Good luck n best wishes rau koj os!
Me ntxhais koj yeej ua yog lawm tsi txhob tusib tsuav yus pab tau yus tu kheej xwb ce tsi txhob yuav cov niag txiv dag siab phem lis koj cov niag txiv ntawm lawm nws yeej ib txwm dag ce muaj ib hnub twg nws yuav mus yuav dua lwm tus lawm thiab nawb.
Nej yog ib co niag niam txiv ruam tiag tiag thiaj pw ua ib txaj los yog pw ib chav, luag twb yuav niam yau lawm ces luag yeej tsis xav nrog yus pw lawm los mas me ntxhais aw.
Tawv tsis tawv los lawv tsis nqa zaub mov rau u noj lawv twb tsis them u tej nuj nqis lawv tsis rau u txhais khaus lawv tsis u txoj kev xav mloog lawv lus u ua lub neej lwj siab ntshe u yuav tuag ua ntej tsis kk lawv yuav hais yog lawv yog u lawv ua li u thiab
Me ntxhais aw koj txawm muab nws nrauj lawm los koj yeej tau ris lub niag npe mus ua Nruas tus nia 3 tag ib sim os, yog koj tsis mus yuav lwm tus na tsuas yog koj hais tias koj nrauj nqs lawm no xwb os mog
Vim koj yeej tsis soj ntsuam txog neeg Lub neej Luag twb muaj kwv tij nev ua cas ho tsis noog nws cov Ken tij thiaj tseem naw koj Lam txawj ntawv xwb koj twb tsis ua zoo saib ne!
Jenny Vang, I want to let you know that your stories are very different nowadays. A lot of it seems to be more just about venting instead of an actual story. I understand maybe thats how it was submitted to you, but I'm just giving you some feedback, that's all. 😊
This Is Scary Knowing These Men Have Double Lives!! They Lied Is The Answer … Facts 💯 I’ve Seen A Little Bit In My Own Two Eyes 👀But Nothing Serious! But, Sometimes; We Never Know Whose Lying & Who Isn’t! Now, Get To Know Someone For 10 Yrs., Before You Get Married! If They Leave You, Better For Us! Also, Reason To Not Date Anyone Anymore or To Get Married; Periodt!!
I didn’t hear any khav theeb in this story. You just keep on falling for the wrong guys. Glad you left all those husbands. Take your time on finding love with the next one. Don’t rush into a marriage again.
It's sad that hmong women don't respect the idea of not wanting to be empowered and doesn't want to be niam yau. I am so proud of this lady. I wish she had done more research before jumping into another relationship. Maybe that would have saved her the heartache. The more important outcome is you are strong and will not accept being 2nd wife. Great job. More women need to follow this trend.
I so proud at you. you did the right thing. don't feel bad.. you hold your freedom in your hand. other women can't. may God bless you and your family. Thank you for shearing this story.
Leej twg tsis tau raug cov txiv dev no dag ces yeej tsis paub. I'm proud of you. Don't let these txiv dev fool you to be their 2nd and 3rd wife. Im glad koj tsis kam nkag cov txiv dev no lub voj hlau
Fools rush in. Like other people said here, u book smart but not life smart. Dont let other people dictate ur life & take time to really know a person b4 u jumped into marriage.
Tim koj thiab koj niam koj txiv nej tsis nug kom tau nws kwv nws tij ua ntej yuav noj pluas mov zeem neej tsa....yog nws tej phooj ywg xwb txhob ntseeg yuav tsum nug kom tau nws tu thawj coj nug qhov tseeb ua ntej sib yuav....
Some people are book smart but have no common sense. Ruam taig tiag!!!!!
I’m so proud of you ❤🎉 those men don’t deserve you and I’m proud that you stood up to them and those haters! They don’t pay your bills or feed your children. They can hate all they want. As long as you can take care of yourself and your children. You are independent and don’t need any negativity in your life. Your parents should had been on your side but they chose not too. I’m sorry for that because some elders still believe in the old ways. My hope for you is to live your life to the fullest and listen to your heart. Best of luck!! Don’t let any haters ruin your life. You are such a great role model for us Hmong women. Thanks for sharing ❤
Hey lady professor, you did the right thing! We Hmoob ladies should always be like you. You set your own fortune and I'm loving it and you, cause you had set a hight standard for us Hmoob women and may God continue to bless you.
Zoo nkauj cuag puab ntag? I dont believe you're all that, lady. The title should be "Me and my bad luck or because I'm infertile."
Wow! I’m happy you got your degree and have children. You made the right decision by divorcing your 3rd husband. You should’ve reported him to his job. He did his wife and children wrong by cheating, controlling, emotionally abusing her, and living in a polygamist life. Don’t allow these men to get away with living a life full of lies. Thank you for not allowing a Hmong man to have a 2nd and 3rd wife by being one. Don’t allow others to bully you because they don’t wear your shoes. I’m happy and proud of you! You are right, it’s all your parents’ fault by forcing you to marry early.
Sister you did the right thing for you. I would do the same like you if I was strong mind when I was young and your teacher probably support you and her daughter. I am glad you got what you deserve and good luck to you.
To the sister, you are brave and strong and I hope you will continue to. God bless you.
Tus me viv ncaus, Koj es ua cas yuav ruam ua luaj.
Koj twb tuaj loj hlob nyob tebchaws mikas no es Koj tseem ruam tag npaum ko, Koj yeej paub tseeb tias nyob tebchaws mikas no tsi muaj txoj cai yuav niam yau.
Tsi tag li ntawd xwb, yog Koj tsi muaj menyuam Koj kuj mus kuaj Doctor es mus tso menyuam los pob! Ua cas yuav ruam ua luaj li. Nej txhob muab liam rau txoj moo, yog tim Koj txoj kev ruam xwb! Vim Koj yuav Koj tsi ua tib zoo saib thiab Koj tsi xav kom zoo2 you do things are always in a hurry not thinking what’s right or wrong you always so hurry to get married you never learn from your mistakes.Koj tus Doctor ko tej zaum yog ib tug Doctor khib kaij nyob online xwb Koj thiaj ua neej ua rov ua rais li ko.
Your mistake was thinking that in order to have a life you needed a man, and therefore, jumped from one relationship to another without REALLY checking up on the 2 men you dated and ultimately married. What idiot just takes the word of the significant other's friend?! YOU, apparently! Should have hired yourself a private investigator, sheesh! All that being said, I do support you in staying strong and not accepting anything less than a monogamous marriage. Forget what your family and relatives say because it's YOUR life and you do what is best for you and your children! Next time, don't rush into marriage, really get to know the guy (regardless of ethnicity) well (background check) before saying yes. And if no worthy guy ever comes along, who cares, you have a great job and 2 kids to love.
I didn't hear any khav theeb from you at all in the story. Your last 2 marriage didn't work out because of the husband. Proud you stood your ground and respect yourself as a woman.
Tu txiv neej muaj poj niam nw txaw tu rau tu g muaj poj niam kj txawj ntawv tab si kj g nrev g paub g neej txawv
I don't understand how u could marry someone without knowing his background? Didn't u talk to his family? I find it very hard to believe. And it happened to u twice. U should have learned the 1st time. U married both men and didn't know about their past until a few yrs later. Don't u talk to their families, parents, siblings, cousins at all? Or go visit them? If u did talk to them, there's no way u didn't know the men were still married. Unless u kept your husbands wit u and never bothered to connect with their families.
The title should of have been "Tau ua Niam 1, 2, 3 vim tsis noj nceb tau cav". 😄
You are a strong woman! There is nothing here that you did wrong. I'm glad you got your two children. They are a blessing. You live to make yourself happy and at peace. Don't do it for anyone else because you owe them nothing. This life is yours.
Very proud of you. Glad you're able to live your life to the fullest. You deserve it all. Much respect to you💕
People who judge you are people who are selfish and inconsiderate. Just live ur life and be happy. Be careful because married men who cheats are very secretive. U need to give it time, meet their family and relatives first before getting marry. Don’t trust anyone but urself. And don’t allow a man to force u to marry him by making all these excuses. When a man does that, it’s fishy and they are hiding something about themselves. Best of luck. Be happy u have ur kids now.
Beauty and brains, but pretty dumb to get played so many times. Yet you won't even take any accountability. Fooled you once shame on them, fooled you twice shame on you! If he said he didn't have a wife but kids, you didn't even wonder to find out about his kids or baby mama. Even illiterate people can find out info on what they really want to know.
You fall in love too fast, Sis. Instead of investigating who they are and their past. You are gullible. You turned a blind eye and married them. Sure, your second and third husbands are to be blamed, but you are too because you made the choice yourself. No one put a gun to your head. Let bygones be bygones. You have your children and education now so no need for men or if you do. Just date. No marrying.
She's a PhD. and still makes the same old mistakes. She never investigated her partner prior to marrying them. I'm speechless 🙊
Nug koj tias koj tsis muaj qhov muag ntsia thiab pob ntseg hnov tias nus muaj poj niam lawm los tsis muaj es koj ho tham luag tej txiv. Koj tias nus mas ntxia2 koj xwb koj yeej tsis tau ntxia nus. Koj tub tsis yog neeg ruam. Txog txij muaj txoj kev sib nyiam sib hlub tau ces ob leeg yeej txau siab ib yam. Yog nus ntxia koj li koj hais xwb ces mus tsis tau. Koj tias koj tsis paub tias nus muaj poj niam es koj thiaj yuam kev. Koj dag koj xwb pob. Yog tias koj yuav tus mab tus suav mas nyaj yog li koj cov lus tab sis hmoob neej hmoob tsav txawm muaj kwv tij nyob qab roob los muaj ib tug nyob qab ha yuav paub txog nus. hmoob lub qhov ncauj tsawm nrov tshaj xo nthe. Tsis yog tias koj paub nus hnub no es tag kis koj yuav nus mas koj thiaj tias koj tsis paub txog nus zoo. Koj yeej pom luag tej txiv zoo nraug txawj ntse es koj thiaj nyiam2 ua thaj koj.
Kuv mas kuv hais li no nawb twb yog tim koj xwb os me ntxhais tos kuv hais li nav nws zoo li no koj ces lam tau lub npe zoo nkauj xwb koj lub siab tsis zoo nkauj no nawb lam yog tau lub npe Dr xwb hauv koj lub plawv daim nplooj siab ruam kawg kiag li nawb koj yeej tsis ntse kiag li koj ces tsuas yog ntse tog qwb xwb tsis btse tog hniav li nawb yeej tsis mam xaiv mam yuav tsuav yog muaj tus noov xwb na. yog li no koj lub neej thiaj yuam kev tag li nawb koj pom xeeb yog ib tug niam Dr na koj muab kuv lo lus hais tias ntse tog qwb xwb tsis ntse tog hniav no coj mus xav rau hauv ncoo siab2 xav 3 hnub seb yog li cas lawm no nawb
Twb yog doctor no es tseem ua neej yuam kev 3 zaug thiab li ko ces tsis nre kiag. Txawj2 nre2 tseem tsis paub los lus tias investigate ua ntej mam yuav. Koj nre tsis tau txaws
Agree
She still think is everyone else fault. She is booked smart only but no sense of reality, lady takes responsibility for your actions
Peb cov niag poj hmoob ruam ces yeej pheej xav hais tias yuav tsum muaj tus txiv thiaj li yuav ciaj ib yig tab sis peb tiam tam sis no peb yeej tsis need niag txiv dev liam ntawd li lawm los peb yeej ua tau ib yig neej muaj kev thaj yeeb tshaj plaws li os .
Story sound too fake how can they not know. We as hmong people ask around n everyone knows everyone so how can they not know the guy has a wife or not lol
Koj yeej txawj txaus lawm tab sis koj tsis ntse koj thiaj tau ua niam 1,2,3 tab sis. Iam ib ce s tsis sam vim raug quab yuam
Don’t degrade yourself for treating yourself with value and respect. There is nothing wrong with leaving a man who is selfish with his heart. I had said this before and I will say it again please learn to fill your life with purpose once education is over with other things in the community other than finding a man/woman.
Sister, you made the right decision to leave your 3rd husband for the reason you stated. Folks who disagreed with you are wrong!
You did the right thing, girl. Happy for u
Koj zaaj dabneeg tsi phim lub title lawm
Koj ua yog lawm os me ntxhais
How do you not find out about their backgrounds? Smh, it's not that hard if you really want to know 🙄 You just sound really desperate and think they won't lie to you because of your looks and education 😂🙄🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️
Alright!!! I’m proud of you for being a strong woman and standing your ground! HOWEVER, I have never heard of someone brag about how beautiful they are in a story before. So, let see a picture of how beautiful you are😂
I'm happy for you. Your best blessings are your kids. I'm glad you stood your ground. Strong Hmong woman! Go Girl!!!
I think you just need to date outside of the hmong community...you might find somebody...also don't fall for men's b.s. of showering of flowers and love...those are b.s....
Can’t build a relationship based on lies. You need trust! Your prince will come someday. I never trust smooth talking guys😂
This story sound so unbelievable but if it's really true then like my mom say maybe it's your fate sis. But regardless...you have a good job, kids and can take care of yourself. That's what matters most. Even if you don't have a husband to love you, your kids will. Make sure you really do a deeper background check. Don't just believe a guy and his words esp his own friend
lol
In this country everyone have to work for themselves, these hmong og's don't matter, you're living for yourself not for them. Just because you don't allow them to make decisions for you doesn't automatically mean you're a bad person, No means No. And if they can't accept that so be it.
Sister, just ignore the negative comments. You made mistakes, but you have chosen the right path for you. Only strong women can make such decisions. Most other women will use love as an excuse to stay in a polygamy relationship.
Wow! KOJ COV TXIV DEV NO PHEM TIAG2. I SUPPORT YOUR DECISION SISTER.....
IB TUG DR. TSIS TSIMNYOG LOS UA NIAM 1,2,3
TSIS YOG KHAV2 THEEB....
TXHOB UA NIAM YAU OS MOG.
KOJ KHWV TAU KOJ NOJ LAWM THOV QHUAS KOJ OS MOG
I completely agree! 💪Do what's right for you and carve your own path in life. You are a strong woman ❤.
Back in the days when Hmong just came to america. They are very strict for the girls. I’m glad that we change
You should have divorced him instead given $55k. Your parents ruined your entire youth life. You have such a high degree and why you still look back to hmoob Txiv neeg. Thaum txog li kj qhov level lawm ces tsi tas ntxhias hmong Txiv neeg lawm os, niam tais aww. Sic kj daim doctor degree pab kj ua neej mas.
Sister, ignore the negative comments on here. They didn't wear your shoes. May God continue to bless you💕
16 xyoo legal yuav txiv yuav poj niam, tsuas yog rau cov txaus siab sib yuav. If you were forced, you were still a kid, it’s not legal.
Yawm saub tsim peb los ua neeg nyob hauv lub ntiaj teb no, nws yeej tsim 1 leeg muaj 1 qhov zoo. Koj zoo nkauj thiab txawj ntse lawm ces koj thiaj li tsis muaj me nyuam. Tsawg2 tus thiaj li tau txhua yam xwb
You are too selfish,however, one day, you will regret a little bit because of the decision you made.
You at least have standards for not staying with those men who disrespect you like that. Better to be alone than be with liars.
Zoo kawg os sister aws yus nyob yus os tsis need tej niag txiv dev lwj siab lim hiam os kav tsij khwv nyiaj mus vacation xwb! Hmoob ces yus lub neej tsis lucky es zoo li koj ces yeej kawg raug thuam li os tabsis peb cov hluas no peb tsis thuam os! Good luck n best wishes rau koj os!
You should divorce him in the first place.
Sure he is a professor…, professor of womanizers…, cas yuav pab koj tusiab rau koj lubneej os tus vicncaus…
Me ntxhais koj yeej ua yog lawm tsi txhob tusib tsuav yus pab tau yus tu kheej xwb ce tsi txhob yuav cov niag txiv dag siab phem lis koj cov niag txiv ntawm lawm nws yeej ib txwm dag ce muaj ib hnub twg nws yuav mus yuav dua lwm tus lawm thiab nawb.
Kuv tsis nkag siab tias twb nyob rooj teb no lawm txiv neej tseem dag tau tias tsis muaj niam loj, thaum tuaj yuav koj yuav tsum paub nws niam nws txiv tus coj noj coj ua tuaj lav thiaj sib yuav tau, kuv tsis nkag siab txoj neeg lub neej no, mloog mas zoo li nej ua yooj2 yim thiaj raug dag
Txhobvtu siab os mog, muab liam rau txoj hmoo xwb os sister aw...yus tau degree li koj lawm txawm nyob yus xwb los lub neej yeej kho os mog
A professor have been lied to twice that's ridiculous.
Nej yog ib co niag niam txiv ruam tiag tiag thiaj pw ua ib txaj los yog pw ib chav, luag twb yuav niam yau lawm ces luag yeej tsis xav nrog yus pw lawm los mas me ntxhais aw.
your problem is you never checked their backgrounds. not very smart for a doctor
How come I never come across these kind of victims that I can take advantage of?
You just got mixed with the wrong men. Never be 2nd or 3rd wife.
You should have do enough research on the men you fell for before rushing into marriages
Tawv tsis tawv los lawv tsis nqa zaub mov rau u noj lawv twb tsis them u tej nuj nqis lawv tsis rau u txhais khaus lawv tsis u txoj kev xav mloog lawv lus u ua lub neej lwj siab ntshe u yuav tuag ua ntej tsis kk lawv yuav hais yog lawv yog u lawv ua li u thiab
Me ntxhais aw koj txawm muab nws nrauj lawm los koj yeej tau ris lub niag npe mus ua Nruas tus nia 3 tag ib sim os, yog koj tsis mus yuav lwm tus na tsuas yog koj hais tias koj nrauj nqs lawm no xwb os mog
Vim koj yeej tsis soj ntsuam txog neeg Lub neej Luag twb muaj kwv tij nev ua cas ho tsis noog nws cov Ken tij thiaj tseem naw koj Lam txawj ntawv xwb koj twb tsis ua zoo saib ne!
Txawm yuav nrauj tsawg tus los yeej yuav nrauj vim tsis xav ua leej twg niam yau vim tsis xav txeeb leej twg li xav kom muaj u thiab xwb
Nws tsis yog Tim koj nawb mog, txhob tu siab os, Tim koj Niam thiab koj txiv lawv lawm os !!
Don’t lower your standards for anyone else! Be strong! We we need more women like you
คนเราเกิดมามีบุญมีบาปติดตัวมา มีอย่างต้องเสียอย่าง ไม่ได้เพอเฟคทุกอย่าง
You're not a doctor but your a professor is that right?
Jenny Vang, I want to let you know that your stories are very different nowadays. A lot of it seems to be more just about venting instead of an actual story. I understand maybe thats how it was submitted to you, but I'm just giving you some feedback, that's all. 😊
Lol I'm glad I'm not the only one that notice.
These new stories are mostly rant and vent from women and becoming Christian.
Lol
This Is Scary Knowing These Men Have Double Lives!! They Lied Is The Answer … Facts 💯
I’ve Seen A Little Bit In My Own Two Eyes 👀But Nothing Serious! But, Sometimes; We Never Know Whose Lying & Who Isn’t! Now, Get To Know Someone For 10 Yrs., Before You Get Married! If They Leave You, Better For Us!
Also, Reason To Not Date Anyone Anymore or To Get Married; Periodt!!
You did the right way sister.
Master ratchet degree them dudes
How does someone so smart and educated get fooled so easily? Think about that!
She wasn't street smart
WOW I'm so proud of you
Ok ❤❤❤❤❤❤
Way to go sis.
Do what make you happy
I didn’t hear any khav theeb in this story. You just keep on falling for the wrong guys. Glad you left all those husbands. Take your time on finding love with the next one. Don’t rush into a marriage again.
It's sad that hmong women don't respect the idea of not wanting to be empowered and doesn't want to be niam yau. I am so proud of this lady. I wish she had done more research before jumping into another relationship. Maybe that would have saved her the heartache. The more important outcome is you are strong and will not accept being 2nd wife. Great job. More women need to follow this trend.
I so proud at you. you did the right thing. don't feel bad.. you hold your freedom in your hand. other women can't. may God bless you and your family. Thank you for shearing this story.
Leej twg tsis tau raug cov txiv dev no dag ces yeej tsis paub. I'm proud of you. Don't let these txiv dev fool you to be their 2nd and 3rd wife. Im glad koj tsis kam nkag cov txiv dev no lub voj hlau
Dr g tiav jev hlub
Fools rush in. Like other people said here, u book smart but not life smart. Dont let other people dictate ur life & take time to really know a person b4 u jumped into marriage.
Tus mes vivncaus awb you did the right thing by divorcing your husbands. Don’t ever settle for being 2nd.
Tim koj thiab koj niam koj txiv nej tsis nug kom tau nws kwv nws tij ua ntej yuav noj pluas mov zeem neej tsa....yog nws tej phooj ywg xwb txhob ntseeg yuav tsum nug kom tau nws tu thawj coj nug qhov tseeb ua ntej sib yuav....
I’m proud of you! You have education and money! You don’t really need no man, period.
Koj cov neej neeg zoo mloog kawg tab sis xyoov koj kaw li cas es tsis nrov li twb tso roj kawg nkaus los tsis nhov li.
Sister you are a strong woman. Go to God with your kids
Koj cov txiv ko, ntse2 dag2 thov ntuj muab cab mus ua ntuj qhev.
I don’t blame you. I would do the same.
It's cuz she noj mushroom tsis taug cav
Sister you do the right thing
Bravo to you sister!
คุณฉลาดด้านการเรียนไม่ฉลาดการหาคู่.แทนที่จะไปเที่ยวบ้านเขาไปทำความรู้จักพี่น้องคนรอบข้างฝ่ายชายมากกว้านี้