THE BEATING I GOT FROM MY MOM CHANGED MY ENTIRE LIFE- ANNITA RAEY

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  • Опубликовано: 25 янв 2025

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  • @bancywairimu9841
    @bancywairimu9841 15 дней назад +4

    Finally... kikuyu slaps differently. Great conversation this one. Thanks, Jeff for hosting this beautiful lady I have taken my lessons.

  • @agnesgathoni801
    @agnesgathoni801 15 дней назад +5

    Waoh..this is wonderfu. I hope parents of this generation can listen to this...Thats why we have children who fear no one.
    I salute this lady. she's a wonderful mother....The waybi brought up my three girls, in eastlands single handedly but with high displine....

  • @hannahndungu6772
    @hannahndungu6772 13 дней назад +1

    Anita you are such an inspiration to listen to. Am an alumni but left years earlier.. rudi plse kwa group. She’s very talented and brave too. Thanks jeff for sharing her beautiful story

    • @annitahraey
      @annitahraey 13 дней назад

      Aaaww Maa asante... Please DM me let's catch up ♥️♥️

  • @janengari2345
    @janengari2345 15 дней назад +10

    Jeff, not all parents get tired. But children just decide to do what they want

  • @gathigiamugo2151
    @gathigiamugo2151 15 дней назад +3

    I wish every parent can listen to this. Great conversation Jeff

  • @lizbenson7671
    @lizbenson7671 14 дней назад +5

    Finally she is hia again ❤
    From obina show live

  • @katewabwile9053
    @katewabwile9053 15 дней назад +5

    Anita?
    I rarely comment, but I can clearly tell that this is a very good person, she is extremely honest. If you're her friend? Keep her. Keep her. This is a good good woman.
    Jeff thankyou for bringing this lady.
    God bless her. Please try and listen to Rev Solomon on RUclips.
    But you look very very good. And beautiful

    • @annitahraey
      @annitahraey 15 дней назад

      Aaaww thanks so so much ❤️❤️

    • @bancywairimu9841
      @bancywairimu9841 15 дней назад +1

      I am among the lucky ones.. she is dear I love her to bits.

    • @annitahraey
      @annitahraey 14 дней назад

      ​​@bancywairimu9841 aaaww bebe I looove you ♥️♥️

    • @JEFFKURIA
      @JEFFKURIA  13 дней назад +1

      Glad you enjoyed and resonated with this conversation

    • @katewabwile9053
      @katewabwile9053 11 дней назад

      @@JEFFKURIA Asante sana mkuu
      Try and possibly invite one Stanley Gichobi on your show?

  • @estherkibui2371
    @estherkibui2371 13 дней назад +3

    Let's parents and teachers be best friends with kids❤❤

  • @shirujonesofficial7179
    @shirujonesofficial7179 12 дней назад +2

    I had the same experience the beating and rejection I got from my mom made me hate home so much,I got inspired alot❤❤❤

    • @JEFFKURIA
      @JEFFKURIA  11 дней назад

      great

    • @annitahraey
      @annitahraey 11 дней назад

      Am sorry I pray it's better now, you should read the book

  • @wanguikariukiries4580
    @wanguikariukiries4580 15 дней назад +14

    This is a great conversation. In Kenya, we hand hold our kids too much. We take them to the best schools, kids don’t do any duties at home because they have maids, then we expect them to move to international universities and cope in foreign countries alone. After the first semester, they drop out of school because they can’t juggle the many balls in the air. They also realize that the money they came with from Kenya is not enough and the only jobs they can find are manual jobs. If they attend local universities and graduate. we “help” them get jobs because we don’t want them to tarmac. Then they stay at home with parents and drive the parent’s cars. How do we expect them to become responsible citizens when we have never shown them to be responsible. Citizens? We need to teach our kids to cope and survive in the world not become enablers.

    • @annitahraey
      @annitahraey 15 дней назад

      Well put 💯💯

    • @florencegachukia5641
      @florencegachukia5641 15 дней назад +2

      Well said, we must teach kids survival tactics and to stand on their own. Otherwise we are raising up a batch of lazy bones.

    • @annitahraey
      @annitahraey 15 дней назад

      @florencegachukia5641 💯💯💯

    • @JEFFKURIA
      @JEFFKURIA  13 дней назад +1

      Well thought well put well said

    • @charitywanjohi884
      @charitywanjohi884 13 дней назад +1

      You have said it well.
      We parents have given our kids FISH instead of NETS.

  • @estherwanjikukiarie6714
    @estherwanjikukiarie6714 15 дней назад +2

    Good show....very educative

    • @JEFFKURIA
      @JEFFKURIA  13 дней назад

      Glad you enjoyed it

  • @annm5013
    @annm5013 15 дней назад +3

    Anita...you are doing a great job...my neighbour pale ngarariga

    • @annitahraey
      @annitahraey 15 дней назад +1

      Asante

    • @KimaniMchege
      @KimaniMchege 15 дней назад +1

      Haiya kwao ni Ngarariga!? Ya Limuru ama!? Juu hapo ndio nyumbani kabisa!

    • @annitahraey
      @annitahraey 15 дней назад +1

      @@KimaniMchege yes Kwa Rufus, nyumbani naitwa Hannah Wa Soja

    • @JEFFKURIA
      @JEFFKURIA  13 дней назад

      Nice one

  • @wairari
    @wairari 15 дней назад +2

    Wah! Very inspiring story. You are also a good storyteller 😅.
    ..you have said the truth

    • @annitahraey
      @annitahraey 15 дней назад

      Thanks

    • @mainam2085
      @mainam2085 15 дней назад +1

      Have never thought this lady being a Kikuyu,leave alone such a great parent​@@annitahraey-Kudos

    • @annitahraey
      @annitahraey 15 дней назад

      @mainam2085 well not a great parent no kugeria

    • @JEFFKURIA
      @JEFFKURIA  13 дней назад

      Thank you so much 😀

    • @monicsjael1928
      @monicsjael1928 9 дней назад

      ​@@annitahraeyno kugeria mani😅

  • @monicahnjoroge2805
    @monicahnjoroge2805 12 дней назад +1

    I need this book

    • @annitahraey
      @annitahraey 12 дней назад +1

      I shared my contact hapo, iko almost mwisho 😇

  • @florencegachukia5641
    @florencegachukia5641 15 дней назад +2

    Children learn alot through observation on what parents are doing and they imitate the parents.

    • @JEFFKURIA
      @JEFFKURIA  13 дней назад

      Yeah sure💯💯💯✅

  • @EstherKibunja-p5z
    @EstherKibunja-p5z 14 дней назад +2

    Good approach but also remember to give the young ones hope and more modern ways of attempting to solving the modern problems... assume u r in that age group. Don't imagine we should all be like u n ur kids

    • @annitahraey
      @annitahraey 14 дней назад

      People are different and all I pray is parents find a module that works for them and their kids. I honestly don't expect anyone to be like me and my kids I speak from mistakes not from knowledge

  • @RoshiOnline
    @RoshiOnline 15 дней назад +2

    How we love this lady

  • @NjugunaLucy
    @NjugunaLucy 15 дней назад +2

    I agree with annitta 💯 we are raising this generation in the wrong way.We do nothing even when they become rude towards us.Got a long way to go let's step out of the comfort zone and work towards a great future

    • @annitahraey
      @annitahraey 15 дней назад

      Yezzzuuurr and you should order the book

  • @njoguwanjeri
    @njoguwanjeri 15 дней назад +3

    I love 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉 the show

  • @monicahnjoroge2805
    @monicahnjoroge2805 14 дней назад +4

    Am not a darling to many because this is what I practice, mtoto ni mtoto mzazi ni mzazi

  • @nyokabiinspired
    @nyokabiinspired 15 дней назад +2

    Spare the child you spoil the child. Discipline is must teach the children the right they will never grow out of it.

  • @Chai-mob-fm
    @Chai-mob-fm 13 дней назад +1

    Ngai kids do go through a lot in their head!

    • @annitahraey
      @annitahraey 13 дней назад

      That's why it's important to talk to them

  • @MathuNjoroge-k6p
    @MathuNjoroge-k6p 15 дней назад +3

    I like Ann, she doesn't cheapen herself because of materialism. Such people are few in the worldwide, particularly in Kenya. God bless you. Sincerely , Your love for God is in another level.

  • @WanjiruMuya
    @WanjiruMuya 15 дней назад +2

    Nindakena muno ni ndereti ya ûmûthi na nikurehe Annita❤️ona ngachokeria ngai ngatho ni kumuhonia...
    Wueh nie kuhura mwana cha😂mbaara iria ndanakandwo ni Muya😆🤭kuhuura mwana tikuo kuga niagûchoka laini

    • @annitahraey
      @annitahraey 15 дней назад +1

      You better find a way to discipline them

    • @WanjiruMuya
      @WanjiruMuya 15 дней назад +1

      @annitahraey Wueh nie ndingirekereria mwana atuike nyamakûhia no tikumuhura kîurago

    • @annitahraey
      @annitahraey 14 дней назад

      ​@@WanjiruMuyathat works kapsa

  • @shiksjustin
    @shiksjustin 15 дней назад +2

    Hii nayo iko sawa❤❤❤ Anita welkam back

  • @gracewambui6524
    @gracewambui6524 15 дней назад +3

    Jeff kuria is doing his best.Anita mahee uhoro fiuu😅

  • @janengari2345
    @janengari2345 15 дней назад +1

    Jeff, you are selling Zurich spring but in which part of kenya it's locate??

  • @LadyS-02
    @LadyS-02 15 дней назад +2

    Millenials we had seen death 😂😂😂😂 aki life ya Anita nikama yangu wueeeh am 35 too and I still fear my mum😂😂kwake huezi ingia past 7pm unless umetoka job but she is the best grandma to my kids

    • @bettygal8695
      @bettygal8695 15 дней назад +1

      😂nko 40+ na wueh when am home kila saa lazma unaulizwa umechelewa wapi...ata nkiwa in my house siwezi enda out..ovyo ovyo the discipline tulipata 😅

    • @JEFFKURIA
      @JEFFKURIA  13 дней назад

      Ndakwira I don’t what happens when it comes to grand children

  • @Wanguicathy
    @Wanguicathy 15 дней назад +2

    Love love anita ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @njeriwagathurigathuri6621
    @njeriwagathurigathuri6621 13 дней назад +2

    Ngai yani Annita anakuanga Mkikuyu 🙆

  • @annm5013
    @annm5013 15 дней назад +3

    Tr. Virginia and Mr. Kìnyanjui walienda wapi??

    • @annitahraey
      @annitahraey 15 дней назад

      No idea honestly but Josephine bado yuko

  • @gikuyumediakenya1837
    @gikuyumediakenya1837 15 дней назад +2

    Jeff Hongera no interruptions ... 😅 2025 nikuskiza Guest

  • @njugunacarolyne9079
    @njugunacarolyne9079 13 дней назад +2

    Huyu ni sister yangu kabisa.I train my kids the hard way

  • @EstherKimondo-y2w
    @EstherKimondo-y2w 15 дней назад +4

    Habari Zenu

  • @margaretmwaura4544
    @margaretmwaura4544 15 дней назад +2

    Honor is key......

  • @EstherNgaruiya-e7w
    @EstherNgaruiya-e7w 15 дней назад +3

    Say hi to annita my neighbor here in ngarariga limuru

  • @shikoshiko3670
    @shikoshiko3670 15 дней назад +3

    Hannah to the world am proud of you ❤❤❤

  • @evatynjuguna4220
    @evatynjuguna4220 14 дней назад +2

    Anita na Kush Tracy wakishikana wanaeza fanya kazi poa ya mentorship especially highschool s

  • @gracewambui2796
    @gracewambui2796 15 дней назад +2

    Watching

  • @Chai-mob-fm
    @Chai-mob-fm 13 дней назад +1

    Wait! She got married at 17yrs stayed 5yrs!!!
    At work at 23yrs…
    When did she go back
    College and get educated???
    AMA
    Am I missing something??

    • @annitahraey
      @annitahraey 13 дней назад +1

      Never went to college, I did a course after the last year of my marriage

    • @Chai-mob-fm
      @Chai-mob-fm 13 дней назад +1

      @@annitahraey ooh okay that makes sense

  • @lydianjuguna5567
    @lydianjuguna5567 12 дней назад +1

    Hii imeguza wengi coz I know one analalanga saa nane ya usiku na dungimwira undu 😅 but I pity the parents

  • @peninahmaina-p3m
    @peninahmaina-p3m 15 дней назад +4

    Huyu dame I think part kubwa ya story yako ni mimi

    • @annitahraey
      @annitahraey 14 дней назад

      Aaahh I am glad you relate
      . Sending you love and light ❤❤❤

    • @JEFFKURIA
      @JEFFKURIA  13 дней назад

      Tell us

  • @wambuihannah3594
    @wambuihannah3594 15 дней назад +2

    @9:43 am me cleaning my hammam all pipo sleeping 🛌 na mm na pasua huku ka chizi 😂😂😂😂aty mwana anyua fagi aruta nguo ahoya 😂😂😂😂😂arafu amwita 🐕 mahoyani 😂😂😂😂 sasa sitaki mm😂😂😂 aty anikoo kuna mtu alikushow yeye hufuta zinamushow nn😂😂😂😂

  • @MercyMacharia-d5o
    @MercyMacharia-d5o 15 дней назад +2

    Aki tulkua tunaskiza Anita Rey na mamangu nkiwa highschool..Ile segment flani walkua na mzae flani sth mamati(skumbuki jina vizuri)

  • @rastamankennedy2269
    @rastamankennedy2269 15 дней назад +2

    Characters must be understood...talks matters...mambo ya tubaba na tumum inahalibu.....discipline lazima

  • @susanmaritim2753
    @susanmaritim2753 15 дней назад +2

    My brother alikua na hiyo mentality ya kusema hataki shule but baba alimkanyanga sahi alishika line na tulikua tukiona kweli atolewe kumbe umesema ukweli hapo be care ur child

  • @gracewambui2796
    @gracewambui2796 15 дней назад +2

    Hey

  • @agnesnjuguna2428
    @agnesnjuguna2428 7 дней назад +1

    Anonge kama Grace D.

  • @janewangari6109
    @janewangari6109 12 дней назад +1

    Wakwa nindamucejirie ni principal uguruki na she was resist na niathomire wega

  • @estherwamaitha161
    @estherwamaitha161 15 дней назад +3

    The result of one sided discipline, if father is not against my behaviors then its not bad, but my mother hates me.

  • @charitywanjohi884
    @charitywanjohi884 13 дней назад +1

    I love her sincerity on parenting. Very true Anita n No sugar-coating. Kama naweza pewa degree, it is never missing (any) of my kid’s meeting. My kids have to open school on the first day whether wanasoma or not.(I have made them understand or put in their mind, that the first day of school is very important). Anyway Anita is REAL. Parents Fully busy; “ Replaced the irreplaceable(kids), with the Replaceable(jobs)

  • @janengari2345
    @janengari2345 15 дней назад +1

    And if you follow them they say they are not children to be controlled. Children and parents its ways traffic. Respect advice of your parent.

  • @sarahngugi2779
    @sarahngugi2779 15 дней назад +2

    Nikio njugaga ona business igethira ndigeiga ya pub kana nginde imwana njuere onakoruo ndi mu Salon coz ndina imwana 🤔

    • @mwituamweene9850
      @mwituamweene9850 14 дней назад +1

      😂 😂 They are a licensed biz.

    • @sarahngugi2779
      @sarahngugi2779 14 дней назад

      @mwituamweene9850 I know but for me i can't choose it

  • @Chai-mob-fm
    @Chai-mob-fm 13 дней назад +1

    All those drugs in one body caused the stroke

  • @janaleokesho8374
    @janaleokesho8374 15 дней назад +1

    Ignorance by children nowadays huge.They know the wrongs and right thing to do but they ignore .

  • @Ann-tt7mx
    @Ann-tt7mx 11 дней назад

    Strict parents nurture the biggest liars. Also parents are asked by the same Bible not to antagonize the children. Ata hiyo sio option. Nimeona wazazi hutesa watoi, esp. stepchildren. Hao watoto wakafungua roho man.

    • @annitahraey
      @annitahraey 10 дней назад +1

      Not really

    • @Ann-tt7mx
      @Ann-tt7mx 9 дней назад

      @@annitahraey They actually do. I saw a discussion on TikTok and people were confessing how their strict parents made them learn how to lie to protect themselves. Although there were embellishments in some of the confessions, but zingine ziliniwacha kinywa wazi

  • @nyokabiinspired
    @nyokabiinspired 15 дней назад +2

    Mami amuga mwaki😂😂😂 ndigigeria

  • @janewangari6109
    @janewangari6109 12 дней назад

    Arimu amue marehagira ciana stress kuma kwao

  • @bensonnjomo7947
    @bensonnjomo7947 15 дней назад +2

    Tuned

  • @nyokabiinspired
    @nyokabiinspired 15 дней назад +1

    No, is a compete sentence.

  • @janebrytonmuhia7643
    @janebrytonmuhia7643 15 дней назад +1

    but kwani akiolewa na kakijana they never had sex

    • @george1528
      @george1528 15 дней назад

      Hapo ata mi nimejiuliza the weed seller dude😊

    • @mwituamweene9850
      @mwituamweene9850 14 дней назад

      If she is 14 and sleeping on the streets, she needs the protection of a man ,means sex. She takes us for fools,

  • @JJ-fw7cy
    @JJ-fw7cy 14 дней назад +2

    I like the show and most of the things you saying are true. However , when it comes to types of food eg some beans 🫘 contais acid. I personally do not eat those types. I went to school in the eightees. We respected teachers and parents and elderly people. But this generation is rotten.

    • @mwituamweene9850
      @mwituamweene9850 14 дней назад

      There are personal food intolerances....beans should be in lower ration mix with carbs

    • @JEFFKURIA
      @JEFFKURIA  13 дней назад

      Thanks

  • @hannahndungu6772
    @hannahndungu6772 13 дней назад +1

    Anita you are such an inspiration to listen to. Am an alumni but left years earlier.. rudi plse kwa group. She’s very talented and brave too. Thanks jeff for sharing her beautiful story