Living Up To Male & Female Expectations in Singapore?! | The Hop Pod Ep.51

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  • Опубликовано: 9 июл 2024
  • Gender stereotypes are deeply entrenched in our society - rooted in the fundamentals of childhood learning and values. While we acknowledge the increasing awareness on gender equality, further can be improved in today’s generation. We discuss the age old topic & how we can go about navigating it.
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    00:00 Teaser
    01:41 Topic of the day
    01:50 Common gender stereotypes
    04:05 Fauzi's masculine environment growing up
    06:04 Genders attached to processes & products (Pink tax?!)
    07:10 Discussing male privillege in this generation
    10:57 The fine line between upbringing, societal expectations & gender stereotype
    13:22 How our childhood reflected these stereotypes
    14:26 The Question Pod!
    18:26 Why do these stereotypes exist?
    20:53 Men & the expectations to pay
    26:01 Wrap up
    26:59 Outro
    27:40 Bloopers
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Комментарии • 31

  • @YouGotWatch
    @YouGotWatch  6 дней назад

    What other gender stereotypes have y'all experienced growing up? We want to read your stories!

  • @BadriKid
    @BadriKid 6 дней назад +29

    i really love how well spoken fauzi is, i really wish he has his own podcast where he doesn't have to be so hyper

  • @SabBliss
    @SabBliss 6 дней назад +13

    16:03 Joie’s “but hujan later cold” is so cute. 😂

  • @MrHnd1988
    @MrHnd1988 6 дней назад +23

    How to Make Grandma Dies a Million Times (Nicholas, 2024) i died 😂 3:50

    • @JuzNicky
      @JuzNicky 6 дней назад +1

      its a Yeamster thing to be said.

  • @user-lh2cp2kq1f
    @user-lh2cp2kq1f 6 дней назад +26

    we needd moree vids with aida and fauzii !!!

    • @YouGotWatch
      @YouGotWatch  6 дней назад +2

      Catch them over at Code Raid! 🚨

  • @amelial3396
    @amelial3396 6 дней назад +33

    ah released just in time for dinner

    • @YouGotWatch
      @YouGotWatch  6 дней назад +4

      We're accompanying you for dinner? So cute! 🥹

    • @JuzNicky
      @JuzNicky 6 дней назад +1

      @@YouGotWatch Tau Geh white chop chicken with a side dish of curry.

    • @itzy4541
      @itzy4541 5 дней назад +1

      Released just in time to destress from the shittiest day of the whole month

  • @sleepy_dobe
    @sleepy_dobe 6 дней назад +3

    I walk with an umbrella under the sun. Because I don't want to have to apply sunblock constantly. Exposure to direct hot sunlight also triggers my migraine, so I use the umbrella and also periodically wet my head, face and neck. And if I use sunblock, then every time I wet my face, I'll need to re-apply it. Troublesome, time-consuming, and not to mention expensive. So the umbrella is just a better solution. Also blocks out UV rays. Perfect.

  • @domkzq
    @domkzq 5 дней назад +4

    The men vs women sleeping around point is kinda invalid. The reason one is "celebrated" while the other shamed on is because it's much harder for men to be able to sleep around. It requires a man to have looks/money/status/game (sometimes a combination of two or more) to be able to pull it off even if he has no standards. Whereas if a woman is willing to spread her legs, she is definitely getting laid. Disclaimer: my stance on hookup culture is that I am against it for both men and women, but I can't deny the fact that it's easier for women to sleep around

  • @RON-xp7wr
    @RON-xp7wr 42 минуты назад

    this episode was amazing!! get other profiles to share about gender stereotypes as well

  • @mysticwanderlust
    @mysticwanderlust 5 дней назад +1

    Loved this episode so much! love how it was more of a conversation between the hosts and guests rather than an interview, the flow was great and aida & fauzi are such eloquent speakers!! would love to see them on this show more, orrr we could have a code raid podcast 😉 think the chaotic energy would be great hehe

  • @nerd26373
    @nerd26373 6 дней назад +1

    We appreciate your insights. Keep making an impact on the community.

  • @sleepy_dobe
    @sleepy_dobe 6 дней назад +3

    I think there are more men nowadays who are ok with being house-husbands. The problem will come when the wife, by virtue of her higher income and the man now being a house-husband, wants to lord it over the husband.

  • @curry98
    @curry98 6 дней назад +1

    HAHAHA! I know what's Aida referring to when she mentioned the spoiler alert 🤭

  • @jbrkjferkjbekjb
    @jbrkjferkjbekjb 3 дня назад

    i was always the "gentle", "sensitive" guy in school (more into literature, etc, though I also love sports), and btw straight as an arrow, but I received incessant namecalling from the girls in my UG CCA who would label me as a "gay" and "loser" because I was not "man" enough. It was so common to be scolded by the girls like "can you man up" just because you didnt "take charge" or raise your voice even if it didn't affect the outcome of the task but was just how I carried myself (while it was perfectly acceptable for those girls to do the same thing). Interestingly though it was the conventionally unattractive girls who would project their bitterness on me, girls i've had 'situationships' with never gave me that problem. That was an immature phase but having entered the workforce, I still get the sense that guys are subtly expected to "take charge" and be "dominant", even if some of us prefer to be gentle / soft-spoken who're more chill and prefer to take things slower. Some female (or even male) colleagues/bosses legitimately look at less dominant guys as "less of a man" and it can hurt personal relationships and professional opportunities.

  • @miriam.abraham
    @miriam.abraham 6 дней назад +3

    omg tsl reunion

  • @Serperi0r
    @Serperi0r 6 дней назад +1

    There's an episode with Siyu and Isaac?

    • @YouGotWatch
      @YouGotWatch  6 дней назад

      Yes! Ep 21 on differences between Millennial & Gen Z dating, watch it here! 🎧ruclips.net/video/m38s_zWSRQI/видео.htmlsi=zIwtuaRmb6sBBJXT

  • @superswaggerfly
    @superswaggerfly 5 дней назад

    Talk is cheap. When you’re the breadwinner then what’s your expectation of your partner who’s the househusband/housewife? Taking care of the kids is never easy on top of household. Stereotype is the norm when there’s expectations and often it goes beyond gender.

  • @sleepy_dobe
    @sleepy_dobe 6 дней назад

    20:27 Not just disgusting, it's also extremely inconsiderate. Nobody around her can use that grab pole to steady themselves anymore.

  • @Syahzukihayatbusa
    @Syahzukihayatbusa День назад

    Ahhhhh..no wonder most guys in Aida's life ghosted her.

    • @christinepek
      @christinepek 10 часов назад

      you not paiseh use your face say this kind of thing ah LOL embarrassing

  • @kimt7831
    @kimt7831 2 дня назад

    aida is such a pick-me

  • @Amphibians45
    @Amphibians45 5 дней назад

    So he is a female🙂