Another pro tip for “ugly” girls like myself: YOU DO NOT NEED TO HAVE A TINY NOSE, CLEAR FACE AND SKIN, OR PERFECT BODY TO BE BEAUTIFUL! I have always been called ugly by classmates and my family ever since I was young. But lemme TELL YOU that no matter what you look like, having confidence automatically bumps you up from average to goddess-tier. Trust me 😌
"The most beautiful woman, may not be the most confident, but the most confident is the most beautiful." Truly, love yourself, and you WILL attract even thou youre not trying for that !
Aww thank you for this. I literally forget this bc of how everyone considers being beautiful to have certain facial / body features so I bash myself for it ):
I’m 31, lost my job due to the lockdown, just realized I’m going through depression. Thank you so much Amber for this video! I definitely needed it. I don’t know where my life is going but thank you for your message and sharing your light 🤗
I am 30, also lost my job and have been struggling with anxiety and depression. If you wish to talk, just to vent o share, we can talk. My instagram is @d4wnh0lm3s
Sometimes I feel like people love the "cool girl" and bash on femenin woman. Amber makes me embrace my diva side and inspire me to be the glittery queen I want to be
“would you ever talk to another person the way you talk to yourself” the volume on the sentence is astronomical, I say to my self in the mirror things that I wouldn’t even say to my enemies and I’ve never realize it before. be right back imma go cry and then tell that voice in my head to shut the hell up LOVE U AMBER!! ❤️❤️
Duck Duck Dead Go to the mirror and repeat: I am beautiful. I am smart. I am successful. I am loved. I love me. Etc yeah at first it seems cringey but after a while it makes you happy and confident
Me after watching this video: “new mentality, who dis?” Edit: Thank you for all the videos you make Amber, you have inspired me to start making RUclips videos. 💕
i love how amber went from being a baddie who does diy's to a baddie who actually changes peoples lives and does diy's. so much love and respect for u queen ❤️❤️
Something that always boosted my confidence was this one particular quote. “The biggest rebellion to the patriarchy is to love yourself and to love your fellow women.” I have no idea who created that quote, maybe I did but it’s one of my favorite quotes on the planet. Love yourself girlies💕
Thank you for this Amber. I have been struggling with confidence, self-love, negative thoughts, etc. since secondary school and I'm too shy to go out of my shell but I'm tired of it. I just did not know how to break out from it. You made me realise that I was too hard on myself. I promise you that I will change and I am gonna be that "Queen" that I always deserve to be. Thank you so much Amber !!! Love you xoxox
I have decided I will leave my parents home next week. I am 25, I am financially secure, but my parents are toxic and are the main cause of my anxiety/depression/burnout. Thanks to you Amber, I feel strong enough to let go of my past and pursue my dreams. thank you so much. I want to commit to this decision. That's why I'm writing this comment. I hope I will have the strength to make it happen. wish me luck
Hey! I am proud of you. I am a teenager but I'm going through similar things you went through in the past. Thanks for posting this here. Wish you all the luck and it's been 10 months.... So I hope you're doing well 😇🖤✨
The fake friends that I used to surround myself with made me feel bad for being a diva and doing what I love... Now they're not in my life anymore and I'm working to be the best version of myself 💖 Thanks Amber for always being my fairy godmother and inspiring me every single day 💖✨👑
Oh amber. You help me a lot. You have no idea. I just had my son. I’m thicker than I used to be. 90 pounds to 135. My belly is left so big. And I was so shy and I hated even dressing up. Which I begin to feel even more worst. Once I started take care of my self again I felt so much better. Like the queen I am !!
I cannot stress this enough that YOU have made me boost up my self confidence, made me believe that I am the baddest b, and that I can do anything over the past year🙌🏽 I love ya so much Amber and keep doing you!😔✊🏽💜💜
Amber, since the start, you have become the older sister I never had. Love you and the energy you have always brought into my life along with everyone else who watches your videos. Sending love from the UK xx
I have three role models in life and its my mum, Audrey Hepburn and you. your amazing and my self love and worth has gone up since watching your videos even when I didn't realise it.
Amber, you have no idea how much i needed this and how much it helped me, i am a thirteen year old girl with low self esteem and no confidence, i think the worst of myself physically and mentally, i compare myself to other pretty girls in my class and think why i can't be as as skinny or pretty as them, i think i'm too fat or too annoying at times, i cry myself to sleep some nights because of the wild over thought feelings and thoughts in my mind, but this video helped me realise that it's fine too have these flaws, even if i don't love them now i can learn to love them, i don't have to cry myself to sleep because of anxiety or depression, i don't have to let that take over, i can learn to be kind to myself, and love myself before i give that all away to someone else. thank you so much, you saved me. love, me
I'm trying to say this as nicely as possible, but if you keep feeding yourself these kinds of thoughts you'll never improve. That board is only going to keep you stuck in the cycle of hate. Get rid of it, make a new one with a more positive view. Instead of focusing so much on what you don't like focus on what you do.
Somtimes i got the feeling that i LOVE myself, i'm in love with myself, i'm the most important person to me,but sometimes i'm feeling like trash because of what people say, and i just can't wake up and ignore what they say, i'm working on myself so hard to ignore they. I don't like myself,but i'm trying, i'm not weak and i can change me, and i WILL.
i want to start wearing extensions and wigs but i’m scared of what people will say in public 😭 edit: thank you everyone for your nice comments it really boosted my self confidence 🥺❤️
She’s the real babe that makes me feel like a babe and reminds me that I am one! you really have helped me get through all of the bad days, love ya girl!
You are the one who helped me be more confident, your videos itself even dazzling but inspiring, I gained confidence through you, your energy, your spirit, your soul, your existence on earth itself, the way you cherish life, you appreciate and welcome everything genuinely. Girl confidence itself is proud of you, confidence gains confidence because of you, not only because you are confident but because of where you came and where you are today, I've watched all your videos even the one you spoke about confidence with your friend, the way you improve through the years, wiser, calmer, happier, your steps leave sparkles, and I am proud to be part of this era. Thank you, dear, sincerely amazing,
This is the ultimate video on how to be confident. Also, this video made me realize that I personally always uplift my friends and never focus on the negative things about them, I care about them so much and try to help them as much as possible but I have never helped myself or viewed myself in that way. I need to start caring for myself just as much as other people.
You are such an amazing role model!! As a teenage girl it’s always nice to have a women in her life who you can look up too, I’m very luck because I have a wonderful mom but it’s also nice to have other females who give their share of advice in this crazy world. Every time I click on one of your videos I instantly smile, you give off such an amazing and positive vibe that you can literally describe as a big hug and I absolutely love that, thank you for everything you do Amber, ( hugs!!❤️❤️)
Amber, you are amazingly great. I always feel inspired every time I watched your videos. You are intelligent, confident and has a great sense of humour. Thank you for always making me smile.
I've always been the shy girl who stood in the background or wanted to at least its kinda hard when your mother is the counceler at your school. you and so many other creators helped me embrace the weirdness in me and learn that if people don't like me they can look away. thankyou you have no idea what an impact you've made on my life.
What a coincidence 😅 I saw your "How to be single- video" two days ago and wanted to dm you if you could make a video about confidence...it kinda feels like we were connected somehow 😅 Thank you so much Amber! You're a beautiful ray of sunshine when my days are cloudy! 😘❤️
Hi amber! thank you for teaching us how to love and appreciate ourselves. Thank you for making us realized that self romance is the highest form of romance that we need to feel for us to be just like you; a person who doesnt need someone to be happy. WE LOVE YOU!!! ✨❤
this video has helped me out so so so so much. i’ve been really insecure about myself but this video has given me a whole new perspective. thank you ❤️
I hope you’ll read this: you literally opened my mind and changed my self perspective! I’m starting to treat myself and it’s only thanks to your videos! I’ve never thought of buying myself a great jewel or a “present” in general...I’ve always thought that I wasn’t worth it (kinda sad, I know..). All my money used to go on gift for others and food/things of low quality. But after months of watching your videos, last week I thought “why not??” so I finally bought myself a gold necklace that I wanted for yrs! And it felt sssooo good! I was like “wow..so...I can treat myself...I can make myself happy...all by myself!” And I started thinking: what else am I worth it? A higher education? A better job? A healthier body? And my attitude changed a little bit and so did some small habits.. I’m losing weight, I’m studying more to finally graduate... I’ve been working on myself for years and I’ll keep doing it, in order to become a better person and find a balance and some peace with myself...and I feel that your videos are an important part of the process. You literally showed me a new world! Thank you!
I look up to you so so so much . You've helped me so so much . I wouldn't be where I am with myself right now without you. I wish I had a friend like you , your energy is so fabulous ! My dream is to meet you !! I suffered with an eating disorder in my middle schools years and now I'm officially a senior and I feel on top of the world . I've become more confident , empowered , inspired, and motivated to become the best version of myself ; and you make me want to inspire girls too and help them become the best version of themselves as well. Thank you thank you thank you ! You're so beautiful inside and out
Omg I thought this was gonna be clickbait but these things REALLY WORK. I personally have anxiety and that sometimes brings myself esteem lower than normal. But these tips ( especially thinking positive) help alot with not only being in the moment, but my whole life. All these tips can become life style changes that do really help with confidence in yourself and your abilities!
Everyone: Be confident, be brave, be godly, dont be shy, be smart, shine, dont let anyone bring you down, Express yourself, be outgoing, Be.You. *puts on a skirt* *wears crop top* *puts make up* *puts high heels on* *wears jewelry* *S.H.I.N.E.S* Everyone: What are you wearing? Ew. You should be ashamed. Maybe you should lower your self esteem. THAT'S not godly. Would God like you seeing you in that? Do you want attention? Take that off. You're aslut. *takes everything off* Why are you sad? Why are you always in your room? You should be out going. Stop wearing hoodies all the time. Stop being lock up. *endsup killing herself from parents family and etc*
I honestly feel that so much, but honestly just look at Amber! She is the most confident queen that there is because she literally doesn't care what people say or think about her! She literally wears shape wear and lingerie to the store!😂 honestly just ignore everything that people say. If you feel like a queen, then you are a queen!💕
I dont want to be Godly. Essentially her message is to train your mind to not let negativity in. Don’t let peoples opinions weigh overyour happiness. Be free spiritedenjoy your self it doesn’t mean be naked or be “slutty” or anything... do not conform to society expectations be your own person.
The whole point is not listening to other people, so try not to? I know it’s kinda hard to do, because once someone says something nasty it sticks to your brain like freaking superglue, but you just kinda have to accept that that’s you and you are flawed and that’s not a bad thing. Own those things that people say to you/about you, and tell them something along the lines of “I hear you. But if you don’t like who I am, ignore me cause no way am I EVER gonna change for anyone, especially not YOU.”
I promise, as soon as you are on your own feet, earning your own money, havin your own place... your rules! You will be the true you, a whole new person. You just have to survive puberty and dependance. Wish my now-me could thell this to my past-me.
Amber I hope you are getting enough sleep and do not get stressed since I think in one shot I saw your eyes a bit red. I hope you do not get upset and continue to shine and inspire the others like always. People love you. You are an icon!
I actually use ,fake it till you make it' for almost a year now and it helped me to gain the confidence and talk more to people. I just realized i learnt that from you! Thank you for teaching us all of that we appreciate it
One of the biggest things that helped me, is just stop telling yourself negative things. In your head. Out loud. Just stop. And eventually start finding things you like about yourself and tell yourself those things instead. It works wonders. I love how amber said if you wouldn't say it to someone else dont say it to yourself
Hey amber!! Let me just say I really look up to you. Especially nowadays it’s so easy to compare yourself to others and you are so true to yourself and I can see that by looking at you. You never let a thing bring you down and I swear to god your positivity radiates onto others!! Keep doing you keep smiling and never let anything bring you down ❤️
So i literally just found your channel and all i can think is why couldn't i have either a friend like you growing up or hell id take a fraction of your confidence. Thank you for being so infectiously perky and empowering, completely unabashed to be who you are no matter what. :) p.s the community on your channel is also super sweet in the comments section i don't think i ever found anything like this before anywhere.
you are truly helping me to finally accept my body. you're giving me so much confidence and you're helping me feeling beautiful. I love you so much Amber, thank you for being such an inspiration! xo❤
You’re more than a bigger sister, you’re like a fairy godmother. With the best shoes. Amen.
She wears that angel wings everytime she gives us life lessons🤣🤣
fairy god amber ♥
@@mariadepaz479 exactly.. I love her
She wears angel wings all the time, sometimes we just can’t see them. 💖
@@idkwhodisis5207 this is the best thing I've ever read I'm crying🥺🥺
💖💖💖
Another pro tip for “ugly” girls like myself: YOU DO NOT NEED TO HAVE A TINY NOSE, CLEAR FACE AND SKIN, OR PERFECT BODY TO BE BEAUTIFUL! I have always been called ugly by classmates and my family ever since I was young. But lemme TELL YOU that no matter what you look like, having confidence automatically bumps you up from average to goddess-tier. Trust me 😌
Stay blessed 🙏
thank you
"The most beautiful woman, may not be the most confident, but the most confident is the most beautiful." Truly, love yourself, and you WILL attract even thou youre not trying for that !
Aww thank you for this. I literally forget this bc of how everyone considers being beautiful to have certain facial / body features so I bash myself for it ):
Only people who are truly ugly inside call other people ugly, that's so gross that they'd say that to you. Your advice is spot on though.
“Put on a little black dress that makes you feel like you can date the entirety of one direction... yes all of them” I LOVE AMBER!!!!
THAT'S WHAT I NEED THANKS QUEEN.
Same
We all need it sometimes
Yes
RT
okay but like are we not gonna talk about how your pfp is harry styles?
I’m 31, lost my job due to the lockdown, just realized I’m going through depression. Thank you so much Amber for this video! I definitely needed it. I don’t know where my life is going but thank you for your message and sharing your light 🤗
I hope your life gets better, actually amazing!!
U r rly rly pretty, just needed to tell u that
Monika Stracenski I agree with u!! She really is
Hang in there, Sandy! Better days are coming❤
I am 30, also lost my job and have been struggling with anxiety and depression. If you wish to talk, just to vent o share, we can talk. My instagram is @d4wnh0lm3s
Sometimes I feel like people love the "cool girl" and bash on femenin woman. Amber makes me embrace my diva side and inspire me to be the glittery queen I want to be
that's the best comment I've ever read. Damn, that hit
I am both tbh. Sometimes I am in the mood to be this or that
@@romcom5 I'm a gemini haha same
@@ninas5544 yo I am a gemini too! Haha hi 5 girl
True even though i was always fine with being a tomboy i always felt i have to hide my femininty and people always shame "the other girl"
3:46 as a Muslim seeing that made me so happy and literally gave me a wake up call 😭💜
So Did I 💙💙💙🥺
Hi naima الحمد لله على نعمة الإسلام ❤❤
Yep
I just had such a bad day and now I feel so much better
She always does huh.. ☺️☺️☺️❤️
me 2
No matter what keep pushing! It might seem hard now but things always get better
Kailee Ortiz thanks 🙏
Thanks for all the likes
When you were talking about telling the voice inside yourself that is negative to be quiet and said “Melanie zip it” I felt that for real 😂😭
SAME
“would you ever talk to another person the way you talk to yourself” the volume on the sentence is astronomical, I say to my self in the mirror things that I wouldn’t even say to my enemies and I’ve never realize it before. be right back imma go cry and then tell that voice in my head to shut the hell up LOVE U AMBER!! ❤️❤️
Off topic but I love ur pfp
Duck Duck Dead Go to the mirror and repeat: I am beautiful. I am smart. I am successful. I am loved. I love me. Etc yeah at first it seems cringey but after a while it makes you happy and confident
GK GK does it really?
@@kathyhostetter9426 Yep!! Your subconscious will start believing it and eventually you'll see yourself as the beauty you really are!!
Duck Duck Dead i was the 1k likeeeee!
I’m gonna be asking myself what would Amber Scholl do? Because she’s who I aspire to be in life,
same!!!
Honestly same-
Same literally ❤️
"Would you ever talk to another person the way you talk to yourself?"
I feel attacked.
so true-
Read The Untethered Soul!!!!!
"I decided I was a queen. And I was."
That quote just changed my life!
-thanks.💟
I need this I’m definitely not confident
Same! I'm so glad she makes videos like this!
same
samee :))
J. D honestly same I’m so glad !
Sameee
Imagine being so confident that you can make other people feel confident too. Amazing ❤️
Me acting out my confident role model
My mom: wtf
Me: *smirks* how YOU doin
Triggered ;_; lmao best comment
Oh my gosh 🤣💗 love that
WHY DID I PICTURE THIS IN MY HEAD ZKSKDKSIDKSSHSGSJFHEJ XISJDSHFUUSJS
😂😂😂
🤣
One time I saw a quote thet changed my life ,,you were not build to please everybody" now I'm ten times more confident even when I'm not trying.
Me after watching this video: “new mentality, who dis?”
Edit: Thank you for all the videos you make Amber, you have inspired me to start making RUclips videos. 💕
When you type 'dis' I'm here wondering if you are Jamaican 😂. Because in patois dis is this✌️
victoriyuh hey is this from the song “gotta new vibe, who dis?” I love that song!
Same!
Artsy Island Girl haha no I’m not
GK GK no but I’m def gonna check out that song
i love how amber went from being a baddie who does diy's to a baddie who actually changes peoples lives and does diy's. so much love and respect for u queen ❤️❤️
Even Ambers ‘shy side’ at the start of the video is still more confident then me ...
Omg yeah I’m too shy to even talk to my family
amber: doesn't know i exist
me: yeah, we're best friends
Something that always boosted my confidence was this one particular quote.
“The biggest rebellion to the patriarchy is to love yourself and to love your fellow women.”
I have no idea who created that quote, maybe I did but it’s one of my favorite quotes on the planet. Love yourself girlies💕
preachhhh!
Thank you for this Amber. I have been struggling with confidence, self-love, negative thoughts, etc. since secondary school and I'm too shy to go out of my shell but I'm tired of it. I just did not know how to break out from it. You made me realise that I was too hard on myself. I promise you that I will change and I am gonna be that "Queen" that I always deserve to be. Thank you so much Amber !!! Love you xoxox
Amber is like the big sis we never had growing up 🥺
I have decided I will leave my parents home next week. I am 25, I am financially secure, but my parents are toxic and are the main cause of my anxiety/depression/burnout. Thanks to you Amber, I feel strong enough to let go of my past and pursue my dreams. thank you so much. I want to commit to this decision. That's why I'm writing this comment. I hope I will have the strength to make it happen. wish me luck
Hey! I am proud of you. I am a teenager but I'm going through similar things you went through in the past. Thanks for posting this here. Wish you all the luck and it's been 10 months.... So I hope you're doing well 😇🖤✨
“would you talkto other people the way you talk to yourself ?”
😳 🤯💖
Hell no looool
Nah
Yes
Depending on the person
Like if I hate them
Actually no
I wouldn’t
I am indecisive
probably
I think we all can agree that amber is the true influencer that the society needs cz her videos reflects the sincerity she has for her viewers
3:45 "it is a sin to think you are inferior to anyone" needed to hear that🥺
Islam is perfect 💜
The fake friends that I used to surround myself with made me feel bad for being a diva and doing what I love... Now they're not in my life anymore and I'm working to be the best version of myself 💖 Thanks Amber for always being my fairy godmother and inspiring me every single day 💖✨👑
I love how she wears those wings when giving advice like a fairy godmother
I miss you so much Amber. Haven’t watched your videos for 2 months and here I am watching every single one ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
I literally just started crying about my appearance this past 10 mins and this notif came up. thanks ❤️
tori elle ur perfect in ur own way
Ney Ney• 13 years ago Tysm haha❤️
tori elle are you ok
YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL.💜💜
if you wanna talk about it, I'm here!! :D
Oh amber. You help me a lot. You have no idea. I just had my son. I’m thicker than I used to be. 90 pounds to 135. My belly is left so big. And I was so shy and I hated even dressing up. Which I begin to feel even more worst. Once I started take care of my self again I felt so much better. Like the queen I am !!
The like the angel of confidence and she is always truthful with us that why I watch her. All love lilly. Edit: wow thanks a lot of likes thank you!
"it is a sin in Islam to think you are inferior to anyone"
Made my day. ❤
Amber: " What would carrie bradshaw do?"
Me:"What would Amber do?"
My brain: "Buy shoes!"
Edit:OMG this is the most likes ive ever had
I cannot stress this enough that YOU have made me boost up my self confidence, made me believe that I am the baddest b, and that I can do anything over the past year🙌🏽 I love ya so much Amber and keep doing you!😔✊🏽💜💜
I refuse to believe you're not a cartoon character 😂❤
Hi army
@@Dani-vm9lk hellooo 💜🤗
I'm ur 100th liker
@@cchannel6604 yaaaay thank you 🤗🥰
Amber, since the start, you have become the older sister I never had. Love you and the energy you have always brought into my life along with everyone else who watches your videos. Sending love from the UK xx
"Do you feel like you're afraid of, well, everything?"
Lmao. Yes.
P.S. I love your wings
I have three role models in life and its my mum, Audrey Hepburn and you. your amazing and my self love and worth has gone up since watching your videos even when I didn't realise it.
George licking Amber's hand was the most cutest thing EVERRR 😂
Amber, you have no idea how much i needed this and how much it helped me, i am a thirteen year old girl with low self esteem and no confidence, i think the worst of myself physically and mentally, i compare myself to other pretty girls in my class and think why i can't be as as skinny or pretty as them, i think i'm too fat or too annoying at times, i cry myself to sleep some nights because of the wild over thought feelings and thoughts in my mind, but this video helped me realise that it's fine too have these flaws, even if i don't love them now i can learn to love them, i don't have to cry myself to sleep because of anxiety or depression, i don't have to let that take over, i can learn to be kind to myself, and love myself before i give that all away to someone else.
thank you so much, you saved me.
love, me
I was literally just adding to my "i hate myself" Pinterest board when this popped up-
Girl you need to destroy that board immediately! That’s gonna kill you’re self confidence. You need to look at yourself how OTHERS look at UOU.
Hon, you don’t need that negativity! I totally agree with the other reply!
DELETE THAT!!! Marie Kondo it out of your life and your wifi!!
I'm trying to say this as nicely as possible, but if you keep feeding yourself these kinds of thoughts you'll never improve. That board is only going to keep you stuck in the cycle of hate. Get rid of it, make a new one with a more positive view. Instead of focusing so much on what you don't like focus on what you do.
Self love ❤️
Somtimes i got the feeling that i LOVE myself, i'm in love with myself, i'm the most important person to me,but sometimes i'm feeling like trash because of what people say, and i just can't wake up and ignore what they say, i'm working on myself so hard to ignore they. I don't like myself,but i'm trying, i'm not weak and i can change me, and i WILL.
i want to start wearing extensions and wigs but i’m scared of what people will say in public 😭
edit: thank you everyone for your nice comments it really boosted my self confidence 🥺❤️
lolita la russo just do what you want to do, be confident in your own kind of love. ❤️
Do what makes you feel good!
Have the mentality ‘will I ever see these people again. Probably not’
Do itttt you'll look great :)
Girl who cares about what they think? If they hating that means they have problems with THEMSELVES. Not you.
She’s the real babe that makes me feel like a babe and reminds me that I am one! you really have helped me get through all of the bad days, love ya girl!
You are the one who helped me be more confident, your videos itself even dazzling but inspiring, I gained confidence through you, your energy, your spirit, your soul, your existence on earth itself, the way you cherish life, you appreciate and welcome everything genuinely.
Girl confidence itself is proud of you, confidence gains confidence because of you, not only because you are confident but because of where you came and where you are today, I've watched all your videos even the one you spoke about confidence with your friend, the way you improve through the years, wiser, calmer, happier, your steps leave sparkles, and I am proud to be part of this era. Thank you, dear,
sincerely amazing,
Now this is a speech, you can tell you love her,♥♥♥♥
She s fabulous, and you are great as well, just show yourself a little more😍😍😍😍
@@joneselove4901 speech of love for a dear friend, role model
that s a role model, what would Amber Scholl say?
beautiful,, so beautiful😍😍😍
Amber mentioning one direction *never* gets old
“Self romance is the highest form of romance” 🤩
This is the ultimate video on how to be confident. Also, this video made me realize that I personally always uplift my friends and never focus on the negative things about them, I care about them so much and try to help them as much as possible but I have never helped myself or viewed myself in that way. I need to start caring for myself just as much as other people.
I was shook when I saw the quote related to my religion. Thank you for including us Amber 💕
amber: decide on role models. Then start to act like them.
me: what would Amber Scholl do in this situation?
You are such an amazing role model!! As a teenage girl it’s always nice to have a women in her life who you can look up too, I’m very luck because I have a wonderful mom but it’s also nice to have other females who give their share of advice in this crazy world. Every time I click on one of your videos I instantly smile, you give off such an amazing and positive vibe that you can literally describe as a big hug and I absolutely love that, thank you for everything you do Amber, ( hugs!!❤️❤️)
Even for a women of 37 years old like me it's wonderful to have a women like Amber in our life. ❤️ We are all beautiful!
Amber just makes me feel so much better. She’s like my online fairy godmother. I love her so much
Amber be our queen fairy godmother during this quarantine 😭❤️❤️❤️
Amber, you are amazingly great. I always feel inspired every time I watched your videos. You are intelligent, confident and has a great sense of humour. Thank you for always making me smile.
Love you Amber ❤️ I appreciate how great you make everyone feel including myself of course!
This is the best video about confidence hands down thanks Amber, love you ❤️
Why is every comment “ Don’t lie who’s been a fan of amber since June , July etc” lmao bruh
bots
ikr wtf 😂😂
They are bots
I have been a fan since 2018-2018 beat that
Sophia Subway same lol
I'm inspired , who else ? . Thankyou AMBER ! 😍 We love you ! ❤️❤️
You should consider doing a “How to STAY POSITIVE” video 💖💕💖💕 you always have such a bright spirit.
I've always been the shy girl who stood in the background or wanted to at least its kinda hard when your mother is the counceler at your school. you and so many other creators helped me embrace the weirdness in me and learn that if people don't like me they can look away. thankyou you have no idea what an impact you've made on my life.
What a coincidence 😅
I saw your "How to be single- video" two days ago and wanted to dm you if you could make a video about confidence...it kinda feels like we were connected somehow 😅
Thank you so much Amber! You're a beautiful ray of sunshine when my days are cloudy! 😘❤️
Hi amber! thank you for teaching us how to love and appreciate ourselves. Thank you for making us realized that self romance is the highest form of romance that we need to feel for us to be just like you; a person who doesnt need someone to be happy. WE LOVE YOU!!! ✨❤
this video has helped me out so so so so much. i’ve been really insecure about myself but this video has given me a whole new perspective. thank you ❤️
I hope you’ll read this:
you literally opened my mind and changed my self perspective! I’m starting to treat myself and it’s only thanks to your videos!
I’ve never thought of buying myself a great jewel or a “present” in general...I’ve always thought that I wasn’t worth it (kinda sad, I know..). All my money used to go on gift for others and food/things of low quality.
But after months of watching your videos, last week I thought “why not??” so I finally bought myself a gold necklace that I wanted for yrs! And it felt sssooo good! I was like “wow..so...I can treat myself...I can make myself happy...all by myself!”
And I started thinking: what else am I worth it? A higher education? A better job? A healthier body? And my attitude changed a little bit and so did some small habits..
I’m losing weight, I’m studying more to finally graduate...
I’ve been working on myself for years and I’ll keep doing it, in order to become a better person and find a balance and some peace with myself...and I feel that your videos are an important part of the process. You literally showed me a new world! Thank you!
The video I've needed my whole life
We both did
Amber I really need you in my life as an angel for positive vibes thanks always😘😘
“What would Carrie Bradshaw do?!” LOL 😂 Yes please! Thanks for keeping our spirits high during this time Amber! 💖
I look up to you so so so much . You've helped me so so much . I wouldn't be where I am with myself right now without you. I wish I had a friend like you , your energy is so fabulous ! My dream is to meet you !! I suffered with an eating disorder in my middle schools years and now I'm officially a senior and I feel on top of the world . I've become more confident , empowered , inspired, and motivated to become the best version of myself ; and you make me want to inspire girls too and help them become the best version of themselves as well. Thank you thank you thank you ! You're so beautiful inside and out
This video came literally perfect timing 🥺
Omg I thought this was gonna be clickbait but these things REALLY WORK. I personally have anxiety and that sometimes brings myself esteem lower than normal. But these tips ( especially thinking positive) help alot with not only being in the moment, but my whole life. All these tips can become life style changes that do really help with confidence in yourself and your abilities!
Everyone: Be confident, be brave, be godly, dont be shy, be smart, shine, dont let anyone bring you down, Express yourself, be outgoing, Be.You. *puts on a skirt* *wears crop top* *puts make up* *puts high heels on* *wears jewelry* *S.H.I.N.E.S* Everyone: What are you wearing? Ew. You should be ashamed. Maybe you should lower your self esteem. THAT'S not godly. Would God like you seeing you in that? Do you want attention? Take that off. You're aslut. *takes everything off* Why are you sad? Why are you always in your room? You should be out going. Stop wearing hoodies all the time. Stop being lock up. *endsup killing herself from parents family and etc*
I honestly feel that so much, but honestly just look at Amber! She is the most confident queen that there is because she literally doesn't care what people say or think about her! She literally wears shape wear and lingerie to the store!😂 honestly just ignore everything that people say. If you feel like a queen, then you are a queen!💕
that hit hard i never goes out of my room
I dont want to be Godly. Essentially her message is to train your mind to not let negativity in. Don’t let peoples opinions weigh overyour happiness. Be free spiritedenjoy your self it doesn’t mean be naked or be “slutty” or anything... do not conform to society expectations be your own person.
The whole point is not listening to other people, so try not to? I know it’s kinda hard to do, because once someone says something nasty it sticks to your brain like freaking superglue, but you just kinda have to accept that that’s you and you are flawed and that’s not a bad thing. Own those things that people say to you/about you, and tell them something along the lines of “I hear you. But if you don’t like who I am, ignore me cause no way am I EVER gonna change for anyone, especially not YOU.”
I promise, as soon as you are on your own feet, earning your own money, havin your own place... your rules! You will be the true you, a whole new person. You just have to survive puberty and dependance. Wish my now-me could thell this to my past-me.
Amber I hope you are getting enough sleep and do not get stressed since I think in one shot I saw your eyes a bit red. I hope you do not get upset and continue to shine and inspire the others like always. People love you. You are an icon!
As soon as I saw the angel wings, I was hooked 🙌🏼🤣😍
I actually use ,fake it till you make it' for almost a year now and it helped me to gain the confidence and talk more to people. I just realized i learnt that from you! Thank you for teaching us all of that we appreciate it
When it said "anncy twinkle's viewers are also watching this" I realized that we all have some really good taste. 💕
i just realized who my confidence role model is....... ITS AMBER girl never stop being you.
I literally love amber shes that one person in my life who just makes me smile 🥰
One of the biggest things that helped me, is just stop telling yourself negative things. In your head. Out loud. Just stop. And eventually start finding things you like about yourself and tell yourself those things instead. It works wonders. I love how amber said if you wouldn't say it to someone else dont say it to yourself
"find a role model"
believe it or not, everytime I search for new clothes, I think "would Amber wear this?"
Hey amber!! Let me just say I really look up to you. Especially nowadays it’s so easy to compare yourself to others and you are so true to yourself and I can see that by looking at you. You never let a thing bring you down and I swear to god your positivity radiates onto others!! Keep doing you keep smiling and never let anything bring you down ❤️
You’re literally the most confident queen I’ve ever seen❤️❤️
So i literally just found your channel and all i can think is why couldn't i have either a friend like you growing up or hell id take a fraction of your confidence. Thank you for being so infectiously perky and empowering, completely unabashed to be who you are no matter what. :) p.s the community on your channel is also super sweet in the comments section i don't think i ever found anything like this before anywhere.
amber: would you ever talk to another person the way you talk to yourself?
wow, that one really got me!
Ever since i started watching amber back in 2017 i slowly gained confidence in myself ever since then.
The way amber talks about her shoes is how I talk about my clothes
Me being an introvert and a person who overthinks a lot. This really helps. Like a LOT. You're an angel.😍
"If the voice in your head is mean, be mean right back and tell her to shut the hell up" I will girl, I will
You’re literally an angel and your positivity radiates! Every time I watch your videos it makes me feel so much better! Thank you for being you 💞
Who else is feeling like a queen after this video? 👑
Amber is the only one who can slay every sponsorship videos! Such a Queen 👑
I really needed this after a breakdown 😅 does anyone else feel like their self esteem has dropped throughout lockdown? 🖤
At this point I dont think I have a self esteem anymore🤦♀️
@@sierran.8132 I used to be so confident but now I just keep having breakdowns because I never feel good enough for anything. 🖤
Yes I've been feeling unmotivated to do anything I'm supposed to be stretching and working out 😔
After all these years on RUclips,she never fails to make entertaining and informative videos
I ended my phone call with my boyfriend as soon as I received the notificationnn ❤
Yaaasssss 💃
Amber is my emotional support I love her so much🥺💖
I liked the saying of the Islamic studies prof, wow!
you are truly helping me to finally accept my body. you're giving me so much confidence and you're helping me feeling beautiful.
I love you so much Amber, thank you for being such an inspiration! xo❤