The way the guy kept telling him no and the cree poid kept pushinggg but he stood firm. A woman would be har med. The guy he was talking to needs to be behind bars.
lmao i woulda said my name ashley too and u booked with me 😂😂 and then he says sweet lil thang like shes a fellow inmate. and then he wont take no for an answer, id honestly would be more afraid of her walking to her car by herself at night... that's how stalkers are
This actually happened in Vancouver, Canada. A man calling himself Jessica Yaniv sued the owners of a spa because the women that worked there wouldn’t wax his ⚽⚽
Yes! I heard about him. He was caught targeting Asian spas, and sued around 16 of them for not waxing him even though some couldn't due to their religion, lack of experience and feeling uncomfortable. It's so sad how women-run spas are targeted in this way and how there's always some women ready to defend this form of harassment.
Some do that crap specifically to prey on the unwilling and staunch feminists in other regards would get all poisonous towards uncomfortable women instead, make it make sense. "They're helping against stereotypes" by messing up criminal and medical records? More like working against pattern recognition and tripling down on "clothes, hairstyles and interests are gendered." Wow so grateful.
if places have to wax them they could have guards and or train all employees in tasers and such and now there is buddy system one waxer one guard or two or the ability to hit a pocket button that alarms the entire studio and there is only one reason that alarm would go off and its war time.
@@destroyraiden OR, we could just make it illegal for a man to sexually harass a woman into waxing his privates EVEN IF said man “claims” to “identify” as a woman.
I don’t care for massages so I’ve never been in this environment but there was this guy who was on a podcast- he was on the Netflix show “beef”. He is the ex con on the first episode and on a podcast he talks about forcing oral on a massage therapist in a joking manner. It was so disgusting and you could tell that this woman was not a human being to him. He jokes and devalues her and makes light of his actions. It was so disturbing. All I could think was, this is why I deeply hated this character. His role was too well “acted” and he felt instinctively like a person that deserves the worst life has to offer. I didn’t watch after the fist episode. I don’t support ppl or shows that hire ppl like this.
So not related to waxing, but I had a similar experience. I mostly do house sitting, and I had a new client try and ask for sex work from me. I do house sitting, dog training, and cleaning, NOT sex work. No offense to sex workers, but that is not a service I offer. Oh, also the man that asked for this? He purposely asked BEFORE he paid me for the house sitting job I had just completed 😠
tell them you record all conversations for ethical transactions and any time you get on the phone with clients you set it up before hand its in your contract they consent to tapping and if legal action is required the tapes are usable or something like that its getting their consent to be recorded so you cover the US states that require the person to know not sure about the rest of the world on this but that way every last call even if its a hi just checking in on fido you got them and when you hang up the phone keep the recorder on tell the date, time, whom was it you were speaking to and relation to the owners of the house. If you want to cover friends and family of the owners you can write in there two all conversations about the home, pets, or land when they are the owners, friends of the owners or other aquantencies of the owners will be recorded for ethical assurances and may be used in legal issues this way they can't get theri friends to call and harrass you under the guise of checking on xyz if you have a call hit record and if its a friend get names and relationship to the owner and if they refuse to provide that you can't tell them nothing about nothing. or you could do a policy of you do not speak to anyone but the owners about the property, pets, ect care yet you still record someone tried to ask questions and you said bye.
Why are men so damned GROSS. I agree with another commenter - the skit took too long. The answer should be a flat, "She doesn't provide that service. I would be happy to help you, but if that is not acceptable, then I'm afraid you will have to go elsewhere." THE END.
So I worked as an LMT prior to the pandemic. I put my license on hold and ended up working at the front desk at a hotel but, while I might get my license back into active status, you’re presenting a lot of valid reasons to at least not return to this line of work for at least the next four years.
Oh nooo, I hope that you pursue whatever you love to do. 💜 These "clients" are a very real possibility, but you can lay down boundaries and/or hire people who specialize in male treatments if you chose to provide those services.
I knew it was a skit because I had seen other videos from him that looked like a skit. Right before he did the follow-up, I said to myself, "This may be a skit, but I am a thousand percent sure that this happened to someone somewhere in real life." And sure enough, seconds later, he confirmed it. If anyone can go to the salon a request a certain person because they are good at what they do, then why would a pervert take advantage of a situation? These ppl doing skits need to have a disclaimer. You could still go viral if you do it right. I'm not mad at him, just adding constructive feedback.
I go for a massage every month for my back and I have a wonderful masseuse. She told me that she never takes on male clients because of bad experiences with men. And as a woman I would never go to a male masseur because of the same reason. Both the massagetherapist as well as the client are in a very vulnerable place so I can understand why women in that occupation refuse to have male clients. To bad for the good men out there, but there are too many rotten apples.
That was your TRAINING video, dude? You train your employees to laugh and giggle and have to tell the client 7 times that it's not happening? Very, very, odd. You don't even need to tell someone that she's uncomfortable and put her in that position against the client. You just tell them she's not available for the service. End of story. SMH at the unprofessionalism.
I agree. The giggling was not appropriate given that it was a skit. He needs to teach his staff to be firm and be ready to call police if needed. Being friendly with creeps only encourages them 😪
Unfortunately, a lot of people react that way. People can laugh because they are uncomfortable. I have done that many times. But after laughing and giving one the opportunity to redeem themselves and they don't, the. I switch up but him laughing that way is pretty common
Wheb i am uncomfortable with men i am extremely meek and uncomfortable, i talk more quiet because its like i am trying to not agitate a wild bore. People assume it's because you wanted it but no. Everyone have a different reaction
1 getting all notifications 2 you would not believe the garbage service workers go through. I ran a lingerie dept in a store. Let me tell you. We weren't expensive, we sold women's underwear in packages ffs still creep would creep in.
@@ScarlettAlexandraS Except it is actually happening. A man in Vancouver, Canada who goes by the name of Jessica Yaniv, sued the owners of a spa because the women refused to wax his balls.
It isn’t actually okay to say no. In Vancouver Canada, a man going by the name of Jessica Yaniv sued the owners of a spa because the women who worked there wouldn’t wax his ⚽⚽
That's so terrible that that guy went through that. Glad to see that he's using that experience to protect others! Also, that woman has a *CAMERA* in her suite?! What about the half naked women that her husband has access to watch being waxed?
OMG i just googled what is brazilian waxing for men or women and literally got uncensored pictures of hairs vz waxed genitals. Gotta love this country T_T
I'm stunned by how much tolerance and respect this guy shows predators!!! No wonder they are encouraged to prey!!! Men work really heard at making themselves contemptible and hated!
Okay, but the girl who talked about the model who had an accident... I feel like he genuinely had an accident. Are we not going to allow men to be human? Everything in her story seems to check out, and he didn't seem predatory, but genuinely remorseful. He even paid when he didn't have to. Maybe he booked with her cuz he thought she was cute - as if women have never done that - but then didn't anticipate his body's response, or wasn't prepared that he couldn't handle that. Happens to teenage boys all the time. While many, many men are creeps, I also feel like women can be hypervigilant, and just don't understand them sometimes. The dude didn't make any sounds like the previous dude, didn't make any advancements, comments, or weird requests. And even immediately caught himself before she even noticed. I feel like the way she freaked out was uncalled for, and she could have had some grace. If a cute guy was touching and moving my lady parts, I'm not going to get aroused? Thankfully, with women, it's just less obvious. We shouldn't conflate genuine involuntary accidents, with predatory behavior. It's a delicate, awkward field, that requires nuance.
P.S. She could've given him a minute to clean up and gather himself, and then restarted the service. If, at that point, it happened again, or it is, in fact, weird, then by all means, stop the service. But sometimes things just are what they are, and aren't malicious. Especially if he was a model, why jeopardize his future jobs? Even he sounded shocked.
Why are you so eager to defend him? Just because it happened naturally, he specifically picked her since “he found her cute”? That’s predatory and gross.
So women are just supposed to get traumatized because sometimes men have accidents be for real- if the model can't control himself he shouldn't be getting waxed by someone he finds attractive or he could get waxed by a man
Y’all are wiilllllddddd! So a woman should just be shocked and terrified but strong armed by society into shoving it down and powering through? Are you serious? Are you seriously advocating for women being forced to comply?
It's very topical and I'd argue words describing gamete production aren't up for no psychologist or government to assign either, doesn't sound like their field.
Girl. It’s a skit explaining what actually happens . This is why this type of stuff is so prevalent. Y’all never take anything these dudes do seriously, until it happens to you.
How can you ignore all the first hand accounts of their own personal experiences with creepy men bothering them at work, from the women stitching the skit?
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"I can be her first."
Ugh! Yuck!
Where have I heard that before when in reference to a young woman???
My creepy coercive ex
Young GIRLS.
He comprehends when he isn't comfortable but not about others. Shocker 🙃
Who says “that’s sweet little thing…that 19y/o..”. when talking about their masseuse, hairstylist, aesthetician, etc? 🚩 🚩🚩
You… would be… SURPRISED😶
It happens all the time when I worked as an assistant to a massage therapist. People get wild over the phone too.
Even though he is doing a skit I've been asked 4 happy endings 2
Only a dustie
I'm a nurse. I had a patient ask for me specifically by saying "give me the wee lassie"
3:50 He’s so protective of the girls who work there. I love that.
Yeah, and then go and make money from women's insecurities about their natural hair. What a hero
The way the guy kept telling him no and the cree poid kept pushinggg but he stood firm. A woman would be har med. The guy he was talking to needs to be behind bars.
lmao i woulda said my name ashley too and u booked with me 😂😂 and then he says sweet lil thang like shes a fellow inmate. and then he wont take no for an answer, id honestly would be more afraid of her walking to her car by herself at night... that's how stalkers are
That's one of the reasons that I prefer a job with working from home option, without the need of having direct contact with strangers.
Another reason they want to take that option away too 😥
This actually happened in Vancouver, Canada. A man calling himself Jessica Yaniv sued the owners of a spa because the women that worked there wouldn’t wax his ⚽⚽
Yes! I heard about him. He was caught targeting Asian spas, and sued around 16 of them for not waxing him even though some couldn't due to their religion, lack of experience and feeling uncomfortable. It's so sad how women-run spas are targeted in this way and how there's always some women ready to defend this form of harassment.
Some do that crap specifically to prey on the unwilling and staunch feminists in other regards would get all poisonous towards uncomfortable women instead, make it make sense. "They're helping against stereotypes" by messing up criminal and medical records? More like working against pattern recognition and tripling down on "clothes, hairstyles and interests are gendered." Wow so grateful.
if places have to wax them they could have guards and or train all employees in tasers and such and now there is buddy system one waxer one guard or two or the ability to hit a pocket button that alarms the entire studio and there is only one reason that alarm would go off and its war time.
@@destroyraiden OR, we could just make it illegal for a man to sexually harass a woman into waxing his privates EVEN IF said man “claims” to “identify” as a woman.
I don’t care for massages so I’ve never been in this environment but there was this guy who was on a podcast- he was on the Netflix show “beef”. He is the ex con on the first episode and on a podcast he talks about forcing oral on a massage therapist in a joking manner. It was so disgusting and you could tell that this woman was not a human being to him. He jokes and devalues her and makes light of his actions. It was so disturbing.
All I could think was, this is why I deeply hated this character. His role was too well “acted” and he felt instinctively like a person that deserves the worst life has to offer. I didn’t watch after the fist episode.
I don’t support ppl or shows that hire ppl like this.
That’s David Cho.
That’s exactly what this reminded me of.
The Asian “comedian” Bobby Lee also confessed to that but it’s even worse..he admitted to raping a 12 year old prostitute abroad.
So not related to waxing, but I had a similar experience. I mostly do house sitting, and I had a new client try and ask for sex work from me. I do house sitting, dog training, and cleaning, NOT sex work. No offense to sex workers, but that is not a service I offer.
Oh, also the man that asked for this? He purposely asked BEFORE he paid me for the house sitting job I had just completed 😠
Infuriating. 🤬 I'm sorry to hear you had that experience. The entitlement and audacity they display is wild.
tell them you record all conversations for ethical transactions and any time you get on the phone with clients you set it up before hand its in your contract they consent to tapping and if legal action is required the tapes are usable or something like that its getting their consent to be recorded so you cover the US states that require the person to know not sure about the rest of the world on this but that way every last call even if its a hi just checking in on fido you got them and when you hang up the phone keep the recorder on tell the date, time, whom was it you were speaking to and relation to the owners of the house. If you want to cover friends and family of the owners you can write in there two all conversations about the home, pets, or land when they are the owners, friends of the owners or other aquantencies of the owners will be recorded for ethical assurances and may be used in legal issues this way they can't get theri friends to call and harrass you under the guise of checking on xyz if you have a call hit record and if its a friend get names and relationship to the owner and if they refuse to provide that you can't tell them nothing about nothing.
or you could do a policy of you do not speak to anyone but the owners about the property, pets, ect care yet you still record someone tried to ask questions and you said bye.
Why are men so damned GROSS. I agree with another commenter - the skit took too long. The answer should be a flat, "She doesn't provide that service. I would be happy to help you, but if that is not acceptable, then I'm afraid you will have to go elsewhere." THE END.
Thanks for watching!
So I worked as an LMT prior to the pandemic. I put my license on hold and ended up working at the front desk at a hotel but, while I might get my license back into active status, you’re presenting a lot of valid reasons to at least not return to this line of work for at least the next four years.
Oh nooo, I hope that you pursue whatever you love to do. 💜 These "clients" are a very real possibility, but you can lay down boundaries and/or hire people who specialize in male treatments if you chose to provide those services.
I knew it was a skit because I had seen other videos from him that looked like a skit. Right before he did the follow-up, I said to myself, "This may be a skit, but I am a thousand percent sure that this happened to someone somewhere in real life." And sure enough, seconds later, he confirmed it. If anyone can go to the salon a request a certain person because they are good at what they do, then why would a pervert take advantage of a situation? These ppl doing skits need to have a disclaimer. You could still go viral if you do it right. I'm not mad at him, just adding constructive feedback.
I go for a massage every month for my back and I have a wonderful masseuse. She told me that she never takes on male clients because of bad experiences with men. And as a woman I would never go to a male masseur because of the same reason. Both the massagetherapist as well as the client are in a very vulnerable place so I can understand why women in that occupation refuse to have male clients.
To bad for the good men out there, but there are too many rotten apples.
Oh my gosh! I had never even thought about this...dang! Outrageous!!
So glad I found this channel ❤ From Australia 🐨
That was your TRAINING video, dude? You train your employees to laugh and giggle and have to tell the client 7 times that it's not happening? Very, very, odd. You don't even need to tell someone that she's uncomfortable and put her in that position against the client. You just tell them she's not available for the service. End of story. SMH at the unprofessionalism.
I agree. The giggling was not appropriate given that it was a skit. He needs to teach his staff to be firm and be ready to call police if needed. Being friendly with creeps only encourages them 😪
Unfortunately, a lot of people react that way. People can laugh because they are uncomfortable. I have done that many times. But after laughing and giving one the opportunity to redeem themselves and they don't, the. I switch up but him laughing that way is pretty common
Also repeatedly calling WOMEN "girls".
It’s called a Fawn response and it is a triggered adaptive response. Do your research first please.
@@nadia_vivacetrain yourself not to. This is training? It should train effective destruction of evil not instinctual fear response
Wheb i am uncomfortable with men i am extremely meek and uncomfortable, i talk more quiet because its like i am trying to not agitate a wild bore.
People assume it's because you wanted it but no. Everyone have a different reaction
I didn't know how to say no. And when I finally did, it didn't matter. No doesn't mean anything to them.
Me too! 😟
The Spa owner is a keeper .
He cares about the safety of women .
This is disgusting
Disturbing
I'm glad I'm here
1 getting all notifications
2 you would not believe the garbage service workers go through. I ran a lingerie dept in a store. Let me tell you. We weren't expensive, we sold women's underwear in packages ffs still creep would creep in.
0:22 What a creepy comment from a grown man. I’m disgusted by him
11:59 being antitrans is unnecessary. If any person is uncomfortable, it is okay to say no.
I agree. That should be removed from the video. because that is not what is happening at all in this case.
Agreed
Especially as trans women are more vulnerable in general than cis women.
@@ScarlettAlexandraS Except it is actually happening. A man in Vancouver, Canada who goes by the name of Jessica Yaniv, sued the owners of a spa because the women refused to wax his balls.
It isn’t actually okay to say no. In Vancouver Canada, a man going by the name of Jessica Yaniv sued the owners of a spa because the women who worked there wouldn’t wax his ⚽⚽
Amazing customer service for the horror man
That's so terrible that that guy went through that. Glad to see that he's using that experience to protect others!
Also, that woman has a *CAMERA* in her suite?! What about the half naked women that her husband has access to watch being waxed?
27:48 not me catching a stray as a regular normal retail manager… thanks?
OMG i just googled what is brazilian waxing for men or women and literally got uncensored pictures of hairs vz waxed genitals. Gotta love this country T_T
Gross.
I'm stunned by how much tolerance and respect this guy shows predators!!! No wonder they are encouraged to prey!!! Men work really heard at making themselves contemptible and hated!
Men really have so much damn audacity.
Pete is a good guy 😊
Soooo was he looking for a happy ending?
28:03 Absolutely true! 2025
Dude, VET your clients and tell other shops, too. A woman is 100% in danger from these men, enclosed in a private room. How did you like your SA?
He's so annoying
Eeeeeek!!!!! 😱
Watch dominion 💚⚖️
Absolutely 💖. Vegan for life here. You cannot say you stand for women's rights if you pay for female animals to be exploited for food btw.
Okay, but the girl who talked about the model who had an accident... I feel like he genuinely had an accident. Are we not going to allow men to be human? Everything in her story seems to check out, and he didn't seem predatory, but genuinely remorseful. He even paid when he didn't have to. Maybe he booked with her cuz he thought she was cute - as if women have never done that - but then didn't anticipate his body's response, or wasn't prepared that he couldn't handle that. Happens to teenage boys all the time. While many, many men are creeps, I also feel like women can be hypervigilant, and just don't understand them sometimes. The dude didn't make any sounds like the previous dude, didn't make any advancements, comments, or weird requests. And even immediately caught himself before she even noticed. I feel like the way she freaked out was uncalled for, and she could have had some grace. If a cute guy was touching and moving my lady parts, I'm not going to get aroused? Thankfully, with women, it's just less obvious. We shouldn't conflate genuine involuntary accidents, with predatory behavior. It's a delicate, awkward field, that requires nuance.
P.S. She could've given him a minute to clean up and gather himself, and then restarted the service. If, at that point, it happened again, or it is, in fact, weird, then by all means, stop the service. But sometimes things just are what they are, and aren't malicious. Especially if he was a model, why jeopardize his future jobs? Even he sounded shocked.
Why are you so eager to defend him? Just because it happened naturally, he specifically picked her since “he found her cute”? That’s predatory and gross.
So women are just supposed to get traumatized because sometimes men have accidents be for real- if the model can't control himself he shouldn't be getting waxed by someone he finds attractive or he could get waxed by a man
Yo, bringing self id laws into the conversation is crazy! Super unnecessary!
Making laws, for real-life instances that actually happen, to keep women safer is super unnecessary?
Interesting.
Y’all are wiilllllddddd! So a woman should just be shocked and terrified but strong armed by society into shoving it down and powering through? Are you serious? Are you seriously advocating for women being forced to comply?
No it’s not. A man in Vancouver calling himself Jessica Yaniv sued the owners of a spa because the women who worked there refused to wax his balls.
Why's that unnecessary?
It's very topical and I'd argue words describing gamete production aren't up for no psychologist or government to assign either, doesn't sound like their field.
How can people take a skit so seriously.
Girl. It’s a skit explaining what actually happens .
This is why this type of stuff is so prevalent. Y’all never take anything these dudes do seriously, until it happens to you.
Didn't you hear him say it happened to him?
Some skits are based on reality. If it was real, wouldn't you take it seriously?!
How can you ignore all the first hand accounts of their own personal experiences with creepy men bothering them at work, from the women stitching the skit?
Then you NEVER TAKE YOUR SAFETY SERIOUSLY! Great idea!
BWAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!
Wait, what, men are sa-ing staff at spas????!!!! Yall, that's wild!!!!!