Why Radhi Shetty REFUSES to Pretend Her RELATIONSHIP with Jay Shetty Is Perfect ❤️🔥

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  • Опубликовано: 16 фев 2023
  • Radhi Shetty reflects on the common assumption that her relationship with Jay is perfect, particularly after the release of his book. While she acknowledges that Jay is an amazing partner, she is uncomfortable with the idea of perfection and how it can create unrealistic expectations. Similarly, Radhi also faces the misconception that she is always happy and never upset. However, she explains that she chooses what to share with people, as she wants to share positive energy and not bring others down with negative emotions. Radhi recognizes the importance of being mindful of the energy we give off to others, as it can impact the people around us.
    #jayshetty #radhi #relationship #perfect #refuses

Комментарии • 474

  • @aslclasslorettachacon4943
    @aslclasslorettachacon4943 Год назад +964

    I think it’s great that you’re being vulnerable and you’re telling the truth because in reality everyone goes through different emotions. No marriage is perfect. We are not perfect and emotional intelligence is very important!Sharing the truth with people that you are real and things are not always on the bright side. I think that’s amazing that’s coming, out of hiding.As a Counselor we all know perfectionism is it’s own disorder. I love you both just be real… just always remember it’s OK to cry.

    • @nanaaddae8623
      @nanaaddae8623 11 месяцев назад +4

      Love this. Its good to know you're as human as i am too. Just be you. Imagine my shock when you showed being my husband in s day skit. I was like omg, he's so real like most men. My husband dont leave his stuff ar,however i wish he comes home after ive handled the home, cooking n 3 little kids all day ,he will ssy to me " how can i help you right now, what do you need" not sute of id switch thst for him tiding up after himself i want it all. But thid is what im blessed with n am making the best out of it. May 2023 was 13 yrars in marriage.
      I want to hugg you 10x.I can feel your emotions well i guess am really an empath. ❤

    • @JessicaCate-wc7fk
      @JessicaCate-wc7fk 7 месяцев назад

      ❤❤❤

    • @user-ns6cy2fh3s
      @user-ns6cy2fh3s 6 месяцев назад +1

      Vulnerability is definitely a strength.

    • @colincorn8678
      @colincorn8678 2 месяца назад +4

      is she the one married to the fraud?

  • @aldenasuemia
    @aldenasuemia Месяц назад +6

    Like like like like like. Such rich vocabulary

  • @neledemeulemeester754
    @neledemeulemeester754 2 месяца назад +58

    How to NOT talk when you're talking

    • @tamlynn786
      @tamlynn786 Месяц назад +13

      Right? She said a whole lot of nothing 😂

  • @Pedanticskepticism
    @Pedanticskepticism Год назад +528

    I buckled under this pressure with my first relationship. Everyone kept saying how perfect my partner was and I kept taking it in and deduced that I am not perfect for him 😢

    • @amrotaberra1022
      @amrotaberra1022 Год назад +6

    • @MyStylesRReality
      @MyStylesRReality 8 месяцев назад +1

      Me too I ended up losing him too then to a mediocre shitty person then too as I didn't know me or my values

    • @user-fu4zj6mq9d
      @user-fu4zj6mq9d 6 месяцев назад

      Ohh😮

    • @killthebuddha5034
      @killthebuddha5034 2 месяца назад

      lose.... mediocre shitty person.... dsnt snd that way.... ​@@MyStylesRReality

  • @Neonikita
    @Neonikita 3 месяца назад +11

    How can one say so little by talking so much

  • @JP-wx6uh
    @JP-wx6uh 2 месяца назад +95

    You both missed your lives' true calling.. You should have been actors, because you both would have won every possible type of drama award imaginable.

    • @pupplylove3003
      @pupplylove3003 Месяц назад +5

      ?? They are not allowed to show emotion?

    • @saggiteightyfour8367
      @saggiteightyfour8367 Месяц назад +2

      😂😂😂😂 dead

    • @tamlynn786
      @tamlynn786 Месяц назад +5

      Right? Fakery fake fake both of them.

    • @Mrs.AD0099
      @Mrs.AD0099 20 дней назад

      Jay is a liar thru and thru... there is nothing authentic about him. He's a fraud.

  • @sharri5412
    @sharri5412 Месяц назад +8

    All words ... some people are good at talking and convincing others

  • @job6054
    @job6054 2 месяца назад +11

    Don't give these people your money or your time. He's a proven fraudster and she's been sucked in by him

  • @tammiefi8716
    @tammiefi8716 Год назад +375

    They both have these beautiful eyes. Thankful for them sharing what they have learned in relationship.

    • @shekar222
      @shekar222 Год назад +5

      You can change the color of your eyes if you like the technology is available in the India and I have heard, soon in the US

    • @fruitsarelife7073
      @fruitsarelife7073 Год назад +13

      @@shekar222 no I think people think it’s nice but don’t actually want to change their own to have that . Just because you compliment someone doesn’t mean you don’t think yours are beautiful.

    • @shekar222
      @shekar222 Год назад +6

      @@fruitsarelife7073 Just because someone shares information doesn’t mean that they think that others don’t see their eye color as beautiful.

    • @shefk7325
      @shefk7325 Год назад +19

      People can't understand that some Indians naturally can have coloured eyes lol

    • @ue2267
      @ue2267 Год назад +8

      Jay shetty got his eye colour changed through cosmetic surgery. I recall watching a video of him doing a process couple of years ago.

  • @Bluesnakes333
    @Bluesnakes333 Год назад +61

    The pressure to be “the one who is always happy”. It’s so hard to “let others down” when you’re already battling with sadness

  • @kahinaharrache5026
    @kahinaharrache5026 Месяц назад +4

    I understand her ! I do the same ! When I’m depressed, I don’t talk to anybody because I don’t want to affect them with negative energy, so people think I’m always happy 😅

  • @lindajohnson2816
    @lindajohnson2816 Год назад +54

    Thank you for being transparent because I’ve been married for thirty one years and it’s not easy, sometimes people think we don’t have problems but I let them know that’s not true. We chose happiness over being right..

    • @utebaumert6919
      @utebaumert6919 Год назад +1

      Do you want to be right or be happy?
      (A Course In Miracles)

    • @syanibibi
      @syanibibi Год назад +1

      ​@@utebaumert6919it's not like if i want chocolate or chip or samosa? is it?you take what is the best in the situation na. And now i think of choco croissant🤔Interesting

  • @Lifeangel2908
    @Lifeangel2908 Год назад +7

    I seriously didn’t understand one word she said, I am just hearing “like, like like, like.. “

  • @barbaraschultz1442
    @barbaraschultz1442 Год назад +13

    Radhi, just be you. You do you and you will shine. Empathic feelings are normal, not unique. The world will learn whatever your learning. Some people have the same map, others have taken a different route. The world is a classroom!😊

  • @sarahmurphy-nf4yl
    @sarahmurphy-nf4yl Год назад +191

    I love this ladies vulnerability...she's so REAL ❤️

    • @fezs9027
      @fezs9027 10 месяцев назад

      Lol

    • @job6054
      @job6054 2 месяца назад

      Unlike her fake fraud greedy narcissist husband

    • @joshuatruvillion3044
      @joshuatruvillion3044 2 месяца назад

      Yes it is to the right person

  • @shamgarsimte5733
    @shamgarsimte5733 Год назад +109

    Never hide your sad emotions. As much as you share your happy energy, it's okay to share your sadness too. Have the courage to make people realise what's real. Too much of anything is good for nothing.

  • @anabettypg1717
    @anabettypg1717 Год назад +175

    I can relate to her to a tee , she absorbes the energy of the people around her , it happens to me as well , we suffer for others.
    Very empathetic people. She is awesome! 🙌🏻

    • @archanakumaridasgupta5536
      @archanakumaridasgupta5536 Год назад +5

      I've become very restricted of who i spend time with for this very reason. I accept my limitations that i do tend to get slightly gloomy around anything that's gloomy or like feels off.

    • @a.p.5825
      @a.p.5825 2 месяца назад

      That's weak

    • @job6054
      @job6054 2 месяца назад +2

      Empath married to a true narcissist she's exactly what they go for. She makes him look authentic when he's not.

    • @killthebuddha5034
      @killthebuddha5034 2 месяца назад

      no..... narc married to a narc.....

  • @janelleespinosa6247
    @janelleespinosa6247 4 месяца назад +2

    These two love to talk about their relationship. They do surveys, and write their experiences down, it's just overkill

  • @sharfa28
    @sharfa28 Год назад +72

    She's so real. Everything about her.

  • @laurenfarrell4588
    @laurenfarrell4588 Год назад +41

    She's adorable 🖤

  • @angelagraczyk2123
    @angelagraczyk2123 Год назад +13

    She is a lovely & brave soul. I truly respect her courage to make the lives of others better despite her observable personal discomfort of being on "stage"

  • @zandyyoung3345
    @zandyyoung3345 Год назад +14

    What you are saying shows that you and your husband are real people - of course all of us wants to be perfect but there’s no such perfect relationship unless the other partner is a dead and emotionless person. Being honest makes a person to be a real person- a person that you can say trustworthy and lovely to encounter such. Both of you are not only good to look at in appearance but also a pleasure to listen to and learn from. Wish you both all the best and happiness ❤

    • @Detlo33
      @Detlo33 Год назад

      There is no perfection in life. Anyone who wants to be perfect is exercising futility. What we can do is strive for excellence each day, though, and that should reverberate through all channels of our life. Nothing and no one is perfect 🙏 🤲

  • @Treesinus
    @Treesinus Год назад +24

    Ever consider that people love how genuine you are and want to see how you express being upset’ so they could mirror that?

  • @ab6551
    @ab6551 Год назад +16

    I love her energy ugh

  • @katiecox8128
    @katiecox8128 4 месяца назад +2

    This helped me form my own similar narrative. And her precious energy and tenderness has comforted me and my own tenderness to a level I can’t even explain. Overwhelmed with gratitude for yall sharing these real and raw moments 🤍

  • @florenceraynaud9465
    @florenceraynaud9465 Год назад +32

    She is so wise and authentic 🙏🏼💙

  • @Cookwithahvivah
    @Cookwithahvivah Год назад +8

    You are one authentic person.....love you Radhi

  • @chrissyg9576
    @chrissyg9576 Год назад +9

    I just love ❤️ her!!! She has a heart of gold and is extremely genuine. Our world really needs more love ❤️ like hers!!!!!

  • @UnderworldgoddessMoon
    @UnderworldgoddessMoon Год назад +8

    No one is perfect: the beauty is seeing the flaws and loving the other person imperfectly, as is. If there is an evolution of change, it has to happen organically.

  • @Release-the-resistance
    @Release-the-resistance Год назад +15

    Yeah but also it’s important to acknowledge how many repress negative emotion because all they see is people posting happy stuff and highlight reels. It’s important to just be REAL.

  • @ForeverbelongtoJesus
    @ForeverbelongtoJesus Год назад +5

    She is so beautiful, in every way

  • @farahdiba3444
    @farahdiba3444 Месяц назад +2

    At least she didn't quote motivational speech from others and made it as if was hers, lol.

  • @kingdomseeker7
    @kingdomseeker7 Год назад +9

    She is such a beautiful soul ❤and loving and is aware of how people can be affected by the way ❤you can spread love 💕 or pain.. Much love and kindness Radhi 💕✨💕✨💕✨💖✨💖✨

  • @mraravind1111
    @mraravind1111 3 месяца назад +7

    How do their eyes match?

  • @Shantaya
    @Shantaya Год назад +3

    I appreciate your authenticity and truth. I question others who always seem "excited" or "happy" on social media, so your truth is a breath of fresh air.

  • @yadiraelizabethpreciado1138
    @yadiraelizabethpreciado1138 2 месяца назад +3

    The truth should set you free- Jay Shetty 😆 Address the 🐘

  • @itsshayla
    @itsshayla Год назад +2

    I love her rawness and vulnerability. It’s a beautiful balance

  • @daniasharifi702
    @daniasharifi702 Год назад +151

    She’s got a big lovely heart and you can tell by her eyes and expressions

    • @hghvhj9i9
      @hghvhj9i9 3 месяца назад

      Who writes these comments lmao!?

  • @mishi317
    @mishi317 Год назад +38

    No relationship or person is perfect and I love that you have addressed this bc it's not reality. You guys spread joy, messages of positivity, and so much hope to others. 🥰

  • @monicatata6725
    @monicatata6725 Год назад +2

    It is very overwhelming to Be a multilayered Human Being, experiencing One Self as a Vessel of the all encompassing emotions that are accessible to One experiencing the integration of Spirit in Matter aka Human Experience, and to be confronted with expectations of one layer, one emotion, No variables, is very restrictive. Expansion is the Goal so Please Let us Feel all One is offered to feel, let Us embrace the diversity of possibilities the connection to the Source of Unlimited Abundance in all variants. 🐛🌿🦋❤️

  • @MiZShortiiE
    @MiZShortiiE Год назад +3

    This is so true. I think people forget that we are people too and that we have a range of emotions just as well.

  • @tarynsinnen9116
    @tarynsinnen9116 Год назад +4

    Thank you for putting words to what I have been feeling! I wonder if I am being not authentic, but you worded it so beautifully... Doesnt mean I am always happy go lucky, but thats the energy I choose to share with other people!❤️

  • @Jasmine_breeze
    @Jasmine_breeze 3 месяца назад +4

    Did she just admit that they pretend to have a perfect relationship for... views and money. Do you really call the lying person a guru? If he were a monk he could know that lying is bad karma.

    • @keerthi0613
      @keerthi0613 3 месяца назад +1

      When did she "pretend" to have a perfect relationship with Jay? No relationship is perfect. People just post their happy moments on social media & not the sad moments. That's it.

    • @Jasmine_breeze
      @Jasmine_breeze 3 месяца назад +1

      @@keerthi0613 as far as I am able to understand her: in the video you have watched. Her husband pretended to be a monk as well. Well, well, well...

  • @thandovee6544
    @thandovee6544 Год назад +4

    She’s so beautiful OmG 😻😻😻

  • @Patogilvillalobos
    @Patogilvillalobos Год назад +3

    I’m totally with you same happens to me as a happy artist everyone thinks I’m always happy, but I choose to share and contagiate that energy

  • @Lynnsayne
    @Lynnsayne Год назад +2

    I’m resonating so much with this. I only share the energies I want people to experience with me.

  • @Stinely7
    @Stinely7 Год назад +2

    Thank you for sharing the lows as well. I think that's so important because we all need to understand that life and love is about the highs and the lows and that's normal. We are shown all the 'perfect' and 'positives' all the time and I think we forget that happiness is about contentment too.

  • @tamlynn786
    @tamlynn786 Месяц назад +3

    I get neglected wife vibes from her and a deep sadness.

  • @petparker6557
    @petparker6557 Год назад +7

    I truly love these guys.. What you put out in the world is what you get back.. It's hard though because those of us that are sad do feel alone because some people don't want to be around that because it makes them feel bad

    • @tiffanysalerno
      @tiffanysalerno Год назад

      Jesus can handle all your sadness! “Pour out your heart to Him, our God is a refuge for us.” - The Bible
      I literally just did that with something I was sad about and though it didn’t immediately completely make me super happy, God did lead me to a Bible verse that gives me a roadmap to move forward, and I know with Him I’m not alone❤

  • @lititiakorau6285
    @lititiakorau6285 Год назад +6

    Your transparency is beautiful 💜😘

  • @JoeB2825
    @JoeB2825 Год назад +2

    The problem is we expect too much from all our relationships. And no one in this entire world is perfect. In order to flourish the relationship we all have to adjust & accommodate each other.

  • @katrinapeters3952
    @katrinapeters3952 Год назад +1

    I so agree W Radhi...perfection doesn't exist...but we aim for positivity...😊I love Ur clips together...

  • @veronikavolition6395
    @veronikavolition6395 2 месяца назад +7

    we knew no relationship with this guy could be easy when we saw him on 90 Day Fiancee

  • @londonmatchmaker
    @londonmatchmaker 4 месяца назад +1

    Facts is there’s no perfect relationship because nobody’s perfect. Love this video ❤

  • @dr.fatemaomran3105
    @dr.fatemaomran3105 Год назад +1

    Straight to the pointe being positive it does not mean we do not have our moments of feeling sad we are all humans

  • @jacquifilion334
    @jacquifilion334 Год назад +2

    If you can, give advice or guidance for older people, trying to navigate the end of their work life before going into retirement, that would be wonderful. Not trying to negate what you’re saying here I totally get it. Love you guys thank you for always sharing.

  • @Zubbylove
    @Zubbylove Год назад +8

    Awww and she said “when someone is sad around me that makes me sad” and you actually shed a tear😢,may you be given more chance privately, publicly to express yourself without holding back ❤️. You are loved🥰

  • @monaissakarim7569
    @monaissakarim7569 2 месяца назад +4

    Seems like she is gaslight

  • @Meowzahhh
    @Meowzahhh Год назад +2

    I do this too- I don't attend a party if I feel upset about something.. I dojt want to share that negative energy..

  • @mirela...
    @mirela... Год назад +1

    How would we know that we are happy if we never experience sadness. That's life, beautiful dance of joy and sorrow, we just have to learn to move with the music. ❤

  • @RISELiftingOthers
    @RISELiftingOthers Год назад +3

    *_THHHIIIIIIIIISSSSSSSSSSSSS!!!!!_* 💯🤗

  • @alexisada4391
    @alexisada4391 Год назад +2

    So powerful ❤ many thanks ❤blessings ❤

  • @zsokazsoka3018
    @zsokazsoka3018 11 месяцев назад

    It is so nice you shared this video .
    Nobody is perfect , nobody has the perfect relationship or the perfect life . That is what makes things so great in life . The happy moment , the struggles (that makes us grow and feel more appreciative towards life ). It is okay to feel all emotions in life . We are humans . I really appreciate you show realness and not perfection . Blessing to you all .

  • @amandarecoveryjones8216
    @amandarecoveryjones8216 2 месяца назад +3

    They look alike....

  • @beautifullyme8958
    @beautifullyme8958 Год назад +2

    They’re so beautiful together

  • @danahampton1932
    @danahampton1932 Год назад +2

    Love this rawness and vulnerability it’s beautiful x thank you for sharing

  • @MLove-777
    @MLove-777 11 месяцев назад +1

    It's not easy being an empath. You have to find multiple ways to control your own energy first, then feel others. I understand her.
    😇

  • @videosforfun2843
    @videosforfun2843 11 месяцев назад +1

    You can’t not love this woman. He literally found the most beautiful person I’ve come across online ❤

  • @dnibcn93
    @dnibcn93 Год назад +4

    Shes so beautiful !

  • @angelinawilliamson96
    @angelinawilliamson96 Год назад +5

    She’s so sweet 💓

  • @gerrimiller3491
    @gerrimiller3491 Год назад +2

    Sending blessings to you and Jay in your Holy Covenant of marriage. Together you two shall overcome any obstacle❤

  • @Jade16.61
    @Jade16.61 Год назад +3

    You are not in control of what other people experience with you. ❤

  • @mskaruhluheevon
    @mskaruhluheevon Год назад +1

    Yes Radhi! ❤ I completely get this.

  • @Pedanticskepticism
    @Pedanticskepticism Год назад +10

    Your imperfect has to fit in to his imperfect was a load of BS I was fed! If you’re shy he should be outgoing what the what! I was a social being and both of my relationships systemically broke me down to the person I am today conflicted if I wanna be social or I wanna lock myself up in a room and never go out, now my struggle is to find my balance all because I have in to BS!

  • @googleuser-one
    @googleuser-one 4 месяца назад

    It’s great to be so honest about your true self instead of masking it all. We’re all human and have good and bad days like everyone else. Thank you for sharing your experience and true self. We love you more for that and also understanding positive vibrations too!!!❤❤❤sending love your way!

  • @michellewood9810
    @michellewood9810 Год назад +1

    Thanks for showing your vulnerability and sharing how you feel…. It hit me so beautifully and the amazing insight … i cry for everything tooo and i have so been bashed for this meanwhile its my way of releasing the good, the bad and the ugly … soooo cool. Thanks for that piece of gold

  • @unpackyourmind
    @unpackyourmind Год назад +3

    I love her and Jay, but this short was all over the place... So many sentences started and not finished. Aaaah!

  • @nupoorjani3704
    @nupoorjani3704 8 месяцев назад +1

    You're a very honest soul.. 💖

  • @missingmysterymurder
    @missingmysterymurder Год назад +5

    Just a question that ran through my mind when I watched the full interview (now I’m far from an expert on relationships). If one partner is happy to share all on a platform about their love and life but one is more private, does that not cause issues? If the other person does not know beforehand what is actually going to be shared either. Is a relationship meant to be sacred between the two or is this something we have been conditioned to believe?

  • @richanarayan5166
    @richanarayan5166 Год назад +2

    This is so so so true and relatable.

  • @teachandinspire437
    @teachandinspire437 Год назад +2

    She's beautiful!♥️🙏🏾

  • @riyaankaapalipi2806
    @riyaankaapalipi2806 Год назад +1

    Amazing!!! The right questions regarding having children. Working on ourselves is so important❤

  • @azariakhan9853
    @azariakhan9853 7 месяцев назад +1

    You are so sweet and pure ❤

  • @tistisjustme
    @tistisjustme Год назад +1

    Just found this couple! I wonder if what they say about couples who look alike is true, that they are more natural together and in tune with each other. Great video, watched the entire thing!

  • @anshulsharma996
    @anshulsharma996 Год назад +2

    Emotional and honest talk .. ❤

  • @LostSoulSearching
    @LostSoulSearching 3 месяца назад

    How she describes why she chooses to share is a beautiful maturity level I have been embracing.

  • @beckyfountain1366
    @beckyfountain1366 11 месяцев назад

    I love these two. Such great role models for everyone, showing vulnerability, no arrogance at all, no ego, just genuine and real.

  • @selenasophie5245
    @selenasophie5245 Год назад +2

    Some ppl are jst incredibly lucky in life

  • @not-even-german4892
    @not-even-german4892 Год назад +3

    Her eyes ❤

  • @lemonwater8961
    @lemonwater8961 Год назад +1

    It's glad to see the vulnerable side

  • @Patogilvillalobos
    @Patogilvillalobos Год назад +4

    I’m totally with you same happens to me as a happy artist everyone thinks I’m always happy, but I choose to share and contagiate that energy @jayshettyshorta

  • @eyerusalemsolomon9954
    @eyerusalemsolomon9954 10 месяцев назад

    I, for one, am happy that you are sharing this side of you. I think you can be the happiest and most positive person, but still have bad days and sad days.
    Telling us you too have bad days and sad days along with all your happy and cheerful moments will help the majority of us relate to you even more.
    Perfection does not exist in this world . We all go through stuff we wish we didn't, and anyone who thinks anyone's relationship is perfect and free of flaws is so wrong.

  • @MrGearoid65
    @MrGearoid65 Год назад +1

    Very honest. Thanks for being so upfront. ❤

  • @ElieBlaxBlaze
    @ElieBlaxBlaze Год назад +10

    What a lovely woman! Breath of fresh air on the internet!

  • @aBieBi1
    @aBieBi1 4 месяца назад

    I love this clip! Yes, I agree. I do not like the idea of perfection either (I am sure so many of us watching this clip don't either). We get fed these subconscious ideas that perfection exists, when it doesn't. Just because people don't share their low, bad moments doesn't mean they don't have them. Beautiful clip!

  • @deepikaa.18
    @deepikaa.18 Год назад +10

    She dint complete even one sentence. What is the point she's trying to make

  • @anastasijapilnikova5732
    @anastasijapilnikova5732 Год назад +1

    THANK YOU 💓💞🥰🙏 Bravo For Your Real Strength 💓💞🥰🙏

  • @ps-pratimasharma5784
    @ps-pratimasharma5784 9 месяцев назад +1

    She talk so good I just want to hear everyday 🤣 so good how she talk so well

  • @brittanyborja8572
    @brittanyborja8572 5 месяцев назад

    I feel the exact same way, wow. I love how real she is❤

  • @goelevatewithsharessa
    @goelevatewithsharessa Год назад +3

    I never thought the relationship was perfect, especially in some of the videos he seems annoyed by her.