Story 1: I have met SO many people who said they had their dreams derailed by unfortunate life circumstances when in fact, they never had it in them to make it actually happen. This one guy had a mother who continuously said her kid ruined her life because she got pregnant at ballet school and she couldn't become a professional ballerina because of that. She acted like she would have been the next Gelsey Kirkland. Her kid had to listen to that all through his childhood and it was his aunt who pretty much raised him. One day, when he was an adult, he saw that her old ballet school was closing because the people who had started it had died or got too old. They were throwing out a bunch of old personal files and he asked if they had his mother's file and if so, if he could have it. They did and after reading, It turned out she was less than mediocre and the school would have dropped her except that her parents paid extra. The next time his mother went through her life was ruined because of him, he pulled out her file and started reading out the comments from the teachers who far from praising her to high heaven, were almost constantly negative. His mother denied all of it. He thinks she rewrote history in her mind and believes the fantasy she made up. But she eventually stopped saying her getting pregnant ended her career as a dancer when he would immediately start with how full of shit she was.
Oh my God! That is hilarious! I have a friend whose mother did the same to her. We both did ballet professionally, but her mother constantly pushed her into it because she made the excuse of my friend ruining her career. We actually had her mother’s old ballet teacher as our director for a couple of performances, and she told us the truth about my friend’s mom being a mediocre dancer who never put any effort into really learning nor improving in ballet, she used “getting pregnant” as an excuse to drop out. My friend was going to call her mom out on it, but our dance director beat her to it when my friend’s mom started giving that speech at the cast party after the last performance.
@princessmarlena1359 well this explains all the parents that take the sport or activity too seriously by attempting to live their ideal life through their kid
While I kinda agree, I feel that a break is supposed to be based on the idea that the break will eventually end, while break-ups are supposed to be a finality. A lot of people just use the words wrong.
I dunno.. In my experience, and from what I've seen, people who go on breaks lack the maturity to just leave their partner or talk things out. It's a middle/high school age tactic for people who don't know how to properly navigate a romantic relationship, or understand them too well and know that it can be an easy out to cheat on their gullible "partner" till they're "ready to come back". 🙄 I hesitate to even call it cheating. It's just... playing games with someone's emotions.
And remember she says this isn't the first break she asked but before this guy was "skiny" and probably with a low self-esteem. Now the boy has a good body and girls are talking to him and she feels he is rude because before in the breaks this guy will do nothing and is waiting for her, and now she is fearing other girls could take him. But he ask for permision to talk with other women and reassure her he loves her but has a good feeling with other girl. We need to think not only in OP but in general
@@zhongliidonglii When you say the word "break" as a teenager, think "separation" as an adult. Same principles, same risks. If _he_ was the one asking for the break, then I would absolutely have a problem with his behavior during the break. Since _she_ was the one asking for the break, she's basically asking him to hold her place in a very long line while she continues shopping for clothes and shoes. She expects him to just stand there and wait for her to come back without him knowing exactly what she's going back to get and how long she expects to be gone.
"Every child deserves a parent, but not every parent deserves a child" Story #3: First time in my life I actually heard a good usage of "I have a boyfriend" Story #4: I actually understand the girlfriend, even though she didn't tell you she had a good reason to. Personally I would just sit down, talk about this and get it sorted out
Father: Wanted to play football, had two kids, works mediocre job Sister: Wanted to model, had two kids, works mediocre job Like father like daughter, am I right?
That's also a really weird dynamic to have or even be okay with, if you expect loyalty over a break then that's not a break you just need space. Breaks are usually to find out if you want to maintain the relationship
Story 3: Skip the wedding- your sister made her choice and she's not listening to your concern. Your family isn't helping either so just look at the sister and say, "You know what, that's fine. Boyfriend won't be coming, and neither will I. Have a good time." This reeks of the idea that the brother wants you because him and the one your sister is marrying have some creepy 'share everything' relationship situation where he probably wouldn't date anyone unless they had a sister for his creep-o brother...
It would be great to have a little bit of karma for her sister, if she and her boyfriend could get together and have a wedding they can literally not invite her sister and her husband to their wedding and see how she feels about it
You wouldnt like it on what happened on the update.. Op sis still wouldnt spill the beans even when the parents ask her. She kept being a blaming banshee and pull op's hair when they try to leave. Op pull her hair back and giving her black eye before bachelo party. And op sis threat sue blah blah. Though some comments did point out "self defense" to help op but op still pondering whether to go to wedding without bf.
Just tell sister if this is a plot between her fiancé and his brother to have him to make a pass at you, then her wedding will be ruined by having the grooms brother collapse in front of everyone with a very bruised groin.
@@Vyrezzanother update after that. Apparently the sister actually tried to get her fiancés brother to hook up with OP, saying that the guy she was seeing was just a placeholder. And now she’s worried that if OP doesn’t sleep with him that her fiancé will leave her and she’s pregnant. Insane. So mc still went to the wedding and all the siblings badmouthed the bride at the reception. Fun
story 1: remember this folks, when writing your will, leave $1 to whoever you don't want in your will. if they're not in it at all, they can try claiming they were "forgotten". but if you leave $1, it's a lot harder because OBVIOUSLY they weren't forgotten, they were deliberately left $1 for whatever reason. it can still be contested, but they'd have a hell of a time proving they deserve something. at least, compared to being left out entirely.
Story #2 She quite literally said he can talk and be with other girls. And remember a break is literally a breakup but they don't include the up, so it doesn't feel as bad-.
Story 1:- More than the OP I feel bad for the sister who got raised by idiots and became a idiot herself. OP should probably ignore them forever and live a happy life like he used to Story 2:- The boyfriend has slowly started to toxic and is just leading you on as he cheats, most probably to come back to you if the other girl ditches him. So break off and try to focus on your own life. The O/P is an amazing person and will do good in life. Story 3:- The sister is justing that to keep her would be happy. If you go she will take it as a yes to hook u up with the brother, so stick with your boyfriend and tell the sister that u disagree with her arrangement. Story 4:- You are not unreasonable, it is more of a communication problem. Your girlfriend is just not taking the creep seriously. So tell her your feelings calmly.
Story Two: Why would you ever have breaks in a relationship and then not think your significant other is going to see other people? That's the whole point! If you want to stay in a relationship, you need some space not a break.
@@CreatingArt3185 She told him it was alright for him to see other women. If she didn't want that, then she should have said so. The guy might be an asshole, but she's expecting him to be a mind reader. Either you're in a relationship or your not. If she needs space, that fine. Everyone does occasionally. That's not what she described though.
@@samhouston1288 Space is fine. That just means that we are staying together and still occasionally spending time together, but I have a lot going on for the next few weeks and need some time to deal with it and then we’ll get back to spending time together, and during this brief period, the relationship rules still apply. When they want a “break”, I feel like someone is just wanting to shed the rules and escape responsibility for doing things that would normally violate the rules.
Story 1: I think the most heartwarming part was when the grandfather started working on the house after the grandmother passed on. I think he knew he wasn't going to be too far behind her and wanted to make sure the OP was going to have a good place to live.
Right? I was just thinking that. He got to spend time with his grandson (honestly more of a son than his own), work and focus on something to distract himself, and he got to leave OP with something incredibly special. That's love if I've ever seen it.
I can’t believe they honestly thought they’d get inheritance after kicking their son out at 10. I have to wonder if they’d even spoken to him in the time between kicking him out and the grandfather dying
@@CountLurchalot I think you misunderstand me. I'm referring to the parents. OP has no reason to give anything up to those street trash birth parents of his. I'm glad the OP didn't give in and surrender his well earned inheritance.
The sperm doner and egg doner had several options. Adoption would have been a good option for child. The grandparents stepped up and did what the parents failed to do, and that was raise a child. When the inheritance was an option, OP'S sperm doner and egg doner were like "vultures at the feast". If anyone has seen the movie Knives Out, you know the reference.
Nope nope nope to any of those relationship choices. I tell my hubs immediately everything. I never ever let him feel uncomfortable or let him think there might be competition. As for the wedding one, my hubs loves being by my side as I do his. If he were to be uninvited to the wedding, I’d uninvited myself shamelessly. With out a second thought. He is my world and to be outcasted from the family like that, mine already did that to me, I wouldn’t let them do that to him. Nope. Hurts me just to think about it
In story 1 you can hear how much this kid loved his grandparents “you couldn’t keep this man from his bacon even if you tried…” so wholesome and I’m so sorry that he went through that!
That guy was a lousy parent,only think about himself. So what,your dream is gone. You could live a better life and be the father. I could've been the Houston Astros pitcher but something else happened and have the 9 to 5 job and I'm happy from that time to now in my fifties.
To be honest, even though it was shitty, him being kicked out and living with his grandparents is more favorable than living with his parents. Since his parents hate him so much, that could lead to him being abused by them, so this is actually the best cas scenario.
OP Dad from story one got those Al Bundy's hopes and dreams. Did he go to Polk High too?! 🤭🤭 Story two, OP kind of set herself up for that it seems. She agreed that it would be okay for him to talk other girls while on a break, and now it's come back to bite her in the ass
Story 1: i know for a fact that Op was the son his grandfather and grandmother always wished for. He took care of them with love for all those years. They were family ❤ may those beautiful people rest in peace.
What kind of relationships do people have these days where you go on breaks when life gets busy. It is life people. Stick together. How would you know if you can work through things.
In the first story, I can say that what type of drugs are they using? Like seriously, you blame your child for ruining your dreams. You should blame yourself and your crotch for getting your girlfriend pregnant.
Story 2: So you asked for a break, then didn't take it seriously when he asked if he could talk to other girls, so you said yes and then got mad when he actually did? It's not cheating if you aren't dating at the time. To be fair, he shouldn't have shown you pictures of other girls at all but you literally told him he could talk to other girls.
Story three: I think OP's sister may want to get married TOO badly if she's willing to force the fiance's brother on OP as a condition of the wedding. I wouldn't want a guy who creeps me out forced on me, either, even if it's only for a day. All a creep needs is an opportunity, and he can actually USE force to get what he wants.
For the parents in the first, if you say that your kid ruined your dreams than maybe they shouldn’t have had a child in the first place at a young age. I’m glad the judge didn’t give the parents anything and called out the father for being a terrible parent
It's especially bad in this day and age when thing like CONDOMS and BIRTH CONTROL PILLS exist. There's literally zero excuse anymore for anyone to have a kid they don't want.
Story 1: First of all, OP, not the jerk. Second of all, let’s say that all colleges were blind and desperate, and the dad got a scholarship for football, and all professional football teams were stupid, and the dad somehow made it on the team, what do you think would happen next? He’d become famous, followed by paparazzi, and then they would see how he treated his son. He would then get fired, hated across all social media platforms, and most likely get arrested. But hey, that’s a much better choice then staying at a stable job and living to be an asshole another day.
He still would’ve blamed his son. People like that don’t change. When you have parents who don’t see you as anything other than a disappointment regardless of your aunts, uncles or grandparents showering you with the love and affection that they should’ve. Chances are that’s how it’s gonna be for good
I like how they demand op do right thing in story 1. When they didn't do the right thing for the op the grandparents did. I'm also glad they gave sister nothing either. She got all their love and affection and they showed none of it to op and kicked then out at 10 years old for being born. Maybe op's dad shouldn't have have stuck it in the op's mom.
its not the childs fault the father wasnt a potential football star, as my husband would say, "he should have tied a knot in it, if he didnt want children"
Story 3: I think it would be better off if none of the family member's from OP's side was to attend the wedding. If that toxic of a sister cries out that it's OP's fault why they never came, OP can just retaliate and tell her sister that she's only informing their family members of what she was demanding she wanted to happen. It was to be the choice of their family members if they wanted to attend the wedding or not anymore
As someone who grew up a weak boy and became a stronger man, I can say that the guy from the story that went from skinny to buff definitely does not deserve the body he got. Even though he now has physical strength, he is still a weak man, because you can be physically strong, but only by combining that with humility, can you truly be strong. The truly strong men are the ones who know the true value AND meaning of strength.
I love how most relationships say "we've been together for x years!" yeah, and how long is that relative to your age? you're telling me a 3 year relationship trumps what you've done the other 20+ years?
When their bad behavior didn’t help their situation before, and they are still waiting & exhibiting the same entitled behavior that excommunicated them in the first place. You can’t bully your way into something that’s not yours. Nor can you fix stupid. 😂
Story 1- You should thank the parents they did you a massive favour sending you to the grandparents Story 2- It’s not in the drain it’s already in the sewer he gonna break your heart and you know it ditch him before he ditches you and good luck.
Story 1: WTF! How dare they abandon their child, completely mistreat them and then demand their inheritance from as far as I'm concerned their only family. But honestly I am happy that the OP ended up living with their grandparents as they probably got a better life even if they loved them. Story 2: you should just break up with him and you could do so much better Story 3: I'm sorry but if it makes you feel uncomfortable then don't go to the wedding. And I know that it would be terrible and you would feel guilty and so would I, but the brother obviously likes you and it is extremely weird. Story 4: the OP’s girlfriend has a small point but it's not ok and she should've told you and you and your girlfriend should confront him.
Story 2: that girl needs someone to treat her better. That wierd fucking payback of "ima show you the pics I've been sent" hurt my heart. Girlie needs someone better
On The Story 2 of course eventually one of you are going to move on during your break if your relationship sucks enough you need breaks it's not going to last
I think I understand what is going on with the sister in story 3. So I was in a not so similar situation. So I used to hang out with my brothers and some friends when all of a sudden one day one of my brothers started to refuse to invite me to go out with them. I didn’t understand the issue and only found out when I encountered everyone out without me. Turns out my brother thought I was into his girlfriend so he started disliking me being around. His girlfriend and me knew each other longer than she knew him and he was always arguing because he believed that she was cheating on him with me. With what I said above I believe OPs future brother in law like my brother believes that OPs boyfriend likes the sister so it is making him jealous causing the sister to not want the boyfriend be there and trying to separate them by putting his brother in the way which doesn’t work. The sister is probably trying to focus on her wedding and most likely avoiding a huge drama on her big day by refusing to have OPs boyfriend there. Just a guess due to my experience with what happened with my brother.
Nothing and I mean nothing is more important than your parents a funeral is about the last time you'll even see your parents I have a Heart of Stone to say they not in Portland have to attend their funeral
I wouldn’t attend the wedding at all, let alone be a bridesmaid. The sister can go suck eggs and her fiancé and his brother can learn that the bro can’t always get what he wants. That story really ticks me off - OP is not wrong in any way, whereas sis is showing what really matters to her, and it’s not her sister.
This is litterly so messed up and cruel in every way the OP should call the cops on his/her parents bc this is child abuse it is so messed up that it makes me so sick in the stomach
The first story has made me realise that their aren’t many good people anymore and the few good people are dying out so we need to cherish the good ones
Story #2: I use this as a deflective method, but work on yourself. It is awesome that you motivated him, but without you being right there with him, you know?
Story 1: to be honest I understand why the parents were upset because they were only 17 so I get that. Not defending them of course what they did was wrong but just adding some perspective to the parents point of view
Story 1 like what the hell the sister was 4 when the boy was. 10 like what why does she need a room for privacy i did not have my own room until i was 10
Good tip that a lot of people always over look. if you don't want to have a child, it's better to be safe than sorry to have protection doing the bedtime ritual or at least wait until the menstrual cycle is about to end.
Story 1: When the Parents kicked the OP out my head directly went to THATS ILLEGAL bc there is a law that children until 18 have a right to have a roof above their head so if i was the OP and learned that i would immediatly sue them. The realatitonship is already so rocky it wouldnt matter.
Not really. Had OP's parents just dumped him on the street to fend for himself, then it would've been. But he was given to his grandparents, so OP did have a roof to live under. Sure, it was still a jerk move his parents made, but far from illegal.
Story 1: I have met SO many people who said they had their dreams derailed by unfortunate life circumstances when in fact, they never had it in them to make it actually happen.
This one guy had a mother who continuously said her kid ruined her life because she got pregnant at ballet school and she couldn't become a professional ballerina because of that. She acted like she would have been the next Gelsey Kirkland. Her kid had to listen to that all through his childhood and it was his aunt who pretty much raised him. One day, when he was an adult, he saw that her old ballet school was closing because the people who had started it had died or got too old. They were throwing out a bunch of old personal files and he asked if they had his mother's file and if so, if he could have it. They did and after reading, It turned out she was less than mediocre and the school would have dropped her except that her parents paid extra. The next time his mother went through her life was ruined because of him, he pulled out her file and started reading out the comments from the teachers who far from praising her to high heaven, were almost constantly negative. His mother denied all of it. He thinks she rewrote history in her mind and believes the fantasy she made up. But she eventually stopped saying her getting pregnant ended her career as a dancer when he would immediately start with how full of shit she was.
Oh my God! That is hilarious! I have a friend whose mother did the same to her. We both did ballet professionally, but her mother constantly pushed her into it because she made the excuse of my friend ruining her career.
We actually had her mother’s old ballet teacher as our director for a couple of performances, and she told us the truth about my friend’s mom being a mediocre dancer who never put any effort into really learning nor improving in ballet, she used “getting pregnant” as an excuse to drop out.
My friend was going to call her mom out on it, but our dance director beat her to it when my friend’s mom started giving that speech at the cast party after the last performance.
@princessmarlena1359 well this explains all the parents that take the sport or activity too seriously by attempting to live their ideal life through their kid
I'm mature enough to admit I would have done far better if I made better choices.
Story #2 - Remember kids, a "break" is just a break up without saying the "up".
While I kinda agree, I feel that a break is supposed to be based on the idea that the break will eventually end, while break-ups are supposed to be a finality. A lot of people just use the words wrong.
I dunno.. In my experience, and from what I've seen, people who go on breaks lack the maturity to just leave their partner or talk things out. It's a middle/high school age tactic for people who don't know how to properly navigate a romantic relationship, or understand them too well and know that it can be an easy out to cheat on their gullible "partner" till they're "ready to come back". 🙄 I hesitate to even call it cheating. It's just... playing games with someone's emotions.
And remember she says this isn't the first break she asked but before this guy was "skiny" and probably with a low self-esteem. Now the boy has a good body and girls are talking to him and she feels he is rude because before in the breaks this guy will do nothing and is waiting for her, and now she is fearing other girls could take him. But he ask for permision to talk with other women and reassure her he loves her but has a good feeling with other girl. We need to think not only in OP but in general
@@zhongliidonglii When you say the word "break" as a teenager, think "separation" as an adult. Same principles, same risks. If _he_ was the one asking for the break, then I would absolutely have a problem with his behavior during the break. Since _she_ was the one asking for the break, she's basically asking him to hold her place in a very long line while she continues shopping for clothes and shoes. She expects him to just stand there and wait for her to come back without him knowing exactly what she's going back to get and how long she expects to be gone.
Yeah, I learned that the hard way not too long ago...
"Every child deserves a parent, but not every parent deserves a child"
Story #3: First time in my life I actually heard a good usage of "I have a boyfriend"
Story #4: I actually understand the girlfriend, even though she didn't tell you she had a good reason to. Personally I would just sit down, talk about this and get it sorted out
Father: Wanted to play football, had two kids, works mediocre job
Sister: Wanted to model, had two kids, works mediocre job
Like father like daughter, am I right?
I wonder what the OP's relationship with their sister was like?🤔
The apple doesn't fall far from the tree except the tree was already dead and the apple is a turd
oof
@@aisyahhaneemasmawi2354probably none. He got kicked out when she was 4 and probably wasn't allowed with her
no the father has one kid the son doesn't want to be his son anymore@@jordanwardle11
Story 1: OP may be his dad's biggest mistake but he was an even bigger mistake to his parents
Father: "OP you are the biggest mistake in my life!!!"
Grandparents: *"No u"*
@@dracko158 haha so tru
he as in the father?
Idk if thats good or bad
op's dad's biggest mistake was lacking safe sex
Grandparents are GIGA CHAD!
For story 2: The guy started being a narcissist when he started getting all that attention. But it doesn't excuse anything.
She also said it was okay for him to talk to other girls 😅
That's also a really weird dynamic to have or even be okay with, if you expect loyalty over a break then that's not a break you just need space. Breaks are usually to find out if you want to maintain the relationship
Bro was one before hand just didn't have his Hussle to afford it. But seriously doods a two shit pricks warmed over for that dumb ass stunt
Both are young clowns, they are in highscool by the sound of it and they don't understand how to relationship.
He can do what he wants. They are on a break...... That means you are single.....AND she told him he can do it.
Story 3: Skip the wedding- your sister made her choice and she's not listening to your concern. Your family isn't helping either so just look at the sister and say, "You know what, that's fine. Boyfriend won't be coming, and neither will I. Have a good time." This reeks of the idea that the brother wants you because him and the one your sister is marrying have some creepy 'share everything' relationship situation where he probably wouldn't date anyone unless they had a sister for his creep-o brother...
SWEET HOME ALABAMA
It would be great to have a little bit of karma for her sister, if she and her boyfriend could get together and have a wedding they can literally not invite her sister and her husband to their wedding and see how she feels about it
You wouldnt like it on what happened on the update..
Op sis still wouldnt spill the beans even when the parents ask her. She kept being a blaming banshee and pull op's hair when they try to leave.
Op pull her hair back and giving her black eye before bachelo party. And op sis threat sue blah blah.
Though some comments did point out "self defense" to help op but op still pondering whether to go to wedding without bf.
Just tell sister if this is a plot between her fiancé and his brother to have him to make a pass at you, then her wedding will be ruined by having the grooms brother collapse in front of everyone with a very bruised groin.
@@Vyrezzanother update after that. Apparently the sister actually tried to get her fiancés brother to hook up with OP, saying that the guy she was seeing was just a placeholder. And now she’s worried that if OP doesn’t sleep with him that her fiancé will leave her and she’s pregnant. Insane. So mc still went to the wedding and all the siblings badmouthed the bride at the reception. Fun
story 1: remember this folks, when writing your will, leave $1 to whoever you don't want in your will. if they're not in it at all, they can try claiming they were "forgotten". but if you leave $1, it's a lot harder because OBVIOUSLY they weren't forgotten, they were deliberately left $1 for whatever reason. it can still be contested, but they'd have a hell of a time proving they deserve something. at least, compared to being left out entirely.
Story #2 She quite literally said he can talk and be with other girls. And remember a break is literally a breakup but they don't include the up, so it doesn't feel as bad-.
Story one, grandpa knew exactly what he did when he renovated the house with the grandson
Story 1:- More than the OP I feel bad for the sister who got raised by idiots and became a idiot herself. OP should probably ignore them forever and live a happy life like he used to
Story 2:- The boyfriend has slowly started to toxic and is just leading you on as he cheats, most probably to come back to you if the other girl ditches him. So break off and try to focus on your own life. The O/P is an amazing person and will do good in life.
Story 3:- The sister is justing that to keep her would be happy. If you go she will take it as a yes to hook u up with the brother, so stick with your boyfriend and tell the sister that u disagree with her arrangement.
Story 4:- You are not unreasonable, it is more of a communication problem. Your girlfriend is just not taking the creep seriously. So tell her your feelings calmly.
Story Two: Why would you ever have breaks in a relationship and then not think your significant other is going to see other people? That's the whole point! If you want to stay in a relationship, you need some space not a break.
Probably what the op meant
@@CreatingArt3185 She told him it was alright for him to see other women. If she didn't want that, then she should have said so. The guy might be an asshole, but she's expecting him to be a mind reader. Either you're in a relationship or your not. If she needs space, that fine. Everyone does occasionally. That's not what she described though.
@@samhouston1288 Space is fine. That just means that we are staying together and still occasionally spending time together, but I have a lot going on for the next few weeks and need some time to deal with it and then we’ll get back to spending time together, and during this brief period, the relationship rules still apply.
When they want a “break”, I feel like someone is just wanting to shed the rules and escape responsibility for doing things that would normally violate the rules.
Story 1: I think the most heartwarming part was when the grandfather started working on the house after the grandmother passed on. I think he knew he wasn't going to be too far behind her and wanted to make sure the OP was going to have a good place to live.
Right? I was just thinking that. He got to spend time with his grandson (honestly more of a son than his own), work and focus on something to distract himself, and he got to leave OP with something incredibly special. That's love if I've ever seen it.
I can’t believe they honestly thought they’d get inheritance after kicking their son out at 10. I have to wonder if they’d even spoken to him in the time between kicking him out and the grandfather dying
Just more evidence that entitlement is one hell of a drug.
@@UPRailRoad-xg8cb they say do the right thing. The parents didn’t why should he
@@CountLurchalot I think you misunderstand me. I'm referring to the parents. OP has no reason to give anything up to those street trash birth parents of his. I'm glad the OP didn't give in and surrender his well earned inheritance.
Parents "You need to give your father what he deserves!"
OP: "What, you want me to punch him in the face?"
@@SH-qs7ee seems reasonable
The sperm doner and egg doner had several options. Adoption would have been a good option for child. The grandparents stepped up and did what the parents failed to do, and that was raise a child.
When the inheritance was an option, OP'S sperm doner and egg doner were like "vultures at the feast". If anyone has seen the movie Knives Out, you know the reference.
I like how you don’t refer to them as parents because they certainly aren’t
@@CountLurchalot Calling them parents would be offensive to actual parents :/
@@Archiver_Studio indeed. Another commenter said the only things he owns them is punching them in the face
They should not get any of the inheritance and go no contact
My favourite part about the story is when he said give me the thoughest lawyer
Nope nope nope to any of those relationship choices. I tell my hubs immediately everything. I never ever let him feel uncomfortable or let him think there might be competition.
As for the wedding one, my hubs loves being by my side as I do his. If he were to be uninvited to the wedding, I’d uninvited myself shamelessly. With out a second thought. He is my world and to be outcasted from the family like that, mine already did that to me, I wouldn’t let them do that to him. Nope. Hurts me just to think about it
In story 1 you can hear how much this kid loved his grandparents “you couldn’t keep this man from his bacon even if you tried…” so wholesome and I’m so sorry that he went through that!
That guy was a lousy parent,only think about himself. So what,your dream is gone. You could live a better life and be the father. I could've been the Houston Astros pitcher but something else happened and have the 9 to 5 job and I'm happy from that time to now in my fifties.
Story one: I should have been a football stud! Instead I wear a name tag!
Ok, Al Bundy 😂😂😂
To be honest, even though it was shitty, him being kicked out and living with his grandparents is more favorable than living with his parents. Since his parents hate him so much, that could lead to him being abused by them, so this is actually the best cas scenario.
OP Dad from story one got those Al Bundy's hopes and dreams. Did he go to Polk High too?! 🤭🤭 Story two, OP kind of set herself up for that it seems. She agreed that it would be okay for him to talk other girls while on a break, and now it's come back to bite her in the ass
It's child abuse to kick your child out of the house when they are younger than 18 💀
Story 1 theres a reason condoms are a thing
(Still happy for OP to get away from thoses horrible parents)
Story 1: i know for a fact that Op was the son his grandfather and grandmother always wished for. He took care of them with love for all those years. They were family ❤ may those beautiful people rest in peace.
What kind of relationships do people have these days where you go on breaks when life gets busy. It is life people. Stick together. How would you know if you can work through things.
story 1: if you didn't want a child you should have been more careful or you could have given him up for adoption
Story 2: Sounds like a episode of Johnny Bravo.
Did this also make everyone else feel like granparents need more love
In the first story, I can say that what type of drugs are they using?
Like seriously, you blame your child for ruining your dreams.
You should blame yourself and your crotch for getting your girlfriend pregnant.
Story 2: So you asked for a break, then didn't take it seriously when he asked if he could talk to other girls, so you said yes and then got mad when he actually did? It's not cheating if you aren't dating at the time. To be fair, he shouldn't have shown you pictures of other girls at all but you literally told him he could talk to other girls.
“Better to Have it and not need it than to need it and not have it” I have heard this saying before
I’m still watching at this moment in time
Story 1: he did not ruin his dad’s dream his dad ruined his own
Hulk riding a bike cant hurt you: 😁
Hulk riding a bike: 🥶🗿☠️
Story three: I think OP's sister may want to get married TOO badly if she's willing to force the fiance's brother on OP as a condition of the wedding. I wouldn't want a guy who creeps me out forced on me, either, even if it's only for a day. All a creep needs is an opportunity, and he can actually USE force to get what he wants.
Story 1: If those parents acted like this then I am not surprised the grandparents at one point cut them out of their will...
"oh i should've been a football star- no you should've been a better father" best line ever
Story 1: Good for him. Story 2: Whining. Story 3: Bring boyfriend anyway. Story 4: More whining.
For the parents in the first, if you say that your kid ruined your dreams than maybe they shouldn’t have had a child in the first place at a young age. I’m glad the judge didn’t give the parents anything and called out the father for being a terrible parent
It's especially bad in this day and age when thing like CONDOMS and BIRTH CONTROL PILLS exist. There's literally zero excuse anymore for anyone to have a kid they don't want.
My mother ran away after I was born my father took me to my grandparents and they took care of me.
Story 1: First of all, OP, not the jerk. Second of all, let’s say that all colleges were blind and desperate, and the dad got a scholarship for football, and all professional football teams were stupid, and the dad somehow made it on the team, what do you think would happen next? He’d become famous, followed by paparazzi, and then they would see how he treated his son. He would then get fired, hated across all social media platforms, and most likely get arrested. But hey, that’s a much better choice then staying at a stable job and living to be an asshole another day.
He still would’ve blamed his son. People like that don’t change. When you have parents who don’t see you as anything other than a disappointment regardless of your aunts, uncles or grandparents showering you with the love and affection that they should’ve. Chances are that’s how it’s gonna be for good
The "father and mother" should be glad they weren't ARRESTED for CHILD ABANDONMENT.
For the parents in story one, USE PROTECTION. BOTH OF YOU. Or you know, just abort the fetus.
We got hulk on a motorcycle flying before gta 6💀
i honestly laughed when he said the op's parents peaked in highschool
5:41 DID HULK RECREATED 9/11 BUT ON A BIKE?
if you wanna go then you should go bumps being a bridesmaid and bring him everyone gets a plus one invite so he isnt crashing
Once on a test day my mom sent me a letter that said ""I love you"" AND IT HAD QUOTATION MARKS
Oh i love these lol
As my health teacher one said: if you aren’t ready to have a kid, you aren’t ready to “passionately hug”.
Yep
I like how they demand op do right thing in story 1. When they didn't do the right thing for the op the grandparents did. I'm also glad they gave sister nothing either. She got all their love and affection and they showed none of it to op and kicked then out at 10 years old for being born. Maybe op's dad shouldn't have have stuck it in the op's mom.
Story 2: Girl I’ll take you, screw him. (Assuming you’re ok with a girlfriend.)
The mistakes were the first OP's parents. The first OP's grandparents really are great parents.
Why not have a lawyer write a cease and desist letter . And if they persisted sue them for Harrassment .
its not the childs fault the father wasnt a potential football star, as my husband would say, "he should have tied a knot in it, if he didnt want children"
Story 3: I think it would be better off if none of the family member's from OP's side was to attend the wedding. If that toxic of a sister cries out that it's OP's fault why they never came, OP can just retaliate and tell her sister that she's only informing their family members of what she was demanding she wanted to happen. It was to be the choice of their family members if they wanted to attend the wedding or not anymore
As someone who grew up a weak boy and became a stronger man, I can say that the guy from the story that went from skinny to buff definitely does not deserve the body he got. Even though he now has physical strength, he is still a weak man, because you can be physically strong, but only by combining that with humility, can you truly be strong. The truly strong men are the ones who know the true value AND meaning of strength.
I love how most relationships say "we've been together for x years!" yeah, and how long is that relative to your age? you're telling me a 3 year relationship trumps what you've done the other 20+ years?
Story 2 : "I told him we needed a break and now he isn't interested in me"
Yeah um ... Why are you surprised?
Hi love your vids
Story one op At least your grandpa and grandma went off a peaceful way.
7:38 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 GOD D**N BRO JUST GOT VIOLATED
“I should have been a football star” no you should have used protection if you didn’t want a kid
For story 1: if I was the grandparent I’d give the father one cent in the will
When their bad behavior didn’t help their situation before, and they are still waiting & exhibiting the same entitled behavior that excommunicated them in the first place. You can’t bully your way into something that’s not yours. Nor can you fix stupid. 😂
Wow I've found this video 27 minutes late though.But the video is amazing ^^ Keep making good videos
Story 1- You should thank the parents they did you a massive favour sending you to the grandparents Story 2- It’s not in the drain it’s already in the sewer he gonna break your heart and you know it ditch him before he ditches you and good luck.
All children deserve parents, but all parents dont deserve children.
-Some guy i dont know
Respectful handheld console
Story 1: kids are never the fault of lost dreams... people need to keep their damn legs closed if they dont want kids -_-
Story 1: WTF! How dare they abandon their child, completely mistreat them and then demand their inheritance from as far as I'm concerned their only family. But honestly I am happy that the OP ended up living with their grandparents as they probably got a better life even if they loved them.
Story 2: you should just break up with him and you could do so much better
Story 3: I'm sorry but if it makes you feel uncomfortable then don't go to the wedding. And I know that it would be terrible and you would feel guilty and so would I, but the brother obviously likes you and it is extremely weird.
Story 4: the OP’s girlfriend has a small point but it's not ok and she should've told you and you and your girlfriend should confront him.
Story 2: that girl needs someone to treat her better. That wierd fucking payback of "ima show you the pics I've been sent" hurt my heart. Girlie needs someone better
Story 4: get the boys, get the car keys, you know what to do.
On The Story 2 of course eventually one of you are going to move on during your break if your relationship sucks enough you need breaks it's not going to last
Is it just me or does anyone else see the Hulk on a flying motorcycle.🤣🤣🤣
Sounds like the group in story 4 don’t like op and are working as a team to split them up and rescue her.
Good stuff as always
I think I understand what is going on with the sister in story 3. So I was in a not so similar situation. So I used to hang out with my brothers and some friends when all of a sudden one day one of my brothers started to refuse to invite me to go out with them. I didn’t understand the issue and only found out when I encountered everyone out without me. Turns out my brother thought I was into his girlfriend so he started disliking me being around. His girlfriend and me knew each other longer than she knew him and he was always arguing because he believed that she was cheating on him with me.
With what I said above I believe OPs future brother in law like my brother believes that OPs boyfriend likes the sister so it is making him jealous causing the sister to not want the boyfriend be there and trying to separate them by putting his brother in the way which doesn’t work. The sister is probably trying to focus on her wedding and most likely avoiding a huge drama on her big day by refusing to have OPs boyfriend there.
Just a guess due to my experience with what happened with my brother.
hey, this is why you dont have kids at 17. ita not the op's fault you made a baby. Like the op said they didnt ask to be born, did they?
Nothing and I mean nothing is more important than your parents a funeral is about the last time you'll even see your parents I have a Heart of Stone to say they not in Portland have to attend their funeral
I'm more interested in hulk flying but yea a sad story
I wouldn’t attend the wedding at all, let alone be a bridesmaid. The sister can go suck eggs and her fiancé and his brother can learn that the bro can’t always get what he wants. That story really ticks me off - OP is not wrong in any way, whereas sis is showing what really matters to her, and it’s not her sister.
This is litterly so messed up and cruel in every way the OP should call the cops on his/her parents bc this is child abuse it is so messed up that it makes me so sick in the stomach
The first story has made me realise that their aren’t many good people anymore and the few good people are dying out so we need to cherish the good ones
Story 2: leave his ass, girl. you deserve better.
Good grief, the first story is just Married with Children if Al and Peggy were even WORSE parents!!!
Keep it up!
12:10 you can’t cheat if you broke up also if you want to stay together and still talk all the time why take a “break”
Story #2: I use this as a deflective method, but work on yourself. It is awesome that you motivated him, but without you being right there with him, you know?
Story 1: to be honest I understand why the parents were upset because they were only 17 so I get that. Not defending them of course what they did was wrong but just adding some perspective to the parents point of view
It’s a good day know that am I the jerk posted a vid
Story 1 : OP former father said that he was a mistake? Maybe that guy should realize that decades ago.
Story 1 like what the hell the sister was 4 when the boy was. 10 like what why does she need a room for privacy i did not have my own room until i was 10
The first second of the video I saw hulk on a motorcycle 💀
Sorry story 2 she's messed up thinking he s just gonna sit there and wait when you keep needing breaks he's obviously gone with your games
Basically: don’t have sex before you’re of age and graduated high school because otherwise you become Story 1 OP’s parents.
Good tip that a lot of people always over look. if you don't want to have a child, it's better to be safe than sorry to have protection doing the bedtime ritual
or at least wait until the menstrual cycle is about to end.
Yeah but usually in cases like this it’s in low income religious communities that either don’t teach sex ed or don’t follow their suggestions
Story 1: When the Parents kicked the OP out my head directly went to THATS ILLEGAL bc there is a law that children until 18 have a right to have a roof above their head so if i was the OP and learned that i would immediatly sue them. The realatitonship is already so rocky it wouldnt matter.
Not really. Had OP's parents just dumped him on the street to fend for himself, then it would've been. But he was given to his grandparents, so OP did have a roof to live under.
Sure, it was still a jerk move his parents made, but far from illegal.