Being poly or in open relationships is fine and everything but people want monogamous relationships too. I hate that people just assume because you're gay you just want to hook up with anything that has a pulse even while having a relationship. Personally I know for a fact I have no interest in an open relationships nor am I interested in sex with multiple partners, I want my relationships to be intimate between me and my partner nobody else.
This! I’m old fashion so I do think when people go into an open marriage something is struggling within the two partners themselves. It’s not a healthy relationship at the end of the day. I’ve seen it happen before in friends who did this and ended up breaking up in the end.
@@buddydew101 I don't have any personal experience to draw from but I understand what you mean. I just know how I feel when I think about it, its not a good feeling. I already struggle with self esteem and a partner telling me they want to hook up with other people would only make me doubt myself.
It took so long for everyone to figure out who they are and where we all belong. I spent so long thinking that the choices were Gay / Straight / Bi.. Happy that I now know I'm asexual homoromantic. No more pressure.
i've always been in monogamous relationships and i'm planning on keeping it that way and people should be okay with that. i've met so many people who simply don't understand it and are quick to judge me, telling me i must be the jealous type then; telling me monogamy is not natural & that eventually your partner will get bored & start looking elsewhere. i've honestly had it. everyone chooses the kind of relationship they want to be in & if an open relationship works for certain people, then i respect it. i've got absolutely nothing to say about it because it is not my relationship. i do not disagree with it, i simply do not want that for myself. sadly, i don't get the same respect back from people who are in poly/open relationships & i refuse society to choose for me. my parents have been married for 36 years in a very healthy, monogamous, happy marriage, and that's what i want for myself.
One of the things that irritates me the most is when people in open/poly relationships use that tired line “monogamous is not natural”. It’s perfectly natural for many people. I often think they use that line because they know they wouldn’t be able to handle monogamy.
Open relationships are definitely more common among LGBTQ+ couples because we don't have the strict societal limitations or religious influence bearing down on us all the time. I personally could only ever be monogamous because I prefer to have a constant source of stability in my life and I really lean on my partner when times are tough.
Me too. My partner and I were best friends for two years and then it just shifted to us dating and we get along fantastic and and that I don’t want to be in an open relationship. We’re super happy and I love being with just him.
Monogamous sexual relations go against our evolutionary biology. Humans are evolutionarily programmed to have sex with as many others as possible to further the species. Monogamy is a societal and religious construct. It's great if you chose to be monogamous, but we shouldn't talk negatively about those who choose otherwise. Surveys show close to 50% of married people cheat, and that doesn't account for those who do not admit to it, especially the married "straight" men who cheat with other men.
@@michaelortt9514 Men, perhaps, but not humans in general. That basically says men are animals, not in a good way, and don't have self-control, if you look at it that way, though.
You guys nailed it on the audacity of the assumptions about having an open marriage just because you have another person in a picture with you. That seriously exposes how people jump to ridiculous conclusions about others with little to go off of. I honestly can’t help but see person’s so willing to jump to that kind of accusation as being dangerously dramatic and revealing their own “perceptions of things”. Glad you guys can nip that in the bud like that.d
I am a marketer and I can confirm that including a CTA like "Like our video!" seriously increases the chance that people will press like. People don't need to be told what to do, it's just that liking a video is not intuitive. RUclips incentivizes you to watch more videos (because that's how they make money through ads), so they will suggest more videos to you everywhere, but will not remind you to like the video. So there's a much larger chance that you will just click on a random video than clicking on the thumbs up :)
I watch a female RUclipsr who lives with her male fiancé. Her best friend is always with them, probably more than 50% of the time. Never have I seen a comment asking if they have an open relationship.
A) maybe tell Crow some people need to be reminded of their power and that “repetition is the mother of skill.” B) PLEASE NO Rachel Maddo REFS - she’s a fake progressive who actually towed the corporate line that gave rump $5BILLION in free publicity in 2015-16 that got him elected while pissing on Bernie at the same time. When we all stand together we can have Canadian Healthcare or better and Stop the USA WALL ST HEALTH INSURANCE INC HOLOCAUST.
I'm a strait female but have had many gay male friends to me there really isn't much difference people are people i think you guys are so cute especially all cuddled up with Crow so cute. Be proud of who you are! I think you guys are so wonderful. I hope this doesn't sound too corny or offensive I don't mean it to be because I love you guys such a cool family
Open not open whatever works for you and your partner. Love the energy you both put out into the world. Thanks for always sharing and giving a glimpse into your life! Your journey over the years has been great and send you all the positive vibes and good health your way!
What a GREAT visit with you two! Matt is so animated and always ready to talk...the timer concept Blue tried so hard to enforce just adds to the joy we get to experience when you guys "present". Thanks for "opening" up!
@@Preppie-thirty actually its a common questions asked in most of their videos. Recently Blue posted a pic of them hanging out with Ethan and quite many comments speculated the same thing. He finally got tired of it I guess 🤷♂️
@@akmalhamzah1936 people that ask questions like that are just trolling and by feeding into them your not going to get them to stop, its better to just ignore them, i still kinda feel this is a clickbait video for extra views.
Don't know who needs to hear this, but an open marriage is not a marriage; it's a civil union. Marriage is sacramental, not instrumental. If you want to have an arrangement with certain legal rights, get a civil union. Marriage is more than that.
God i remember when your channel journey just started. I watched all the time never missed you guys. After a while I stopped watching so frequently and then not at all. I would decide to open up a vid once in a blue moon for to see your infectious charisma and love, and today is one of those days. Im so glad to see you guys still smiling and happy. Much Love friends
Perhaps it’s just none of our business. And they have a son. So it would be kinda awkward to answer that as he might have friends parents who watch. So just let them provide family content and leave their bedroom out of it. 🥳
@@dnl6478 Yes rt. Also I don't think it's anything about being awkward. Their life , their rules. Every single part of their life is not ours to have and pry into. Crow is blessed to have such wonderful parents ❤️ only love to Matt, blue 💙
You two bring much joy into my day! I love how much you love one another. I sure wish I had friends like you to hang with. Thanks for sharing a little if your life and love with the wider world.
Really enjoying the videos here in NSW Australia. Especially those with the chickens (chooks here) , Got a little flock myself. Fun guys with great attitude and commitment.
On the topic of LSS - some people forget to like the video or they don't know that it positively affects the channel. Likes and comments help creators!
I've even watching you two for a bit and couldn't place why each of you were familiar,until I saw a meme of Matt in KyleXY. Totally blew me away. Matt and Blue, I will even enjoy watching your family even more now.
You two make me laugh so much. My BF and I admire your fam. He would never sit for an interview, but he would for me. We're thinking about fatherhood, you guys give a good idea what it's like! Thanks for the positive example. Kevin and Christopher
Guys, Gypsum is a great clay breaker. Matt is right. Also using a seaweed and fish emulsion combo is a fertilizer (organic) / soil conditioner, that promotes micro organisms that helps plants grow stronger and produce better. Keep persevering all your efforts will pay off! “Treehouses?” “There weren’t any trees”. Love Blu’s comment.
I love you guys! It’s ok if I say that right? You just made ME smile! I so enjoyed your ghost town video! My sister and her husband live in Tucson and have been getting out and exploring different places of interest in the area. Two or three weeks before you posted your video I was talking to her and she was telling me about a ghost town they had visited. When Matt said he did further research after your adventure and started sharing the story behind the ghost town, I told my husband it sounded like the same town. It was just weird/coincidental! I will be seeing my sister in a couple weeks and will see if it is the same place. Absolutely brag about your son! It’s a fun, proud moment to watch your child do well at something and it’s important for them to know you are there supporting them and proud of them! Cheers to being fully vaccinated! It’s finally starting to feel like things are moving in the right direction and we will soon be back to enjoying time with friends and family and being able to hug one another! I’ve missed hugs! And on that note, take care! Love and HUGS!
For years, I have been following Matt since Kyle XY, now follow up your channel with both of you. You guys look great together. Best of luck with everything you guys do.
Your best in awhile!!! Will never forget Blue’s reaction to seeing his face when Matt was finished in the challenge!! Blue, you could just grab Matt really tight and squeeze hard til he stops squirming. Don’t let go until he lets out a big sigh and goes to sleep.
I think open relationships definitely are more prominent amongst gay men specifically. I would say its more prominent amongst lgbt in general bc they are more open to alternative relationship styles but it really seems more concentrated on men. Ive talked to a lot of men on dating apps and in my experience if you ask them what theyre looking for one of the first things they feel obligated to include is whether or not they want a monogamous relationship(or its in their bio)- which i feel like definitely isnt as common for straight couples, bc it would be more often assumed that the relationship would be monogamous
Personally, I've always thought that an open relationship was a rather selfish way to live. It's like wanting your safe, stable home life, but also the opportunity to just take up with whoever you want. Like an insurance policy. Sorry, I just don't find that a type of lifestyle I can be proud of living.
@@oxgree715 you're, correct. I am gay abstinent for 7 years, as I cant find monogamist man. But hey, its NYC. I don't knock anyone else. Ok all the best Shaun
Call me a bigot but i like old fashioned monogamy. I think they answer it clearly. I'm sorry You guys just refuse to accept it in order to feed your imagination. Remember thay have a young boy and their family clearly will watch and read comments. So be respectful.
@@oxgree715 I'm personally glad because every other couple I know it's in an open relationship, obviously theres nothing wrong w an open relationship if it work for them, I'm glad to see more monogamous couples since I feel more connected and relatable to monogamous couples and that's okay.
I was so happy when I ripped out all the grass at my house. No more mowing, no more trimming , no more brown spots from the dog. Grass is a very unnatural ground cover even though that's why we use it but if you look around grass likes to grow in clumps. Make your lives easier plant a native plant as a ground cover ask your nursery.
For me personally, I'd want a monogamous relationship. If people wanted an open relationship, why not stay single and be "friends with benefits"? Less people to hurt that way. But, you do you. I just don't understand it, because I know how destructive that kind of relationship could be.
Ur so right--from experience three way things will end up destroying their marriage. And, referring to marriage why not stay single if you intend to have an open relationship? I know I sound like Fred Flintstone but if you have kids you should not have open marriage for the sake of the kids.
"Friends with benefits" don't build a life together. And people don't get hurt, if there's an agreement. The point of having an open relationship is to kiss/hook up with another guys and still have a family. The main problem is: some people aren't ready to that kind of arrangement and accept it, just to satisfy their partners; this is how they get hurt. Sorry for my english (not my first language).
I'm sitting here listening to you talking about how you can't plant your veggies yet. This is why we need to spread awareness of all the great perennial vegetables that come back on their own every year. There are so many and you can be eating from the garden when it's still too cold to plant your annuals. One that is quickly becoming a favorite for me is sochan (Rudbeckia laciniata). It's productive and tasty both raw and cooked. :)
Oh my God I absolutely love you guys. You certainly do know how to make a person laugh one of those down deep belly shaking laughs. I get so excited when I know that your videos are going to be coming on. The only thing I wish is that when you were talking about the Garden or the trees or the backyard. That you would have shown us a little bit of how those look now so that we could see what you were talking about. I just think the two of you complement each other superbly. Thanks for everything you share with us I enjoy it immensely. Stay well and keep making videos that just really light up our lives. 💞 😉
As a gay man myself, it’s almost as people think that gay marriage is anything goes. I myself don’t see the point of marriage, if your going to bring others in your marriage. If that’s what your looking for, I say go for it. I was also curious if Hetro couples deal with the same bull..lol Perhaps some people hope your in a open marriage..lol I am not your traditional gay (I guess)because I am Christian, attend church for many years. I am open about my sexuality, and I believe in traditional relationships. I live watching your videos!
A word of advice. You're right to mix the compost into the soil, but I recommend investing in a small hand tiller such as a Mantis that is easy to control and is great for mixing compost into your heavy soil. It allows you to work mix it better than hand tools alone. Just don't do it right after heavy, soaking rain. Wait about three days unless you want to create a large brick. After mixing, water it heavily to help the soil settle as well as making it more attractive to things like earthworms.
I liked because you told me to. AND concerning the work in your yard, the boulders, and trees ... when you do things so well, people will take for granted that it was always that way ... and the mind doesn't see 'disorder' which is what makes people 'notice' ....
My Partner and I had an "open" relationship. No dating! mostly together but free to explore, we lasted almost 45 years until he passed at 76 four yrs ago. Married when it became legal!
i started watching because Matt was adorable but i think Blue has captured my interest a lot too! So on open marriage... be more definite on your answer ! some comments showed confusion still. But I believe you guys aren’t because you couldn’t have Crow and still have a marriage that was open. . It would totally screw a young person’s mind up....just my thoughts!
About the big boulders. . . I would imagine the reason that people do not comment is that they do not realise it was you guys who moved those boulders. I am certain they thought that either they had been moved by previous owners or that you had someone come in and do it for you., and also, they would not think you had moved those boulders yourselves due to the short time that you have had the property. Finally, people also don't comment where they are afraid of being wrong and then being embarrassed. All the previous reasons being "in the air", they would not be comfortable with guessing that you two had done all that work because of the high probability they would feel so stupid for saying something wrong. I know we all also hate the people who just won't shut up abput all the things they have done on their property as though they were searching for compliments. There you go, my therapy attempt for the day. Still loving Crow, such a blessing he is to you!!!!
It's been a while I didn't watch your videos. Always a good thing to do. Eye candies for the soul. One day my hubby and I will have our own property with just as many trees. So inspiring! Oh, y'all look swollen. I miss the gym. First shot in a few days! Yay!
Our old house the front and back yards were terrible. Well our landlord put seed down in the front and it took a long time and tons of watering to produce results.
Glad you pointed the liking of videos out.. i cant stand it when people say it and most of the time i refuse to like it when its pushed by the youtuber. i only like videos that i want to be liked. period
Hi when ever I planted trees or shrubs, I always use a lot of peat moss in bottom of the hole watered it a lot. I am sure your compost works great. Thanks guys take care.
Telling us to hit subscribe and like is a good reminder. I don't often think about hitting the buttons because I'm engrossed in the videos and ready for the next video. So no qualms in hearing the recommendation.
I love the subtlety of these guys!!! They don't kiss and tell about if or what they are or aren't doing in the bedroom. But they do make it very subtle what they aren't!!! "Assume" doesn't mean "does" and his winky eye to the percentage means they ain't part of it and... and, Matt's chuckle to not giving a shit (not his words, in so many words) what y'all think.... when he says he doesn't have to worry about anything... means they ain't. Where he says he doesn't have to "pay any consequences"... correct me if I'm wrong, but I don't think you could be in an open marriage and adopt a child. To me, this would be damaging to a child. And a foster system would not place a child into a situation like that. I could be wrong. But, that's also what I'm taking into thought when Matt says that facetiously.
My FWB is married to a woman and she and I are good friends and their kids have met me and are super cool and don’t know anything outside of that I’m their parents buddy and that’s it. It’s only unhealthy if you’re a neglectful parent
Blue you are hillarious, you make me lough so hard every time you do that @12:04 @15:49, and @22:12 Love your sit down talk kind of videos, I love you both.
I wish I could go outside and get some sun. I am in Australia and it is almost Winter here. Feeling the cold very intensely right now. Thanks for another great video. I get so excited every time I get a notification about a new one. Watching your vids helps to calm my anxiety. Lots of Love to the 3 of you from A cold, dreary place in Australia. ❤️❤️❤️🇦🇺
T, love Aussies. Their accents and attitudes appeal to me. When I read it's winter in Australia, it seems strange when it's gonna be in the 90s F here in Southeastern USA next week
If you wanna know, I frequently click like after being “told to.” But not so much because I was being told but because I was reminded to do something I wanted to in the first place. So yeah, without the reminder, there would have been plenty of times I forget to do it!
Hey, you forget that some of us are going into winter, so hold some of that summer exuberance back, just a bit for us down here in the Southern Hemisphere.Cheers.
Matt and Blue, I know you're both talking about being fully vaccinated and your marriage or everything on this video after that, so I'm proud of you, guys and thanks to your son, Crow!!
Been subscribed since the very beginning, since you told me to, lol . Love you story. My hubs and I are starting our surrogacy journey. We’ll look into adoption on the next one! You guys are great!
Dudes, I liked and subscribed because your videos made me feel happy and good. Focus on the content and then people will follow and engage. You guys just have the content that I crave.
Hello to both of you. I just discovered your RUclips chain. I watched a few of your past postings. So interesting. Thank you for sharing your lives with us. Have a great day.
We have a place in Upstate NY and have the same tree planting issue. That clay soil SUUUCKS to dig. I have planted about 40 "little baby trees" and it is A LOT of hard digging. Lol. Go Blue!
I miss seeing Matt dance for a few minutes, from time to time, in your videos. He's such - such! - a great dancer. (Your "Hello Fresh" segment was the best you guys have ever done: creative and well edited. The show-me-why-it's-great part was better than just a tell-me-why-I-should-get-it plug.)
I'm so confused. The title of the video is about an open marriage, and like 95% of the video has nothing to do with that, and then it's never actually stated whether or not they are. I am confusion lol
My take was Matt was rightfully dismissive of the questions/comments about it, basically pointing out people would probably not be questioning their monogamy if they were straight. They intentionally didn't give a flat-out answer but were sarcastic about it, implying not only is it maybe none of your business but probably that they don't actually care if you wrongfully presume they are open because it wouldn't be shameful either. You could compare it to a straight guy refusing to flat out deny gay rumors. Some are comfortable enough with themselves that they don't care if you presume the wrong thing, feel it's not your business, point out that their friendships shouldn't inspire such rumors, and perhaps also makes sarcastic statements about it. Plus a lot of people will just believe what they want even more strongly each time you deny it anyway.
I always like your videos. You both are awesome. I been sad the last three weeks. I lost two of my Uncles. One is my Dad's brother. The other is my sister's husband. You guys make me smile.
i was strictly in a monogamous relationship until i tried being in an open relationship. i find it more suitable for me. eases my anxiety and at the same time doesnt drive me paranoid or crazy thinking what he does when we are not together. as long as you have agreed on boundaries (no prioritizing others over us, no romantic entanglement, practice safe sex, etc) i think this is an alternative you can explore
I do need to be reminded to Like videos because I always forget and I also don't remember how important it is to creators. So, I appreciate your reminders 🙂
I don't think either of you could handle an open marriage. I think both of you would be jealous and Blue would draw blood. That's not a bad thing. You guys personify relationship goals. But, it is fun to cut loose once in a while. lol. I'm definitely jealous of Matt.
Being poly or in open relationships is fine and everything but people want monogamous relationships too. I hate that people just assume because you're gay you just want to hook up with anything that has a pulse even while having a relationship. Personally I know for a fact I have no interest in an open relationships nor am I interested in sex with multiple partners, I want my relationships to be intimate between me and my partner nobody else.
love it, but are they in now in an open marriage or not?
This! I’m old fashion so I do think when people go into an open marriage something is struggling within the two partners themselves. It’s not a healthy relationship at the end of the day. I’ve seen it happen before in friends who did this and ended up breaking up in the end.
@@st3n007 From what they said in the video, no.
@@buddydew101 I don't have any personal experience to draw from but I understand what you mean. I just know how I feel when I think about it, its not a good feeling. I already struggle with self esteem and a partner telling me they want to hook up with other people would only make me doubt myself.
It took so long for everyone to figure out who they are and where we all belong. I spent so long thinking that the choices were Gay / Straight / Bi.. Happy that I now know I'm asexual homoromantic. No more pressure.
i've always been in monogamous relationships and i'm planning on keeping it that way and people should be okay with that. i've met so many people who simply don't understand it and are quick to judge me, telling me i must be the jealous type then; telling me monogamy is not natural & that eventually your partner will get bored & start looking elsewhere.
i've honestly had it. everyone chooses the kind of relationship they want to be in & if an open relationship works for certain people, then i respect it. i've got absolutely nothing to say about it because it is not my relationship. i do not disagree with it, i simply do not want that for myself. sadly, i don't get the same respect back from people who are in poly/open relationships & i refuse society to choose for me. my parents have been married for 36 years in a very healthy, monogamous, happy marriage, and that's what i want for myself.
I think pple should go back to leaving each other alone and maybe keeping some stuff to themselves
Agreed!
One of the things that irritates me the most is when people in open/poly relationships use that tired line “monogamous is not natural”. It’s perfectly natural for many people. I often think they use that line because they know they wouldn’t be able to handle monogamy.
Open relationships are definitely more common among LGBTQ+ couples because we don't have the strict societal limitations or religious influence bearing down on us all the time. I personally could only ever be monogamous because I prefer to have a constant source of stability in my life and I really lean on my partner when times are tough.
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Well said!
Me too. My partner and I were best friends for two years and then it just shifted to us dating and we get along fantastic and and that I don’t want to be in an open relationship. We’re super happy and I love being with just him.
Monogamous sexual relations go against our evolutionary biology. Humans are evolutionarily programmed to have sex with as many others as possible to further the species. Monogamy is a societal and religious construct. It's great if you chose to be monogamous, but we shouldn't talk negatively about those who choose otherwise. Surveys show close to 50% of married people cheat, and that doesn't account for those who do not admit to it, especially the married "straight" men who cheat with other men.
@@michaelortt9514 Men, perhaps, but not humans in general. That basically says men are animals, not in a good way, and don't have self-control, if you look at it that way, though.
You guys nailed it on the audacity of the assumptions about having an open marriage just because you have another person in a picture with you. That seriously exposes how people jump to ridiculous conclusions about others with little to go off of. I honestly can’t help but see person’s so willing to jump to that kind of accusation as being dangerously dramatic and revealing their own “perceptions of things”. Glad you guys can nip that in the bud like that.d
I am a marketer and I can confirm that including a CTA like "Like our video!" seriously increases the chance that people will press like. People don't need to be told what to do, it's just that liking a video is not intuitive. RUclips incentivizes you to watch more videos (because that's how they make money through ads), so they will suggest more videos to you everywhere, but will not remind you to like the video. So there's a much larger chance that you will just click on a random video than clicking on the thumbs up :)
I watch a female RUclipsr who lives with her male fiancé. Her best friend is always with them, probably more than 50% of the time. Never have I seen a comment asking if they have an open relationship.
Crow seems so mature in his thoughts and conduct. You guys are nurturing a responsible human👍
A) maybe tell Crow some people need to be reminded of their power and that “repetition is the mother of skill.”
B) PLEASE NO Rachel Maddo REFS - she’s a fake progressive who actually towed the corporate line that gave rump $5BILLION in free publicity in 2015-16 that got him elected while pissing on Bernie at the same time.
When we all stand together we can have Canadian Healthcare or better and Stop the USA WALL ST HEALTH INSURANCE INC HOLOCAUST.
I'm a strait female but have had many gay male friends to me there really isn't much difference people are people i think you guys are so cute especially all cuddled up with Crow so cute. Be proud of who you are! I think you guys are so wonderful. I hope this doesn't sound too corny or offensive I don't mean it to be because I love you guys such a cool family
Open not open whatever works for you and your partner. Love the energy you both put out into the world. Thanks for always sharing and giving a glimpse into your life! Your journey over the years has been great and send you all the positive vibes and good health your way!
What a GREAT visit with you two! Matt is so animated and always ready to talk...the timer concept Blue tried so hard to enforce just adds to the joy we get to experience when you guys "present". Thanks for "opening" up!
Their click bait title starts at 15:00 . And I’m Still unsure if they’re in an open relationship or not
They most probably aren't.
why would they even mention it then, none of us were thinking it?
@@Preppie-thirty actually its a common questions asked in most of their videos. Recently Blue posted a pic of them hanging out with Ethan and quite many comments speculated the same thing. He finally got tired of it I guess 🤷♂️
@@akmalhamzah1936 people that ask questions like that are just trolling and by feeding into them your not going to get them to stop, its better to just ignore them, i still kinda feel this is a clickbait video for extra views.
@@Preppie-thirty kinda? It is click bait.
Oh Blue, watching you trying to get words in and your expressions while Matt is talking is priceless and so darn cute.
Don't know who needs to hear this, but an open marriage is not a marriage; it's a civil union. Marriage is sacramental, not instrumental. If you want to have an arrangement with certain legal rights, get a civil union. Marriage is more than that.
@Speedxz Song they are not an open relationship. It's just clickbait.
@Speedxz Song They're married with a kid. And yes Bora ÜNAL is right, the title is just clickbait. :)
The problem with getting old is that you can still do everything you did when you were 20 it just takes 3 times longer to recover.
Oh pls dont tell me this, I'm already 40! hahaha
So true. My mind thinks it's 20 but my body says F**K you. :)
God i remember when your channel journey just started. I watched all the time never missed you guys. After a while I stopped watching so frequently and then not at all. I would decide to open up a vid once in a blue moon for to see your infectious charisma and love, and today is one of those days. Im so glad to see you guys still smiling and happy. Much Love friends
There is a big difference between love and sex. That is the discussion that we need.
Good job Matt and Blue on moving the boulders! Here is your gold star ⭐️
14:40 Ref to title for those who came for that.
For others, enjoy the wholesome video from this gem of a fam 😘❤️
wait a second, they didn't really answer the question though. Are they in an open marriage or not? lol
Perhaps it’s just none of our business. And they have a son. So it would be kinda awkward to answer that as he might have friends parents who watch. So just let them provide family content and leave their bedroom out of it. 🥳
@@dnl6478 Yes rt. Also I don't think it's anything about being awkward. Their life , their rules. Every single part of their life is not ours to have and pry into. Crow is blessed to have such wonderful parents ❤️ only love to Matt, blue 💙
@@Sadude13 they probably are. I haven’t met a gay couple that isn’t open yet. Tbh idk how they do it. Jealousy would kill me
@@patoteto2 Are you meeting these gay couples on Twitter and Instagram? That's a bold generalization
You two bring much joy into my day! I love how much you love one another. I sure wish I had friends like you to hang with. Thanks for sharing a little if your life and love with the wider world.
Hi Matt and Blue. How are you all doing my amazing friends and family? I love and care about and appreciate you all very much.
*Matt throwing blue of the stool*
"So after murdering my husband I want to tell you about Hello Fresh..."
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OMG! Matt’s energy in this video is off the charts. Whatever he’s on I need some of that! GREAT VIDEO, guys. Love you both.
You two , you can tell you're still in love. the sparkle in the eyes!
Matt's sunburn makes him part of the X-Men
How? Lol
@@chadboyd1713 of course Matt being Matt, it's on his back and not on his chest, silly boy
Really enjoying the videos here in NSW Australia. Especially those with the chickens (chooks here) , Got a little flock myself. Fun guys with great attitude and commitment.
@@chadboyd1713 i think it's because the sunburn looked like an X
On the topic of LSS - some people forget to like the video or they don't know that it positively affects the channel. Likes and comments help creators!
I've even watching you two for a bit and couldn't place why each of you were familiar,until I saw a meme of Matt in KyleXY. Totally blew me away. Matt and Blue, I will even enjoy watching your family even more now.
Loved that show!!
You two make me laugh so much. My BF and I admire your fam. He would never sit for an interview, but he would for me. We're thinking about fatherhood, you guys give a good idea what it's like! Thanks for the positive example. Kevin and Christopher
Guys, Gypsum is a great clay breaker. Matt is right. Also using a seaweed and fish emulsion combo is a fertilizer (organic) / soil conditioner, that promotes micro organisms that helps plants grow stronger and produce better. Keep persevering all your efforts will pay off! “Treehouses?” “There weren’t any trees”. Love Blu’s comment.
Blue's facial expressions are the best. I couldn't stop laughing. Your interactions are wonderful.
I love you guys! It’s ok if I say that right? You just made ME smile! I so enjoyed your ghost town video! My sister and her husband live in Tucson and have been getting out and exploring different places of interest in the area. Two or three weeks before you posted your video I was talking to her and she was telling me about a ghost town they had visited. When Matt said he did further research after your adventure and started sharing the story behind the ghost town, I told my husband it sounded like the same town. It was just weird/coincidental! I will be seeing my sister in a couple weeks and will see if it is the same place. Absolutely brag about your son! It’s a fun, proud moment to watch your child do well at something and it’s important for them to know you are there supporting them and proud of them! Cheers to being fully vaccinated! It’s finally starting to feel like things are moving in the right direction and we will soon be back to enjoying time with friends and family and being able to hug one another! I’ve missed hugs! And on that note, take care! Love and HUGS!
For years, I have been following Matt since Kyle XY, now follow up your channel with both of you. You guys look great together. Best of luck with everything you guys do.
This is a very comfortable chaos, I must say.
Blue posing as Crow is hilarious. Now I wanna see them together during Crow's baseball game 😂
Your best in awhile!!! Will never forget Blue’s reaction to seeing his face when Matt was finished in the challenge!!
Blue, you could just grab Matt really tight and squeeze hard til he stops squirming. Don’t let go until he lets out a big sigh and goes to sleep.
I’m gay and an open relationship is not for me
I think open relationships definitely are more prominent amongst gay men specifically. I would say its more prominent amongst lgbt in general bc they are more open to alternative relationship styles but it really seems more concentrated on men. Ive talked to a lot of men on dating apps and in my experience if you ask them what theyre looking for one of the first things they feel obligated to include is whether or not they want a monogamous relationship(or its in their bio)- which i feel like definitely isnt as common for straight couples, bc it would be more often assumed that the relationship would be monogamous
"This is how we ramble for ever"... And he goes back immediately to rambling
Personally, I've always thought that an open relationship was a rather selfish way to live. It's like wanting your safe, stable home life, but also the opportunity to just take up with whoever you want. Like an insurance policy. Sorry, I just don't find that a type of lifestyle I can be proud of living.
I remember how good he hit the ball back when he was 3 !!! Was actually hoping he would play ball. You go Crow
Your title gave me anxiety. So glad that you are not open relationship
But they didnt say that?
Why are you so glad? If they decide they want that, it's totally fine
@@oxgree715 you're, correct. I am gay abstinent for 7 years, as I cant find monogamist man. But hey, its NYC. I don't knock anyone else. Ok all the best Shaun
Call me a bigot but i like old fashioned monogamy. I think they answer it clearly. I'm sorry You guys just refuse to accept it in order to feed your imagination. Remember thay have a young boy and their family clearly will watch and read comments. So be respectful.
@@oxgree715 I'm personally glad because every other couple I know it's in an open relationship, obviously theres nothing wrong w an open relationship if it work for them, I'm glad to see more monogamous couples since I feel more connected and relatable to monogamous couples and that's okay.
Almost tripped when I saw the title
I was so happy when I ripped out all the grass at my house. No more mowing, no more trimming , no more brown spots from the dog. Grass is a very unnatural ground cover even though that's why we use it but if you look around grass likes to grow in clumps. Make your lives easier plant a native plant as a ground cover ask your nursery.
Oh and Big thanks for planting all those trees 💚 Kudos to relocating all the boulders ⭐⭐ to you both
Peace to the world, lots of love ❤️
For me personally, I'd want a monogamous relationship. If people wanted an open relationship, why not stay single and be "friends with benefits"? Less people to hurt that way. But, you do you. I just don't understand it, because I know how destructive that kind of relationship could be.
Ur so right--from experience three way things will end up destroying their marriage. And, referring to marriage why not stay single if you intend to have an open relationship? I know I sound like Fred Flintstone but if you have kids you should not have open marriage for the sake of the kids.
"Friends with benefits" don't build a life together. And people don't get hurt, if there's an agreement.
The point of having an open relationship is to kiss/hook up with another guys and still have a family. The main problem is: some people aren't ready to that kind of arrangement and accept it, just to satisfy their partners; this is how they get hurt. Sorry for my english (not my first language).
I'm sitting here listening to you talking about how you can't plant your veggies yet. This is why we need to spread awareness of all the great perennial vegetables that come back on their own every year. There are so many and you can be eating from the garden when it's still too cold to plant your annuals. One that is quickly becoming a favorite for me is sochan (Rudbeckia laciniata). It's productive and tasty both raw and cooked. :)
Oh my God I absolutely love you guys. You certainly do know how to make a person laugh one of those down deep belly shaking laughs. I get so excited when I know that your videos are going to be coming on. The only thing I wish is that when you were talking about the Garden or the trees or the backyard. That you would have shown us a little bit of how those look now so that we could see what you were talking about. I just think the two of you complement each other superbly. Thanks for everything you share with us I enjoy it immensely. Stay well and keep making videos that just really light up our lives. 💞 😉
Thanks guys for sharing this video. It hit home for me and needed to hear this today. It’s a balance technique we all have to keep at it.
Here’s your gold star ⭐️
As a gay man myself, it’s almost as people think that gay marriage is anything goes. I myself don’t see the point of marriage, if your going to bring others in your marriage. If that’s what your looking for, I say go for it. I was also curious if Hetro couples deal with the same bull..lol Perhaps some people hope your in a open marriage..lol I am not your traditional gay (I guess)because I am Christian, attend church for many years. I am open about my sexuality, and I believe in traditional relationships. I live watching your videos!
I can't imagine how the status of your marriage would be my business.
Agree as for myself I enjoy monogamy so to each his own ! Whom I to judge not my interest as long I get respect for my Joyce respect is received !
I enjoy an air of mystery, too. I was worried it'd be a TMI-moment.
An open anything would not work for me. No play together. I’m very liberal, but I’m highly conservative when it comes to relationships.
People tell people to like, subscribe etc because it's called a call to action. Not intended to tell people what to do. Great video.
Top notch, never better. Great news on Crow finding his happy place at home plate. Big update from the Department of Agricultural so thanks for that.
Matt's energy is overflowing. I love it haha
A word of advice. You're right to mix the compost into the soil, but I recommend investing in a small hand tiller such as a Mantis that is easy to control and is great for mixing compost into your heavy soil. It allows you to work mix it better than hand tools alone. Just don't do it right after heavy, soaking rain. Wait about three days unless you want to create a large brick. After mixing, water it heavily to help the soil settle as well as making it more attractive to things like earthworms.
Finally we get to see Blue in his faded Levi’s.
Now, if only we could see him out of them... 🤔😍
@@negative.infinity Blue butt is quality butt.
I liked because you told me to. AND concerning the work in your yard, the boulders, and trees ... when you do things so well, people will take for granted that it was always that way ... and the mind doesn't see 'disorder' which is what makes people 'notice' ....
RUclips fails to show me Matt and Blue's videos, so I am VERY happy to be seeing them, again!
My Partner and I had an "open" relationship. No dating! mostly together but free to explore, we lasted almost 45 years until he passed at 76 four yrs ago. Married when it became legal!
i started watching because Matt was adorable but i think Blue has captured my interest a lot too! So on open marriage...
be more definite on your answer ! some comments showed confusion still.
But I believe you guys aren’t because you couldn’t have Crow and still have a marriage that was open. . It would totally screw a young person’s mind up....just my thoughts!
About the big boulders. . . I would imagine the reason that people do not comment is that they do not realise it was you guys who moved those boulders. I am certain they thought that either they had been moved by previous owners or that you had someone come in and do it for you., and also, they would not think you had moved those boulders yourselves due to the short time that you have had the property. Finally, people also don't comment where they are afraid of being wrong and then being embarrassed. All the previous reasons being "in the air", they would not be comfortable with guessing that you two had done all that work because of the high probability they would feel so stupid for saying something wrong. I know we all also hate the people who just won't shut up abput all the things they have done on their property as though they were searching for compliments.
There you go, my therapy attempt for the day. Still loving Crow, such a blessing he is to you!!!!
It's been a while I didn't watch your videos. Always a good thing to do. Eye candies for the soul. One day my hubby and I will have our own property with just as many trees. So inspiring! Oh, y'all look swollen. I miss the gym. First shot in a few days! Yay!
You guys are so blessed - so be nicer to each other !!!
Our old house the front and back yards were terrible. Well our landlord put seed down in the front and it took a long time and tons of watering to produce results.
Glad you pointed the liking of videos out.. i cant stand it when people say it and most of the time i refuse to like it when its pushed by the youtuber. i only like videos that i want to be liked. period
Hi when ever I planted trees or shrubs, I always use a lot of peat moss in bottom of the hole watered it a lot. I am sure your compost works great. Thanks guys take care.
15 minutes into this and I was wanting to see all the landscaping...
Me too!!! Especially, as they were mentioning it.
@Philippe BELLICAUD no.
Love you guys. Blue’s unrestrained laugh makes my day.
In order to deal with the sunburn if if did happen is to scrub tomatoes of the area it help release the pain and help recover quickly....
I am already a subscriber, but I like it when you remind us to like each video because it reminds me. An admirer in NYC
I actually subscribed because of this video. Not because you haven't asked me to before, it's because you two seemed so much more natural.
You guys are silly... But, still deeply in Love... Thanks for sharing your lives with us. !!!!! It brightens my week..
Clicked sooooo fast when I saw the title
Im a thirst b and i deserve Cercie's walk of shame
@@TheSUGA1202 girl same 😂😂💔
I love you Matt and Blue 🥰. I'm a fan from the Philippines.
“I like that boulder. That’s a nice boulder.”
Telling us to hit subscribe and like is a good reminder. I don't often think about hitting the buttons because I'm engrossed in the videos and ready for the next video. So no qualms in hearing the recommendation.
I love the subtlety of these guys!!! They don't kiss and tell about if or what they are or aren't doing in the bedroom. But they do make it very subtle what they aren't!!! "Assume" doesn't mean "does" and his winky eye to the percentage means they ain't part of it and... and, Matt's chuckle to not giving a shit (not his words, in so many words) what y'all think.... when he says he doesn't have to worry about anything... means they ain't. Where he says he doesn't have to "pay any consequences"... correct me if I'm wrong, but I don't think you could be in an open marriage and adopt a child. To me, this would be damaging to a child. And a foster system would not place a child into a situation like that. I could be wrong. But, that's also what I'm taking into thought when Matt says that facetiously.
My FWB is married to a woman and she and I are good friends and their kids have met me and are super cool and don’t know anything outside of that I’m their parents buddy and that’s it. It’s only unhealthy if you’re a neglectful parent
I think you were more excited about all the mirrors around the gym than the actual workout.🤣Blue knows his husband.❤
Truthfully in definitely not into open relationship. If i married, i stick only one..
Blue you are hillarious, you make me lough so hard every time you do that @12:04
@15:49, and @22:12
Love your sit down talk kind of videos, I love you both.
Love you guys and your channel. You bring joy to so many - thank you for that! 😊
I’m interested in that record collection in the background…can you do a video on your favorite records?
I wish I could go outside and get some sun. I am in Australia and it is almost Winter here. Feeling the cold very intensely right now.
Thanks for another great video. I get so excited every time I get a notification about a new one. Watching your vids helps to calm my anxiety. Lots of Love to the 3 of you from A cold, dreary place in Australia. ❤️❤️❤️🇦🇺
T, love Aussies. Their accents and attitudes appeal to me. When I read it's winter in Australia, it seems strange when it's gonna be in the 90s F here in Southeastern USA next week
If you wanna know, I frequently click like after being “told to.” But not so much because I was being told but because I was reminded to do something I wanted to in the first place. So yeah, without the reminder, there would have been plenty of times I forget to do it!
Hey, you forget that some of us are going into winter, so hold some of that summer exuberance back, just a bit for us down here in the Southern Hemisphere.Cheers.
Matt and Blue, I know you're both talking about being fully vaccinated and your marriage or everything on this video after that, so I'm proud of you, guys and thanks to your son, Crow!!
Been subscribed since the very beginning, since you told me to, lol . Love you story. My hubs and I are starting our surrogacy journey. We’ll look into adoption on the next one! You guys are great!
Dudes, I liked and subscribed because your videos made me feel happy and good. Focus on the content and then people will follow and engage. You guys just have the content that I crave.
Hello to both of you. I just discovered your RUclips chain. I watched a few of your past postings. So interesting. Thank you for sharing your lives with us. Have a great day.
We have a place in Upstate NY and have the same tree planting issue. That clay soil SUUUCKS to dig. I have planted about 40 "little baby trees" and it is A LOT of hard digging. Lol. Go Blue!
Swwweeeeet posing there at the end, Blue! Love you guys! You're the "feel good duo"...Because you always make me feel good!
I miss seeing Matt dance for a few minutes, from time to time, in your videos. He's such - such! - a great dancer. (Your "Hello Fresh" segment was the best you guys have ever done: creative and well edited. The show-me-why-it's-great part was better than just a tell-me-why-I-should-get-it plug.)
You guys are just a little bit of happiness in my life!
Thanks for all the love ❤ Sending it right back to you three plus fur/feather babies. And most importantly, Peace to the world ✌
I'm so confused. The title of the video is about an open marriage, and like 95% of the video has nothing to do with that, and then it's never actually stated whether or not they are. I am confusion lol
They're not
Thank you. I felt like they said they are. Blue said "Our open marriage"
This comment helped clear it up for me, thanks. I was actually kinda bummed when Blue said "our open marriage".
My take was Matt was rightfully dismissive of the questions/comments about it, basically pointing out people would probably not be questioning their monogamy if they were straight. They intentionally didn't give a flat-out answer but were sarcastic about it, implying not only is it maybe none of your business but probably that they don't actually care if you wrongfully presume they are open because it wouldn't be shameful either.
You could compare it to a straight guy refusing to flat out deny gay rumors. Some are comfortable enough with themselves that they don't care if you presume the wrong thing, feel it's not your business, point out that their friendships shouldn't inspire such rumors, and perhaps also makes sarcastic statements about it.
Plus a lot of people will just believe what they want even more strongly each time you deny it anyway.
I love you both! I would love to have you both and your amazing son as friends! ! Such good, kind humans! You make me laugh and smile! Thanks
I always like your videos. You both are awesome. I been sad the last three weeks. I lost two of my Uncles. One is my Dad's brother. The other is my sister's husband. You guys make me smile.
i was strictly in a monogamous relationship until i tried being in an open relationship. i find it more suitable for me. eases my anxiety and at the same time doesnt drive me paranoid or crazy thinking what he does when we are not together. as long as you have agreed on boundaries (no prioritizing others over us, no romantic entanglement, practice safe sex, etc) i think this is an alternative you can explore
I do need to be reminded to Like videos because I always forget and I also don't remember how important it is to creators. So, I appreciate your reminders 🙂
I don't think either of you could handle an open marriage. I think both of you would be jealous and Blue would draw blood. That's not a bad thing. You guys personify relationship goals. But, it is fun to cut loose once in a while. lol. I'm definitely jealous of Matt.