Omo i really feel for this lady, i am so worried for her..5 years ! No flowers, trad cloth, no picture ahh.. let's even say its trauma, is this how the trauma will be showing up at every joyful moments? My head is paining me sef.
He’s married to someone else and he doesn’t want it to get out that he is getting married to her. There’s nothing else 😂. A man that loves you and that you’ve been with for that long, should be happy to agree with you to an extent to do your wedding as you wish.
“You guys look great together” will not put people in trouble. Are you happy? Is he in love with you? does he respect you? Sis! Better be honest with yourself. A bad marriage is worse than the feeling you are feeling right now. If you have to take your L, take it now than later.
I think that the guy feels guilty about having a fun wedding when his Mum is no more. He needs to ask himself if his Mum will want him to be sad on this day or if she’d be dancing from heaven. He needs to know it’s OK to celebrate and remember her during the process.
My friend used strong head to marry a man like this. He didn't let her invite any of her friends to her wedding, only two of his friends were present. They went to court to sign documents. No lunch, no party, nothing after. The suffering she has suffered. It took her three years of begging to convince him to move to a house from his bachelor pad, he's now threatening that he doesn't want to have children-- after rushing her for years to marry nitori children. So this lady's best bet is to calmly return his ring. How can you be a whole doctor, getting married in the corner of a living room like a lizard. Abeg. Something's not adding up, and she best figure it out before she marries him.
Thank God FK said what's on my mind, he doesn't want to marry her ohhhhh. You've been compromising Sis! His mother's death is just an excuse to show that his mind no dey, God!!!!
Nah, that guy doesn't want to marry her. Why would he be bothered about what you wear etc. It's affordable for both of you so why is he seeing everything as an issue??? She shouldn't be in a hurry to marry him either. Postpone the date indefinitely and take a break.
Hmmm if youre reading, pls take a deep breath. I have an idea what wedding prep confusion is. Youll really be looking forward to being married but pls, pause and explore to get to the root of all these. Dig deep pls. Issues stemming from it may bot completely go away
You Ladies said it better than me!!! I think he's being selfish!!! She has already compromised by having a small wedding. He is trying to make this experience miserable. And I'm not sure if this is the person she should be tying the rest of her life too. If the one day she has been preparing for the longest time he's just wanting to get the day over and done with. Tbh it doesn't even sound like he even wants to get married .... Sis don't compromise! You deserve to feel special and happy on your wedding day. If he can't understand that than i think a frank conversation is needed. Does he want to still get married to you?? He sounds emotionally unavailable.... and selfish.
I think it’s very obvious that she’s been compromising the wholeeeee relationship 🤣now it’s loudddd
Omo i really feel for this lady, i am so worried for her..5 years !
No flowers, trad cloth, no picture ahh.. let's even say its trauma, is this how the trauma will be showing up at every joyful moments? My head is paining me sef.
If she marries him she will see shege
@@joysreality shegerege
This wedding thing is personal to FK "So which other time can my dress be flashy" 😅
He’s married to someone else and he doesn’t want it to get out that he is getting married to her. There’s nothing else 😂. A man that loves you and that you’ve been with for that long, should be happy to agree with you to an extent to do your wedding as you wish.
The title alone you already know this is going to be a very empowering episode.
Thank God you're in the US. there are private investigators if you really want to know the truth. 5 years long sha but such is life
dyggggg
Very informative. I'd love to hear where she shared the details and multiple parts of her journey- will look her up.
This was so enlightening, loved how detailed it was!
Thank you for coming back Kunbi❤️
“You guys look great together” will not put people in trouble. Are you happy? Is he in love with you? does he respect you? Sis! Better be honest with yourself. A bad marriage is worse than the feeling you are feeling right now. If you have to take your L, take it now than later.
off topic. Production team, wa Gwarn fi lighting?? Don’t do my girls dirty.lol
Interesting and detailed description on the journey of IVF.
Jola ooo, what an unsafe space 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 Absolutely Hilarious 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
A very informative episode. Loved it!❤
This unsafe space 😭😂😂😂😂. Jola I love you still🫵🏾😂
I think that the guy feels guilty about having a fun wedding when his Mum is no more. He needs to ask himself if his Mum will want him to be sad on this day or if she’d be dancing from heaven. He needs to know it’s OK to celebrate and remember her during the process.
The unsafe space in this episode 😂😂
My friend used strong head to marry a man like this. He didn't let her invite any of her friends to her wedding, only two of his friends were present. They went to court to sign documents. No lunch, no party, nothing after. The suffering she has suffered. It took her three years of begging to convince him to move to a house from his bachelor pad, he's now threatening that he doesn't want to have children-- after rushing her for years to marry nitori children. So this lady's best bet is to calmly return his ring. How can you be a whole doctor, getting married in the corner of a living room like a lizard. Abeg. Something's not adding up, and she best figure it out before she marries him.
The thing is the lady knows he wants her to call the wedding off but she doesn't want to.
I bet he is already married
Thank God FK said what's on my mind, he doesn't want to marry her ohhhhh.
You've been compromising Sis!
His mother's death is just an excuse to show that his mind no dey, God!!!!
But have we thought of the fact that the guy in question may need therapy?
Nah, that guy doesn't want to marry her. Why would he be bothered about what you wear etc. It's affordable for both of you so why is he seeing everything as an issue??? She shouldn't be in a hurry to marry him either. Postpone the date indefinitely and take a break.
FK is so beautiful
Hmmm if youre reading, pls take a deep breath. I have an idea what wedding prep confusion is. Youll really be looking forward to being married but pls, pause and explore to get to the root of all these. Dig deep pls. Issues stemming from it may bot completely go away
He literally hates her lmao and she should run
And maybe she should watch greys anatomy 🤣he might be cheating🙏🏿
Lol... He's mom died before he started dating you. Probably what he wants is for her to break up first
My guy doesn't want to marry her for sure so he is acting out irrationally and trying to force her to call off the wedding.
You are right
You Ladies said it better than me!!!
I think he's being selfish!!! She has already compromised by having a small wedding. He is trying to make this experience miserable. And I'm not sure if this is the person she should be tying the rest of her life too. If the one day she has been preparing for the longest time he's just wanting to get the day over and done with. Tbh it doesn't even sound like he even wants to get married ....
Sis don't compromise! You deserve to feel special and happy on your wedding day. If he can't understand that than i think a frank conversation is needed. Does he want to still get married to you?? He sounds emotionally unavailable.... and selfish.
Jola is so funny 😭😭😭😭
I hope this babe has returned his ring though
I need the girl to give us feedback about the outcome of this story.
Is she sure he isn’t married else where?
Get out of that vehicle before it goes up in flames. Save yourself the agony.