Money Mindsets Needed In A Relationships & Marriage | Kingsley Okonkwo & mildred kingsley-okonkwo

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  • Опубликовано: 4 дек 2024

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  • @glorysalami1792
    @glorysalami1792 2 года назад +57

    Thank you so much for this teaching even though l am old in marriage l never heard this way you both are great councilors in marriage continue please in this teaching

  • @seagreenmedia3909
    @seagreenmedia3909 2 года назад +23

    My Role model to talk about anywhere i go, most times people usually ask me who is this pastor Kingsley okonkwo i like talking about !
    I just smile and ask them to go on RUclips and search for him,
    And most times the come thank me later for the messages

  • @lizzyfresh07
    @lizzyfresh07 2 года назад +27

    On the joint account point, I want a joint account for bills, groceries, house needs, etc; another joint account for savings; then an account for me as a wife to buy my personal stuff, and an account for him as a husband to buy his personal stuff. And we’ll agree on what percentages of our income should go into these four accounts in total. Speaking as a single lady, waiting for God to send me on my marriage assignment soon. Thank you Lord!

    • @eileenwatt8283
      @eileenwatt8283 2 года назад +4

      What about your retirement and investing for the future. Savings gets depleted. You have to invest so the principal multiples. As a single woman start doing those savings and investing now and look for a man who is doing the same. Never get with a financially illiterate man they will spend their money and yours too.
      If a man has no bank account but walk around with substantial amount of money in his pocket is heading for pauper street.
      People who are financially literate don't walk around with loads of cash.

    • @lizzyfresh07
      @lizzyfresh07 2 года назад +2

      @@eileenwatt8283 I already have retirement and investments covered. He can add to it depending on what he is coming into the marriage with. The more the merrier.

    • @InspireVation
      @InspireVation 2 года назад +5

      After marriage I suggested a joint account to my hubby but his response was no. His reason was that I don't work and he can't be the only one putting money into the account. He said to wait until I get a job.
      Few months later, he saw my prospect of earning good money and asked me to open a joint account. So I asked him why he had a rethink over his previous decision but he said no reason. Then I said I am no longer interested. I said if you don't have a reason then I don't think it's a good decision.
      Simple and short. Selflessness should be mutual in marriage. Selfishness should be out of the question. One good deed deserves another and vise versa. Marriage or not. Only then will a selfish person have a rethink. If you keep letting go of bad attitudes and forgive all the time. Positive change can never happen.

    • @samgongelectronics3761
      @samgongelectronics3761 2 года назад

      If you no change that thinking u can remain single for ever.
      God forbid u remain single.

    • @floxy1170
      @floxy1170 2 года назад +1

      @@InspireVation I love this!!!
      I wish he had agreed to the joint account in the first place, nevertheless I love your decision.

  • @olufunmisunday2790
    @olufunmisunday2790 2 года назад +12

    AFTER LISTENING TO YOUR TEACHING, I FELT LIKE I JUST ACQUIRED A NEW CERTIFICATE. AND NOW I WANT TO GET INTO THE WORK ZONE TO APPLY THE WISDOM ACQUIRED. GOD BLESS YOU BOTH PASTOR KINGMIL

  • @davidigbineweka7098
    @davidigbineweka7098 2 года назад +16

    "Don't save for the rainy day, it's already raining; save for a plan". Those words hit me real good. God bless you PK and PM.

  • @odesolaoluwatosin4838
    @odesolaoluwatosin4838 2 года назад +20

    I never regret the day I come across pastor Kingsley and pastor Mildred online .
    You have been a great blessing to me
    Every of their teaching always come at the right time for me.
    God bless your home

    • @victoriaariyo3570
      @victoriaariyo3570 2 года назад

      Same here . They have really changed my wrong perspective that marriage cannot be nice.

  • @kennyisrael8466
    @kennyisrael8466 9 месяцев назад +1

    i grew 10x wiser in relationship knowledge when i start listening to PK and PM... God's grace is sufficient for you... Amen.

  • @MwewaM
    @MwewaM 2 года назад +8

    You can trust somebody with your life but not trust them with your money? 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️
    Everyone must hear this message 🙌

  • @joanneogoya
    @joanneogoya 2 года назад +5

    "There's dignity in labour" well said!!

  • @odigiedorcas178
    @odigiedorcas178 2 года назад +2

    The way he looks at his wife and smiles 😍

  • @gokeajibolar
    @gokeajibolar 2 года назад +15

    God bless you PK & PM, a big thanks for the teaching. I'm not married but finances in marriage was something I wasn't quite clear about, somehow I used to think it had to be 50-50. But tonight I have gained a new paradigm and I'm willing to go 100 for love.

  • @MrSironide
    @MrSironide 2 года назад +7

    With a woman like this, Pastor Kay your life is on cruise control 😍😍😍😅😅😅

  • @comfortebiereozagha360
    @comfortebiereozagha360 2 года назад +2

    Pastor K is so funny🤣🤣🤣. Give me suya, every single money na enjoyment

  • @EmmanuelMaduako
    @EmmanuelMaduako 2 года назад +11

    Wow, this teaching needs to be heard by all intending couples and those already in Marriage. God bless you Pastor Kingsley and Mildred

  • @chotachota3536
    @chotachota3536 2 года назад +1

    If I ever heard pastor K and M were coming to South Africa I'd literally pay just to hear them

  • @cherish587
    @cherish587 9 месяцев назад

    Can I ever be tired of PK and PM ministration. Each video is a whole big bag full of lessons to learn. Thanks so much Sir and Ma for been a blessing to us. I'm really learning alot following u. And the lessons learnt has improved my life alot.

  • @adesuwaigiehon3200
    @adesuwaigiehon3200 2 года назад +12

    I'm so blessed by this teaching. Just kept on saying, "This is value"!!!

  • @kazibwebenard7403
    @kazibwebenard7403 2 года назад +1

    West africans you're so blessed with well acquainted articulate persons with d wisdom of transforming societies,Really l thank the invetors of technology for bringing us closer,am blessd based in East Africa -uganda

  • @funmiboluwade1981
    @funmiboluwade1981 2 года назад +2

    I love that both of you dress alike it shows agreement..More unction to function in His vineyard .

  • @emmanuelndukaife2665
    @emmanuelndukaife2665 2 года назад +10

    So much insight. I could listen to this couple all day.

  • @BlissAlokan
    @BlissAlokan 2 года назад +2

    Wow!!! I've learnt a lot about gaining financial intelligence and its contribution to making marriage work, I've never heard it like this. Thank you

  • @the_mercyism
    @the_mercyism 2 года назад +2

    This is real value!!!. Pastor K and Pastor M, thank you so so much Please sir, we're expecting ""tomorrow's" preaching sir 🙂

  • @eseogheneebojie4270
    @eseogheneebojie4270 2 года назад +4

    Pst K and suya😂😂😂I have learnt a lot, God bless you both

  • @ngoziukpa5517
    @ngoziukpa5517 2 года назад +7

    This was an amazing teaching and I was tremendously blessed by it. Thank you for allowing GOD to use your family as an example of the godly standard.
    GOD bless your home forever.

  • @ibfrancistoomuch
    @ibfrancistoomuch 2 года назад +2

    God bless you Pastor K And Pastor M
    I love you both plenty
    I’ll keep praying for u both for the great privilege

  • @DrEzinneErhirhie
    @DrEzinneErhirhie 2 года назад +4

    These joint thing works if both have the same mindset.
    If a person is married to a reckless person, joint account would wreck the relationship

  • @mutalevincentmusonda2389
    @mutalevincentmusonda2389 2 года назад +2

    Thank you so much pastor Kingsley & pastor Mildred for this teaching, learnt so much❤️🇿🇲

  • @oluchiukwuagu1472
    @oluchiukwuagu1472 2 года назад +2

    Wow! I have been waiting for this topic for a long time. Thank you Pastor K & Pastor M. I’m actually like Pastor M. It’s good to hear how both of you handled money in your family given that one is a saver and the other a spender. This is good stuff. 😊🙏🏾

  • @ckks0nyoutube
    @ckks0nyoutube 2 года назад +2

    My understanding of joint account was, it is one account where all money from both parties in the marriage is put; it appears that nobody including myself are into joint account, a joint account for projects is perfect

  • @teetee9897
    @teetee9897 2 года назад +1

    Wow, am going to listen to this message over and over again. I'm like a new being listening to this

  • @88niteowl88
    @88niteowl88 2 года назад +2

    Jesus Christ is risen!!! Tfs. To everyone reading this, Jesus loves you!!

  • @sbm1981
    @sbm1981 2 года назад +6

    Pastor K so funny 🤣 😂

  • @GracedMWA
    @GracedMWA 2 года назад +3

    This is very educative 👏🏻Thank you Pastor Kingsley and Mildred. Watching from Germany 🇩🇪

  • @idim9248
    @idim9248 2 года назад +5

    Thank you both Pst K and Pst M. using yourselves as examples in order to pass the point for us (and more to come as well). God bless you both so much

  • @damilolaadekanmbi2751
    @damilolaadekanmbi2751 6 месяцев назад

    Thanks for being a blessing to the body of Christ. We love and appreciate your family. God bless you.

    • @damilolaadekanmbi2751
      @damilolaadekanmbi2751 6 месяцев назад

      Thanks for being so down to earth in your teachings, not just teaching theory but practical. I love this family. God bless you.

  • @okidiwilson9440
    @okidiwilson9440 Год назад

    Praise the lord,
    Thanks 4 the partation on financial knowledge.
    May God bless you

  • @valentine_b_ndlovu
    @valentine_b_ndlovu 2 года назад +1

    POWERFUL Ps Kingsley and Ps Mildred, I am sharing the link with anyone I believe needs this wisdom that I have learnt, thank you servants of God for this service 🙏🏽🙏🏽God bless you ❤️

  • @ebunoluwaadewoye2779
    @ebunoluwaadewoye2779 2 года назад +5

    Wow, I'm blessed and I've learnt. This must be replayed severally. Thank you so much PK and PM, more blessings sir and ma🥰

  • @fragrancedeparadiso443
    @fragrancedeparadiso443 2 года назад

    Love it when PK and PM are on board

  • @faithhope4703
    @faithhope4703 2 года назад +2

    Questions to ask your partner about finances
    1)Where do you spend your money?
    2) How does the money belong to?
    3) Who determine how the money is spent?
    4) If for any reason, the person lose their income, what would you do?
    5)What is your view on your partner's spending
    6)Who is better with money?
    7) Who pays the bill ?
    8) When you are giving away money? Who decides
    9) What type of account in your relationship
    Notes
    i) God is my source
    ii) God expects us(men and women)to work with the blessings released on us
    iii)Marriage is not 50-50. Don't look marriage as a covenant and not contract. Laying down everything to your partner
    iv) Be financially responsible(dony be a waster)
    iv)Don't live beyond your means
    v)Be on same page with your partner
    vi)Save for your projects

  • @joyogueji
    @joyogueji 2 года назад +7

    Wow.. Profound revelations 🔥 Thank you so much Pastor PK and PM for these great message!
    Very timely too. Sharing this video with all my amazing family and friends 🥰💜
    God bless you both 🙏

  • @shirzn
    @shirzn 2 года назад +3

    I have learnt so much from this teaching, thank you for sharing

  • @glorysalami1792
    @glorysalami1792 2 года назад +7

    Please help this generation in this teaching marriage is not contract but covenant

    • @lizzyfresh07
      @lizzyfresh07 2 года назад

      They’ve done some teachings on that already. What marriage is and what marriage is not.
      If you subscribe to both of their channels, you’ll see the past videos.

  • @tetteygabriel7715
    @tetteygabriel7715 2 года назад +1

    I'm blessed with this. At least I've realized my financial habit and also learnt so many things. You're a true blessing to our generation. God bless you 🙏🙏

  • @provia9436
    @provia9436 2 года назад

    Hallelujah Jesus, thank you Lord for the wisdom your pouring unto us through pastors KingMil

  • @queenyeiya2074
    @queenyeiya2074 2 года назад +1

    Thank you Pastor K & M for this wonderful teaching...God bless you plenty 🙏 🙌.

  • @Barnabas_Akinrinola
    @Barnabas_Akinrinola 2 года назад +1

    Pastor K and Pastor M, thank youuuu so much!!!
    So many important things to learn here. I particularly love the point about contentment being great wealth.

  • @akosuabonti5448
    @akosuabonti5448 2 года назад +1

    God bless you Pastor K and Pastor M!

  • @jeriothkyerewaanyarko9041
    @jeriothkyerewaanyarko9041 2 года назад +1

    I'm so excited, God richly bless you

  • @kwamentimawuku747
    @kwamentimawuku747 2 года назад +2

    You two are great counselors' .I am really learning from your wisdom and experiences. God richly bless you both. Pastor K and Pastor M please consider coming to Ghana

    • @noyaniafadameh287
      @noyaniafadameh287 2 года назад

      They will be in Empowerement worship center in Ghana on the 13th and 14th of May

  • @eileenwatt8283
    @eileenwatt8283 2 года назад +2

    That's so true. I tell women not to look for rich man. Women would have more peace if they earn their own money and invest it. It's surprising how much trauma and suffering women eliminate from their lives if they follow self sufficient. It's so sad when a woman have to rely on a man for allowance. He who controls the purse controls the other.
    A lazy partner is a liability to the relationship.
    Don't be a liability be an asset.

    • @DiamondZikora.
      @DiamondZikora. 2 года назад

      I gree with you,but no matter how independent a woman is,the lady should let him be the man ,he should do his responsibilities as a man,

  • @SusanNgozi1704
    @SusanNgozi1704 2 года назад +2

    Such an insightful Message 😊. God bless PK & PM for this Elaborate and spirit filled season. God bless you immensely 😊

  • @durbansaladyinaccra2173
    @durbansaladyinaccra2173 2 года назад

    Thank you so much pastors Okonkwo. 🙏🙂

  • @Allkinds466
    @Allkinds466 2 года назад +1

    Thanks so much for this message God bless you two 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @ngoziugwuoke8701
    @ngoziugwuoke8701 2 года назад

    This couple eh... I throway salute. You have blessed me.

  • @tatacatherinemankeh6597
    @tatacatherinemankeh6597 2 года назад

    God bless you pastor K n M, God bless you for this, it's so deep. I am single and will for sure enjoy financial management in marriage.

  • @tigerchrix3995
    @tigerchrix3995 2 года назад

    Thank you, Pastor K and Pastor M. These videos have opened my eyes when it comes to preparing myself for marriage.

  • @kingsleyakindele5389
    @kingsleyakindele5389 2 года назад

    This message is really a mind-shifting message. I did not know a lot. really

  • @evelynhephi1889
    @evelynhephi1889 2 года назад +2

    God bless you so much . I learn alot from your teachings.

  • @olajumokee.adeoye5788
    @olajumokee.adeoye5788 2 года назад +6

    Love this session 💯💯

  • @AllThingsLindo
    @AllThingsLindo 2 года назад +4

    Learning so much from your ministry 🙏🏽

  • @borderlesstv777
    @borderlesstv777 11 месяцев назад +1

    Beautiful!!!!!!!

  • @VenSpence
    @VenSpence 9 месяцев назад

    I learnt so much….❤️👏🏽

  • @emmanuelagbafor2027
    @emmanuelagbafor2027 2 года назад +2

    Oh my goodness!!!
    Thank God I came across this video. May God bless you really Pastor K and Pastor M. I have learnt a lot

  • @wisdomisaiah
    @wisdomisaiah 2 года назад +2

    This is knowledge. Woow great service

  • @Words_of_Life793
    @Words_of_Life793 2 года назад

    Am blessed. I use your home as a point of contact to mine. Amen

  • @favoureguzozie9057
    @favoureguzozie9057 2 года назад +1

    🌼So much learnt. Thank you PK and PM

  • @alycemukiti7301
    @alycemukiti7301 2 года назад +1

    Thank you for this lessons. I got them just in time to save my marriage and my spending habits. Waiting for next one....that one you keep saying we meet tomorrow 😅 please post it here we have a listen ...😅😅

    • @joyakpan1495
      @joyakpan1495 2 года назад

      Thank you Pastor K and Pastor M for your teachings
      I love you both

  • @emmanuelgodsentmichaels120
    @emmanuelgodsentmichaels120 2 года назад

    Pastor I'm reckless ooo 😭😭😭I really really need this teaching and can I stop by in church to get some of these materials. moreover I'm not married but I pray and I'm preparing for a great marriage.i have the most amazing relationship with one of the most amazing women in the world and she's financially stable but I'm struggling to meet up cause of financial issues.

  • @ayomidevictor2323
    @ayomidevictor2323 2 года назад +5

    It's very detailed filled and powerful learnt a lot.

  • @augustaisidore530
    @augustaisidore530 2 года назад

    Wow powerful insights, I learnt so much from this message, more Grace to you both

  • @mildredbob-manuel9621
    @mildredbob-manuel9621 2 года назад +1

    Thank you 😊

  • @ezenwadarlington8509
    @ezenwadarlington8509 2 года назад

    Thank God for this message. I am blessed again

  • @giftagbro6216
    @giftagbro6216 2 года назад

    I've been trying to watch this video for a long time now,thank God I have been able to watch this great teaching

  • @igwechikodi8910
    @igwechikodi8910 2 года назад +2

    Thank very much pastor K and M for this wonderful teaching. I learnt a lot.

  • @ajiriedo7623
    @ajiriedo7623 2 года назад +2

    This is great 😃 ... I've been looking forward to your teaching on finance cos This is an issue that has wrecked homes. But I have a question, some things don't seem to add up. How was it possible that you both ran a joint account from the beginning and pastor M was still able to save? And she always had money. Does that mean she had some money aside from the beginning when you guys were having a joint account. Cos I followed the message closely and I understand it's of recent she started having some "flexing money" which I believe is very important for a woman. Please I need a little clarification here. Cos I've seen cases where having a joint account did more harm than good. Thank you

  • @helenquincy523
    @helenquincy523 2 года назад

    I really learnt alot from this, thank you so much papa & mama it will really help me in my relationship guidance

  • @rosekwasi3824
    @rosekwasi3824 2 года назад

    Ameeeeeen.God is my all sufficiency

  • @Jamcore2008
    @Jamcore2008 2 года назад

    This is great and practical advice

  • @amaragodson5883
    @amaragodson5883 2 года назад +1

    This one is church of “aaawwww”😂😂😂

  • @gracechineka1083
    @gracechineka1083 2 года назад +1

    Powerful am learning a lot

  • @tetegentille1887
    @tetegentille1887 2 года назад +1

    This was good, thank you

  • @hemi1017
    @hemi1017 2 года назад

    Good teaching Pastor,I have been waiting for the other part when will it be uploaded sir.

  • @doradzekem1047
    @doradzekem1047 2 года назад

    Great teaching

  • @goabroad365
    @goabroad365 2 года назад

    woow..this is full of wisdom. Thank you Sir and ma. I have a question about the Joint account and spending money. i think i understand that spending money is for personal use..like anything youd like to buy for yourself or your wife,then what is the use of the joint account? I feel it should be for stuffs like lands,cars,rents,kids,both shopping etc..If im right, Pst Mildred mentioned that Pst Kay wanted to buy a land and she added from her savings.Please can you shed more light? it sounded like he wanted to buy the land from his personal savings and she added for him from her personal savings too.

  • @Seyeoderinde
    @Seyeoderinde 2 года назад

    This value filled. Awesome

  • @rosekwasi3824
    @rosekwasi3824 2 года назад

    This is enlightening.

  • @InspireVation
    @InspireVation 2 года назад

    Kindness and generosity. Easier said than done :)

  • @nanaaquosuyah1036
    @nanaaquosuyah1036 2 года назад +1

    I really love the team work. God bless you both

  • @lumina852
    @lumina852 2 года назад

    I am still waiting for part 2 please

  • @palmirafonsa8544
    @palmirafonsa8544 2 года назад

    So educative

  • @audienceofone9842
    @audienceofone9842 2 года назад

    I love this two(one).

  • @sherilwray5559
    @sherilwray5559 2 года назад

    Money can't buy happiness, and you can't take it with you to the grave!!

  • @Iamopepraiz
    @Iamopepraiz Год назад

    She: Ayaaam the table!!! 55:00

  • @refilwemotlhagodi2190
    @refilwemotlhagodi2190 2 года назад +3

    Hallelujah...

    • @estheresther8275
      @estheresther8275 2 года назад

      My married is 50/50 l pray my huaband will come to understand what you are teaching now.

  • @scientistlove6048
    @scientistlove6048 2 года назад +1

    Greetings from here
    I wanted to know if you offer online courses for individual 🤔?

  • @NmaLove_
    @NmaLove_ 2 года назад

    Please what about day 2

  • @cedarmanagement2343
    @cedarmanagement2343 2 года назад

    In this day and age, money is also life, especially when children from previous marriage is involved. Better to get a man whom I'm in agreement with. Prenup is required to protect my children's legacy, especially the first 30 years of second marriage.
    I consider money is like a powerful rottweiler, the handler needs to train the dog well, and most importantly be the Master of rottweiler (money). If we never lived together before marriage, how to know the man's money habits 100%? We only know 50% after marriage, and we know the other 50% when he/she gets retrenched or lost in investments/retirement savings. The true colours only show out after 10-20 years.
    So have a prenup, have family joint acc, have indiv accounts for both parties. If I can trust him when he goes to work in the office and not cheat with his clients, I should also trust him when he has his indiv account?

  • @pcoolmatarh3939
    @pcoolmatarh3939 2 года назад +1

    Amen and amen

  • @classicalretroback
    @classicalretroback 2 года назад +6

    God is my source not man.