Exactly. I wonder if they get mad when they see someone order a salad at a restaurant and assume they are being fat phobic. Like how dare they not order the steak or burger. It's not that serious
@@happygolucky8869 I think it makes them look bad in comparison, I think they know they shouldn’t eat this amount of junk, that makes them feel like shit but seeing someone else make better choices pisses them off. That’s also why they scrutinize someone that loses their weight, they did something they secretly want and they hate it. It can also make them feel more insecure about themselves. All these toxic positivity just makes an echo chamber for them to slowly die on :// it’s okay to love your body and yourself but the delusion that being 200+ overweight is UwU im healthy, is not it.
@@happygolucky8869 Virgie Tovar would, she equates vegetables with "the patriarchy" and is personally offended when someone chooses not to eat cake - you can't make this stuff up.
That's such a shame...imagine being excited about losing weight, becoming healthier, and improving your self-image and someone begins losing their mind at you. And 120 pounds is a huge accomplishment, best to him!
120 pounds is literally an entire me of weight. it's a huge accomplishment that took a ton of work and he has every right to be proud as hell with his effort!
Fr. Ironically, some of the biggest bullies I've met have been the "pro-mental health" and "*butterfly emoji* queer, [insert pronoun here], etc." people. From my experience, people like the lady in the video are all about kindness and supporting others until that person does something/believes in something that they disagree with.
@@sita9071 And in this case, the things she disagrees with are not being fat, being healthy and/or actually happy with your body for once 💀 like damn that’s a yikes
Blowing out other people’s candles don’t make your’s shine brighter. the bottom line is she’s jealous. She wants to shame “skinny” people because she’s jealous. I’m embarrassed for her and I’m fat!
That is actually the reason that they are offended when people are praised for it. Listen to how they talk about how food has no moral value, and how not eating a big piece of cake is you showing off your superiority for having self control as Virgie Tovar said. She was offended because the entire thin preference in humans is just symbolic for not being gluttonous. Extreme gluttons would have been kicked out of the tribe for eating more than their needed share. We are wired to feel strongly against eating more than necessary cos it would have been bad for the whole tribe for one person to sneak food from the winter stockpile or harvesting crops too early. Otherwise ppl would not be so sensitive about it. No other aspect of appearance has the same hold on people in the same numbers because other aspects of appearance do not indicate evolutionarily maladaptive behaviour.
As a fat person myself, I agree that people shouldn't be treated differently because of their body type-- but that includes ALL body types! Fat, skinny, muscular, tall, short, etc. You can't just claim a whole public platform as your "safe space" and then expect everyone to cater to you, your wants, and needs. Ugh.
I wonder what she would have reacted if he most a series of photos with a friend wishing them happy birthday and he could she the gradual change of him losing weight. Would still have gotten triggered
If she is so offended that the dude posted about his weight loss journey, she should have posted also everytime she gains weight. People are posting these things not because they lost weight but because they achieved a goal they have set and they are happy.
@@dr.rothotnik Hey! Just out of curiosity, do you mean that my comment is fat acceptance? I was hoping to come across more as.. "don't be an asshole to someone just because of their body type" : ) I'm on my own journey of health, actively working to overcome a nearly life-long ED and trying to get to a healthy weight! I'm glad I didn't trigger you and hope you're doing well!
I’m so sad for this girl, someone failed her as a parent- badly, and now as an adult she’s still stomping her feet and pouting. I hope she wakes up soon
I'm atheist and have been for decades. When anyone says to me they'll pray for me, I simply say thank you. I know it's coming from their heart so why make them feel bad? That woman would be offended by anything and everything with the level of self hate she has.
They absolutely are being condescending when they say it the way that guy did. It's a way for Christians to diss while still being holier than thou. You should not say thank you if it's in the same context, they will think you are even stupider. Like when Texans say "bless your heart," they mean it maliciously.
As an overweight woman who in her younger years was on the 'health at every size' train let me just say... there is a reason so many of these outspoken body positivity chicks are in their early 20's. Yeah, at 20 and obese, I wasn't healthy but I was comfortable and manageable. I still had energy and flexibility because I was young. But at over 30? That's when the reality kicks in and suddenly you have bad knees, bad back, high cholesterol and the game of chicken against becoming diabetic happens. It's easy to say 'stop assuming fat means unhealthy' when you have youth as a shield between you and the consequences of your fatness. The years will catch up, and so will the symptoms of your lifestyle.
Well said! My heaviest was 240 pounds in my late 20's. Even at that weight, and having PCOS, my doctor said my blood pressure was fantastic, my joints were great, and my blood work showed no concerns. Everything was pretty much in prime working order. In her own words, despite me carrying extra pounds, I was essentially a very healthy girl. But how long would that last? I knew I would still have to do something about it. I didn't want to just coast because I knew I couldn't bank on that forever. Joints deteriorate, the arteries are only so big, and scarfing donuts and cake all day will basically turn blood into fruit punch. Plus, PCOS gives me a much higher chance of developing diabetes, which I really want to avoid. I'm 33 now and lost 40 pounds so far. The 20 year old fat activists always seem to ignore the poor 50 year olds with tubes in their noses, carrying around their oxygen cylinders, or wheeling around in their mobility scooters because their joints have finally been worn down like a bald car-tire. It's very saddening to watch, it honestly is. They live such tragic, trapped lives. The fat activist issues are always superficial ones, like an obese person modelling, or finding clothes that fit. They're completely overlooking the real issue so much that it's almost like they're being glib on purpose.
@@LadyDecember I just recently found out that my cholesterol is a little high and blood sugar is also a little high. I have PCOS as well. I was healthy in my early 20s and worked out a lot before but since getting into grad school everything kind of got put on a back burner. I regret that so much. If I had continued to focus on my health I would not be in the situation I am in now. But there is still time for me to change so I am doing exactly that. What these activists don't realize that the older you get the harder it will be for your body to deal with the weight and problems will start to creep in. I've lost about 30lbs since last year and I am hoping this year to reach my goal weight. I also don't want to become diabetic so hopefully losing the weight will help control that along with healthy diet and exercise.
It's true. The body can deal with 30, 40, 50 extra pounds, depending on your frame (my great grandmother and grandmother were larger women, but were very active) but once you get past that point into morbid obesity the body can't sustain that for long. When I worked with the elderly we didn't have any obese residents that were over 55 years old.
I lost 130lbs and it was a huge accomplishment. It did bring me closer to health and much to my surprise... a lot of fat people were mean to me about it. Snarky comments about my loose skin and how I've allowed my weight loss to go to my head, because I wore shorts. People are jealous. Period.
I have to give that girl applause 👏 for how well she managed to string together literally EVERY social justice buzz word in existence to create a victim out of herself. She turned that shit into an art form
My thoughts exactly. When she threw the R word in there I about died LOL Extreme leftists really have destroyed the true meaning of the word it now means “I’m offended”
Yes!! It's like a drinking game with this people and how many buzzwords they can use. As soon as I here inherently....I stop listening, they ALL love that word
Kinda similar to the feminists with $200k in student loan debt from getting their masters degrees in women's studies, etc., ranting about the "wage gap", and under representation of women in STEM fields...🙄
As a person with 60 lbs to lose...being fat is not a personality trait...if you think it is, you have other issues you need to figure out. You can't love yourself by going into denial. 🤷
A year and a half ago I was 310lbs, after changing my diet and exercising I'm down to 245lbs and this weight loss train has no breaks baby HELL YEAH ME!!!!
Well depending on the circumstances she'd be right. You see you have to maintain a healthy weight being too skinny can cause just as many problems. Obviously that doesn't apply to her case.
Imagine being mad someone wants to decrease risks of getting obesity-related diseases or diabetes, move and breathe better and just increase their overall quality of life. It's not like she's forced to lose weight herself, although recommended she can stay fat if she's happy that way and that's okay. And yes, losing weight with a diet change is a great accomplishment. When I was overweight I was at a high risk if developing type 2 diabetes and suffered from sleep apnea, waking up like every two hours with a panic attack because my body wasn't getting enough oxygen. It makes me sad knowing some people would be mad at me because I got rid of these issues by losing weight.
That’s the craziest thing, if these people were truly happy they wouldn’t be so desperate to convince everyone that fat is beautiful and healthy. Like if you’re TRULY happy WHO FKING CARES? Toxicity at its finest… so fricken proud of you for losing that weight for your health, amazing accomplishment 💜
For real I got so big I developed prediabetes. Imagine being mad at someone for trying to eliminate the risk of a disease that could literally kill you and make you lose pieces of your body. Like oh sorry!!!! I'll cut off my foot just for you
I’m a fat girl. I would never put “fat” in my bio or use it as something to identify myself with. I also can’t imagine being offended by someone else’s weight loss journey! I’ve finally truly committed to my own weight loss and seeing other people succeed inspires and motivated me!
I'd have at least a miniscule amount of respect for people like her if instead of all their fake moral high ground they'd just be honest and say "I hate myself and want everyone else to be as miserable as me"
This is the comment. I see it all the time, people crusading for some topic when it’s really just them projecting. Let the dude have his moment. If it upsets you, simply scroll on by
@@bulletproofair Yes. Tammy is bitter about her situation and is clearly envious of the good things her family members have that she doesn't. When Chris was approved for weight loss surgery or when Amy said she was moving away, Tammy's "excitement" for them was obviously disingenuous
Dear Splotchmaker, No girl, people don’t have an issue with you being fat, people have an issue with you being a jerk to someone just being proud and happy with his weight loss. He wasn’t being rude or insulting, or shaming people for being fat, he was just showing off the fruits of his labor. And then she had to get offended and probably jealous, and make a video looking all bitter and mean. No one is going to look kindly on that, and as the saying goes, “you reap what you sow” put negativity into the world, you’re going to get it back.
Not to mention how she says he can post his opinions online, but there are consequences to posting said opinions... and when she was rude and hypocritical, she earned the consequences of people pointing her behavior out, yet all of those comments were "hate" comments that displayed fatphobia and, somehow, racism.🙄
I'm queer, leftist and fat too.... And I think she's so annoying and entitled. She thinks she has the right to complain about other people's decision, but no one can talk about her. It's ridiculous. FFS.
Queer leftist and overweight here (i don't consider myself fat), but yeah this girl is delusional...i legit think this must be a prank account cause no weight you can put up a show like this
Seriously, the first thing I thought was she needs to not drag *actual* people in those groups down with her because she's probably the worst representation that could exist...
@@oncefighting she was pretty normal until she graduated highschool. Skinny too. The last few years she’s seemed to go off the deep end. Now she’ll attack anyone for posting before and after photos. She unfriended me online a long time ago.
At the age of 50, I had to lose 10 KG and ramp up my exercise routine not because I'm fatphobic, I'm hypertension-phobic, lowerbackpain-phobic, diabetes-phobic, climbstairs-phobic...
"Your celebration of thinnes is inherently problematic" no, what's inherently problematic is the way these people insert themselves in everyone's business. This dude literally said that losing weight made HIM feel better. He's literally talking about his own experience and this woman somehow thinks it's a personal attack against her. Get over yourself.
I know, I guess they are being thinphobic or healthphobic 🤷♀ I love what Michelle said when ppl say the word "problematic" she put into words something I was never able to elaborate
That’s how a lot of fad “groups” are these days. “Do what I say, change your whole life and world view for me and few friends of mine or else your a bigot and a phobia person”.
@@qjtvaddict well, that was disproven by the part where she had her fat boyfriend defend her on his tiktok. She is a nut case, but she found another nutcase that puts up with it.
I will never understand people who are all "you can't judge me" and then post a bunch of judgmental bs on social media. That lady is out of her damn mind if she thinks losing weight is an attack on other fat people.
Yep. I can just imagine a cult of fat people gathered around at a meeting. Then several of them stand up and say we tricked you, we no longer are a part of your cult and do you know what we are going to do to cause info harm to you... "We are going to lose weight. MWAHAHAHA".
It's funny, these kinds of people tend to be the most condescending since they try to tone police every inch of the internet and pose it as them just trying to "educate" you. When in actuality it's just them trying to satiate their own crippling insecurities, they talk down to you like your a five year old is them trying to hide it.
Why does the body positivity get so triggered that people decide to lose weight? If a person wants to lose weight, let them do it, he’s proud of his progress and celebrating himself as he should, I don’t understand how the body positivity can say their bodies are none of other’s business but get mad and try to police what others do with their bodies, and are doctors “ fatphobic” when they say obesity is unhealthy? it’s the hypocrisy for me
They hate the way they look so much that instead of accepting responsibility for their poor choices and change, they will behave like this so they don't have to see the offending content and have people enable her to have a false sense of importance.
There is literally nothing positive about being overweight to the point that it is a detriment to your health. I just don't understand why someone else's personal journey is anyone else's concern.
Lol, died at her BS about “positioning thinness”. I’m overweight myself (working on it, and have lost almost 45lbs so far!), and I do think that *healthy* thinness should be prioritized and positioned as the ideal, lol. Because it’s biologically and scientifically proven to be the most optimal state for a long life. You hit it outta the park again, Michelle! ❤️
Congrats!! That is so amazing! That’s how much weight I have to lose, but it’s been hard because of my thyroid and other autoimmune diseases. But your post is motivating me to get started because I really hate sitting at home being depressed all the time and just glued to my tablet. It’s time for me to get moving! 💓
I honestly think people like her want everyone to be okay with being fat so she doesn't have to change anything she's doing. Its just weird how they take personal offense to it.
That's the funny part, if she just shut up about criticizing other people and did her thing, nobody would give her shit, they'd just leave her alone. But I guess she's that desperate for everyone to know how jelly and angry she is, basically if she's not happy, everyone has to know.
@@lainiwakura1776 I can understand her general grumpiness to a point. Fat creators are often criticized for being fat by haters and those who are concerned for their health. But it’s also the internet, and if you’re too thin-skinned to deal with that, you shouldn’t be on here. You definitely don’t have the right to go after people just because they lost weight and you don’t.
Losing weight is hard, I understand that. But it doesn't have to be miserable at all. Being that huge is like a prison. I don't want chronic pain! I want to feel like I can take on the world and have a healthy relationship with food. I wish everyone on their weight loss journey complete happiness!
the fact that "body positivity" people are always upset when other people do what they want with their bodies is all the proof i need that "body positivity" has nothing to do with body positivity. i tried to see it the way they want me to, but i just can't. it's too hypocritical. they're very clearly just people who are upset with their own bodies but afraid of working for change playing out their self-prescribed helplessness.
It's almost like she's just looking for people to validate her size. If she's actually secure in who she is and what she looks like why does she need everyone around her to praise her for doing nothing. Maybe deep down she's actually really unhappy with herself? 🤷♀️
What was most surprising was that she even had a boyfriend. Came as a shock to me. Had to rewind to make sure I heard correctly. Who would ever date someone with such a bad attitude over things that don't affect them in any way? The dude needs to up his game and find someone who takes care of themselves and others around them. Sheesh.
@@margaretrandy4698 no, you just never knew what it meant. This fat lady is an idiot but she can be queer (which includes under it's umbrella bisexual or something else) and have a boyfriend.
She acts as if he personally tagged her in his weight loss journey, insulted her and challenged her to go the same. Nope, nope, nope. He’s just living his life and she is mad about it and anyone that challenges her is automatically “fat-phobic”. Uh, whatever. This video made me laugh hella hard. Yes, I said hella.
I loved your video. After I watched it, I went to that young man's TikTok and told him that I was proud of what he's done with his weight loss and that he's really an inspiration to me.
As someone who occasionally watches astronomicalboy’s tiktoks, he’s an extremely funny and kind person and I’m proud that he’s been losing weight. To attack him for doing something that’s making him feel better about his body is just terrible!
I'm a 17 year old girl. I had an eating disorder due to PTSD from being abused, and I used to weigh 190lbs at a height of 5'1, so I was pretty chunky. I felt absolutely terrible every day when I looked in the mirror, but I never bothered to change, because food was my comfort. It wasnt until I hated myself so much that i started starving myself and I dropped ALL THE WAY down to 110 lbs in a year. I have been on both ends of the eating disorder spectrum, and I managed to bring myself back to my current weight of 125lbs, it dosent sound like a big difference, but I assure you it is. I'm much, MUCH happier today than i was when I was 190lbs. I found a love of running, and a love of myself, for the first time in my life. I can safely say if I was still the weight I was 5 years ago- I would have sided with these "fat liberation" people, simply because I wasnt willing to change myself for the better, and I didnt want to change, even when I was harassed constantly for being short, but extremely big. I just didnt want to put in the work. These people are poisoning the minds of overweight people, and young adults like myself who are at a weak enough point to believe the crap these people are saying.
I’ve lost 7 inches ( I haven’t weighed myself recently) around my waist. I’ve been so proud of myself! But I had someone on Facebook tell me it’s insulting to brag about it for those who can’t lose weight.
All congratulations to the guy she was harassing. 120 pounds is a lot of weight - a whole adult person's worth of weight, really - and it must have taken a lot of dedication and hard work.
As someone who lost 200lbs and still has weight to lose. I'll think it was hilarious if someone attacks me for doing what I want with my body. The same time and energy it took them to criticize me wanting to be HEALTHY, YES HEALTHY because 400lbs is NOT healthy. Then they can use that same energy to do something positive with their own lives. The fat positive and body positive communities can really show their hypocrisy. Instead of criticizing someone who worked hard to lose weight, try being happy for them and don't get mad when they choose to not be fat anymore. I personally think many people are beautiful regardless of their size. But, it's not fun or pretty if it causes a detriment to your own health. I knew I was beautiful at 400lbs but also couldn't take a small flight of stairs or walk 1 block without pain or being out of breath. Instead of them saying that it's fat phobic to lose weight. They need to see it as, it's self care and knowing ones own worth to decide to become healthier and reduce the risk of high BP, diabetes, etc. It's all good and fine until you watch an episode of My 600lb Life and say, I never want to be like that. I never see those same hypocrites talk about the people on that show who are literally dying from being overweight. That's my rant. Love your channel Michelle, Yoshi, and Butters.
Holy guacamole!! That’s an amazing accomplishment hun!! You should be sososososo proud of yourself!!!! I look for unique physical features at first glance, and personality at first actual meeting. If you’re overweight, I’ll never actually notice it when forming and opinion of you. Most people genuinely do NOT care about anyone’s weight. Only time I’ll talk about it, is when discussing gain or loss accomplishments with my fellow “food aversion therapy” moms, IN THE OTHER ROOM FROM OUR KIDS. I don’t comment on weight in front of my toddler, nor do I comment on it with friends/loved ones. If they came to me to ask for help (which quite a few have, because I’m a retired marine, and was a ballet dancer before hand), I would focus solely on lifestyle changes that being excitement, creativity, and fun into their lives. I’ll let them watch the weight drop and acknowledge it for themselves before we ever focus on a weight “goal”.
Yeah, My 600lbs life is an eye opener, i promised myself to never let my weight get to that point. I gained a lot of weight over the years and i thank myself for noticing a problem before it got to that point and doing something about it.
@@-MaryPoppins- that's me! I don't care if someone is fat, skinny, medium or whatever body type but I do care about my body and being healthy and able to go for long walks, exercising without pain or out of breath so I make sure to take care of myself so I'd be around awhile with my love ones. Plus I just feels so so much better with my weight down.
Someone was offended/triggered by one of my Instagram posts recently and instead of freaking out and deleting it like I would have a few years ago, I pretended I was Michelle, defended the reasons I posted it, and kept the post up. Thanks for being an inspiration and teaching us how to have a backbone. 💗
Michelle is just and inspiration period. I started watching her and became more motivated to lose weight and stick to it. I'm glad I found her and not the fat positive movement first. I've lost 25 kg. I got 15kg more to lose and because of Michelle's advice and I'm love it. I can fun up the stair without hard breathing. My knees don't hurt anymore. I can dance faster and more freely. I CAN SEE MY FEET!! I mean once I move my breastesis, they haven't decreased yet, but still I'm enjoying a better quality of life I'm happier now. Its great
@@blessedcocoa5729 That's amazing !! Keep up the amazing work!!! You're going to get where you wanna be!!! I love reading comments on her videos about people getting healthier and hyping y'all up!
@@kayleestephens6774 Thanks. I hope you do well too. It really is great seeing how much of an good effect her videos have and the support is so uplifting. I really need it too. I lost 5 family members last year to murder, grief and a coma cause by a stroke. I even lost my aunt today from cancer, but I'm still pressing on, because I want to make them proud and Michelle's videos have been giving the extra drive when all I want to do is stay in bed and cry.
@@blessedcocoa5729 I honestly do the same thing! Whenever I’m tempted by the lulling words of the fat acceptance movement, I pop on one of her videos to ground me to reality. I’ve lost 15 pounds (about 7.5 kilos) so far with a LOT more to do. But I’m actually feeling better. My depression and anxiety are not well controlled by meds, but exercise has helped immensely. I can’t wait until I can run again!
Please pass this on to Miss Buttinsky here: I'm 62, 5'8" 125. I've lost 20-odd lbs at a doable pace over a couple years by jogging, eating healthy shit I dont like and willpower. I hope she's laying down when that trigg hits. Love your stuff McD!
I was 230 pounds, currently 170 pounds, It took me so long and it was a complete journey. I just imagine someone coming at me telling am fat-phobit just because I lose weight, ridiculous... The body positivity community is getting out of control
The "body-positivity" movement: that's one group of useless people who deserve to be tied up and have a herd of starving pigs unleashed onto them... The good things that comes out of that: pigs are healthy and well fed, and biomass useless to civilised society is put to good use.
Can I just say that I'm fat phobic and have no shame. My cousin in law died nearly 2 months ago from septicaemia resulting from surgery to remove an umbilical hernia. He was a great guy. Hard worker, great father, treated my cousin like a queen but apart from being a chain smoker . He was overweight . Being under 5ft4 didn't help. We all miss him and it was a terrible loss but he should have taken better care of himself too. He was not that much older than me. Being overweight is nothing to be proud of.
That’s actually why my mom stared to loose weight, she’s also a smoker and was severely overweight. We’ve lost our dad (not to weight related things) so she doesn’t want us to loose her too. She wanted to be able to run around and play with us at the park or in our backyard she said “I just want to be able to be your mom”
I lost 70 lbs in 2021. One of my biggest motivations was after watching World War Z with my daughter. She looked at me and said, If this happened we would have to hide somewhere and pray they don't find us or I would have to run off by myself, because there is no way that you could run from them. It broke my heart that my 7 year old daughter already thought I wouldn't be able to protect her.
I'm sorry, but when she said "Losing weight doesn't make you closer to health. It's a myth" I cried laughing! 😭😭 The jokes write themselves! She needs to get off of TikTok once in awhile.
Well.. it's sortof true - loosing weight doesn't always bring you closer to health. But when you are overweight, and you do it in a healthy and controlled manner through lifestyle change instead of some crazy crash diet, and you keep your weight loss amount reasonable - it totally does.
So, hating on a guy who's proud of himself for losing weight, which is a huge lifestyle change to do, and minding his own business is ok to do. But we can't comment on people like this woman who don't want to put in the extra work and just accepts that she's going to stay overweight.. 🤔 Man, I hope that once I'm done being pregnant and exercise to improve my lifestyle and lose weight, I won't get the same kind of hate. I have MS, which makes it hard to stay active because of occasional nerve pain and numbness, but when I was actually exercising and losing weight, I was feeling so much better and my symptoms greatly improved! Crazy how staying active improves a lot of people's lives.
In remission with my MS-- I've had to knock off 150lbs so far that the disease put on my body, and still gotta regain all the muscle again. It feels like hell, and I totally get you there. Shit like this feels like a copout and spitting on people who struggle to feel well again. Its immense getting back on track again, and taking back who we are, and while I agree we shouldn't get mocked at our lowest, doesn't mean we should also have to fear being mocked at reaching our best again, like the fellow did! Proud of you, keep fighting! And congrats on the little one! :D
It's so annoying when people say "you don't need to lose weight' you're not even fat/1!1!" Ehm yes I am ma'am, the fact that I am not obese doesn't mean I am not overweight, let me care about my body alone thanks
Yes! I am 6'1 and 240 lbs. I need to lose at least 60-70 lbs but my family keeps telling me I "wear it well". I tell them that isn't the point. I feel awful and feel the weight in my joints and in the restriction of my movement. This weight is coming off! I don't care if it'll make me look different...
@@Blakmagic88 do what's best for you!! I was pushed to lose 40 lbs for my knees, that really improved my overall health and also helped a lot with my mental health issues! It's very hard but don't give up!
"You're out of touch if you think losing weight bring you closer to good health. It's a myth." *Heart disease and type-2 diabetes have entered the chat*
@@josephfrechette9916 I can relate to the joint pain. I've gained some weight and noticed that I'm having more joint pain. So it's time to lose the weight.
I have been severely overweight (and also under weight) and lost about 50 and still pretty big. I had some girl tell me my eating disorder and the fact I wanted to lose weight was fatphobic. I took the time to explain that I was dealing with some health issues and wanted to feel better and she just went off on me. I very much stand with fat acceptance, I personally been picked on, treated sifferently, and faced some challenges because of my body. People like this do more harm than good, its hurtful af.
Do these ppl think we literally hate every single molecule of fat? We NEED fat to have periods, to regulate hormones, to be healthy, etc. BUT we dont need that much fat for all of these processes work!! Excess fat is a net bad thing lool. Loool
You hit the whole “praying” nail on the head. For a lot of people, praying is how they show they care, and that they’re concerned for you. Granted, the only time saying “I’ll pray for you” makes me do a head tilt is when those people know that there’s more they can do. Like, having a bake sale to donate to charity or something. Saying you’ll pray they get a lot of money instead of attending and/or supporting the sale just shows laziness lol.
@@percyioukhnikov81 as someone who is religious, I only ever use "I'll pray for you" when my friends need help. Like they are going to the doctors and are worried, they are in pain (physical or mental), or they are about to head into something (like a hard work meeting). I understand other people might use it more often or more condescending, but I just wanted to say my 2 cents
I don't know in America but here in Europe when someone say to you "i'll pray for you" that's just a polite figure to say "i'm sorry for you" and it's used just to peoples you don't actually care, not a Friend or family member, nobody will ever pray "for you", you better start to pray "together" instead if you really care
I say that a lot, even on the internet when I see someone struggling. There isn't much else I can do. I believe that God does listen to prayers, and I actually do pray when I say I will, and even if person I'm praying for doesn't believe in God, hopefully they'll just accept it as a compliment, because I'm asking God to help them, isn't that a good thing? I've had Muslim people tell me they'll pray for me, and I say thank you! It's not too hard to just accept a compliment.
Her comment about how being thinner won’t bring you closer to health did it for me. (Apart from all other apparent health benefits:) The pressure you take off your joints alone is an unbelievable relief (and can’t be denied, cause it’s simple physics) and has brought me (and all other people I know who lost weight, too) so much more quality of life (and I was a pretty happy fatty before that, but losing weight still made everything a thousand times better).
My mom lost over 120+ lbs after being morbidly obese for years and in an unhealthy relationship with food and health in general. She realized that if she wanted to be around for her grandchildren’s lives and her children’s lives she needed to be healthier and make better choices. she is so much happier now, she can go ride dirt bikes and fit into a whole new fun wardrobe and wears dresses now without feeling uncomfortable. it’s so sad that people are shaming people for losing weight to feel more comfortable in their bodies. i’m 5’5 and 223 lbs and my mom has inspired me to start losing weight and keep it off so i can do more with my life and feel more comfortable. people losing weight should not be offending to people.
I’m currently at the gym as I watch this. You know… it’s not easy to get fit or lose weight. It’s a lot of pain and work (physically and mentally). It’s a huge accomplishment. 💪
OMGosh, I laugh my butt off at your videos, Michelle. They make my day! Thank goodness there are other people out there that think some of the same things I do!
If this woman wants to be obese and have tons of health problems, more power to her. Congratulations to the young man who decided to change his life for the better.
Good lord shes *absolutely revolting* both physically and mentally. She needs some serious help from a real professional who knows how to work with absolutely delusional people.
I hope she sees this because WOW....the audacity of her. 😤 What is wrong with some people?!🙄 Im shocked, really. "Thinking that losing weight brings you closer to health, is a MYTH" What in the actual WORLD is this woman living in?!?! what??? Omg...every single word coming out of her mouth...is deeply concerning...
If people like this put even just half their energy into improving their health, their stress levels would likely drop by at least half what it is right now. I was like this (not to this extreme when I was overweight) years ago. Mad that I couldn't fit into the clothes I wanted. Mad at others' weight loss success. But I NEVER went on a rampage against them. Because I knew deep down, that I was the one in charge of myself. People like this don't want to accept that. So they spend their time on social media, claiming they "don't care" what others think of them. Ridiculous.
Typical manipulative tactic: express outrage at someone doing something that does not affect her in the slightest, and act like a victim when confronted about it.
How can you attack someone improving themselves. It's taken me a LONG TIME to figure out how petty and jealous people can be towards someone succeeding.
I’ve never seen people more jealous, mad and insecure than the people in the Body positive/ fat acceptance movement. I just laugh at how miserable they are.
Gotta love people who cry "body positivity" then shame others for what they decide is best for their body. I have a theory that fat people who get upset over others improving their lives don't actually love their bodies. If they did, they wouldn't care about others changing themselves because they're comfortable in their own skin.
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Can you do one about Candace Owens opinion about Harry styles wearing dresses?
"The first to go were the faties." - Columbus, Zombieland
♥️💪✌️💯
🤨We should make pages labeled fat liberation and actually liberate ourselves from the excess weight and actually be healthier... 🤷🏻♂️
@@dominican200 brilliant
She’s allowed to be obese but he’s not allowed to be the size he wants to be!? People really get offended about every damn thing...
Exactly. I wonder if they get mad when they see someone order a salad at a restaurant and assume they are being fat phobic. Like how dare they not order the steak or burger. It's not that serious
@@happygolucky8869 To be fair, they probably do.
@@happygolucky8869 I think it makes them look bad in comparison, I think they know they shouldn’t eat this amount of junk, that makes them feel like shit but seeing someone else make better choices pisses them off. That’s also why they scrutinize someone that loses their weight, they did something they secretly want and they hate it. It can also make them feel more insecure about themselves. All these toxic positivity just makes an echo chamber for them to slowly die on :// it’s okay to love your body and yourself but the delusion that being 200+ overweight is UwU im healthy, is not it.
@@happygolucky8869 Virgie Tovar would, she equates vegetables with "the patriarchy" and is personally offended when someone chooses not to eat cake - you can't make this stuff up.
Of course he can't, it reminds her about her own failures in life.
He wasn’t shaming anyone. He was proud as he should be.
how phoebicly oppressively racist of you!
@@DamitFeelsGoodtobeaRaiderwhat
FAT PHOEBIA IS RACIST!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!@@ENDME321
@@DamitFeelsGoodtobeaRaiderThats really how they act 😂
@@DamitFeelsGoodtobeaRaiderYou fat? 🌚
That's such a shame...imagine being excited about losing weight, becoming healthier, and improving your self-image and someone begins losing their mind at you. And 120 pounds is a huge accomplishment, best to him!
120 pounds is literally an entire me of weight. it's a huge accomplishment that took a ton of work and he has every right to be proud as hell with his effort!
It’s great that he did that, 120 llbs is not easy to get to, go him that’s amazing
I know right? :0 I have been on the journey of weightloss and health improvement for a long time! It is so rewarding. 🥺
So glad when I went from morbidly obese to a healthy weight there was no tiktok or this ‘your awful if you loose weight’ rhetoric
Exactly!!
Imagine putting "mental health" in your bio but shaming people for feeling good in their skin
Fr. Ironically, some of the biggest bullies I've met have been the "pro-mental health" and "*butterfly emoji* queer, [insert pronoun here], etc." people. From my experience, people like the lady in the video are all about kindness and supporting others until that person does something/believes in something that they disagree with.
@@sita9071
And in this case, the things she disagrees with are not being fat, being healthy and/or actually happy with your body for once 💀 like damn that’s a yikes
@@sita9071 i mean i have pronouns in my bio but other than that i completely agree with your comment xx
Cuz it’s one of her triggers, not something she advocates for 🤪
@sita9071 as a lesbian most these (queer butterfly) people are straight.....they use queer to seem cool and be able to call people homophobic
I've lost 87 pounds and am no longer insulin dependent. The fat positive movement is dangerous.
Congrats! Especially when insulin is so expensive.
That’s great! Congrats!
Congrats!!!
Congrats!! I’ve lost around 65lbs and was pre diabetic before, no longer!
Congrats
Her: "What I do with my body is none of your buisness"
Also her: "What he's doing with his body is hurting my feelings and he needs to stop that"
@Moonlight And you sound like a bigot.
@Moonlight Sounds like both
You summarised the Body Positivity movement perfectly.
@Moonlight I don't know how to perceive this comment
Note I'm christian
@@dustybeats5620 I'm a Christian too and I find that comment strange. I can't think of any example where that would apply to Christians.
Blowing out other people’s candles don’t make your’s shine brighter. the bottom line is she’s jealous. She wants to shame “skinny” people because she’s jealous. I’m embarrassed for her and I’m fat!
Her problem is she thinks he’s being praised for being skinny. He’s being praised for demonstrating self discipline
And hard work
What's wrong with praising someone for being skinny?
Exactly, he’s being praised for hitting his own personal goals. Key word: personal.
That is actually the reason that they are offended when people are praised for it. Listen to how they talk about how food has no moral value, and how not eating a big piece of cake is you showing off your superiority for having self control as Virgie Tovar said.
She was offended because the entire thin preference in humans is just symbolic for not being gluttonous.
Extreme gluttons would have been kicked out of the tribe for eating more than their needed share. We are wired to feel strongly against eating more than necessary cos it would have been bad for the whole tribe for one person to sneak food from the winter stockpile or harvesting crops too early.
Otherwise ppl would not be so sensitive about it. No other aspect of appearance has the same hold on people in the same numbers because other aspects of appearance do not indicate evolutionarily maladaptive behaviour.
The toxicity and audacity of this woman. Kudos to him for losing that weight, for HIM. ♥️
I grew up with her and her boyfriend lmao.
@@daphne10120 oh lord how did you manage to escape?
@@daphne10120 they sound painful to be around
@@daphne10120 😬
@@cubanalien my first childhood crush was actually her boyfriend when I was like 9 lmao. Dodged a bullet there.
I like how she put “mental health” in her bio, then bullied someone. Hypocritical much?🤨
very
I’m thinking maybe she should have replaced health with “ill” bc something is wrong when someone else’s success causes a world wind in your mind!!
This bugs me too. Especially since obesity and the lifestyle related to it wreaks havoc on your mental health.
It’s only hypocritical when other people do it to her, not when she does it to other people. 🙄😒
hippo critical 😂
As a fat person myself, I agree that people shouldn't be treated differently because of their body type-- but that includes ALL body types! Fat, skinny, muscular, tall, short, etc. You can't just claim a whole public platform as your "safe space" and then expect everyone to cater to you, your wants, and needs. Ugh.
I wonder what she would have reacted if he most a series of photos with a friend wishing them happy birthday and he could she the gradual change of him losing weight. Would still have gotten triggered
That… that is literally fat acceptance tho, not that I’m triggered it’s just as a former person of size I agree 💀🤦♀️
I wish I could like your comment more than once. I whole heartedly agree!
If she is so offended that the dude posted about his weight loss journey, she should have posted also everytime she gains weight. People are posting these things not because they lost weight but because they achieved a goal they have set and they are happy.
@@dr.rothotnik Hey! Just out of curiosity, do you mean that my comment is fat acceptance? I was hoping to come across more as.. "don't be an asshole to someone just because of their body type" : ) I'm on my own journey of health, actively working to overcome a nearly life-long ED and trying to get to a healthy weight! I'm glad I didn't trigger you and hope you're doing well!
I’m so sad for this girl, someone failed her as a parent- badly, and now as an adult she’s still stomping her feet and pouting. I hope she wakes up soon
Nah sometimes it's twitter,Instagram warping minds too
she's gotta be fast though, those arteries are quite in danger
@@KillerGothChickpreached 👍💪
I'm atheist and have been for decades. When anyone says to me they'll pray for me, I simply say thank you. I know it's coming from their heart so why make them feel bad? That woman would be offended by anything and everything with the level of self hate she has.
same!
Yeah me too.
Same here I care for the intention even I dont believe
They absolutely are being condescending when they say it the way that guy did. It's a way for Christians to diss while still being holier than thou. You should not say thank you if it's in the same context, they will think you are even stupider. Like when Texans say "bless your heart," they mean it maliciously.
Same, I live in the south 90% of the time they mean it in a positive, heartfelt way. Rarely are being condescending when saying it in my experience.
As an overweight woman who in her younger years was on the 'health at every size' train let me just say... there is a reason so many of these outspoken body positivity chicks are in their early 20's. Yeah, at 20 and obese, I wasn't healthy but I was comfortable and manageable. I still had energy and flexibility because I was young. But at over 30? That's when the reality kicks in and suddenly you have bad knees, bad back, high cholesterol and the game of chicken against becoming diabetic happens. It's easy to say 'stop assuming fat means unhealthy' when you have youth as a shield between you and the consequences of your fatness. The years will catch up, and so will the symptoms of your lifestyle.
Well said! My heaviest was 240 pounds in my late 20's. Even at that weight, and having PCOS, my doctor said my blood pressure was fantastic, my joints were great, and my blood work showed no concerns. Everything was pretty much in prime working order. In her own words, despite me carrying extra pounds, I was essentially a very healthy girl.
But how long would that last? I knew I would still have to do something about it. I didn't want to just coast because I knew I couldn't bank on that forever. Joints deteriorate, the arteries are only so big, and scarfing donuts and cake all day will basically turn blood into fruit punch. Plus, PCOS gives me a much higher chance of developing diabetes, which I really want to avoid.
I'm 33 now and lost 40 pounds so far.
The 20 year old fat activists always seem to ignore the poor 50 year olds with tubes in their noses, carrying around their oxygen cylinders, or wheeling around in their mobility scooters because their joints have finally been worn down like a bald car-tire. It's very saddening to watch, it honestly is. They live such tragic, trapped lives. The fat activist issues are always superficial ones, like an obese person modelling, or finding clothes that fit. They're completely overlooking the real issue so much that it's almost like they're being glib on purpose.
@@LadyDecember I just recently found out that my cholesterol is a little high and blood sugar is also a little high. I have PCOS as well. I was healthy in my early 20s and worked out a lot before but since getting into grad school everything kind of got put on a back burner. I regret that so much. If I had continued to focus on my health I would not be in the situation I am in now. But there is still time for me to change so I am doing exactly that. What these activists don't realize that the older you get the harder it will be for your body to deal with the weight and problems will start to creep in.
I've lost about 30lbs since last year and I am hoping this year to reach my goal weight. I also don't want to become diabetic so hopefully losing the weight will help control that along with healthy diet and exercise.
And you are right, you never hear from the Fat Acceptance crowd from the 70s and 80s. Because they aren't with us anymore.
" the game of chicken against becoming diabetic happens" I have never applauded more in my life!!
It's true. The body can deal with 30, 40, 50 extra pounds, depending on your frame (my great grandmother and grandmother were larger women, but were very active) but once you get past that point into morbid obesity the body can't sustain that for long. When I worked with the elderly we didn't have any obese residents that were over 55 years old.
Imagine being so self absorbed that you take something a stranger did for their own well-being as a personal attack towards you.
They love pulling mental gymnastics trying to convince people that fat is good instead of pulling a physical one
You put that beautifully.
I lost 130lbs and it was a huge accomplishment. It did bring me closer to health and much to my surprise... a lot of fat people were mean to me about it. Snarky comments about my loose skin and how I've allowed my weight loss to go to my head, because I wore shorts. People are jealous. Period.
That's awesome! Anyone who puts in that kind of hard work should be proud of themselves! 💪
I'm proud of your accomplishment!! BTW, true friends will support your weight loss. Fat people are heart attacks in the making.
If you can do it, then so could they. That's the message they can't stand!
Exactly. Weight loss is a hell of a lot of hard work. You deserve to be recognized for that milestone. Show off those shapely legs!
Congrats!!
I have to give that girl applause 👏 for how well she managed to string together literally EVERY social justice buzz word in existence to create a victim out of herself. She turned that shit into an art form
SIS;,,,, PICASSO 🤯
Her social justice bingo card is a blackout.
My thoughts exactly. When she threw the R word in there I about died LOL Extreme leftists really have destroyed the true meaning of the word it now means “I’m offended”
Yes!! It's like a drinking game with this people and how many buzzwords they can use. As soon as I here inherently....I stop listening, they ALL love that word
Kinda similar to the feminists with $200k in student loan debt from getting their masters degrees in women's studies, etc., ranting about the "wage gap", and under representation of women in STEM fields...🙄
As a person with 60 lbs to lose...being fat is not a personality trait...if you think it is, you have other issues you need to figure out. You can't love yourself by going into denial. 🤷
You got this friend, i believe in you!! 💞💞💞
Facts
They’re all in denial about how unhappy they are with themselves.
The fact that she is lying down in the bed and responding…says a lot.
Yup
Plot twist: she has become stuck INTO the bed
Without fail, people like this are always in a supine position.
Killed me
@@noahbenton9317
Better hope she doesn’t rot into it
A year and a half ago I was 310lbs, after changing my diet and exercising I'm down to 245lbs and this weight loss train has no breaks baby HELL YEAH ME!!!!
Good for you!!
good luck 🍀
🎉 Go You
That is awesome! Keep up the good work.
Congrats! How’s it going now?
"Losing weight doesn't bring you closer to health- it's a myth."
Aaaaand that was the laugh I needed to start my day on time, thanks for the giggles!
I’m srs we are like de evolving 💀
I know I was like 😟🤯🤣 when I heard that BS come out of her mouth.
@Moonlight they're talking with irony. They know losing weight makes you healthier
Well depending on the circumstances she'd be right.
You see you have to maintain a healthy weight being too skinny can cause just as many problems. Obviously that doesn't apply to her case.
@@petelee2477 Yeah well when people say lose wieght, they usually really mean lose excess fat
she literally contradicted herself saying you can do whatever you want with your body and post but if you do your fat phobic 😂😂😂
Imagine being mad someone wants to decrease risks of getting obesity-related diseases or diabetes, move and breathe better and just increase their overall quality of life. It's not like she's forced to lose weight herself, although recommended she can stay fat if she's happy that way and that's okay. And yes, losing weight with a diet change is a great accomplishment. When I was overweight I was at a high risk if developing type 2 diabetes and suffered from sleep apnea, waking up like every two hours with a panic attack because my body wasn't getting enough oxygen. It makes me sad knowing some people would be mad at me because I got rid of these issues by losing weight.
It’s called JEALOUSY
we all tacitally know she is just jelous and she does too
That’s the craziest thing, if these people were truly happy they wouldn’t be so desperate to convince everyone that fat is beautiful and healthy. Like if you’re TRULY happy WHO FKING CARES? Toxicity at its finest… so fricken proud of you for losing that weight for your health, amazing accomplishment 💜
For real I got so big I developed prediabetes. Imagine being mad at someone for trying to eliminate the risk of a disease that could literally kill you and make you lose pieces of your body. Like oh sorry!!!! I'll cut off my foot just for you
What’s sad is that these people think they’re healthy and Weight has nothing to do with health
I’m a fat girl. I would never put “fat” in my bio or use it as something to identify myself with.
I also can’t imagine being offended by someone else’s weight loss journey! I’ve finally truly committed to my own weight loss and seeing other people succeed inspires and motivated me!
That's great for you! Good luck on your journey ❤
How’s your journey? :)
I'd have at least a miniscule amount of respect for people like her if instead of all their fake moral high ground they'd just be honest and say "I hate myself and want everyone else to be as miserable as me"
Better yet, say "Hey, I'm overweight and would like to lase some lbs, how'd you do it?"
Exactly. Tammy does the same thing on 1000lb sisters. Nobody else is allowed to enjoy ANYTHING if Tammy isn't getting exactly what she wants. 🤦♂️
This is the comment. I see it all the time, people crusading for some topic when it’s really just them projecting. Let the dude have his moment. If it upsets you, simply scroll on by
@@bulletproofair Yes. Tammy is bitter about her situation and is clearly envious of the good things her family members have that she doesn't. When Chris was approved for weight loss surgery or when Amy said she was moving away, Tammy's "excitement" for them was obviously disingenuous
Exactly, like get real. And stop using black people's issues to gaslight your situation.
Dear Splotchmaker,
No girl, people don’t have an issue with you being fat, people have an issue with you being a jerk to someone just being proud and happy with his weight loss. He wasn’t being rude or insulting, or shaming people for being fat, he was just showing off the fruits of his labor. And then she had to get offended and probably jealous, and make a video looking all bitter and mean. No one is going to look kindly on that, and as the saying goes, “you reap what you sow” put negativity into the world, you’re going to get it back.
Right? She's mad/annoyed with herself, so takes it out on other people.
Not to mention how she says he can post his opinions online, but there are consequences to posting said opinions... and when she was rude and hypocritical, she earned the consequences of people pointing her behavior out, yet all of those comments were "hate" comments that displayed fatphobia and, somehow, racism.🙄
Absolutely
I'm queer, leftist and fat too.... And I think she's so annoying and entitled. She thinks she has the right to complain about other people's decision, but no one can talk about her. It's ridiculous. FFS.
Queer leftist and overweight here (i don't consider myself fat), but yeah this girl is delusional...i legit think this must be a prank account cause no weight you can put up a show like this
Seriously, the first thing I thought was she needs to not drag *actual* people in those groups down with her because she's probably the worst representation that could exist...
@@zweks I know her in real life because we grew up together. This is 100% who she is as a person lmao
@@daphne10120 how was it like growing up with her? It must’ve been draining
@@oncefighting she was pretty normal until she graduated highschool. Skinny too. The last few years she’s seemed to go off the deep end. Now she’ll attack anyone for posting before and after photos. She unfriended me online a long time ago.
At the age of 50, I had to lose 10 KG and ramp up my exercise routine not because I'm fatphobic, I'm hypertension-phobic, lowerbackpain-phobic, diabetes-phobic, climbstairs-phobic...
As a heavy woman myself, the man who lost 120pds is a king. Good on him, he's inspirational! Being fat isn't fun or glorious, it's just bad.
That’s a lot of weight loss
@@asteriasheria2053 That's why he's a total king.
I want to lose half thay and ot can feel like so much....then King goes ahead and does it. Ok here we go 👏👏👏
"Your celebration of thinnes is inherently problematic" no, what's inherently problematic is the way these people insert themselves in everyone's business. This dude literally said that losing weight made HIM feel better. He's literally talking about his own experience and this woman somehow thinks it's a personal attack against her. Get over yourself.
I know, I guess they are being thinphobic or healthphobic 🤷♀ I love what Michelle said when ppl say the word "problematic" she put into words something I was never able to elaborate
Same thing happened to Adele.
She’s a very controlling woman. She’s just screaming “Do everything my way or you’re fat phobic!” Congrats to the man who lost weight. ❤️
That’s how a lot of fad “groups” are these days. “Do what I say, change your whole life and world view for me and few friends of mine or else your a bigot and a phobia person”.
Lol no man will touch her
@@qjtvaddict well, that was disproven by the part where she had her fat boyfriend defend her on his tiktok. She is a nut case, but she found another nutcase that puts up with it.
If she was my partner she would've been reported missing a long time ago
I will never understand people who are all "you can't judge me" and then post a bunch of judgmental bs on social media. That lady is out of her damn mind if she thinks losing weight is an attack on other fat people.
Yep. I can just imagine a cult of fat people gathered around at a meeting. Then several of them stand up and say we tricked you, we no longer are a part of your cult and do you know what we are going to do to cause info harm to you... "We are going to lose weight. MWAHAHAHA".
She gets mad that he's being "condescending" after she insulted him. Girl bye.
It's funny, these kinds of people tend to be the most condescending since they try to tone police every inch of the internet and pose it as them just trying to "educate" you. When in actuality it's just them trying to satiate their own crippling insecurities, they talk down to you like your a five year old is them trying to hide it.
Why does the body positivity get so triggered that people decide to lose weight? If a person wants to lose weight, let them do it, he’s proud of his progress and celebrating himself as he should, I don’t understand how the body positivity can say their bodies are none of other’s business but get mad and try to police what others do with their bodies, and are doctors “ fatphobic” when they say obesity is unhealthy? it’s the hypocrisy for me
They hate the way they look so much that instead of accepting responsibility for their poor choices and change, they will behave like this so they don't have to see the offending content and have people enable her to have a false sense of importance.
There is literally nothing positive about being overweight to the point that it is a detriment to your health. I just don't understand why someone else's personal journey is anyone else's concern.
Because people who have successfully lost weight are proof that they could lose the weight if they really wanted to.
I'm just as confused
Bc they all talk about how its basically impossible to lose weight and when people do they take it personally bc they cant or wont do the same
Lol, died at her BS about “positioning thinness”. I’m overweight myself (working on it, and have lost almost 45lbs so far!), and I do think that *healthy* thinness should be prioritized and positioned as the ideal, lol. Because it’s biologically and scientifically proven to be the most optimal state for a long life. You hit it outta the park again, Michelle! ❤️
Good job on the weight loss! I feel the same way, we should prioritize healthiness, not thiness or fatness.
Congrats!! That is so amazing! That’s how much weight I have to lose, but it’s been hard because of my thyroid and other autoimmune diseases. But your post is motivating me to get started because I really hate sitting at home being depressed all the time and just glued to my tablet. It’s time for me to get moving! 💓
Atta girl!! Good for you! ❤
Congratulations. I lost over 30lbs years ago. I look better and feel healthier. Overweight and obesity are not healthy.
😊 😊Keep it UP and remember.. Do it because you wanted and you have the will to change 👍👍👍
Even if you are "happy" being fat, that doesn't mean EVERYONE needs to be. These people are so self centered and selfish.
I honestly think people like her want everyone to be okay with being fat so she doesn't have to change anything she's doing. Its just weird how they take personal offense to it.
She wants everyone else to be miserable like her.
That's the funny part, if she just shut up about criticizing other people and did her thing, nobody would give her shit, they'd just leave her alone. But I guess she's that desperate for everyone to know how jelly and angry she is, basically if she's not happy, everyone has to know.
@@lainiwakura1776 I can understand her general grumpiness to a point. Fat creators are often criticized for being fat by haters and those who are concerned for their health. But it’s also the internet, and if you’re too thin-skinned to deal with that, you shouldn’t be on here. You definitely don’t have the right to go after people just because they lost weight and you don’t.
Right smh
Losing weight is hard, I understand that. But it doesn't have to be miserable at all. Being that huge is like a prison. I don't want chronic pain! I want to feel like I can take on the world and have a healthy relationship with food. I wish everyone on their weight loss journey complete happiness!
It always blows me away when people are offended by something that has nothing to do with them! 🤷🏼♀️
They have nothing else to do in Life…
My dad always says “Even in a funeral, they’d want to be the corpse”.
THIS scream it from the rooftops lol
@@Rexsaglez omfg. 😂 😂 😂 That's hilarious and accurate af. Your dad is right. 🤣
the fact that "body positivity" people are always upset when other people do what they want with their bodies is all the proof i need that "body positivity" has nothing to do with body positivity. i tried to see it the way they want me to, but i just can't. it's too hypocritical. they're very clearly just people who are upset with their own bodies but afraid of working for change playing out their self-prescribed helplessness.
Too much negativity in this body positivity movement
It's almost like she's just looking for people to validate her size. If she's actually secure in who she is and what she looks like why does she need everyone around her to praise her for doing nothing. Maybe deep down she's actually really unhappy with herself? 🤷♀️
I personally love when they scream about how proud they are to be fat then beg the doctor not to tell them their weight 🤣
Yes, that is very odd to me!
What was most surprising was that she even had a boyfriend. Came as a shock to me. Had to rewind to make sure I heard correctly.
Who would ever date someone with such a bad attitude over things that don't affect them in any way?
The dude needs to up his game and find someone who takes care of themselves and others around them. Sheesh.
I thought she was Queer?
@@subzfit that word has lost pretty much all meaning
@@margaretrandy4698 no, you just never knew what it meant. This fat lady is an idiot but she can be queer (which includes under it's umbrella bisexual or something else) and have a boyfriend.
@@subzfit Bisexual people exist
Her "boyfriend " is probably a fantasy. Or if he is real, a fat fetishist or feeder fetishist.
She acts as if he personally tagged her in his weight loss journey, insulted her and challenged her to go the same. Nope, nope, nope. He’s just living his life and she is mad about it and anyone that challenges her is automatically “fat-phobic”. Uh, whatever.
This video made me laugh hella hard. Yes, I said hella.
imagine being so pressed over someone losing weight and being happy. like imagine caring so much over someone else’s life choices 💀💀
Sounds like that one chick that was SOOOO MAD when Rebel Wilson lost weight. Lol I can’t with these stupid people.
Exactly. What someone else eats doesn't make me 💩. It's a misery loves company mentality
I feel my brain cells dying listening to these people
She's 23?! Those pounds definitely add on the years.
It really does. I'm six years older than my friend and people always think she's older than me because she has more fat than me.
Damn im 23
😂😂😂😂
Wait, I’m 24 and mistaken for a teenager and I’m a Mom 🥴👀
@@booksandtea1989 congrats
I loved your video. After I watched it, I went to that young man's TikTok and told him that I was proud of what he's done with his weight loss and that he's really an inspiration to me.
This woman is a prime example of someone who lives exclusively on the internet.
She needs to go outside 🙃
She cant, doors are "fat phobic"
How could she do that ? Walking ? That require to move, i think she's allergic to that
She’s never touched grass before
@@Anonymous183- even though she looks like she eats it daily
Lmao She probably can't fit through the door
As someone who occasionally watches astronomicalboy’s tiktoks, he’s an extremely funny and kind person and I’m proud that he’s been losing weight. To attack him for doing something that’s making him feel better about his body is just terrible!
She needs to find something else to do with her time, what a jerk.
I'm a 17 year old girl. I had an eating disorder due to PTSD from being abused, and I used to weigh 190lbs at a height of 5'1, so I was pretty chunky. I felt absolutely terrible every day when I looked in the mirror, but I never bothered to change, because food was my comfort. It wasnt until I hated myself so much that i started starving myself and I dropped ALL THE WAY down to 110 lbs in a year. I have been on both ends of the eating disorder spectrum, and I managed to bring myself back to my current weight of 125lbs, it dosent sound like a big difference, but I assure you it is. I'm much, MUCH happier today than i was when I was 190lbs. I found a love of running, and a love of myself, for the first time in my life. I can safely say if I was still the weight I was 5 years ago- I would have sided with these "fat liberation" people, simply because I wasnt willing to change myself for the better, and I didnt want to change, even when I was harassed constantly for being short, but extremely big. I just didnt want to put in the work. These people are poisoning the minds of overweight people, and young adults like myself who are at a weak enough point to believe the crap these people are saying.
Congrats to you on getting healthy !
You are a smart 17 year old.
Congrats on finding your personal happiness both physically and mentally!!!
I'm sorry i always laugh when i see the word Chunky but ur story is cool👍😭
Congratulations on finding a healthy relationship with food. I hope you’re doing alright. 💕
I’ve lost 7 inches ( I haven’t weighed myself recently) around my waist. I’ve been so proud of myself! But I had someone on Facebook tell me it’s insulting to brag about it for those who can’t lose weight.
But fat person can lose weight.🤭
All congratulations to the guy she was harassing. 120 pounds is a lot of weight - a whole adult person's worth of weight, really - and it must have taken a lot of dedication and hard work.
That guy lost almost my body weight it's impressive
If i lost 120 pounds i literally would not exist, good for him!
He lost a whole skinny asian girl, that’s a whole person
He lost a whole skinny asian girl, that’s a whole person
how dare you praise hard work and goal achievement! you should be ashamed of your phoebic, oppressive, racist self!!!!!!!!!!!
As someone who lost 200lbs and still has weight to lose. I'll think it was hilarious if someone attacks me for doing what I want with my body. The same time and energy it took them to criticize me wanting to be HEALTHY, YES HEALTHY because 400lbs is NOT healthy. Then they can use that same energy to do something positive with their own lives. The fat positive and body positive communities can really show their hypocrisy. Instead of criticizing someone who worked hard to lose weight, try being happy for them and don't get mad when they choose to not be fat anymore. I personally think many people are beautiful regardless of their size. But, it's not fun or pretty if it causes a detriment to your own health. I knew I was beautiful at 400lbs but also couldn't take a small flight of stairs or walk 1 block without pain or being out of breath. Instead of them saying that it's fat phobic to lose weight. They need to see it as, it's self care and knowing ones own worth to decide to become healthier and reduce the risk of high BP, diabetes, etc. It's all good and fine until you watch an episode of My 600lb Life and say, I never want to be like that. I never see those same hypocrites talk about the people on that show who are literally dying from being overweight. That's my rant. Love your channel Michelle, Yoshi, and Butters.
Holy guacamole!! That’s an amazing accomplishment hun!! You should be sososososo proud of yourself!!!! I look for unique physical features at first glance, and personality at first actual meeting. If you’re overweight, I’ll never actually notice it when forming and opinion of you. Most people genuinely do NOT care about anyone’s weight. Only time I’ll talk about it, is when discussing gain or loss accomplishments with my fellow “food aversion therapy” moms, IN THE OTHER ROOM FROM OUR KIDS. I don’t comment on weight in front of my toddler, nor do I comment on it with friends/loved ones. If they came to me to ask for help (which quite a few have, because I’m a retired marine, and was a ballet dancer before hand), I would focus solely on lifestyle changes that being excitement, creativity, and fun into their lives. I’ll let them watch the weight drop and acknowledge it for themselves before we ever focus on a weight “goal”.
Yeah, My 600lbs life is an eye opener, i promised myself to never let my weight get to that point. I gained a lot of weight over the years and i thank myself for noticing a problem before it got to that point and doing something about it.
Congrats on your weight loss that’s incredible!!!
Daaaaang Mika! That's wonderful! Thank you for sharing.
@@-MaryPoppins- that's me! I don't care if someone is fat, skinny, medium or whatever body type but I do care about my body and being healthy and able to go for long walks, exercising without pain or out of breath so I make sure to take care of myself so I'd be around awhile with my love ones. Plus I just feels so so much better with my weight down.
Someone was offended/triggered by one of my Instagram posts recently and instead of freaking out and deleting it like I would have a few years ago, I pretended I was Michelle, defended the reasons I posted it, and kept the post up. Thanks for being an inspiration and teaching us how to have a backbone. 💗
Michelle is just and inspiration period. I started watching her and became more motivated to lose weight and stick to it. I'm glad I found her and not the fat positive movement first. I've lost 25 kg. I got 15kg more to lose and because of Michelle's advice and I'm love it. I can fun up the stair without hard breathing. My knees don't hurt anymore. I can dance faster and more freely. I CAN SEE MY FEET!! I mean once I move my breastesis, they haven't decreased yet, but still I'm enjoying a better quality of life I'm happier now. Its great
@@blessedcocoa5729 That's amazing !! Keep up the amazing work!!! You're going to get where you wanna be!!! I love reading comments on her videos about people getting healthier and hyping y'all up!
@@kayleestephens6774 Thanks. I hope you do well too. It really is great seeing how much of an good effect her videos have and the support is so uplifting. I really need it too. I lost 5 family members last year to murder, grief and a coma cause by a stroke. I even lost my aunt today from cancer, but I'm still pressing on, because I want to make them proud and Michelle's videos have been giving the extra drive when all I want to do is stay in bed and cry.
@@blessedcocoa5729 I honestly do the same thing! Whenever I’m tempted by the lulling words of the fat acceptance movement, I pop on one of her videos to ground me to reality. I’ve lost 15 pounds (about 7.5 kilos) so far with a LOT more to do. But I’m actually feeling better. My depression and anxiety are not well controlled by meds, but exercise has helped immensely. I can’t wait until I can run again!
@@kikicogger2284 Yh, excercise does help. Not only is it a distraction, but you feel great afterwards and you begin to enjoy it.
Please pass this on to Miss Buttinsky here: I'm 62, 5'8" 125. I've lost 20-odd lbs at a doable pace over a couple years by jogging, eating healthy shit I dont like and willpower. I hope she's laying down when that trigg hits. Love your stuff McD!
I was 230 pounds, currently 170 pounds, It took me so long and it was a complete journey. I just imagine someone coming at me telling am fat-phobit just because I lose weight, ridiculous... The body positivity community is getting out of control
That’s a fantastic achievement! Don’t listen to the crazies calling you fatphobic. I hope you continue to make the best decisions for your health
The "body-positivity" movement: that's one group of useless people who deserve to be tied up and have a herd of starving pigs unleashed onto them...
The good things that comes out of that: pigs are healthy and well fed, and biomass useless to civilised society is put to good use.
Congratulations, I am on my journey too..
Congrats!! That is a huge accomplishment. It takes a lot of will power and dedication. You’re doing great 🎉
That's really great! You must be so proud of yourself! 💪
Can I just say that I'm fat phobic and have no shame. My cousin in law died nearly 2 months ago from septicaemia resulting from surgery to remove an umbilical hernia. He was a great guy. Hard worker, great father, treated my cousin like a queen but apart from being a chain smoker . He was overweight . Being under 5ft4 didn't help. We all miss him and it was a terrible loss but he should have taken better care of himself too. He was not that much older than me.
Being overweight is nothing to be proud of.
That’s so sad. Sorry for your family loss and your loss. ❤️
That’s actually why my mom stared to loose weight, she’s also a smoker and was severely overweight. We’ve lost our dad (not to weight related things) so she doesn’t want us to loose her too. She wanted to be able to run around and play with us at the park or in our backyard she said “I just want to be able to be your mom”
Tina, I'm so sorry for your loss. I am praying for your family...not in a condescending way, but a sincere way...
@@Blakmagic88 Thanks. I understand.
@@sleepygrle6738 good on her and all the best!!
She loud and wrong and just keeps digging herself into a deeper hole. She has nothing and keeps finding things to be offended by
How old is she? Being offended by someone’s weight loss and a prayer 🙏🏼
She wants to control other people to make herself feel better. She’s going to have a bad time with that mindset.
@@mariahannah8407 bingo 🏆
Agreed
Good grief. This would be like an alcoholic complaining about someone who quit drinking and calling them "problematic"
I lost 70 lbs in 2021. One of my biggest motivations was after watching World War Z with my daughter. She looked at me and said, If this happened we would have to hide somewhere and pray they don't find us or I would have to run off by myself, because there is no way that you could run from them. It broke my heart that my 7 year old daughter already thought I wouldn't be able to protect her.
☹️
You love your daughter. Bless you
Bless you and your daughter I hope you both have long and happy lives 💛💛💛💛
Jeez, your 7 year old watched World War Z 😯 I was so scared during that movie and I’m 27 🤣 she must be fearless
Aww congrats on your weight loss. 70lbs is a huge accomplishment.
I'm sorry, but when she said "Losing weight doesn't make you closer to health. It's a myth" I cried laughing! 😭😭 The jokes write themselves! She needs to get off of TikTok once in awhile.
Well she’s getting closer to her grave…
If she got off Tik Tok then she’d have to get on a treadmill… and we can’t have that now, can we?
Well.. it's sortof true - loosing weight doesn't always bring you closer to health. But when you are overweight, and you do it in a healthy and controlled manner through lifestyle change instead of some crazy crash diet, and you keep your weight loss amount reasonable - it totally does.
@@ekaterinadzyubak197 I get that. For every rule there is an exception!
I love your channel. I’m glad people are calling out others on their bullshit!! Keep doing what you’re doing babe 💕
So, hating on a guy who's proud of himself for losing weight, which is a huge lifestyle change to do, and minding his own business is ok to do. But we can't comment on people like this woman who don't want to put in the extra work and just accepts that she's going to stay overweight.. 🤔 Man, I hope that once I'm done being pregnant and exercise to improve my lifestyle and lose weight, I won't get the same kind of hate. I have MS, which makes it hard to stay active because of occasional nerve pain and numbness, but when I was actually exercising and losing weight, I was feeling so much better and my symptoms greatly improved! Crazy how staying active improves a lot of people's lives.
Dang well congrats on the kid, I hope you are able to stay active, good luck!
You got this!That muscle numbness is no joke it hurts to not even move. 🥲proud of you momma.
In remission with my MS-- I've had to knock off 150lbs so far that the disease put on my body, and still gotta regain all the muscle again. It feels like hell, and I totally get you there. Shit like this feels like a copout and spitting on people who struggle to feel well again. Its immense getting back on track again, and taking back who we are, and while I agree we shouldn't get mocked at our lowest, doesn't mean we should also have to fear being mocked at reaching our best again, like the fellow did!
Proud of you, keep fighting! And congrats on the little one! :D
It's so annoying when people say "you don't need to lose weight' you're not even fat/1!1!" Ehm yes I am ma'am, the fact that I am not obese doesn't mean I am not overweight, let me care about my body alone thanks
Yes! I am 6'1 and 240 lbs. I need to lose at least 60-70 lbs but my family keeps telling me I "wear it well". I tell them that isn't the point. I feel awful and feel the weight in my joints and in the restriction of my movement. This weight is coming off! I don't care if it'll make me look different...
@@Blakmagic88 do what's best for you!! I was pushed to lose 40 lbs for my knees, that really improved my overall health and also helped a lot with my mental health issues! It's very hard but don't give up!
"You're out of touch if you think losing weight bring you closer to good health. It's a myth."
*Heart disease and type-2 diabetes have entered the chat*
No to mention joint pain
I was diagnosed with Pre diabetes 4 months ago. I then weighed 90 kgs.
Now I'm down to 74 kg. And I plan to go down to 55kgs.
Wish me luck.
@@whentheimposterissus8376 good luck!
@@josephfrechette9916 I can relate to the joint pain. I've gained some weight and noticed that I'm having more joint pain. So it's time to lose the weight.
@@whentheimposterissus8376 Good luck!!
I have been severely overweight (and also under weight) and lost about 50 and still pretty big. I had some girl tell me my eating disorder and the fact I wanted to lose weight was fatphobic. I took the time to explain that I was dealing with some health issues and wanted to feel better and she just went off on me. I very much stand with fat acceptance, I personally been picked on, treated sifferently, and faced some challenges because of my body. People like this do more harm than good, its hurtful af.
Opinions are like assholes, everyone's got one. Don't bother explaining yourself to these weirdos.
Way to go
Do these ppl think we literally hate every single molecule of fat? We NEED fat to have periods, to regulate hormones, to be healthy, etc. BUT we dont need that much fat for all of these processes work!! Excess fat is a net bad thing lool. Loool
She's doing a great effort in her life by laying on her bed rolling her eyes at others personal achievements
Rolling her eyes is probably the most exercise she had lately.
@@ilanaf8406 Lmao
You hit the whole “praying” nail on the head. For a lot of people, praying is how they show they care, and that they’re concerned for you. Granted, the only time saying “I’ll pray for you” makes me do a head tilt is when those people know that there’s more they can do.
Like, having a bake sale to donate to charity or something. Saying you’ll pray they get a lot of money instead of attending and/or supporting the sale just shows laziness lol.
Personally, I get urked when someone says this. However, he made a whole comment and she focused on that for half the tiktok? She's just deflecting.
@@percyioukhnikov81 as someone who is religious, I only ever use "I'll pray for you" when my friends need help. Like they are going to the doctors and are worried, they are in pain (physical or mental), or they are about to head into something (like a hard work meeting).
I understand other people might use it more often or more condescending, but I just wanted to say my 2 cents
I don't know in America but here in Europe when someone say to you "i'll pray for you" that's just a polite figure to say "i'm sorry for you" and it's used just to peoples you don't actually care, not a Friend or family member, nobody will ever pray "for you", you better start to pray "together" instead if you really care
I say that a lot, even on the internet when I see someone struggling. There isn't much else I can do. I believe that God does listen to prayers, and I actually do pray when I say I will, and even if person I'm praying for doesn't believe in God, hopefully they'll just accept it as a compliment, because I'm asking God to help them, isn't that a good thing? I've had Muslim people tell me they'll pray for me, and I say thank you! It's not too hard to just accept a compliment.
He said it to tell her “Im this narrative, I’m the good guy and you’re not.” (Mind you, it’s true)
Her comment about how being thinner won’t bring you closer to health did it for me. (Apart from all other apparent health benefits:) The pressure you take off your joints alone is an unbelievable relief (and can’t be denied, cause it’s simple physics) and has brought me (and all other people I know who lost weight, too) so much more quality of life (and I was a pretty happy fatty before that, but losing weight still made everything a thousand times better).
She's a very sad woman.
Happy people don't go on TikTok to bully and diminish the accomplishments of others.
I always say the most obvious proof of a person's happiness is in their kindness.
If that makes sense lol
For a group of people always telling others to mind their business, they sure struggle with that concept.
You’re expecting these people to follow their own advice.
Hell, being called "Problematic" is almost a badge of honor in this day and age, especially from someone like this chick.
It’s also an annoying buzzword. I rarely came across it a few years ago.
Problematic more or less these days is now starting to mean someone who is just being realistic. The word is slowly evolving into a positive word.
My mom lost over 120+ lbs after being morbidly obese for years and in an unhealthy relationship with food and health in general. She realized that if she wanted to be around for her grandchildren’s lives and her children’s lives she needed to be healthier and make better choices. she is so much happier now, she can go ride dirt bikes and fit into a whole new fun wardrobe and wears dresses now without feeling uncomfortable. it’s so sad that people are shaming people for losing weight to feel more comfortable in their bodies. i’m 5’5 and 223 lbs and my mom has inspired me to start losing weight and keep it off so i can do more with my life and feel more comfortable. people losing weight should not be offending to people.
Her: Post and do whatever you want with your body.
The guy: **Does what he wants**
Her: You can't do that.
I’m currently at the gym as I watch this. You know… it’s not easy to get fit or lose weight. It’s a lot of pain and work (physically and mentally). It’s a huge accomplishment. 💪
Amen to that.
Wow this woman is delusional. I hope she isn’t responsible for other small humans because she will set them up to fail.
Well she's literally crushing the healthcare system, so...
Celebrating obesity is good but celebrating thinness not? Her jelousy is really strong.
LOVE YOU MICHELLE KEEPING US FED (healthily of course)
"You can post and do whatever you want with your body" yet she's the one who went out of her way and said something negative first😐
I think she’s trying to say “ you can post and do whatever you want with your body...as long as it pleases me”
“How hypo…”
Shows a picture of a hippopotamus.
I can’t. Michelle, you’re going to make me fly off my elliptical. 🤣😂🤣😂
I dropped my b0ng at that
OMGosh, I laugh my butt off at your videos, Michelle. They make my day! Thank goodness there are other people out there that think some of the same things I do!
If this woman wants to be obese and have tons of health problems, more power to her. Congratulations to the young man who decided to change his life for the better.
Soo jealous!keep holding the “fat positive” accountable for the crazy bs they are pushing!!! Love your videos ❤️❤️
When you said, “I prefer to be able to run in case we have a zombie apocalypse” I died. 😂
Nah they probably won't do anything to her. Zombies eat brains
I've thought about this too!! Also what the hell would I do with my cat🤣
@@meganjones1184
Carry them in your arms bridal style🤭
@Serena that's going to get old fast, and my cats an A hole, she's going to meow and give me away🤣
@@meganjones1184
Make her claw at your head while you run😅
It’s impressive that they say that losing weight is impossible but it’s bad for people to “do the impossible”
Good lord shes *absolutely revolting* both physically and mentally. She needs some serious help from a real professional who knows how to work with absolutely delusional people.
Fun fact she's actually planning on being a therapist.
@@avanikaushik3423 Now I’m going to pray for her clients
@@avanikaushik3423 yikess.. 😬
I’ve lost 120 lbs and if some chic like this came at me the way she did him I’d just laugh and feel bad for her.
Same. Big ups
@@TCAPRecipes thank you. More like big downs. Lol
Lol thats true.
I hope she sees this because WOW....the audacity of her. 😤 What is wrong with some people?!🙄 Im shocked, really. "Thinking that losing weight brings you closer to health, is a MYTH" What in the actual WORLD is this woman living in?!?! what??? Omg...every single word coming out of her mouth...is deeply concerning...
6:27 That bombastic side eye! "Hippo-Crytical"
If people like this put even just half their energy into improving their health, their stress levels would likely drop by at least half what it is right now. I was like this (not to this extreme when I was overweight) years ago. Mad that I couldn't fit into the clothes I wanted. Mad at others' weight loss success. But I NEVER went on a rampage against them. Because I knew deep down, that I was the one in charge of myself. People like this don't want to accept that. So they spend their time on social media, claiming they "don't care" what others think of them. Ridiculous.
i’m offended that butters and yoshi didn’t get more screen time😤
I'm offended that I didn't think of this very valid reason to get offended first 🤣
"... that jealousy is oozing out you like cheese" That line made me spit out my tea 🤣🤣💀
The “ban fatphobia” petition is especially funny because it treats it like it’s a black and white issue and it really is not
That lady is so delusional, how can she attack a man who was living his own life? Geez, she is the worst of these "fat positive" people.
Typical manipulative tactic: express outrage at someone doing something that does not affect her in the slightest, and act like a victim when confronted about it.
Imagine at 23 rolling your eyes that much trying to get your point across and wanting to be accepted as a respectable adult. Yikes.
How can you attack someone improving themselves. It's taken me a LONG TIME to figure out how petty and jealous people can be towards someone succeeding.
I’ve never seen people more jealous, mad and insecure than the people in the Body positive/ fat acceptance movement. I just laugh at how miserable they are.
Body shaming of me: bad.
Body shaming by me: good.
This genuinely seems to be how these people think.
Gotta love people who cry "body positivity" then shame others for what they decide is best for their body.
I have a theory that fat people who get upset over others improving their lives don't actually love their bodies. If they did, they wouldn't care about others changing themselves because they're comfortable in their own skin.
OMG the hippo picture was hilariously placed. You have no filter and I love it!