Why I'll NEVER Drink Alcohol Again, After Learning This!

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  • Alcohol is one of the few things that will slowly dismantle and destroy your life. When you understand the concept in this video, you will never want to drink alcohol again. It will change your worldview and make you see alcohol for what it really is - a fancy marketed poison.
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Комментарии • 488

  • @LeonSylvester
    @LeonSylvester  3 года назад +17

    Want to interact with me on a personal level? Join the Soberclear Facebook group! facebook.com/groups/436524337281989

    • @toteyboy8191
      @toteyboy8191 3 года назад

      Hey leon, are you on whatsapp? 😃

    • @techguy3373
      @techguy3373 3 года назад +4

      Great info👍 Thanks for helping me figure out alcohol was the primary cause of my anxiety problem.

    • @techguy3373
      @techguy3373 3 года назад

      Considering GABA depletion in the brain the day after drinking is the cause of hangover anxiety, then GABA via injection should work because it would make it passed the gut. The GABA supplements don’t work because they are destroyed in the stomach before reaching the brain. No study’s available though.

    • @paolagonzalez2495
      @paolagonzalez2495 3 года назад

      There are many factors in stopping drinking including eg motivation and help from family.
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      Check out the website SebsMagicTactic.com and extraordinary testimonials.

    • @sharvanders6888
      @sharvanders6888 3 года назад

      Have you got insta?

  • @nutriskulpt926
    @nutriskulpt926 3 года назад +241

    10 days without alcohol...after 2 decades of drinking....one step at a time to conquer this mountain...

    • @LeonSylvester
      @LeonSylvester  3 года назад +8

      tejas456 dragster good work

    • @gwillis01
      @gwillis01 3 года назад +12

      Congratulations on starting to improve yourself. Keep working on your physical and mental health.

    • @dopeytripod
      @dopeytripod 3 года назад +7

      just quit....it's only alcohol

    • @MrBComish
      @MrBComish 3 года назад +7

      @@dopeytripod wow, I never thought about it that way! You sir need to go into alcohol counseling. You obviously have some insight to help millions of people...just quit!

    • @prehistoricboar4620
      @prehistoricboar4620 3 года назад +2

      @waquzy you didn't get Dopey's point :)

  • @moviesandmusic5055
    @moviesandmusic5055 3 года назад +103

    I'm Nearly 90 days in,One of the Greatest Decisions I have and ever will make in my life. I was basically an Alcoholic for 7 years. From the Ages of 24 to 31.

    • @christerstefansson3249
      @christerstefansson3249 2 года назад +3

      Im 81 days in now. Was alcoholic from 45-50. But i use antabus to make it.

    • @smason3541
      @smason3541 2 года назад +1

      Great job! Keep going. You won’t believe how
      Much clearer things will get from here on out. God Bless!

    • @irvinurioste4304
      @irvinurioste4304 2 года назад +8

      I'm 24 hours clean and I'm only 28 I'm done with it.

    • @reallyitzrowe
      @reallyitzrowe 2 года назад +1

      Its poison at the end of the day it ruined my life 🧬 and everytime i drink i do drugs

    • @nyokaarchibald4245
      @nyokaarchibald4245 2 года назад +3

      I just stopped I’m 10 days in but I feel great! Keep it up 👍🏾 thanks for sharing

  • @carlamurphy-xj1de
    @carlamurphy-xj1de Год назад +10

    Ive drank too much for too long and cant remember when i last felt happy but when i stopped i started to excersise and look after self then one day i was walking and i thought...god i feel happy... this is how im supposed to feel and realized how ridiculous it os to think that alcohol ever gave me anything

  • @fullspeedaheadbarcelona6502
    @fullspeedaheadbarcelona6502 3 года назад +45

    Every bad decision I ever made was when I had alcohol in my body.

    • @netpunk5890
      @netpunk5890 10 месяцев назад +1

      I realized that a couple of weeks ago and now I’m here

  • @shaunreddy7548
    @shaunreddy7548 Год назад +18

    20 Year hard drinker and loved alcohol and it's effects. Never found a good enough reason to stop until i really understood alcohol and how it's processed in the body. It's damn scary so i stopped 2 weeks now and i strongly think I'll go all the way 😊

    • @ragingsaviorkami9862
      @ragingsaviorkami9862 10 месяцев назад +1

      I'm 27 and I only recently dropped both Alcohol and cigs, and couldn't believe what life could be without it. And I've been doing both for years. Life is so much better when you're clean and healthy.
      You don't need some copium drugs or anything else to have fun or deal with life or "spice it up" with some drug-related rituals, like having a cig after a meal or something. Same goes for alcohol

    • @cleocatra9324
      @cleocatra9324 6 месяцев назад

      I need to actually care enough to quit I still don’t comprehend the damage it’s doing

    • @declankelly9829
      @declankelly9829 4 месяца назад

      @@cleocatra9324 keep listening to Leon. The penny will drop!

  • @colin6673
    @colin6673 3 года назад +193

    It's actually quite mind blowing how one of the most damaging drugs on the planet is the most accepted. It really is baffling

    • @LeonSylvester
      @LeonSylvester  3 года назад +11

      Exactly!

    • @mac_tire_aonair
      @mac_tire_aonair 3 года назад +9

      Not so baffling when you consider the tax duties, excise, tariffs, VAT etc. accruing to the exchequer directly from alcohol sales... Same for cigarettes - keep the population addicted but not so much that it kills too many folks (hence the crackdown on narcotics). It's a delicate balance...

    • @ArtofBrandonTruster
      @ArtofBrandonTruster 3 года назад +4

      Think about *all* of the major, globe affecting decisions that are made on alcohol.

    • @TheLobocantaore
      @TheLobocantaore 3 года назад +7

      @@mac_tire_aonair And fines from DUI 's!

    • @Som77
      @Som77 3 года назад +2

      probably because of the amount of money involved in it

  • @erikadee8668
    @erikadee8668 3 года назад +199

    One thing that helps me when I get the urge to drink is either get a kombucha or sparkling water and pour it in a wine glass or even dress it up and make it look pretty like a mixed drink with a slice of lemon. A lot of time, I don’t even want the alcohol. Just the feeling of having a fancy drink.

    • @suavefellow
      @suavefellow 3 года назад +4

      Kombucha contais alcohol!

    • @erikadee8668
      @erikadee8668 3 года назад +15

      @@suavefellow 0.5% or less. It’s hardly anything

    • @erikadee8668
      @erikadee8668 3 года назад +12

      @@suavefellow but if you don’t like that example, any flavored non alcoholic sparkling drink

    • @suavefellow
      @suavefellow 3 года назад +6

      Fair enough... but I thought mentioning it might be a public service...

    • @suavefellow
      @suavefellow 3 года назад +2

      @@erikadee8668 I myself am struggling to find a viable alternative to wine... water and coke get old fast!

  • @khankaos
    @khankaos 3 года назад +64

    One day I asked myself "why do I drink?". I realized that I didn't have a good answer. That was the beginning of the end.

    • @JasonBrown-vy6ft
      @JasonBrown-vy6ft 3 года назад +7

      that's what I think is one of the best ways to stop yourself from drinking. if you think your about to fail, right before you take that drink ask yourself why do I need this? why do I want this? If I drink this now, how will I feel about myself later? I think the same concept could be applied to overeating and obesity. Once you break out of the mental constraints you finally see how free you can be.

    • @supremeklientele
      @supremeklientele 3 года назад +1

      Same here 👍

  • @australianindian7502
    @australianindian7502 2 года назад +16

    I am 40 days sober. Leon you are a legend and this is one of the best videos you made

  • @bestfrienddogwalkingandhou7688
    @bestfrienddogwalkingandhou7688 Год назад +4

    Something resonated with me in this video "would you give your kids alcohol?" (Thinking of teenagers). Of course not. Why? Because it's bad for them. Yet as adults we put this in our bodies and pretend it isn't affecting our health?? Thank you for your videos 😊 They really help.

  • @xavierbreath2227
    @xavierbreath2227 2 года назад +18

    Whenever I get the urge to drink, I find taking a shower makes it completely go away. Other things that help are cooking and eating a big quality meal. Exercising. Reading a good book. Cleaning my house or working on a project or chore list also helps. Point is everyone has things they can do to conquer a craving. For me the go to is a long hot shower, try it!

    • @chadsclothauer3565
      @chadsclothauer3565 4 месяца назад

      All those things are productive. Procrastination is a drinkers best friend. Stay strong and keep living your best life.

  • @lewissealby9233
    @lewissealby9233 2 года назад +11

    This is spot on mate it really helped me … I’m only 21 but I’ve decided to go sober for good I’m 3 weeks in & confident I will never drink again 🤝

  • @davidgroenewegen3901
    @davidgroenewegen3901 3 года назад +30

    I quit smoking cigarettes and at the same time I have not drank any booze for a week. I am quitting alcohol too. I drink water

  • @brabbit3389
    @brabbit3389 3 года назад +37

    I’m 5 min in and he’s still saying the concept is great, you’re gonna love it, just before I tell you ......

    • @groominator-magneticequato2529
      @groominator-magneticequato2529 3 года назад +7

      7 minutes in and I’m still waiting...

    • @babavee100
      @babavee100 3 года назад +3

      I thought it was me ! Quite agree.

    • @shanerateliff2125
      @shanerateliff2125 3 года назад +14

      He makes me want to drink!

    • @amynicole5884
      @amynicole5884 2 года назад +2

      All of his videos .

    • @jizamurai
      @jizamurai 2 года назад

      @@shanerateliff2125 yeah his build up makes me think “geez I need a drink for the road cuz this is gonna take a while…” 😂

  • @neddyknacker
    @neddyknacker 3 года назад +67

    A little over 3 months in and the otherday was the first proper test. Had a feeling where I started to make excuses in my head to have a few beers. Had to check myself before I wrecked myself. 😂

    • @neddyknacker
      @neddyknacker 3 года назад +7

      Yeah haven’t had any since. Little over 7 months in now and my real problem is sugar cravings. 😬 🍫🍰🍦

    • @mrscott6602
      @mrscott6602 3 года назад +4

      @@neddyknacker me too. I'm a month in I'm craving sweets like hell!!

    • @mysticloyal
      @mysticloyal 3 года назад +1

      You still sober?

    • @neddyknacker
      @neddyknacker 3 года назад +3

      @@mysticloyal you bet although I’m completely addicted to road cycling now. 🤣

    • @neddyknacker
      @neddyknacker 3 года назад +3

      @@mysticloyal 310 days. 👍

  • @alanboas810
    @alanboas810 3 года назад +26

    THIS IS THE BEST ADVICE I HAVE EVER HEARD ABOUT ALCOHOL.
    I'M GOING ON MY THIRD MONTH OF BEING SOBER AND THIS VIDEO REALLY CONFIRMED THAT I MADE THE RIGHT DECISION TO QUIT ALCOHOL FOREVER. BEING 64, I'D BETTER START TAKING BETTER CARE OF MYSELF BEFORE IT'S TOO LATE! HAD SOME GOOD RESULTS FROM A RECENT DOCTOR'S VISIT AND LOST 20LBS ALREADY.

    • @LeonSylvester
      @LeonSylvester  3 года назад +3

      That's awesome news! Keep it up Alan 🙌🙏

    • @tonifonseca9178
      @tonifonseca9178 3 года назад +2

      yes you and me both!! Im 56 And i know i have damage but as he says its the substance is very addictive especially when my boyfriend knows and he still wants me to drink with him or get it for him . And it calls me :(((

    • @alanboas810
      @alanboas810 3 года назад +2

      @@tonifonseca9178 I'M STILL SOBER.
      THE HARDEST PART IS WHEN I'M WATCHING A MOVIE WITH PEOPLE CONSTANTLY POURING THEMSELVES A DRINK FROM THOSE FANCY DECANTERS. THAT KIND OF AFFECTS ME BUT I SUCK IT UP AND STAND MY GROUND.
      I HOPE YOU ARE STAYING SOBER LIKE ME. THANKS FOR RESPONDING.

    • @tonyrussell873
      @tonyrussell873 Год назад

      @@tonifonseca9178 well done from Tony Russell in Ireland

    • @declankelly9829
      @declankelly9829 4 месяца назад

      @@alanboas810 Yes me too. Love those poison decanters!!!

  • @wolf-tw7ee
    @wolf-tw7ee 3 года назад +13

    I am 21 days free. I feel better because I sleep better. I save money and focus more on anything I want to do. Before I wasn't able to keep focused and my body felt tire all the time. Doing a whole month and after that I ll move the goal to a year.

  • @dopeytripod
    @dopeytripod 3 года назад +40

    alcohol, the biggest drug on our streets that kills the most

  • @matthewlundquist
    @matthewlundquist 3 года назад +25

    Just hit 6 months no booze, your videos helped a lot thanks brother

    • @LeonSylvester
      @LeonSylvester  3 года назад +2

      My pleasure!

    • @CultLeader418
      @CultLeader418 3 года назад +1

      Congrats dude!

    • @AVENTUS7777
      @AVENTUS7777 3 года назад +1

      How was your withdrawals?

    • @matthewlundquist
      @matthewlundquist 3 года назад +2

      @@AVENTUS7777 honestly not so bad. Anxious and a little angry but I got through it. Exercise and family/friend support was a blessing also. Try your best to distract yourself and distance yourself from certain ppl/situations. Being bored is the enemy!

    • @AVENTUS7777
      @AVENTUS7777 3 года назад +1

      @@matthewlundquist props to you! Today will me my first day sober .

  • @brandonbrett4469
    @brandonbrett4469 3 года назад +39

    I used to drink 6 days a week but I’ve recently managed to cut back to 1 day a week with the help of these videos. I’m hoping to cut it out completely soon!

    • @opencurtin
      @opencurtin 3 года назад +7

      I used to do 7 days of drinking in one night thats why I quit :-)

  • @scottslater8069
    @scottslater8069 3 года назад +19

    I need help, it's taking over my life I didn't realise how it's slowly taken over.

  • @jodilynn2017
    @jodilynn2017 3 года назад +17

    Ive been sober 4 years, and your videos are spot on. I have some family members im going to show them too. Thank you!!

  • @dianemcmahan5159
    @dianemcmahan5159 Год назад +2

    Leon is truly a leader. “Management is doing things right, Leadership is doing the right things.”

  • @vegetarianninja
    @vegetarianninja 3 года назад +21

    I am a very positive and mentally strong person. I've never been reliant on Alcohol BUT I definitely feel that I MUST drink in a social setting where there is alcohol. If I'm alone, or at home, I don't want/need a drink.
    Through lockdown therefore, not drinking has been SO easy. But now as the social scene opens up again, I want to be involved WITHOUT drinking. The fact this feels so difficult completely supports the message of this video. Truth be told, when I drink, I become a proper dick. It needs to stop because that's just not me.
    Posting this as an act of admission. Thank you.

    • @nigelmiller951
      @nigelmiller951 Год назад

      MUST drink in a social setting? Listen to Leon with point 4

  • @gwillis01
    @gwillis01 3 года назад +15

    As a person who lives close to the world headquarters of A--B, I can tell you the ad slogan that lasted the shortest amount of time for A--B is "We don't sell beer. We sell friendship. " The company often tries out ad slogans in its home city before broadcasting them to the world. I don't think that one made it out of town.

    • @sillygirl1139
      @sillygirl1139 3 года назад +1

      Probably too overt for them... the slogan has much truth to it but seems to overtly showcase too much of the subtext that carries all advertising. Keeping your cognative processes for positive associations of a product subconscious to you or out of your immediate conscious awareness is the secret power behind what makes advertising work in my opinion. Mainly the reality that you're attracted to advertising subtext rather than the product in and of itself, and the (most often) false cause and effect relationship you've accepted between the subtext and the product.
      I'm sure there is more to it that someone in marketing or psychology can add but essentially advertising seems to be just like low level very drawn out hypnosis.
      Edit: grammar.

    • @declankelly9829
      @declankelly9829 4 месяца назад

      @@sillygirl1139 excellent observation.

  • @tamaramegan2942
    @tamaramegan2942 3 года назад +13

    i just caved into alcohol after a year of no drinking, feel like crap now. Good though videos like these exist.

    • @calvinspark1946
      @calvinspark1946 3 года назад +4

      Just forgive yourself and be teetotal again, now for 2 years instead

    • @opencurtin
      @opencurtin 3 года назад +1

      Hugs stay strong ..

    • @carlamurphy7541
      @carlamurphy7541 3 года назад +2

      You did amazing not to drink for a year don't beat self up just get back to where you were

  • @Jim-yn3tt
    @Jim-yn3tt 3 года назад +30

    Well, made it a whole week, but fell off that wagon last night. I’m feeling like crap now, but not giving up. This time I’m doing something more to help fight the craving. I made a video to myself and told myself this is what I’ll look and feel like the next day if I take that drink again.

  • @GreenSmog17
    @GreenSmog17 3 года назад +7

    Yeah i didnt drink for like 15 days. Went over to my family and friends, they brought some booze. I said ill be ok just drink with them that night. Led to a 3 day relapse. I know i have a problem and i am personally excited to never drink again.

  • @craigb3154
    @craigb3154 3 года назад +14

    You can always tell an author who has a drinking problem. They'll casually insert alcohol into just about every off-plot situation they can. They probably don't even realize it.

  • @bahbahblacksheep9373
    @bahbahblacksheep9373 2 года назад +2

    we see our parents using this drug from a very young age ,first time I got drunk I was 12 ,its caused me a shit load of grief through my life

  • @MrSilenus12
    @MrSilenus12 Год назад +1

    I've known subconsciously for years that alcohol was poison. I've felt it first hand many times, throwing up yellow bile in the shower knowing I was supposed to be at work an hour ago and not remembering anything from the night before. I drank a bottle of vodka last Saturday and spent my entire Sunday hungover, and while laying in bed I had such a profound feeling of missing out. I drank so long for fear of missing out, and now I miss out on the most important things because I drink. For years I would just start drinking again, at 6, 7, 8 in the morning to stave off the hangover. I let myself feel it completely this time. I've tried to stop before through willpower and never could. I woke up today and something is different. I've been watching your vids all day and finally realize it's been how I think about it all along. I can finally do this, and I'm excited about it. It always felt like an impossible obstacle to overcome. Now I feel like I might have a second chance to live fully.

    • @GiraffeChaser
      @GiraffeChaser Год назад

      I hope you’re doing better bro. You can do it

  • @matthewdavies1236
    @matthewdavies1236 3 года назад +7

    Great video, thanks! I’ve noticed something that also happens a lot in the movies: a character will go on a massive bender, wake up in the morning, feel groggy for half an hour or so, then carry on their day completely normally as if the hangover has somehow magically disappeared...

  • @narradordofilmeclubedaluta
    @narradordofilmeclubedaluta 3 года назад +4

    This guy has a very smooth way to shove the truth down one's throat.

  • @christinaross3183
    @christinaross3183 Год назад +1

    This is me, no desire.. it’s like I’ve brainwashed myself into not even wanting it. Was a social drinker from 15 to 41.

  • @MrDarekSt
    @MrDarekSt 3 года назад +11

    You told the whole real truth about alcohol.

  • @craigmuirhead
    @craigmuirhead 3 года назад +16

    Watched a ton of “give up drink videos “ prob best I’ve seen! & first from yourself . Planning in making tomorrow day 0 as I just like that date 10/10 hopefully how non drinking will make me feel . I’ve tried before and the falling points were :-
    Buying into the health studies . I think possibly the only way it’s beneficial if a doctor actually prescribed you alcohol in a dosage but outwith that not buying into the claims
    The other is the person who just had the two drinks . After what you said about the marketing I don’t want to be duped into even feeling I have to have one drink . Fantastic video mate 👏 👏 👏

    • @LeonSylvester
      @LeonSylvester  3 года назад +1

      Craig Muirhead thanks a tonne Craig 👍 good to have you here.

    • @craigmuirhead
      @craigmuirhead 3 года назад

      Sober Leon cheers will catch up on the rest 👍

    • @gwillis01
      @gwillis01 3 года назад +3

      Congratulations Keep trying to improve yourself mentally and physically

  • @greggordon680
    @greggordon680 3 года назад +2

    Watched Disney jungle cruises last night, plainly a kids movie ,loaded with social messaging but has multiple positive alcohol references .it's so pervasive we don't even see what's happening

  • @cynthiaslater3684
    @cynthiaslater3684 Год назад +3

    It is possible, I prayed for health and guidance and have been sober since Christmas of 2019. I wish I could help my significant! Thank you for your insight.

  • @Keekonuts
    @Keekonuts 3 года назад +8

    Many women drink to fend off abusive men. After a verbal bashing, a drink is the only relief.

  • @danielwatson6529
    @danielwatson6529 3 года назад +20

    i drank 10 alcohol free beers in 3 hours at a party my first get together since sobriety , was dead weird but ok. when ppl asked i said i had a surgery coming up(which is actually also true) so no one battered an eyelid. i only knew a few ppl there so it was a good test of my nerves. the 0% beers where my crutch - i just needed to put stuff in my mouth i think in social situations - but i drank them very fast. but i did it and also had fun

    • @LeonSylvester
      @LeonSylvester  3 года назад +1

      Thanks for sharing Daniel!

    • @NB-sq7ui
      @NB-sq7ui 3 года назад +3

      It's been scientifically proven you can get a buzz out of these too..Believe it or not..

    • @hsbhvbhchsachhvxvashvchzvc8214
      @hsbhvbhchsachhvxvashvchzvc8214 Год назад

      @@NB-sq7ui it’s placebo tho

    • @lanachild7731
      @lanachild7731 Год назад

      Placebo is real. Once I had a hop tea, and by assumed it was alcoholic beverage because of packaging, I felt buzzed and tipsy. After I closely looked at the can it said non-alcoholic. Placebo is a mind blowing and it's real.

  • @liberi12345678
    @liberi12345678 Год назад +3

    well presented, well done! A small addition if I may: regarding your point 4, one could also add that the "normal drinker" we *think* we're seeing and potentially "buying into" could actually be a "hidden non-normal drinker". In other words, when "smart non-normals" are in the company of someone who might judge them, they can rein in their impulse to drink too much for that evening. How many "non-normals" are out there posing as "normals"? There's a sad irony in this: it would be better if the non-normals actually showed themselves as such, so that their plight is noticed and brought into the open and their friends would be able to help them to quit. At the same time, their friends would also be dissuaded from sliding in the same direction as opposed to falling for the "normal drinker" stereotype which, let's face it, is probably much rarer than we all think it is.

  • @graemefarquharson465
    @graemefarquharson465 3 года назад +6

    Last time I went binge drinking was October last year during lockdown. As soon as the pubs reopened I was straight down the pub. So that was 6 months without a beer which I must say I am quite proud of.

  • @Juice__grl
    @Juice__grl 2 года назад +5

    Thank you so much or these videos! You are helping me so much. Your ideas surrounding alcohol are like a breath of fresh air. I'm 23 and my life has revolved around alcohol since 21. I can see myself going down a really bad path if I continue drinking the way I am right now. I am so thankful for these videos because being so young, everyone is obsessed with going out and drinking and I need to break out of the cycle.

  • @midshipsport
    @midshipsport 3 года назад +5

    22 years of drinking. Looks like am gonna quite for good after listening to half this content.

  • @peterpoudyel6393
    @peterpoudyel6393 3 года назад +8

    Hi Leo,after I watching your RUclips Vedio.i stop drinking for one year now.i will not drink again in my life .thanks s

    • @LeonSylvester
      @LeonSylvester  3 года назад +2

      Well done!

    • @annacpa58
      @annacpa58 3 года назад

      After watching the above video you quit? I dont get it

  • @TheSkite575
    @TheSkite575 3 года назад +6

    Great video
    61 years old heavy drinker for decades. Quit 3.5 years ago all your points are spot on. Don't miss it one bit & feel sooo much healthier now.
    Thank you

  • @Dman9fp
    @Dman9fp 3 года назад +16

    Goes way deeper than this but solid video. There is a type of cognitive bias that we like what we're familiar with/ see more often. Applies with people, products, locations, things, etc. Otherwise why would car insurance companies, beer companies, etc. constantly advertise? Even when you say "meh that commercial did nothing" it actually hits where it matters- the unconscious mind.
    Also very messed up that society says we should drink when happy as well as sad. Obviously as video said, alcohol is poison (yeast poo), wouldn't drink it in a lab if just saw the side effects but put it in a fancy bottle & acceptable social setting or quiet space at home- go crazy lol. Obviously think everyone has their phases with alcohol- think need it to open up/ enjoy life/ relax, etc. buying into that. Of course a myth. But especially when feeling sick of life- that's when you should MOST Avoid this toxic s**t. Because we feel "f--- life, f--- girls/ guys, etc." and maybe even unconsciously feel if we screw up enough/ drink enough we'll come to automatically realize we fudged up and time to clean up, no. Alcohol doesn't fill voids, it widens and creates further voids. We aren't feeling "screw life" as much as "screw my current situation"- since we wouldn't be upset if things were going our way as we feel we "deserve" to have it. Yep

  • @curryandapint
    @curryandapint 2 года назад +3

    This sounds horrible - but the hardest thing for me to go sober - is my wife. She's 'lovely' 80% of the time and a complet nutjob for the remaining 20%. In 16 years of marriage I've done 2 x 6 months sober, 10 x 1 month sober (usually January or November) but each time I have to chose between my wife (going mental) or a bottle of single malt whisky. Normally I win - but sometimes the whisky does.

    • @hsbhvbhchsachhvxvashvchzvc8214
      @hsbhvbhchsachhvxvashvchzvc8214 Год назад

      Bro if u drink like 2 times a year or like this rly small amount u mentioned I’d honestly say you’ve done it

  • @NB-sq7ui
    @NB-sq7ui 3 года назад +7

    19 days sober..Totally buzzing...Miss the social side though and my drinking friends. Cant do hangovers/ comedowns anymore though and wasted money, underachieving etc...

    • @LeonSylvester
      @LeonSylvester  3 года назад +2

      Who said you can't have a social life?

    • @Hughbens
      @Hughbens 2 года назад +1

      @@LeonSylvester it's impossible to enjoy being around drinking people when you are sober.

  • @roseault6335
    @roseault6335 3 года назад +8

    The weirdest and best thing about having stopped drinking is that my grey hairs returned to their original colour!!!!!!! I couldnt actually believe that, a good enough reason to quit for me!!!!! Xxx

  • @albertguntinas1897
    @albertguntinas1897 3 года назад +2

    This is the best video I´ve ever seen. I hope people understand that this is NOT ONLY FOR those who have a drinking problem. It has to be for every single person on earth. Just think about a world without alcohol and how many problems at every level can be automaticaly fixed.

  • @diz533
    @diz533 Год назад +1

    I’ve spent so much being an alcoholic. I’m on day one. Taking it a day at a time

  • @mattynoordberg1698
    @mattynoordberg1698 3 года назад +18

    Medically speaking alcohol is a hard drug, it is also classified in the highest category of cancer creating substances (along with asbestos !).
    Check out the US statistics on murders, family violence, violence towards police officers and traffic deaths : in 40 to 50% of the cases alcohol is involved.
    Good channel, spread the word.

  • @Gowithkt
    @Gowithkt 3 года назад +8

    Thank you for this video! It was very clear and motivating for my sober journey!

  • @nenadtrifunovic5804
    @nenadtrifunovic5804 Год назад

    people like you and Allen Carr will eventualy solve the problem for all of us

  • @dougarnold7955
    @dougarnold7955 3 года назад +9

    I don't want to drink either, I don't have the desire. I haven't drunk since '07. Before that I was drinking every day. 👍

    • @LeonSylvester
      @LeonSylvester  3 года назад +1

      Nice!

    • @ThePossumone
      @ThePossumone 3 года назад +1

      Well done

    • @dougarnold7955
      @dougarnold7955 3 года назад

      @@LeonSylvester Thanks.

    • @dougarnold7955
      @dougarnold7955 3 года назад

      @@ThePossumone Thanks. It was amazing for me ...I just lost the desire all the sudden. ...and it wasn't a white knuckle, struggle with willpower kind of thing... I just didn't desire it anymore.
      Now, occasionally i have a kombucha... That actually has too much alcohol for my preference. 👍

  • @alankennedy3747
    @alankennedy3747 2 месяца назад

    Every school in Ireland/UK should have a person like Leon as part of their curriculum. I've no doubt it would stop many from ever going into the abyss of alcohol. Wake up health ministers and national schools.

  • @jirikrumal8567
    @jirikrumal8567 3 года назад +5

    I agree with many of your thaughts but not all of them. You seem to be hating everybody who even looks at alcohol but I dont know why are you that strict. I am what you would call a 'Normal Drinker'. I have a glass of beer/wine once every couple of weeks (sometimes I dont have an opportunity or simply forget about it and I dont drink for a couple of months) and i get drunk usually once a year. I have no desire to drink more and also no reason to not drink at all. The idea that 'This sip of beer is going to kill me' does not make much sense to me.
    But I see your point that for most people it is all or nothing and cant handle it that easily.

    • @declankelly9829
      @declankelly9829 5 месяцев назад

      So... you only poison your body in a "Normal" way. And once a year you poison your body in an Abnormal way and get drunk. Has anybody ever told you what you are like when you get drunk? That once a year could be enough to end a beautiful relationship with a non-poisoner.
      I dont think Leon hates those who even look at poison, rather he suggests that they question WHY they are taking poison. He suggests that they gain nothing from it.... not even the Normal poisoner. I dont see him as judging the character of those who take poison but rather he invites the self poisoner to be aware of what they are putting in their bodies and to consider that poison, even a little, can never be doing a body any good.

  • @kathryn9718
    @kathryn9718 2 года назад +1

    I feel so much better when I do not drink. Sometimes I do drink but then I feel not so great so I only drink every so often.

  • @rosswalsh6880
    @rosswalsh6880 3 года назад +6

    Great video Leon, that successful person drinking that one drink always got be back on it. I'd get so pissed off that why I can't I just have one or two and go home. Really well explained.

  • @deejayimm
    @deejayimm 3 года назад +7

    Im a beer lover and I mean legit lover, as in it's my favorite flavored beverage in the whole world.
    I love the history and the Artistry that goes into crafting it, and I love the variety of flavors and smells.
    I really do wish all beer was non-alcoholic, instead of the entire industry being set up to poison us.
    Thankfully there are a lot of non-alcoholic Alternatives nowadays, though they aren't as cheap.
    Seems the trend in America is anything cheap and easily attainable is bad for you, and anything that might be healthier, is more expensive and harder to find.

  • @jakeherter
    @jakeherter 3 года назад +1

    Like I was abused by alcoholics for 20 years I absolutely do not want to drink, but I was quickly entangled with other substances that I bonded to instead of my family and it's the exact same in addiction.

    • @jakeherter
      @jakeherter 3 года назад

      So I just want to get there on all these things

  • @bgardiner24
    @bgardiner24 2 года назад +5

    Your videos helped me to change the way I look at drinking. Now I view it as a poison that adds nothing of value to my life and only takes away the things that I love. Once I viewed quitting as something positive and not a painful chore, it became easier. Now I do things sober and enjoy it! I take the time to reflect and be grateful for my life! One thing that really helped me was dark chocolate- the nasty 90% coco kind- this helped lessen the explosion in my brain from withdrawals. I still use it now and then when I get craving. Thanks again Leon!

  • @scottallen2190
    @scottallen2190 3 года назад +2

    Alcohol is the "only" substance that one needs to make excuses for not consuming.

  • @techguy3373
    @techguy3373 3 года назад +7

    Same here. At age 40 I started getting bad anxiety and panic attacks the day after drinking. I had to give up my once a week 5 cocktail buzz night. I was fortunate because I wasn’t a habitual drinker so it was relatively easy to just stop on my own. Sometimes I still want to put on a buzz, but I just think about the day after anxiety attacks and that keeps me off alcohol. I do miss a fine red wine with a nice steak though. Some people don’t get negative mental effects that bad the day after drinking. I get foggy so had to stop. It wasn’t worth one night of fun anymore.

    • @LeonSylvester
      @LeonSylvester  3 года назад +2

      👊🏻👊🏻

    • @ananda_miaoyin
      @ananda_miaoyin 3 года назад +6

      Same boat here. I would drink my bottle of good wine on my Friday (which is actually a Sunday) and feel like shit the next day and maybe a little lazy the following day. Fuck! I just blew my whole weekend. For what? A few hours with a tune on?
      Kicked that shit. Even once a week was too much.
      20 years ago I could drink that every night and rock out the next day. Age is a great leveler.

    • @techguy3373
      @techguy3373 3 года назад +5

      @@ananda_miaoyin Yea. Not even a hangover. More like in a cloud and anxiety.

    • @techguy3373
      @techguy3373 3 года назад +1

      It cripples me for 3 days after, then dry for several day and damn if I do it again. I’ve got to stop, but after 6 days I break again. Over and over.

    • @ananda_miaoyin
      @ananda_miaoyin 3 года назад

      @@techguy3373 Damn, brother. That is hard. I was never a meeting guy but maybe that will help. I might even advise smoking some grass to get you past four or five weeks. I usually don´t even want to drink after that long.

  • @carboomtv1479
    @carboomtv1479 3 года назад +2

    Leon, you really have solved the riddle..thank you.

  • @elijahdunmore7526
    @elijahdunmore7526 3 года назад +3

    Great job love these youtube I coming up this February 6 2021 11 months alcohol free you and your mother expire me to take it one day at a time stay strong you and your mother I never felt better and free 😊

    • @elijahdunmore7526
      @elijahdunmore7526 3 года назад

      Forgive my writing I am so excited 😊

    • @yanghao8351
      @yanghao8351 Год назад

      That's great! how many months/years sober now?

  • @flextefitness4954
    @flextefitness4954 Год назад

    Sometimes you need a quick fix. If your bike tire goes flat sometimes you patch it before you get a new tube. Sometimes you need that drink before you can formulate a plan to solve the actual problem. .

  • @jabroski69
    @jabroski69 2 года назад +1

    I'm starting today I've went about 3 days at the longest for the last 5 years I'm excited

  • @johnwelshmusic
    @johnwelshmusic 2 года назад +1

    Great videos my friend really been enjoying the reframing of stopping drinking as embracing a more exciting life as opposed to looking at it like giving up something . I've been a performing musician and singer for 15 years and alcohol has been such a big part of that. I have played two sober gigs in the last two weeks and couldn't believe I not only didn't need it but i actually enjoyed it more and was less stressed . My performance and energy levels were better too. Not only that i wasnt stressing about getting my next drink or how many i could have before driving or that mood dip you get when it wears off thanks again for the inspiration!

  • @susanl8478
    @susanl8478 3 года назад +4

    I already don't miss feeling like crap in the morning ... only been one week plus. The Chamomile tea seems to be doing the trick ... so far. I never drank in front of people so that one should be easier for me.

  • @capitolc4430
    @capitolc4430 Год назад

    THEY'LL QUIT WHEN THE PAIN IS MORE THEN THE FEAR OF CHANGE I WAS PHYSICALLY & MENTALLY BROKEN (COULDNT EAT OR SLEEP & STARTED HEARING VOICES) THEN IT HAPPENED🙏☮️♥️✝️

  • @Janopooh
    @Janopooh 3 года назад +6

    I drank alcohol while on Naltrexone, I felt everything alcohol had to offer except the happy feeling. It was f$cking disgusting and horrible. That's when I realized what I was missing in life were things that make me happy which alcohol had taken the place of.

    • @Keekonuts
      @Keekonuts 3 года назад

      Naltrexone made me sick, not while drinking, but just taking the pill it self.....I was sad.

    • @grant5603
      @grant5603 Год назад

      It made me feel a bit sick in the stomach initially, but that stopped after a few days.
      Naltrexone stopped the daily cravings altogether and immediately for me. Game changer.
      Seeking advice from a medical professional is not mentioned enough as a viable option for dealing with alcohol addiction. There are medications that can make it a lot easier for some people.

  • @Riddingwithvivian
    @Riddingwithvivian 3 года назад +5

    Life is too good to drink...This concept is the exact of the way I used to think. I must have been bloody fucking depressed to think the opposite of Life is too good to drink or my life must have fucking sucked. Alcohol sure as hell didn't help.

    • @fitwithbrittany2706
      @fitwithbrittany2706 3 года назад +1

      Exactly, alcohol is what makes you think life is bad, saying it’s a depressant just doesn’t even begin to touch it

  • @alannothnagle
    @alannothnagle 3 года назад +1

    These are all excellent points. I think one helpful analogy is looking at cigarettes as a non-smoker (I've never smoked, I find tobacco disgusting, and I've always known it's a poison with no benefits whatsoever). When you look at cigarette ads or watch people smoking in movies, it's obvious that the behavior is idiotic - even if it does look sort of "cool," simply because we're conditioned to seeing such scenes. While cigarette ads can be esthetically appeallng, I've never felt the desire to light up, simply because I know what the product really is. If you start looking at alcohol the same way, i.e. as a fundamentally toxic and thoroughly useless substance, you'll no longer be taken in by it.

  • @hatusage
    @hatusage 2 года назад +1

    Brilliant. Thanks Leon, this has really helped me!

    • @dez9079
      @dez9079 2 года назад

      Me too really helped me

  • @sniperozukum1397
    @sniperozukum1397 2 года назад

    As m drinking Alcohol m watching this .. love your accent and m trying to get sober too

  • @raymondlin8728
    @raymondlin8728 Год назад +1

    Almost 1 month alcohol free, peace of mind, family life, health, so far I'm ok. Will I drink again. I cam say. For now, I want to stop
    Update. This was 10 mo the ago I wrote this.
    Still not drinking.
    I AM AWESOME!!!!😊😊😊

  • @MomDawg
    @MomDawg 2 года назад

    I think what makes it hard for some people and even impossible- when they dont value their lives. If they dont have much consideration for their lives, or much desire to live, it takes more. My dad died of alcoholism at 40 years old and my brother (only sibling/army vet) chose alcohol over diabetes and died at 29 last year. My mom is doing the same now. Drinking to drown her grief. This program is spectacular but for those who cant find self worth it probably will take therapy to realize that life is worth living. 😇 once theres a desire to actually live, this program sounds fantastic. And your videos have helped me! I watch them to keep myself healthy and on track in life. Thank you.

  • @heidi3307
    @heidi3307 3 года назад +3

    Thank you for spreading this important message ❤️ Drinking with partying is still considered way too trendy and normal, even though I keep hearing that fewer young people are drinking nowadays. I think they just lie more in the tests.. idk

  • @sharvanders6888
    @sharvanders6888 3 года назад +4

    I'm 5 days sober. I went 6 months sober few ers back but it slowly crept back. O thought I'd be able to keep control of it.
    This time feels different I feel like I'm in control, starting to despise it. Thanks for the vid, helped with the fear 🙏

    • @dmullz100
      @dmullz100 3 года назад +1

      That's so fucking awesome. I'm 10 days in myself. Hows your journey going so far??

    • @sharvanders6888
      @sharvanders6888 3 года назад

      @@dmullz100 thank you for your reply and well done on 10 days sober! ☀️
      I'm almost three months sober now and felt the best I have in years. Feels different this time, can see the damage it's doing to society and how it turned me into a had version of myself. This times the real deal ❤️ x

    • @yanghao8351
      @yanghao8351 Год назад

      @@sharvanders6888 How many days sober now?

  • @mikec9247
    @mikec9247 3 года назад +2

    I'm on ten days. Got arrested because of it ultimately. Never want that again

  • @7oclockmiracles88
    @7oclockmiracles88 Месяц назад

    I think the biggest problem w normal drinking is that’s fine perhaps for years but when their is a crisis in their life it’s easy to turn to abusing alcohol bc you have a foundation laid for it.

  • @yanpro8844
    @yanpro8844 Год назад +1

    Talking about drinking and sporting events, at the FIFA world Cup some British realized that soccer was fucking dull without alcohol. So it was eye opening for them 😉😁

  • @alanboas810
    @alanboas810 3 года назад +3

    SOBER LEON IS GOOD AT HIS JOB.
    LISTEN TO HIM.

  • @joryiansmith
    @joryiansmith Год назад

    This is probably the most important video I've watched in my entire life. Thanks man I really appreciate you for sharing this video.

  • @terriharrigan891
    @terriharrigan891 2 года назад +1

    Great video. Very clear and concise well done Leon.

  • @SuchaDoofus
    @SuchaDoofus Год назад

    I think the examples of binge drunkenness, fighting, domestic violence are worth discussing, are not necessarily the best ones. The reality for many alcohol abusers is more likely to be the disturbance and slow deterioration in life quality, work performance, finances and most other areas of life. I think that should be included.

  • @nerdfamous5794
    @nerdfamous5794 2 года назад +1

    Going to events and not drinking you realize quickly how obnoxious people who are drinking are.

  • @shadrach6299
    @shadrach6299 2 года назад +1

    I’m so glad I never could drink! It caused so much depression that I couldn’t tolerate it. Im lucky

  • @tylerduncan4096
    @tylerduncan4096 3 года назад

    Sober Leon your so right.Hearing you talk about the commercials reminds me of this really pathetic commercial where somebody is getting alcohol poured into their glass and you can hear sound it’s making and it seems nice and relaxing.I hate the idea of alcohol being used to unwind from a hard days work or any of that other garbage and that’s why alcohol companies are evil,they glamourize alcohol and drinking.Good for you for not drinking and buying into the adds that alcohol uses to target people!

  • @danareynolds7690
    @danareynolds7690 3 года назад

    I would really like to be this man's friend he's smart I've had my battles and down spirals with alcohol and I'm working on quitting I don't want that alcohol no more .

  • @julio5246
    @julio5246 Год назад

    great content, very insightful, thanks for sharing mate

  • @ryarbrough1195
    @ryarbrough1195 3 года назад +1

    When the haze is lifted, and you see clearly...

  • @Dan-qe4gm
    @Dan-qe4gm 3 года назад +1

    I'm really glad I watched this. Keep up the good work Leon!

  • @jonjones4439
    @jonjones4439 2 года назад

    I think if you can control your alcohol it’s fine, maybe a couple of beers a week or a couple of times a month is fine, I smoke usually a few cigars a year. Moderation is fine, if you can’t moderate then you shouldn’t do something like drink alcohol at all.

  • @SuperThunder911
    @SuperThunder911 3 года назад +1

    Awesome my brother 👍

  • @jasiellerose9651
    @jasiellerose9651 3 года назад +1

    I hate that I binge drink on a weekend!!! I can’t help it ....

  • @roseault6335
    @roseault6335 3 года назад +3

    I've been doing a lot of research recently on alcohol and getting sober, your channel on youtube is the only one I agree with so far :)