She was right to expose him publicly. He had his own parents wrapped around his finger, gaslighted his wife into doubting her own judgement, and used his sister as a free babysitter. With his hold over his family, someone had to protect them from his lies.
Op needs a serious backbone and reality if you say No it mean NO Period, no ifs,And or buts about it. Also, if you have to burn bridges then fine because op’s life and her work life should be always priority to herself.
You had to expose him publicly. Your parents had to see what he was doing to you, and it had to be done in front of everybody because nobody cared what you were doing what you had going. Your father thought you didn’t have a good job. One actually your owning your own business. All of that had to come out about what your brother was doing because he was ruining your life and your parents were ruining your life 100% behind what you did and how you did it.
All that was unnecessary. All she needed to do was to say, "I have other plans" and walk out the door. After that, every time they ask say, "I have other plans, but this is the names and numbers of some babysitters you can call."
You're twenty eight years old, and still loving at home with your parents? Something is wrong there! You're an adult. Get your own place and live your life the way you want. Stop living in your parents house.
She was right to expose him publicly. He had his own parents wrapped around his finger, gaslighted his wife into doubting her own judgement, and used his sister as a free babysitter. With his hold over his family, someone had to protect them from his lies.
Op needs a serious backbone and reality if you say No it mean NO Period, no ifs,And or buts about it. Also, if you have to burn bridges then fine because op’s life and her work life should be always priority to herself.
You had to expose him publicly. Your parents had to see what he was doing to you, and it had to be done in front of everybody because nobody cared what you were doing what you had going. Your father thought you didn’t have a good job. One actually your owning your own business. All of that had to come out about what your brother was doing because he was ruining your life and your parents were ruining your life 100% behind what you did and how you did it.
If you choose to have kids you are responsible for them all the time, nor just when you feel like it!
Angering the Unfavorite can be dangerous.
Amen, brother/sister….💯❤️🙏🏼😇
Jessica better divorce that brat
Who needs a man around that lies like a rug.
Agreed
Indeed and she might want to get custody of the girls before he ruins them!
He should never have married and become a father if he didn’t want the responsibility that went with it.
OP...Your parents and your brother are wrong. This is CRAZY. Learn to walk away and to SPEAK THE HELL UP!!
All that was unnecessary. All she needed to do was to say, "I have other plans" and walk out the door. After that, every time they ask say, "I have other plans, but this is the names and numbers of some babysitters you can call."
First, I would have found a way not to go to the house on Friday. Second, then I would do the exposing.
If she was willing to babysit them or if they made arrangements ahead of time, then she would provide be able to babysit.
I know what she's going through. My family has a dog and whenever I take a week's vacation from work, I have to spend it babysitting.
Do not think about your family. They are not thinking about you.
What a terrible brother!!
Just say NO.
Yes, get them out of your life
All she has to do is day NO!!!!!
Just say no and don’t show up
Why do you even go to the parents place ? You can say NO and if you don’t it’s your own fault !!!! NO sympathy !!!!!!
Why can't the grandparents watch them & why do you go over to your parents house?
Ugh. Your kids are your issues , no one was there for the fun so spare us with your kids.
You're twenty eight years old, and still loving at home with your parents? Something is wrong there! You're an adult. Get your own place and live your life the way you want. Stop living in your parents house.
Move out. Duh
AGREED!