That 8s EXACTLY what my ex-husband was like. He swore that when he was their ages (under 10), He was mowing the lawn, doing all of the housecleaning and had a job topping onions to pay for school fees and his own clothing. 😅😂😅😂
SIL is such a narcissist. She proudly claimed that the only purpose of women was to be a mother and have children, while actively trying her best to dump her children on others' shoulder
I'm glad they are keeping in touch with their niblings. They're probably the adults those kids are most attached to until they're able to settle in more with their dad
This story hit hard. I’m thirty one and child free. I’m getting so much pressure to have a baby asap because “it’s Gods plan for woman” I’m not religious and still don’t want kids.
@@the83rdtrombonist60how is that a clear sign of AI? That is a phrase I have seen written in so many stories that existed way before AI was even a concept. I get sick and tired of literally every single story being labeled as AI. Life is strange and people go through weird situations, yet now people nowadays just throw out the 'AI' line and mock them. I went through a situation when I was a kid back in the 60's and even wrote out my story for reddit. It was labeled ai and taken down even though what I wrote actually happened to me. This is what is wrong with the world to this day...
@sinbadwilliams7186 Every story is not AI. There are phrases, however, that AI constantly use in their writings. That's one of them. Another way to determine if writings are more-than-likely AI is if it tells you what other parties are thinking/feeling based on minor actions.
@@the83rdtrombonist60 I tend to notice that AI creative writing is super repetitive and doesn't have a coherent plot to follow. I think this is someone's own creative writing
Story 1: “AITA for calling CPS after my SIL left her kids at my doorstep while we were at my mothers funeral?” Just once i want one of these AI stories to have an Op with a spine lol
Again. The AITAH subreddit makes it MANDATORY to phrase the question as such, no matter how asinine it may sound to ask it. Every post that does NOT include the question phrased correctly get autoflagged and deleted.
Where the hell is SILs husband? Why does she act like James is responsible for her kids!?! This is what happens when you allow people to push you around
@@Sylvester64 I meet toxicity with toxicity, blame shift, gaslight, whatever tactics you name it but lie. Do my parents talk crap about me. Probably, they just don’t do it in my face. I learn from the best 🤷♂️. My problem with OP is the way they allowed in laws to talk to them like that. Couldn’t be me.
Even though we might never meet, my best wishes are with everyone who reads this. I wish you happiness, success, and prosperity in every aspect of your life.
Take you to court for what? She left her kids alone and demanded you leave your mother's funeral to take care of the kids that she abandoned? Let her take you to court, she will have to admit what she did.
I really needed that thank you. The last several years have been nothing but a period of death. Both of my parents died and I couldn’t be there for them because I was paralyzed and later in a coma. But this past year, I’ve learned to walk again, I bought a new home and I’m about to move in, and leaving all of this behind. So I want to share my gratitude and thankfulness to God because you were kind enough to wish me well.
Regardless of the veracity of this story, I will always wonder why parents care so much that childfree people "understand that they should have children"? Is it because they feel miserable being parents and don't want childfree people to feel happy around them? Because it makes no sense as to why they would feel entitled to complain and force others to have children when they already said they don't want any.
Op isn’t the ahole if the kids aren’t old enough to know it’s a stupid idea to put a crayon up their nose then they aren’t old enough to stay home alone for 10 minutes let alone 30 minutes. If a kid isn’t old enough or knows how to cook they shouldn’t be left alone for a couple of hours.
If you have kids you are not entitled to the time of children free people! They chose to not have kids so suck it up and deal with if they say no to helping out.
For a woman who lectures a lot on the importance of being a mother, the SIL sure is very reckless. Quite hypocritical of her to even push others to have kids when she herself is unfit to be one in the first place. I wonder why people so incompetent to be parents chose to have kids anyways?
I mean the least SIL can do is leave some food for them and tell them to dial 911 should something happened to one of the siblings (the kids) before going on the shopping spree or better yet just tell her neighbors to babysit
@@gachagoddesskim7630 Ehhh leaving children unsupervised like that and advising them to call 911 when necessary is also a great way to get in trouble with the CPS since it’d also be considered child abandonment.
That SIL and MIL are just irresponsible, why force OP to have children when they couldnt look after theirs carefully. OP should have called CPS in the beginning.
Let me get this straight… the SIL & MIL mother & grandparent left children at home alone for a shopping spree before they had adequate supervision for her children… and in that time alone one of her children got hurt .. yeah CPS & the police should have been called…. The MIL has the audacity to make threats of a lawsuit against OP and her husband… wow.
Since it's an AITA story: heck no, NTA! Based on what OP has described about the SIL, I get very disturbing implications, cause it certainly sounds like the SIL only sees her children as ATM cards, since it's revealed that the ex is well off (he paid a huge alimony AND child support). Plus, since the ex only sees his children once a month pre-updates, it's very easy for the SIL to masquerade being a caring mother while she pushes her meal tickets off to others while living up life by herself (and MIL, since she is practically her mother's "mini-me"). At the very least, I am glad this story has a happy ending, with the niece and nephews being in the care of the parent that actually gave a damn. Screw the SIL and MIL, they brought this upon themselves.
These AI stories will never allow the protagonists to take the right action, speak the right dialogue, or do the right thing ever. Notice, all these stories it is always about what antagonists said and done, and there is no proper strong reply or response from the protagonists like in the real world.
I guess the writer couldn’t work in ANOTHER 10 side tangents. Sad they couldn’t manage more useless details. This is a small nightmare for an ADHD person. Ooon & oooon and on.
I would never abandon my mother if she was disabled like op did hers. I'm sure her mother and father wanted to live their lives as well before having her. She was lucky to have both her parents in her life.
Whilst I agree with all of OP’s actions regarding the kids, I respectfully disagree with her reasons to not have kids. It’s her decision, but I just disagree.
I’ve personally never been able to understand the desire to remain child free forever (but then again I grew up in a culture where it’s normal for people to ask a newlywed couple when they were planning to have kids as soon as the wedding is over), but the fact that the SIL and MIL were that pushy about it, to the point that CPS had to be involved is just insane. It’s their choice to remain child free and they should have respected that😒😠
I’m married and I’m child free Before when I was a teen I thought having kids was just the normal and I had idea for what I would name them. But ever since my siblings had their own kids and I became an aunt I discovered having kids was not gonna happen for me. Plus with my medical history I shouldn’t even attempt to get pregnant. …. Plus I’m kinda traumatised by the idea if I had a kid my husband will divorce and leave me to be a single mother. So yeah I’m choosing to be childfree and me not have a child isn’t going to ruin the world. I do get asked if I plan to have kids and I say no. I rather be a pet parent.
@@the-nina-beans88 good for you 😊, though you should probably talk to your husband about your fear instead of letting it fester, cause it could lead to trouble.
@@the-nina-beans88 "You're just going to be another statistic of people on their deathbeds regretting that they wish they had kids, like everyone else who wanted to be child-free until they were about to die."
People that don't want kids are a different animal. Especially when they find someone that shares the same mentality. Also Sil is right, Bible states women have to have children.
Op had great parents! They were both in her life and loved her. However OP is the AH for abandoning her mother to sow her oats so to speak. She wants freedom to live her life but forgets her parents gave up theirs for her.
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It’s interesting how people who think having kids is _such a necessity_ try to get away from their own kids every chance they can get…
😂😂😂😂
It’s almost as though the overwhelming majority of these stories are fake AI nonsense. Still entertaining though.
@@onionsandoats7600 You've clearly never met people who think having kids a requirement of existing. They exist, and they are like this.
@@myrixica4222that's like society's brainwashing. People are convinced that having kids is the most important thing in life
That 8s EXACTLY what my ex-husband was like. He swore that when he was their ages (under 10), He was mowing the lawn, doing all of the housecleaning and had a job topping onions to pay for school fees and his own clothing. 😅😂😅😂
SIL is such a narcissist. She proudly claimed that the only purpose of women was to be a mother and have children, while actively trying her best to dump her children on others' shoulder
Their only mistake was not calling CPS the first time SIL dropped the kids unannounced.
Yup that alone should've automatically been a CPS call.
And they wouldn't have taken it seriously then, because something bad has to happen for the system to even give a brick it seems
I'm glad they are keeping in touch with their niblings. They're probably the adults those kids are most attached to until they're able to settle in more with their dad
The audacity of Sil. Hounds Op and James about having kids when Sil herself doesn’t even want the kids she gave birth too.
SIL is a broodmare,
This story hit hard. I’m thirty one and child free. I’m getting so much pressure to have a baby asap because “it’s Gods plan for woman”
I’m not religious and still don’t want kids.
they are over-rated
they are stupid, don't have kids if you think you are on ready.
So everyone is overrated?@@ChrisMDSmith79
What is god to a non believer 😂😂😂
I don't have kids either.
"MY EYES WIDENED IN SHOCK"
A clear signature of AI writing
@@the83rdtrombonist60how is that a clear sign of AI? That is a phrase I have seen written in so many stories that existed way before AI was even a concept. I get sick and tired of literally every single story being labeled as AI. Life is strange and people go through weird situations, yet now people nowadays just throw out the 'AI' line and mock them. I went through a situation when I was a kid back in the 60's and even wrote out my story for reddit. It was labeled ai and taken down even though what I wrote actually happened to me. This is what is wrong with the world to this day...
@sinbadwilliams7186 Every story is not AI. There are phrases, however, that AI constantly use in their writings. That's one of them. Another way to determine if writings are more-than-likely AI is if it tells you what other parties are thinking/feeling based on minor actions.
@@the83rdtrombonist60 I tend to notice that AI creative writing is super repetitive and doesn't have a coherent plot to follow. I think this is someone's own creative writing
@@lilyawoodburn it does tho there is something ridciolouse happening where there never should be AITAH question and then there comes big ass karma
SIL is literally proving their point. It is hard taking care of kids. SMH.
Story 1: “AITA for calling CPS after my SIL left her kids at my doorstep while we were at my mothers funeral?”
Just once i want one of these AI stories to have an Op with a spine lol
There are a couple, but it’s like a needle in a haystack kind of thing lol
LMFAO 🤣🤣🤣
Again. The AITAH subreddit makes it MANDATORY to phrase the question as such, no matter how asinine it may sound to ask it. Every post that does NOT include the question phrased correctly get autoflagged and deleted.
Subreddit rules I guess
Then the story would be short and boring, and you would be whining about such boredness a AI plot is
Where the hell is SILs husband? Why does she act like James is responsible for her kids!?! This is what happens when you allow people to push you around
Wtaf? If you didn’t call the authorities, that kid with half a crayon in their nose could’ve DIED. SIL SHOULD lose custody rights.
I suspect they doormats, that’s why SIL was so comfortable speaking and doing all this.
Hey my mum and sis are totally judgemental whackjobs who've ruined my past relationships but I still talk to them and take care of my sis's kids. 🫠
@@Sylvester64 I meet toxicity with toxicity, blame shift, gaslight, whatever tactics you name it but lie. Do my parents talk crap about me. Probably, they just don’t do it in my face. I learn from the best 🤷♂️. My problem with OP is the way they allowed in laws to talk to them like that. Couldn’t be me.
Even though we might never meet, my best wishes are with everyone who reads this. I wish you happiness, success, and prosperity in every aspect of your life.
That’s very kind. Thank you. 🖤
Wow a husband who sticks up for his spouse
Take you to court for what? She left her kids alone and demanded you leave your mother's funeral to take care of the kids that she abandoned? Let her take you to court, she will have to admit what she did.
To all who read this, good luck-even if we never meet. Wishing you a life filled with happiness, wealth, and many blessings.
You as well
I really needed that thank you. The last several years have been nothing but a period of death. Both of my parents died and I couldn’t be there for them because I was paralyzed and later in a coma. But this past year, I’ve learned to walk again, I bought a new home and I’m about to move in, and leaving all of this behind. So I want to share my gratitude and thankfulness to God because you were kind enough to wish me well.
Same to you! 💚😺
Regardless of the veracity of this story, I will always wonder why parents care so much that childfree people "understand that they should have children"?
Is it because they feel miserable being parents and don't want childfree people to feel happy around them?
Because it makes no sense as to why they would feel entitled to complain and force others to have children when they already said they don't want any.
Op isn’t the ahole if the kids aren’t old enough to know it’s a stupid idea to put a crayon up their nose then they aren’t old enough to stay home alone for 10 minutes let alone 30 minutes. If a kid isn’t old enough or knows how to cook they shouldn’t be left alone for a couple of hours.
i think she only had kids so op and her husband could take care of them
When people hear I'm childfree by choice:
"But you love kids!"
Me: "Yeah, but that doesn't mean I want to give birth to one!"
The funny thing is, forcing others to take care of kids is a sure fire way of making them want kids even less
I like how sil is so mad that op is child free, but constantly abandons her own kids.
If you have kids you are not entitled to the time of children free people! They chose to not have kids so suck it up and deal with if they say no to helping out.
Have these people never heard of babysitters?
If you can afford a shopping spree, you can afford a babysitter.
They want to get family to babysit so that they don't have to pay.
Divorcing My Husband His Lack of Backup Was the Breaking Point
Some people shouldn't become parents.
Not everyone wants kids! Some people don’t deserve to have kids! Implying that having kids is the only thing you should do in you life is messed up
For a woman who lectures a lot on the importance of being a mother, the SIL sure is very reckless. Quite hypocritical of her to even push others to have kids when she herself is unfit to be one in the first place. I wonder why people so incompetent to be parents chose to have kids anyways?
I mean the least SIL can do is leave some food for them and tell them to dial 911 should something happened to one of the siblings (the kids) before going on the shopping spree or better yet just tell her neighbors to babysit
@@gachagoddesskim7630 Ehhh leaving children unsupervised like that and advising them to call 911 when necessary is also a great way to get in trouble with the CPS since it’d also be considered child abandonment.
I almost choked on my tea after hearing the title
That SIL and MIL are just irresponsible, why force OP to have children when they couldnt look after theirs carefully. OP should have called CPS in the beginning.
You should have called the police about abandoned children.
They did
What the fuck? She left the kids alone for 30 minutes maybe more. Glad CPS and cops arrested her as they should and took the kids.
So the sim dumping her kids on them have not made them want kids? BIG suprize🤣
I don't want kids because of this reason
Let me get this straight… the SIL & MIL mother & grandparent left children at home alone for a shopping spree before they had adequate supervision for her children… and in that time alone one of her children got hurt .. yeah CPS & the police should have been called…. The MIL has the audacity to make threats of a lawsuit against OP and her husband… wow.
What I don't get is why people don't stop entitled behavior from others the second it starts...
Oh heck no.
wait a second she dropped off her kids unannounced that's a big red flag you can't just do that
Since it's an AITA story: heck no, NTA!
Based on what OP has described about the SIL, I get very disturbing implications, cause it certainly sounds like the SIL only sees her children as ATM cards, since it's revealed that the ex is well off (he paid a huge alimony AND child support). Plus, since the ex only sees his children once a month pre-updates, it's very easy for the SIL to masquerade being a caring mother while she pushes her meal tickets off to others while living up life by herself (and MIL, since she is practically her mother's "mini-me").
At the very least, I am glad this story has a happy ending, with the niece and nephews being in the care of the parent that actually gave a damn. Screw the SIL and MIL, they brought this upon themselves.
If you dont want to look after your kids, dont have kids. Jesus Christ.
Best story so far
lord, when I was 7 or 8 I could make food for myself. I was never alone for long but I could take care of myself.
MIL is also a narcissist, just like SIL.
Rip the mother
Where's the kids dad? I'd be giving him a call letting him know his wife has abandoned the children
That why Hubbie's family was a mess
The happy ending
She probably lives or have lived in Utah
These AI stories will never allow the protagonists to take the right action, speak the right dialogue, or do the right thing ever. Notice, all these stories it is always about what antagonists said and done, and there is no proper strong reply or response from the protagonists like in the real world.
There are SO MANY IRL cases where the protagonists don't know what to say
@@VynDimentional End of the story, this is an AI Generated story.
I guess the writer couldn’t work in ANOTHER 10 side tangents. Sad they couldn’t manage more useless details. This is a small nightmare for an ADHD person. Ooon & oooon and on.
OP and her husband are foolish
Man, and I was about to work out 😭
Só, a girl with emotional burnout
Idk but op is not responsible for the kids is op decision to be a parent
That’s who the courts trusted 😂😂😂 the system will always be rigged
I am confuse by what you mean. I understand that women usually have more leeway but I'm not sure which case you are talking about
This is definitely ai but still I’m going to listen to it
R/childfree fanfiction
I would never abandon my mother if she was disabled like op did hers. I'm sure her mother and father wanted to live their lives as well before having her. She was lucky to have both her parents in her life.
My Mom's Funeral, Because she and My MIL wanted.
❤
NTA
"we prioritize experiences over material possessions" this is definitely a stupid thing to do
How so? I definitely prioritize experiences over material possessions. I mean if I die, I can't take what I bought to the afterlife.🤷🏾♀️
Telltales, please stop the AI generated garbage. I could tell withint 2minutes story 1 is AI
This AI stories would be so much more interesting if they edited out all the repetitive unnecessary nonsense and shortened the stories.
Whilst I agree with all of OP’s actions regarding the kids, I respectfully disagree with her reasons to not have kids. It’s her decision, but I just disagree.
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I’ve personally never been able to understand the desire to remain child free forever (but then again I grew up in a culture where it’s normal for people to ask a newlywed couple when they were planning to have kids as soon as the wedding is over), but the fact that the SIL and MIL were that pushy about it, to the point that CPS had to be involved is just insane.
It’s their choice to remain child free and they should have respected that😒😠
I’m married and I’m child free
Before when I was a teen I thought having kids was just the normal and I had idea for what I would name them.
But ever since my siblings had their own kids and I became an aunt I discovered having kids was not gonna happen for me.
Plus with my medical history I shouldn’t even attempt to get pregnant.
….
Plus I’m kinda traumatised by the idea if I had a kid my husband will divorce and leave me to be a single mother.
So yeah I’m choosing to be childfree and me not have a child isn’t going to ruin the world.
I do get asked if I plan to have kids and I say no.
I rather be a pet parent.
@@the-nina-beans88 good for you 😊, though you should probably talk to your husband about your fear instead of letting it fester, cause it could lead to trouble.
@@sarahelroub1800 true. But he on the same page about no kids.
@@the-nina-beans88 ok good to know 👍
@@the-nina-beans88
"You're just going to be another statistic of people on their deathbeds regretting that they wish they had kids, like everyone else who wanted to be child-free until they were about to die."
2025 jjk
People that don't want kids are a different animal. Especially when they find someone that shares the same mentality. Also Sil is right, Bible states women have to have children.
No it does not, stop lying and using the Bible to suit your stupid agendas
YTA
The most obvious rage bait
NTA
@@Titanamyde552 why for giving my opinion? Oh yeah I forgot the left snowflakes dont like opinions that aren't their own
14:40 ok but that’s exactly what you do in a marriage, ESPECIALLY in a situation like that…
Story 1: OP has some real pathetic parents . Both were completely useless.
Op had great parents! They were both in her life and loved her. However OP is the AH for abandoning her mother to sow her oats so to speak. She wants freedom to live her life but forgets her parents gave up theirs for her.
It’s interesting how people who think having kids is such a necessity try to get away from their own kids every chance they can get…