What is wrong with having the preference to have a housewife yall be wanting Guys to make alot of money so at least i can ask for is a housewife yall make no sense truly but ok its your opinion
It also makes 0 sense because you want someone to financially rely on you (be a housewife) but you also want someone who doesn't want you financial support
A gold digger doesn't only mean they want you to financially support them, it means they literally only want you for their money and don't care about anything else.
@@idkanymore2.014 true, but I've seen some people say that they want a traditional wife and then turn around and say that she needs to make money too or she's a golddigger for relying on her husband for income. So they want the best of both worlds
it's so funny, my ex was sexist and poor and had called me a gold digger multiple times. I asked him how I could be one when I'm dating a dude that's more poor than I am, and he never gave me gifts or money. he said "well if I HAD the money, you would be one" 😂 like that is not how that term works
My ex is like this too, maybe they're the same species; Jerks. 🤔 he also called me that because i once asked him how much is his salary which he kept it secret and was very suspicious of me while he often asked how much is mine and got angry when i didnt wanna tell.
A gold digger is motivated only by money, a housewife marries someone not because of money but because of love or other reasons usually Edit: I agree with the replies that housewives should have husbands that have a good source of income and can provide for their family
@@JoshuaSitu nah, housewives marry for money. A housewife isn’t just someone who stays at home and takes care of the household. They also manage the household and its finances. They write the mortgage, insurance, and other checks to maintain the household, and back in the day they were responsible for managing the maids, servants, and nannies to make sure the household was clean and running smoothly and the children were taken care of. A housewife is an accountant, nurse, cook, driver and negotiator, but it’s very hard to do those things with little money, and most women who were/are looking to be a housewife and not work a paid job wouldn’t do it if the man didn’t have a good amount of wealth. My man makes decent money for just the two of us but we won’t have children for a while and I wouldn’t even consider quitting my job to become a housewife if he doesn’t make a considerable amount of money in that future.
These guys just have a crippling fear of abandonment. They want someone who loves them for who they are and is finactially reliant on them so they cant just up and leave them (bc that is always on the back of their minds), but they also need that reassurance that that person actually loves them, not the money, so they cant be finactially reliant on them. It's a pardox that is easily solved with less Red Pill content and more therapy.
While fears of abandonment do need addressed in therapy…what the hell? It should be a standard that income, while important, plays second fiddle to love. Like; I wouldn’t marry somebody in complete poverty unless I actually loved them. Same goes for a rich person. I wouldn’t want to get with them unless I’m sure love is mutual.
@@narutouzumaki2157no idea but my ex obce told.me to get away from His money 😅 but he was the one that had less then me and he was the one compalining about our holidays choice , while Inwas trying to say him we will go somwhere Else once he will earn more, and that triggered him 😅 in his head I propably wanted his future money , I was just tired of him compalining
And then they want a housewife but don’t want to support her with money- no girl wants to do a guys chores if they’re not taken care of financially! Maids don’t work for free, that’s slavery.
@@WompWomp99but thats what those men are conflating a gold digger to. they are speaking out of both sides of their mouth with saying “i dont want a woman who is financially dependent on me(a ‘gold digger’ in their terms)” and yet also saying “i want a traditional housewife” when traditional housewives DID NOT MAKE INCOME. therefore, making it impossible for your wife to not be financially dependent on you
@@WompWomp99 I think you both are on the same side. Use that energy against the Mfs who DO call traditional women gold diggers. Not the women defending traditional women
Hate constantly having to remind these guys that they can’t have a housewife if they can’t financially support another adult. And women who want to be housewives should absolutely be concerned about their husband’s financials before leaving their careers. Thats not being a gold digger, thats just being smart.
@@narutouzumaki2157the point is that those guys worry abt being taken advantage of but they literally want to take advantage of women on a much larger scale. They want them to give up their career, cook and clean for them and give birth to kids. That's more financially risky for women than the men
I want to be a traditional wife and so many guys give me flack for not wanting my husband to be poor, like I'm sorry I don't want to struggle??? If I get a job it would be from a hobby of mine like sewing or crocheting??? I'm different and I wouldn't even mind working all the way up to my first pregnancy so if we aren't wealthy we have a nice safety cushion. I feel like I'm so reasonable but they out there clutching their pearls cause I don't want a bum as a husband and I'd prefer that my babies don't starve 😭
@Beanbean113 I totally understand your point and I think it's good to think about doing something you like and earning income through it, crocheting and sewing sounds interesting. I usually pass by a store that sells crochet plushies is vey cute but the store is all hidden and without much light, I don't understand why the best stores are always like hidden though(?
My dad's wife accused me of calling her a gold digger. I looked at my dad and said, "youve got gold? Why aren't you paying for my school? You ain't got gold to dig!"
To be honest you might be partially right and partially wrong, see me, I’m a male figure, and I have been cheated on once before by someone, guess how many people I’ve dated, 1, but that’s not the question, I know I sound like a narcissist but that’s because I am one, and I know I’m currently stretching out my simple reply a ton, that’s because I do that. BUT what I was gonna originally say before I got interrupted by myself is that men aren’t the only people that do this, I mean the person I dated said I was “boring and uninteresting” I still like her because of idiocy but those words never left my mind once
I've literally had a man get mad at me for saying that I'd work until I become pregnant and have children, saying that I'm a "freeloader". So I'm not supposed to rely on my husband's dollar and whilst doing my job as a wife I'm to get a "real" job, but I'm a freeloader and a golddigger if I actually let him take care of the family? Make it make sense, because personally I'm not letting the system raise my children and I'm not blowing a gasket doing house work, baby making, and child rearing after my 9 to 5.
I wouldn't mind working up until I have kids but it's as a safety net mainly for me 😭 like of course if something happens and as a family we have to dip into those funds I don't mind but sir I'm not paying bills, you CHOSE this life lol
My ex's mother told me i was a golddigger. Gurl your son aint got no moneyyyyy but thanks for making us break up cause i was too lovestruck to realize what kind of a deadend man he was 😅 like bro hasnt even found a job years after we broke up and is still living in his parents garage 😅
I don't think being conservative with funds is a significant difference, like wifey can still spend as much money as she can , she might not but she absolutely has the right to. Housewives basically run the finances son the entire house and the husband makes the funds for her to use. Things differ from couple to couple. Gold diggers are defined by wanting someone for their money more than they want the actual person.
@ That is also very good reasoning. Also perhaps I was a little overzealous by the amount of girls not knowing the difference?? Which is really uh- not good-?
@ most girls know cause we get called gold diggers all the time, it's to the point where if I want a man to leave me alone I'll just ask him for money and worse case scenario is I have money but he's still around 😭. I want to be a traditional wife and so many guys give me flack for not wanting my husband to be poor, like I'm sorry I don't want to struggle??? If I get a job it would be from a hobby of mine like sewing or crocheting??? I'm different and I wouldn't even mind working all the way up to my first pregnancy so if we aren't wealthy we have a nice safety cushion. I feel like I'm so reasonable but they out there clutching their pearls cause I don't want a bum as a husband and I'd prefer that my babies don't starve 😭 it's very strange, like I flat out (but kindly) explain how I'm not a gold digger and women that don't want a broke man arent instantly gold diggers either and they say I'm wrong 😭
@ And that’s a very rational explanation of it!! I get not wanting to struggle throughout life, especially if you’re fixing for a traditional marriage. Hell; if need be, in marriage, I wouldn’t mind being a househusband if need be. Point being!! Getting called a gold digger is, in my very unprofessional opinion, exclusively for when (as you said) one desires the money more than the person. What I moreso meant by some not knowing the difference is the other ones in this comment section (and the skit, kinda) is the whole “you want somebody to financially rely on you, but you don’t want somebody who wants your financial support” when that NOT what a gold digger is. Chances are, it’s all rage bait and I’m insane..:but I digress
Tell this to all the men who seemingly want a woman who wipes the a$$ and is their mule while magically pulling money to support herself from thin air while throwing a ball to his kid once a year and calling it babysitting.
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Lol the men who complain about women only wanting money but then they go for women who dont work or have to financially rely on their man to be SAHM… i remember being a kid and thinking adults were smart 💀
I happened to have dated only men of means. It just worked up that way as I only had 2 boyfriends, one who became my husband. Neither ever thought anyone was after their money. Only poor men think that. Rich men know their value isn’t just their money, they know they are kind, smart, handsome. They don’t have the low self-esteem of broke men
Some rich men definitely aren't any of those good things though 😭 him being rich doesn't make him a good person 😭 men with more money just seem to give less of a crap cause either they know the person isn't there just for the money, or they want the person enough to just give it to them. At least in my perspective. I know a rich guy and he's an absolute jerk, like he'll genuinely try to start fights between you and some random in the street for fun. He's cheap asf like he gave me a busted up box of dominoes for my birthday 😭
Yes it's fine to have preferences. But don't be unrealistic about them. How can you say you don't want a gold digger when you literally have no gold to dig?
This is what I believe in, a golddigger only wants your success and not you. She wouldn't wanna cook, clean, neither be around you unless you spend on her. A housewife is someone who makes you feel at home, will cook, feed you, help you do chores in the household, take care of your kids, and nurture you. A home won't be a home without the priorities and feeling like it's home. Imagine coming home from work exhausted and no hot meal ready. With a househusband or housewife, it's there. You come home to a clean house, ready to go clothes, etc. Well, if you don't want a housewife then get someone that is willing to work and do 50/50 with you.
I had a guy say he didnt want a gold digger and then as we walked downtown pointed at things and said I bet you want me to get you that. You probably order all the expensive stuff. I had said money wasn't what i was looking for and that im okay buying things (i guess he interpreted it wrong?)
The type of guys who says "men are suffering from crippling loneliness" but also says "men and women can't be friends" and "Leave that women who loves you for the grind. You'll find someone better"
Most guys that said don't want gold digger usually don't even have a gold to dig. While those with gold to dig are the one that like to flaunt their wealth and expecting no gold digger. Like whattt
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Thank you for saying “some” guys at first, it honestly Annoys tf outta me when people say something like “I can’t believe that men ______” the bad men are setting a bad reputation for the good men out there
It's like, "i know I ain't gonna be shit anytime, but i still wanna have the power dynamic in my favour by Gaslighting my girl into marrying a housewife catcher.
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*For me gold digger is, if someone who is in relationship only for his/her money and later cheat on them on purpose* *And a housewife cannot be a gold digger because she is your wife and you need to provide her need , it's your duty and responsibility* 😅 *I might be wrong but it's just my pov*
When my mom told me that in her culture, asking the groom if he could financially support the bride after marriage was considered outrageous. I just blankly stared at her for like two minutes hoping I wouldn’t have to go through what she had to go through. Men can be poor, or go poor.
They want a conventional housewife but they dont want to be a conventional husband. Like, dude that is literally what being a conventional housewife means, if you want her to be that way you are supposed to be a conventional husband as well, otherwise she would be a slave.
BROOOO FRRRR something I noticed is that all BROKE GUYS want a housewife.. like there isn’t anything wrong with being a housewife OFCC but If your relationship is financially unstable THEN DONT.
This is a real issues and I'll always got upset with this weird standard for women. But why is this so freaking funny 🤣 "What gold???" The audio makes this sarcastically funny lmao.
The reason for some guys (as this girl is exampling) are like: "I don’t want a gold digger, I want a wife who depends on my money" is tied to wanting control over someone
I want a woman who will clean the house without wasting time on work (so she doesn't have her own money) but at the same time I want her not to be financially dependent on me in short; I want her to do something for me but I won't do anything for her 😂
A housewife is a paid service, she needs personal spending money , money for food, for the kids and for the house upkeep. If you ain’t have gold to give then avoid these women they need someone who is able to provide
@@Sepa493 yeah but the animals that I’m planning on having, don’t usually really need anybody to take care of them, I mean like they don’t need people to take care of them but like not really while you’re at work or anything
@@Beardeddragon909 "yeah but the animals that I’m planning on having, don’t usually really need anybody to take care of them," so you're saying they don't get fed, they don't get their litter cleaned, they don't get to have enrichment (i.e. toys) to stimulate their natural instincts, and they don't get regular check-ups - all of which need a human caretaker and will cost money. why are you keeping an animal in the first place?
I dont like when they ask for a housewife like in that care i am flying tf out of there i am not making you a single fried egg like if i am forced to then that egg is getting burned😒
Y’know I never got the whole thing behind men’s definition of “gold digger” You’re telling me that you wouldn’t want your daughter to find someone financially stable, and have to work for everything herself? I won’t speak for others, but for me, because I grew up with God and His Word, I was taught to be a housewife, the man makes the household, the wife gives more to it. How am I to give to the house hold if there isn’t even a house..? It’s so confusing to me…
They aren't wrong, having a real relationship means the possibility of having children. If you don't pay for the children and the guy don't pay, YOUR parents are gonna have to pay
@@WhatIsYourPurposeOfLife Yeah, i understand that. But personally, i want to save myself for marriage. I know things don’t always go as planned though but my parents just don’t really seem to trust me. They tell me how I’m not allowed to date until after college because they don’t want my future to be ruined by a lover or kids. So i don’t have a boyfriend only because of my parent’s wishes but they seem to believe i do have one when i don’t? Like im always on my phone and they love to joke around how im texting a boy or my “boyfriend” when in reality im just reading romance comics and/or chatting with AI to replace the boyfriend i wish i had. I know it’s unhealthy but it’s kinda how i cope.
Housewives need to be gold diggers the most out of any women in a sense. You need him to be giving you money for you to live and have your own hobbies and items. Also if anything goes wrong then at least you’ll have some money to go live your life alone.
They say they dont want a women after their money but then they want a housewife...yk a wife that doesn't work... so you just want a women who doesn't have money and never will get money??? U cant have both of those
Y'all remember the days when golddigger actually meant golddigger. "I ain't saying she a golddigger but she ain't messing with a broke" y'all know the rest.
@@JustAnNpc-k8l maybe his wife isn't a gold digger? Lmao what the fuck is wrong with not wanting a gold digger regardless if you still broke. I Don't want a relationship were a person looks at me like a money investment that she will later take for granted.
@@yuusha2150 The whole joke is you're less likely to end up with a gold digger when you have no "Gold" to dig, that was also my point here, he married, so why is he talking about getting with other women?
@v4mp1r3.b0n3zz no one is scared of gold diggers than boys who don't have anything. They are the masculine version of flat girls who are afraid they will be used and liked for their body.
Haaahhh, listen, guys don't want to have housewives these days, nope. They want you to both work AND take care of a house. So you they basically want a working housewife, a person who'll willingly work two shifts every single flicking day. Ridiculous.
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Can't agree more 👏🏻👏🏻
"Then you'll get a wife the day you get some gold too" would be a nice reply
@@redcube05 but she'll be a gold digger then!
@@narutouzumaki2157 well deserved ig ? If he treats her like that she deserves the gold ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
What is wrong with having the preference to have a housewife yall be wanting
Guys to make alot of money so at least i can ask for is a housewife yall make no sense truly but ok its your opinion
It also makes 0 sense because you want someone to financially rely on you (be a housewife) but you also want someone who doesn't want you financial support
A gold digger doesn't only mean they want you to financially support them, it means they literally only want you for their money and don't care about anything else.
@@idkanymore2.014men like these think every women is a gold digger
@@idkanymore2.014 true, but I've seen some people say that they want a traditional wife and then turn around and say that she needs to make money too or she's a golddigger for relying on her husband for income. So they want the best of both worlds
there's too many of those mfs that basically just want a slave that will love them
@@berrriesncreme4558lets not make things up herem
it's so funny, my ex was sexist and poor and had called me a gold digger multiple times. I asked him how I could be one when I'm dating a dude that's more poor than I am, and he never gave me gifts or money. he said "well if I HAD the money, you would be one" 😂 like that is not how that term works
Exactly, they think that the hypothetical gold is real
My ex is like this too, maybe they're the same species; Jerks. 🤔 he also called me that because i once asked him how much is his salary which he kept it secret and was very suspicious of me while he often asked how much is mine and got angry when i didnt wanna tell.
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“i don’t want a gold digger wife, but i also want a wife who is completely reliant on my income and mine alone.”
A gold digger is motivated only by money, a housewife marries someone not because of money but because of love or other reasons usually
Edit: I agree with the replies that housewives should have husbands that have a good source of income and can provide for their family
Basically they want a servant sex slave since you can't even ask for grocery money or anything
@@JoshuaSitu nah, housewives marry for money. A housewife isn’t just someone who stays at home and takes care of the household. They also manage the household and its finances. They write the mortgage, insurance, and other checks to maintain the household, and back in the day they were responsible for managing the maids, servants, and nannies to make sure the household was clean and running smoothly and the children were taken care of. A housewife is an accountant, nurse, cook, driver and negotiator, but it’s very hard to do those things with little money, and most women who were/are looking to be a housewife and not work a paid job wouldn’t do it if the man didn’t have a good amount of wealth. My man makes decent money for just the two of us but we won’t have children for a while and I wouldn’t even consider quitting my job to become a housewife if he doesn’t make a considerable amount of money in that future.
@@isabelsalamanca893 that's not true bro
There's housewives who do it for love
@@isabelsalamanca893 that’s a good point
If she’s going for you because she thinks one day you’ll be successful, that’s not a gold digger that’s someone who believes in you
Finally someone who said this
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@@lunamcboss6504 😂😂😂
And then they'll call the housewife a gold digger too
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And proceed to cheat on her because “she’s too boring”
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Man, you guys speaking facts reminds me of majority of men are like this and it makes me lose my faith in them 🥲
And a leech 🫤
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They want women to be happy with their mediocrity while demanding she give up everything for him. Her life, her goals, her dreams, her body, etc.
They wanna put someone in a worst situation than them so that they can feel “superior” and “needed”. 😕
And still remain with a beautiful look
These guys just have a crippling fear of abandonment. They want someone who loves them for who they are and is finactially reliant on them so they cant just up and leave them (bc that is always on the back of their minds), but they also need that reassurance that that person actually loves them, not the money, so they cant be finactially reliant on them.
It's a pardox that is easily solved with less Red Pill content and more therapy.
How can she be financially reliant on him if he has no gold to dig as stated??
@@narutouzumaki2157 Exactly.
@@narutouzumaki2157now girl…the video states it’s something he’ll someday have( he would wait until he gets it to get a gf)
While fears of abandonment do need addressed in therapy…what the hell? It should be a standard that income, while important, plays second fiddle to love. Like; I wouldn’t marry somebody in complete poverty unless I actually loved them. Same goes for a rich person. I wouldn’t want to get with them unless I’m sure love is mutual.
@@narutouzumaki2157no idea but my ex obce told.me to get away from His money 😅 but he was the one that had less then me and he was the one compalining about our holidays choice , while Inwas trying to say him we will go somwhere Else once he will earn more, and that triggered him 😅 in his head I propably wanted his future money , I was just tired of him compalining
"I don't want someone whose goal is financial security, but I want someone fully financially dependent on me" 🤡
Right. A guy onde called me a gold digger because I didn’t want to pay for the onions he ate. The guy had no job and was a literal garbage diver.
That’s crazy 😭
i hate guys like that 🤮
The fact guys wants housewives but when those housewives depends on them for money, they get called gold diggers.
😂 like there’s no gold to dig😭
Real 😭
And then they want a housewife but don’t want to support her with money- no girl wants to do a guys chores if they’re not taken care of financially! Maids don’t work for free, that’s slavery.
True
That and even if he had the gold I wanna make my own😂
bro what’s wrong with not wanting a women who is just gonna be with you for money
When your wife works in the home, it's literally your job to provide the gold for her and the family
That’s not the same thing as a gold digger friend… you understand that right?
@@WompWomp99but thats what those men are conflating a gold digger to. they are speaking out of both sides of their mouth with saying “i dont want a woman who is financially dependent on me(a ‘gold digger’ in their terms)” and yet also saying “i want a traditional housewife” when traditional housewives DID NOT MAKE INCOME. therefore, making it impossible for your wife to not be financially dependent on you
@@jaeydnheeren no they aren’t 😂 you’re just assuming that because you’re hateful and have to assume the worst. And it’s sad.
@@WompWomp99 I think you both are on the same side. Use that energy against the Mfs who DO call traditional women gold diggers. Not the women defending traditional women
Hate constantly having to remind these guys that they can’t have a housewife if they can’t financially support another adult. And women who want to be housewives should absolutely be concerned about their husband’s financials before leaving their careers. Thats not being a gold digger, thats just being smart.
People who have gold rarely worry about gold diggers… it’s always the one with no gold.
People who are rich rarely worry about money, it's always the one with no money.
So now poor people should not worry about their Little money
@@narutouzumaki2157 ✨FACTS ✨
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@@narutouzumaki2157the point is that those guys worry abt being taken advantage of but they literally want to take advantage of women on a much larger scale. They want them to give up their career, cook and clean for them and give birth to kids. That's more financially risky for women than the men
Because a truly wealthy person has their life and money in a situation that no gold digger will be able to touch it without their express permission.
They are like...I want a wife who depends on my money but I don't want her to ask me for money because I don't have any.
I want to be a traditional wife and so many guys give me flack for not wanting my husband to be poor, like I'm sorry I don't want to struggle??? If I get a job it would be from a hobby of mine like sewing or crocheting??? I'm different and I wouldn't even mind working all the way up to my first pregnancy so if we aren't wealthy we have a nice safety cushion. I feel like I'm so reasonable but they out there clutching their pearls cause I don't want a bum as a husband and I'd prefer that my babies don't starve 😭
@Beanbean113 I totally understand your point and I think it's good to think about doing something you like and earning income through it, crocheting and sewing sounds interesting. I usually pass by a store that sells crochet plushies is vey cute but the store is all hidden and without much light, I don't understand why the best stores are always like hidden though(?
My dad's wife accused me of calling her a gold digger. I looked at my dad and said, "youve got gold? Why aren't you paying for my school? You ain't got gold to dig!"
😂 also your dada wife means ur mom right? (Im not saying u have to refer her as mom im just dumb heh)
@goldentoast69 my mom died. Dad remarried a year later. She's lucky I refer to her at all lol
LMAO
These types of guys if they ever do get a “traditional housewife” cheat on her for being “too boring” and “not satisfying enough” 🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️
Damn
To be honest you might be partially right and partially wrong, see me, I’m a male figure, and I have been cheated on once before by someone, guess how many people I’ve dated, 1, but that’s not the question, I know I sound like a narcissist but that’s because I am one, and I know I’m currently stretching out my simple reply a ton, that’s because I do that. BUT what I was gonna originally say before I got interrupted by myself is that men aren’t the only people that do this, I mean the person I dated said I was “boring and uninteresting” I still like her because of idiocy but those words never left my mind once
Truly a masterpiece, just wow.
I've literally had a man get mad at me for saying that I'd work until I become pregnant and have children, saying that I'm a "freeloader". So I'm not supposed to rely on my husband's dollar and whilst doing my job as a wife I'm to get a "real" job, but I'm a freeloader and a golddigger if I actually let him take care of the family? Make it make sense, because personally I'm not letting the system raise my children and I'm not blowing a gasket doing house work, baby making, and child rearing after my 9 to 5.
I wouldn't mind working up until I have kids but it's as a safety net mainly for me 😭 like of course if something happens and as a family we have to dip into those funds I don't mind but sir I'm not paying bills, you CHOSE this life lol
The paradox of wanting a woman to be both financially dependant on you, and also not care about how much money you have.
> my ex, calling me a gold digger for asking to help pay bills in the house we both live in
My ex's mother told me i was a golddigger. Gurl your son aint got no moneyyyyy but thanks for making us break up cause i was too lovestruck to realize what kind of a deadend man he was 😅 like bro hasnt even found a job years after we broke up and is still living in his parents garage 😅
Gold diggers don’t wait for gold, they dig for gold they know about
Don’t try to tell the men; they think there are predatory gold diggers waiting for them to come up like how they wait for girls to turn 18.
Fr like what gold? Which house? Your parents?
bo burnham is literally always making songs that become iconic like what 😭
Some men are so scared of being used for money they didn’t have
Here’s the difference
I don't think being conservative with funds is a significant difference, like wifey can still spend as much money as she can , she might not but she absolutely has the right to. Housewives basically run the finances son the entire house and the husband makes the funds for her to use. Things differ from couple to couple. Gold diggers are defined by wanting someone for their money more than they want the actual person.
@ That is also very good reasoning. Also perhaps I was a little overzealous by the amount of girls not knowing the difference?? Which is really uh- not good-?
@ most girls know cause we get called gold diggers all the time, it's to the point where if I want a man to leave me alone I'll just ask him for money and worse case scenario is I have money but he's still around 😭. I want to be a traditional wife and so many guys give me flack for not wanting my husband to be poor, like I'm sorry I don't want to struggle??? If I get a job it would be from a hobby of mine like sewing or crocheting??? I'm different and I wouldn't even mind working all the way up to my first pregnancy so if we aren't wealthy we have a nice safety cushion. I feel like I'm so reasonable but they out there clutching their pearls cause I don't want a bum as a husband and I'd prefer that my babies don't starve 😭 it's very strange, like I flat out (but kindly) explain how I'm not a gold digger and women that don't want a broke man arent instantly gold diggers either and they say I'm wrong 😭
@ And that’s a very rational explanation of it!! I get not wanting to struggle throughout life, especially if you’re fixing for a traditional marriage. Hell; if need be, in marriage, I wouldn’t mind being a househusband if need be.
Point being!! Getting called a gold digger is, in my very unprofessional opinion, exclusively for when (as you said) one desires the money more than the person.
What I moreso meant by some not knowing the difference is the other ones in this comment section (and the skit, kinda) is the whole “you want somebody to financially rely on you, but you don’t want somebody who wants your financial support” when that NOT what a gold digger is. Chances are, it’s all rage bait and I’m insane..:but I digress
Tell this to all the men who seemingly want a woman who wipes the a$$ and is their mule while magically pulling money to support herself from thin air while throwing a ball to his kid once a year and calling it babysitting.
"I dont want a gold digger"
Bro there is no gold to dig 😭😭😭
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I was the only one working and my exhusband actually called me a goold digger once 😂. Like, someone had to dig it
Lol the men who complain about women only wanting money but then they go for women who dont work or have to financially rely on their man to be SAHM… i remember being a kid and thinking adults were smart 💀
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I had my ex's family accuse me of being a golddigger (he made 11$ an hour).
I happened to have dated only men of means. It just worked up that way as I only had 2 boyfriends, one who became my husband. Neither ever thought anyone was after their money. Only poor men think that. Rich men know their value isn’t just their money, they know they are kind, smart, handsome. They don’t have the low self-esteem of broke men
Some rich men definitely aren't any of those good things though 😭 him being rich doesn't make him a good person 😭 men with more money just seem to give less of a crap cause either they know the person isn't there just for the money, or they want the person enough to just give it to them. At least in my perspective. I know a rich guy and he's an absolute jerk, like he'll genuinely try to start fights between you and some random in the street for fun. He's cheap asf like he gave me a busted up box of dominoes for my birthday 😭
Same guy that asks his gf to work then accuses her of cheating whilst she's at work lol 😂
I don’t want a gold digger (someone that uses my money).
I want a housewife (someone who stays home and uses her mans money).
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It's fair to have preferences, for both genders, he can want what he wants, she can want what she wants
Yes it's fine to have preferences. But don't be unrealistic about them. How can you say you don't want a gold digger when you literally have no gold to dig?
@BlackRoseAssassin yeah, no, that's totally fair. It's funny actually.
This is what I believe in, a golddigger only wants your success and not you. She wouldn't wanna cook, clean, neither be around you unless you spend on her. A housewife is someone who makes you feel at home, will cook, feed you, help you do chores in the household, take care of your kids, and nurture you. A home won't be a home without the priorities and feeling like it's home. Imagine coming home from work exhausted and no hot meal ready. With a househusband or housewife, it's there. You come home to a clean house, ready to go clothes, etc. Well, if you don't want a housewife then get someone that is willing to work and do 50/50 with you.
so real omg they think they’re all that 😭😭😭
"I want a housewife"
Means
"I want someone to clean up my crap like my mom"
I had a guy say he didnt want a gold digger and then as we walked downtown pointed at things and said I bet you want me to get you that. You probably order all the expensive stuff. I had said money wasn't what i was looking for and that im okay buying things (i guess he interpreted it wrong?)
Lol he just wanted to hear you say it, the good ol' "Do you love me, for me?" Shit test 😅
Broke man: “I don’t want a gold digger”
Her: “Which gold”
Broke man: “🤐”
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The type of guys who says "men are suffering from crippling loneliness" but also says "men and women can't be friends" and "Leave that women who loves you for the grind. You'll find someone better"
Most guys that said don't want gold digger usually don't even have a gold to dig. While those with gold to dig are the one that like to flaunt their wealth and expecting no gold digger. Like whattt
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PS I wrote some guys first but actually it's not only boys who do that so I wrote some people instead, don't feel insulted by this comment 😊😊😊
Thank you for saying “some” guys at first, it honestly Annoys tf outta me when people say something like “I can’t believe that men ______” the bad men are setting a bad reputation for the good men out there
It's like, "i know I ain't gonna be shit anytime, but i still wanna have the power dynamic in my favour by Gaslighting my girl into marrying a housewife catcher.
Like you saying I want something you don't have yet 😭😭😭
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*For me gold digger is, if someone who is in relationship only for his/her money and later cheat on them on purpose*
*And a housewife cannot be a gold digger because she is your wife and you need to provide her need , it's your duty and responsibility* 😅 *I might be wrong but it's just my pov*
You're not wrong at all
This is what many men do though. They want women to cook and clean of of the woman gets sick are more likely to leave her 😭
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When my mom told me that in her culture, asking the groom if he could financially support the bride after marriage was considered outrageous. I just blankly stared at her for like two minutes hoping I wouldn’t have to go through what she had to go through. Men can be poor, or go poor.
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Guys the video above me was a golddigger💀
"I don't want a woman who expects me to pay for things"
"I also don't want her to work"
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They don’t want a house wife. They want a “mother” who will take care of everything for them so they can have an easy life.
Ladies they want to be IN you, but they don’t want you IN their wallet. Sad.
“She’s a gold digger” meanwhile him: no job, no car, no house, not trying to find a job.
They want a conventional housewife but they dont want to be a conventional husband. Like, dude that is literally what being a conventional housewife means, if you want her to be that way you are supposed to be a conventional husband as well, otherwise she would be a slave.
BROOOO FRRRR something I noticed is that all BROKE GUYS want a housewife.. like there isn’t anything wrong with being a housewife OFCC but If your relationship is financially unstable THEN DONT.
This is a real issues and I'll always got upset with this weird standard for women.
But why is this so freaking funny 🤣
"What gold???"
The audio makes this sarcastically funny lmao.
The reason for some guys (as this girl is exampling) are like:
"I don’t want a gold digger, I want a wife who depends on my money" is tied to wanting control over someone
I want a woman who will clean the house without wasting time on work (so she doesn't have her own money) but at the same time I want her not to be financially dependent on me
in short; I want her to do something for me but I won't do anything for her 😂
@@mariaaS2ooothey weren't serious. They were talking about the guy. And you have to pay a maid to work.
And i want a wallet (aka man) to be a toy for me
Men☕☕☕ lol
lmao this behavior shouldn't be bad for you if you approve of the ones shown in the video 😂
That’s me 😂 but when we are talking in a second language I’m worse 😢
This is the best use of this audio 😂😂
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I read a comment that said: “you’re a gold digger!” The woman scoffed and replied, “I can’t be one because there’s nothing to dig.” 😂
A housewife is a paid service, she needs personal spending money , money for food, for the kids and for the house upkeep. If you ain’t have gold to give then avoid these women they need someone who is able to provide
Not all housewife’s have human kids
@@Beardeddragon909 yeah but if you're talking about dogs, cats or something they still need money for things like food or vet visits
@@Sepa493 yeah but the animals that I’m planning on having, don’t usually really need anybody to take care of them, I mean like they don’t need people to take care of them but like not really while you’re at work or anything
@@Beardeddragon909 "yeah but the animals that I’m planning on having, don’t usually really need anybody to take care of them," so you're saying they don't get fed, they don't get their litter cleaned, they don't get to have enrichment (i.e. toys) to stimulate their natural instincts, and they don't get regular check-ups - all of which need a human caretaker and will cost money.
why are you keeping an animal in the first place?
@Beardeddragon909 oh ok
I'm like keep dreaming
Those who talk more about gold digging have no gold and expect dowry 😂
I dont like when they ask for a housewife like in that care i am flying tf out of there i am not making you a single fried egg like if i am forced to then that egg is getting burned😒
Fr though. That’s not the life I want
So just don't date the guy...
I want someone who respects me, but someone i will respect.
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Y’know I never got the whole thing behind men’s definition of “gold digger”
You’re telling me that you wouldn’t want your daughter to find someone financially stable, and have to work for everything herself?
I won’t speak for others, but for me, because I grew up with God and His Word, I was taught to be a housewife, the man makes the household, the wife gives more to it.
How am I to give to the house hold if there isn’t even a house..?
It’s so confusing to me…
This little boy speaks facts 🔥
When he said : I don't want a gold digger... but the only thing that he contributed to the relationship are his finances 😅
My parents won't let me get a boyfriend because they said he has to have a good stable job and a car and house 💀
Why are they demanding that. You sound like a child
Same 💀💀
Because no one want broke men 💀
@Nonyah123 I'm a teen
They aren't wrong, having a real relationship means the possibility of having children. If you don't pay for the children and the guy don't pay, YOUR parents are gonna have to pay
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Yeah, i understand that. But personally, i want to save myself for marriage. I know things don’t always go as planned though but my parents just don’t really seem to trust me. They tell me how I’m not allowed to date until after college because they don’t want my future to be ruined by a lover or kids. So i don’t have a boyfriend only because of my parent’s wishes but they seem to believe i do have one when i don’t? Like im always on my phone and they love to joke around how im texting a boy or my “boyfriend” when in reality im just reading romance comics and/or chatting with AI to replace the boyfriend i wish i had. I know it’s unhealthy but it’s kinda how i cope.
Housewives need to be gold diggers the most out of any women in a sense. You need him to be giving you money for you to live and have your own hobbies and items. Also if anything goes wrong then at least you’ll have some money to go live your life alone.
“what gold?” was so sincere it had me rolling 😂
I don't want a gold digger but I want a woman to rely on my hypothetical wealth and be a housewife in my hypothetical house 😂
They say they dont want a women after their money but then they want a housewife...yk a wife that doesn't work... so you just want a women who doesn't have money and never will get money??? U cant have both of those
Y'all remember the days when golddigger actually meant golddigger. "I ain't saying she a golddigger but she ain't messing with a broke" y'all know the rest.
The "what gold?" made me laugh SO HARD
Guys Elon Musk can talk about not wanting a gold digger not yall
hes a horrible person ofc a girl would love his money and not him
Talking to your mom be like
Dudes like that are the ones that are gold diggers, they're just in denial and/or projecting.
Glad I have a job so no guy can say this to me, I make more than enough to fund my lifestyle. Tf I need you for?
There's no gold to dig
THATS LITERALLY MY MISOGYNISTIC STEPDAD-
Step dad?
Dude is already married and he’s still talking not wanting gold diggers?!😭
@@JustAnNpc-k8l maybe his wife isn't a gold digger?
Lmao what the fuck is wrong with not wanting a gold digger regardless if you still broke.
I Don't want a relationship were a person looks at me like a money investment that she will later take for granted.
@@yuusha2150 The whole joke is you're less likely to end up with a gold digger when you have no "Gold" to dig, that was also my point here, he married, so why is he talking about getting with other women?
@@JustAnNpc-k8l I never really meant the gold digger part-
So true, and they want somone who is super rich already. They should stop acting like my dad didnt tell me to never marry down😂❤
Literally, all boys from our generation.
all? 💀 that’s definitely NOT me, y’all stay safe tho 😭🙏
@v4mp1r3.b0n3zz no one is scared of gold diggers than boys who don't have anything. They are the masculine version of flat girls who are afraid they will be used and liked for their body.
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@@v4mp1r3.b0n3zz you're literally tr@ns you don't count 🙏🏻😭 you stay safe tho
Well not all… but go on?
Haaahhh, listen, guys don't want to have housewives these days, nope. They want you to both work AND take care of a house. So you they basically want a working housewife, a person who'll willingly work two shifts every single flicking day. Ridiculous.
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An oil field guy asked for my number and gave me such a good impression, with his personality, that I gave it to him. Almost immediately after, he lost his CDL, being not very smart *(cough,* drunk driving, unfortunately) 😅
But he gave me such a good first impression that I want to give him a chance. He's s friends with a few of my male coworkers who I enjoy and keep me decently well informed, so I'm just waiting for him to get back on his feet, so we can go on a date.
If I ever get called a gold digger, lord help me....
1. I'm living comfortably by myself in my own little apartment, paying my own bills, no fuss, extremely minor struggle, if any.
2. I'm waiting for him after this incident and not going for any of the other oil field men who've asked me out.