Hi Mona, I think many of us feel this way. I am also much more isolated. I think Covid and working from home plays into it. I applaud you for being honest and open so we can route you on. You have this and will help many others. The older we get, the more we fall into this cycle. The gummy story is hilarious! Love that! And you have a good plan for breaking the cycle!
Hi Mona!! I heard such good things about the weighted blanket, Natalie the Beauty Diva mentioned that on her channel one time. Oh no sorry about the ticket, I don't have trouble falling asleep but staying asleep. I wake up a lot & can't always fall back to sleep. Positively a covid thing, I agree getting dressed & putting makeup on helps to get out. I never thought your videos were not edited well, you are so professional & bring us such great reviews!! Don't ever feel that your videos were not good. I'm so happy for you going on a girls trip, you will have a fun time!! Too bad we aren't closer, you would be a great friend!! I have noticed on RUclips there is so many lonely people out there, I struggle also with it, but just try to stay busy & positive thoughts & know I'm not alone. Walking also helps, but the weather has been so cool here nw to walk. You look beautiful, hugs!! Karen💐
+@thegraylatte1638 Hi Karen, I think I will always love anything weighted. It has such a comforting feeling. I wake up sometimes after I go to sleep but generally go to bed very early and wake up very early. I don’t think it bothers me very much to stay home, but people are starting to comment on it and I find myself looking for any way not to have to go out. So I think it is probably to a point of not being healthy for me. I think I need to make more effort to get out. Before I’m stuck here. I may take this video down. I’m not sure if it will be helpful or if it will just seem too dreary of a subject. Yes, I would love it if you were closer 💕
Hi Mona, I feel this message for sure. I am definitely at home way more than I go out. People drain me. I love them, but need my alone time after people time. I know that is not normal. And big events, like weddings, parties etc are a real struggle for me.
That’s me exactly, I just can’t figure out exactly when this happened. It definitely wasn’t always like this. There was a time I was always on the go! Reach out if you ever need me 💕
Oh Mona, I feel for you - but you are doing so well to try to step outside again! My friendship group has shrunk, and some of my friends have moved away from London, meaning I don't see them as often. And like you I have found my tribe on RUclips - starting a channel has been a way to connect with likeminded people - and I've even met two of them! Also, I had not heard of a weighted blanket before, but sounds right up my alley ❤I hope you've had a great holiday weekend. No hols for us until Christmas, but not long now 😊
I think many of us face this. And for the majority of the time, I am not lonely. But if you ask my husband, “what is Mona’s favorite thing to do?” Without hesitation he will say be in her bed. People are excited and happy when I am out. It has become too easy to never go out. That is not living. I have so much to be grateful for and I need to get a handle on this. And that is what I’m going to do. Thank you for the support 💕🥰
Mona, I really appreciate how honest you were in this video. Isolation can sneak up on all of us, especially as life changes, and it’s tough to talk about. I get where you’re coming from, and I think so many others do too. I love that you’re planning a girls’ trip and doing little things like finding comfort in your blanket and pillow-it’s those small steps that make a difference. You’re so self-aware, and I know you’ll find your way back to feeling more connected. You’ve got this, and I’m rooting for you!
+@VickiMarieLivingLife thank you for your kind comments. I really am not sure whether to leave this up or take it down. I don’t want people to think I’m in a terrible way. I have a great family and a truly loving husband and adult sons. I just recognize that I get out less and less and almost “cocoon” inside. I see how excited my sons get when I do something. There are people starting to make comments about me never leaving the house. Of course I do… but not a lot. I could be home as long as 4 weeks until my hair appointment. I guess I’m just realizing that it might be time to turn the ship before I can’t turn it. Does that make sense? I went to the hunting camp with my husband this weekend and actually had a nice quiet time. We are headed back and of course, I can’t wait to get home. But it was something and I’ll start trying to do more “somethings” 💕
Thank you for sharing your story with vulnerability. I, too, suffer from isolation, depression, and anxiety. This time of year is awful due to darkness, colder weather, and cloudy skies. Grieving my mom and sister this year has made everything a struggle. I'm 58, retired, and stay in my pajamas most days. When I get up and get ready, I can go out if I have an appointment, and it makes me feel better. I need accountability, too. I want to live life to the fullest, experience joy, and have a purpose. God bless you and your channel.
I am so sorry for the loss of your mom and sister. Grief is hard to get past and it is especially hard at this time of the year! I still miss my dad, every day. I’m proud of you for wanting more than pajamas too. I can relate and I certainly do not judge. I would be so happy to be an accountability partner, a friend and maybe we could cheer each other on in small accomplishments. I’m happy to share my number. We are very close in age. My email is in the description. You could call or text and if you are not comfortable with that you can respond in my video comments and let me know any progress you have made. I’d like to be here to help! 🤗🤗🤗💕💕💕
I think a lot of people feel like this, especially in the winter. I really enjoyed when I worked from home but that was during the pandemic so it was by definition isolating! I can see how it might not be great to do that all the time though. Enjoy your trip! 😊
+@pippabrennan3448 yes, I think it’s time to talk openly about things we struggle with because sometimes it can help others know they are not alone. We find ourselves in ruts about many things, in many ways and we need to recognize them, call them out and move past them!
Hi Mona, I am the same way. I just found it to stressful having friends. I enjoy putting that energy into my family. I think everyone gets like this later in life. I don't have anxiety or depression. I enjoy reading, my pets and my family and that takes up most of my time. Thanks for sharing. ❤
Hi Cheryl, I am happy to hear from you. Maybe I am concerned about nothing. I put a lot of energy into my family and work. I enjoy reading and my dog and cats. I do think I should be doing more activities outside of the house though and I go to bed by 7:30p or 8p most nights. I also spend most of the day in my room and I’m not sure if that’s healthy. I’m working on it though! 💕
Hi Mona I haven't tried or smoked anything besides normal cigarettes but I quit 20 years ago. Is even scary just thinking about that. I also never tried or had a weighted blanket. They sound amazing. I am sorry about the social anxiety I think is a Covid legacy. I had that but now my social life is so much active that I barely an keep up with content and interacting with my community. But I get what you say. I hope you had a lovely Thanksgiving day ❤
I am glad you have gotten your social life back. I had one when my kids were young. I never even smoked regular cigarettes. Ever. I’m glad you quit! I don’t think I’ll be using these lol. I enjoyed my family very much for Thanksgiving. I love them more than anything. I may end up taking this video down but thought maybe it may help someone else! Have a great weekend!
Thank you Mona for your honesty. I feel exactly the same way; loneliness is so hard. At my age it’s difficult to make new friends. The few friends I had are no longer around. I hope you enjoy your trip-it sounds wonderful. ENJOY!
Thank you, Yvette! I appreciate you. I think as we age, this becomes a real thing for many. Others are doing senior events, and becoming more social butterflies as they have more time with retirement etc. I know my mom socializes more than I do. I know I have some flaw, somewhere. 💕
@ No flaws my dear friend, we are all different. Some can make friends easier than others, some are uncomfortable in certain situations. We just need to be open to possibilities. I love how open you are with us and I’m certain it’s a blessing for many of us. Thanks for making my life more brighter. I really appreciate you.🥰
Thank you. I was not sure I wanted to be this honest, but maybe it will help someone feel not so abnormal. Life is hard and no matter what kind of life you have, and I know many have it so much worse, but everyone goes through stuff. Any weighted blanket works. My mom got hers on Amazon. This is just my favorite. I’m always here my friend, just a phone call away. Sometimes it’s just nice to have someone to talk to! 💕
Mona~ You are not alone. I rarely leave the house. I can drive but haven't for a few years. I'm no longer physically capable of shopping in stores. Once I retired I realized that 95% of my socialization was 'at work' ~ & that's where my relationships were. I was astounded when I realized that I'd let a job become the hub of my life! My husband needs hearing aids but does not currently have any, so there's very little conversation here. RUclips is a lifeline, as is reading. Blessings! Jackie in upstate NY
Jackie, thank you for taking the time to share. I think you really hit on something. I think the wide circle of friends that I had were tied to work and to my son’s school and sports activities and when they graduated and the. I started working from home… I realized that I was actually alone. I wonder what is wrong with me that my husband has so many friends but I don’t. I know I’m not great at YT but I do it, because I am so happy by every single comment. And when no one watches or comments, I’m so disappointed… not because of money or anything like that but because it’s another message that I’m not good enough. People, not even on RUclips want to be my friend. It is like I’m still that teenager trying to get approval and fearing that rejection too. If someone unsubscribes, I immediately feel unworthy and sad. I love you all so much and your comments and conversations add so much to my life. I care about each name and each person and I remember all of you. My husband needs hearing aids too and has a very bad heart. He loves me but I don’t think he really wants to “talk” lol. I miss having girlfriends but when you all have conversations I am fulfilled and that is good enough 💕🤗. Is the reason you don’t shop in stores because of anxiety or because of trouble with walking? I love reading too. I hope to see you in the comments more often and if you ever need a friend, you can always reach out. 💕. Mona 🤗
Mona I am happy you are talking about your isolation and is doing something about it. I am old fashion also when it come to these sleep things and I have never used them. I stay home but it is because I love being home but if I need to leave the house I do. I am not depress, I have sleep issues because of menopause. Because I am home all day and the children are all grown I wake up early in the morning and go to the park and walk around 8 AM and I spend an hour in the park every other day. The days I don't go to the park, I go in the back yard every hour and walk and enjoy outside for at least 5 minutes and then come back inside. It keeps my day fresh and my mind happy.
Hi Mona I can relate to pretty much everything you have been speaking on in this video! I’m sorry I didn’t watch sooner! I just now got home from a family getaway up in our local mountains. I couldn’t wait to get home to watch and send you some love! By the way, I finally feel well enough to start my stepping journey with you! It starts tomorrow December 2! Sending you lots of hugs! We can get through this stuff together one day at a time! ❤
Love you much! I’m so glad for all of you. I’m really ok. Going to be ok. But it is a real thing right now. I don’t plan to stay in this place though 💕🤗💕
The X-ray apron I cover people with is often referred to as a weighted blanket by them. I am glad it comforts them and you. Best wishes moving forward.
Thank you, Julia! I KNOW God has me. I know I’m blessed in so many ways. I also know that I’m not in the best place by being inside my home alone so much. But I also know I CAN change it. I’m putting it out there so when I reflect back, hopefully I can report overcoming and living this life in the best way. Yes! X Ray blankets are weighted and that is probably why I love them lol. Thank you for being here and for all you do to help others! 🤗
I feel this one!! I work from home too. When I first moved out of state I just wanted to stay inside with cozy stuff. Hiking has been the thing that has saved me and pushed me outside. Going out of town with your girlfriend is going to be amazing! ❤❤ Omg just heard the CBD story…and yes! The ones with THC are so helpful at helping you sleep. Go VERY conservative with them though. Have fun!!!
I love this! I wish we had hiking here. But when I’m in our swamps, I am in my happy place! I don’t know that I will try the gummies… I may gift them to others who enjoy them!
Hello Mona, working was my reason to get out. I totally understand wanting to stay home. I too have no friends to have coffee with and visit. Jim runs all of my errands too. If I need something on line he does the ordering. I too am always ready for sleep. I thank you for sharing your thoughts. I honestly don’t know any thing about what you’re sharing. I am old fashion too. I have actually been called Goodie Two Shoes. I too need to push myself out the door. I find your videos really good. I never have seen a bad video. 💕NonnaGrace 🐓
Thank you my sweet friend. I have definitely been called goodie two shoes. I don’t know how Jeff puts up with me. I know it holds him back from doing more fun things with socializing. But he is a great man, like your Jim. Thank you for understanding. We should have a phone chat while we drink our cup of coffee once a month 💕
Oh I’m sorry, Mona 😔 I would never have known you felt this way! I guess we never really know how someone is truly feeling. I’m here if you ever need to talk 🩷 By the way, your videos are NOT subpar, your passion shines through. Also- your hair looks absolutely beautiful😘💜
Thank you so much! I’m not sure if I will leave the video up. I’ll decide in a day or so. I don’t expect it will get views and that is ok. But what I was hoping is maybe it would help someone else. Maybe others find themselves here in this place and it may help to know they are not alone. But it is definitely a vulnerable video. I have a wonderful husband and sons. I am ok but definitely something has changed in the last few years and it’s not healthy to be so isolated. Work and YT keep me busy but there should be more to life and it’s my responsibility to find it! I was thinking maybe, just maybe this might let someone else no they are not alone and I think that this community we have here is about more than makeup 💄. We are women helping women 💕
I totally get it! I started working from home in 2019 and wow it definitely has its perks, there is a very real sense of isolation that brings with it a load of emotions. It can be very lonely. I have also battled anxiety on and off most of my life.
Denise - thank you for being honest. I know I am not the only one. I am ok, but yet there are times when it is tough. I do plan to work hard not to stay in this place. I did go to the post office and I went to the hunting camp with my husband… and I am going on a girl trip… big steps!
Hi Friend, looking forwars (as always) to your frank heartfelt videos about mature women's issues. You are one wise lady. I started suffering anxiety at 52 ... 100% menopausal related. I'd never felt this way before and not it was like a tiger was chasing me all the time. A weighted blanket, along with medication in my case, were life savers. I must try B&B's weighted heating pad. I am trying to cut back on the amount of pain meds I'm taking (hopefully zero) but despite the argument that heat causes further inflammation I find it soothes my arthritis and back pain. Thank you so much for sharing. I have always preferred being a home body. I grew up as latch key/only child. But I will admit getting out of the house for a neighborhood walk everyday refreshes my mind. I need to get involved in a social event ... since retiring as an OT about 4 years ago I too am more isolated. But lately I have been forcing myself to say yes to travel and opportunities. Stepping out of our comfort zones is just as important Over50 as it was when we were teens! You go Girl!! Go on that Girls trip!!
🤗. I think more people go through social isolation after 50 and especially after 60 than we talk about. Maybe this will help someone. Depending on the responses, I may or may not leave it up 🤗
Thank you, Mona, for making this video. I could've said so many of these same things, and I've thought about making my own video like this one. I still need to do that. Because there are so many of us. I see those like us in the comments of videos here on RUclips. There are more things I want to say, and I will come back later to do that, but right now I have to go for an MRI. I just wanted to hop on and tell you how proud I am of you for making this video. Love you, my friend.
Love you, Karen. I debated on whether to put it up. I may end up taking it down. I’m not sure. I have so much more that I could dive into here. It could be a series. This video is not for views. This video is to open the door for us to unite this community of women that we have here on YT to come together and lift each other up… not just me. I am thinking we could do a live friendship chat with all of us once a month where we just share and talk. We could have a panel where people can join the live on screen from wherever they are if they want. I think we could do it with streamyard and just help to be a group of women supporting each other… listening, sharing, caring about each other 🤗
@@AboutFaceWithMonaBagot I think you were brave to take the step of posting this video, and I hope you don't take it down. I hope that when I'm feeling better, I have the courage to post my own video. Because we do need to open the door for the many, many women I see in the comments section in our Over 50 YT community who feel the same way we do. I love the idea of a monthly friendship chat among those of us who feel strongly about this issue, with anyone who feels comfortable joining in. Let's keep this conversation going. It's so important.
Hey Mona, I’ve just moved from Melbourne to Colorado. I’m 50. I also never leave the house. Even visiting a supermarket is becoming challenging. I don’t feel lonely and I can entertain myself quite well. I am mindful though there is probably a part of life I’m missing out on. Sending you love… ❤
Thank you for being here and for joining the conversation! Yes it’s that part of going out being more challenging that is worrisome to me. Why is it challenging for us to go to the grocery store? Why am I so ok with just being inside my house so much, for so long? Even one of my older neighbors comments that no one ever sees me. That can’t be normal? Generally, I have not been lonesome at all. Maybe I’m lonesome more now because my husband is gone on weekends, but I don’t think that’s it. He would love it if I got out with him. I just have to really push myself to do anything. And then when I do push myself to go out, I’m emotionally drained after and need days to “refill” my tank. I don’t know exactly when this happened. Do you think for you, it’s because you are in a new place? Sending hugs 🤗 back!
@@AboutFaceWithMonaBagot I think it started before Covid for me. I was already avoiding large crowds. I need time to recharge after being close to lots of people. My colleagues would say I’m an extrovert but actually I’m more likely an introvert. People don’t recharge me - I enjoy them but then I need some shush time!
@@AnotherNewLeafyes I don’t think people would think I’m an extrovert, but maybe people at work would think that. But I’m definitely not. Being in large groups of people is very hard for me. I am even wondering if I could be on the autism spectrum but high functioning. I don’t know if it’s worth even looking into at this age. I know I have adhd, but have never had any other diagnosis except General Anxiety Disorder.
@ we sound so similar Mona! I have adhd and I used to be very anxious, but I’m much better now. I tend not to overthink things. I avoid thinking. I’m a workaholic and a procrastinator all in one!!
@@AnotherNewLeafha ha, that is me. I am a workaholic, and I do well with that, but tend to put other things off. I guess if I don’t have the energy to deal with it then I put it off. I do overthink everything though. That is where the stress comes. Like I’m overthinking if this video was sharing too much and I should take it down. 3 people unsubscribed. Sometimes people just want all the happy things and none of the real things… and that’s ok too.
Oh Mona, you are speaking to me. I am so messed up. Thank you for being real and honest. I want to email you. I could use your friendship and I'd love to share where I am right now! I love this community of women helping women - love and appreciate you!
I lost my two best friends to breast cancer 5 and 10 years ago. I’m 71 and don’t go out anymore since they passed. I have social anxiety. I do go to the hair salon once a month. Other than that I’m home. My husband works long hours and now is hunting season so I am alone most of the time. I have just come to accept it. Thank you for sharing Mona. 😍😍
Oh we sound so similar. I go to the hair salon 1 x per month. And sometimes, that is the only time that I left the house during the whole month. I’m so sorry about you losing your friends. I have high social anxiety and I often feel it is unfair to my wonderful husband. He does have a lot of friends and he hunts every weekend pretty much from Oct - January and he takes some hunting trips during that time. I think it is more important than ever that we nurture our YT friends. I do believe this is a real community of wonderful women and we can get a lot from these friendships. Thank you! 🤗🤗💕🤗🤗💕 Accepting it is hard though because sometimes you just wish you had a friend you could pick up the phone and call when you are truly down or need another person
I'm old-fashioned too. I do drink an adult beverage now and then, but I've never tried anything else. I'm not against gummies. I'm in Colorado, and there are pot shops everywhere. I have a weighted blanket that is hard to wash. I might check that one out.
+@VickiMarieLivingLife yes, I will have a glass of wine here and there or a frozen margarita. But I’ve not done too much outside the lines! Certainly not that, not even when I was young. I can’t see it being for me, although I’m not judging 😊. That weighted blanket In particular is my favorite. The pillow has lasted over 4-5 years so I do think their items are well made. Thank you for being here and for talking with me 💕
Mona try have your coffee or a meal out on your patio or read a book outside and see if that changes your mood. You can also leave your house and go to a coffee shop and sit and have a coffee and watch all the people that come in and go out. I do that some times. I pray things will get better.
Mona, darling, I know how hard it has been staying home from the pandemic. It has been hard for me too. But I’ll always be by your side. I love you, sweetheart. ❤❤❤
Hi darling ❤ it’s a real issue with lots of people especially after the pandemic ,I can totally relate to feeling this way from time to time and it’s just such comfort to crawl into a cosy warm bed and close of from the rest of the world ❤ I look forward and feel comfort so much to seeing comments from you guys and consider you all my friends I appreciate your honesty , YES a trip with a GF is the best medicine in the world and something I look forward to more than anything . Steps are a big goal and a challenge I do for myself each day ! My fit bit keeps me accountable I have tried the gummies from time to time and they do work pretty well ! I was in my 50s before I tried anything like it LOL I love your videos ❤ LOVE YOU ❤😊
I love you too! I appreciate our new friendship and all the YT friendships here! They mean so much. I will try very hard to actually take my girl’s trip. It will be a big step for me! 🤗💕🤗
Hi Mona. I understand everything you’re going through I’m just like you I’m 62 and I really don’t leave the house. I have also lost my two best friends. It’s hard meeting woman our age
+@GraceFreund-y7v I’m so sorry that you have lost your two best friends. That has to be hard. How do you navigate your day to day? Are you still working or do you have hobbies? I’m thinking of doing a video on how those of us who experience this, how we navigate through it. I’m here if you ever need me!
+@GraceFreund-y7v well, I’d love to be friends! I’m happy to share my number and you’re welcome to reach out anytime. My email is monabagot1@gmail.com. We could talk whenever you like 💕
I like to sleep too. These past months I'm always tired from work and when I come home my body is weak and it's still cold in the Philippines due to the northern season and seems like that blanket is perfect to use . Speaking of video quality, you always impress me with your uploading of videos because I know how difficult it is to spend time and effort in editing before uploading, always make sense and learn.That's why i really admire your passion my dear friend ❤❤. Anyway i like your make up today your so blooming the statements of your jewelry is perfect to your OOTD today. Thank you for sharing love support from Philippines 🇵🇭❤️💙
You are such a kind, dear friend. I’m sorry you have been so tired. How long is it cold in the Philippines? I’m just starting the colder weather here. It is hard to get my house warm so I love the blanket. I appreciate you so very much 🤗. Love from your US friend
I hope so! I’m not sure if I will keep it up. I will keep it up for a little while and then I will probably take it down. I don’t want this up for eternity 😊
HI MONA I love staying home but since COVID (took me a year to recover )I'm home much more , because all the dancing spots (west coast swing Clubs) are closed up. my hubby does the grocery shopping and I dont like reg. shopping. I do try to see a good movie once a week ,have a meal out or visit a girl friend. I love my 3 wheel bike and walking. we have beautiful weather here ,NO SNOW. my two children's lives are so busy so I dont bother them except for Christmas,Thanksgiving and Mothers day. For sleeping I take Magnesium at night and B-12 in the morning and I still do all my own house work(2300 s. f.single level) and yard work except for mowing. I'v been with my husband for 45 years this December and He just retired. MY drs. are still trying to "find where my cancer is coming from "that made my left groin swell up, thats been removed with no problem 4 months ago. NOW drs. say it could be inflammation ! take care hugs Connie Murphy
Hi Connie, thank you so much for taking the time to share. My husband does the grocery shopping unless I need to run to the small store for eggs or milk or something to finish a meal. I have been married for 32 years and we dated for 6 years prior to that. I don’t know what I’d do without him and hope to never find out. I am very close to my 3 children: ages 30, 28, and 25 but yes they are getting their own lives. The middle son will be having a baby in March. I treasure my time with them. I really appreciate the tips for sleeping. I will have to try those. I’ve been praying for you with the “cancer”. I was very sad when you said you were stepping away from YT. I’m so glad you have come back. You inspire me and so many other ladies. I think it’s good to connect here, especially when we are not getting out a lot. I think it allows us to share ideas and what might help another because we all have so many different experiences that surely some of us have the answers that another needs! Bless you 💕❤️💕
Hi Mona, I feel the same way. I suffer from anxiety and feeling down. The anxiety has gotten worse and I think I might be developing a fear of going out. I get such anxiety and get so stressed out about going out that I just don't go out. I've only been out a couple of times in the last 3 months. They were times I had to go for my migraine treatment or when we went to see our daughter for her birthday. Otherwise I just stay home. I have a brittle bone disease called Osteogenesis Imperfecta plus I have Narcolepsy with Cataplexy so if I have a Cataplexy and fall I can break very easily. So I am fearful of going out. I've broken so many bones that I don't do anything that could put me in danger of breaking. I stay home in the safety of my house. It gets lonely and I can't wait till my husband gets home from work. I have my furbabies to keep me company and to dote over and I am so thankful for them. They keep me going and give me so much. But it's lonely and I too can't wait to go to sleep. Especially with Narcolepsy, lol. I am so thankful for everyone I've met through RUclips and so grateful to have made many friendships. These amazing communities are wonderful to be a part of. I am grateful to have found your channel and thankful for your friendship. Remember I am only a text, call or email away. Anytime you feel lonely or want to talk I'm here for you Mona. I'm here for anyone else in this amazing community. My email is in my description and you can email me anytime. A dear RUclips friend and content creator passed away yesterday and my heart breaks for her and her family. I'm sadden from the loss. She was an amazing person. So kind hearted and very talented. She will be missed so much.🙏❤ Sending big hugs to everyone. 🤗❤
Karen, I’m so sorry that you are going through so much. That’s what I’m concerned about… that I might be developing a fear of going out. I do leave for doctor’s appointments or special events, like something for my children or my mom.. but not too much else. You can call me anytime you are lonely or want someone to talk to! I really mean that! 💕🤗💕
I only have my sister and my daughter who I hang out with everything else my anxiety go through the roof. But I want to go on more trips and not be overwhelmed by it. I started the step thing with you, but my watch went to acting up and everything so I decided not to do it.
Thank you, Shirley. I feel like many of us deal with this but we don’t talk about it and if we don’t talk about it, we can’t help each other. I love this community of women. It is just that I see time passing us by and I hate the thought of us letting life pass us by when we could be enjoying the gifts God has given us! I hope you can take a trip a couple of times per year
+@Zdlifestyle hugs ZD! I’m ok but it’s definitely something that I need to work on. When I look back a year from now, I want to be living life and not wasting it 🤗
@ this is exactly what I have been thinking - I’m going through some really tough stuff this year and had some really dark moments- I want to live every single second of my life now ❤️
+@Zdlifestyle I’m always here if you need a friend! We can always talk on WhatsApp! That is the best thing about this community. We can and do prop each other up with caring and love and friendship - even across the miles or the world or the pond
i need the weighted blanky! I love to sleep, I am a happy person, love Jesus and my family but I love to escape in sleep, always have! Can relate, I litreally am such a home body, but I am glad for my part time job, at a Day Spa, it is so fun too, but I am forced to get out of the house. My husband asked me if I wanted to get my gym memborship back, I'm like I can go walk and have my own gym stuff, why leave the house if I don't have to?! 😺 What a blessing your honesty is, sometimes I feel like such a weirdo😹♥💛💚
💕🤗 I am actually starting to feel like it’s not so abnormal maybe. It seems there are many of us. I love Jesus and stay pretty happy too. But lately, it’s been a little harder. I’m not sure why. I think because people are calling attention to it and making me feel like it’s not normal. My job is at home, it’s full time and it’s high pressure and long hours. I can easily not see outside for a week either, nor turn on the radio or TV. It’s just go go go sometimes. I will even watch church service online. I’m trying to make some changes! 💕
@@AboutFaceWithMonaBagot I wanted a stay at home job so bad, but now I am glad that I am forced to get out! Find something that you like to do, even for an hour a week. What about a Women's Bible Study or just meet a friend for coffee? I don't have many friends here in Idaho, as I did not grow up here, but I find that it is easier to make friends at church. I get anxious too, it has been a lifelong struggle for me. I am working on the triggers. I will pary for you too!
+@SoftBeauty7 I think it has its perks, like when the weather is bad. But overall, I think if you are going to work it is nice to at least work a few days out of the house. I will pray for you too! I am trying to make some good steps to get out more. I don’t think I will ever be super outgoing or do a lot of things, but I will start doing a few things!
Honey I've never had any of that stuff either to be honest with you if I did they would probably have to call an ambulance for me lol from a panic attack dear heaven it's bad enough I have to go to the hospital every so often with ulcerated colitis which terrifies me because I always get put in critical condition I don't take anything either God help us but he will and you know it and you are fine believe me Big hugs and love you you do great videos Don't let anybody tell you don't❤❤❤❤
I actually am not sure if I will leave this one up. I don’t want people to think I’m in a terrible place, but I definitely have been wanting to stay home and finding excuses not to leave my comfy home. I know I’m wasting the time I have left and need to stop wasting it! 💕I appreciate you my sweet friend ❤️
Mona, I’m going to be honest… some of my issue is that I’m 30kg heavier than I should be. I’m uncomfortable in my own skin. The gummies! I’m old fashioned too. Too scared.
I think you may have just helped me figure it out. I have lost 82 plus pounds, so I had gotten very heavy for my 5 feet 3 in a half inch height. I think that is when it started. Then I lost the weight ( I have gained 10 that I want to lose). But I have all this extra skin on my neck, and look much older than other women my age. I never wear short sleeves or shorts, I cover everything I can. But unless I wear a scarf and face cover, I can’t cover that. After I lost the weight, you would think I would have started going back out but I think I was used to it by that time? I’m here if you ever need a friend. And I am doing a step challenge to try and lose these 10 pounds if you want to join me! 💕🤗💕
@ I am going to join you!! I’m embracing my grey hair, I’m NOT embracing my dwindling mobility and… slightly leaky bladder from the excess weight. There. I said it. I’ll find you on instagram and follow.
I am 69 and do not want to go anywhere . I do think it hit hard for me during Covid. I don’t have friends and don’t want any. I have my dogs. Being around people makes me uncomfortable and anxious. I don’t even like to shop in stores anymore. I guess I do have a friend, Amazon. I had friends and went out frequently when I worked. I like being alone. I did force myself to go to a function with my husband on Tuesday. I do have depression and am on medication for it. Have been for years. I too am very conservative and have not tried the gummies. At least we know we are not alone in feeling this way.
Thank you. It helps to know that I am not alone in feeling this way. Do you ever feel that you are letting your husband down? I have guilt over that. I know if I’d be more outgoing he’d love that. I used to be that way so now I feel I hold him back from fully enjoying life too. I’m glad you are on medication. Maybe I should just go and have a talk with a therapist. That seems like a big step to me. Because, then the problem would definitely not me my imagination. I order everything I can online. I think I like being alone too, but just not all the time. I think it’s pretty much all the time 💕. Thank you for making me feel more normal! Please let me know if I can ever help you! Mona
@@AboutFaceWithMonaBagot I know I disappoint my husband. The functions are at his clubs he belongs to. He knows the people,I do not and it is stressful for me. There is a Christmas party the next 2 weekends and I am dreading it but will go for him. I actually break out in a sweat at these things.
Mona - I absolutely love you and your channel because you are so very real. I also think you're very brave because I would love to do RUclips, and I can't because I'm scared. I hate going to the grocery store, so I order mine and pick them up. My boyfriend of 19 years I told to leave because he's a truck driver and I'm alone most of the time. I go to bed at 7 and have to get up and let my dogs out because they don't want to go to bed. I do have anxiety. I have seen a therapist for about 25 years. I also have depression. My house is out of control. I have too many clothes. I also have a phone number that Im going to email to you so you can call me anytime. I think your girls' trip sounds great. I just adore you. I can't do the step challenge. But right now, I'm sending you my number! I have tried gummies with my daughter, and they aren't bad. I think seeing a therapist is a great start. I find I just dont have friends because all my friends are all around the US! Start small. Don't be hard on yourself.
Thank you, Lori. I’m not sure if I will keep this video up. But I thought it might help a few to know that there are many of us that go through the same thing. I don’t think I’m brave at all. But I agree with baby steps. I would never have guessed that you go through this too. Let’s make a point to keep in touch 💕🤗❤️
Hi Mona, I think many of us feel this way. I am also much more isolated. I think Covid and working from home plays into it. I applaud you for being honest and open so we can route you on. You have this and will help many others. The older we get, the more we fall into this cycle. The gummy story is hilarious! Love that! And you have a good plan for breaking the cycle!
Hi Mona!! I heard such good things about the weighted blanket, Natalie the Beauty Diva mentioned that on her channel one time. Oh no sorry about the ticket, I don't have trouble falling asleep but staying asleep. I wake up a lot & can't always fall back to sleep. Positively a covid thing, I agree getting dressed & putting makeup on helps to get out. I never thought your videos were not edited well, you are so professional & bring us such great reviews!! Don't ever feel that your videos were not good. I'm so happy for you going on a girls trip, you will have a fun time!! Too bad we aren't closer, you would be a great friend!! I have noticed on RUclips there is so many lonely people out there, I struggle also with it, but just try to stay busy & positive thoughts & know I'm not alone. Walking also helps, but the weather has been so cool here nw to walk. You look beautiful, hugs!! Karen💐
+@thegraylatte1638 Hi Karen, I think I will always love anything weighted. It has such a comforting feeling. I wake up sometimes after I go to sleep but generally go to bed very early and wake up very early. I don’t think it bothers me very much to stay home, but people are starting to comment on it and I find myself looking for any way not to have to go out. So I think it is probably to a point of not being healthy for me. I think I need to make more effort to get out. Before I’m stuck here. I may take this video down. I’m not sure if it will be helpful or if it will just seem too dreary of a subject. Yes, I would love it if you were closer 💕
@@AboutFaceWithMonaBagot Mona don't take the video down. It was heartfelt & I know you helped so many!! Hugs!!
Hi Mona, I feel this message for sure. I am definitely at home way more than I go out. People drain me. I love them, but need my alone time after people time. I know that is not normal. And big events, like weddings, parties etc are a real struggle for me.
That’s me exactly, I just can’t figure out exactly when this happened. It definitely wasn’t always like this. There was a time I was always on the go! Reach out if you ever need me 💕
Thank you, MonA. I know so many of us deal with this. That is why we are on YT so much.
I think YT definitely provides a connection to other women our age, facing similar challenges
Another awesome sharing ❤😮🎉
Thank you sweet Margie 💕
Oh Mona, I feel for you - but you are doing so well to try to step outside again! My friendship group has shrunk, and some of my friends have moved away from London, meaning I don't see them as often. And like you I have found my tribe on RUclips - starting a channel has been a way to connect with likeminded people - and I've even met two of them! Also, I had not heard of a weighted blanket before, but sounds right up my alley ❤I hope you've had a great holiday weekend. No hols for us until Christmas, but not long now 😊
I think many of us face this. And for the majority of the time, I am not lonely. But if you ask my husband, “what is Mona’s favorite thing to do?” Without hesitation he will say be in her bed. People are excited and happy when I am out. It has become too easy to never go out. That is not living. I have so much to be grateful for and I need to get a handle on this. And that is what I’m going to do. Thank you for the support 💕🥰
Mona, I really appreciate how honest you were in this video. Isolation can sneak up on all of us, especially as life changes, and it’s tough to talk about. I get where you’re coming from, and I think so many others do too. I love that you’re planning a girls’ trip and doing little things like finding comfort in your blanket and pillow-it’s those small steps that make a difference. You’re so self-aware, and I know you’ll find your way back to feeling more connected. You’ve got this, and I’m rooting for you!
+@VickiMarieLivingLife thank you for your kind comments. I really am not sure whether to leave this up or take it down. I don’t want people to think I’m in a terrible way. I have a great family and a truly loving husband and adult sons. I just recognize that I get out less and less and almost “cocoon” inside. I see how excited my sons get when I do something. There are people starting to make comments about me never leaving the house. Of course I do… but not a lot. I could be home as long as 4 weeks until my hair appointment. I guess I’m just realizing that it might be time to turn the ship before I can’t turn it. Does that make sense? I went to the hunting camp with my husband this weekend and actually had a nice quiet time. We are headed back and of course, I can’t wait to get home. But it was something and I’ll start trying to do more “somethings” 💕
Thank you for sharing your story with vulnerability. I, too, suffer from isolation, depression, and anxiety. This time of year is awful due to darkness, colder weather, and cloudy skies. Grieving my mom and sister this year has made everything a struggle. I'm 58, retired, and stay in my pajamas most days. When I get up and get ready, I can go out if I have an appointment, and it makes me feel better. I need accountability, too. I want to live life to the fullest, experience joy, and have a purpose. God bless you and your channel.
I am so sorry for the loss of your mom and sister. Grief is hard to get past and it is especially hard at this time of the year! I still miss my dad, every day. I’m proud of you for wanting more than pajamas too. I can relate and I certainly do not judge. I would be so happy to be an accountability partner, a friend and maybe we could cheer each other on in small accomplishments. I’m happy to share my number. We are very close in age. My email is in the description. You could call or text and if you are not comfortable with that you can respond in my video comments and let me know any progress you have made. I’d like to be here to help! 🤗🤗🤗💕💕💕
This was all so relatable. 😢 Best of luck to you and the rest of us!❤
I think a lot of people feel like this, especially in the winter. I really enjoyed when I worked from home but that was during the pandemic so it was by definition isolating! I can see how it might not be great to do that all the time though. Enjoy your trip! 😊
Thank you Mona. We can all learn to not waste the precious time we are given. You are taking a great step forward! I love my weighted blanket too!
+@pippabrennan3448 yes, I think it’s time to talk openly about things we struggle with because sometimes it can help others know they are not alone. We find ourselves in ruts about many things, in many ways and we need to recognize them, call them out and move past them!
Hi Mona, I am the same way. I just found it to stressful having friends. I enjoy putting that energy into my family. I think everyone gets like this later in life. I don't have anxiety or depression. I enjoy reading, my pets and my family and that takes up most of my time. Thanks for sharing. ❤
Hi Cheryl, I am happy to hear from you. Maybe I am concerned about nothing. I put a lot of energy into my family and work. I enjoy reading and my dog and cats. I do think I should be doing more activities outside of the house though and I go to bed by 7:30p or 8p most nights. I also spend most of the day in my room and I’m not sure if that’s healthy. I’m working on it though! 💕
Hi Mona I haven't tried or smoked anything besides normal cigarettes but I quit 20 years ago. Is even scary just thinking about that. I also never tried or had a weighted blanket. They sound amazing. I am sorry about the social anxiety I think is a Covid legacy. I had that but now my social life is so much active that I barely an keep up with content and interacting with my community. But I get what you say. I hope you had a lovely Thanksgiving day ❤
I am glad you have gotten your social life back. I had one when my kids were young. I never even smoked regular cigarettes. Ever. I’m glad you quit! I don’t think I’ll be using these lol. I enjoyed my family very much for Thanksgiving. I love them more than anything. I may end up taking this video down but thought maybe it may help someone else! Have a great weekend!
Definitely enjoyed it dear friend, full view and thumbs up,,👍
Have an amazing weekend ⛅
Thank you! You too!
Hi Mona, thank you for sharing it is so common . It is great you try and work it out . Have fun on your trip ❤
Thank you Foteini! We all experience things and we just have to work to overcome them! 💕
Thank you Mona for your honesty. I feel exactly the same way; loneliness is so hard. At my age it’s difficult to make new friends. The few friends I had are no longer around. I hope you enjoy your trip-it sounds wonderful. ENJOY!
Thank you, Yvette! I appreciate you. I think as we age, this becomes a real thing for many. Others are doing senior events, and becoming more social butterflies as they have more time with retirement etc. I know my mom socializes more than I do. I know I have some flaw, somewhere. 💕
@ No flaws my dear friend, we are all different. Some can make friends easier than others, some are uncomfortable in certain situations. We just need to be open to possibilities. I love how open you are with us and I’m certain it’s a blessing for many of us. Thanks for making my life more brighter. I really appreciate you.🥰
I love your honesty and realism in this video. I too have been feeling very isolated and lonely lately. I will look into the weighted blanket.
Thank you. I was not sure I wanted to be this honest, but maybe it will help someone feel not so abnormal. Life is hard and no matter what kind of life you have, and I know many have it so much worse, but everyone goes through stuff. Any weighted blanket works. My mom got hers on Amazon. This is just my favorite. I’m always here my friend, just a phone call away. Sometimes it’s just nice to have someone to talk to! 💕
Very nice... Thank-You for shearing...🎉🌼❤
My pleasure 😊
🎉@@AboutFaceWithMonaBagot
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Thanks Mona for sharing your thoughts & experience in life sending positive thoughts see you soon ❤
Have a great Sunday!
@ likewise ♥️
Thank u for being honest and girly you probably will never know how many others you help. tfs
I don’t know if this was good or bad to post. I may take it down. But if it helps someone, anyone it will be worth the transparency 🤗
Thank you for great sharing 😊
Thank you for stopping by! 💕
Mona~ You are not alone. I rarely leave the house. I can drive but haven't for a few years. I'm no longer physically capable of shopping in stores. Once I retired I realized that 95% of my socialization was 'at work' ~ & that's where my relationships were. I was astounded when I realized that I'd let a job become the hub of my life! My husband needs hearing aids but does not currently have any, so there's very little conversation here. RUclips is a lifeline, as is reading. Blessings! Jackie in upstate NY
Jackie, thank you for taking the time to share. I think you really hit on something. I think the wide circle of friends that I had were tied to work and to my son’s school and sports activities and when they graduated and the. I started working from home… I realized that I was actually alone. I wonder what is wrong with me that my husband has so many friends but I don’t. I know I’m not great at YT but I do it, because I am so happy by every single comment. And when no one watches or comments, I’m so disappointed… not because of money or anything like that but because it’s another message that I’m not good enough. People, not even on RUclips want to be my friend. It is like I’m still that teenager trying to get approval and fearing that rejection too. If someone unsubscribes, I immediately feel unworthy and sad. I love you all so much and your comments and conversations add so much to my life. I care about each name and each person and I remember all of you. My husband needs hearing aids too and has a very bad heart. He loves me but I don’t think he really wants to “talk” lol. I miss having girlfriends but when you all have conversations I am fulfilled and that is good enough 💕🤗. Is the reason you don’t shop in stores because of anxiety or because of trouble with walking? I love reading too. I hope to see you in the comments more often and if you ever need a friend, you can always reach out. 💕. Mona 🤗
Hi Mona, thank you for sharing the video have a great time best regards ❤️👍
Thank you! You too!
Hello friend good evening my friend 👍👍👍❤❤❤❤🌹🌹🌹🌹
+@jamuherbal thank you 😊
Mona I am happy you are talking about your isolation and is doing something about it. I am old fashion also when it come to these sleep things and I have never used them. I stay home but it is because I love being home but if I need to leave the house I do. I am not depress, I have sleep issues because of menopause. Because I am home all day and the children are all grown I wake up early in the morning and go to the park and walk around 8 AM and I spend an hour in the park every other day. The days I don't go to the park, I go in the back yard every hour and walk and enjoy outside for at least 5 minutes and then come back inside. It keeps my day fresh and my mind happy.
Thank you, Vee! I missed this comment 💕
Thank you, Mona. This struck home for me. I need to do better too.
+@monymony2708 thank you! We can all do better! I know we can! 💕
Thank you, Mona!
+@ainsleecoe501 you are most welcome!
Hi Mona
I can relate to pretty much everything you have been speaking on in this video! I’m sorry I didn’t watch sooner! I just now got home from a family getaway up in our local mountains. I couldn’t wait to get home to watch and send you some love! By the way, I finally feel well enough to start my stepping journey with you! It starts tomorrow December 2! Sending you lots of hugs! We can get through this stuff together one day at a time! ❤
Love you much! I’m so glad for all of you. I’m really ok. Going to be ok. But it is a real thing right now. I don’t plan to stay in this place though 💕🤗💕
I’m ready to get to stepping and get those endorphins going! I’m so glad you enjoyed family time! That is important 🤗
@@AboutFaceWithMonaBagot exercise really does help that’s for sure! So we take it one day at a time! And stick together 🥰❤️
@ladyyaya6782 yes! I like the idea of that 🤗. You are such a wonderful person and I’m so grateful to have found you 💕
@ I feel the same way! Thank you for getting us started on our journey ❤️
The X-ray apron I cover people with is often referred to as a weighted blanket by them. I am glad it comforts them and you. Best wishes moving forward.
Thank you, Julia! I KNOW God has me. I know I’m blessed in so many ways. I also know that I’m not in the best place by being inside my home alone so much. But I also know I CAN change it. I’m putting it out there so when I reflect back, hopefully I can report overcoming and living this life in the best way. Yes! X Ray blankets are weighted and that is probably why I love them lol. Thank you for being here and for all you do to help others! 🤗
@@AboutFaceWithMonaBagot thank you for sharing in a caring way, and yes God has you!
I feel this one!! I work from home too. When I first moved out of state I just wanted to stay inside with cozy stuff. Hiking has been the thing that has saved me and pushed me outside. Going out of town with your girlfriend is going to be amazing! ❤❤
Omg just heard the CBD story…and yes! The ones with THC are so helpful at helping you sleep. Go VERY conservative with them though. Have fun!!!
I love this! I wish we had hiking here. But when I’m in our swamps, I am in my happy place! I don’t know that I will try the gummies… I may gift them to others who enjoy them!
You got this girl! Have fun on your trip.
Thank you 😊 💕
Hi Mona, thank you for sharing the video have a great time best regards ...
+@hyumnaaa21 thank you dear friend
Hello Mona, working was my reason to get out. I totally understand wanting to stay home. I too have no friends to have coffee with and visit. Jim runs all of my errands too. If I need something on line he does the ordering. I too am always ready for sleep. I thank you for sharing your thoughts. I honestly don’t know any thing about what you’re sharing. I am old fashion too. I have actually been called Goodie Two Shoes. I too need to push myself out the door. I find your videos really good. I never have seen a bad video. 💕NonnaGrace 🐓
Thank you my sweet friend. I have definitely been called goodie two shoes. I don’t know how Jeff puts up with me. I know it holds him back from doing more fun things with socializing. But he is a great man, like your Jim. Thank you for understanding. We should have a phone chat while we drink our cup of coffee once a month 💕
Oh I’m sorry, Mona 😔 I would never have known you felt this way! I guess we never really know how someone is truly feeling. I’m here if you ever need to talk 🩷
By the way, your videos are NOT subpar, your passion shines through. Also- your hair looks absolutely beautiful😘💜
Thank you so much! I’m not sure if I will leave the video up. I’ll decide in a day or so. I don’t expect it will get views and that is ok. But what I was hoping is maybe it would help someone else. Maybe others find themselves here in this place and it may help to know they are not alone. But it is definitely a vulnerable video. I have a wonderful husband and sons. I am ok but definitely something has changed in the last few years and it’s not healthy to be so isolated. Work and YT keep me busy but there should be more to life and it’s my responsibility to find it! I was thinking maybe, just maybe this might let someone else no they are not alone and I think that this community we have here is about more than makeup 💄. We are women helping women 💕
I totally get it! I started working from home in 2019 and wow it definitely has its perks, there is a very real sense of isolation that brings with it a load of emotions. It can be very lonely. I have also battled anxiety on and off most of my life.
Denise - thank you for being honest. I know I am not the only one. I am ok, but yet there are times when it is tough. I do plan to work hard not to stay in this place. I did go to the post office and I went to the hunting camp with my husband… and I am going on a girl trip… big steps!
Also, please reach out if I can ever be a friend 💕
@@AboutFaceWithMonaBagot thank you! ❤️ (I’m SURE you’re not the only one - or were the only 2😉.)
@@deniseriner7165lol! I think there are many of us!
Hi Friend, looking forwars (as always) to your frank heartfelt videos about mature women's issues. You are one wise lady.
I started suffering anxiety at 52 ... 100% menopausal related. I'd never felt this way before and not it was like a tiger was chasing me all the time. A weighted blanket, along with medication in my case, were life savers. I must try B&B's weighted heating pad. I am trying to cut back on the amount of pain meds I'm taking (hopefully zero) but despite the argument that heat causes further inflammation I find it soothes my arthritis and back pain.
Thank you so much for sharing. I have always preferred being a home body. I grew up as latch key/only child. But I will admit getting out of the house for a neighborhood walk everyday refreshes my mind. I need to get involved in a social event ... since retiring as an OT about 4 years ago I too am more isolated. But lately I have been forcing myself to say yes to travel and opportunities. Stepping out of our comfort zones is just as important Over50 as it was when we were teens! You go Girl!! Go on that Girls trip!!
🤗. I think more people go through social isolation after 50 and especially after 60 than we talk about. Maybe this will help someone. Depending on the responses, I may or may not leave it up 🤗
Thank you, Mona, for making this video. I could've said so many of these same things, and I've thought about making my own video like this one. I still need to do that. Because there are so many of us. I see those like us in the comments of videos here on RUclips. There are more things I want to say, and I will come back later to do that, but right now I have to go for an MRI. I just wanted to hop on and tell you how proud I am of you for making this video. Love you, my friend.
Love you, Karen. I debated on whether to put it up. I may end up taking it down. I’m not sure. I have so much more that I could dive into here. It could be a series. This video is not for views. This video is to open the door for us to unite this community of women that we have here on YT to come together and lift each other up… not just me. I am thinking we could do a live friendship chat with all of us once a month where we just share and talk. We could have a panel where people can join the live on screen from wherever they are if they want. I think we could do it with streamyard and just help to be a group of women supporting each other… listening, sharing, caring about each other 🤗
@@AboutFaceWithMonaBagot I think you were brave to take the step of posting this video, and I hope you don't take it down. I hope that when I'm feeling better, I have the courage to post my own video. Because we do need to open the door for the many, many women I see in the comments section in our Over 50 YT community who feel the same way we do. I love the idea of a monthly friendship chat among those of us who feel strongly about this issue, with anyone who feels comfortable joining in. Let's keep this conversation going. It's so important.
Hey Mona, I’ve just moved from Melbourne to Colorado. I’m 50. I also never leave the house. Even visiting a supermarket is becoming challenging. I don’t feel lonely and I can entertain myself quite well. I am mindful though there is probably a part of life I’m missing out on. Sending you love… ❤
Thank you for being here and for joining the conversation! Yes it’s that part of going out being more challenging that is worrisome to me. Why is it challenging for us to go to the grocery store? Why am I so ok with just being inside my house so much, for so long? Even one of my older neighbors comments that no one ever sees me. That can’t be normal? Generally, I have not been lonesome at all. Maybe I’m lonesome more now because my husband is gone on weekends, but I don’t think that’s it. He would love it if I got out with him. I just have to really push myself to do anything. And then when I do push myself to go out, I’m emotionally drained after and need days to “refill” my tank. I don’t know exactly when this happened. Do you think for you, it’s because you are in a new place? Sending hugs 🤗 back!
@@AboutFaceWithMonaBagot I think it started before Covid for me. I was already avoiding large crowds. I need time to recharge after being close to lots of people. My colleagues would say I’m an extrovert but actually I’m more likely an introvert. People don’t recharge me - I enjoy them but then I need some shush time!
@@AnotherNewLeafyes I don’t think people would think I’m an extrovert, but maybe people at work would think that. But I’m definitely not. Being in large groups of people is very hard for me. I am even wondering if I could be on the autism spectrum but high functioning. I don’t know if it’s worth even looking into at this age. I know I have adhd, but have never had any other diagnosis except General Anxiety Disorder.
@ we sound so similar Mona! I have adhd and I used to be very anxious, but I’m much better now. I tend not to overthink things. I avoid thinking. I’m a workaholic and a procrastinator all in one!!
@@AnotherNewLeafha ha, that is me. I am a workaholic, and I do well with that, but tend to put other things off. I guess if I don’t have the energy to deal with it then I put it off. I do overthink everything though. That is where the stress comes. Like I’m overthinking if this video was sharing too much and I should take it down. 3 people unsubscribed. Sometimes people just want all the happy things and none of the real things… and that’s ok too.
hello sis Mona how are you sister am greatful that the team is still as one from the being till now.
Yes! Thank you for that! We are one world, one love, always!
Oh Mona, you are speaking to me. I am so messed up. Thank you for being real and honest. I want to email you. I could use your friendship and I'd love to share where I am right now! I love this community of women helping women - love and appreciate you!
Please do! I want to know this channel is more than just about makeup. It’s about women helping women!
hello My friend
Like done 👍
Thank you, I appreciate your friendship
Alawys here to watching your sharing
Thank you 😊
I lost my two best friends to breast cancer 5 and 10 years ago. I’m 71 and don’t go out anymore since they passed. I have social anxiety. I do go to the hair salon once a month. Other than that I’m home. My husband works long hours and now is hunting season so I am alone most of the time. I have just come to accept it. Thank you for sharing Mona. 😍😍
Oh we sound so similar. I go to the hair salon 1 x per month. And sometimes, that is the only time that I left the house during the whole month. I’m so sorry about you losing your friends. I have high social anxiety and I often feel it is unfair to my wonderful husband. He does have a lot of friends and he hunts every weekend pretty much from Oct - January and he takes some hunting trips during that time. I think it is more important than ever that we nurture our YT friends. I do believe this is a real community of wonderful women and we can get a lot from these friendships. Thank you! 🤗🤗💕🤗🤗💕 Accepting it is hard though because sometimes you just wish you had a friend you could pick up the phone and call when you are truly down or need another person
Interesting share!
Thanks for visiting
I'm old-fashioned too. I do drink an adult beverage now and then, but I've never tried anything else. I'm not against gummies. I'm in Colorado, and there are pot shops everywhere. I have a weighted blanket that is hard to wash. I might check that one out.
+@VickiMarieLivingLife yes, I will have a glass of wine here and there or a frozen margarita. But I’ve not done too much outside the lines! Certainly not that, not even when I was young. I can’t see it being for me, although I’m not judging 😊. That weighted blanket In particular is my favorite. The pillow has lasted over 4-5 years so I do think their items are well made. Thank you for being here and for talking with me 💕
Mona try have your coffee or a meal out on your patio or read a book outside and see if that changes your mood. You can also leave your house and go to a coffee shop and sit and have a coffee and watch all the people that come in and go out. I do that some times. I pray things will get better.
You know what it’s like here … I think that is part of the issue 💕
Mona, darling, I know how hard it has been staying home from the pandemic. It has been hard for me too. But I’ll always be by your side. I love you, sweetheart. ❤❤❤
Liam do you have to work from home now too? Love you too, 💕. I appreciate you
Good sharing
+@RanaChefInternational_786 thank you, Chef 🤗
Hi darling ❤ it’s a real issue with lots of people especially after the pandemic ,I can totally relate to feeling this way from time to time and it’s just such comfort to crawl into a cosy warm bed and close of from the rest of the world ❤
I look forward and feel comfort so much to seeing comments from you guys and consider you all my friends
I appreciate your honesty ,
YES a trip with a GF is the best medicine in the world and something I look forward to more than anything .
Steps are a big goal and a challenge I do for myself each day ! My fit bit keeps me accountable
I have tried the gummies from time to time and they do work pretty well ! I was in my 50s before I tried anything like it LOL I love your videos ❤
LOVE YOU ❤😊
I love you too! I appreciate our new friendship and all the YT friendships here! They mean so much. I will try very hard to actually take my girl’s trip. It will be a big step for me! 🤗💕🤗
Hi Mona. I understand everything you’re going through I’m just like you I’m 62 and I really don’t leave the house. I have also lost my two best friends. It’s hard meeting woman our age
+@GraceFreund-y7v I’m so sorry that you have lost your two best friends. That has to be hard. How do you navigate your day to day? Are you still working or do you have hobbies? I’m thinking of doing a video on how those of us who experience this, how we navigate through it. I’m here if you ever need me!
No I’m not working anymore. I’m disabled now for over 10 years. Friends have retired to other states. I read a lot but I miss woman relationships
+@GraceFreund-y7v well, I’d love to be friends! I’m happy to share my number and you’re welcome to reach out anytime. My email is monabagot1@gmail.com. We could talk whenever you like 💕
I like to sleep too. These past months I'm always tired from work and when I come home my body is weak and it's still cold in the Philippines due to the northern season and seems like that blanket is perfect to use . Speaking of video quality, you always impress me with your uploading of videos because I know how difficult it is to spend time and effort in editing before uploading, always make sense and learn.That's why i really admire your passion my dear friend ❤❤. Anyway i like your make up today your so blooming the statements of your jewelry is perfect to your OOTD today. Thank you for sharing love support from Philippines 🇵🇭❤️💙
You are such a kind, dear friend. I’m sorry you have been so tired. How long is it cold in the Philippines? I’m just starting the colder weather here. It is hard to get my house warm so I love the blanket. I appreciate you so very much 🤗. Love from your US friend
Thank you, I really appreciate how were honest in this video
+@RumduolAngkor thank you! I appreciate you!
Happy Saturday Mona 🦋 just made biscuits and gravy and sausage for the grandkids
That sounds wonderful, I hope you enjoy those sweet little ones 💕🤗
Great video, I know it will help others 💞💞
I hope so! I’m not sure if I will keep it up. I will keep it up for a little while and then I will probably take it down. I don’t want this up for eternity 😊
@@AboutFaceWithMonaBagot I hear you my friend
HI MONA I love staying home but since COVID (took me a year to recover )I'm home much more , because all the dancing spots (west coast swing Clubs) are closed up. my hubby does the grocery shopping and I dont like reg. shopping. I do try to see a good movie once a week ,have a meal out or visit a girl friend. I love my 3 wheel bike and walking. we have beautiful weather here ,NO SNOW. my two children's lives are so busy so I dont bother them except for Christmas,Thanksgiving and Mothers day. For sleeping I take Magnesium at night and B-12 in the morning and I still do all my own house work(2300 s. f.single level) and yard work except for mowing. I'v been with my husband for 45 years this December and He just retired. MY drs. are still trying to "find where my cancer is coming from "that made my left groin swell up, thats been removed with no problem 4 months ago. NOW drs. say it could be inflammation ! take care hugs Connie Murphy
Hi Connie, thank you so much for taking the time to share. My husband does the grocery shopping unless I need to run to the small store for eggs or milk or something to finish a meal. I have been married for 32 years and we dated for 6 years prior to that. I don’t know what I’d do without him and hope to never find out. I am very close to my 3 children: ages 30, 28, and 25 but yes they are getting their own lives. The middle son will be having a baby in March. I treasure my time with them. I really appreciate the tips for sleeping. I will have to try those. I’ve been praying for you with the “cancer”. I was very sad when you said you were stepping away from YT. I’m so glad you have come back. You inspire me and so many other ladies. I think it’s good to connect here, especially when we are not getting out a lot. I think it allows us to share ideas and what might help another because we all have so many different experiences that surely some of us have the answers that another needs! Bless you 💕❤️💕
Fantastic est magique partage belle soirée ❤❤
Merci beaucoup 👍
Thank you, Mona
You are most welcome 🤗
Hi Mona, I feel the same way. I suffer from anxiety and feeling down. The anxiety has gotten worse and I think I might be developing a fear of going out. I get such anxiety and get so stressed out about going out that I just don't go out. I've only been out a couple of times in the last 3 months. They were times I had to go for my migraine treatment or when we went to see our daughter for her birthday. Otherwise I just stay home. I have a brittle bone disease called Osteogenesis Imperfecta plus I have Narcolepsy with Cataplexy so if I have a Cataplexy and fall I can break very easily. So I am fearful of going out. I've broken so many bones that I don't do anything that could put me in danger of breaking. I stay home in the safety of my house. It gets lonely and I can't wait till my husband gets home from work. I have my furbabies to keep me company and to dote over and I am so thankful for them. They keep me going and give me so much. But it's lonely and I too can't wait to go to sleep. Especially with Narcolepsy, lol. I am so thankful for everyone I've met through RUclips and so grateful to have made many friendships. These amazing communities are wonderful to be a part of. I am grateful to have found your channel and thankful for your friendship. Remember I am only a text, call or email away. Anytime you feel lonely or want to talk I'm here for you Mona. I'm here for anyone else in this amazing community. My email is in my description and you can email me anytime. A dear RUclips friend and content creator passed away yesterday and my heart breaks for her and her family. I'm sadden from the loss. She was an amazing person. So kind hearted and very talented. She will be missed so much.🙏❤ Sending big hugs to everyone. 🤗❤
Karen, I’m so sorry that you are going through so much. That’s what I’m concerned about… that I might be developing a fear of going out. I do leave for doctor’s appointments or special events, like something for my children or my mom.. but not too much else. You can call me anytime you are lonely or want someone to talk to! I really mean that! 💕🤗💕
@@AboutFaceWithMonaBagot Thank you Mona. 🤗💖
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I am 44 i love you so much , I with you my beautiful good friend, but you are looking 30 years old ❤
+@RanaChefInternational_786 I love you too Chef and definitely appreciate our friendship. One world! One love ❤️
boa noite entrei pra deixar o meu like
Thank you so much! 😊
I only have my sister and my daughter who I hang out with everything else my anxiety go through the roof. But I want to go on more trips and not be overwhelmed by it. I started the step thing with you, but my watch went to acting up and everything so I decided not to do it.
Thank you, Shirley. I feel like many of us deal with this but we don’t talk about it and if we don’t talk about it, we can’t help each other. I love this community of women. It is just that I see time passing us by and I hate the thought of us letting life pass us by when we could be enjoying the gifts God has given us! I hope you can take a trip a couple of times per year
Mona bella ♥
🤗❤️🤗gracias mi amigo! Mi amigo!
Big hug mona ❤
+@Zdlifestyle hugs ZD! I’m ok but it’s definitely something that I need to work on. When I look back a year from now, I want to be living life and not wasting it 🤗
@ this is exactly what I have been thinking - I’m going through some really tough stuff this year and had some really dark moments- I want to live every single second of my life now ❤️
+@Zdlifestyle I’m always here if you need a friend! We can always talk on WhatsApp! That is the best thing about this community. We can and do prop each other up with caring and love and friendship - even across the miles or the world or the pond
i need the weighted blanky! I love to sleep, I am a happy person, love Jesus and my family but I love to escape in sleep, always have! Can relate, I litreally am such a home body, but I am glad for my part time job, at a Day Spa, it is so fun too, but I am forced to get out of the house. My husband asked me if I wanted to get my gym memborship back, I'm like I can go walk and have my own gym stuff, why leave the house if I don't have to?! 😺 What a blessing your honesty is, sometimes I feel like such a weirdo😹♥💛💚
💕🤗 I am actually starting to feel like it’s not so abnormal maybe. It seems there are many of us. I love Jesus and stay pretty happy too. But lately, it’s been a little harder. I’m not sure why. I think because people are calling attention to it and making me feel like it’s not normal. My job is at home, it’s full time and it’s high pressure and long hours. I can easily not see outside for a week either, nor turn on the radio or TV. It’s just go go go sometimes. I will even watch church service online. I’m trying to make some changes! 💕
@@AboutFaceWithMonaBagot I wanted a stay at home job so bad, but now I am glad that I am forced to get out! Find something that you like to do, even for an hour a week. What about a Women's Bible Study or just meet a friend for coffee? I don't have many friends here in Idaho, as I did not grow up here, but I find that it is easier to make friends at church. I get anxious too, it has been a lifelong struggle for me. I am working on the triggers. I will pary for you too!
+@SoftBeauty7 I think it has its perks, like when the weather is bad. But overall, I think if you are going to work it is nice to at least work a few days out of the house. I will pray for you too! I am trying to make some good steps to get out more. I don’t think I will ever be super outgoing or do a lot of things, but I will start doing a few things!
Honey I've never had any of that stuff either to be honest with you if I did they would probably have to call an ambulance for me lol from a panic attack dear heaven it's bad enough I have to go to the hospital every so often with ulcerated colitis which terrifies me because I always get put in critical condition I don't take anything either God help us but he will and you know it and you are fine believe me Big hugs and love you you do great videos Don't let anybody tell you don't❤❤❤❤
Hi 👋🏼 Mona Love you! I’m in my 30s and leave my home when I need to. Sometimes it’s a want when I’m craving Starbucks 😅.
I actually am not sure if I will leave this one up. I don’t want people to think I’m in a terrible place, but I definitely have been wanting to stay home and finding excuses not to leave my comfy home. I know I’m wasting the time I have left and need to stop wasting it! 💕I appreciate you my sweet friend ❤️
Mona, I’m going to be honest… some of my issue is that I’m 30kg heavier than I should be. I’m uncomfortable in my own skin.
The gummies! I’m old fashioned too. Too scared.
I think you may have just helped me figure it out. I have lost 82 plus pounds, so I had gotten very heavy for my 5 feet 3 in a half inch height. I think that is when it started. Then I lost the weight ( I have gained 10 that I want to lose). But I have all this extra skin on my neck, and look much older than other women my age. I never wear short sleeves or shorts, I cover everything I can. But unless I wear a scarf and face cover, I can’t cover that. After I lost the weight, you would think I would have started going back out but I think I was used to it by that time? I’m here if you ever need a friend. And I am doing a step challenge to try and lose these 10 pounds if you want to join me! 💕🤗💕
@ I am going to join you!! I’m embracing my grey hair, I’m NOT embracing my dwindling mobility and… slightly leaky bladder from the excess weight. There. I said it. I’ll find you on instagram and follow.
I am 69 and do not want to go anywhere . I do think it hit hard for me during Covid. I don’t have friends and don’t want any. I have my dogs. Being around people makes me uncomfortable and anxious. I don’t even like to shop in stores anymore. I guess I do have a friend, Amazon. I had friends and went out frequently when I worked. I like being alone. I did force myself to go to a function with my husband on Tuesday. I do have depression and am on medication for it. Have been for years. I too am very conservative and have not tried the gummies. At least we know we are not alone in feeling this way.
Thank you. It helps to know that I am not alone in feeling this way. Do you ever feel that you are letting your husband down? I have guilt over that. I know if I’d be more outgoing he’d love that. I used to be that way so now I feel I hold him back from fully enjoying life too. I’m glad you are on medication. Maybe I should just go and have a talk with a therapist. That seems like a big step to me. Because, then the problem would definitely not me my imagination. I order everything I can online. I think I like being alone too, but just not all the time. I think it’s pretty much all the time 💕. Thank you for making me feel more normal! Please let me know if I can ever help you! Mona
@@AboutFaceWithMonaBagot thank you. I am here for you as well if you need me.
Thank you! 🤗
@@AboutFaceWithMonaBagot I know I disappoint my husband. The functions are at his clubs he belongs to. He knows the people,I do not and it is stressful for me. There is a Christmas party the next 2 weekends and I am dreading it but will go for him. I actually break out in a sweat at these things.
Mona - I absolutely love you and your channel because you are so very real. I also think you're very brave because I would love to do RUclips, and I can't because I'm scared. I hate going to the grocery store, so I order mine and pick them up. My boyfriend of 19 years I told to leave because he's a truck driver and I'm alone most of the time. I go to bed at 7 and have to get up and let my dogs out because they don't want to go to bed. I do have anxiety. I have seen a therapist for about 25 years. I also have depression. My house is out of control. I have too many clothes. I also have a phone number that Im going to email to you so you can call me anytime. I think your girls' trip sounds great. I just adore you. I can't do the step challenge. But right now, I'm sending you my number! I have tried gummies with my daughter, and they aren't bad. I think seeing a therapist is a great start. I find I just dont have friends because all my friends are all around the US! Start small. Don't be hard on yourself.
Thank you, Lori. I’m not sure if I will keep this video up. But I thought it might help a few to know that there are many of us that go through the same thing. I don’t think I’m brave at all. But I agree with baby steps. I would never have guessed that you go through this too. Let’s make a point to keep in touch 💕🤗❤️
@AboutFaceWithMonaBagot thats why i emailed you my number!
Oh too funny about the gummies. I am not opposed to them lol
I think they are common for many people these days now that they are legal! 💕
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I tried it when I was 33 and promised God I would never do it again and I haven’t😂
I think I’m not going to use them myself!
Never tried the gummies before
I thought they were CBD oil gummies 😱
Mona done from Village Bhai
Thank you! I appreciate your friendship
@ your so amazing creator
12:44 I wake up in the middle of night 3 o’clock to every night I was scared to take CBD oil, but everybody act like it’s a miracle oil
Are you able to go back to sleep after you wake up or do you stay up?
for me cbd is the same as smoking it and it slows down the brain.take magnesium at night instead
@ stay up for a hour or two
Wow Mona 😮 I have my heat blanket on all the time, even watching your video. 😊 I've sent you soke more messages on whatsapp 😊🤗🤗
Going check. 💕🤗💕
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+@SwissLifeStyley 💕🙌🏼💕
Uppers and downers gummies....any for pain? LOL
Probably lol. I have a box of them to share! 🤗💕🤗
I myself take Magnesium at night and B12 in the morning.
I want to see you take a gummy 😂
Ha Ha! I’m contemplating
Hi beautiful leady
Hello 😊