I don't care what the situation is, no one should ever tell a woman " I hope you miscarry". That is so mean. I'm so sorry y'all had to endure such hate.
I got the joke and it wasn't offensive at all to me. We've all made jokes like that when we think someone is "fugly". It's THEIR child and they get to choose.
There’s certain jokes like this that should remain private. And I believe it wasn’t a joke because she said it twice she said it on her and Judy’s show and then she said it on dish nation the only reason she said she was joking because of the backlash she was getting. Miss me with the BS I understand about the shortage of black men donating sperm but she knew she wasn’t joking.
Bottom line is she said, what she said, she meant what she meant! If he looked like Jimetty Cricket, then she’s entitled to her own opinion of how someone looks just like anyone else is. Her opinion is hers, it’s not the gospel, it’s hers….and that should be OK! People wishing miscarriage on her, that’s something totally different, the real hatred. Saying someone isn’t cute versus saying you wish someone (baby) would die is not by any means any comparison. Someone being Ugly don’t kill them!!!!!! Wishing someone dead, can. So atrocious, despicable and hate filled.
Yes, that's evil for someone to wish that Brat has a miscarriage! Heck, I wouldn't won't a baby by someone who looks like Jimmy the Cricket! Of course, the guy who looks like Jimmy the Cricket can't help that he looks like Jimmy the Cricket, and there is somebody who probably don't mind having a baby by Jimmy the Cricket, but I am with Brat on that!
That is very ignorant insensitive and evil. But just because you feel a certain way about things don’t mean you should always speak out loud about it. She could have kept that between her and Judy.
If more people were more selective about who they chose to create a baby with a lot of thirst defects people have would be limited. Choose who you think would be a good parent. Back in the day you has to take a blood test before you got married to see if either party had a genetic issue or a carrier of some trait that could be passed on to your future kids. Now no one will know if their kids will have any kind of disorder or not unless they get the test done themselves
What Brat said about the one lone black doner is what most folks woulda said in her situation, the only difference is hers was on national TV. Production shoula cut it out.
Exactly because I I’m paying to have a baby I would want it to be cute ijs saying and if you watch the show you know they said his profile about his self was limited and not giving much info. Hello no would have swiped left and found someone else 🤷🏾♀️
Doubt it. I know how "we" (black people) are. We joke too much. Other races seem to have a little more tact than we do in general. I doubt white women are sitting up in the doctor's office calling donors Jiminy Cricket or anything of the sort. It's such a serious journey. I remember when my mom's white friend went through it. Could never see her making jokes about donors.
Blk women stop explaining yourselves. Nothing you do or don’t will ever be good enough to the Blk Community! Just live your lives how you want without explanation.
Thank you! 👏🏾👏🏾 They tell us we're undesirable and we don't deserve their protection nor provision. But have a meltdown when we go to males in a different community. Make it make sense. 😂 It's the age old, "I don't want you but I don't want you to want anyone else." It's sociopathic. 🤦🏾♀️
This was a great and teachable moment. The content in which it was said was not offensive to a race at all. And it is not uncommon that we value how a person looks before we sleep, marry, or bear children with them!
There’s nothing wrong or is uncommon about it but she should have kept that between her and Judy she knows how social media is. Somethings like In this case should have been private.
I would be cautious of how my child would look as well and the behavior because nobody wants to bring a baby in the world that could potentially be bipolar, have bad hair, is dumb, and a serial killer etc... I would've picked someone from another race if there were no other options that's a novel laureate if that's what I wanted in my family gene pool... Nothings wrong with that and the public don't matter
It was offensive that's why they cut out the other jokes she made about other donors of other races. They only kept the jokes about her own race bc insulting each other is the ONLY thing we are allowed to do on television and they eat it up and have you conditioned to believe it's no big deal
She already decided the guy wasn't a candidate for her yet she had to insult him. Where I'm from, there isn't really a motivation to be a sperm donor other than just wanting to help others start a family. They could have just said they're not interested and moved on. It's the equivalent of being rude to someone when that person is trying to be nice. Words have power even if they're not said to someone's face and they are putting that bad, judgemental energy on to themselves in the end.
This is important and so true. My aunt and her husband have been married almost 30 years with 2 kids. She told me as a teenager that only after one of my cousins was born with sickle cell that both her and her husband carried the trait for it. Meaning there was a 25% chance that a child they had would have sickle cell. She told me that had she known she would not have married him. Why, because sickle cell is a serious disorder and painful disorder which nobody would want their child to have. From then it was always in my mind that before having children it's important to know what diseases run in our blood lines, as we may be incompatible.
@@flexibledreamer7846 Yes, you're correct I misspoke, thank you. It is 50% which further highlights the point I was making. Nobody wants to significantly increase the probability of their child having a serious and potentially life limiting disorder. My beautiful 21 year old cousin who is about to be a paediatric RN in 2 months (🥳) has experienced more than one terribly painful sickle crisis. Her mother, my mother's sister directly told me as a teen that she 1000% would not have married and procreated with her husband of 27 years had she known that they both carried the trait to spare any child of hers having what is a preventable but devastating disease. Different scenario, but my guess is Judy (Jessica) carries the trait as many black people (in addition to those of 3 other conditions). They were in a position to engage in genetic testing before creating a child healthy (without the heartache of breaking up with their partner). If the donor had to be Asian, white, latino or anything other than black to make that happen that is wise and thoughtful. I pray they have a healthy child (I have another teenage cousin with autism who is non-verbal and low functioning and it is hard). People can be so judgemental. I send them only love 🤍.
I am in my senior years. When I was in my 20s there were some stories in the news bringing sickle cell disease awareness to the forefront. I was working at a hospital. They did a one time sickle cell testing free for any employees that wanted it. I have worked for numerous hospitals. I have never heard of any place else doing this. Many these days seem totally unaware of the disease. I was thankful after finding out I do not carry the trait.
But that doesn't mean you're gonna start dating white men....hers a better question. If da brat only had a choice of a Chinese donor do you think she would have taken it? They should just be honest they want to have an "attractive" child bc they're vain as hell
I got the joke, I didn't think that Brat or Judy meant any harm. The fact that people were so quick to turn on them and wish their child harm is so disgusting! Honestly, I think a lot of the judgement that is coming from our community (black community) is rooted in homophobia. People still aren't used to black couples living "alternative" lifestyles and doing as they please. We have to do better and support each other no matter what!
I don’t see why people have to use her sexuality against her she come out as bisexual 25 years ago many couples of the same sex have children I hate homophobic people and for wishing harm on their child is wrong.
Some people are just stupid, jealous, and ignorant! May your pregnancy be healthy, for you and BBJudy. I've grown to love the two of you. You keep it real and truthful. Can't wait to see the new addition to your lovely family.
It is deep when she said she made fun of other races of donors but they cut those jokes out. Sounds like offensive jokes are only hurtful to others but when said to another blk person it's ok. That's BS
@Pardon My Presence now you're reaching. I'm talking about what she said on the show. She never said it to anyone but her wife and doctor. That's her opinion and she's entitled to it!!!
People do not have anything to say anymore in this world, but except for tear people down get a life, brat and Judy keep doing what you’re doing. Be happy. 🥰💯
😢awww. I hope they have the most seamless labor and delivery ever. My gosh it seems like they weren’t allow to be happy once they announce they were pregnant 🤰🏾.
Im a super huge Brat fan since day one. Im so proud of her and happy to see she found love. I love Brat humor i didnt take offense, people can be so sensitive. I feel like i grew up with Brat so I definitely love her sense of humor.
Insulting someone who is a sperm donor and who is putting themselves out there to help someone start a family, I thought it was kind of rude to say that. Where I live, donors aren't paid so there isn't a financial motivation or anything to it other than helping. Maybe they're paid in the US but still, seems like rude judgement for someone who is trying to help.
I agree 100%. That was my first thought and I made a similar comment. Insulting a donor for laughs seems low and isn't funny to me. The donor did a good deed to help people in her situation. She should have more respect.
Exactly. Here you have a person trying to help a couple who desperately wants a child. And that's not a joking manner to the many people seriously hoping, wishing, and praying for a child. Whatever happened to gratitude?
Brat you don't owe nobody an explanation at all. You don't deserve the hateful comments that you and Judy received. Y'all are loved and respected by your real fans
I would prefer them to be hinest and just say they would prefer a mixed race baby because they thiught it would come out more attractive than the black donor. They are not the only black folks who choose non black egg and sperm donors.
They chose a Caucasian man. The baby is Judy & the white man child. They don't want ppl to stop buying their products & supporting the show. That's why they're doing damage control.
I understood the joke. I’m black & call mfs ugly ALL the time. Everybody has their own preference duh. Ppl are so sensitive now & days yet them same ppl behind closed doors call ppl ugly too. The Internet is a wild wild place man.
What is going on in the minds of people to even speak into the atmosphere, "I hope you"...wow! I actually laughed when she said Jimetty Cricket and they did not show his identity. Da Brat and Judy you will have a healthy, full-of-life baby boy!
Being from the pentecostal church and Black southern culture, what Brat said made total sense to me. It wasn't about putting the man down because he was Black. She was talking about his looks. People where we're from talk like this all the time. It had nothing to do with racism.
With all of their resources they couldn’t find a black donor they liked? Ok, but why put it out there like that ? That was classless and sends a horrible message about their thoughts on OUR men period. But, as a mom of 8, I would NEVER ever wish anyone a miscarriage.
They didn’t deserve people wishing ill upon that baby, but dabrat needs to be careful or choose her words wisely because she was like ‘i refuse if my baby look like that thing’’ like girl what? You didn’t expect no backlash for talking about that man and BLACK at that 🙄
Yes, people have an issue because it seemed anti black. And they're excusing it and also ignoring that a LOT of black gay couples, men AND women having biracial children. It's not a coincidence.
Congratulations and Thank you for your support and for your families life story .I am aware of how sperm donor ship works and the donors for own race aren't there so we dont really deal with those issues but we need to discuss all areas of life with our families as we make choices to have a family because many of us face issues but it isn't discussed we just go for it so the Brat & Judy are being honest and have my support because they are sharing their life struggles .
Da Brat just needs to grow up. The man cared enough and took the time to go through the process of being a donor to help people like her and she makes fun of his appearance. Some things are better kept to yourself. Her comment about the donor was tacky and classless. I'm not excusing the nasty responses either. You don't wish a miscarriage on someone because you're feeling some type of way. So many people have a lot of growing up to do.
We pick and choose who we want what ever color they are. But if he doesn’t fit to what you will see your self with then why judge her.. it was a joke people make jokes about others everyday. If he wasn’t cute to her then he wasn’t. You won’t pick someone if her or she’s isn’t appealing to you. People are sore about everything. Living your life Brat baby you and Judy and I pray that you have a successful birth. ❤
Precisely! She said it on the show, while she was looking at the black donor! She called him Jimmy Cricket and said her baby was gonna come out looking like that thang! I do not see the humor!
This is such a personal journey for any woman. I don’t feel that I ever have the right to judge who or why they chose their donor. That’s their business and not mine.
You will never please some people. They live to be negative. You don't owe nobody an explanation about what you do or say. I'm so happy that you're allowing the public into your personal life. God Bless you guys. Because I don't think I could let the public into my personal life. For that reason alone. Some people treat celebrities like they don't have feelings, and the mean evil things they say out of their mouths is so hurtful. I think you are a beautiful couple, and I love to see the true, honest, and real love you have for each other. It's Beautiful. My God Bless you, and continue to shine His light on you.
Da FAT! “I can't stand no sneaker-wearin' nappy head Bch” -2Pac I always felt Pac was talking directly to this abomination on a man girl with that line.
I’ll admit this: I tried to be anonymous sperm donor and I filled out the information. Being a Bi-racial Black Man, I got denied. What’s crazy about it is that I don’t have any diseases; I’m all healthy and vibrant.
Chi-town..stay off social until after you bring forth life! You have so many trigger happy folks with too much time on their hands. Go live your life. You don't owe us anything. Go be happy, and congratulations.
I know they will be great mother's And I 'm sorry to be Debbie downer, BUT I wonder when the baby grow up will it want their father. Growing up fatherless...And often times people always want what THEY want when they want it, and don't stop to think about the affects, consequences, & long term affects
I'd be more concerned about a child growing up with two mothers than growing up without a father. There's the risk the child will be confused about his or her own sexuality. I hope they have a healthy child but feel sad to think about the difficulties that child is going to endure in growing up.
Imo the way the man looked should've been the least of their worries. You can tell by that comment how SUPERFICIAL they're and as a celeb it all makes sense how ignorant they're.
I wish them a healthy baby and delivery. I did not see it as a joke. Rather it was the dismissal of having a Black baby I found quite offensive. There are PLENTY of sperm banks in the U.S. with whatever you are looking under the sun, the moon, and the stars. Just be honest and say you both wanted a fair-skinned child. It's quite obvious.
Unfortunately a lot of gay couples are like that. I remember seeing on Twitter gay couples (men and women) posting their children and A LOT were biracial.
Yes there is a shortage of blk donors. We can research that on our own. Judy and Brat need to stop insulting people's intelligence. Yall said what yall said on a public platform. Now you want to act like people are bulling you. Please.
I love the Brat. She is comical and real, periodt!!!! And I don't blame her for not wanting her baby to look like Jimmy the cricket I'd she has a choice in who she want her baby daddy to be!
I didn't realize that it was a shortage of Black sperm..they could have found a Blk donor who was old. Anyway Good luck to them...I thought they wanted a light light biracial child. Bless those two...
I feel bad for both of you having a baby is a gift what a blessing what ever color give all the love you can... My kids are grown up and they don't have children they're Bless so color shouldn't be a factor my 30y.o is biracial his father was a man Irish, Italian Blk my son doesn't look nothing like me but he's loved.
Well it's going to be weird walking around with a white baby when both parents are black. Me personally I would continue looking for a black donor. If one parent was black no problem but to be black and black no way. I don't buy this story I'm sorry. They wanted a light skinned baby and couldn't find a light skinned dute. I watched de brat grow up on TV I know her well enough on how she feels and think about certain situation.
First of all, congratulations to Da Brat and Judy for a successful and happy journey to their shared motherhood!! Thanks to Tamron for having the urgency in bringing them on your show and clarifying these misconceptions and untruths. Second, THEY HAVE EVERY RIGHT IN THIS WORLD & BEYOND TO CHOOSE THE FATHER OF THEIR CHILD!!! If they didn’t want their child to have particular genetic and physical traits mixed with theirs…SO WHAT!!!! It’s their right!! If the man looked like Jiminy Cricket, he looked like Jiminy Cricket!! Oh well!! Call it how you see it!! I’m pretty sure Brat meant no harm, but damn!! Bottom line, y’all judgment people need to shut the hell up and let people live their lives how they please!!! Not one of us on any threads contributed financially, emotionally, medically, physically, or mentally to their journey to motherhood. So, those who are “bothered” by their decisions and posting derogatory remarks…need to stop and tend to their own business.
9:14 I feel like it’s because most of the handsome, healthy, black fellas are donating but their way with all the multiple baby mamas and the cheating 🤦🏾♀️
How is it fair to a child not only not having a father in his/her life but not knowing who the father is because it anonymous who actually gets his sperm. This is unfair to the child not to know half your heritage, he doesn't know half his family. What if that sperm donor has psychological issues in his family???
@@keepsit100atalltime9 yeah but are they desirable? Yeah some joker could donate sperm but if he is unattractive or looks shady why would he get picked. Guaranteed that if you had a good looking guy vs the jiminy cricket guy they not picking cricket. They are going to go with the attractive guy and then they have to consider genetic issues as well
Only to the person she called jimmney kricket. But he doesn’t k ow who they are referring to. It was all in fun . It’s their right to chose who the father will be. It’s a touch and go situation
This is whats wrong with our world people take things way to seriously. What ever donor you both choose and as long as you have a healthy baby and both are happy then that all that matters.
I get it, the high blood pressure, diabetes, sickle cell and arthritis is real for blk folks so I don't blame them. It wasn't fair to attack them, we know what we carry as blk people. Judy is a real MVP, always loving & protective of brat.
High blood pressure and diabetes is inherited from bad diet take care of yourself when you were younger that is not a black genetic thing now the sickle cell if you guys both have the trait that is a possibility but you’re good
There are plenty of BM in the LGBTQ community who are very aware of procreating in THIS way. IF there is a "shortage" of donations, then why is there no platform for this discussion.
Women have a lot of male friends that would have helped them out even with all the testing that they would have gone through. Since this is a life changing matter, just put the time in to make the best decision for the child also, Im just trying to be nice.
People can be so hateful in the comment section. Nothing anyone says would ever hurt my feelings. That's why a lot of people want to be on social media, afraid of what people will say about them.
I don't care what the situation is, no one should ever tell a woman " I hope you miscarry". That is so mean. I'm so sorry y'all had to endure such hate.
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Omg so sad to say
People are very hateful
Wow that's awful. 😢ppl are cruel
more than mean. it’s disgusting.
Thank you Tamron Hall for giving them a platform to talk about very important topic. I pray for safe delivery both mummy and baby 🇬🇧
We sure do need to pray for the baby...
Definitely not important but ok.
In many other countries, IVF is only available for hetero married couples. This topic is only important for the privileged mindsets.
Da brat is going to make a wonderful parent with her partner
@@dennismclaurin1487 There gay.
The one good thing that came out of this messy situation is that it became a teachable moment for many.
I hope so because many are ignorant about their own ignorance 😬
@@cocoj3194 on point!
It taught me that black men would rather give their seed to someone they know like a wife or significant other like NORMAL human beings
@Pardon My Presence possibly.....maybe its low key frowned upon. Folks are more likely to give blood (and proudly tell people) than sperm.
"messy situation" I how you mean the interview and not these 2 BEAUTIFUL MARRIED women and them building a family together
I got the joke and it wasn't offensive at all to me. We've all made jokes like that when we think someone is "fugly". It's THEIR child and they get to choose.
You're right. They picked a white donor to ensure their baby doesn't look like most of the people in the audience who are applauding them.
Yea like social media does a lot of messy bs
All these people making rude comments are the same people who wouldn't want an ugly baby either if they had a choice.
🗣️🔊💯 about the joke thing ppl be some hypocrites.
There’s certain jokes like this that should remain private. And I believe it wasn’t a joke because she said it twice she said it on her and Judy’s show and then she said it on dish nation the only reason she said she was joking because of the backlash she was getting. Miss me with the BS I understand about the shortage of black men donating sperm but she knew she wasn’t joking.
Bottom line is she said, what she said, she meant what she meant! If he looked like Jimetty Cricket, then she’s entitled to her own opinion of how someone looks just like anyone else is. Her opinion is hers, it’s not the gospel, it’s hers….and that should be OK! People wishing miscarriage on her, that’s something totally different, the real hatred. Saying someone isn’t cute versus saying you wish someone (baby) would die is not by any means any comparison. Someone being Ugly don’t kill them!!!!!! Wishing someone dead, can. So atrocious, despicable and hate filled.
I agree. People are just EVIL 🤬🤬
Yes, that's evil for someone to wish that Brat has a miscarriage! Heck, I wouldn't won't a baby by someone who looks like Jimmy the Cricket! Of course, the guy who looks like Jimmy the Cricket can't help that he looks like Jimmy the Cricket, and there is somebody who probably don't mind having a baby by Jimmy the Cricket, but I am with Brat on that!
That Part!!!!!!!!
That is very ignorant insensitive and evil. But just because you feel a certain way about things don’t mean you should always speak out loud about it. She could have kept that between her and Judy.
If more people were more selective about who they chose to create a baby with a lot of thirst defects people have would be limited. Choose who you think would be a good parent. Back in the day you has to take a blood test before you got married to see if either party had a genetic issue or a carrier of some trait that could be passed on to your future kids. Now no one will know if their kids will have any kind of disorder or not unless they get the test done themselves
What Brat said about the one lone black doner is what most folks woulda said in her situation, the only difference is hers was on national TV. Production shoula cut it out.
I AGREE!!
I agree. Production was being messy!
Exactly because I I’m paying to have a baby I would want it to be cute ijs saying and if you watch the show you know they said his profile about his self was limited and not giving much info. Hello no would have swiped left and found someone else 🤷🏾♀️
Maybe she should have went to the subsidized housing all kinds of donors over there many girl gets pregnant and are single moms
Doubt it. I know how "we" (black people) are. We joke too much. Other races seem to have a little more tact than we do in general. I doubt white women are sitting up in the doctor's office calling donors Jiminy Cricket or anything of the sort. It's such a serious journey. I remember when my mom's white friend went through it. Could never see her making jokes about donors.
Blk women stop explaining yourselves. Nothing you do or don’t will ever be good enough to the Blk Community! Just live your lives how you want without explanation.
EXACTLY OMFG!!!!!
Exactly dear. Life is too short to waste any energy in explain every action taken. I personally don't ever!
Preach ❤
Thank you! 👏🏾👏🏾 They tell us we're undesirable and we don't deserve their protection nor provision. But have a meltdown when we go to males in a different community. Make it make sense. 😂 It's the age old, "I don't want you but I don't want you to want anyone else." It's sociopathic. 🤦🏾♀️
Bw walk around like an apology 24/7
Blessings to this beautiful family.🍼👶🏼❤
@@TriciaRP are you saying that because she is using a sperm donor is it it because she’s married to a woman
😇 AMEN
💙TRUE LEGEND IS HERE & I'M IN TEARS OVERJOYED FOR YALL!💙CONGRATULATIONS ON THE BIRTH OF YOUR PRECIOUS BLESSING BRAT & JUDY!👏🏼
This was a great and teachable moment. The content in which it was said was not offensive to a race at all. And it is not uncommon that we value how a person looks before we sleep, marry, or bear children with them!
There’s nothing wrong or is uncommon about it but she should have kept that between her and Judy she knows how social media is. Somethings like In this case should have been private.
I would be cautious of how my child would look as well and the behavior because nobody wants to bring a baby in the world that could potentially be bipolar, have bad hair, is dumb, and a serial killer etc... I would've picked someone from another race if there were no other options that's a novel laureate if that's what I wanted in my family gene pool... Nothings wrong with that and the public don't matter
It was offensive that's why they cut out the other jokes she made about other donors of other races. They only kept the jokes about her own race bc insulting each other is the ONLY thing we are allowed to do on television and they eat it up and have you conditioned to believe it's no big deal
She already decided the guy wasn't a candidate for her yet she had to insult him. Where I'm from, there isn't really a motivation to be a sperm donor other than just wanting to help others start a family. They could have just said they're not interested and moved on. It's the equivalent of being rude to someone when that person is trying to be nice. Words have power even if they're not said to someone's face and they are putting that bad, judgemental energy on to themselves in the end.
This is important and so true. My aunt and her husband have been married almost 30 years with 2 kids. She told me as a teenager that only after one of my cousins was born with sickle cell that both her and her husband carried the trait for it. Meaning there was a 25% chance that a child they had would have sickle cell.
She told me that had she known she would not have married him. Why, because sickle cell is a serious disorder and painful disorder which nobody would want their child to have.
From then it was always in my mind that before having children it's important to know what diseases run in our blood lines, as we may be incompatible.
When both parents carry the sickle cell trait their offspring have a 50% chance of having the disease, not 25%.
@@flexibledreamer7846 Yes, you're correct I misspoke, thank you. It is 50% which further highlights the point I was making.
Nobody wants to significantly increase the probability of their child having a serious and potentially life limiting disorder.
My beautiful 21 year old cousin who is about to be a paediatric RN in 2 months (🥳) has experienced more than one terribly painful sickle crisis.
Her mother, my mother's sister directly told me as a teen that she 1000% would not have married and procreated with her husband of 27 years had she known that they both carried the trait to spare any child of hers having what is a preventable but devastating disease.
Different scenario, but my guess is Judy (Jessica) carries the trait as many black people (in addition to those of 3 other conditions).
They were in a position to engage in genetic testing before creating a child healthy (without the heartache of breaking up with their partner).
If the donor had to be Asian, white, latino or anything other than black to make that happen that is wise and thoughtful.
I pray they have a healthy child (I have another teenage cousin with autism who is non-verbal and low functioning and it is hard). People can be so judgemental. I send them only love 🤍.
Why does it matter if you love someone have a baby. If you weren't compatible you wouldn't have a baby.
I am in my senior years. When I was in my 20s there were some stories in the news bringing sickle cell disease awareness to the forefront. I was working at a hospital. They did a one time sickle cell testing free for any employees that wanted it. I have worked for numerous hospitals. I have never heard of any place else doing this. Many these days seem totally unaware of the disease. I was thankful after finding out I do not carry the trait.
But that doesn't mean you're gonna start dating white men....hers a better question. If da brat only had a choice of a Chinese donor do you think she would have taken it? They should just be honest they want to have an "attractive" child bc they're vain as hell
Its their baby. I am wishing them a HEALTHY BOUNCING BABY BOY!!!! ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Growing up in two female house. I don't know about that.
@@Tes-mm5rpt's all nasty! I don't believe in same sex marriages
I got the joke, I didn't think that Brat or Judy meant any harm. The fact that people were so quick to turn on them and wish their child harm is so disgusting! Honestly, I think a lot of the judgement that is coming from our community (black community) is rooted in homophobia. People still aren't used to black couples living "alternative" lifestyles and doing as they please. We have to do better and support each other no matter what!
It was 100% homophobia ! I've seen a lot of comments before this incident that was sickening and disturbing.
Except if it's jiminy cricket then we don't except or support them. You sound CRAZY
@@veeode4996 No such thing as homophobia. We just think they are gross and are not normal in the head. They need a mental asylum
I don’t see why people have to use her sexuality against her she come out as bisexual 25 years ago many couples of the same sex have children I hate homophobic people and for wishing harm on their child is wrong.
Facts
"that thing ain't finna be looking like my child" 🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️ she had to expect backlash for that 🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️
Some people are just stupid, jealous, and ignorant! May your pregnancy be healthy, for you and BBJudy. I've grown to love the two of you. You keep it real and truthful. Can't wait to see the new addition to your lovely family.
As a black man and father of 5, that joke was not that deep! We love you Brat and Judy! GOD bless you both and your blessed bundle of joy!!!
It is deep when she said she made fun of other races of donors but they cut those jokes out. Sounds like offensive jokes are only hurtful to others but when said to another blk person it's ok. That's BS
@Pardon My Presence now you're reaching. I'm talking about what she said on the show. She never said it to anyone but her wife and doctor. That's her opinion and she's entitled to it!!!
@@BFick478 this wasn't a private conversation she's on a reality show everything she says is heard by the public 🤦🏿♂️
God cannot bless sinful unions much less unnatural ones.
Judy calling people ignorant isn't helping the joke wasn't funny in the first place
People do not have anything to say anymore in this world, but except for tear people down get a life, brat and Judy keep doing what you’re doing. Be happy. 🥰💯
You made the right choice; True is beautiful!!!
😢awww. I hope they have the most seamless labor and delivery ever. My gosh it seems like they weren’t allow to be happy once they announce they were pregnant 🤰🏾.
She's gonna have a C section.
@@keepsit100atalltime9 overall I just hope they have a great outcome. No complications period.
Praying for a healthy baby 🙏🏾🙏🏾
I am a fan of Tamron and Da Brat. I learned a lot during the interview. Thank you Tamron
Im a super huge Brat fan since day one. Im so proud of her and happy to see she found love. I love Brat humor i didnt take offense, people can be so sensitive. I feel like i grew up with Brat so I definitely love her sense of humor.
What is Wrong with black people that this mess is becoming NORMAL and people thinking this ABOMINATION is OK?
They're going to be amazing & devoted mother's ❤🙏🏿💯
What people are saying be careful what you say when you are pregnant.Words like ugly,stupid,crazy harmful words they say you mark your unborn child.
Insulting someone who is a sperm donor and who is putting themselves out there to help someone start a family, I thought it was kind of rude to say that. Where I live, donors aren't paid so there isn't a financial motivation or anything to it other than helping. Maybe they're paid in the US but still, seems like rude judgement for someone who is trying to help.
I agree 100%. That was my first thought and I made a similar comment. Insulting a donor for laughs seems low and isn't funny to me. The donor did a good deed to help people in her situation. She should have more respect.
Exactly. Here you have a person trying to help a couple who desperately wants a child. And that's not a joking manner to the many people seriously hoping, wishing, and praying for a child. Whatever happened to gratitude?
That's because people say mean things and that's how they truly feel but mask it as "a joke" nowadays.
@@TNT1719agreed
I love how DaBrat tried to help Judy up the stairs 😂😂 it’s beautiful how considerate they are of eachother
Brat you don't owe nobody an explanation at all. You don't deserve the hateful comments that you and Judy received. Y'all are loved and respected by your real fans
I would prefer them to be hinest and just say they would prefer a mixed race baby because they thiught it would come out more attractive than the black donor. They are not the only black folks who choose non black egg and sperm donors.
Yep. Honesty. So rare to find in people, politicians, and celebrities nowadays.
They chose a Caucasian man.
The baby is Judy & the white man child. They don't want ppl to stop buying their products & supporting the show. That's why
they're doing damage control.
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Bingo! I said the same thing.
Yep
Yep. Da Brat is just growing someone else's fertilized egg 😊
Nobody has to justify who, what, when, where with their bodies... PERIOD!
Exactly
I understood the joke. I’m black & call mfs ugly ALL the time. Everybody has their own preference duh. Ppl are so sensitive now & days yet them same ppl behind closed doors call ppl ugly too. The Internet is a wild wild place man.
“Jimminy CRicket” is hilarious. What is offensive about that? Have you seen jimminy cricket?
Wow the hate they received was so unnecessary, I hate that they had to go thru that 😔
What is going on in the minds of people to even speak into the atmosphere, "I hope you"...wow! I actually laughed when she said Jimetty Cricket and they did not show his identity. Da Brat and Judy you will have a healthy, full-of-life baby boy!
I hope it's a girl. The Black race has more than enough men already with issues regarding sexuality.
Being from the pentecostal church and Black southern culture, what Brat said made total sense to me. It wasn't about putting the man down because he was Black. She was talking about his looks. People where we're from talk like this all the time. It had nothing to do with racism.
I’m so distracted that theBrat still dresses like she’s in 1995.
She's also trying to play the "man" of the relationship 😂
I watched a little of this..NOTHING ABOUT THIS IS NORMAL..
2:35 & 2:39 - That’s right Tamron! You have to be kind to one another and to everyone and to everybody.
With all of their resources they couldn’t find a black donor they liked? Ok, but why put it out there like that ? That was classless and sends a horrible message about their thoughts on OUR men period. But, as a mom of 8, I would NEVER ever wish anyone a miscarriage.
They didn’t deserve people wishing ill upon that baby, but dabrat needs to be careful or choose her words wisely because she was like ‘i refuse if my baby look like that thing’’ like girl what? You didn’t expect no backlash for talking about that man and BLACK at that 🙄
Exactly! Anybody that think it’s a joke is just as screwed up as them! DaBrat meant that crap! This show was damage control!
She say she didn't expect any backlash, so I guess that is that
Yes, people have an issue because it seemed anti black. And they're excusing it and also ignoring that a LOT of black gay couples, men AND women having biracial children. It's not a coincidence.
Congratulations and Thank you for your support and for your families life story .I am aware of how sperm donor ship works and the donors for own race aren't there so we dont really deal with those issues but we need to discuss all areas of life with our families as we make choices to have a family because many of us face issues but it isn't discussed we just go for it so the Brat & Judy are being honest and have my support because they are sharing their life struggles .
Da Brat just needs to grow up. The man cared enough and took the time to go through the process of being a donor to help people like her and she makes fun of his appearance. Some things are better kept to yourself. Her comment about the donor was tacky and classless. I'm not excusing the nasty responses either. You don't wish a miscarriage on someone because you're feeling some type of way. So many people have a lot of growing up to do.
Knock it off! Sperm donors donate for money. PERIOD!
We pick and choose who we want what ever color they are. But if he doesn’t fit to what you will see your self with then why judge her.. it was a joke people make jokes about others everyday. If he wasn’t cute to her then he wasn’t. You won’t pick someone if her or she’s isn’t appealing to you. People are sore about everything. Living your life Brat baby you and Judy and I pray that you have a successful birth. ❤
They should have kept their freaking mouths shut. You don't have to post everything on social media
Precisely! She said it on the show, while she was looking at the black donor! She called him Jimmy Cricket and said her baby was gonna come out looking like that thang! I do not see the humor!
Neither do you
This is such a personal journey for any woman. I don’t feel that I ever have the right to judge who or why they chose their donor. That’s their business and not mine.
I’m so glad I never donated when I was younger. That’s one of the most careless things a man can do.
At least donate for a man and woman who are struggling...Thèse tho😢
@@nigamtatyana3427As a donor you have no say in which couple choose your donation.
Is it though? All these single mothers out here, but donating to a sperm bank is careless? Okay.
@@niamarielove exactly
Leave these ladies alone let them be grow up they happy that’s what’s matter. Love these guys❤
Imagine the struggle finding a decent "blackmail" suitor...
Not many want to donate to a nasty union
@@tnbn55 Word!!!❤
What's a nasty union? @@tnbn55
What in the wickedness is this mess?
You will never please some people. They live to be negative. You don't owe nobody an explanation about what you do or say. I'm so happy that you're allowing the public into your personal life. God Bless you guys. Because I don't think I could let the public into my personal life. For that reason alone. Some people treat celebrities like they don't have feelings, and the mean evil things they say out of their mouths is so hurtful. I think you are a beautiful couple, and I love to see the true, honest, and real love you have for each other. It's Beautiful. My God Bless you, and continue to shine His light on you.
I’m happy Da Brat gets to be a mommy ❤
They started disrespecting black men around 2012. Now I know why most bm just wanna be left alone.
It wasn’t offensive. Ppl need to get a life
Da FAT! “I can't stand no sneaker-wearin' nappy head Bch” -2Pac I always felt Pac was talking directly to this abomination on a man girl with that line.
I’ll admit this: I tried to be anonymous sperm donor and I filled out the information. Being a Bi-racial Black Man, I got denied. What’s crazy about it is that I don’t have any diseases; I’m all healthy and vibrant.
We love you Brat ❤❤
Right. She's Brat----
And that's that. .
It was not taken out of context. PERIOD. Don’t end up with serial killer genes chasing looks.
Love you Brat n Judy
We should love ALL CHILDREN and respect parents choices
I hope Brat knows people are just mean and try hard not to let the bad comments stress her too much
Let them and continue to be happy ❤❤🎉🎉
Oh please you wanted a mix race baby…..
yep!!!
These interviews for every little thing someone says is RIDICULOUS. IM OVER IT
All 1/2 babies aren’t beautiful. DaBrat is not beautiful. Just say you wanted a mixed baby AND BE DONE.
Don’t worry about negative energy it is not for you people are negative God Bless you hallway’s ❤🙏🏽🙏🏽
This is a shame. These women need to stop
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What you talking about
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@@TNT1719
May their baby come out looking mulatto/white and not like them 🙏
Chi-town..stay off social until after you bring forth life! You have so many trigger happy folks with too much time on their hands. Go live your life. You don't owe us anything. Go be happy, and congratulations.
I know they will be great mother's And I 'm sorry to be Debbie downer, BUT I wonder when the baby grow up will it want their father. Growing up fatherless...And often times people always want what THEY want when they want it, and don't stop to think about the affects, consequences, & long term affects
I always say the same about the dad.
I'd be more concerned about a child growing up with two mothers than growing up without a father. There's the risk the child will be confused about his or her own sexuality. I hope they have a healthy child but feel sad to think about the difficulties that child is going to endure in growing up.
Imo the way the man looked should've been the least of their worries. You can tell by that comment how SUPERFICIAL they're and as a celeb it all makes sense how ignorant they're.
I wish them a healthy baby and delivery. I did not see it as a joke. Rather it was the dismissal of having a Black baby I found quite offensive. There are PLENTY of sperm banks in the U.S. with whatever you are looking under the sun, the moon, and the stars. Just be honest and say you both wanted a fair-skinned child. It's quite obvious.
Unfortunately a lot of gay couples are like that. I remember seeing on Twitter gay couples (men and women) posting their children and A LOT were biracial.
Yes there is a shortage of blk donors. We can research that on our own. Judy and Brat need to stop insulting people's intelligence. Yall said what yall said on a public platform. Now you want to act like people are bulling you. Please.
I love the Brat. She is comical and real, periodt!!!! And I don't blame her for not wanting her baby to look like Jimmy the cricket I'd she has a choice in who she want her baby daddy to be!
I didn't realize that it was a shortage of Black sperm..they could have found a Blk donor who was old. Anyway Good luck to them...I thought they wanted a light light biracial child. Bless those two...
Love y'all,,Brat and jady,keep being the women y'all r ,in life and in heart hope to meet y'all one day soon
I feel bad for both of you having a baby
is a gift what a blessing what ever
color give all the love you can...
My kids are grown up and they don't
have children they're Bless so
color shouldn't be a factor my 30y.o
is biracial his father was a man
Irish, Italian Blk my son doesn't look
nothing like me but he's loved.
Well it's going to be weird walking around with a white baby when both parents are black. Me personally I would continue looking for a black donor. If one parent was black no problem but to be black and black no way. I don't buy this story I'm sorry. They wanted a light skinned baby and couldn't find a light skinned dute. I watched de brat grow up on TV I know her well enough on how she feels and think about certain situation.
How is that different from all the bm walking around with mixed children and nonblck women??
It was obvious. A search for a light-skinned baby. But it's their choice. Just be honest with your fans.
@@mymotherwasright3079 So what? Why do yall even care so much??
At her age, she didn't have the luxury to wait for a genetic match.
This is the way I think some women want to be interviewed. Tamron chooses who she is "fair" to.
I’m sure a lot of these comments came from Blk men. I’m sure of it.
A Beautiful "True Legion " came out of this situation. If that wasn't a "True Blessing" from god!💯💥🙏
If people truly know DaBart, you would know she makes jokes when she is in stressful and uncomfortable situations. This is her coping technique.
First of all, congratulations to Da Brat and Judy for a successful and happy journey to their shared motherhood!! Thanks to Tamron for having the urgency in bringing them on your show and clarifying these misconceptions and untruths. Second, THEY HAVE EVERY RIGHT IN THIS WORLD & BEYOND TO CHOOSE THE FATHER OF THEIR CHILD!!! If they didn’t want their child to have particular genetic and physical traits mixed with theirs…SO WHAT!!!! It’s their right!! If the man looked like Jiminy Cricket, he looked like Jiminy Cricket!! Oh well!! Call it how you see it!! I’m pretty sure Brat meant no harm, but damn!! Bottom line, y’all judgment people need to shut the hell up and let people live their lives how they please!!! Not one of us on any threads contributed financially, emotionally, medically, physically, or mentally to their journey to motherhood. So, those who are “bothered” by their decisions and posting derogatory remarks…need to stop and tend to their own business.
Brat so pretty. Even more so pregnant
Congratulations both of you. Looks like you both will be so happy with this little one! So happy for all of you.
2023
Colorism continues to exist
Do not worry about what other people think or say, you can only live for your family.
Best of luck Bratt and Judy ❤🎉
Why folks said Brat came out of the closet, are yall blind, she clearly always been out of the closet
9:14 I feel like it’s because most of the handsome, healthy, black fellas are donating but their way with all the multiple baby mamas and the cheating 🤦🏾♀️
How is it fair to a child not only not having a father in his/her life but not knowing who the father is because it anonymous who actually gets his sperm.
This is unfair to the child not to know half your heritage, he doesn't know half his family. What if that sperm donor has psychological issues in his family???
It's hard to believe that there aren't any black donors.
It depends on where you go. Someone said they interned at a fertility clinic and there were plenty of black donors.
@@keepsit100atalltime9 yeah but are they desirable? Yeah some joker could donate sperm but if he is unattractive or looks shady why would he get picked. Guaranteed that if you had a good looking guy vs the jiminy cricket guy they not picking cricket. They are going to go with the attractive guy and then they have to consider genetic issues as well
Many people prefer mixed children
How often do people joke, people get a life
Idc what y’all say what she said was disturbing. I didn’t laugh at all
Watch and listen before y’all judgemental asses comment 💁🏾
These are ppl honest opinions.
We can share them. No one has to agree, it's & open platform.
So now they're doing a press tour for their comment?
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Right s
Da Brat is such a fun person loving and entertaining. She didn’t say nothing offensive
Only to the person she called jimmney kricket. But he doesn’t k ow who they are referring to. It was all in fun . It’s their right to chose who the father will be. It’s a touch and go situation
I love Brat and she shouldn't have to apologize to anyone. If you dont like what she said then watch something else! PERIOD!
This is whats wrong with our world people take things way to seriously. What ever donor you both choose and as long as you have a healthy baby and both are happy then that all that matters.
I get it, the high blood pressure, diabetes, sickle cell and arthritis is real for blk folks so I don't blame them. It wasn't fair to attack them, we know what we carry as blk people. Judy is a real MVP, always loving & protective of brat.
High blood pressure and diabetes is inherited from bad diet take care of yourself when you were younger that is not a black genetic thing now the sickle cell if you guys both have the trait that is a possibility but you’re good
There are plenty of BM in the LGBTQ community who are very aware of procreating in THIS way. IF there is a "shortage" of donations, then why is there no platform for this discussion.
Your bm dislike babies
Great Question
They chose White. There are plenty of LGBTQ White men as well.
Cmon y’all it was never that serious😒😒😒
The man in the relationship is pregnant….. weird
She is a woman, only biological women can have babies.
But she is the masculine one in the relationship.
Women have a lot of male friends that would have helped them out even with all the testing that they would have gone through. Since this is a life changing matter, just put the time in to make the best decision for the child also, Im just trying to be nice.
Jimmy the cricket. Iv seen that type. Who wouldn't choose the best looking donor
People can be so hateful in the comment section. Nothing anyone says would ever hurt my feelings. That's why a lot of people want to be on social media, afraid of what people will say about them.