what i wish i knew before college (MY BEST ADVICE for ANYONE going to college)

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  • Опубликовано: 5 янв 2025

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  • @corynm2634
    @corynm2634 4 года назад +3893

    Ngl when she jumped on the bed like that and did the intro, that was kinda lit.

    • @lovemorgan02
      @lovemorgan02 4 года назад +28

      Coryn C. Kinda fire

    • @SydneyJewel
      @SydneyJewel 4 года назад +4

      Coryn C. Kinda fire lmao

    • @halodengansalsa
      @halodengansalsa 4 года назад +1

      Fayerr

    • @nahls89
      @nahls89 4 года назад +3

      "wait that's fire, do it again!!"

    • @corynm2634
      @corynm2634 4 года назад +2

      Cucumbers blessings Ye it be Richie 🥺

  • @helenys1140
    @helenys1140 4 года назад +1842

    when she said "i'm not a party person, on saturdays i would stay home" i really felt that ✌🏼😔

    • @ukuleila691
      @ukuleila691 4 года назад +7

      quirky🤩☺️✨

    • @exosvivi5987
      @exosvivi5987 4 года назад +2

      moomoo

    • @jesusismyrockandmyfortress
      @jesusismyrockandmyfortress 4 года назад +11

      ukuleila no, we’re just introverts

    • @ellililo
      @ellililo 4 года назад +1

      im an introvert but i would totally love to go to a party over anything.. is that weird? Just the adrenaline from dancing to loud music all night.

    • @jesusismyrockandmyfortress
      @jesusismyrockandmyfortress 4 года назад +1

      Elsie um i’m not sure lol, in what ways are you introverted?

  • @magaliframent
    @magaliframent 4 года назад +2018

    me: studying for senior finals and stressed by too many college things
    ashley: COLLEGE STUFF to help u 💛.... HOW DID U KNOW 🥺

    • @jewellewis6824
      @jewellewis6824 4 года назад

      Omg same

    • @justinw8370
      @justinw8370 4 года назад

      Magali .i I’m lucky because after quarter 3 at my high school, my grades can’t go down

    • @justinw8370
      @justinw8370 4 года назад

      So basically I’m finished besides doing a few extra credit assignments that will bring up one of my grades from a B to an A

    • @lucythevaliantbookreader7639
      @lucythevaliantbookreader7639 11 месяцев назад

      SAME

  • @emmajanusky3707
    @emmajanusky3707 4 года назад +767

    i took a gap year and it was the BEST THING EVER. i had wanted to do interior design coming out of high school and then i took a gap year, went vegan during that time, and decided my two passions were environmental studies and theatre and that's what i'm doing now and couldn't be happier! not to mention i also traveled for a couple of months which was incredible and i worked and made money. literally a triple win. TAKE A GAP YEAR PLEASE!!!!! best year of my life!

    • @aena5995
      @aena5995 4 года назад +2

      After school? Is it a waste of time no?

    • @emmajanusky3707
      @emmajanusky3707 4 года назад +73

      @@aena5995 nope. it helped me figure out what i really wanted to do. if i had gone right into university i would be at the wrong school in the wrong program right now, wasting tons of time and TONS of money. this saved me so much time, actually. plus, it gave me a much-needed mental break and the chance to get my first job and travel on my own for the first time too. SO MANY BENEFITS!

    • @aena5995
      @aena5995 4 года назад +10

      @@emmajanusky3707 nice i am in school right now and have yet to apply to unis however i am.not dead set on exactly what program i want to go in AT ALL and in mu country u cant really switch programs like in america that easily and from highschool onwards u have to decide a career by middleschool i was considering graphic design,journalism,law,business ,economics,bio,psych (apparently it doesnt pay) and even being a pilot, but everyone says it would be a waste of time to take a gap yr cuz u would jusy be at home and some ppl dont have money to travel easily however i have travelled alot during summertime but its so confusingg ugh 😣😂

    • @Cutiemaan
      @Cutiemaan 4 года назад +4

      What job do you want? I like environmental studies too but not sure what job I want.

    • @BumbleBee-kn9be
      @BumbleBee-kn9be 4 года назад +4

      Do you know what career you’re working towards as a environmental studies major?

  • @ElizabethHernandez-ub7mv
    @ElizabethHernandez-ub7mv 4 года назад +596

    i’m literally a hs junior who’s worrying about my future and I NEEDED THIS THANK YOU SM ASHLEY

    • @geraldinecabrera2161
      @geraldinecabrera2161 4 года назад +3

      Ellie Hernandez SAME 😅😭

    • @estheru.2596
      @estheru.2596 4 года назад +1

      Samee👏🏼😂

    • @wafabhayani7815
      @wafabhayani7815 4 года назад +1

      same lmao

    • @floraho13
      @floraho13 4 года назад +19

      Girl, as a high school senior it is the perfect time for you to start looking at colleges because i procrastinated and regret it

    • @mirabelbriggs1104
      @mirabelbriggs1104 4 года назад

      Flora Ho I’ve been checking so much colleges

  • @SupportTaliaJoy18
    @SupportTaliaJoy18 4 года назад +714

    i felt so silly transferring closer to home from my “dream” school after first semester freshman year but i’m so glad i did it and i’m glad someone else had a similar experience!! i don’t know how it was for you but i kinda felt like a failure for it but i feel a little bit better knowing thats something people experience as well

    • @nehaonline
      @nehaonline 4 года назад +30

      savanna girl i did the same!!! i went from a huge uni to a community college and i felt really bad abt my self for the longest time but i learned that everyone’s path is different and so much about myself as well 💞

    • @mir7020
      @mir7020 4 года назад +22

      HOMEWORK ASSISTANT lol thought u were giving examples why they should/n't have left uni lmao.

    • @kenyadrives2063
      @kenyadrives2063 4 года назад

      @@mir7020 No. I help students with their academic classes like canvas, etc

    • @mir7020
      @mir7020 4 года назад +2

      HOMEWORK ASSISTANT that was just my first impression lol, anyways that’s honestly so cool!

    • @kenyadrives2063
      @kenyadrives2063 4 года назад

      vanilla ; thanks, can I help you get As?

  • @chrissysup
    @chrissysup 4 года назад +741

    YESS our mom ashley being a big sister/mom character

    • @chrissysup
      @chrissysup 4 года назад +3

      Devin Valencia u are correct

    • @fluff7212
      @fluff7212 4 года назад +4

      i don't have an older sibling so watching this vid made me feel like i had an older sis and i'm grateful for that :')

    • @chrissysup
      @chrissysup 4 года назад +1

      TheFluff YEEE sameee also 💜

    • @fluff7212
      @fluff7212 4 года назад +1

      @@chrissysup people with older siblings are so lucky

    • @username552
      @username552 4 года назад +2

      TheFluff
      I am the eldest out of 3 😐
      But I don’t think my younger sisters are lucky 😂 lol

  • @hollylauver4778
    @hollylauver4778 4 года назад +1002

    I applied to 10 colleges, got into 9, ended up going to community college

    • @khyati1035
      @khyati1035 4 года назад +117

      Ur a *vIbE*

    • @lillyerwin2206
      @lillyerwin2206 4 года назад +206

      honestly that’s smart ur saving a lot of money for regular freshman classes

    • @heist4420
      @heist4420 4 года назад +17

      application tips please?🥺

    • @joelacosta5584
      @joelacosta5584 4 года назад +78

      heist be genuine and don’t be vague. Try to be as clear as you can while showing them who YOU are. What makes you you

    • @thediaryofafallenstar
      @thediaryofafallenstar 4 года назад +46

      I'm going to community college as well! Then I'm going to transfer to a university with (hopefully) a career in mind.

  • @violetgray1104
    @violetgray1104 4 года назад +474

    me: *literally just started high school like a couple months ago knowing im not going to college anytime soon*
    me: *still clicking on this video as fast as i possibly can 😭😭* ily ashley 🥺💖

    • @genevievevan8588
      @genevievevan8588 4 года назад +8

      Violet Gray same I'm a freshman too but I already know and have a plan on where I'm going to college and stuff

    • @violetgray1104
      @violetgray1104 4 года назад +13

      G Van lmaoo imagine knowing what u wanna do with ur life 😭😭 i could never

    • @genevievevan8588
      @genevievevan8588 4 года назад +3

      Violet Gray lmaoo over summer I'm going to Hawaii for vacation and the thing is I really want to go to university of Hawaii at manoa for college and so I'm gonna take a tour with someone who goes there to see if I like the college
      really excited Abt that
      edit: my trip got cancelled due to covid :(

    • @violetgray1104
      @violetgray1104 4 года назад +4

      G Van dam u shud b hella excited cuz that sounds soo insane bro. hawaii is literally one of my dream places to visit when i get older. if u do end up liking it i hope u get into the uni 😌🤞🏽

    • @chloe-xc8jj
      @chloe-xc8jj 4 года назад +1

      G Van I live in Hawaii (i’m still in high school) and uhm is a good school.. i would recommend

  • @nieve1111
    @nieve1111 4 года назад +304

    i’m already in my 2nd semester but i’m still gonna watch this

    • @Angie_Malak
      @Angie_Malak 4 года назад +1

      same bruhhh i already failed my first semester idk how ill do it again

    • @dashlinn
      @dashlinn 4 года назад

      Sameeee

    • @hannanalib
      @hannanalib 4 года назад

      I’m in my 8th semester now but still watching 😂

  • @shivanivalette191
    @shivanivalette191 4 года назад +89

    I think gap years are so important, especially if you’re not really sure what you want to do moving forward and you don’t feel super motivated. I went in as a food science major because I thought that was the best option in getting a job later on in life even though my passion was in literature and writing. I finished my freshman year in college at a huge school, while living at home and was not happy. I hated the school, I wasn’t making friends, I hated my major and I didn’t like feeling stuck in my hometown. So I took a gap year between my freshman and sophomore year and was able to figure out so much and really discover what I’m passionate about and what I wanted to study for the rest of my time in college. I ended up moving across the country to a smaller school and it was the perfect fit for me and I was so much happier. So gap years don’t always need to be right out of high school to beneficial either.

  • @danahugel
    @danahugel 4 года назад +812

    im scared bc im antisocial, dont know what i want to study, and have no idea where i want to go. also coronavirus is messing up the decision schedule and im scared

    • @AriesMYCookie
      @AriesMYCookie 4 года назад +65

      some things to help: find out what's your comfort zone! i chose my school based on the classroom/population size. like whether you want to be in the city or more in the suburbs. another thing could be looking up the schools culture, like what party life is like, etc. college is what you make of it!! you'll get through it :)

    • @danahugel
      @danahugel 4 года назад +13

      duhhdarline thank u :)) thats really good advice

    • @emaan7023
      @emaan7023 4 года назад +13

      wow, I think we're the same person

    • @hopiaMakesStuff
      @hopiaMakesStuff 4 года назад +4

      Damn. I can really relate buddy.

    • @felicitypevideos4224
      @felicitypevideos4224 4 года назад +7

      Okay, same!!! I’m super antisocial. I know what I’m studying but not where and I need to decide within the next couple of days. My #1 choice’s program changed drastically within the last week and now I’m trying to re-decide. Not only am I unsure if I’ll be able to handle it or make friends but idk how to decide at all. :(

  • @heyo2362
    @heyo2362 4 года назад +377

    c/o 2020 and confused with the whole college process gang wya😔✋🏿

  • @honielynfelipe8941
    @honielynfelipe8941 4 года назад +135

    GAP YEAR!!! im abt to finish my first year of college and my biggest regret is not taking a gap year! which is why im taking a year off after i get my bachelors to just chill & experience life like traveling and trying new things :))

    • @aena5995
      @aena5995 4 года назад

      Would u recommend aft3r school alevels?

    • @Destiny-nz5yg
      @Destiny-nz5yg 4 года назад +6

      I’m finishing up my gap year now and I signed up for phlebotomy classes to get my certification. I feel a little weird for starting college at 19 but I’m still excited to go!!

    • @TheUnknown-xm8se
      @TheUnknown-xm8se 3 года назад

      Why don’t you take a gap year in college?

  • @adoobad2770
    @adoobad2770 4 года назад +1488

    i'm like 12 why am i watching this

    • @urmomashley
      @urmomashley  4 года назад +292

      HAHA maybe it will be helpful one day ;)

    • @ariel7024
      @ariel7024 4 года назад +38

      adooba loves hwall lol I’m 13

    • @evlynnnnnn
      @evlynnnnnn 4 года назад +34

      @@ariel7024 I'm 13 too! I have two years before college. I'm almost 14 and I'm still stressed aha 🤭

    • @g0rezzz400
      @g0rezzz400 4 года назад +11

      @@evlynnnnnn 2 years?

    • @lulzimgashi8125
      @lulzimgashi8125 4 года назад +1

      Same

  • @hi.yourebeautiful
    @hi.yourebeautiful 4 года назад +19

    I took a gap year and spent 7 months with a host family abroad and now that I'm back, everyone who's a freshman in college is struggling with online classes from the quarantine and I'm just chillin here with zero responsibilities. This gap year really worked out for me lmao. Okay but on a serious note, if you're burnt out from school, unsure of what you wanna do, or just need a break in general take a gap year!!! Constantly running on the treadmill of school life is NOT healthy and everyone needs a break to relax and think things through. I'm now super excited and motivated to go to college and more confident about what I wanna study.

  • @sailorm.1430
    @sailorm.1430 4 года назад +40

    Ashley supporting Amber is such sister goals like omfg y’all are really so wholesome💕💕

  • @lirabermas
    @lirabermas 4 года назад +26

    I took STEM, but I am BACHELOR OF SCIENCE IN BUSINESS ADMINISTRATION MAJOR IN HUMAN RESOURCE. Actually, I suck. What career I really wanted to take, what I really wanted to do with my life, is my current dilemma. After graduating senior high I suddenly dont know what is my passion. I cant just follow my heart,not when your not from a well-off family, and as a breadwinner Im being a utilitarian for the sake of my family. So that I can get them out of poverty. Im not happy, Im less motivated and quite... lost? I guess. But I guess everything happens for a reason, you cant figure your whole life in just one sitting, but Ill try my very best, and continue finding what Im good at and what I really want.

  • @faithwhite4345
    @faithwhite4345 4 года назад +25

    ashley: make sure you make friends, say hi and stuff
    me in the corner who's shy, introverted, and socially awkward:

  • @gaylegelli9389
    @gaylegelli9389 4 года назад +17

    i'm going to college next year, and this is really helpful. ashley is literally everyone's mom 🤧❣

  • @kajasorensen
    @kajasorensen 4 года назад +24

    this sounds cheesy, but her thing about clubs is so real! even if it's just a couple, making yourself go to things your interested outside of class is great :)

  • @joshmakesdrinksandjokes
    @joshmakesdrinksandjokes 4 года назад +62

    I WISH almost all the time that I took a gap year. Life moves so fast, and it's the whole idea that as a kid we really just want to grow up all the time, and I wish I just had that time to breathe a little more.

    • @alanakhalifa4543
      @alanakhalifa4543 4 года назад +1

      I took a gap year and it ended up turning into two years and now it’s kinda hard to go back into school. I had a few offers to go to college for free from a couple different universities and I don’t get to do that now😐

    • @alexandracole7092
      @alexandracole7092 4 года назад

      Is it okay going to college at 20?

    • @emiliablaze
      @emiliablaze 4 года назад +2

      Alexandra Cole of course it is if you have your reasons. And even if you feel behind in life remember that you are never behind in life. Careers and jobs do not define your life experience

  • @velthachin
    @velthachin 4 года назад +173

    “hi i have to go poop really bad” yes, this was the one thing andrew said this video and yes, this sums up andrew very well

  • @velthachin
    @velthachin 4 года назад +18

    though i have 2 years until i graduate hs, i feel this video helped me a lot. i love these sitting in front of the camera life talks :))

  • @tonta3983
    @tonta3983 4 года назад +5

    i love when ashley makes videos like this bc i don’t have an older sibling. and this is kinda like having an older sister that can tell me things. tysm

  • @creezhan
    @creezhan 4 года назад +6

    graduated college 5 years ago but still watching this bc i stan ashley so hard

  • @jasminvanemmerloot
    @jasminvanemmerloot 4 года назад +210

    Alsooo i feel like college seems “easier” bc your choosing a class that fits you so you’ll like it more.. so even if its more work, it’s fine cause it often is fun to do?

    • @jasminvanemmerloot
      @jasminvanemmerloot 4 года назад +35

      Lily X well i guess it depends on what youre studying and how much motivation you have. I like studying because im interested in what im learning

  • @janicesilvia5589
    @janicesilvia5589 4 года назад +141

    ok im having anxiety, imagining going into an entirely different place with no one i know horrifies me, even though im already studying across the globe and when i first came i knew no one too

    • @jasminvanemmerloot
      @jasminvanemmerloot 4 года назад +15

      Im excited to go to a new school bc i feel like i’d meet lots of new friends and have an awesome life but ill probably sit in my room everyday😂😭

    • @lsl7250
      @lsl7250 4 года назад +3

      Yes it is worrying at first, I didn’t put a lot of effort into meeting new people but I’ll tell you most ppl are very friendly and will get your social media handles so don’t be scared to say hi to the person next to you

  • @yn6736
    @yn6736 4 года назад +35

    I live in Italy and I'm in high school, but when urmomAshley updates YOU LISTEN. TO. WHATEVER. SHE. SAYS.

  • @JennieCJ
    @JennieCJ 4 года назад +3

    wow i loved this video! i share a very similar college experience with you. i went to a UC school and hated it my first year. now im at community college where i feel like i’m learning and growing so much more. not going to lie, it was the hardest but best decision i had ever made. while it was an expensive experience, i don’t really regret it because i knew i would’ve transferred to the same school and now i know its not the place for me! i agree with everything you said. i think my biggest piece of advice is to always keep community college as an option! make friends too, because college is one of the most stressful times in someone’s life and having people you can be with is so valuable ❤️ thank you ashley!

  • @sofiakim2817
    @sofiakim2817 4 года назад +36

    i'm a junior rn and i'm literally FREAKING OUT

    • @dptlsldk9186
      @dptlsldk9186 4 года назад +3

      Same here! I'm so scared 😭

  • @bellafernandes4364
    @bellafernandes4364 4 года назад +3

    I went to community college for a year and im now transferring to rutgers university way more confident and excited than i was my senior year!! do whats best for you always:)

  • @lemongacha
    @lemongacha 4 года назад +10

    THIS IS FIRE ADVICE i do b in college already doe but ily ashley!! ur vibes are immaculate

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      @kenyadrives2063 4 года назад

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  • @talatjaffri7748
    @talatjaffri7748 4 года назад +6

    I feel like it’s definitely important for people to try business classes in high school to see if they like it or not. Taking business classes helped me out a lot when choosing my major (dual major in finance and accounting and finance). Once I knew what I wanted to major I decided to pick colleges that fit my decision such as Canisius or Ualbany

  • @liyahluvspurple4542
    @liyahluvspurple4542 4 года назад +195

    Where’s the class of 2020? How we doing? 🥺🥺💕

  • @beatrice4681
    @beatrice4681 4 года назад +1

    your sucha supportive sister its so cuteee mansss also u have v cool wall lights!!!

  • @AnAdultKpopFan
    @AnAdultKpopFan 4 года назад +11

    Ashley coming thru with the funny, wise older sister vibes 😌 and I’m here for it

  • @rockinrobin222
    @rockinrobin222 4 года назад +1

    I'm a senior in high school and I don't think I'm ready for college or know if I even want to go. Everyone I've asked has said taking a gap year wouldn't be a good idea but hearing it from Ashley who is an actual college student made me feel so much better about it, like this was the sign I needed. Ashley if you see this thank you so much I love you :)

  • @brandonpalisoc
    @brandonpalisoc 4 года назад +6

    ashley🥺 you are seriously the best! i’ve been struggling with my college experiences and watching and listening to you talk about yours made me feel like what i was doing is worth it. i recently just transferred into the business major, concentration in marketing and i absolutely LOVE IT😭 thank you for making this video!!!💛

    • @urmomashley
      @urmomashley  4 года назад +1

      YAYYYYYYYY that make me so happy!! major twins ;))) ❤️❤️

    • @brandonpalisoc
      @brandonpalisoc 4 года назад

      ur mom ashley omg!! you replied to my comment😭 i’m crying😭💛💛 but yesss! major twins!!!👯‍♀️

  • @oliviaspesock
    @oliviaspesock 4 года назад +1

    you should do a podcast because you have such good talk-topics and your voice is SO soothing and nice!

  • @francescajane
    @francescajane 4 года назад +3

    ashley your energy gives me life :’) thanks for cheering me up... have a good week!!! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @hiii8091
    @hiii8091 4 года назад +2

    I literally finished college a year ago and is onto med school like literally in months but i'm still here because ILY ASHLEY!😂💕

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      @kenyadrives2063 4 года назад

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  • @vanessabarajas2161
    @vanessabarajas2161 4 года назад +3

    I needed this advice so bad tysm 💞 personally, I’ve been really struggling with deciding to stay at a uni very close to home or one slightly far from home, and seeing this kind of support is priceless 😭❤️

  • @Bob-n2d
    @Bob-n2d 4 года назад

    Don’t stress you have a lot of time. Your a really good speaker that will get you further then your education. Get into sales with a company, manage role, project management, realtor, law. Mba.

  • @yonie2729
    @yonie2729 4 года назад +2

    istg she's getting prettier and prettier every freaking day!!!!

  • @SG-ij5in
    @SG-ij5in 4 года назад +15

    Woweeee I haven’t been this early in a WHILE. I just wanna day thank you so much for making your videos, they always make me happy. You’ve grown so much since I began watching you in 2018, and I honestly feel so proud seeing how far you, Amber, and Andrew have come in terms of youtube and college and overall just growing as people. You are all such beautiful ppl and ilysm💗 much love bbs

    • @urmomashley
      @urmomashley  4 года назад +3

      AWWWWW I love you more! Tysm for all of the support 🥺🥰❤️❤️❤️

  • @juliecha755
    @juliecha755 4 года назад

    shoutout ash for uploading this just as i got emails about being ready for decisions...
    my heart is beating so fast but this calmed me a little

  • @juliayk
    @juliayk 4 года назад +1

    i'm almost done uni so idk why i'm watching this (... just to see ashley ngl lol) but i guess it's never too late to improve your uni/course experience!!
    but i cannot stress enough how important it is to make friends in your classes like ashley said. please!! don't be afraid to say hi and ask for their fb/phone number, etc. i've neverrr had someone say no to that!! everyone's looking to make more new friends, so don't be afraid to be brave and make the first move :)) if you miss a class, you'll know you have a buddy to ask!!!

  • @mirandaleffler
    @mirandaleffler 4 года назад +1

    literally opened youtube hoping to watch an ashley video but assuming id have to rewatch and old one BUT UH NAH SHE POSTED, ABSOLUTE MIRACLE THNX MOM

  • @yourstrulysas
    @yourstrulysas 4 года назад +1

    our mother ashley back at it again w the advice we all need 😌 love u ashley 💜

  • @sheiladuong3317
    @sheiladuong3317 4 года назад +2

    as a high school student who's been thinking about college a lot lately, i loved this video so much!! it was really helpful :) please make more college videos, i'd love to know more 🥺💕

  • @paurec6345
    @paurec6345 4 года назад +6

    When Ashley's hands said 👏🏽🙌🏽👐🏾🤲🏿✊🏻🖐🏽👌🏻✌🏻🤘🏿🤟🏽 i felt that

  • @chelz-h2f
    @chelz-h2f 4 года назад +1

    CAN WE TALK ABOUT HER VISUALS AND SIDE PROFILE OMG SHE IS GORGEOUS

  • @emmajanusky3707
    @emmajanusky3707 4 года назад +61

    we are literally... the same person. we would be such good friendsssss damn

  • @isabellasanders173
    @isabellasanders173 4 года назад +2

    I’m in the middle of the biology major switching crisis and I have no idea what I want to do. It’s nice to know that other people have had this experience.

  • @mjiv12
    @mjiv12 4 года назад +1

    This really came up at the right time like Ashley really out here being the big sis I never knew I needed 🥺💖

  • @zuckyucky
    @zuckyucky 4 года назад +1

    Bro Ashley is doing such a good job at posting videos often like what omg

  • @chitanasaladier4511
    @chitanasaladier4511 4 года назад +4

    For someone who is about to go to college, I appreciate your soul so very much😭🙏❤

  • @christynayang4824
    @christynayang4824 4 года назад +1

    I agree with doing what you love! I use to be a physics major but I was always so passionate about English and when I finally switched I became so excited for classes and my future! Do what you love because that’s where your highest potential lies ❤️ it’s ur life 👍🏼😁

  • @jess1099
    @jess1099 4 года назад +1

    i'm already half way through first year of college now , but your video still helped me , thank you ashley🥰

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      @kenyadrives2063 4 года назад

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  • @leydirios9527
    @leydirios9527 4 года назад +1

    finals are approaching for me next week, so this was definitely a study break video 😝

  • @kiaraosborn5817
    @kiaraosborn5817 4 года назад +17

    literally me i’m a first year and rlly regretting going to school far from home bc i’ve discovered i’m a homebody and everything is so different from LA so i’m transferring next year to be closer

  • @keeplanarian3300
    @keeplanarian3300 4 года назад +1

    Right now I’m nearly halfway of finishing my course and really unsure if it’s the right path for me. This video is reassuring me, showing me that’s it’s okay to accept that this isn’t the right path for me (and that I’m not a complete failure haha) and that it’s okay to start again. Thanks Ashley, needed this one

  • @jarradevi
    @jarradevi 4 года назад

    u could make an infinite number of college related videos and I would be HERE for every single one of them. this was so helpful thank you ashley!! 😊

  • @chloeanne3552
    @chloeanne3552 4 года назад

    im so happy to have urmomashley as my mom, in the digitl world. thanks for inspiring as always! luvyou😍

  • @444fawn
    @444fawn 4 года назад +8

    Tysm for this!! Ive been stressing abt college sm today even though im a junior

  • @christines825
    @christines825 4 года назад +2

    I relate to you so much. I'm a freshman rn and I am majoring in chemistry but I don't even know if that's what I want to do but I'm just doing it until I fully figure out what I want to do. 😅I am also in a long distance relationship which is very difficult but we are somehow making it work lol. I'm happy to hear you discovered what you are passionate about and switched your major! I hope I figure out what I am truly passionate about soon so I feel much more confident for my future. Thank you for making this video, it made me feel better that I am not the only one doubting my major and college decisions lol

  • @ariel7024
    @ariel7024 4 года назад +1

    We love sisters supporting sisters 🥺🥰

  • @stephandden
    @stephandden 4 года назад

    What I needed before leaving high school! Also just shared a video on some of the things I wish I knew about student loans back in college ✨

  • @vewning
    @vewning 4 года назад +3

    Thanks Ashley for making my days better whenever you post something you always make me laugh and make me feel better whenever you put out a video and I’ve recently been feeling stressed with school stuff and I’m applying next year and I have to make so much stuff right now plus taking some classes that are helping me with advisors on how to prepare myself for university and college so this video made me really happy and it was very helpful with stuff I was actually wondering about thanks 💜🥺✌️

  • @xolexo5324
    @xolexo5324 3 года назад +1

    i wish i spent less time worrying about what the right major is and more time figuring out what the right school is. i feel like the right school will help you figure out the rest.

  • @bekinddrinkwater
    @bekinddrinkwater 4 года назад +1

    i see amber's merch, we love a supportive sister !!

  • @fallenangel5463
    @fallenangel5463 4 года назад +1

    Ashley,Ashley,Ashley....this video is a like a God send to me since I need to go to the college this year and im still not sure what to do in my life💜

  • @ariaprincess4909
    @ariaprincess4909 3 года назад +1

    I wish there was a website that has all colleges in its databases and is completely honest, no lies, just blunt and transparent.

  • @nailekahili4390
    @nailekahili4390 4 года назад +1

    AHHH ENDING MY SENIOR YEAR OF HIGH SCHOOL IN less than 3 month THANK YOU 🥺❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @sailorm.1430
    @sailorm.1430 4 года назад +4

    UM 2 VIDEO JUST THIS WEEK AND ALSO ANDREW POSTED IN IG AFTER SEVERAL WEEKS OMG YALL TREATING ME 😭😭❤️❤️

  • @mariyan9815
    @mariyan9815 4 года назад +1

    This helped me so much 🥺 I just got accepted into what I think is my dream school (Northwestern) but I can’t even visit to make sure I like it because of miss rona 😔 It feels nice knowing I’m not the only one stressing out about all this college stuff

  • @thewanderer970
    @thewanderer970 4 года назад +1

    im about to take the sat and honestly i needed this 🥺

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      @kenyadrives2063 4 года назад

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  • @bobbyswanson3498
    @bobbyswanson3498 4 года назад +37

    I’m a junior and have no idea where I even want to apply, I’m also not very involved with the school like clubs and what not so I’m stressed about actually getting in

    • @clarayampanis545
      @clarayampanis545 4 года назад +10

      Mystical Hippo Hi! High school senior here. I just wanted to hopefully offer you some comfort/advice. I had no idea where I wanted to go a year ago, had good grades but only a couple activities and wasn’t involved very much at school. The whole process was terrifying and a weight on my shoulders. You are allowed make mistakes, it will not determine your future. Not going to lie, I had my fair share of rejections and waitlists, but it worked out okay, and I’m so excited for next year. I would suggest doing a lot of research this summer on schools (or now, if you have time in quarantine), and brainstorming ideas for your common app essay. Get excited about some safeties, targets, and reaches, and know that it will turn out okay. Best of luck! :)
      PS: Make sure you check your deadlines! I missed the deadlines for UC Berkeley and a few other schools because I assumed it would be January 1st or early November.

    • @bellamaria1952
      @bellamaria1952 4 года назад +7

      High school senior here that didn’t do that many activities and clubs. I get you, i was literally crying while doing apps bc i thought i didn’t do enough lol. i think the biggest thing is putting down anything and everything you did do. also focus more on your essays. if you can really show who you are through the essay/essays they are more likely to overlook the lack of activities. Really make they essay as polished and meaningful as you can. Maybe ask a teacher for help if you can, or ask them to proofread. I’m pretty sure this is what got me accepted to my top school! good luck and everything happens for a reason.

    • @lindsayjanae
      @lindsayjanae 4 года назад +1

      lol I have the opposite problem I’m in plenty of clubs and activities but my grades are not happy

  • @amia7362
    @amia7362 4 года назад +24

    i’m in my senior year doing community college in high school but i’m so scared it will be so much different when i actually go away and i still can’t decide which college i wanna go to

  • @gracebrady2850
    @gracebrady2850 4 года назад +26

    me like two hours ago: "ah I'm stressed about college."
    you: "MY BEST ADVICE for ANYONE going to college"
    thank you.

  • @m.xriyoutube
    @m.xriyoutube 4 года назад +2

    I gasped when u said u came to gw,, im shook and sad u didn't love it here but also it lowkey is very hard bc of the environment (I feel that even as a sophomore lol) im glad u found ur place/major! good luck! 💕

    • @sophiao43
      @sophiao43 Год назад

      Hey, I’m a hs senior rn and GW is one of my possible options, so I was wondering if you elaborate more on why the environment makes it hard to be at GW?

  • @theylovesosa154
    @theylovesosa154 4 года назад

    Course Hero is REALLY helpful!! They also do quality video summaries on common books you might read in high school. They've saved me so many times for essays😩 and the best part is they're all free on RUclips

  • @ShrimpWizard
    @ShrimpWizard 4 года назад

    What a GOOD SISTER repping her sisters merch!! Yasssss Ashley!

  • @lgnzls
    @lgnzls 4 года назад

    ashley stop being a queen

  • @genesprouts
    @genesprouts 4 года назад +6

    I felt like this video spoke to me🌚 this really came at the right time🙌🏻

  • @horribledingus8358
    @horribledingus8358 4 года назад

    Momma I am late but..... I am gonna start medical school now , really REALLY needed this . Wish you all the good stuff in life 💖💖💜

  • @itxy4283
    @itxy4283 4 года назад +5

    My biggest regret from my semester of college was to take so many classes right off the bat. Im a slow adapter and I really struggled being in a new environment. I recently just decided to take a gap year and think about what I want to do in college. Two months in and I’m not regretting it at all.😂

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      @kenyadrives2063 4 года назад

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  • @sailorm.1430
    @sailorm.1430 4 года назад +27

    Andrew needs to film something like this... or just a getting ready for school

  • @sagokookie
    @sagokookie 4 года назад

    CONGRATS ON 600K ASHLEYYYYY

  • @bagellover4102
    @bagellover4102 4 года назад +11

    Thank you I needed this!! I was literally just thinking about collages!

  • @joannetan3609
    @joannetan3609 4 года назад

    Congrats on 600k 😤 let's go babby

  • @Zicartui
    @Zicartui 4 года назад +1

    CONGRATULATIONS FOR THE 600K SUBSCRIBERS

  • @madison9459
    @madison9459 4 года назад

    i’m in middle school but the social advice rlly kinda help o_o^ thanks ashley!

  • @aylaist
    @aylaist 4 года назад

    the timing of this vid is extravagant

  • @sorina3993
    @sorina3993 4 года назад

    loved this channel ever since i found your first video (the what i eat in a week)! love supporting u

  • @bekinddrinkwater
    @bekinddrinkwater 4 года назад +1

    bro CONGRATS ON 600K!!!

  • @sejine
    @sejine 4 года назад +2

    i’m starting college next year and this rly helped a lot!! tysm 🥺

  • @zaindbd
    @zaindbd 4 года назад +1

    Congrats on 600k!!!!

  • @abbyfoster1184
    @abbyfoster1184 4 года назад

    i’m not even in hs yet but i have an obsession with these college videos