You're Not Crazy, Dating A Virgo Man Is Complicated.

Поделиться
HTML-код
  • Опубликовано: 25 окт 2024

Комментарии • 122

  • @ladyt3759
    @ladyt3759 Год назад +101

    It's difficult to date a Virgo man when they are broken and not healed from their pass pain

    • @Lyniquechunte
      @Lyniquechunte Год назад +8

      Yeah I know I have one 😞

    • @janaywilliams2238
      @janaywilliams2238 Год назад +5

      I know very difficult

    • @Indigoblu5626
      @Indigoblu5626 Год назад +12

      @Lady T True. They shut down, they don’t want to listen to what you have to say, they become petty & take it out on you. I have dated 3 Virgos men & I’m officially done with Virgos & dating all together.

    • @glamdolltg7178
      @glamdolltg7178 Год назад +6

      I believe that!! They’re very childish mama boys too!

    • @SR77736
      @SR77736 Год назад +1

      My ex. Broken and bitter but cared but was closed off..I'm over Virgo men. He's damaged and took that out on me.

  • @ontimeprocess
    @ontimeprocess Год назад +46

    Sorry sir but I banned the whole Virgo zodiac sign respectfully . Too confusing and way too much heart break I’m cool. Felt like I was dating an A Rubik’s cube.

  • @tinalang1320
    @tinalang1320 Год назад +20

    It’s not what you say , it’s how you say it . I believe in communication, respect, honesty and loyalty. There is no excuses for disrespect to you wife or husband. Treat people the way you want to be treated. I don’t care what your zodiac sign is.

  • @EasyBreezie
    @EasyBreezie 10 месяцев назад +4

    I’m traumatized for life

  • @glorywings2509
    @glorywings2509 Год назад +25

    I treat my virgo like a wild animal....u can't tame them....all u can do it to love them when they come to u on their own...n then just forget about them as they return to wild unless they come back to u again and want something more deeper❤meanwhile I enjoy my time with my friends..family and my interests...
    Anyways u can't force anyone to stay....in your life ...they they really want u they will come back to u.....so chill n enjoy your life

    • @hipmoma
      @hipmoma Год назад

      ... until they don't come back at all... fickle as F.

    • @glorywings2509
      @glorywings2509 11 месяцев назад

      I am an aries it takes another level of love and patience for us to stick around someone like them…but hopefully it will be worth it…at the end..still waiting for him to convey his heart

  • @tinalang1320
    @tinalang1320 Год назад +24

    I was married to a Virgo for 21 years , he hung out , cheated and was on a list for paternity test . Alone time is one thing , cheating, having unprotected sex is something totally different . My ex husband was a good provider, hard working but he didn’t value his wedding vows one bit .

    • @nush050
      @nush050 Год назад

      Virgoes are cheaters! No cap

  • @lindamartinez9740
    @lindamartinez9740 Год назад +14

    Came across this video and curiosity took the better part of me 😂. I’m a cancer ♋️ but why is this so relatable 😅. I want to be alone but with some who wants to be alone too but we’re in a committed relationship w/ the occasional going out to do outdoor activities…is that too much to ask for 😂

  • @MIMIDSH
    @MIMIDSH Год назад +46

    I feel like it's "all or nothing" with the Virgo I've been seeing. When we're together, it's ALL- he's witty, fun, passionate, playful, obviously into me, and he tells me how much he likes me. When we're not together, it's NOTHING- silence. I text something maybe 1-2 times a week (if that) and sometimes he'll reply, sometimes he won't. Sometimes it will be a nice exchange, like a conversation, other times just a couple of words-- and then nothing until I get in touch next time. I don't worry about him seeing other women because very few would put up with that, or they'd probably get upset at his lack of reply and he/they would be done LOL. I'm cool, but honestly, I'd like a little more balance. Early days I guess.

    • @nj2791
      @nj2791 Год назад +6

      This is happening lol he was with me and my friends his friends weekend we dnt plan it as I was starting to loose interest but all night he was lookin and sending his friends over to get me to talk to me we all had fun etc now his not callin or textin but he was cuddling me tellin everyone I’m his ‘baby’ 🤣😂 what a crazy man but his lovely

    • @ladyindigo1649
      @ladyindigo1649 Год назад +15

      I've experienced the same behavior and I'm good without out all that. The issue is if we put up with it there's someone else that may too. But I don't want to be put in a position to have to wonder. It's not a trust thing it's a respect thing. Just my opinion.

    • @MIMIDSH
      @MIMIDSH Год назад +2

      @@ladyindigo1649 I agree. He's explicitly said he's not dating or sleeping with other women and I believe him. It's about respect, yes- not to mention health & safety. I'm sure other women have tried to get something going with him, but he's not going to respond and it's not going to go anywhere, even if they want to be "just friends".

    • @lentisawilson2355
      @lentisawilson2355 Год назад +3

      I go through the same thing with my Virgo..dealing with a Virgo you have to have so much patience and hopefully it end and a happily ever after

    • @MIMIDSH
      @MIMIDSH Год назад +7

      @@lentisawilson2355 I think I'm becoming a better person with this Virgo in my life. Much more relaxed, easy-going, non-reactive, patient, accepting-- with him and other areas of my life.

  • @keilaterrell7142
    @keilaterrell7142 Год назад +6

    Capricorn woman here!! Ideally I’d be married & have my own HOUSE 😂🤣😂 I like my space too

  • @Ariana-kj3cx
    @Ariana-kj3cx Год назад +15

    One minute he talk to me like everything is ok then the next he doesn’t respond to me. I didn’t do him anything. I just simply asked him to make a decision because we were talking for months and he made a lot of promises but now I’m getting nothing. Help!!

    • @jaelesilaba1404
      @jaelesilaba1404 Год назад +2

      Never rush a virgo man just let things go with the flow if u rush them thats when they start to disappear

    • @CitygirlRayA
      @CitygirlRayA Год назад +4

      It’s a mess. I thought I was the only one going thru this obstacle course.

    • @glorywings2509
      @glorywings2509 Год назад +3

      While dating a virgo man ur self love has to be the prominent quality that can save u and the relationship...when he is not around ,u need to be in your own world behave as he doesn't exist...and just wait fr him to approach u again....virgo teach u patience....and the lesson if u love someone just let them free till they come back asking fr more...u need to have a big heart...

    • @CitygirlRayA
      @CitygirlRayA Год назад +1

      Right glory wings have a big heart and share it with someone else. He ain’t the only one. Have a play toy on the side. Who going to keep waiting around on mr. Snails????

    • @wetwhistlinwillyjohnson5743
      @wetwhistlinwillyjohnson5743 11 месяцев назад

      They are manipulative insecure narcissists.

  • @theeladyj
    @theeladyj Год назад +8

    Very complicated… super weird honestly

  • @joannbuck2087
    @joannbuck2087 Год назад +29

    Yes it is complicated dating a Virgo man I have been dating one on and off for 6 years and we just got back together 4 months ago whewwwww Chile. They're not for the faint of heart. Just pray, pray and keep on praying for them.

  • @ladyscorp5607
    @ladyscorp5607 Год назад +7

    Beautiful complicated souls ❤️

  • @hipmoma
    @hipmoma Год назад +5

    the best lover I ever had was not a Virgo. Was an Aquarius with a Venus in Capricorn and Moon in Cancer.

  • @bellawilde2169
    @bellawilde2169 10 месяцев назад +2

    My dad was a Virgo and I always saw him as clearly different from the other dads . I’m dating a Virgo man now and he is very different. It can be confusing and frustrating but I really like him

    • @SoloOcean
      @SoloOcean 2 месяца назад

      whats frustrating amd confusing

  • @ladyt3759
    @ladyt3759 Год назад +14

    I get that a Virgo want to be alone time because I'm a Virgo woman and like my alone time

    • @MIMIDSH
      @MIMIDSH Год назад +1

      Me too. I'm a Cap and I am content to be alone. But I think I'd like more of a balance.

    • @crystalcormier9376
      @crystalcormier9376 Год назад

      @@MIMIDSH Yay Capicorns in da house!!! Yes alone time is vital to us capicorns as well. Now we can be sociable and mingle but l feel like at times there's a cut off period to that. Like ok we don't need to that everyday. Tart, do you feel sometimes when you don't get your alone time it throws you off mentally. I know for me it does. December 27th 1981. 😊👋🙏

  • @jerseyd408
    @jerseyd408 6 месяцев назад +2

    That was great. coming from a cancer - I want my Virgo so bad I am willing to learn so please continue to teach me/us..!!!!!

  • @callumbrowns
    @callumbrowns Год назад +7

    J Whitfield Inspires Awesome content man, Can you please do a video on virgo man dating younger women vs older women please that be much appreciated!

  • @643lmer
    @643lmer Год назад +3

    Oh my goodness, you just described my husband. We've been together for over a decade & yes, he's still very guarded emotionally. It's like I'll never get to know him 100%. I'm very much an emotions person so it's hard but I love my freedom too😢

    • @643lmer
      @643lmer Год назад +2

      And bc Virgo men are so private, you might feel emotionally neglected & lonely so have a close group of friends & hobbies, immerse yourself in your projects

    • @glorywings2509
      @glorywings2509 11 месяцев назад

      How often does he tells u he loves u??or u just see his love in his act of service towards u?

  • @carmin0898
    @carmin0898 Год назад +6

    1:38 they like their space and someone who respect that is a plus for them but sometimes they might forget about you 🥺😂, even when they’re with you, they like their physical space… dating a Virgo men is difficult

    • @nush050
      @nush050 Год назад

      And no matter if that fucking 'space' is flirting with other women too... virgoes are truly most toxic!

  • @mrs.bryonna.l.taylor
    @mrs.bryonna.l.taylor Месяц назад

    Virgo woman and I'm so guarded because I've been misunderstood so much and it's frustrating. I would rather be alone and in peace then around a bunch of people who don't understand me, not trying to understand, and just need so much attention only to belittle me and anything i say. Like PUHPLEASE. I'll enjoy my solitude 😂

  • @ladyindigo1649
    @ladyindigo1649 Год назад +9

    I didn't think I was crazy and knew Virgo men were different from the jump. My opinion is that maybe you all should date Virgo women because you all would understand each others wants, needs and quirks. No one to take offense and feel neglected. It can be challenging enough to cultivate a relationship in general between compromise, respect, love, attention, etc. And you're right, some women require those things more than others so it can be too much for certain men. But to just be ok with going ghost, or texting but not calling or periodic outings is asking a bit much for someone in a relationship. Even if you mention it nicely as you have suggested in your previous videos it still may not change or get addressed if that's who he truly is. A whole lot of up keep even if y'all do nice things, etc. You can be thoughtful one minute and not the next. Thanks for the info! Lol

    • @frankwarfield5274
      @frankwarfield5274 Год назад +2

      VIrgo man n Virgo women worked perfecr for me and I did the best I ever did in life......
      Any Virgo women out there?

    • @Butterflyhearts23
      @Butterflyhearts23 Год назад +1

      @@frankwarfield5274 plenty. 😊

    • @prettyllady
      @prettyllady Год назад +1

      well im a virgo woman & NO i dont get along with virgo men because they're crazy‼️ They're so insecure, so jealous, got bad mood swings and one virgo guy i was talking too ended up harrassing me & stalking me! NEVER AGAIN will i date a virgo man. I prefer to date aquarius, sagittarius, leos. But NOT VIRGOS they're nutcases sorry lol 😂

    • @sofftpeachy4955
      @sofftpeachy4955 Год назад +1

      I’m a virgo woman and it didn’t workout for me. I will never date a virgo man ever again. He lies too much, is inconsistent, emotional unavailable and just boring and irritated my soul in general

    • @maecadano5878
      @maecadano5878 Год назад +2

      Im a virgo women for me it would really not work out because i don't think i could ever understand a Hot and cold treatment it totally sucks and such an abnormal feeling. I don't wanna waste my time to that kind of man.

  • @BelledelaGroove
    @BelledelaGroove Год назад +1

    Thank you for making this make sense in a way thats not attacking Virgos. I'm a Gemini and this is getting REAL OUCHEA!!!

  • @janiceburgess4679
    @janiceburgess4679 5 месяцев назад

    I'm a Virgo. Alone time is very important to me. I have had men tell me that I'm very complicated. I'm also a workaholic and independent. I enjoy being alone, but like a committed relationship. My alone time is enjoying my own company.

  • @CageLeone
    @CageLeone 6 месяцев назад +1

    Im a virgo man but somehow i didnt get the whole perfection thing . And im pretty much an open book...whats on the inside is what you see on the outside. Sure , im a little complicated, i say the things everyone is thinking but wont say, so im fun at holiday get togethers. In my head too much.. Oddly I dont like routine. Honest to a fault, and if I say Im going to do something, I actually do it.

  • @themindfulhippie
    @themindfulhippie Год назад +8

    I understand this is general information, but it has helped me a lot this year. Without your videos, I don't think I would have the understanding I have for my Virgo (or men). He's the best person I have ever met, everything I've been looking for and it's easy and fun to live with him. I try to stop for a moment to really understand what he is saying, when younger me would react and cause a fight. We are similar in many ways, I'm a Gemini but my Scorpio moon is the reason why I'm private and love hard. I'm also a Cancer rising so I like to take care of him whenever he lets me 😝 we both need space and I was the one to suggest we have our separate bathrooms lol 😂

    • @alelujahtysm4867
      @alelujahtysm4867 Год назад

      Your comment makes me hopeful for how things will go with my Virgo man..
      We’ve just started seeing each other & I have the same sun and moon as you haha but I’m a Virgo rising. Sometimes it’s tricky between us but I don’t want to make any impulsive decisions

    • @themindfulhippie
      @themindfulhippie Год назад +1

      @@alelujahtysm4867 I'm happy you have a Virgo in your life 🫶 My biggest advice is to be patient with him, and let him have his space to do his own thing. Sometimes there is a wave of insecurity for me when I think “do you still love me, hello?” I ask sometimes and he says “of course I do”. Still working on how to make sure we feed each other's love languages properly. I'm very happy, life is very calm now instead of chaotic like my previous relationships. I wish you the best 🥰

    • @alelujahtysm4867
      @alelujahtysm4867 Год назад +1

      @@themindfulhippie thank you 😊 I will definitely take your advice.

  • @s.williams9272
    @s.williams9272 Год назад +2

    I love your channel my son is a virgo and this is helping me out alot watching your videos.

  • @victoriabanks7701
    @victoriabanks7701 Год назад +2

    Wow, as a Capricorn woman I’ve been struggling with these Geminis and Scorpios, meanwhile my twin been Virgo this whole time. 2:43 this is me!

    • @crystalcormier9376
      @crystalcormier9376 Год назад

      Me too Victoria I'm capicorn December 27th 1981. Girl you didn't know Virgos and Capicorns go hand in hand. Our personality traits are very very similar to the Virgo. If you don't mine me asking is your alone time important to you? If so do you feel like if you don't get some alone time it throws you off mentally? You know they say Capicorns are the loners of the zodiac.

  • @bellawilde2169
    @bellawilde2169 10 месяцев назад +1

    I’m a Libra sun gemini moon and that would be perfect for me to for each person to have their own room. I need a lot of physical touch and loving but I also need a lot of space

  • @MsElegance23
    @MsElegance23 6 месяцев назад +1

    Hmm must be different for some virgos. Talking to a Virgo that likes me he always wants to be around me. I think the more mature you are the better the man or woman. No matter the sign.

  • @sheritawilson5640
    @sheritawilson5640 Год назад +11

    Taurus woman here... my alone time is extremely important.

    • @crystalcormier9376
      @crystalcormier9376 Год назад +3

      Okay that's it Sherita I'm truly convinced that this has to be earth sign trait of the zodiac. I'm capicorn Sherita and it's extremely important for us capicorns to have our alone time as well. You already know the earth signs of the zodiac are Virgo, Capicorn, Taurus. It just has to be earth trait for us. I don't know about you Sherita but it throws me off mentally if l don't get my alone time. Peace and blessings to you sis!!😊🙏👍

    • @sheritawilson5640
      @sheritawilson5640 Год назад +3

      @@crystalcormier9376 Come on with this word. If I wake up and there's chaos around me, I immediately remove myself... vacation, visiting relatives....I get my own room

    • @crystalcormier9376
      @crystalcormier9376 Год назад +3

      @@sheritawilson5640 See that's what lm sayin we like the virgo. We can't deal with alot peoples energy especially if it's toxic.

    • @sheritawilson5640
      @sheritawilson5640 Год назад +2

      @@crystalcormier9376Being a reader...Toxic energy makes me itch. Being clairaudient, I don't even like voices sometimes.

  • @puseletsolydia7471
    @puseletsolydia7471 Год назад +4

    I'm dating virgo man it's really difficult to get what's on his mind its been 3 months now but I can't get him.

  • @marliesluyten8686
    @marliesluyten8686 7 месяцев назад +5

    Cheaters

  • @jennb.2581
    @jennb.2581 Год назад +3

    Spoken like a true Virgo...lol #nevervirgoagain

  • @user-rf7os6kx3z
    @user-rf7os6kx3z Год назад +2

    I'm a Libra, older than him, independent and a single mom, he's 6 years younger

    • @Lyniquechunte
      @Lyniquechunte Год назад +2

      Jeez I’m in the same exact situation 😮I’m a libra sept libra he is a sept Virgo we are 6 years apart but we both have children he and I hit these communication barriers that are beyond me and his Pessimistic/ realistic / present outlook is a bit grim for my Optimistic/futuristic/foresight demeanor and attitude towards life.

    • @user-rf7os6kx3z
      @user-rf7os6kx3z Год назад

      @@Lyniquechunte OMG 😱 crazy lol how funny is this 😅

    • @Apocalyptiseptical
      @Apocalyptiseptical 5 месяцев назад

      Oh I’m also older and a Libra 😅

  • @elizabethnicole8303
    @elizabethnicole8303 Год назад +4

    Are they lazy ? How long for them to express

  • @beautifulmystery_4044
    @beautifulmystery_4044 Год назад

    You describe me perfectly 😂 except I’m a cancer woman with my sun ruiling the 6th house

  • @user-rf7os6kx3z
    @user-rf7os6kx3z Год назад +4

    Here I am lmao laawddd, 2weeks ago the Virgo I was sneaky linking with for the past 8 months told me he got himself a gf, he said we should part ways, I said sounds good, best wishes.... 2 days ago here he comes back smh talking about I miss you 😵‍💫 I said I thought... He said it didn't work, I'm never gonna be away from you 😮‍💨😒🙄

    • @Lyniquechunte
      @Lyniquechunte Год назад +5

      Omg again same but a bit dif. Not linking up but in a relationship..he said we needed time apart and then literally 5 days go by and an “I miss you” text from him lol we need to see if we dating the same Virgo 😅

    • @user-rf7os6kx3z
      @user-rf7os6kx3z Год назад +5

      @@Lyniquechunte lol girrrrrllll 😩 we in LA, he works in the music industry

    • @Lyniquechunte
      @Lyniquechunte Год назад +4

      @@user-rf7os6kx3z lol naw mine in Huston and I’m in Az … am considering moving there to be with him but he so damn petty it’s not funny … idk if I can keep my emotions under control with him … he pisses me off

    • @Lyniquechunte
      @Lyniquechunte Год назад +5

      **UPDATE** It’s over we ended things ( or rather I did) last week before Christmas I have so many mixed feelings but the biggest one is relief … I miss him so much but I don’t see myself with a man like this it’s too many ups n downs

    • @Indigoblu5626
      @Indigoblu5626 Год назад +1

      @Lyniquechunte The ups & downs is the reason why I decided to just leave & not to look back. It hurts but I had to look out for myself. They are complicated & always in their heads. Take one day at a time. You got this.

  • @Apocalyptiseptical
    @Apocalyptiseptical 5 месяцев назад

    Oh wow I like that. I don’t want to live or even sleep in the same bed. Haha is it Virgo?

  • @cytinachavis9157
    @cytinachavis9157 Год назад

    Without even watching the video. DUH!!

  • @cytinachavis9157
    @cytinachavis9157 Год назад +2

    Do Virgo men come back if they "ghosted" you?

    • @CitygirlRayA
      @CitygirlRayA Год назад +7

      I’ve experienced 3 Virgos separately( make sure I put separately in there) and they will reappear and pop up whether it’s phone call or in person like NOTHING never happened.

    • @theeladyj
      @theeladyj Год назад +1

      Yup

    • @TheFadewolf
      @TheFadewolf Год назад

      Nope

    • @marliesluyten8686
      @marliesluyten8686 7 месяцев назад +4

      Better not !Run !. Read “ the heart of a Virgo” . These men can’t fall in love , big EGO

    • @ahouston3202
      @ahouston3202 4 месяца назад

      ​@marliesluyten8686 I can fall in love but can you give something, teach me something, encourage me and or reciprocate the same level of energy?
      other than the same cheeks and drama you gave away without a 1/10 of the level you're asking me to give, what do you do for me?
      When we figure you out and realize the apex of our connection is the same old song different day.. we get bored and honestly turned off.
      Step yall game up.
      Bring something intangible to the table other than you and watch that Virgo respond in kind.