I totally get the male perspective here. When women go through a breakup, we dive deep into reflection, not just fixating on the outcome like you guys do. Sure, we can be emotional and might even let a guy back in, but trust me, when a woman decides she's done, it's like she was never even in your universe. That's the part men often miss. We might let you back in, but it's usually with a mindset of snagging some benefits, boosting our ego, or just for kicks until something better comes along. Women can strategize just like men and play the game too. Just sharing my two cents on how women think during these times-because not all of us fit your mold.
Yes, this is true. We can be done and still keep that guy there until our dream guy comes along. And there’s some of us that won’t let a guy back because we are done and just take our attention to other men.
I had an ex who came back many times over the years…. The most powerful thing was writing him a letter saying everything uncensored, not Sending it, doing a ritual and fully letting go. He felt it…. And started calling. He’s a nice guy but I never entertained him again.
Ladies do yourself a favor and let him GO! Please save yourself the heartache. My guy broke it off on initial dating stages then nearly 2 years invited me out. We dated for nearly 18 months on round 2. I thought we were going the distance but his financial chaos and our long term goals did not match up. In truth I was ready for it to be done round 2! But after 16 months it really is heartbreaking. So skip it and NEXT!
4 days ago the man that was love bombing me told me he actually was not sure about us, he started giving me excuses why our relationship wouldn't work 💔. I was devastated and mad. He said he felt he needed to be alone and reset. He got in his head to deep and didn't know what to do. I said okay, i was going to give him the space... right now i want to text him but i know i deserve better. Someone who is certain about me. 🥺
He pulled away and finally left for another after four years. He wanted to remain as a friend. Nope. N C forever.I have done inner work and no longer resonate with him . I am sure we both have moved on. He has avoidance tendencies. I am happier now. It is what it is.
Can you address the issue that women attract higher class dates than the men they can attract as husband's,I feel a lot of women don't understand this.
ladies i need help. so my man and i are "breaking up" because he believes he isnt enough for me. he believes he hurts me a lot and to be fair i say shit i don't mean and it makes him insecure. i got rlly angry at something and said goodbye and he just agreed. he and i are having a convo abt final decisions on jan 2nd 2025. how do i ensure that he decides to reconcile?
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I totally get the male perspective here. When women go through a breakup, we dive deep into reflection, not just fixating on the outcome like you guys do. Sure, we can be emotional and might even let a guy back in, but trust me, when a woman decides she's done, it's like she was never even in your universe. That's the part men often miss. We might let you back in, but it's usually with a mindset of snagging some benefits, boosting our ego, or just for kicks until something better comes along. Women can strategize just like men and play the game too. Just sharing my two cents on how women think during these times-because not all of us fit your mold.
Yes, this is true. We can be done and still keep that guy there until our dream guy comes along. And there’s some of us that won’t let a guy back because we are done and just take our attention to other men.
This is 100%
As R. Kelly sang, “ When a Woman’s Fed Up”.
@ yes 🙌❤️that song
I had an ex who came back many times over the years…. The most powerful thing was writing him a letter saying everything uncensored, not Sending it, doing a ritual and fully letting go. He felt it…. And started calling. He’s a nice guy but I never entertained him again.
Ladies do yourself a favor and let him GO! Please save yourself the heartache. My guy broke it off on initial dating stages then nearly 2 years invited me out. We dated for nearly 18 months on round 2. I thought we were going the distance but his financial chaos and our long term goals did not match up. In truth I was ready for it to be done round 2! But after 16 months it really is heartbreaking. So skip it and NEXT!
I like it whenever you say the b word 🤣🤣🤣🤣 forgive me Lord. Hilarious. Yeah that's what I thought bish 😂😂😂😂
This is on point. Have not seen him since Aug. He keeps popping up! Bye bye leave me be. Thanks Elliot!
4 days ago the man that was love bombing me told me he actually was not sure about us, he started giving me excuses why our relationship wouldn't work 💔. I was devastated and mad. He said he felt he needed to be alone and reset. He got in his head to deep and didn't know what to do. I said okay, i was going to give him the space... right now i want to text him but i know i deserve better. Someone who is certain about me. 🥺
how is your timing so good
I like your advice and analogy ✌️
He pulled away and finally left for another after four years. He wanted to remain as a friend. Nope. N C forever.I have done inner work and no longer resonate with him . I am sure we both have moved on. He has avoidance tendencies. I am happier now. It is what it is.
I feel so attacked. Elliot always tells it like it is.
Woman stop holding on to the bs. Readjust that crown and keep it moving.
U are so funny love u 🥰
Can you address the issue that women attract higher class dates than the men they can attract as husband's,I feel a lot of women don't understand this.
ladies i need help.
so my man and i are "breaking up" because he believes he isnt enough for me. he believes he hurts me a lot and to be fair i say shit i don't mean and it makes him insecure. i got rlly angry at something and said goodbye and he just agreed.
he and i are having a convo abt final decisions on jan 2nd 2025. how do i ensure that he decides to reconcile?
Is it a red flag if a guy wants to be official after 3 months newly single?
I would say yes. But I don't know the full story.
I would say yes as well… for most cases I think
No why? 3 months is enough
It depends on sooo many things.
I would say it depends on how him and his ex broke up
What if he initiated the breakup but messaged me a couple days later like we are still good friends?
And it’s not for the assets either because this happened after I moved out of the area for good.
Don’t accept breadcrumbs
If u are heart broken 💔 then no, take time to heal.
He’s over U but wants to keep you in pocket for kicks.
Do not answer him!
why is this so funny
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He is not my guy anymore😂 haha