I am so sorry that family and friends told you that you are overwhelming and too much. That hurt my heart hearing you say that. It's really hard when people who love you and are close to you tell you something negative like that because that can cause that person to hide away. I mean....these should be the times you can go to loved ones and those who care about you but when people say something like that....how can you? I get what you mean too about fading away. You know, I tested something these past 2 years. Every single Christmas and New Years for so many years I would reach out to loved ones and close friends or even online friends and online people who I sort of know to wish them a Merry Christmas and wishing them all the best for their New Year. I tested something for the past 2 years that makes me feel how you are talking about just "being there" and fading away. A lot of the people I had messaged first each year for SO many years to let them know I was thinking about them during the special occasions, never thought to message me for those 2 years of me not reaching out and it hurt and it cut me deep. I tested it because I was getting tired about many other things and feeling like I was giving WAY more than what they cared to give to me. So I tested this. The very people I actually thought of and wanted to contact to wish them well....I wasn't even on their radar. The very people I helped with so many things and checking in, I finally understand, I'm actually nothing for them except what actually benefits them. I'm sorry for how people make you feel. And, personally, I think it's ok to be mad about those who aren't being there for you. No they don't HAVE to but isn't friendship, REALY friendship supposed to be the same both ways?
@@DanisJourneyToWhereI’ve seen your comments a few times, especially on the empath videos…really appreciate that. I think we sensitive people experience the worst trauma but we learn how to come out beautiful ❤
@@sonicxis4ever I felt bad bombarding you a bit but I remember you saying so many things that was completely relatable. Thank you kindly for getting back to me. ☺🤗 Hope you are doing alright!
ok so I'm still watching this video but pausing it while I type this because I don't want to forget later. I know you don't know me, and I don't know you, but I care about what you are talking about. I know these may just look like random words from a random stranger, but I mean it. And yet at the same time, so far (I'm at 1:08), I can hear the absolute similarities we have. I have major depression and some other "wonderful" mental illness and I often, OFTEN feel this way. I often ask "What is the point of this?" "Why are we here if there is so much crap to deal with?" "Why are there so many people and animals on this Earth suffering so badly!?" And many other similar questions and statements that make me sad and / or angry because I don't understand. I honestly can't even tell you something amazing, uplifting and helpful. I wish I had something, but I don't. I don't know how to fix others when I can't even fix myself. But I still try. The best I can do right now is tell you how sorry I am for you feeling this way (I know this was posted 5 months ago and I only just found this channel, so I don't know you much right now). I completely understand your words about people being younger and looking like they have it all together or at least more together than ourselves. I HATE my birthday. I hate each year growing another year older and not being where I want to be or should have been a long time ago. I just understand you with this. But I hope it's ok to say, I am proud of you for who you are and where you are at this very moment in life! I really am. I know this proudness should be coming from you. I know. But as an outsider, I have to tell you this. But I also know depression or being in a depressive state can make us feel less than what we are. Make us think bad things and oh my goodness me, yes, make us feel sad sometimes for reasons we aren't too certain about! I will post this now and type more if I feel like I have more to say but for now I will watch the rest and sending you *BIG HUGS* Hoping you are doing much better nowadays.
Yeah you sound. A lot like me! I was always labeled sensitive. I cried at the end of movies, I was always affected more by things than other people. People saw it as a weakness. I see it as a strength. When you’re sensitive you become calculated and learn how to deal with certain aspects of life :) I’m doing a lot better these days! That was a rough time in my life when I was living with my sister, her fiance, their baby and my mom.
@@sonicxis4ever Thank you for this comment. I cry easily with movies too. Even cartoon movies. 😶🌫 I am so happy to read you are doing a lot better nowadays. I am sorry for the rough time you were having. I truly hope you only continue to have more awesome and better days ahead. *big hugs* And wishing you a happy new year! Hoping 2025 will be ok for us all....*fingers crossed*
I am so sorry that family and friends told you that you are overwhelming and too much. That hurt my heart hearing you say that. It's really hard when people who love you and are close to you tell you something negative like that because that can cause that person to hide away. I mean....these should be the times you can go to loved ones and those who care about you but when people say something like that....how can you?
I get what you mean too about fading away. You know, I tested something these past 2 years. Every single Christmas and New Years for so many years I would reach out to loved ones and close friends or even online friends and online people who I sort of know to wish them a Merry Christmas and wishing them all the best for their New Year. I tested something for the past 2 years that makes me feel how you are talking about just "being there" and fading away. A lot of the people I had messaged first each year for SO many years to let them know I was thinking about them during the special occasions, never thought to message me for those 2 years of me not reaching out and it hurt and it cut me deep. I tested it because I was getting tired about many other things and feeling like I was giving WAY more than what they cared to give to me. So I tested this. The very people I actually thought of and wanted to contact to wish them well....I wasn't even on their radar.
The very people I helped with so many things and checking in, I finally understand, I'm actually nothing for them except what actually benefits them.
I'm sorry for how people make you feel. And, personally, I think it's ok to be mad about those who aren't being there for you. No they don't HAVE to but isn't friendship, REALY friendship supposed to be the same both ways?
Thank you! I really appreciate your comments
@@sonicxis4ever You're very welcome.
@@DanisJourneyToWhereI’ve seen your comments a few times, especially on the empath videos…really appreciate that. I think we sensitive people experience the worst trauma but we learn how to come out beautiful ❤
@@sonicxis4ever I felt bad bombarding you a bit but I remember you saying so many things that was completely relatable.
Thank you kindly for getting back to me. ☺🤗 Hope you are doing alright!
Man, I felt what you said so bad.
I don’t know but I’m here and you’re not alone. Life has high highs and low Lows. And I really feel bad for men because we live life on hard mode
Thanks a lot@@sonicxis4ever
ok so I'm still watching this video but pausing it while I type this because I don't want to forget later.
I know you don't know me, and I don't know you, but I care about what you are talking about. I know these may just look like random words from a random stranger, but I mean it. And yet at the same time, so far (I'm at 1:08), I can hear the absolute similarities we have.
I have major depression and some other "wonderful" mental illness and I often, OFTEN feel this way. I often ask "What is the point of this?" "Why are we here if there is so much crap to deal with?" "Why are there so many people and animals on this Earth suffering so badly!?"
And many other similar questions and statements that make me sad and / or angry because I don't understand.
I honestly can't even tell you something amazing, uplifting and helpful. I wish I had something, but I don't. I don't know how to fix others when I can't even fix myself. But I still try. The best I can do right now is tell you how sorry I am for you feeling this way (I know this was posted 5 months ago and I only just found this channel, so I don't know you much right now).
I completely understand your words about people being younger and looking like they have it all together or at least more together than ourselves. I HATE my birthday. I hate each year growing another year older and not being where I want to be or should have been a long time ago. I just understand you with this. But I hope it's ok to say, I am proud of you for who you are and where you are at this very moment in life! I really am. I know this proudness should be coming from you. I know. But as an outsider, I have to tell you this. But I also know depression or being in a depressive state can make us feel less than what we are. Make us think bad things and oh my goodness me, yes, make us feel sad sometimes for reasons we aren't too certain about!
I will post this now and type more if I feel like I have more to say but for now I will watch the rest and sending you *BIG HUGS* Hoping you are doing much better nowadays.
Yeah you sound. A lot like me! I was always labeled sensitive. I cried at the end of movies, I was always affected more by things than other people. People saw it as a weakness. I see it as a strength. When you’re sensitive you become calculated and learn how to deal with certain aspects of life :) I’m doing a lot better these days! That was a rough time in my life when I was living with my sister, her fiance, their baby and my mom.
@@sonicxis4ever Thank you for this comment. I cry easily with movies too. Even cartoon movies. 😶🌫
I am so happy to read you are doing a lot better nowadays. I am sorry for the rough time you were having. I truly hope you only continue to have more awesome and better days ahead. *big hugs* And wishing you a happy new year! Hoping 2025 will be ok for us all....*fingers crossed*