Her father is an exceptionally good man. Homophobic ideals has been drilled into his head for over half a century and he worked to undo that mindset because of the love he had for his daughter. This woman… this woman gave birth to her… and still won’t relent. Not even for her own child. That to me is the definition of evil.
lola madelein Dude it’s not that she doesn’t love Callie. But when you have parents who believe the world is one way and see their child doing something they see as their downfall, they can’t help but feel unnerved. Many people have to go through that. But it’s because of the love for that child that they begin to act harsh. In their eyes, their child will go to hell. It’s sad but that’s just how we are biological equipped:
@@Mini-Toast_ Callie's mother doesn't get off the hook just because her shitty behavior is motivated by love. OP is right. A mother doesn't treat her child like that, using the faith her daughter has been following and finding strength and comfort in all her life as a weapon because she's marrying another woman.
Keep scrolling for a rant FIRST OF ALL Callie's mother doesn't even acknowledge that she got in a horrible car accident and almost died. Along with her baby. But yet her mother did not visit her during her 3 MONTH period of being in the hospital, nor did she even ask anything about it! But once something with Callie involving her love life pops up BAM there's the ignorant mother everyone's come to hate. Callie was so excited for her wedding and showing her mom her veil but she got turned not, not the first time this has happened.
When her dad did this, Callie lashed out. When her mother, a woman she used to know as a role model based on the whole veil thing, essentially disowned her- Callie can't do anything but be utterly hurt.
Callie’s dad is a good man. He reversed his outdated ways of thinking and unlearned his internalized homophobia for her. Most importantly- he TRIED. He was there for her. He fought for her by fighting against something that had been ingrained into his brain for over half a century. You can tell that his daughter was everything to him. Callie’s mom? I don’t doubt at all that she loved her daughter. But I don’t think she loved her daughter more than she loved herself. And I don’t think she loved Callie unconditionally. Parental conditional love is so damaging, and to me, that makes her ten times worse than anything her father used to be.
@audreymikaelson4973 so if your child does something you don't morally agree with you're supposed to just go along with it? Love doesn't work that way. Her words were harsh but she was true to her beliefs.
@@anthonyanderson9303 parents who choose their own personal beliefs over their children/family are not good parents. Tolerance is not the same thing as "going along with it"
I can't understand it when people say that God hates gays. I'm pretty damn sure that God doesn't hate anyone and if he did he'd been the one to judge...not you! Just let God sort it out. That's part of his job anyway.
thank you for putting this up. this scene represents my fears to the dot. it is my nightmare and it is something i am unable to explain through words. but grey's did an amazing job writing this scene out and i don't need words to explain my nightmare anymore. i am 18 and still in the closet and this...is my nightmare everyday
It might be devastating to not see your child in heaven. But what’s even more devastating, what is soul crushing, is being on one path. A path of acceptance, love, and family, and have the rest of the world trying to force you into another. A path of hate, discrimination, and hypocrisy. What’s devastating is being who you are and having the world lash out at you for it.
Man poor Callie. I mean the mom is wrong! She could of held the child. If she doesnt accept Arizona thats fine she doesnt have too. But don't treat your granddaughter like that. Its not the babies fault!
I can't picture myself (a lesbian) getting married and inviting my mom, because she would NEVER say this to me but I would know that she was thinking it inside. And that would hurt badly enough.
I can understand her not wanting to go because she doesn't like Arionza but not going because you don't support gays getting married. This is your daughter even if you don't support this marriage you support her. And This women really refuse to old her granddaughter because she was born out of wedlock. What kind of religious person is this women?
Why Did Callie,s Mother Bother Coming To Something She Is Against In The First Place . Because It Certainly Wasnt To Support Callie . Been Better If She Had Not Bothered Coming In The First Place .
"What bothers you more my bastard child or my lesbian fiancé?" This may be one of my favourite Callie quotes.
Callie deserved so much better 😭
At least her dad changed his tune.
Her father is an exceptionally good man. Homophobic ideals has been drilled into his head for over half a century and he worked to undo that mindset because of the love he had for his daughter. This woman… this woman gave birth to her… and still won’t relent. Not even for her own child. That to me is the definition of evil.
callie is a bride, but her mothers not the mother of a bride because she isnt a mother at all. a mother doesnt treat their child like that.
lola madelein Dude it’s not that she doesn’t love Callie. But when you have parents who believe the world is one way and see their child doing something they see as their downfall, they can’t help but feel unnerved. Many people have to go through that. But it’s because of the love for that child that they begin to act harsh. In their eyes, their child will go to hell. It’s sad but that’s just how we are biological equipped:
@@Mini-Toast_ Callie's mother doesn't get off the hook just because her shitty behavior is motivated by love. OP is right. A mother doesn't treat her child like that, using the faith her daughter has been following and finding strength and comfort in all her life as a weapon because she's marrying another woman.
Callie's mother is so sure that she will end up in heaven. Casting the first stone like she is free of sin. Typical sanctimony.
her own mother couldn't accept her but the extremely catholic Mama O'Malley could
Mama O’Malley raised George, the sweetest human being in that hospital, so it’s no surprise.
@@lucyhartwell2134 True. Momma O'Malley was a true mother.
Keep scrolling for a rant
FIRST OF ALL Callie's mother doesn't even acknowledge that she got in a horrible car accident and almost died. Along with her baby. But yet her mother did not visit her during her 3 MONTH period of being in the hospital, nor did she even ask anything about it! But once something with Callie involving her love life pops up BAM there's the ignorant mother everyone's come to hate. Callie was so excited for her wedding and showing her mom her veil but she got turned not, not the first time this has happened.
2:02 That sound Callie makes kills me
Sara is so talented.
When her dad did this, Callie lashed out. When her mother, a woman she used to know as a role model based on the whole veil thing, essentially disowned her- Callie can't do anything but be utterly hurt.
Callie's dad did the same thing, but at least he didn't lash out at her grand daughter saying she's a basterd.
Callie’s dad is a good man. He reversed his outdated ways of thinking and unlearned his internalized homophobia for her. Most importantly- he TRIED. He was there for her. He fought for her by fighting against something that had been ingrained into his brain for over half a century. You can tell that his daughter was everything to him. Callie’s mom? I don’t doubt at all that she loved her daughter. But I don’t think she loved her daughter more than she loved herself. And I don’t think she loved Callie unconditionally. Parental conditional love is so damaging, and to me, that makes her ten times worse than anything her father used to be.
@audreymikaelson4973 so if your child does something you don't morally agree with you're supposed to just go along with it? Love doesn't work that way. Her words were harsh but she was true to her beliefs.
@@anthonyanderson9303 parents who choose their own personal beliefs over their children/family are not good parents. Tolerance is not the same thing as "going along with it"
I can't understand it when people say that God hates gays. I'm pretty damn sure that God doesn't hate anyone and if he did he'd been the one to judge...not you! Just let God sort it out. That's part of his job anyway.
My thing is even if they believe your going to hell why does that mean you have to be mean to gays.
She didn't said she hated her, but I get your point.
I wouldn;t have given her any choice in the matter. At the "heaven" remark, I would have asked her to leave.
thank you for putting this up. this scene represents my fears to the dot. it is my nightmare and it is something i am unable to explain through words. but grey's did an amazing job writing this scene out and i don't need words to explain my nightmare anymore. i am 18 and still in the closet and this...is my nightmare everyday
bunnydust1 I hope your nightmare didn't become a reality, if it did I'm sorry.
I hope you are in a good place now - with yourself and your family
I will never understand parents that don't support their child when they're just trying to be happy
It might be devastating to not see your child in heaven. But what’s even more devastating, what is soul crushing, is being on one path. A path of acceptance, love, and family, and have the rest of the world trying to force you into another. A path of hate, discrimination, and hypocrisy. What’s devastating is being who you are and having the world lash out at you for it.
I always storm out of church when someone belittles and talks down on gay couples and marriage acting as if they are the voice of god.
1:33 break my heart
Eu queria uma Callie dessa na minha vida! Tão Carinhosa compreensiva tão amiga♥♥♥
Scenes like this always make me teary eyed. I can handle most death scenes but anything to do with homophobia gets me
People who think god doesnt love gay people are insane. God loves love. He made love.
Man poor Callie. I mean the mom is wrong! She could of held the child. If she doesnt accept Arizona thats fine she doesnt have too. But don't treat your granddaughter like that. Its not the babies fault!
I can't picture myself (a lesbian) getting married and inviting my mom, because she would NEVER say this to me but I would know that she was thinking it inside. And that would hurt badly enough.
I can understand her not wanting to go because she doesn't like Arionza but not going because you don't support gays getting married. This is your daughter even if you don't support this marriage you support her. And This women really refuse to old her granddaughter because she was born out of wedlock. What kind of religious person is this women?
I think her mom is overreacting and angry. She seems lovely
In this scene, i see only one humain being : Calliope. The other is a living creature NOT part of mankind.
She didn't have to behave like that..
You mean callie's mom...?
Are you anti LGBT ?
@@gargouenzene I don't agree with lgbt but also I don't think callie's mom should have gone about it like that
@@akilahlashley1481 Callie's mom is a monster. And i hated her dad until he accepted Arizona.
Its true shes not a bride tho. Coz theres no groom😂🤣 . Its madness, thats wat mom is saying. If u r reasonable ull get it.
They don't wanna hear that tho. God's word is very clear on this.
I get it
É tão triste quê essa seja a realidade de nós lgbts
Accept not accost
I hate parents like this.
Why Did Callie,s Mother Bother Coming To Something She Is Against In The First Place . Because It Certainly Wasnt To Support Callie . Been Better If She Had Not
Bothered Coming In The First Place .
You can’t do this to Callie
While I agree with Callie's mom she should be there for her daughter.