One thing that’s such a turn off/ red flag is when a guy tries to get a pity date from you. It’s when he says “oh you won’t go out with me because you probably think I’m ugly.” “You don’t respond to me because you think I’m annoying.” They say this so you feel bad. At this point when a guy does this I just agree. “Yeah, I do think your ugly.”
I have a question about Korean men, I have noticed that that they don't have much body hair, like on their legs, arms, chest... Is this common or do they remove it?
That "why aren't you texting me" one would probably irritate me. I don't like being on my phone all the time and I work so I'm use to not talking to people all day. I would probably have to talk to the guy if they did that lol
Dating while I lived in China and South Korea was not for me because I don't like clinginess to begin with. The "why aren't you texting me back?" thing got old fast. And to give you some context, most times not even 5 minutes had gone by *sigh* The men living at home topic depends on many variables. I've met men who used the "I'm taking care of my parents" spiel but their parents were perfectly able-bodied so it didn't add up. If there's a plan set (i.e. living with parents for 6 months to save up) it's different, but some people will use that story when they've moved back to their parents for 3+ years.
Living with your parents beyond college age is not common in some western countries. In some cultures by age 25 you should have a job, have your own place & be living completely independent of your parents. That’s why it’s seen as a red flag.
I'm from NZ but I've lived in Australia and the UK. In my experience, in all of those countries, parents expect you to go to university and "flat" or "room" with people your own age. If not, parents will charge you rent/board once you turn 18 (this is true in all 3 countries, when the main language is English in the household and/or the family is "anglo").
@@frankiefavero1666 Yeah that's the case in the UK. For people born in the early 1980s and before getting a job and moving out at 16yrs old old was common. I was born in 1988 and one or two of my friends moved out of their family home at 16yrs old, had jobs, and were fully independent at that age. i lived with my mum until i was 24yrs old, and that was seen as bordering on kind of too old to be living at home with the parents. I was so happy to move out though as my mum allowed my prick cousin to move-in with us and he was bullying me, he love-bombed everyone then turned on them, did that to me, like ''oh couz i love you, we're best friends'' etc, then turned everyone in the house against me and bullyed me, pos.
Not sure about Annie’s first red flag about nationality. I grew up in a black area of Chicago. Literally no Asian people. However, I have always been attracted to Asian men. I don’t think it’s a fetish bc they didn’t have any around them but they are attracted to them. Also, my ex who was Indian only dated black women. It’s just what he’s attracted to. I think we need to be careful to always call something a fetish.
This!! I am a chicagoan myself and the amount of girls I've met who like Asian men but afraid to say it because they dont want it to be seen as a fetish. I grew up watching asian movies because of my dad and then they started moving into my neighborhood so I generally grew an genuine interest but even I keep it to myself
@@sunnni_ My brother was older than me and I’m about to tell my age but … lol… Bruce Lee was my first crush because he watched all the movies. I don’t hide my love for Asian culture or my attraction to the men. I am also interested in Latin, Indian, and Turkish culture. I love learning about other people and their cultures. Yes I think Asian men are really attractive and Asian women are beautiful. Is it a fetish? Nope. I’m just attracted to who I’m attracted to. I don’t date but if I did I would date whomever I loved and treats me well. I’m not going oh you’re not Asian so that’s a no for me. 🤣
@@shaygreene2473 yesss!!! Exactly! I never seek out an Asian man. Im attracted to a variety of men. As long he has the values & attributes I look for and fine. Im good lol
And Kelsey, we have motels. We just don’t call them love motels. However, we consider them to be sleazy if the are by the hour or block time motels. We have them. We just don’t call them that.
I like it when guys are clingy I hate American dating especially the talking stage like just make me your gf what talk to other girls your wasting my time
A guy living with his parents is a red flag, cz stereotypically a guy is living in "hotel Mama", meaning he doesn't become independent, just moves from his monmy to the next female person to take of him. Nobody wants a child as partner.
What about west Indian. You ever dated a west Indian. They are nice men. West Indian food and a black guy what about them. They are nice men too.😊 Much love towards you guys muah❤.
Regarding number 1) It's really not that deep, people can like what they like and should not be judged for their 'dating preferences', regardless of where their preference originates from. The fact that you made this video about 'dating red flags' shows that you also have preferences, so in reality you are not much different from the guys/girls who have their own dating preference.
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One thing that’s such a turn off/ red flag is when a guy tries to get a pity date from you. It’s when he says “oh you won’t go out with me because you probably think I’m ugly.” “You don’t respond to me because you think I’m annoying.”
They say this so you feel bad.
At this point when a guy does this I just agree. “Yeah, I do think your ugly.”
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Literally!! The “nice guys” always do that😭✋🏽
You would go out with me because I'm a 10. KDM 🌹
I am LITERALLY disintegrating from all the red flags I have to keep up with😵 i cant😵😵😵
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I have a question about Korean men, I have noticed that that they don't have much body hair, like on their legs, arms, chest... Is this common or do they remove it?
Gotta stay away from red flag zones. 😉
Stay away from the fetishizers….🤮🤢 you never know what kind of stuff they are thinking about you only because of your “race”.
That "why aren't you texting me" one would probably irritate me. I don't like being on my phone all the time and I work so I'm use to not talking to people all day. I would probably have to talk to the guy if they did that lol
I just love you two. It's like girlie time at the pub but without the ale....cos you don't need it lol.
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This is the only collab i need in this world!! I was so happy when i saw this!!
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Love these types of videos. You and Kelsey have the best vibes together. ❤️
It was so much fun filming together ✨
Dating while I lived in China and South Korea was not for me because I don't like clinginess to begin with. The "why aren't you texting me back?" thing got old fast. And to give you some context, most times not even 5 minutes had gone by *sigh*
The men living at home topic depends on many variables. I've met men who used the "I'm taking care of my parents" spiel but their parents were perfectly able-bodied so it didn't add up. If there's a plan set (i.e. living with parents for 6 months to save up) it's different, but some people will use that story when they've moved back to their parents for 3+ years.
Living with your parents beyond college age is not common in some western countries. In some cultures by age 25 you should have a job, have your own place & be living completely independent of your parents. That’s why it’s seen as a red flag.
I'm from NZ but I've lived in Australia and the UK. In my experience, in all of those countries, parents expect you to go to university and "flat" or "room" with people your own age. If not, parents will charge you rent/board once you turn 18 (this is true in all 3 countries, when the main language is English in the household and/or the family is "anglo").
@@frankiefavero1666 Yeah that's the case in the UK. For people born in the early 1980s and before getting a job and moving out at 16yrs old old was common. I was born in 1988 and one or two of my friends moved out of their family home at 16yrs old, had jobs, and were fully independent at that age. i lived with my mum until i was 24yrs old, and that was seen as bordering on kind of too old to be living at home with the parents. I was so happy to move out though as my mum allowed my prick cousin to move-in with us and he was bullying me, he love-bombed everyone then turned on them, did that to me, like ''oh couz i love you, we're best friends'' etc, then turned everyone in the house against me and bullyed me, pos.
Kelsey just over there have a crisis episode
Not sure about Annie’s first red flag about nationality. I grew up in a black area of Chicago. Literally no Asian people. However, I have always been attracted to Asian men. I don’t think it’s a fetish bc they didn’t have any around them but they are attracted to them. Also, my ex who was Indian only dated black women. It’s just what he’s attracted to. I think we need to be careful to always call something a fetish.
This!! I am a chicagoan myself and the amount of girls I've met who like Asian men but afraid to say it because they dont want it to be seen as a fetish. I grew up watching asian movies because of my dad and then they started moving into my neighborhood so I generally grew an genuine interest but even I keep it to myself
@@sunnni_ My brother was older than me and I’m about to tell my age but … lol… Bruce Lee was my first crush because he watched all the movies. I don’t hide my love for Asian culture or my attraction to the men. I am also interested in Latin, Indian, and Turkish culture. I love learning about other people and their cultures. Yes I think Asian men are really attractive and Asian women are beautiful. Is it a fetish? Nope. I’m just attracted to who I’m attracted to. I don’t date but if I did I would date whomever I loved and treats me well. I’m not going oh you’re not Asian so that’s a no for me. 🤣
@@shaygreene2473 yesss!!! Exactly! I never seek out an Asian man. Im attracted to a variety of men. As long he has the values & attributes I look for and fine. Im good lol
red flags aside... Annie's lash extensions are majestic💖
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I love you two together 😍😍😍
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And Kelsey, we have motels. We just don’t call them love motels. However, we consider them to be sleazy if the are by the hour or block time motels. We have them. We just don’t call them that.
And we don’t like to use those motels if at all possible. Most by the hour motels are used for prostitution.
U guys need to do more videos together i love both of u and follow both of u 💕🤍and happy new year girls wish u the best✨💕💕
We filmed a bunch of videos that day so there’s more coming 🤍🤍
@@annienova that's exitingggg
and I think ppl are getting pissed cz when you generalize it's a comparison between 1 country and 2 continents with multiple different cultures.
I like it when guys are clingy I hate American dating especially the talking stage like just make me your gf what talk to other girls your wasting my time
Thank God I don't wanna date anyone. I sowed my oats safely. I'm ready for the next level of my life.
A guy living with his parents is a red flag, cz stereotypically a guy is living in "hotel Mama", meaning he doesn't become independent, just moves from his monmy to the next female person to take of him. Nobody wants a child as partner.
What about west Indian. You ever dated a west Indian. They are nice men. West Indian food and a black guy what about them. They are nice men too.😊 Much love towards you guys muah❤.
Nice video, have you still heard from MJ?
Yes she’s okay!
@@annienovaThank you. Please tell her we miss her, she is an inspiration to many of us
You’re so wrong. My daughter is 27 , h as a boyfriend and lives still at her parents place. Main reason - to s ave money
Hey Annie great video, I'm looking to start a RUclips channel and would really love to see your vlog setup, camera, microphone etc. Thanks
Regarding number 1) It's really not that deep, people can like what they like and should not be judged for their 'dating preferences', regardless of where their preference originates from. The fact that you made this video about 'dating red flags' shows that you also have preferences, so in reality you are not much different from the guys/girls who have their own dating preference.
Are you sure You are a green flag for the Korean guys?