@@TheDivineShiver I've got a story. and also maybe need a bit of advice. so I had the best boyfriend ever. he literally didn't look at any girls, was eyes for me only and I could genuinely see that. But because of my beliefs about men in general I always checked his history constantly, distrusted him, and monitored ever one of his move. I knew I wouldn't find anything but I kept going at it constantly. I kept overthinking, thinking that this was too good to be true. until recently.. I acc did find something in his history which shocked me because he really wasn't that type of person. he talked bad against cheating men and genuinely was head over heels for me. so when I saw what I saw in his history I was GUTTED. I screamed, cried, did everything you can imagine i did. but after calming down I genuinely realised... did I materialize this? because he wasn't like this. and he promised me he still isn't. his exact words were " I genuinely don't know what got into me". That made me realise if we can manifest the impossible in a positive way.. then the constant fears doubts and worries that we trully invest in emotionally can maybe also cause a good person person to do something that they usually wouldn't do? therefore materializing 'impossible' outcomes in a 'negative' way too?. because for me he genuinely wasn't capable of looking at girls in another way, even my friends would tell me how loyal and in love with me he is, he didn't follow girls, didn't know girls just kept to himself and me.. but idk why I kept distrusting. I want to recreate him back how we were. and I want to get the traumatic search history I saw out my brain , and everytime I get angry at him thinking "how could you do this"... maybe I should realise... he wouldn't have done it if i didn't constantly indulge in the fear and knowing that he will do that? am I right?
@@TheDivineShiver I've got a story. and also maybe need a bit of advice. so I had the best boyfriend ever. he literally didn't look at any girls, was eyes for me only and I could genuinely see that. But because of my beliefs about men in general I always checked his history constantly, distrusted him, and monitored ever one of his move. I knew I wouldn't find anything but I kept going at it constantly. I kept overthinking, thinking that this was too good to be true. until recently.. I acc did find something in his history which shocked me because he really wasn't that type of person. he talked bad against cheating men and genuinely was head over heels for me. so when I saw what I saw in his history I was GUTTED. I screamed, cried, did everything you can imagine i did. but after calming down I genuinely realised... did I materialize this? because he wasn't like this. and he promised me he still isn't. his exact words were " I genuinely don't know what got into me". That made me realise if we can manifest the impossible in a positive way.. then the constant fears doubts and worries that we trully invest in emotionally can maybe also cause a good person person to do something that they usually wouldn't do? therefore materializing 'impossible' outcomes in a 'negative' way too?. because for me he genuinely wasn't capable of looking at girls in another way, even my friends would tell me how loyal and in love with me he is, he didn't follow girls, didn't know girls just kept to himself and me.. but idk why I kept distrusting. I want to recreate him back how we were. and I want to get the traumatic search history I saw out my brain , and everytime I get angry at him thinking "how could you do this"... maybe I should realise... he wouldn't have done it if i didn't constantly indulge in the fear and knowing that he will do that? am I right?
I have been affirming that men are faithful, honest and trustworthy over and over...I can't stress how the old story I had about men showed up in every one of them. It truly makes you realize that your thoughts and how you operate do hold the power of how people show up in your life. So if I can assume negative so easily, I can assume positive thoughts even faster because I am worth having an amazing life!!!
I've got a story. and also maybe need a bit of advice. so I had the best boyfriend ever. he literally didn't look at any girls, was eyes for me only and I could genuinely see that. But because of my beliefs about men in general I always checked his history constantly, distrusted him, and monitored ever one of his move. I knew I wouldn't find anything but I kept going at it constantly. I kept overthinking, thinking that this was too good to be true. until recently.. I acc did find something in his history which shocked me because he really wasn't that type of person. he talked bad against cheating men and genuinely was head over heels for me. so when I saw what I saw in his history I was GUTTED. I screamed, cried, did everything you can imagine i did. but after calming down I genuinely realised... did I materialize this? because he wasn't like this. and he promised me he still isn't. his exact words were " I genuinely don't know what got into me". That made me realise if we can manifest the impossible in a positive way.. then the constant fears doubts and worries that we trully invest in emotionally can maybe also cause a good person person to do something that they usually wouldn't do? therefore materializing 'impossible' outcomes in a 'negative' way too?. because for me he genuinely wasn't capable of looking at girls in another way, even my friends would tell me how loyal and in love with me he is, he didn't follow girls, didn't know girls just kept to himself and me.. but idk why I kept distrusting. I want to recreate him back how we were. and I want to get the traumatic search history I saw out my brain , and everytime I get angry at him thinking "how could you do this"... maybe I should realise... he wouldn't have done it if i didn't constantly indulge in the fear and knowing that he will do that? am I right?
Crazy how it starts getting real from 11:11, everything from that point resonates so much. Especially the part about not overdoing things (going to the gym 24/7) but creating a healthy but consistent pattern of intentional actions and believing that they will achieve the desired results.
Literally was spiraling earlier because I was like I have to change to be the type of person capable of having what I want, but you reminded me that working on my mindset right now is enough because it's a ripple effect. Thank you, Dylan! I just gotta chill and trust the process!
Applied for a new job and got rejected today. Felt quite disappointed for a couple of minutes but then remembered that it’s because it’s probably not right for me anyway if they don’t see my value and worth. Then checked some reviews by ex employees and seems like I would’ve gotten into the same stressful, toxic rabbit hole as in my current job. Now I’m just focussing on my own energy instead of thinking about stuff outside of me, have lit some candles and am just chilling now. There’s nothing to change, fix, push or force or ”try to manifest.“ I‘m the magnet, I don’t chase but attract and I’ll let things come to me 💅🏼💁🏼♀️
He saves my life in reminders. Guys this works have called in ex's several times over ... have created wealth and rags. We are so powerful but we need to be stable and not get wonky once there. My problem is I can't seem to maintain like I used to do, cause of some really bad things that have occurred in my life, all of which again I CREATED through every little belief and choice. But we are all so powerful like wizards.
Damn dylan, just what I wanted, since the past two days I have been so restless and having a difficult time with my thoughts and circumstances, questioning myself and getting stuck on why did it happen. And lo! Your video popped up. Thank you so much❤ , I am so grateful to you and all your content, your teachings, the positivity you radiate and the kindness. Thank you so much! You are a blessing for so many of us here. Thank you ❤
This is so helpful! I feel like I’ve turned it into a full time job, listening to affirmations all day when I can, not focusing on my actual job as much, listening to: reading so much content
Just think about it, it makes so much sense to see it this way :) when we are children we want mothers and parents to affirm what we're capable of. We get soft inside when we hear encouraging beliefs being instilled in a child because on some level we all deeply know that our beliefs truly form a good life and confidence in oneself. Children who grow up encouraged tend to handle lifes difficulty with more ease and get up faster after being knocked down. We all have this. But as adults we must nurture ourselves, be the parent we didnt have. In practicality and belief. ❤
Ugh, I sllipped up this week. I got caught up in the belief that my is an avoidant and started watching videos on that. Which I feel like pushed him away further. We broke up about 5 weeks ago, but have been trying to stay friends. He has still been reaching out to me almost daily.... unitl I went down this avoidant rabbit hole. Haven't heard from him in two days now. Back to changing me. Thanks, Dylan.
Your short daily meditations have been helping me with this recently. 🙌🏻✨ I want to commit to change my beliefs. So now when those thoughts I've had my entire life come to make me feel horrible I listen to the meditations to make me think differently for as long as I can. Even if I'm doing it one step at a time, I'm trying to only move forward. Thank you Dylan. ❤️🙏🏻
Feels important to point out: The idea that “you are not your thoughts” are representative not of the individual not having anything to do with them but recognizing them as an illusion and not by themselves and experience. Kind of an important aspect of mental health recovery for OCD, depression, anxiety and more. Highly recommend reevaluating this statement. Peace and love!
Your thoughts are an instant manifestation of your beliefs and all the experiences you’ve had up to this point. They come from inside your mind, which means they are you. You can choose to dismiss certain thoughts or place low value on them, but the originating source of your thoughts IS you - they are you or an extension of your consciousness / mindset. They’re there for a reason, the moment you release ownership of them then you lose the power to really change it or discern “why”. No no. Discern them. Why am I thinking this? What do I believe that is causing these thoughts to consistently materialize?
Yeah I really was making it a full time job and making manifestation my identity. I was letting the intrusive thoughts get to me. This helped me see what I was still doing. I needed this thanks daddy ❤
Our thoughts matter, absolutely! It's imperative that we practice adjusting them accordingly. The definition of "I am not my thoughts" is more of an awareness of our heart and soul in a spiritual aspect. But, yes, to everything you emphasize.
Thank you for this video, I just realized my attention has been on the wrong thing because I didn't fully understand certain concepts properly but before realizing this I always affirmed that I'm always doing everything right, and that I'm on the right path, I also kept seeing 222 and wala!! Here I am. 🎉😅
I need to take a step back. Regain consciousness & stop letting people hurt me. I don't understand why I'm going through a pattern of being treated like shit instead of valued. I have a lot to work on 🙌
I cannot express how very much I Needed to hear EVERY word of this video. Need to rewatch again and again. Just it's packed with information that I need to learn. Things I need to learn to do. Made connections of things for me, gives me better deeper understanding of things. I intend to learn to implement these things! So grateful.
How do "You" have a thought that is not "you"? Where are they coming from? Inside..of..you.. from.. your... beliefs / conditioning. You can begin to no longer identify with them and change your beliefs which will change the thoughts you entertain, and dwell in, but I am not sure how we can say "you are not your thoughts" in the same breath then say "your thoughts and focus create your life". So when they're positive and creating desirably in your life - its you - but when they're negative or uncomfortable its not you? No. It's coming from something inside of you that identifies with that thought. The thought is there for a reason, instead of denying that - discern it and change the root from a non-judgmental place.
It finally clicked for me what the term you are source really means, EVERYTHING is literally coming FROM ME!!!! WOW!!! Powerful sh💩t!!! I’m kinda fucking amazing! 😅
They are wrong is pretty strong statement if we consider that everyone is seeing things from their level of consciousness. You are not your thoughts means you are the energy behind the thoughts. The awareness! The pure energy. The pure being. Not the thinking mind. There is no mind in our heads. That's why we say I am... Everything after it are men made beliefs. You can go deeper by studying Gregg and Bruce Lipton. Thoughts already exists, reality already exists, potencials already exist. Mindset and who we are are 2 different things Even when you say Your beliefs it is something you have, not who you are. Belifs don't exist in nature, only you do.
God, I hate this guilt feeling when I do something good for myself. Like saying no or backing off even resting. I fear that something might happen. It's so constant.
If you go on my instagram and click on the reel with the snake shedding skin, I really talked about this. It’s within the context of friends with benefits but the overall theme is why saying no can feel difficult or “bad” and the perception shifts that go into changing that narrative. It may help give some perspective. @IAm_DylanJames 🫶🏼
Enjoying dose of Dylan with my morning Coffee ☕btw do we know why we are our beliefs? It's genius its created that way and the more i understand the mechanism of creation, the more im in awe but also like ... ummmm why/how/are we the guinea pigs👽
Hey Dylan thank you for the example ❤️ also can you make a short meditation for the healthy social life and popularity one? Easily making friends, being confident in yourself, how you speak and maintaining good conversations?
Dylan how do you manage working on multiple areas of life at once? Should i work on one at a time or can you work on changing beliefs in multiple areas at a time? This is something I really struggle with.. like can i listen to 2 night time tracks and alternate and during day work on say 2 areas? Any clarity around this would be appreciated ❤
This is what I needed today, I spiraled and I don't know how to put the thought of someone treating me a way because I haven't had a normal experience with anyone sp-wise, so how do I do THAT even if I don't have a memory of any like that with a sp ? Do you have a self concept for mindset and sp self concept belief/thoughts to the core beliefs 😊
Once u know how u deserve to be treated it doesn't matter how many times u been treated badly ur knowing that u deserve better should change the pattern and so if any sp treats you badly in the furure ul be like nah I'm worth more than that be willing to walk away and u will focus on itself more which in turn will cause the sp to give u the respect u deserve.
Can you do a video on manifesting with limerence? You touched upon it briefly in the very end of one of your video titled "Start HERE: Don't Know How To Approach Mindset? Let's Go Over Basic's".
should i really pursue a relationship with an sp that constantly lied to me? not sure but i still want to be with him but finding it so hard to persist that they’ll change
I have a question… If i demand my desires, is it also the same as changing my mindset and belief about a situation? For example if I say: “He will be more consistent in his communication, showing me affection etc. “ So demanding what you want in your mind? Or does it have to come from you e.g. “ im worthy of consistent communication etc.”
Ok, but what if you never had a boyfriend? "Getting commitment is a normal experience for me", like how is that going to happen if I don't know any guys? Is he going to show up out of thin air?
Honestly everything is going down hill like I liked this guy he would treat me good and amazing but it would be on and off and it wasn’t consistent now I find out he has another girl I don’t know what it is about me that I get the attention but the relationship feels like it won’t happen for me. Anyone else relate
Hello Dylan, first of all I'm super grateful for what you do and thank you Secondly I want to make a request that I'm suffering from multiple lung disease (cystic bronchiectasis and fibrosis) and it's really difficult to be in that "state of being". It's a specific request but if you can please help me.
My self esteem is low and I have been trying my best to work on them but I spiral alot there are so much negative beliefs I have about myself and I am here wondering when will it end. I am getting more depressed with alot of suicidal thoughs.
I'm curious, what if other people's manifestation contradicts you own manifestation does it clash and who would overpowered? Like for example a family member has a negative manifestation unconsciously and you have a positive manifestation does it clash?
I need HELP.. I'm attracted to a guy who is divorcee single parent, he says he is emotionally unavailable open for only physical relation nothing beyond that. And I really seem to be attracted to the father in him who is kind loving caring and I've experienced his caring side too ( I would really like if he becomes my life partner ) How should I apply law in my situation ( Somewhere in my mind I feel like I'm kind of attracting emotionally unavailable Men bcuz I didn't get attention affection care from my father hence I'm attracted to him. ) How do I change my assumption about this Man and make him emotionally available for me
Did you listen to the video? It has nothing to do with him. It’s beliefs you hold about yourself and concepts in your life. Being attracted to emotionally available men and being able to create sustainable relationships where people grow with you & open up to you in ways they don’t open up to other people. Start getting those beliefs ingrained. How you operate around him will completely change.
@@IAm_DylanJames Thank You so much Daddy Dylan, I really needed some advice I think I was desparate to get my answers .. listening to your video now. ❤️🙏😊 I appreciate your reply.
I was just going to say the same thing: watch the video, mindset is the game changer, it underpins all your assumptions and you will feel so so so much better!!! Listen to this video again and again 💗💗
Hi Dylan I’ve been practicing positive affirmations for a couple of days and I really do feel their positive effects on me. Are you saying that by persisting with only the positive affirmations, I can start manifesting what I want? Thanks for clarifying 💋 love
I've been thinking positively for years, manifesting, working on self-concept and love...but nothing is working with my SP. For 4 years I've only received hot and cold behavior from him. It hurts, but I'm letting him go on every level now. He's still the only one I want and can see myself with, but you can only manifest and affirm for so long before giving up. I hope he enjoys that "greener" grass. I'm done.
ruclips.net/video/ncV4277o9b0/видео.html You're trying to change him, guaranteed, and you're waiting for him to change instead of being like fk this and knowing what you deserve / shamelessly stepping into that and letting him chase / pursue you. Thinking positive is great but stepping fully into a self-recognized version of you is the point of the teaching: being the change, fully.
@IAm_DylanJames I can vouch for this. I recently let my SP go and was open to someone new to come along.. well soon enough in 2 weeks another guy comes..but same issues with him within 2 days him saying he's not ready for a commitment and is not sure about it blah blah blah.. so eventually I've come to realize is that it was never about my Specific Person to start with.. affirming for him solely only brought hot and cold results..and I couldn't keep up with the affirming every day..as soon as I would stop the affirming he would go cold again. So now eventually I think I'm ready to work on myself now after wasting like 3 yrs😢
if i’m manifesting a specific thing, do i have to believe that i already have it even if i don’t see it in my 3d, or do i have to believe that i WILL have it? it’s way easier for me to believe that i will have it, but maybe it just keeps placing it in the future
Sammy Ingram posted a video on how self concept doesn’t matter when manifesting desired experiences 😵💫 I like her for the most part but that’s just straight up false. It’s the root of getting what we want and sustaining.
“i’m deserving of committed relationships” “i literally only attract men/women who want to form committed relationships” “everyone sees me as someone worthy of committed relationships and refuse to waste my time” “focusing on myself and remaining true in my identity as someone who deserves (or only receives) the best is the only thing i care about” just other options i quickly thought of that align with what dylan is speaking about. i think the key is staying aware of your inner narrative/thoughts, dissecting why you would think “unfavorable thoughts” and doing the subconscious work needed to change your narrative/thoughts (ex affirmation tapes)
If you identify as someone that normally gets commitment you aren’t going to find yourself negatively attached or anticipating someone won’t commit to you. It’ll be a normalized experience. So if someone tries to treat you in noncommittal ways you won’t care, because you already hold that identity. You’ll entertain others, you won’t place them on a pedestal, you’ll let them pursue you/chase you and will hold an inner knowing that YOU get commitment. That can translate as not caring if they do or don’t but what really brings it in is true identification. It’s not pretending that you don’t care, and playing games, it’s genuine assumption of that version of you. Which has no desperation, no chasing, no need to react or force anything. You’re already self recognized.
Fear is the absence of TRUST.
Embody the beliefs and know who you are..
It’s normal for you babe 😘
Does anyone get the sense of all is well while shifting identity?
Fear is not the absence of trust, fear is in fact trusting 100% that something you do not want is most likely to occur
@@TheDivineShiver I've got a story. and also maybe need a bit of advice. so I had the best boyfriend ever. he literally didn't look at any girls, was eyes for me only and I could genuinely see that. But because of my beliefs about men in general I always checked his history constantly, distrusted him, and monitored ever one of his move. I knew I wouldn't find anything but I kept going at it constantly. I kept overthinking, thinking that this was too good to be true. until recently.. I acc did find something in his history which shocked me because he really wasn't that type of person. he talked bad against cheating men and genuinely was head over heels for me. so when I saw what I saw in his history I was GUTTED. I screamed, cried, did everything you can imagine i did. but after calming down I genuinely realised... did I materialize this? because he wasn't like this. and he promised me he still isn't. his exact words were " I genuinely don't know what got into me". That made me realise if we can manifest the impossible in a positive way.. then the constant fears doubts and worries that we trully invest in emotionally can maybe also cause a good person person to do something that they usually wouldn't do? therefore materializing 'impossible' outcomes in a 'negative' way too?. because for me he genuinely wasn't capable of looking at girls in another way, even my friends would tell me how loyal and in love with me he is, he didn't follow girls, didn't know girls just kept to himself and me.. but idk why I kept distrusting. I want to recreate him back how we were. and I want to get the traumatic search history I saw out my brain , and everytime I get angry at him thinking "how could you do this"... maybe I should realise... he wouldn't have done it if i didn't constantly indulge in the fear and knowing that he will do that? am I right?
@@TheDivineShiver I've got a story. and also maybe need a bit of advice. so I had the best boyfriend ever. he literally didn't look at any girls, was eyes for me only and I could genuinely see that. But because of my beliefs about men in general I always checked his history constantly, distrusted him, and monitored ever one of his move. I knew I wouldn't find anything but I kept going at it constantly. I kept overthinking, thinking that this was too good to be true. until recently.. I acc did find something in his history which shocked me because he really wasn't that type of person. he talked bad against cheating men and genuinely was head over heels for me. so when I saw what I saw in his history I was GUTTED. I screamed, cried, did everything you can imagine i did. but after calming down I genuinely realised... did I materialize this? because he wasn't like this. and he promised me he still isn't. his exact words were " I genuinely don't know what got into me". That made me realise if we can manifest the impossible in a positive way.. then the constant fears doubts and worries that we trully invest in emotionally can maybe also cause a good person person to do something that they usually wouldn't do? therefore materializing 'impossible' outcomes in a 'negative' way too?. because for me he genuinely wasn't capable of looking at girls in another way, even my friends would tell me how loyal and in love with me he is, he didn't follow girls, didn't know girls just kept to himself and me.. but idk why I kept distrusting. I want to recreate him back how we were. and I want to get the traumatic search history I saw out my brain , and everytime I get angry at him thinking "how could you do this"... maybe I should realise... he wouldn't have done it if i didn't constantly indulge in the fear and knowing that he will do that? am I right?
I have been affirming that men are faithful, honest and trustworthy over and over...I can't stress how the old story I had about men showed up in every one of them. It truly makes you realize that your thoughts and how you operate do hold the power of how people show up in your life. So if I can assume negative so easily, I can assume positive thoughts even faster because I am worth having an amazing life!!!
Same here. I’ve stopped watching videos about how men are trash etc.. I will not allow that to show up in my life
I've got a story. and also maybe need a bit of advice. so I had the best boyfriend ever. he literally didn't look at any girls, was eyes for me only and I could genuinely see that. But because of my beliefs about men in general I always checked his history constantly, distrusted him, and monitored ever one of his move. I knew I wouldn't find anything but I kept going at it constantly. I kept overthinking, thinking that this was too good to be true. until recently.. I acc did find something in his history which shocked me because he really wasn't that type of person. he talked bad against cheating men and genuinely was head over heels for me. so when I saw what I saw in his history I was GUTTED. I screamed, cried, did everything you can imagine i did. but after calming down I genuinely realised... did I materialize this? because he wasn't like this. and he promised me he still isn't. his exact words were " I genuinely don't know what got into me". That made me realise if we can manifest the impossible in a positive way.. then the constant fears doubts and worries that we trully invest in emotionally can maybe also cause a good person person to do something that they usually wouldn't do? therefore materializing 'impossible' outcomes in a 'negative' way too?. because for me he genuinely wasn't capable of looking at girls in another way, even my friends would tell me how loyal and in love with me he is, he didn't follow girls, didn't know girls just kept to himself and me.. but idk why I kept distrusting. I want to recreate him back how we were. and I want to get the traumatic search history I saw out my brain , and everytime I get angry at him thinking "how could you do this"... maybe I should realise... he wouldn't have done it if i didn't constantly indulge in the fear and knowing that he will do that? am I right?
@@crabclaws12345what you found in his history?
keep persisting guys, we uppppp✨
I read we poop 😂
I did too til i reread the post. 😂😂….i guess that just shows where our default settings are 😩🤣
100% i was thinking the same thing hahahah@@storm4515
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Crazy how it starts getting real from 11:11, everything from that point resonates so much. Especially the part about not overdoing things (going to the gym 24/7) but creating a healthy but consistent pattern of intentional actions and believing that they will achieve the desired results.
Literally was spiraling earlier because I was like I have to change to be the type of person capable of having what I want, but you reminded me that working on my mindset right now is enough because it's a ripple effect. Thank you, Dylan! I just gotta chill and trust the process!
U got it !!
Applied for a new job and got rejected today. Felt quite disappointed for a couple of minutes but then remembered that it’s because it’s probably not right for me anyway if they don’t see my value and worth. Then checked some reviews by ex employees and seems like I would’ve gotten into the same stressful, toxic rabbit hole as in my current job.
Now I’m just focussing on my own energy instead of thinking about stuff outside of me, have lit some candles and am just chilling now. There’s nothing to change, fix, push or force or ”try to manifest.“ I‘m the magnet, I don’t chase but attract and I’ll let things come to me 💅🏼💁🏼♀️
He saves my life in reminders. Guys this works have called in ex's several times over ... have created wealth and rags. We are so powerful but we need to be stable and not get wonky once there. My problem is I can't seem to maintain like I used to do, cause of some really bad things that have occurred in my life, all of which again I CREATED through every little belief and choice. But we are all so powerful like wizards.
It is day 5 into my identity shifting journey. Wish me good luck. Thank you Dylan ❤
Damn dylan, just what I wanted, since the past two days I have been so restless and having a difficult time with my thoughts and circumstances, questioning myself and getting stuck on why did it happen. And lo! Your video popped up. Thank you so much❤ , I am so grateful to you and all your content, your teachings, the positivity you radiate and the kindness. Thank you so much! You are a blessing for so many of us here. Thank you ❤
This is so helpful! I feel like I’ve turned it into a full time job, listening to affirmations all day when I can, not focusing on my actual job as much, listening to: reading so much content
Just think about it, it makes so much sense to see it this way :) when we are children we want mothers and parents to affirm what we're capable of. We get soft inside when we hear encouraging beliefs being instilled in a child because on some level we all deeply know that our beliefs truly form a good life and confidence in oneself. Children who grow up encouraged tend to handle lifes difficulty with more ease and get up faster after being knocked down. We all have this. But as adults we must nurture ourselves, be the parent we didnt have. In practicality and belief. ❤
Thoughts are manifestations of belief!
Ugh, I sllipped up this week. I got caught up in the belief that my is an avoidant and started watching videos on that. Which I feel like pushed him away further. We broke up about 5 weeks ago, but have been trying to stay friends. He has still been reaching out to me almost daily.... unitl I went down this avoidant rabbit hole. Haven't heard from him in two days now. Back to changing me. Thanks, Dylan.
Your short daily meditations have been helping me with this recently. 🙌🏻✨
I want to commit to change my beliefs.
So now when those thoughts I've had my entire life come to make me feel horrible I listen to the meditations to make me think differently for as long as I can. Even if I'm doing it one step at a time, I'm trying to only move forward.
Thank you Dylan. ❤️🙏🏻
Feels important to point out:
The idea that “you are not your thoughts” are representative not of the individual not having anything to do with them but recognizing them as an illusion and not by themselves and experience. Kind of an important aspect of mental health recovery for OCD, depression, anxiety and more. Highly recommend reevaluating this statement. Peace and love!
Your thoughts are an instant manifestation of your beliefs and all the experiences you’ve had up to this point. They come from inside your mind, which means they are you. You can choose to dismiss certain thoughts or place low value on them, but the originating source of your thoughts IS you - they are you or an extension of your consciousness / mindset. They’re there for a reason, the moment you release ownership of them then you lose the power to really change it or discern “why”. No no. Discern them. Why am I thinking this? What do I believe that is causing these thoughts to consistently materialize?
I can't say enough how much I appreciate this man, he's always got us 😊
Because of your videos i was able to get better job but now im unhappy. Im back to your videos to level up and i know it will work.
Yeah I really was making it a full time job and making manifestation my identity. I was letting the intrusive thoughts get to me. This helped me see what I was still doing. I needed this thanks daddy ❤
Our thoughts matter, absolutely! It's imperative that we practice adjusting them accordingly. The definition of "I am not my thoughts" is more of an awareness of our heart and soul in a spiritual aspect. But, yes, to everything you emphasize.
Thank you for this video, I just realized my attention has been on the wrong thing because I didn't fully understand certain concepts properly but before realizing this I always affirmed that I'm always doing everything right, and that I'm on the right path, I also kept seeing 222 and wala!! Here I am. 🎉😅
Thankful for all the gems/reminders you drop, we appreciate you Dylan! 💖
You make this so easy to understand- thank you
Love the blue lights 💙
I need to take a step back. Regain consciousness & stop letting people hurt me. I don't understand why I'm going through a pattern of being treated like shit instead of valued. I have a lot to work on 🙌
It’s your own belief
Affirm. Isn't it Wonderful. Everyone treats me with love and respect
I cannot express how very much I Needed to hear EVERY word of this video. Need to rewatch again and again. Just it's packed with information that I need to learn. Things I need to learn to do. Made connections of things for me, gives me better deeper understanding of things. I intend to learn to implement these things! So grateful.
People are not thoughts, but belief in them ❤❤
How do "You" have a thought that is not "you"? Where are they coming from? Inside..of..you.. from.. your... beliefs / conditioning. You can begin to no longer identify with them and change your beliefs which will change the thoughts you entertain, and dwell in, but I am not sure how we can say "you are not your thoughts" in the same breath then say "your thoughts and focus create your life". So when they're positive and creating desirably in your life - its you - but when they're negative or uncomfortable its not you? No. It's coming from something inside of you that identifies with that thought. The thought is there for a reason, instead of denying that - discern it and change the root from a non-judgmental place.
It finally clicked for me what the term you are source really means, EVERYTHING is literally coming FROM ME!!!! WOW!!! Powerful sh💩t!!! I’m kinda fucking amazing! 😅
I hope some day I will change my beliefs because till date my subconscious beliefs are holding me back
Same
Just affirm…. Hope is not a strategy
@@Doubleones-hz5zdThank you. I needed to read that
I wish you had videos in spanish so I could show this to someone in my life that really needs it!! You're so awesome ❤
I love you ! I needed this!!! ❤
You are the best on RUclips
They are wrong is pretty strong statement if we consider that everyone is seeing things from their level of consciousness. You are not your thoughts means you are the energy behind the thoughts. The awareness! The pure energy. The pure being. Not the thinking mind. There is no mind in our heads. That's why we say I am... Everything after it are men made beliefs.
You can go deeper by studying Gregg and Bruce Lipton.
Thoughts already exists, reality already exists, potencials already exist.
Mindset and who we are are 2 different things
Even when you say Your beliefs it is something you have, not who you are. Belifs don't exist in nature, only you do.
But we create our own thoughts and belief systems. How is that wrong? This is just semantics what you're saying, imo.
best advice i think ive ever heard
Thank you Dylan, you are giving us jewels. I absolutely ❤ this!!!
God, I hate this guilt feeling when I do something good for myself. Like saying no or backing off even resting. I fear that something might happen. It's so constant.
If you go on my instagram and click on the reel with the snake shedding skin, I really talked about this. It’s within the context of friends with benefits but the overall theme is why saying no can feel difficult or “bad” and the perception shifts that go into changing that narrative. It may help give some perspective. @IAm_DylanJames 🫶🏼
7:28 this all right here!! Thank you Dylan!!
Needed this today, thank you!
Best video ever!!!
Enjoying dose of Dylan with my morning Coffee ☕btw do we know why we are our beliefs? It's genius its created that way and the more i understand the mechanism of creation, the more im in awe but also like ... ummmm why/how/are we the guinea pigs👽
Hey Dylan thank you for the example ❤️ also can you make a short meditation for the healthy social life and popularity one? Easily making friends, being confident in yourself, how you speak and maintaining good conversations?
Dylan you’re the best ❤
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Dylan how do you manage working on multiple areas of life at once? Should i work on one at a time or can you work on changing beliefs in multiple areas at a time? This is something I really struggle with.. like can i listen to 2 night time tracks and alternate and during day work on say 2 areas? Any clarity around this would be appreciated ❤
You’re so real
Go off daddddyyyy dylll🎉🎉🎉
saw the thumbnail and clicked like before even listening to the video, Dylan you look so good!!!👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👌👌👌👌🔥🔥🔥
Thankyou for this video.
Please post success stories videos of your life, clients or subscribers ❤
Love from India ❤
I love this mannnnn wow ❤️ thank you.
This makes so much sense
You are so awesome
This is what I needed today, I spiraled and I don't know how to put the thought of someone treating me a way because I haven't had a normal experience with anyone sp-wise, so how do I do THAT even if I don't have a memory of any like that with a sp ? Do you have a self concept for mindset and sp self concept belief/thoughts to the core beliefs 😊
Hi, most of Dylan's videos address this, you need to look through them.
Once u know how u deserve to be treated it doesn't matter how many times u been treated badly ur knowing that u deserve better should change the pattern and so if any sp treats you badly in the furure ul be like nah I'm worth more than that be willing to walk away and u will focus on itself more which in turn will cause the sp to give u the respect u deserve.
Love you and forever thankful to you 🫶🏽
Thank you ❤️
Thanks Daddy Dylan... I like ur tattoo btw... 🎉🎉💃🏽
Can you do a video on manifesting with limerence? You touched upon it briefly in the very end of one of your video titled "Start HERE: Don't Know How To Approach Mindset? Let's Go Over Basic's".
Yss feed ne those beliefs ❤
Amazing video !!
Dang😮not that arm on swole 😍 you look amazing ❤❤
should i really pursue a relationship with an sp that constantly lied to me? not sure but i still want to be with him but finding it so hard to persist that they’ll change
Damn 😮not that arm on swole 😍 you look amazing ❤❤
I have a question…
If i demand my desires, is it also the same as changing my mindset and belief about a situation?
For example if I say: “He will be more consistent in his communication, showing me affection etc. “
So demanding what you want in your mind? Or does it have to come from you e.g. “ im worthy of consistent communication etc.”
Love you ❤ thank you ❤
Ok, but what if you never had a boyfriend? "Getting commitment is a normal experience for me", like how is that going to happen if I don't know any guys? Is he going to show up out of thin air?
Honey we want the glasses
Dylan, can you talk one day, about infinite realities? Thanks!
Honestly everything is going down hill like I liked this guy he would treat me good and amazing but it would be on and off and it wasn’t consistent now I find out he has another girl I don’t know what it is about me that I get the attention but the relationship feels like it won’t happen for me. Anyone else relate
Hello Dylan, first of all I'm super grateful for what you do and thank you
Secondly I want to make a request that I'm suffering from multiple lung disease (cystic bronchiectasis and fibrosis) and it's really difficult to be in that "state of being". It's a specific request but if you can please help me.
My self esteem is low and I have been trying my best to work on them but I spiral alot there are so much negative beliefs I have about myself and I am here wondering when will it end. I am getting more depressed with alot of suicidal thoughs.
I'm curious, what if other people's manifestation contradicts you own manifestation does it clash and who would overpowered? Like for example a family member has a negative manifestation unconsciously and you have a positive manifestation does it clash?
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HI Dylan, are you going to open up your one on one coaching again?
Short intentional sessions.. no need to do robotic affirmations to make yourself go crazy 🤪
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I need HELP.. I'm attracted to a guy who is divorcee single parent, he says he is emotionally unavailable open for only physical relation nothing beyond that. And I really seem to be attracted to the father in him who is kind loving caring and I've experienced his caring side too ( I would really like if he becomes my life partner )
How should I apply law in my situation ( Somewhere in my mind I feel like I'm kind of attracting emotionally unavailable Men bcuz I didn't get attention affection care from my father hence I'm attracted to him. ) How do I change my assumption about this Man and make him emotionally available for me
Did you listen to the video? It has nothing to do with him. It’s beliefs you hold about yourself and concepts in your life. Being attracted to emotionally available men and being able to create sustainable relationships where people grow with you & open up to you in ways they don’t open up to other people. Start getting those beliefs ingrained. How you operate around him will completely change.
@@IAm_DylanJames Thank You so much Daddy Dylan, I really needed some advice I think I was desparate to get my answers .. listening to your video now. ❤️🙏😊 I appreciate your reply.
Haha no worries just take a listen I explain 🫶🏼 had me a bit shook you wrote this but it makes sense if you didn’t hear what I had to say yet 😜
I was just going to say the same thing: watch the video, mindset is the game changer, it underpins all your assumptions and you will feel so so so much better!!! Listen to this video again and again 💗💗
@@IAm_DylanJames yeah just saw your notification clicked and before even watching video I wrote my problem to you 😃 ❤️❤️
Hi Dylan
I’ve been practicing positive affirmations for a couple of days and I really do feel their positive effects on me. Are you saying that by persisting with only the positive affirmations, I can start manifesting what I want? Thanks for clarifying 💋 love
It's an important beginning. You may find some mini meditations, directed hypnosis, or other tools to add along the way. Persistence is the key. =)
@@suzetteshares i see. thank you ✨
Where is Apollo? 🐈⬛
Which track resonates the most with what you said? These are the thoughts a friend needs to have and I need to send her that track😂 can someone help
How am I supposed to believe when all my life I have evidence of the opposite.. Even if I meditate and work on myself?
That's where persistence pays off : ) you can do it.
@@IAm_DylanJames
What about if your suspecting cheating ?
wow this is the second vid i see with 111 comments 😊
Does anyone know how to get on the discord? I can't find it anywhere!
I've been thinking positively for years, manifesting, working on self-concept and love...but nothing is working with my SP. For 4 years I've only received hot and cold behavior from him. It hurts, but I'm letting him go on every level now. He's still the only one I want and can see myself with, but you can only manifest and affirm for so long before giving up. I hope he enjoys that "greener" grass. I'm done.
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You're trying to change him, guaranteed, and you're waiting for him to change instead of being like fk this and knowing what you deserve / shamelessly stepping into that and letting him chase / pursue you. Thinking positive is great but stepping fully into a self-recognized version of you is the point of the teaching: being the change, fully.
@IAm_DylanJames I can vouch for this. I recently let my SP go and was open to someone new to come along.. well soon enough in 2 weeks another guy comes..but same issues with him within 2 days him saying he's not ready for a commitment and is not sure about it blah blah blah.. so eventually I've come to realize is that it was never about my Specific Person to start with.. affirming for him solely only brought hot and cold results..and I couldn't keep up with the affirming every day..as soon as I would stop the affirming he would go cold again.
So now eventually I think I'm ready to work on myself now after wasting like 3 yrs😢
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if i’m manifesting a specific thing, do i have to believe that i already have it even if i don’t see it in my 3d, or do i have to believe that i WILL have it? it’s way easier for me to believe that i will have it, but maybe it just keeps placing it in the future
Focus more on becoming someone where believing you will / do have it is normal. Results are a byproduct of who you identify as.
Affirm robotically
Sammy Ingram posted a video on how self concept doesn’t matter when manifesting desired experiences 😵💫 I like her for the most part but that’s just straight up false. It’s the root of getting what we want and sustaining.
She said it does matter. Her self concept videos are awesome 😎
She said decide what you want, affirm as much as possible, and persist til it shows up.
What about commitment, messages, attraction, persuing... but no dates? Wtf
What is the awareness and the belief?
But is it “they will form a committed relationship with me” or is “I don’t care if they do or not” that brings them in?
“i’m deserving of committed relationships”
“i literally only attract men/women who want to form committed relationships”
“everyone sees me as someone worthy of committed relationships and refuse to waste my time”
“focusing on myself and remaining true in my identity as someone who deserves (or only receives) the best is the only thing i care about”
just other options i quickly thought of that align with what dylan is speaking about. i think the key is staying aware of your inner narrative/thoughts, dissecting why you would think “unfavorable thoughts” and doing the subconscious work needed to change your narrative/thoughts (ex affirmation tapes)
If you identify as someone that normally gets commitment you aren’t going to find yourself negatively attached or anticipating someone won’t commit to you. It’ll be a normalized experience. So if someone tries to treat you in noncommittal ways you won’t care, because you already hold that identity. You’ll entertain others, you won’t place them on a pedestal, you’ll let them pursue you/chase you and will hold an inner knowing that YOU get commitment. That can translate as not caring if they do or don’t but what really brings it in is true identification. It’s not pretending that you don’t care, and playing games, it’s genuine assumption of that version of you. Which has no desperation, no chasing, no need to react or force anything. You’re already self recognized.
I needed this, thank you ❤️
You are amazing thank you
Great content 💜