women don't like men who sacrifice for them. Women like men who focus on themselves. As a man, your job starts and ends when you approach her and tell her your mind. If she likes you, she'll build the relationship. She'll be the one to sacrifice. Don't care if she doesn't call or text. She knows what she's doing. She's testing you to see whether you'll leave your life to focus on her. But if she sees that your focus is you, she'll do all the sacrifices and build the relationship
Thank you for this. I’m in my early 30s and I’ve just learned this year that I have a “Nice Guy Syndrome” and now I genuinely hate to be called “Nice Guy”. I get the ick every time I hear those words even if it’s not directed to me. I also get irritated when a girl calls me “her friend” cuz I’m still angry at myself for some of the things I allowed and let slide. So now I’m just trying to take care of myself in every aspect of my life as much as I can. My key take from this video is to NEVER BE AFRAID TO OFFEND PEOPLE (ESPECIALLY WOMEN).
@@Kingabdvl bro I will like you to read this book I will mention 1. No more Mr nice guy by Dr. Robert Glover 2. Models by Mark Manson 3. Way of the superior man by David deida. This three books will help you on nice guy syndrome, attraction and masculine you need to have as a man. Never trust a woman word but watch her actions. A woman treats you base on how she feels about you. Women are hypergamous by nature and woman are manipulative by nature. All man need to about dark female nature(dark female psychology) even the married men too.
I caught this video a little late, but you are talking your shit and I appreciate you keep going. Don’t let nothing stop you cause me and other men need this.💪🏾💙
Wow watching this video made me realize I say yes to girls a lot and how I over compliment and apologize to my girl. Thx for this I will stop all these things
This apology part the girl that am dating normally wants me to apologise even when am not wrong but i do asked her why should i apologise that you should be the one,so she is scared and do ask me which kind of person i am
All these problem came cos people now days are very far from God....if people had true love from God you will not see all these nonsense....find someone who honour God first ...not demon possessed people they are not free they exhibit so many demonic characters and people mistake them as how women are
What if you don’t do any of these things but you’re still considered a nice guy by others. Every time I approached a woman that I found attractive; I always get the same line “ you’re handsome, but not my type”. Also they continuously say I like you but as a friend. At this point I’m questioning if I’m doing something wrong lol.
Bro she said everything in the video. She made it clear that you can be nice and at the same time not loose your worth around women, because some women tends to take advantage of guys who are too nice to the point that it discomfort them. I'll advise you to watch the video again and compare it to how you treat ladies, maybe try and change some things and see if you'll get a positive result, and good luck to you bro i feel you.
@OcheKelvin I understand everything your saying and I did watch it over again. I don’t do any of the 7 things that she said. I don’t allow anyone to take advantage of me either. I only do something if I want to and if I don’t I say no. I will try something new though and thanks.
Flip the script on her. Be more assertive and bold. For a woman to see you as a lover you must seduce her. Lead her. Stimulate her emotions. Women LOVE being dominated
To answer your question does woman are not interested in you. It has nothing to do with you. Only thing you can do is improve your fitness, look, charisma and finance. Every woman that say that to me was not interested in me. Also don’t give them your attention when you see them say hello and move on. Be indifferent that’s the key. Don’t engage in small talk after they said this to you. The will start to wonder bro because your become different and your in abundance. This my advice brother. Don’t give up just chase your purpose and the right woman will choose you men. Also try to be flirtatious with woman your interested in and don’t be boring.
I love you Ijay.❤️ Thanks for the steady reminders 🙏🏾 Cuz it’s so crazy how love can sometimes make you forget the basics and how these things really works. I almost mumu myself last year. 😀 Retraced my steps and got her chasing instead. Happy new years to you cutie.🎊 Cheers to more real talks in the new year.🥂
2:25 there is a girl who want to work with me, manage he, she is a host. So FIRST PROJECT she wanted me to do something, I said no, goes against my morals. She said, if you are team xyz you would do it. I said I am team xyz, not doing anything against my morals. She went on and on so I said ok, I am not team xyz, she argued then hang up on me. 2hrs later she calls back, APOLOGIZING............. and guess what???????? HER TONE CHANGED TO WANTING A RELATIONSHIP. Why? Go back and listen what she just said!!!
I have absolutely no regrets about being a nice guy. If she doesnt see me as man worth dating, she has my blessing to go and find another man. But if you firmly stand your ground, you are seen as a toxic man. Bottomline, women don't know what they want from a man. They see a man who is not skirt-chaser as a maga. I have stopped dating ladies permanently. I also have stopped chasing women also
Imitate a womens energy. If shes standoffish then you become standoffish. If a woman wants affection, then give them affection. If she becomes standoffish ( and TRUST me, they ALL do that ) & then you become clingy, thats a HUGE turnoff, because now you look needy & scared to lose her
Às a man, you shouldn't invest in a relationship at the beginning. Tell a woman your mind and sit back. If she wants you, she'll be the one to push you to invest through her sacrifices
Kai so all these ladies have been using me............... So weak, its well, many breakfast I have received because of these my nice attitude.... but is it not normal for feelings to be mutual, I have never dated in my life been trying to be in a relationship towards marriage and am just receiving breakfast... but God no go shame me this 2025 in Jesus name.... Thank God for my mental health
Having knowledge and be a good women are two different things for someone to be good God must be in her or his life for sure otherwise we become Satan tools to spread death to others
@@iheziefavour2472 bro recommended you read this three ebook I will mention to you. 1. No more Mr nice guy by Dr. Robert Glover 2. Models by Mark Manson 3. The way of the superior man by David deida. This book will help you as a man to know your frame as man and to know how be masculine and boundaries with women. All women play game, all women are manipulative by nature. Every man need to know about dark female nature(dark female psychology) in order not to fall prey to their dark nature and get used. This also involves married men too....
women don't like men who sacrifice for them. Women like men who focus on themselves. As a man, your job starts and ends when you approach her and tell her your mind. If she likes you, she'll build the relationship. She'll be the one to sacrifice. Don't care if she doesn't call or text. She knows what she's doing. She's testing you to see whether you'll leave your life to focus on her. But if she sees that your focus is you, she'll do all the sacrifices and build the relationship
Waooo Great this is real game.😂😅
Solid advise bro
Ur brain 🎉
Yeah? There are billions of women and every woman is different just like men 😂
@@MaitScott I know plenty of women who would love a man to sacrifice for them
Thank you for this.
I’m in my early 30s and I’ve just learned this year that I have a “Nice Guy Syndrome” and now I genuinely hate to be called “Nice Guy”. I get the ick every time I hear those words even if it’s not directed to me. I also get irritated when a girl calls me “her friend” cuz I’m still angry at myself for some of the things I allowed and let slide.
So now I’m just trying to take care of myself in every aspect of my life as much as I can.
My key take from this video is to NEVER BE AFRAID TO OFFEND PEOPLE (ESPECIALLY WOMEN).
@@Kingabdvl bro I will like you to read this book I will mention
1. No more Mr nice guy by Dr. Robert Glover
2. Models by Mark Manson
3. Way of the superior man by David deida.
This three books will help you on nice guy syndrome, attraction and masculine you need to have as a man. Never trust a woman word but watch her actions. A woman treats you base on how she feels about you. Women are hypergamous by nature and woman are manipulative by nature. All man need to about dark female nature(dark female psychology) even the married men too.
The message in this video is one million percent correct.
This video is topnotch. It should be recommended to young guys from 20yrs to 40yrs.
Even in their 50's some men are still foolish
16 yrs - ♾️
This is the best video ever I learned a lot, keep it up and enjoy your holiday
Hi jay jay! You just mentioned three things that affected me in my last relationship. I must say you're doing well
Glad I came across this… I needed this , no more mr nice guy, I already learned the hard way
God bless you Ijay
I caught this video a little late, but you are talking your shit and I appreciate you keep going. Don’t let nothing stop you cause me and other men need this.💪🏾💙
Wow watching this video made me realize I say yes to girls a lot and how I over compliment and apologize to my girl. Thx for this I will stop all these things
Exactly what happened to me in my last relationship i overcommitted did everything she still broke up with me for reasons unknown to me
ijay deserves a noble peace price for opening the eyes of men if you agree with me drop your comments and hit the like button 😂😂😂😂
Bro the best video i have ever seen on this subject
Keep helping us educate all those simps. Thank you Ijay.
Can't lie ijay this is a good video I learned alot we want on how men can sharpen themselves 😅😅 mentally,spiritually,educationally and financially 👏
After the lecture, my question hasn't changed. "What do women really want?"
My brother I don’t know ooo same girls that hate nice guys will still tell you they love nice guys 😅
What do women actually want,I tot by all these things a woman will actually cherish you 💖
Just be yourself, there is 8billion plus people in the world, there Is surely a woman will want you for you!!!
I tire ooo
@@teddybear668 Just be yourself
This apology part the girl that am dating normally wants me to apologise even when am not wrong but i do asked her why should i apologise that you should be the one,so she is scared and do ask me which kind of person i am
😂😂😂😂
I have been there
I hate women like that
This is topnotch 🎯💯
Friend zone or trash zone, I how I put it 😂😂😂
Thanks Ijay 👍
Best video ever
You're a pro
I did this in my first relationship because I was naive and learned the hard way 😂😂, heart break changed me 😅😂
Nice topic
Keep it up Mrs.😘
Be a nice Sharp Guy ❤
That is very wonderful indeed
THAT'S TRUE MA GOD BLESS YOU I LOVE YOUR CONTENT I'VE BEEN WATCHING YOUR VIDEOS FOR 2 YEARS NOW
All these problem came cos people now days are very far from God....if people had true love from God you will not see all these nonsense....find someone who honour God first ...not demon possessed people they are not free they exhibit so many demonic characters and people mistake them as how women are
What if you don’t do any of these things but you’re still considered a nice guy by others. Every time I approached a woman that I found attractive; I always get the same line “ you’re handsome, but not my type”. Also they continuously say I like you but as a friend. At this point I’m questioning if I’m doing something wrong lol.
Nice question. The same goes for me
Bro she said everything in the video.
She made it clear that you can be nice and at the same time not loose your worth around women, because some women tends to take advantage of guys who are too nice to the point that it discomfort them.
I'll advise you to watch the video again and compare it to how you treat ladies, maybe try and change some things and see if you'll get a positive result, and good luck to you bro i feel you.
@OcheKelvin I understand everything your saying and I did watch it over again. I don’t do any of the 7 things that she said. I don’t allow anyone to take advantage of me either. I only do something if I want to and if I don’t I say no. I will try something new though and thanks.
Flip the script on her. Be more assertive and bold. For a woman to see you as a lover you must seduce her. Lead her. Stimulate her emotions. Women LOVE being dominated
To answer your question does woman are not interested in you. It has nothing to do with you. Only thing you can do is improve your fitness, look, charisma and finance. Every woman that say that to me was not interested in me. Also don’t give them your attention when you see them say hello and move on. Be indifferent that’s the key. Don’t engage in small talk after they said this to you. The will start to wonder bro because your become different and your in abundance. This my advice brother. Don’t give up just chase your purpose and the right woman will choose you men. Also try to be flirtatious with woman your interested in and don’t be boring.
After the plenty talks,my questions still don’t change
Your talk is good. Cheers!
Very Impressive 👍
I love this one 😊
You're on point 🔥
I love this!!!
If she going to have a son or already had a a son he’s going to be in good hands
Thanks alot ❤❤❤❤ I really appreciate you
Thanks for this video ijay
I love you Ijay.❤️
Thanks for the steady reminders 🙏🏾
Cuz it’s so crazy how love can sometimes make you forget the basics and how these things really works. I almost mumu myself last year. 😀 Retraced my steps and got her chasing instead.
Happy new years to you cutie.🎊
Cheers to more real talks in the new year.🥂
Nice guy syndrome is very bad and it never works.
You have gotten yourself a subscriber 😊
Attractive always.Happy new years!🎉❤Sending you love.❤
"Any man that can use his teeth to cut shaki from peppersoup with his eyes open is not afraid of anything. He is an akpuketive man." ~ Jackie Chan.
Jackie Chan ??
@@adebanwoghokzz16 😂
glad to start a year 2025 with this
You’re on fire 🔥
Thank you ❤
Nice guy almost ruined me
😂😂
U loved her that’s why
@kristvanbeston6893 for real
😂😂😂
2:25 there is a girl who want to work with me, manage he, she is a host. So FIRST PROJECT she wanted me to do something, I said no, goes against my morals. She said, if you are team xyz you would do it. I said I am team xyz, not doing anything against my morals. She went on and on so I said ok, I am not team xyz, she argued then hang up on me. 2hrs later she calls back, APOLOGIZING............. and guess what???????? HER TONE CHANGED TO WANTING A RELATIONSHIP. Why? Go back and listen what she just said!!!
I have absolutely no regrets about being a nice guy. If she doesnt see me as man worth dating, she has my blessing to go and find another man. But if you firmly stand your ground, you are seen as a toxic man. Bottomline, women don't know what they want from a man. They see a man who is not skirt-chaser as a maga. I have stopped dating ladies permanently. I also have stopped chasing women also
Yours is the best ever
Interesting video
I wasnt nice at all before, i was so stoic that my gurl told me im authoritative
Wjat do you have to say about that
Tell her she better respect your authority
Keep your words and don't be move by her
Imitate a womens energy. If shes standoffish then you become standoffish. If a woman wants affection, then give them affection. If she becomes standoffish ( and TRUST me, they ALL do that ) & then you become clingy, thats a HUGE turnoff, because now you look needy & scared to lose her
❤❤ am learning a lot
Ijay, you are beautiful, you are beautiful, you are beautiful, you are beautiful 😂
These advice is really nice, but what about men who doesn't wanna date anymore 💔
Thanks 💯
Postmodern thinking,age of distortion! It's just nice to be nice, if humans take you for granted, they are just being sick
What if you already invested your emotions, money, time and everything what do you do?😢😢😢
Às a man, you shouldn't invest in a relationship at the beginning. Tell a woman your mind and sit back. If she wants you, she'll be the one to push you to invest through her sacrifices
Then this video is not for you.
Respect the black man the black man is God
You don’t know how the COW GIRL is sweet na why you Dey talk like dis😂😂😂,
The way I Dey apologize asap😂😂😂
A woman that is not even yours.
😅
Powerful
Thank and I have rean something
Kai so all these ladies have been using me............... So weak, its well, many breakfast I have received because of these my nice attitude.... but is it not normal for feelings to be mutual, I have never dated in my life been trying to be in a relationship towards marriage and am just receiving breakfast... but God no go shame me this 2025 in Jesus name.... Thank God for my mental health
😅God go help u bro
😂😂😂😂 boss
A lot learnt
Perfect
C'mon now
C'mon now
That one got me😅😅😅
Thanks ij❤
I guess I’m just a nice guy
No last long😂
Lets be real...its true women dont like good and nice guys
I admire your IQ
what are you talking about lol, if I just met this woman how do I know her accomplishments? 7:45
True talk sha, but in marriage does she stil like husband to be a bad guy? Hmmmmm
Thanks for asking - because now that we have to move mad - let’s know how far is too far.
Because no-one act for too long oo😎
@@BojaOfficialit's a shame you don't understand the video.
It's all about making money, and making baby mamas for yourself, simple!
Except for the baby ma it’s all bout making money and living in your own shit
This is awesome
you are talking to me from now she go collect
LoL am not a nice guy oo women love bad guys more
U must be Nigerian 😊🎉
I wish that with all these knowledge,you will be a good woman
Having knowledge and be a good women are two different things for someone to be good God must be in her or his life for sure otherwise we become Satan tools to spread death to others
Anuty hope you know that everyone character is not the same
So stop talking for every woman, because you're just talking your character
Bro most girls/women are like what she is saying.......
@ryanaustin2540 thank God you said "MOST"
@@iheziefavour2472 bro recommended you read this three ebook I will mention to you.
1. No more Mr nice guy by Dr. Robert Glover
2. Models by Mark Manson
3. The way of the superior man by David deida.
This book will help you as a man to know your frame as man and to know how be masculine and boundaries with women. All women play game, all women are manipulative by nature. Every man need to know about dark female nature(dark female psychology) in order not to fall prey to their dark nature and get used. This also involves married men too....
This is women’s psychology, it’s same everywhere
Wow
👍🏼
Have you noticed that it's always women who want us men to understand them? 😂😂😂
Yeah😂 they never understand us. And it's not like they don't have the capacity to understand us, but they just don't want to
@abdullahimunir8352 exactly 😂😂😂
Nice guy = not that attractive 😂
You will get boring real quick
Please create WhatsApp group and drop link to join you're really trying a lot I love that ❤❤❤
Totally Agree With You Hundred Percent. I Really Learn A Lot From You My Favorite Person.. 🫡👑❤️💯