The harder you work while in No Contact, the more confident you will become! Do The Knowledge Workbooks or Creative Healing Course 30 minutes a day and you’ll see payoffs!
Hey Craig, just wanted to let you know I bought the first volume one through five and printed it out, but it only printed out number five and four not the rest. What should I do?
Help Craig! My ex started seeing a new therapist 2 mos ago the dsy after she broke it off. I did a couple mild text reach outs after 1 week of NC after. She responded to one and said she cared and still does are but needed some time to work on her(she lost a child last year) but didn’t understand why i perceived she needed space. Then out of no where she blocked me. I left one nice message a week later from another phone and nothing since i have been in NC about 6 weeks now. Feel pretty good & doing well professionally etc but it’s a definite challenge maintaining NC Im a fixer.
I been in contact for 4 months today. I didnt get my ex back but I honestly feel good. No contact is not for you to get your ex back, it's for you to get yourself back. Good luck yall.
No contact is for attraction during the dating phase. It does not create the necessary feeling of safety, quite the opposite, for long term serious relationships
@Nicole-yz7bo update on my situation. My ex texted me to say happy birthday and that week she came and stayed the night but the next day I realized it wasn't meant to be. She tried to talk to me a few times after that but I just kept it short so she got the clue. She deleted her social media and I haven't talked to her since and honestly I feel good now.
Starting no contact was the craziest idea to me, but I ended up healing and my ex has tried getting back together 3 times now which Iv happily declined 😊 #content
My ex left me and dated around loads, I was in a really bad situation. I half hearted follow these advices. I started watching lots of these youtube. FROM my experiences find a channel that give sound advice (this one is good) cos if you watch multi channel sometime it can be conflicting and you be mess up. I did No contact and she did come back. However, I was so happy that i worship her instead of holding her accountable. OF course she left.😅 Anyway after 6 year i study and learn and heal. Now ina relationships with a woman i couldn't ever dream off and no my eyes is still.open and not wearing rose glasses. Keep it up guys if you are going thru a break up. They is always hope and both in that you ex could come back and if not it is still possible to find someone else better. But CRAIG Right. You do need to work on yourself.
This only matters if they felt love or deep feelings for You Think about when You’ve left somebody You knew wasn’t the one You really wanted You probably didn’t look back
Agree! I walked away from my boyfriend he was the most verbally abusive guy Ive ever dated. His anger and mouth got worse and worse. I never grew deep feelings. He was so abrasive and miserable. I have to say Im at peace. My health is better too. I'm 69, I hope to make it to 70-yrs-old now! I do not want to date right now! I'm good.
Thanks for this video Craig. Ive been good in no contact, doing the work on myself, moving forward. But i feel like ive had a relapse over rhe past few days. This video is helping steel my resolve and optimism! Onward
I won’t go back. After a month of avoidant behavior… next. Not that I wasn’t hurt. I felt very rejected. I walked away of the situationship he wanted me in. So no. I want a husband and not some dude who wants to keep me in his back pocket. I showed up. He didn’t. Nothing more to it.
If you take her for granted and do no court her another man will. BELIEVE what I say on this one men. It’s a hard realization when she leaves a hard one to watch…
Going into six months of radio silence. He hooked up with his neighbour three weeks post breakup. He’s severily avoidant. I became anxious in our connection. I miss him deeply and still suffer immensely at how things ended out of the blue. It feels like he ended it because he caught feelings, not because of the reasons he gave. Should I just let go and move on for good? This is the most painful breakup I’ve ever been through.
go to the health store any buy ashwagandha, mix teaspoon in water, this powder relieves strees aniexty and helps get over ex makes numb just flat lined fully fuctional its amzing
Throw him off the pedestal and climb on up there and be the queen you are! Put yourself first. Think about all the dreams/goals you’ve had for yourself and put one or some into action. You deserve better. You’ll get better. Feel the feels. Cry as you need. And trust in the mystery that life can be and believe you’ll be the best version of you and one day you’ll find someone more worthy of the new and improved version that’s coming 💕
It’s the most painful experience, I’ve been there. When I finally went completely no contact I felt so much stronger. You may always miss them but after a while you realize you miss the potential of them, because the reality is they are not capable of being the partner you need or else they never would rip the cord the way they did. It hurts until it doesn’t, and that’s when you realize you deserve better and can get better. We live in a state of lack when discarded the way avoidants do it. Take your power back. My ex is also avoidant as hell. He just text me yesterday after almost 3 months. He discarded me almost a year ago but wanted to maintain friendship. I tried it for a few months until I realized I’m not really moving on and text him that I need to detach from him and explained how much hurt he caused me throughout the relationship with his hot and cold nonsense. He had pursued me for 2yrs, I finally decided to give him a chance and he was inconsistent, gradually decreased communication and every time I told him this isn’t for me, he acted all upset and convinced me to stay, then ended it after a pregnancy scare. He was insecure about his finances but instead of admitting that, just said I deserve better, and I deserve a family. No discussion, no let’s game plan our future, just, bye, let’s be friends. Smh. Avoidants are going to avoid.
no contact really works, I did no contact as he asked for some space and then after only 5 days he emailed me today!, and yet today is his birthday and he said he can’t last his birthday without me! it’s important to let your partner to miss you during no contact. thanks Craig!
Craig, brilliant video. Looking good w/ the lighting and softer hair. I enjoy seeing you alone in your expertise and real practice experience. Best out there people.
@@Wildanimal864.She sent two texts in 9 months from two fake accounts on Instagram saying: you are looking great. Do you remember me? It was this Jan. I didn’t react. Silence now. She is a severe DA.
when my divorced 55 year old mom of three girls tried to put me in the friend zone after 4 years of a very fun and reasonable relationship. I told her she was a jerk and wasted 4 years of my time . After one year of being solo I do miss her but will not put up with bull .
i dont care if he thinks everyone wants me. i just want him back :( its 3 months since he broke up with me and since our last contact. a part of me still cant let him go. 😩 i wish he knew he is still the one i want.
No contact wont work on my ex, she left family members and best friend's alone, she said she will take no contact to the grave. The day of the breakup she told me she was gone help me get over her, and yelled and caused a scene where the neighbors was looking. It was very embarrassing. Its been two months a reached out once a month ago no response
If I was her I'd be moving on because it all started from his apparent lack of interest in her. I'm not saying she will but I'd certainly be like, wow, he still doesnt seem enthusiastic about me. But hey that's why I'm not a coach, I just know how I'd react because I'm going through similar.
What do you do when no contact brings them back, you have a nice conversation, make plans, but they don’t prioritize you and make you feel rejected all over again? Go back to no contact I assume? I stuck up for myself, said how I felt, and now I’m not contacting her. It’s still very hurtful though. I’m not sure if her intentions were genuine or if it was solely an ego boost that I responded to her. She seems like she doesn’t care now. Whether she does or doesn’t, I don’t know.
She cares but you came on too strong too quick. You need to attract her. This is exactly what coach Craig talks about. When they reach back out you aren’t ready and emotions take over. Play it cool.
@@joejohnson5870 Thanks man. She offered a friendship, but I didn’t feel that was right after a year and a half of being together and discussing marriage. I put up a boundary respectfully and said it’s best we go our separate ways. We have been in no contact a month. It’s hard and I miss her, but i’m doing the best I can. I don’t want to be an option and it sucks because I could be for her at this point. Maybe she really needs time and I understand she has been through bad traumas, but it feels like I’ve been put on the side while she lives her life. Saying no if she comes back will be difficult for me. I get you have to value yourself, but the whole thing stinks. I could take her back because I love her or not take her back because I value yourself and lose our relationship and life together anyway. It feels like a lose lose. Maybe I’m looking at it wrong.
I don't see how this applies if they blocked you 2 days after. I didn't beg or plead, she left randomly saying she needed to be single and never healed from past traumas, relationships. She also has BP and BPD. Don't think this one is coming back
Shes not for you then. Why do you want someone back who clearly told they rather be single ( aka legs are open for multiple others).. go to the gentleman’s club because thats the caliber of women you fall for my brotha.
If she has BP and BPD, and hasn't healed from past traumas, then count yourself very lucky that the relationship ended and you are still in one peace. What ever pain you experienced in the breakup is minor compared to what you'd experience had you stayed with her. Wish her well (silently) and move on.
This story makes me mad, it happens in relationships people disconnect but love is a choice why would she allow another guy in her life…. This story is wild to me
I get confused because I hear no contact but what if they reach out? they don’t want to get back together but just want to keep you around ? do we respond?
How does this work in a relationship as a woman with a woman!? I feel like this topic isn’t discussed much. But being in a relationship with another woman can be hard because both want to be chased and can be stubborn or is it the same!?
I initially went no contact after my ex of 4 year broke up with me and I have broken it in 3 days and beg her to stay with me. She told me me to never call her again and unfortunately my anxiety got the best of me in less than 2 weeks after that and I called again. This time she was very angry at me and blocked me every where. Do no contact still work in my case? I am anxious and she is avoidant.
It doesn’t work when you’re both practicing no contact. It’s been over 2 years and he found someone else in less than 4 months because he took my no contact as not being interested in resolving and reuniting. I regret everything that I could’ve have done differently.
Then he never cared in the first place. Be thankful and keep working on yourself and I can guarantee you if he’s mean to come back he will. When he does, and he will, you won’t want him anyway!! 💪🏽
I just hate it how they meet other people, like im doing my Entrepreneur stuff and she could find anpther one while im, trying to get money for the upcoming familiy. This is so wrong. Fuck social media and these "modern day women"
Me and my ex broke up just a few days ago. I'm doing no contact rn. But his birthday is in a few days... Should i graduate him or not? He could think that I forgot about it or care so less that he doesn't even want me back in a few months..?
"No contact" means don't initiate contact for any reason. No birthdays, no holidays, no anniversaries. Also no indirect messages via social media posts. It doesn't matter what he thinks or feels. He has to experience the consequences of the breakup, including not knowing what you are doing, what you are feeling, etc.
wrong.. ex's come back when you no longer long for them.. in my experience more times than I can count.. that was before I delved into doing the work.. now women try to get me to take them out, they even try to trick me into going out with them.. just wake tf up and do the work
@@carlfreiermuth5424 What do you mean by "wake tf up"? I mean sure I can see that women are subtle and you missed some things. I see them too. But I don't want to engage because I'm not feeling that vibe.
The harder you work while in No Contact, the more confident you will become! Do The Knowledge Workbooks or Creative Healing Course 30 minutes a day and you’ll see payoffs!
Hey Craig, just wanted to let you know I bought the first volume one through five and printed it out, but it only printed out number five and four not the rest. What should I do?
What is the difference between the knowledge and creative healing course?
ok, does no contact work even if 2 months after the separation she got together with someone else?....
Help Craig! My ex started seeing a new therapist 2 mos ago the dsy after she broke it off. I did a couple mild text reach outs after 1 week of NC after. She responded to one and said she cared and still does are but needed some time to work on her(she lost a child last year) but didn’t understand why i perceived she needed space. Then out of no where she blocked me. I left one nice message a week later from another phone and nothing since i have been in NC about 6 weeks now. Feel pretty good & doing well professionally etc but it’s a definite challenge maintaining NC Im a fixer.
Need some advice asap!!!!
I been in contact for 4 months today. I didnt get my ex back but I honestly feel good. No contact is not for you to get your ex back, it's for you to get yourself back. Good luck yall.
No contact is for attraction during the dating phase. It does not create the necessary feeling of safety, quite the opposite, for long term serious relationships
@Nicole-yz7bo update on my situation. My ex texted me to say happy birthday and that week she came and stayed the night but the next day I realized it wasn't meant to be. She tried to talk to me a few times after that but I just kept it short so she got the clue. She deleted her social media and I haven't talked to her since and honestly I feel good now.
So happy for you ❤️@@moisesreyes4933
Starting no contact was the craziest idea to me, but I ended up healing and my ex has tried getting back together 3 times now which Iv happily declined 😊 #content
Awesome bro 😎
Lmaoooo Craig took a jab at that guy in the ad that says “stop wasting time in no contact” lmfaoooo Craig with the accent!
😂😂
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Rip coach Margaret 💗
You’re beautiful 😍
My ex left me and dated around loads, I was in a really bad situation. I half hearted follow these advices. I started watching lots of these youtube. FROM my experiences find a channel that give sound advice (this one is good) cos if you watch multi channel sometime it can be conflicting and you be mess up. I did No contact and she did come back. However, I was so happy that i worship her instead of holding her accountable. OF course she left.😅
Anyway after 6 year i study and learn and heal. Now ina relationships with a woman i couldn't ever dream off and no my eyes is still.open and not wearing rose glasses.
Keep it up guys if you are going thru a break up. They is always hope and both in that you ex could come back and if not it is still possible to find someone else better.
But CRAIG Right. You do need to work on yourself.
I don't have contact for almost 3 years. It's sad but I found my way.
This only matters if they felt love or deep feelings for You
Think about when You’ve left somebody You knew wasn’t the one You really wanted
You probably didn’t look back
Agree! I walked away from my boyfriend he was the most verbally abusive guy Ive ever dated. His anger and mouth got worse and worse. I never grew deep feelings. He was so abrasive and miserable. I have to say Im at peace. My health is better too. I'm 69, I hope to make it to 70-yrs-old now! I do not want to date right now! I'm good.
So true
Women need to learn to connect too. In my experience the women expect men to do everything and give nothing
Oh wow, I've never been able to see one of these live. Looking forward to this one!
To reiterate what I read on another video..."This guy is brilliant"! So helpful!
9 months of NC. All quiet on the western front...
Any update?
Thanks for this video Craig. Ive been good in no contact, doing the work on myself, moving forward.
But i feel like ive had a relapse over rhe past few days.
This video is helping steel my resolve and optimism!
Onward
I won’t go back. After a month of avoidant behavior… next. Not that I wasn’t hurt. I felt very rejected. I walked away of the situationship he wanted me in. So no. I want a husband and not some dude who wants to keep me in his back pocket. I showed up. He didn’t. Nothing more to it.
I like the way you put that!
So damn true 🧐
PREACH!!! Craig Kenneth is the man!
thank you, kind sir! 🤘
If you take her for granted and do no court her another man will. BELIEVE what I say on this one men. It’s a hard realization when she leaves a hard one to watch…
Did you break up with her?
Exactly sir! Us gals need proper courting
Just do your best to move forward. Some people are ridicolous dont be part of the trainwreck.
Take care everyone
Going into six months of radio silence. He hooked up with his neighbour three weeks post breakup. He’s severily avoidant. I became anxious in our connection. I miss him deeply and still suffer immensely at how things ended out of the blue. It feels like he ended it because he caught feelings, not because of the reasons he gave. Should I just let go and move on for good? This is the most painful breakup I’ve ever been through.
go to the health store any buy ashwagandha, mix teaspoon in water, this powder relieves strees aniexty and helps get over ex makes numb just flat lined fully fuctional its amzing
Throw him off the pedestal and climb on up there and be the queen you are! Put yourself first. Think about all the dreams/goals you’ve had for yourself and put one or some into action. You deserve better. You’ll get better. Feel the feels. Cry as you need. And trust in the mystery that life can be and believe you’ll be the best version of you and one day you’ll find someone more worthy of the new and improved version that’s coming 💕
It's only worth getting back together if you both worked through your issues for real. Otherwise it's just round 2 of the same mess.
It’s the most painful experience, I’ve been there. When I finally went completely no contact I felt so much stronger. You may always miss them but after a while you realize you miss the potential of them, because the reality is they are not capable of being the partner you need or else they never would rip the cord the way they did. It hurts until it doesn’t, and that’s when you realize you deserve better and can get better. We live in a state of lack when discarded the way avoidants do it. Take your power back. My ex is also avoidant as hell. He just text me yesterday after almost 3 months. He discarded me almost a year ago but wanted to maintain friendship. I tried it for a few months until I realized I’m not really moving on and text him that I need to detach from him and explained how much hurt he caused me throughout the relationship with his hot and cold nonsense. He had pursued me for 2yrs, I finally decided to give him a chance and he was inconsistent, gradually decreased communication and every time I told him this isn’t for me, he acted all upset and convinced me to stay, then ended it after a pregnancy scare. He was insecure about his finances but instead of admitting that, just said I deserve better, and I deserve a family. No discussion, no let’s game plan our future, just, bye, let’s be friends. Smh. Avoidants are going to avoid.
Lily let it go & God brings you peace
no contact really works, I did no contact as he asked for some space and then after only 5 days he emailed me today!, and yet today is his birthday and he said he can’t last his birthday without me!
it’s important to let your partner to miss you during no contact. thanks Craig!
Craig, brilliant video. Looking good w/ the lighting and softer hair. I enjoy seeing you alone in your expertise and real practice experience. Best out there people.
I think breakfast as a date is awesome. I'm female. Life is not always romance at night.
I could fall in love over hashbrowns any day.
Your work helped me a lot to become secure and stronger! Thanks a lot!
@@Wildanimal864.She sent two texts in 9 months from two fake accounts on Instagram saying: you are looking great. Do you remember me? It was this Jan. I didn’t react. Silence now. She is a severe DA.
Thank you for all that you do ❤
Could you make videos about the dating phase as well?
when my divorced 55 year old mom of three girls tried to
put me in the friend zone after 4 years of a very fun and reasonable relationship. I told her she was a jerk and wasted 4 years of my time . After one year of being solo I do miss her but will not put up with bull .
Exactly! Especially when she used you up as another babysitter
11 month no contact. They don't care when they monkey branch.
i dont care if he thinks everyone wants me. i just want him back :(
its 3 months since he broke up with me and since our last contact. a part of me still cant let him go. 😩
i wish he knew he is still the one i want.
Communicate and stop taking advice for your unique relationship from RUclips videos
Same situation exactly 😕
Did your ex ever reach out to you??
No contact wont work on my ex, she left family members and best friend's alone, she said she will take no contact to the grave. The day of the breakup she told me she was gone help me get over her, and yelled and caused a scene where the neighbors was looking. It was very embarrassing. Its been two months a reached out once a month ago no response
then let her eat her words and take it to the grave.. show her that you are colder than her.
If I was her I'd be moving on because it all started from his apparent lack of interest in her. I'm not saying she will but I'd certainly be like, wow, he still doesnt seem enthusiastic about me. But hey that's why I'm not a coach, I just know how I'd react because I'm going through similar.
The hand written letter sounds so cringe 😂
STOP WASTING TIME IN NO CONTECT! Lol. I know exactly who you're talking about...I always skip that ad quickly.😄
What do you do when no contact brings them back, you have a nice conversation, make plans, but they don’t prioritize you and make you feel rejected all over again? Go back to no contact I assume? I stuck up for myself, said how I felt, and now I’m not contacting her. It’s still very hurtful though. I’m not sure if her intentions were genuine or if it was solely an ego boost that I responded to her. She seems like she doesn’t care now. Whether she does or doesn’t, I don’t know.
She cares but you came on too strong too quick. You need to attract her. This is exactly what coach Craig talks about. When they reach back out you aren’t ready and emotions take over. Play it cool.
@@joejohnson5870 Thanks man. She offered a friendship, but I didn’t feel that was right after a year and a half of being together and discussing marriage. I put up a boundary respectfully and said it’s best we go our separate ways. We have been in no contact a month. It’s hard and I miss her, but i’m doing the best I can. I don’t want to be an option and it sucks because I could be for her at this point. Maybe she really needs time and I understand she has been through bad traumas, but it feels like I’ve been put on the side while she lives her life. Saying no if she comes back will be difficult for me. I get you have to value yourself, but the whole thing stinks. I could take her back because I love her or not take her back because I value yourself and lose our relationship and life together anyway. It feels like a lose lose. Maybe I’m looking at it wrong.
I don't see how this applies if they blocked you 2 days after. I didn't beg or plead, she left randomly saying she needed to be single and never healed from past traumas, relationships. She also has BP and BPD. Don't think this one is coming back
My ex blocked me and unblocked me before too. So there’s always a chance. Just work on yourself in the meantime
Shes not for you then. Why do you want someone back who clearly told they rather be single ( aka legs are open for multiple others)..
go to the gentleman’s club because thats the caliber of women you fall for my brotha.
If she has BP and BPD, and hasn't healed from past traumas, then count yourself very lucky that the relationship ended and you are still in one peace. What ever pain you experienced in the breakup is minor compared to what you'd experience had you stayed with her. Wish her well (silently) and move on.
Is this pre-recorded?
This is good
First to watch like and comment
This story makes me mad, it happens in relationships people disconnect but love is a choice why would she allow another guy in her life…. This story is wild to me
I get confused because I hear no contact but what if they reach out? they don’t want to get back together but just want to keep you around ? do we respond?
How does this work in a relationship as a woman with a woman!? I feel like this topic isn’t discussed much. But being in a relationship with another woman can be hard because both want to be chased and can be stubborn or is it the same!?
Yeah that’s what I’m going through right now
@@MsDilemma How are you coping!? What strategies are you using?
I initially went no contact after my ex of 4 year broke up with me and I have broken it in 3 days and beg her to stay with me. She told me me to never call her again and unfortunately my anxiety got the best of me in less than 2 weeks after that and I called again. This time she was very angry at me and blocked me every where. Do no contact still work in my case? I am anxious and she is avoidant.
Yes it still works
It doesn’t work when you’re both practicing no contact. It’s been over 2 years and he found someone else in less than 4 months because he took my no contact as not being interested in resolving and reuniting. I regret everything that I could’ve have done differently.
Then he never cared in the first place. Be thankful and keep working on yourself and I can guarantee you if he’s mean to come back he will. When he does, and he will, you won’t want him anyway!! 💪🏽
I just hate it how they meet other people, like im doing my Entrepreneur stuff and she could find anpther one while im, trying to get money for the upcoming familiy. This is so wrong. Fuck social media and these "modern day women"
Does no contact work on a girl that you're coming out of the friendzone with but pulls back again after hooking up?
If you live together with kids. Is offering my wife tea a form of contact that I shouldn’t do? I am not chasing her btw.
Hey y'all
Me and my ex broke up just a few days ago. I'm doing no contact rn. But his birthday is in a few days... Should i graduate him or not? He could think that I forgot about it or care so less that he doesn't even want me back in a few months..?
"No contact" means don't initiate contact for any reason. No birthdays, no holidays, no anniversaries. Also no indirect messages via social media posts. It doesn't matter what he thinks or feels. He has to experience the consequences of the breakup, including not knowing what you are doing, what you are feeling, etc.
She was at his house and he didn't hook up with her. He messed up.
Her going through his draws is ok....it means she cares, but if he went through her draws it would be untrusting behaviour.
Two weeks no contact :(
If she liked me she would of texted me by now
Theres alot here that i can tell what im doing is pretty good. But still exes dont come back.
wrong.. ex's come back when you no longer long for them.. in my experience more times than I can count.. that was before I delved into doing the work.. now women try to get me to take them out, they even try to trick me into going out with them.. just wake tf up and do the work
@@carlfreiermuth5424 What do you mean by "wake tf up"? I mean sure I can see that women are subtle and you missed some things. I see them too. But I don't want to engage because I'm not feeling that vibe.
They do you have to shift your energy
@@matthewisthebest8152 What do you think I did?
@@matthewisthebest8152 Ya. What do you think I did?
Why do you advise no morning dates?
It's not romantic. it's what friends do.
What if it is long distance?
I have this question as well
It’s same… no contact !
I don’t know about this. But she seems like she couldn’t give a rats a$$ about the break up. Been in NC for 3 months. I guess we have to wait and see.
I agree, all fingers seem to be pointed at him.
My sneaky link dump me. Gah! Now stuck with the wifdy😮
Hope ur joking
Dead serious bro.
🤦
I have question.is it cheating in relationship if they got austim and down syndrome or is it different after dreams i had about morgan me and Stephen?
Lol. Stop wasting your time in no contact!
If you take her for granted and do no court her another man will. BELIEVE what I say on this one men. It’s a hard realization when she leaves
Yes it is that way for me!