Let me share something to any lady that reads this: I was celibate for 12yrs from 17-29 and i broke it on Christmas eve.. The next few days this guy turned into a whole different person treating me very harshly, i continued to do everything to keep him interested and still engage in sexual acts with me. I became a whole different person. My relationship with God has not been the same since. I begun having meaningless "casual " sex with ppl i knew i didn't care about and they didn't care about me. I was not even "getting mine" because i craved emotional connection. At 35, I'm still recovering from that decision on Christmas eve.. I even bled like it was my first time again.. chilllle it's safer to just let God bring your husband and you together.. I feel like I'm the one blocking my blessing by engaging in sexual acts.. Abstinence is the way to go.. I'm getting back on it as well after just finding out a man i recently fell for has been lying about sleeping with other women so guess who has to get retested due to foolishness... Ladies be safe out there. We owe it to ourselves we are worth it...
As a 32 yr old virgin, I can assure you the temptation is still there.. however, I do think I'm able to withstand the temptation a little better than my sexually active friends because i don't have a point of reference. It's comical how many men I've encountered that think they'll be the one to change my stance... but BABY, to be a Virgin at this big age comes down to a made up mind ! So I say all that to say at the end of the day, temptation is always going to be there regardless, it's a matter of making up your mind and being intentional in your decision making.
I waited for a long time (after 40) for personal reasons. Trust, they talk themselves out of it every. time. The longer I said no, the easier no became. I made that move when I was ready and not bc somebody was begging and only cared about himself and his experience.
30-year-old virgin here. I'll be honest & say temptation has been minimal because I haven't really dated. But, I agree that it depends on having a made up mind. You have to choose yourself everyday.
You spoke to my soul and I have been getting messages from God it's time for me to start listening and not stop being disobedient although I do not have s3x at the moment I have to give up other things as well
Hey pretty lady! I enjoyed the video. I definitely appreciate your transparency . Not only are you intelligent but you’re so insightful and wise beyond your years… you also have me ‘cracking up’ with your stories… keep being your wonderful self.. be safe and cautious while going out… have a great weekend 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
I smiled this whole video lmao. I love you so much like obsessed with your stories & opinions. You remind me so much of me with the voice changing and the random jokes lmao! Aries gang. I love you.💛 “It was empty” girl.😭😭😭
You stay going out. I need to hang with you 😆 but I just got out of a almost 3 year relationship and I'm not ready to start dating. I'm exhausted! Maybe I'll start next year.
I’ve only been sexual with 2 guys but haven’t gone all the way. I wanted to “lose it” with the first guy but it just never felt right. The last guy turned me off of men and dating, he was really pushy. I thought that I had to do something sexual to keep a guy around. I’m in my early 30s now, while I do crave intimacy and want to have sex I’m definitely willing to wait for someone who really wants me, as a person.
Girlllllllll..... ALL OF THIS!!! I'm 35, and at a place where I've tried to "live my life and be in the street's " and they are NOT for me at all!!! God has definitely been showing me so much dealing with worth lately. I need a kingdom spouse so i need to be one as well ..
I really enjoyed this video and your other ones. I remember seeing you at One Music Fest last year and your confidence and energy was inspiring, still is! You are and look amazing!
that man with the comment of "i took a girl out and she slept with me the first night, red flag" is ass backwards to me because did she sleep with HERSELF that night??? did he trip and fall into the [] by himself? just confusing lmao!!!! if she's red, he's SCARLET!
Girl I def feel you not doin the Hokey Pokey for the rest of the year. I don’t feel like it’s just who we “choose” but rather there’s just very few decent men. I just give it to God atp.
I’m 18 years old and I am currently a virgin. I appreciate you giving your insight on casual sex, this made me think deeper about the kind of person I would like to share my body with.🤎
I think you're headed in the right direction and this was an insightful piece but I have a bone to pick. Why do people say it's okay for women to fulfill the sexual desires they "deserve"? That idea really bothers me. Sex is something you do WITH another person so how on earth could anybody- man or woman- feel they DESERVE to have another person meet these desires? If a man says he deserves sex from a woman it sounds disgusting. I feel like sometimes as women (or any minority really) in an effort to take back power use the same tactics that whomever is oppressing us (in this case men) use but the tactic in itself is oppressive. I hate that this is the narrative for young girls. You can have a sense of self worth without feeling like other people owe you something. If you want to fulfill your sexual desires that's a choice you make but you never DESERVE to have them satisfied by another person simply b/c you exist. I think this is part of the problem that you alluded to in parts of this video. The idea that it's something we're entitled to so in an effort to do "self care" - go out and have sex with who you like, in the way you like etc, but in reality it doesn't work. The premise is false and it ends up being self deprecating.
Lean in to God! Submit to Him in all things and watch the peace and joy He blesses you with! You’re called to so much more than gratification of the flesh. God has so much more for you 💛🫂 “And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.” Philippians 4:7
This was engaging from start to finish. You’re a great storyteller.
Let me share something to any lady that reads this:
I was celibate for 12yrs from 17-29 and i broke it on Christmas eve.. The next few days this guy turned into a whole different person treating me very harshly, i continued to do everything to keep him interested and still engage in sexual acts with me. I became a whole different person. My relationship with God has not been the same since. I begun having meaningless "casual " sex with ppl i knew i didn't care about and they didn't care about me. I was not even "getting mine" because i craved emotional connection. At 35, I'm still recovering from that decision on Christmas eve.. I even bled like it was my first time again.. chilllle it's safer to just let God bring your husband and you together.. I feel like I'm the one blocking my blessing by engaging in sexual acts.. Abstinence is the way to go.. I'm getting back on it as well after just finding out a man i recently fell for has been lying about sleeping with other women so guess who has to get retested due to foolishness... Ladies be safe out there. We owe it to ourselves we are worth it...
Wow. Yes, get back to your roots, I have your similar story. I’m back celibate 10 months in.
Praying for God to bless you with strength in this commitment to Him. Keep on abstaining 🫂💛
@@kayb2454 ❤️
@@laylasprinkle6632 Amen 🙏🏾
As a 32 yr old virgin, I can assure you the temptation is still there.. however, I do think I'm able to withstand the temptation a little better than my sexually active friends because i don't have a point of reference.
It's comical how many men I've encountered that think they'll be the one to change my stance... but BABY, to be a Virgin at this big age comes down to a made up mind !
So I say all that to say at the end of the day, temptation is always going to be there regardless, it's a matter of making up your mind and being intentional in your decision making.
I waited for a long time (after 40) for personal reasons. Trust, they talk themselves out of it every. time. The longer I said no, the easier no became. I made that move when I was ready and not bc somebody was begging and only cared about himself and his experience.
30-year-old virgin here. I'll be honest & say temptation has been minimal because I haven't really dated. But, I agree that it depends on having a made up mind. You have to choose yourself everyday.
That's the TRUTH!! The "Flesh" is always connected to someone being their "Soul-Mate!"
You spoke to my soul and I have been getting messages from God it's time for me to start listening and not stop being disobedient although I do not have s3x at the moment I have to give up other things as well
Same but I’m having sex and I always feel a tug
I love your transparency ❤
You are WORTHY of being Loved and appreciated Sis. The good thing is, you know it!
Hey pretty lady! I enjoyed the video. I definitely appreciate your transparency . Not only are you intelligent but you’re so insightful and wise beyond your years… you also have me ‘cracking up’ with your stories… keep being your wonderful self.. be safe and cautious while going out… have a great weekend 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
I smiled this whole video lmao. I love you so much like obsessed with your stories & opinions. You remind me so much of me with the voice changing and the random jokes lmao! Aries gang. I love you.💛
“It was empty” girl.😭😭😭
A few seconds in and I'm already laughing. I can't with you.
You stay going out. I need to hang with you 😆 but I just got out of a almost 3 year relationship and I'm not ready to start dating. I'm exhausted! Maybe I'll start next year.
That’s what I said 😂😂. Sis be in the windddd honey !!
Keep going gurl😅, you are so funny, you have the gift of gab, run with it they will come.
I’ve only been sexual with 2 guys but haven’t gone all the way. I wanted to “lose it” with the first guy but it just never felt right. The last guy turned me off of men and dating, he was really pushy. I thought that I had to do something sexual to keep a guy around. I’m in my early 30s now, while I do crave intimacy and want to have sex I’m definitely willing to wait for someone who really wants me, as a person.
Intimacy and sex aren’t the same thing
@@jennifercooljeo6552 Never said they were.
@@jennifercooljeo6552they didn’t say it was ..?
Girl!! Same! You summed this up perfectly for me!! 👏🏽
Girlllllllll..... ALL OF THIS!!!
I'm 35, and at a place where I've tried to "live my life and be in the street's " and they are NOT for me at all!!! God has definitely been showing me so much dealing with worth lately. I need a kingdom spouse so i need to be one as well ..
The flesh is weak 😂😂😂
I love this Asia, real talk. I asked myself at the end of this video: What tf am I doing and what am I doing next?
Looking forward to the next one.
I really enjoyed this video and your other ones. I remember seeing you at One Music Fest last year and your confidence and energy was inspiring, still is! You are and look amazing!
They say gagggghheeetttt 🤏🏿🤏🏿🤏🏿🤏🏿 Lmfaoooo
This is really the way to go. Sex is so much better when it's with someone that loves you.
Girl….. man that soul tie ain’t no joke especially when the Hokey Pokey ain’t good 😂😩
How you gonna steal from your momma 😂
Congratulations on your phone call.💕 same, I don’t bargain with God.
Don’t tell them they don’t deserve it.. just say you don’t drink.
that man with the comment of "i took a girl out and she slept with me the first night, red flag" is ass backwards to me because did she sleep with HERSELF that night??? did he trip and fall into the [] by himself? just confusing lmao!!!! if she's red, he's SCARLET!
Girl I def feel you not doin the Hokey Pokey for the rest of the year. I don’t feel like it’s just who we “choose” but rather there’s just very few decent men. I just give it to God atp.
Girl, no tf he didn't!
I'm done!!
I can definitely relate sis ❤
Exactly! Bargaining with God feels like he's a genie or something.
I’m 18 years old and I am currently a virgin. I appreciate you giving your insight on casual sex, this made me think deeper about the kind of person I would like to share my body with.🤎
Save it, it's your super Power.
@@katrinaburch4243 Amen to that ❤
You're on the right path love. Sex is so emotional especially the first time, share it with someone you truly know cares about you as you do him.
I think you're headed in the right direction and this was an insightful piece but I have a bone to pick. Why do people say it's okay for women to fulfill the sexual desires they "deserve"? That idea really bothers me. Sex is something you do WITH another person so how on earth could anybody- man or woman- feel they DESERVE to have another person meet these desires? If a man says he deserves sex from a woman it sounds disgusting. I feel like sometimes as women (or any minority really) in an effort to take back power use the same tactics that whomever is oppressing us (in this case men) use but the tactic in itself is oppressive. I hate that this is the narrative for young girls. You can have a sense of self worth without feeling like other people owe you something. If you want to fulfill your sexual desires that's a choice you make but you never DESERVE to have them satisfied by another person simply b/c you exist. I think this is part of the problem that you alluded to in parts of this video. The idea that it's something we're entitled to so in an effort to do "self care" - go out and have sex with who you like, in the way you like etc, but in reality it doesn't work. The premise is false and it ends up being self deprecating.
What white mascara and black mascara did you use? It made your bottom lashes look perfect
Lean in to God! Submit to Him in all things and watch the peace and joy He blesses you with!
You’re called to so much more than gratification of the flesh. God has so much more for you 💛🫂
“And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.”
Philippians 4:7
I can definitely relate 😩
GIRRRLLL! I randomly found your channel…I’m moving in…I LOVE THIS PLACE!
Clock it 😂
Loved this 💕
Right he was just looking to steal is crazy 😬
I can’t connect him to my soul 😂😂😂
This video is hitting home lol
This is so real❤
I’m so glad to see a video from u❤❤❤😊😊
Never subscribed to someone so quick omg
Question when you’re hooking up with these guys are you going to their place or are they coming to you?
Girl hold out from the Hokey Pokey as long as you meet your husband or a man that’s paying ALL your bills
Miss your content on here boo, where you at 👀 hope you're good ❤
If I could repost this like TikTok I would 😂
You don’t have to tell guys you had WLS. Just say you are on a serious weight loss journey. Which isn’t a lie .
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You gotta go 😂😂
Good,,you need to
Hire some help!
Smart lol mess with the men that got money
Don’t encourage prostitution
Firsttttt hey boo❤