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  • @arnellarmon
    @arnellarmon  Год назад +655

    Please forgive the late upload 😭 I was busy with Noah all day and then when I finally uploaded I got a copyright flag so had to re-edit!!

  • @kireikay
    @kireikay Год назад +705

    Hearing Arnell talk about being lonely is real. I’m a single mom & it’s so lonely. I’m sad hearing her say this cuz it seems like the dad isn’t around like he was during her pregnancy 😢. No women should be raising a child alone it is hard!!! We make it work tho! Give yourself grace it’s ok if you miss a week or post late we understand ❤❤❤

    • @MyMy.26100
      @MyMy.26100 Год назад +223

      This!!! It always seems like the dad tends to want to leave once reality hits tht another life is on earth nd they dont want to deal with it. Its so sad.

    • @DonaleeDiary
      @DonaleeDiary Год назад +60

      Yea I hope she doesn’t keep feeling alone because motherhood can make you so lonely it’s hard on your own

    • @lovelycheryl
      @lovelycheryl Год назад +81

      Wait.. did I actually miss something? Are they broken up? 🥺

    • @MyMy.26100
      @MyMy.26100 Год назад +40

      @@lovelycheryl yes they are.

    • @lovelycheryl
      @lovelycheryl Год назад +51

      @@MyMy.26100 ooh wauw.. I totally missed that, if she even spoke about it. That's extremely sad 😟

  • @plumpnjuicybabe184
    @plumpnjuicybabe184 Год назад +1398

    Arnell you have a child we’re lucky to get a video once a month. I don’t understand why ppl are tripping. Take your time and do you and your child.

    • @CarinRenee
      @CarinRenee Год назад +64

      No seriously! The audacity of ppl to comment what she can’t title her Vlogs 😂🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @cnikki3
      @cnikki3 Год назад +2

      Agreeedddddd

    • @iamjenantoinette
      @iamjenantoinette Год назад +5

      That’s what I was about to say! Well, about to type lol

    • @EvaJewel_
      @EvaJewel_ Год назад +6

      Yep this part 100% we gonna watch no matter when it’s uploaded

    • @raward219
      @raward219 Год назад +5

      This!

  • @arnellerenae4743
    @arnellerenae4743 Год назад +54

    Arnell, take the time you need for you and the baby. Your true supporters will be here whenever you are ready. Being a mom is an amazing journey filled with highs and lows, so put yourself and Noah first. Also, breast milk is a little sweet so try it.

  • @charchar8432
    @charchar8432 Год назад +128

    Hey Arnell 👋🏾 always take time for yourself and your baby.❤ never feel guilty for that we will always be here when u get back 🥺🫶🏽… also you don’t have to address it but kind of curious what happened to your boyfriend/ baby daddy? He seemed so invested during the pregnancy 🙇🏽‍♀️ hope he’s still around even if y’all are not together anymore.. anyways sending u and baby Noah much love, blessings, and peace ☮️ 💕🫶🏽

    • @arnellarmon
      @arnellarmon  Год назад +283

      Thank you :) I’m waiting for the right time to address it! When I do it’ll make sense as to why I waited but in the meantime just know I’m much happier and I don’t control his actions however I’m doing the best I can to make sure Noah is good and making sure that I’m providing him as much stability as possible so that he doesn’t have the same experiences as me and I don’t want or expect any pity from my viewers ❤️

    • @laporchebernard1593
      @laporchebernard1593 Год назад +30

      @@arnellarmonyou got this, I was a single mom since the day my daughter was born. I met my now fiancé when my daughter was 9 (she will be 15 this year). Your happily ever after will come. Patience and enjoy this time with Noah. Praying for peace and happiness always 🤍

    • @philiciadouglas5585
      @philiciadouglas5585 Год назад +3

      ​@@arnellarmon❤

    • @bridgittebuffonge3392
      @bridgittebuffonge3392 Год назад +1

      ❤❤❤

  • @ShequiraMoves
    @ShequiraMoves Год назад +26

    1:02:55 I’m glad you went and had that moment. You deserve. We forget who we are when we become moms. But when we rediscover who we are, it’s UP!!

  • @ajakeanna
    @ajakeanna Год назад +23

    the person on the phone saying that they would hit you with the EpiPen after you try the Reeses cup had me dying 🤣

    • @arnellarmon
      @arnellarmon  Год назад +6

      Porsche 😂😂😂😂

    • @DivaDen
      @DivaDen Год назад +4

      ​@@arnellarmonthat's love! She want you to experience joy 😂 cause that's whats Reese cups and Sneaker candy bars are 😂

  • @Mosealemetse3214
    @Mosealemetse3214 Год назад +41

    Apparently , babies have guardian angels who watch over them (only they can see them, due to their innocence and purity), that’s why you’ll find them staring at empty spots and smiling or “playing with them”.
    I don’t know how true it is but I lowkey believe it 😁😂

    • @DivaDen
      @DivaDen Год назад +4

      This was my child all the time..even captured a few moments on my phone.

    • @LaddiO.
      @LaddiO. Год назад +1

      This is exactly what I thought when she said it. Babies can see what we can’t because of their innocence and not being able to communicate what they see

    • @Mosealemetse3214
      @Mosealemetse3214 Год назад

      @@LaddiO. I think there’s a reason that they don’t talk or see for a while , it’s to protect their purity and help them adjust to this horrible world we live in. So their guardians stay with them to guide them, and as “woo woo” as this may sound (to some people) , they were spirit beings before being born as humans. So I completely believe it.

    • @Mosealemetse3214
      @Mosealemetse3214 Год назад

      @@DivaDen yeah they all do it , it’s an amazing thing to witness , once u know what it is 😂, because before I become spiritual, I used to wonder wtf was hovering over my baby 😂 but now that I’m spiritually aware, I love it!

  • @EzraMonthy
    @EzraMonthy Год назад +2

    Girll that that mom brain ❤

  • @x.daiisyy
    @x.daiisyy Год назад +4

    ITS MS.CONSISTENCY HERSELF!
    claiming that positive energy but anyone watching can tell you are so genuine about getting back into the ~groove~ so give yourself grace mama!

  • @Mochiboba90
    @Mochiboba90 Год назад +5

    Not Saweetie knowing you and she said you look better in person eeeekkk! A flex ❤

  • @christinecbmiller737
    @christinecbmiller737 Год назад +3

    It's called the mom bounce! It's real not sure if it goes away 😩 I love being a mom on you, we have that much more in common I love it!!!!! So glad you are back I love you!

  • @NaturallyJadaG
    @NaturallyJadaG Год назад

    Watching your videos literally keep me calm at work I think it’s your voice haha

  • @GodsComplexGirl
    @GodsComplexGirl Год назад +8

    Wd love a good midnight release ❤ No need to apologize love, we gonna support you in every season 🫶🏽

  • @luxxshari_
    @luxxshari_ Год назад +2

    I just love your vlogs and your personality sis! You’re a rockstar mom and incredible woman. The perfect role model ❤️ I’m so glad Saweetie was humble enough to give credit where it’s due bc you’re honestly so gorgeous and stunning 🤩

  • @nashaclark5053
    @nashaclark5053 Год назад +7

    Snickers def goes crazy 🤣🤣🤣 proud of you!

  • @TheAregebesolas
    @TheAregebesolas Год назад +1

    Girl you don’t have to apologize I think we love your stories anyway they come with complete love and respect. You are safe with us here. Love your vibes and love you. You remind me of myself when I was you age. Even the psychic goings wish I could swap stories with you and my friend Keisha who shares your birthday. I could see is in her backyard under a tree drinking run and coconut water in Jamaica and laughing.

  • @ladileelee1
    @ladileelee1 Год назад

    Im so happy you have such great people in your life to help you. You deserve it🙌🏾 please dont worry about us, we will be here! Take care of you Mama everything else will flow💕

  • @rosiancampbell
    @rosiancampbell Год назад

    I love my nails unfinished! It just givesss!!! The girlies who get it, getttt itttt! x

  • @kycannn
    @kycannn Год назад

    I loved this vlog, the support, the vulnerability, rediscovering confidence, having fun, etc. it was all a beautiful transition to witness! 🥹🤍

  • @ninabina5001
    @ninabina5001 Год назад +2

    Sending good vibes your way. Proud of you 🫶🏽 your doing a great job

  • @emmyygabriella
    @emmyygabriella Год назад +1

    i loooooove this vlogs! 😭 perfect video to watch/listen to throughout the day

  • @danielacristine7063
    @danielacristine7063 Год назад +2

    i’m not a mom but my mommy is a single mother and seeing you go through this journey makes my heart break for you. But i believe in you girl! you are powerful, strong, independent, and resilient 🩷🩷🩷

  • @claudiaortega6455
    @claudiaortega6455 Год назад

    I love watching your videos bro😭 it makes me feel so safe. Post whenever you can, whenever you want, but just know ima be here waiting for my girl😩🫶 love you

  • @naynay64132
    @naynay64132 Год назад +1

    You’re doing an amazing job with the weekly vlogs! Especially as new mom! A job well done! Keep up the great work 💓

  • @destinythomas5537
    @destinythomas5537 11 месяцев назад

    You’re so adorable and I enjoy watching you with your son. Best wishes

  • @imiradrain5617
    @imiradrain5617 Год назад +5

    Coconut milk in the iced matcha is bomb. You should try that instead.

    • @MsBrit_
      @MsBrit_ Год назад +1

      My sister let me try some of hers one day and it's really good.

    • @DivaDen
      @DivaDen Год назад +1

      Is she allergic? Is coconut classified as a tree nut? Could be why she hasn't tried it.

  • @CasWald
    @CasWald Год назад +1

    Side note i loveee this camera and the lens, it feels like im actually there and youre talking to me (or maybe thay sounds creepy lmao) but yea! I always love the content. Youre so good at what you do

  • @mabatho.mohaleamalla
    @mabatho.mohaleamalla Год назад +2

    We love you girl and you're doing you're best ❤!

  • @tianabest7445
    @tianabest7445 Год назад +1

    Hey Arnell. It’s quinesha! 1st I just want to say welcome back. I’m so proud of you. 2nd nephew is so handsome. I’m Glad to see u back consistently on RUclips. But Please don’t spread yourself thin trying to post your 🎥.Take it easy. I tell you all the time your true supporters/fam will always be here waiting for you! Love you friend!

  • @laelleay
    @laelleay Год назад +2

    Loving the new editing style. Also, I know you want to be consistent and stick to your word, but any video is great to see from you even a day or seven late 🫶🏽🥰

  • @inspiringyoutobecompletely9948
    @inspiringyoutobecompletely9948 Год назад +1

    The bond is awesome ladies 💕

  • @larhesajamiel
    @larhesajamiel Год назад +7

    Having a kids changes how you see everything because you now truly want to be better for someone else. You also want to set positive examples. It really does change how you see the world and not only the impact you want to make but the impact you want your child to make. You realize how you grew up and how you want to give them things you didn't have, and not just stuff.

  • @Chels53
    @Chels53 Год назад

    Arnell you are so positive it brings a bright energy every time I watch your videos❤❤❤. I also thought it was funny how you said your baby looks like Alissa like don’t have the same face that’s too funny and cute. 😂

  • @sharil2913
    @sharil2913 Год назад +4

    I’m so glad your friends come through for you and we love the vlogs whenever we get it 🤗 I’m sorry you feel alone though and it sucks , also concerned sounds like the dad isn’t as involved ? I hope not

  • @Just-YOLANDA-T.C
    @Just-YOLANDA-T.C Год назад +1

    Yesssssssss was bored then I saw your notification. Thank you.

  • @RandomPhycoticness
    @RandomPhycoticness Год назад +3

    1:03:30 rule of thumb, if you can drive you can BF. You don’t really need to pump and dump esp if you can wait to sober up. Also pump before drinking which I think you already did. Lassssstly fact check/double check any and all parenting tips/advice ppl give you

  • @themzie
    @themzie Год назад

    The intro is so cool😢 this vlog is so awesome, you're so inspiring 😊

  • @TamyraBenjamin
    @TamyraBenjamin Год назад +3

    4 videos in 7 days😍😍😍. Im lit 🎉🎉

  • @jackio09
    @jackio09 Год назад +2

    You don’t have to pump and dump!! Don’t waste the liquid gold Love. Amazon sells alcohol test strips for breast milk. But only use if YOU feel comfortable. I did!!. Also, the body can metabolize alcohol and you may not have to dump at all. I had to pump exclusively because my little one never latched 😢. Pumping was my life. Save the liquid gold 😂❤

  • @Lugyptia
    @Lugyptia Год назад +5

    Girl not you Moo-ing lol I’m dead 🐄🍼

  • @dontcaretbh
    @dontcaretbh Год назад +1

    it’s 1:19am over here and you best believe i’m about to watch this entire vlog lmaooo

  • @briacasey2749
    @briacasey2749 Год назад +2

    “…but I need this therapy chileee” sameee 💀💀💀

  • @CristaRoyalle
    @CristaRoyalle Год назад +9

    Girlll don’t dump that milk ! Get those breast milk alcohol strips to test if there is any alcohol in your milk . You would be surprised how much you can actually drink before it gets into your milk .

  • @inspiringyoutobecompletely9948
    @inspiringyoutobecompletely9948 Год назад +1

    One day at a time one moment at a time 🩷🩷🩷

  • @estheronala
    @estheronala Год назад +1

    Come on nowww the consistency is givinggg 😁🔥🔥🔥

  • @nataliemichelleee
    @nataliemichelleee Год назад +6

    So many beautiful things I just witnessed!! I love how your friends and family are supporting you. Also how you’re caring for yourself especially as a new mommy.
    When I saw Saweetie & you it proves Bay Area girlies are finee af 🤭💖 p.s. pls take those power naps you deserve em 💖

  • @MzVee106
    @MzVee106 Год назад

    You sound just like me about the Pink 🩷 I've never really been a pink kind of girl even though I'm kind of girly. But recently I've started tapping into it. I have an entire pink/gold room (my daughter's old room) ahd i love it.

  • @bean1944
    @bean1944 Год назад

    Arnell when you said holding your baby it like holding your sister 😢😢😢🥰

  • @TheAregebesolas
    @TheAregebesolas Год назад

    Yes rock it away girl

  • @ItsQueeenDeee
    @ItsQueeenDeee Год назад

    You’re doing such a great job!

  • @onzanikkahayes6367
    @onzanikkahayes6367 Год назад +2

    Arnell, you look good. You don't look like you had a baby. You giving me baby fever girl. Your baby is beautiful.

  • @megankillough6293
    @megankillough6293 Год назад

    My son just turned a year and I’m still
    rockin by myself just cause momma. 😂

  • @JTanDSGN
    @JTanDSGN Год назад

    Woo! Alfredo straight out the can girlllll 🥴

  • @queenrit
    @queenrit 11 месяцев назад

    The milk keeps milking.😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @jaem521
    @jaem521 Год назад

    we missed you......please more content!!!

  • @boipelo___
    @boipelo___ Год назад

    your face card is absolutely effortlessly insane momma😩❤

  • @brelnnyzhea192
    @brelnnyzhea192 Год назад

    Yesss we love Arnell! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @Conztance
    @Conztance Год назад

    You should try using kosher salt in water that’s what my brother told me and he’s a chef and since I started my pasta hasn’t been salty lol

  • @oumoudiallo4395
    @oumoudiallo4395 Год назад

    I loved this vlog!!

  • @comelyshe4772
    @comelyshe4772 Год назад

    For you to have just had a child , you really back in your bag fast! We love it , but take it easy mama ❤

  • @miadavis9721
    @miadavis9721 11 месяцев назад

    I'm just like you I need to be held accountable for my hair going to see family plans keeping friends around

  • @jessicaaxjean
    @jessicaaxjean Год назад

    Arnell! Noah is perfect. Mama like fits you well! You’re officially apart of the milf club! New house, new love (Noah), new aura & energy! Beautiful! Love ya ❤

  • @alleasehere
    @alleasehere Год назад

    Try the milk! 😂
    Love you so much! ❤❤❤

  • @Girly626
    @Girly626 Год назад

    Coconut milk! 45:12 🥥

  • @chi2om
    @chi2om Год назад

    Aww new tattoos. I wanna see them

  • @brandisdreamland
    @brandisdreamland Год назад

    Girl your vlogs an hour if i don’t see you for a month it’s okay who ever complains they can slide down a hill of razor blades and lemon juice 😂😂😂

  • @lungilengcamu1562
    @lungilengcamu1562 Год назад +1

    you look so beautiful Arnelll

  • @honeyxaj5587
    @honeyxaj5587 Год назад

    I’ve also been listening to that Montgomery brawl song 😭😭

  • @Kanesha
    @Kanesha Год назад +2

    I thought a weekly vlog was just a vlog of you for a week lol so I don’t mind weekly in the title

  • @dreadenise3471
    @dreadenise3471 Год назад

    Girl I’m tryna meet the uncle too. 😌

  • @VictoriaJN
    @VictoriaJN Год назад +2

    Just hear to add to the try the breast milk count, and to say you got this!! fully support you getting on your zoom! 😂❤

  • @billsybills
    @billsybills Год назад

    48:35 I’ve done that to two of my tires on the passenger and the first time i destroyed my rim, so i feel for you deep

  • @DestinyShante1993
    @DestinyShante1993 Год назад +1

    Your doing so good. I have 6 little ones! I've always tried my milk....lol. I'm not gonna give away the taste because I'm pretty sure everyone may be different but definitely go for it. Keep going

  • @ladiepink
    @ladiepink Год назад

    we love u so much thank you

  • @ShneiceB
    @ShneiceB Год назад +1

    You're doing great, gurrrrrllllll.....😊

  • @empressmarditv3054
    @empressmarditv3054 Год назад

    try it! mine tasted like sweetened vanilla almond milk 😂 I underatnd why it's like crack to the babies

  • @shonsuallamcmorris-rice9755
    @shonsuallamcmorris-rice9755 Год назад +1

    Loved this vlog!! Does anyone know the exact remix of Peekaboo by Lil Yachty ft Migos she used at the 41:24?

  • @calandrarowland3192
    @calandrarowland3192 Год назад +1

    Not weird and it’s not bad …you will be surprised.

  • @CarinRenee
    @CarinRenee Год назад

    Arneezy for PREZ!! 😝

  • @praiserogers1265
    @praiserogers1265 Год назад +3

    House tour please

  • @eryionwilliams3687
    @eryionwilliams3687 Год назад +1

    Thank you so much for sharing your life with us. I’m so happy the vlogs are back! We’re claiming ✨ consistency ✨ and also just good energy and good people around you. Love you babes🫶🏾
    P.S. please try your breast milk lol

  • @johneilclarke5333
    @johneilclarke5333 Год назад

    So close to 1M🥹

  • @veliciawilliams1018
    @veliciawilliams1018 Год назад +201

    Its great to have friends who come through. Shout out to them. Thats what amazing friends do for new moms. Thats love. ❤️❤️

    • @fatimamirza9416
      @fatimamirza9416 Год назад +3

      yeah why did i get emotional during the massage lol bodies hold so much emotion and trauma i know that it meant so much to her

  • @TheRaraReport
    @TheRaraReport Год назад +256

    I say this so respectfully: you don't give yourself enough credit for your beauty & how you inspire others. Sometimes you speak down yourself, but you're inspiring us. Saweetie was even gassing you cause she actually posted you over nearly most people. YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL ARNELL.

  • @annastasiaelley
    @annastasiaelley Год назад +390

    Don’t drive yourself crazy with a routine or anything, newborns are unpredictable. When you go with their flow and try and sleep when they sleep (since breastfeeding takes so much out of you) the day gets easier. So happy for you honey 🥰.

    • @Angel-ts8rc
      @Angel-ts8rc Год назад +15

      “Sleep when the baby sleeps” isn’t really the best advice usually, since most moms have to do stuff when the baby sleeps, but she has a nanny🤷‍♀️

    • @annastasiaelley
      @annastasiaelley Год назад +12

      @@Angel-ts8rc that’s why I said TRY. We all catch up with things when we can.

  • @ruthwells3990
    @ruthwells3990 Год назад +106

    Hello, I rarely comment on your channel, I don’t know why but I just do not. I’m old enough to be your Mom but I believe the content you share is beneficial to all and for all. I just wanted to say today you are a BEAUTIFUL SOUL, inside and out. And I pray God continues to bless you and your handsome son. It’s wonderful for other people, not just young people, to see a thriving woman of color doing this journey called life, with obstacles and all, keep smiling, it’s BEAUTIFUL!!! Keep moving AWESOME LADY!!!!

  • @rosababy4238
    @rosababy4238 Год назад +204

    It really does take a village raising children glad you have supportive friends to help you do that ❤

  • @e.j.1223
    @e.j.1223 Год назад +266

    Not me wanting to meet Noah’s uncle too chillee 🤭. I love this for you Arnell, enjoy yourself! I wish you nothing but the best moving forward with your cute little family 🤍!

  • @nizbet5707
    @nizbet5707 Год назад +129

    Arnell you are too adorable, your energy is so pleasant and warm. Love it.

  • @AsYouAreASMR
    @AsYouAreASMR Год назад +79

    First of all, Saweetie the Cancer Queen??? GAGGED 😭 that interaction was very timely and made me emotional as well. Cancer is the Mother zodiac/archetype,(you probably already knew that) and I’m glad you got that comfort as a cancer moon and more importantly as a new mom. Secondly, you embracing Alissa and (honestly yourself because yal are twins) within Noah is helping you open up because you are symbolically tending to yourself and your emotions in a way you probably haven’t in the past. Thank you for sharing, I hope this is helpful lol

    • @jaydefairley2780
      @jaydefairley2780 Год назад +3

      This is so beautiful, I hope she sees this!😭

  • @DivaDen
    @DivaDen Год назад +90

    I was in a similar situation when I gave birth...friends helped me nest my home, finish the nursery, and even was my doula during birth...I still get emotional thinking how they were there for me and that was almost 13 years ago. I'm forever grateful. One special gf has a bday coming up so I need to get a card and gift in the mail. Don't worry about looking like a simp it's the gratitude 🙏

  • @brookesss444
    @brookesss444 Год назад +58

    I relate to being disappointed when you are vulnerable with someone. I think people don’t know how to handle other’s emotions when they don’t know how to handle their own. That’s exactly why I think we need to normalize showing and feeling our emotions more. Thank you for being open to being that example❤

  • @nicolerene.
    @nicolerene. Год назад +51

    If you try your breast milk. I’ll try mine. ☺️
    Love that your baby boy is growing fast. I’m learning along with you. My baby boy is 2 months 13lbs and already in 6 month clothing. The growth is wild. But he is such a blessing. 💙 I hope you continue to enjoy life with your baby. And enjoy life on your own.

  • @aprilshorty4094
    @aprilshorty4094 Год назад +43

    People are gonna talk about you and complain about something no matter what that just means that you're doing something right 😂 Who cares about if it's a weekly vlog just be quiet and watch 🤦‍♀️🙄

  • @natashof08
    @natashof08 Год назад +100

    Sooo glad you are back! And do not apologize or feel the need to say any expectations. You still have our support. You are a mom now!! 😍❤️

  • @JasmineAshlea1
    @JasmineAshlea1 Год назад +37

    TASTE IT! TASTE IT! 😂
    But seriously, mine tastes like watered down almond milk. So don't worry. It's not too bad 😅

  • @LyfezGood
    @LyfezGood Год назад +39

    Girl, you don’t need no 10 comments to try your breast milk. Everybody tries their own milk

    • @WalkingGoode
      @WalkingGoode Год назад +10

      Never tried mine so not true 😂

  • @sydnaps1995
    @sydnaps1995 Год назад +39

    It's been 2.5 years and I still catch myself rocking, and even patting my chest like I'm holding a bb😂

  • @DivaDen
    @DivaDen Год назад +55

    Promise us you're gonna give yourself grace, Arnell. Things happen...big or small. Breathe, process, and KIM (keep it moving) all us bad ah women need to give ourselves grave. Also ladies....BOOK the massage 💆‍♀️