We've been through hell... what's next.
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I'd like to say that we understand that other people have gone through worse. We know it could have been worse for us. But that doesn't change that it's the hardest ordeal we've gone through as parents and wouldn't wish it on our worst enemies. We are grateful that we have our son alive and at home because others can't always say that, but it will still take us time to grieve and adjust. It's not a suffering competition, it's just our experience right now.
For everyone that already understands that, I appreciate you guys.
Wishing you And yuni the best ❤️
You might be right, it could've been way worse, but ddo not downplay your suffering, just because someone can't eat for an entire week, doesnt mean your suffering is less because you CAN eat, stay strong, and im sure that with a name as strong as Leon he'll have a nice and strong life, just a bit of adjusting (you know like healers should?) stay strong my friends
I'm so glad he is home. I'll keep him in my prayers. My son was also born a month early. It's hard to see your child will have a more difficult time than others. Grieving that potential less difficult life is totally natural. My boy is going to be 14 this summer and despite his difficulties, he brings me joy every day. Sending big hugs to you, your wife, and your family! You got this!
Take as long as you need, we will always be here, and I'm glad the baby is okay, and I'm glad you and yuni are doing okay, but take all the time you and yuni need.
There is no such thing as having it worse when it comes to children troubles. The severity or lightness of other people's troubles do nothing to yours in regular issues, much less something as big a deal as a baby.
You already know I'm around for you, dude. One day at a time.
Anytime a baby is born: major adjustments have to be made be it the first child or 10 child. The main thing is getting baby home, healthy, and happy. Real life is more important than anything. Take care of yourself and your family. Everything else is secondary.
As a recent father myself, im so glad your boy is doing okay. Stay strong man.
For sure. My little man made it out with Hypospadus(look it up if im not going to get into it), but im happy everyone is doing okay.
That baby boy is gunna be soooo spoiled by all his big sisters. We suddenly had a boy in the extended family after like, 15 girl cousins, and they just hug all over him. May your house be blessed with many Tonka trucks to step over!
As a baby born at 26 weeks and in the NICU for 83 days, where it was touch and go for a lot of it… I’m proud to say I’m still here 36 years later. Definitely the scariest thing for my parents. sending you all so much love, take care of yourselves first! ❤️
f that commenter >:(
just as much as people are allowed to not have children you're also allowed to have them.
glad to hear you're doing better!
That "joke" was vile. I'm so sorry that you even had to read that.
So it sounds like you had some serious parental scares. Reminds me of the few scares my parents have shared of when I was born; premature, intensive care for all sorts of health reasons, apparently a few actual heart stops iirc? Honestly take however long you need to focus on you and yours. You have your community's support through and through, we'll wait however long it takes
Same, 8 weeks premature, allergic to penicillin, couldn't eat, allergic to the latex gloves, stopped breathing a few times. NICU for 11 days. Being an adult knowing that was my origin story makes me super sympathetic to parents of other sick kiddos because I don't have kids yet but I remember being The sick kid. Rest, lots of love, self-care, and knowing you have a village who cares about you and yours are just what someone needs.
"My boy Leon" the way you said that was heartwarming. ❤ I can only imagine how rough the past weeks were and I'm glad the worst possibilities didn't come to pass. Wishing all the best to you and the family.
NICU baby here. 37 Years Old and still causing chaos~ You got this Drak, I know for my own parents it was touch and go for a while, it was scary according to them, not knowing if I'd make it (Breathing troubles, heart stopped a few times, couldn't keep anything down.. a lot of 'fun stuff'.) but take the time you need! Everything else comes secondary compared to making sure you and your family are alright~ Stay strong my dude!
Thank you for choosing your family over everything else. As someone who was on the worst end of that left all alone with my deseased baby.... not easy. Make my recovery worse and frankly ruined my life.
Thank you so much for choosing your family, to help your wife and baby Leon. Give him a extra squeeze for my little rainbow baby. And again thank you for choosing your family.
I've followed you since 2.0. Not gonna stop now
I stand by what I've said. I'm so proud of yall. Yall are beyond strong and I hope yall know that. I'll continue to always be here for you/yall. All my love and support
Glad the baby is okay now! Hope you guys get time to adjust to your newborn. Hopefully things improve soon! :)
Baby boy may have had a rough start on life, but with such a kind and caring family taking care of him i'm sure everything will be fine!!
Sending all the love and support i can!!
I'm glad to hear that the baby is alright and is at home, please concentrate on ensuring that you all are safe and secure. Take as much time as you need and I genuinely hope for the best for everyone!!
Hey Drak, take your time. The world keeps moving on, but that’s all the more reason to take a rest when you need it. You and yours have been through a lot, we understand it’s going to take time for you to recover.
Drak I'm sure most, if not all, of us understand that you're going through hell right now. I'm a father myself and I am glad to hear that baby Leon (apologies if I misspelled his name) is doing well. I hope that you, Yuni, and your girls are all ok and are taking this in strides. He may have been dealt a poor hand, but he is your son and will work through it. Especially with the family and the community behind him. Focus on your family first, we'll all be waiting here praying for good news.
I don't know who that comment, but I share your displeasure with it. Like I said, I'm a father too, and that comment did not sit well with me. That almost felt like an attack on the child and you don't attack a man's child.
I'm so glad the little one is home and he has upcoming surgeries to help him out. May he grow strong and healthy, and I look forward to hearing how fantastic of a kid he is soon! And please, reach out to someone in your life if you need something. You might think you're okay with money, but you also have three little girls along with little Lyon and it's not wrong to want help balancing childcare, food, and household things. If any of us can assist you, like helping you find a nanny or a cleaning service, let someone know!
But really, welcome home, little one, and may the Drak family have light and love and laughter.
Glad that the boy is home safe with you all! I hope you and your family are able to relax soon -- as best as anyone can in these kinds of situations at least. Hospital visits and stays are terrifying and no laughing matter. Sending all the prayers to you all, and take all the time you need to recuperate. ❤
You're taking all the precautions you need to, and putting your family first. Obviously, I'm an outsider who can never have even a fraction of all the details on everything, but from this internet rando's unsolicited point of view: you're a good father. You always care for your kids, and taking care of that many is pretty much a full time job in itself. Managing to actually support them is amazing, and doing this on TOP of it is just. Wow, you're really going through some shit.
As for the people commenting on "another one", f- 'em. I'd rather a couple as kind and caring and supportive as you two bring another child into this world than some folks bringing their first into it. Best of luck, and blessings of the Mothercrystal upon your freshly baked creampie.
It is entirely understandable, you need not apologize at all. Take care of your boy, we'll be here o7
I'm very glad that, at least for now, everything seems to be moving forward for you and your family. Keeping y'all in my prayers for a bit
May Lyon continue to be healthy and have a long and fulfilling life. Drak you and Yunj are troopers and I can’t fathom how you’re still juggling all of this, but you have my utmost respect for being the loving parents that you are. Cheers.
I understand how hard this is. My baby was born 7 weeks early and was in the NICU for 7 weeks. It’s unbelievably hard and stressful. It’s hard to comprehend how scary it is until you go through it. You’re doing amazing man, everything gets better! Love ya Drak, stay strong!
Hi Drak-I've been a longtime-lurking subscriber, and your uploads with NEST have been a source of joy. I respect and appreciate you all the more with your conviction to be present with your family and set aside work. Even if the touring thing ends up remote, I would absolutely respect the choice to take this time with your family if that is what you feel is right. (I don't know your life, work, etc.)
Things like this are scary, setting boundaries is hard, and I cannot imagine what processing this can even be like. I wish you all the best, especially little Leon, and I am sending all the good vibes, prayers, hopes, and support that I can, even though we don't know each other. You're doing all the right things, and it will be okay. Keep it up-I believe in you.
childbirth is never easy and has huge riskes to both child and mother. short term and long term so i do hope they are both recovering well. hows mom doing after everything? good luck ajusting with the littles already pressent and the online gaming stuff.
Hey Drak, I'm glad your boy is doing well and I hope everything continues to go well for the future, take care of yourself and your family, be strong, the community will always be there behind you ! From a French guy who has been following you for a long time :)
I can only imagine how scary it was for you and Yuni. I'm so glad your baby is fine and wishing you all the best. You're a parent first before anything else and please take time to focus on that. Still keeping you and your family in my thoughts and prayers 🙏.
Take all the time you need dude, and you have all my thoughts with you. Welcome to the world Leon, your dad is awesome.
So glad to hear that baby and mama are okay. Best wishes for you all through this tough time - appreciate the transparency you bring to your videos. Please take care!
Leon's a sick name dude. Congrats on the new kid man, best wishes for you!
Oh man, as a dad myself this is awful to hear. My best to you and all the rest of your family. Take care of yourself and your family. Much love Drak, wishing for a quick resolution to everything.
No worries man! So glad he's alright! Take all the time you need. The health of you and your family is more important than putting out content! 💕💕💕💕💕
I strongly agree with this, we can wait. Your family and the things related to it come first. Hopefully things go smoothly for you and your family and just take a breath and know that things will get better.
After everything you all have gone through this last month, all I can think is
"Holy hell, this is a strong family."
You have absolutely been through hell, but damn it if it ain't inspiring to see y'all still standing tall and moving forward.
Take a knee for now, get some rest and gather your thoughts and feelings. We're here for yall, and we're cheering y'all on.
Dude, real life trumps games every time. Take time for yourself and your family. We'll be here when you're ready
Its always stressful when a premie is involved. I'm grateful to hear the little one is pulling through as well as he is. I think your fans understand why your fam is way more important than the media tour (or even content production). Hopefully everything will stabilize for you soon, but I would say for myself that its more important to take the time you and your family needs than to worry about a temporary drop in the frequency or quality of your content.
Thank you for being willing to share as much as you have with us.
My heart goes to you and your family. I am a parent also. It is terrifying to watch, helplessly, your child go through something like this. Try to get some rest.
As a premature baby myself (removed via C-Section very early due to complications my mother was having), I had every faith that your boy would make it. Even if it may not be the life you pictured him having, at the very least he will still have a life, and that is all that any good parent can ask for with their newborn, especially the premature ones. I just know you and yours will get through this rough time and forge ahead.
Your family is way more important, my friend. We are here for all of you during this time. I hope that baby, mama, the girls, and you are all doing well. We love you all. I'm so happy that he's going to be okay and will be doing well. Let's take it one step at a time from here on out.
As a premo baby born with SIDS myself, you, Yuni and the family got nothing but my love and support. Parental scares are nothing to scoff at.
Hey Drak, congratulations to you and Yuni! Leon is such a good, strong name. Whatever the future holds for him, he has a massive support team. A mum, dad, and sisters who love him so much already.
I will also say, as an adult (I'm only a little bit younger than you) with a significant and rare version of Spina Bifida... the technology and knowledge that is available now is leaps and bounds better than the past. Do not let a doctor be a dick to him (or any of your kids for that matter). Advocate, research, and don't be afraid to ask questions or use the tools available.
You guys got this. Keep growing strong little one.
As someone who has a few chronic illnesses myself, I know your son will be able to pull through and be strong as he has such a loving family! Getting a diagnosis can be tough and overwhelming news but I really wish you and your family the best through it all and I hope the doctors you see will treat your son with the kindness he deserves!!
So glad baby is doing okay! Thinking about you and your fam as you continue navigating this complicated time. ❤
Glad to hear baby is home now and you're doing well. First and foremost, take care of yourself and your family everything else is secondary!
You guys so got this! My daughter was 2 and a half months early, the nurses in the NICU absolutely know what they're doing!
My heart still aches for your, even though things could have been worse it's still a lot for you two. Me and my family will continue to pray for you and your kids. I hope for the best outcome for the future procedure so the baby will be fine. Please take your time with your family if you need to. We will all be waiting here if you need to go on a hiatus. Sorry if I am repeating myself. I commented on this before on twt as well, I was the guy who said I was NICU baby haha. It's terrifying but I know you will get through this. Look forward to hearing good news in a month or so. Stay strong and hopefully, you can look back on this in a few years and laugh about how you're kid gave you a scare, that's what my parents did at least lol. Love ya
You and your family come first as we in the ffxiv community say real life first. We understand that you have a new routine to get into. As I said in my tweet ( never calling it!) you son is a blessing.
Appreciate the update-sending you all my love.
I just wanna say that I'm happy your boy is going to be okay.
My niece was born with a major defect, and she had surgery at three weeks old, a month in the NICU.
She's just turned 15, so learning to drive now, and is a happy and healthy girl. She just has a cool scar and an interesting story about her birth.
Your son will have the same interesting stories to share when he's older.
You got this, it’s scary, but you guys are good parents so he's in good hands.
I am a full-time caretaker for my grandma and she just got out of ICU 2 weeks ago. So, I understand a little bit of what you're going through. Don't ever feel like it's something you absolutely have to go through alone.
Bro dont worry about the content just focus on the family over everything Best wishes and hope everything works out positivly ❤❤❤❤
Take whatever time you need, no one would hold anything like this against you in good faith. Health comes before productivity, always. I hope Leon is okay
hi drak, congratulations on the baby being safe now! im sure there’s going to be a lot more trials and a lot more sleepless nights but life is never easy when it involves your child. family always takes priority and i wish your family good will for the days to come, sending love !!
Take as long as you need. I remember how scary it was when my mom needed an emergency c section for my littlest brother, or when my cousin was born 4 weeks early. I’m glad he’s doing okay. He’s gonna be a rambunctious little dude running around and stealing toys from the stream room before you know it.
It's been so nice to hear that your boy's okay right now and there's options for him, and for you as a family and parents. You're good parents
Yes, it could have been so much worse but that doesn't mean the pain and grieving you feel now should be diminished. This is hard. It's difficult, take the time you need to get through all of this, Drak. We can wait. Family comes first!
I'm so glad baby is gonna be ok, and also I understand that streaming and stuff is your job but honestly taking this time for yourself is more important than content imo. I have plenty of other people I could watch in the meantime so worry about your personal life first because that's more important. I'm wishing you guys both well and hope things start getting better for all of you
Please take all the time you need, we can wait for the time when you feel like you’re both ready to continue
Even if you have no advice. Knowing that what's happening is scary, and it's okay to be scared. Focusing on supporting your family at this moment when being together is needed. Is the best advice. Cause starting to climb that mountain is hard. but together you and your family can rise above the clouds. Much prays go out to your family.
God, I can see why you guys were so scared. I'm glad they're going to be ok and I'm praying everything continues to be well from here. 💖 Leon's lucky to have you be there every step!
My daughter (2nd child out 3) had to stay in the NICU for over a week since she was choking with the cord inside. It was the hardest time of our lives. I understand how hard it is. It'll get better once everything gets sorted out. And hey, no matter what future he will have, he's gonna have a great one! Thats what we're here for.
I am glad your baby boy is going to be fine and strong. My niece had to be C-sectioned and only has one functioning kidney, so I understand get the stress of unexpected birth difficulties.
Im so glad your baby boy is home now. Take all the time you need, Drak. Your family comes first. Wishing you guys all the best 💞
Dunno if you'll be reading this since the baby boy's on the way home, but you have my sincere congratulations and prayers for making it through this. Definitely takes a stronger man than I to keep with the times while going through this situation. That said, I look forward to hearing more about the adjustments getting back home and how he's faring.
Once again, congratulations on the baby boy!
I was a premature baby, I wasnt expected to live to be 3 years old after my parents surrendered me to my grandparents when I was a month old. I was a challenge to them especially when I wasnt their direct child but im still here 35 years later because they didnt let what happened me stop caring for me. You and your wife are incredibly strong and things will get better with Leon and he'll grow big and strong and healthy. Prayers to you are yours♥
Glad he's okay. I know it's tough, man. You're a great parent and your boy is gonna do great.
From one dad to another, stay strong my man. I know it's hard to see them have to go through some hard stuff so young.
Much love to you and your family from a long time fan.
I'm glad that things are going to be okay with Leon. Thank you for the update. I hope things continue to go great, and improve for you. ❤
Whilst it sucks that the little guy has to have surgery so young if it's an easy fix and gives him a good quality of life then I hope everything goes well, you guys are doing great far as I can tell from twitter, hope little man is gonna be ok, stay strong you guys will get through it together
nothing but love drak, was not aware and cannot imagine how fucking hard its been for your and yours. so again nothing but love i hope it all works out for the best.
Man, I've been away from the channel for a while, so a couple of things. First congrats on the new baby! I'm happy that even after everything, they're okay and I'm sending good vibes that the upcoming procedure goes well. Second, that commenter can go to hell. a lot of people wait until they're 30 before even having kids. I was 29 when we had our first. My second will be here in a couple of months and I'll be 31.
You and your family always come first. So don't feel the need to apologize or try and make up for anything here. That baby's health is all that matters.
Much love Drak, keep pushing through it brother, and keep them kids happy and healthy. Stay strong man, the community has you in good hands.
You gotta do what you gotta do. You care for your family a lot more than most fathers would and I'm glad to see you're taking your life and family's health first. Keep up the good work, Drak, we'll be here for you.
Dude. That is a lot. Take your time. Family comes first always. I hope your baby’s future medical needs go well.
Even without telling us any major information, seeing all the comments from the community has been wonderful to see. I'm not someone who really prays a lot, but I sent all my love and prayers to you all and will continue to do so, and I hope things continue to improve for him. I hope Yuni has been recovering well too, it's always best to check on mom sometimes too :) take all the time you need and we will all be here when you're ready to tell us what you want us to know. ♥♥♥
So glad some stuff can be improved for Lyon, and I wish y'all the very best. I know it's probably one of the hardest things to do as a parent, but take care of yourselves too!!! It's obvious your kids are absolutely loved, but you and Yuni are too, so I hope y''all have all the support you need! Best of luck, Drak 💙
You take as much time as you need to adjust and take care of your affairs. You and your family's physical, mental and emotional health comes first. We'll still be here when you're ready/when the scary times pass. My thoughts are with you, Yuni and the kids
Recent father here too; family comes before all. Nobody’s gonna judge you for putting your sick baby before a video game. Praying for you bud
Sending all of our love to you, to Yuni, and to all of your wonderful and caring family.
I can't even imagine how much hell it's already been. I'm glad that you do have folks looking out for you and giving you the resources and info you need. I'm even more glad that the baby boy has made it home at last! You're doing your best and I have faith that everything is gonna be okay. Sending hugs and good vibes!
family comes first bud. i'm glad things are okay for now, take all the time you need to do right by you and yours! :)
You of all people deserve the time you need to be sure your own flesh and blood is alright and well. Process for as long as you need. I'm glad Lyon is alright, and he is very lucky to have the family he has. I wish you all the love and support.
Take all the time that you need. Your family, you and baby Leon will be in my thoughts and prayers. I am so glad that the baby is doing okay.
Even though you've heard it already dozens of time, take your time. Your boy and your family deserves your attention more than any of us have any right to even consider. Share what you feel confortable, in your own time. This kid will have amazing parents and sisters to take care of him, and I have no doubts he'll bring you so much joy that you'll forget these stressful times. But while these times are here, the best course of action is the one you're on : acknowledging it is hard and stressful, and taking the time and measures you need for all of you. I'm not one for prayers, but I'm keeping you in my thoughts. I have been lucky with my own son, and I cannot even fathom how I would have reacted in your situation, and I can only hope if I find myself in your shoes for our next kid, i'll be able to handle it as well as you. All the love from across the ocean.
Sending all the positive vibes and love your way. Been a long-time supporter and crazy happy your son has had (what sounds like) an amazing team of doctors working towards getting him on the right track towards being a healthy little guy! I hope everything goes well and I hope that everything continues to go smoothly for you and your family. All the love and all of the support!
glad your baby is doing ok. I had a cousin that was almost 2 months premy and had a lot of issues growing up and is now in her mid 20s and about to have her own kid. it gets better man and I wish you and the whole family well.
Drak, you and nest always bring me joy with your videos. I hope this hardship passes quickly and things return to normal. Please know that you and your family are in our thoughts and be sending you good vibes. Please try to take it easy, hydrate and congrats on your new son!
I'm so glad everything is okay. Sending love and good thoughts to your whole family, by birth and by bond.
NICU = neonatal intensive care unit, for anyone who was wondering.
Probably shouldnt have watched this while I ate breakfast, but Im glad to hear everything is fine. Cant begin to imagine how difficult this whole scenario must have been.
Dude, everyone has their own unique kind of thing when a kid is born, it doesn't make your struggles any less valid than anyone else. Only thing that matters is you and your family are getting through this and we in the community are here to support you man. Videos and stuff can wait, we just wanna make sure you and your kid are okay first and foremost. Family is more important and we will be here when you come back. I hope the rest of the bumpy road smooths out, stay positive and hope you and family have a long happy and healthy road from here on out.
Anyone who tries to imply in any fashion that what you've gone through is your fault, or that you should still be giving them content despite it all, is clearly a heartless, selfish being who will know loneliness the rest of their life. But that means their words are empty and devoid of meaning too. You and Yuni and your family are so strong, and you'll be even stronger when all is said and done. You deserve all the time you need to get through it and process as you need. We'll all be here when you guys are ready, whether it's to share the burden of that story, or just to send you good energy and well wishes. As in Endwalker, so in real life too: You do not and will not walk alone. Sending you guys all the best! ♥♥♥
I'm glad baby boy is home and doing okay. Sending you and your family positive vibes. It's a lot and I know you and Yuni are doing an incredible job as parents. ❤️
Oh my word people are so intrusive, the only people whose business it is, is yours and Yuni's. The two of you are strong, you're wonderful parents, and you have all our support. Keep doing what you need to and we love you. All positive thoughts for continued good outcomes and bless you, Drak.
Glad he's home! Take your time and take care of your family. Best wishes and hopes for you and Yuni.
I was also born almost a month premature and was in the NICU for a few weeks, and I am in my mid 30's and perfectly healthy, so I'm sure your son will be just fine.
Also, considering how considerate Yoshi-P was to Asmongold about his mother's death during their interactions, I highly doubt anyone at his team would be offended that you would prefer to spend your time with your family and newborn instead of their game.
Take your time. I'll be around when and if you're ready to roll out the content again, until then take your time and make sure your family is happy and healthy!
Hopefully all is well. But it is most likely recoverable I was also born 2 months early and am doing relatively fine now (23Years old)
Glad to hear the baby is doing good and is home now, here’s hoping there will be no other complications in the future. I’m not one for faith or religion but my heart goes out to you and your family sir, stay strong
I'm so glad Lyon's doing well and I really hope that his surgery goes according to plan!