LIVE: The INCEL Threat to America
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- Опубликовано: 23 авг 2024
- The Rise of INCELS: A Modern Crisis of Masculinity
In this eye-opening video, we explore the growing phenomenon of "involuntary celibates" or INCELS - young men struggling with isolation, addiction, and resentment in today's digital age. We dive into the factors contributing to this crisis, including:
The impact of excessive video gaming and pornography use
Decreased outdoor play and physical activity among youth
The importance of human touch and real-world connections
How online echo chambers amplify negative ideologies
We also discuss the potential dangers of INCEL ideology and share insights from experts on how to address this issue. Whether you're a parent, educator, or concerned citizen, this video offers valuable perspectives on a critical social problem affecting young men.
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Giving kids responsibility does not make them grow up too fast, it makes them grow up better. They still have a childhood.
@@7megan7 That’s why you are supposed to wait until you are married. Marriage first. Then go out alone. Until marriage. I’ll be their chaperone. 🌼
JK
@@7megan7 all kids should have responsibilities…all of them. Make them understand how many hours you had to work for that money. Add it up. Try not to take away.
Amen! Raised my two daughters that way and they are God fearing , responsible adults.
@@rhondahart2416gawd bless Murica 🤓🖕
Chuck , I am so grateful you are taking about the s very needed subject. I am a mother of 4 sons , and grandmother of 2 grandsons. My sons are 36-26 yrs old. Thank you for speaking about the hearts of these young men. I have very kind , sweet sons. I think we need to help with great male and female role models. Thank you so much for talking about this subject. So needed!
Okay there is a flip side~ divorced after 23 years of marriage and of course most men my age want women in their 30's...... but I refuse to play the victim ~I have just chosen that God is in control of my future..... and he will direct my steps.... what I would say to men is build your relationship with Jesus and He will fulfill you and make you whole and when the time is right.... God will drop that person in your path. ❤
Prayer for Sacredness, Self-Control, and Community
Heavenly Father,
We come before You with hearts open to Your guidance and wisdom. We acknowledge the sacredness of the gift of sex that You have bestowed upon us, a gift meant for the sacred bond of marriage and for the purpose of procreation. Your word says, “Be fruitful and increase in number; fill the earth and subdue it” (Genesis 1:28). In a world where sex is often treated casually, we pray for a return to the sacred view of this gift, as intended by You.
Lord, we lift up those who struggle with the concept of “INCEL” and the feelings of isolation it may bring. Help us understand that this struggle is not abnormal, and grant us the grace to find our way in life and seek meaningful, compatible relationships based on deeper values rather than mere appearances. Your scripture reminds us, “That is why a man leaves his father and mother and is united to his wife, and they become one flesh” (Genesis 2:24).
Father, we are deeply concerned about the rampant availability of online pornography and the harmful impact it has on both children and adults. We pray for strength and self-control to resist these temptations and focus on nurturing our spiritual lives. Guide us to protect our minds and hearts from such harmful influences. As Your word teaches, “Marriage should be honored by all, and the marriage bed kept pure, for God will judge the adulterer and all the sexually immoral” (Hebrews 13:4).
We also lift up the issue of medical practices driven by profit rather than genuine care, particularly in the context of testosterone and men’s clinics. Grant wisdom to those seeking treatment and help them to make informed decisions for their health. Remind us that our bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit and that true health comes from balance and care. Your word guides us, “The husband should fulfill his marital duty to his wife, and likewise the wife to her husband” (1 Corinthians 7:3).
Lord, as we reflect on the role of synagogues in ancient times, we see how they served as community centers and places of learning. We lament that many of today’s churches have strayed from these principles. We ask for discernment to find churches that truly teach the Gospels and adhere to Your teachings and principles. Your scriptures tell us the importance of gathering, as synagogues are mentioned 32 times in the Gospels, showing their significant role.
We pray for a revival of the sense of community within our places of worship, where faith can flourish through fellowship and shared learning. Remind us that prayer is a powerful tool, and fasting is a practice that draws us closer to You. May we not overlook these vital aspects of our spiritual journey.
Help us to rediscover the teachings of the Bible, the most published History book ever, and to grow in faith as we learn from its timeless wisdom. Let us return to the true essence of community and faith, just as in the days of old.
As we pray, we remember the words Your Son taught us:
Our Father, who art in heaven,
Hallowed be thy name.
Thy kingdom come, thy will be done, on earth as it is in heaven.
Give us this day our daily bread,
And forgive us our trespasses, as we forgive those who trespass against us.
And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil.
For thine is the kingdom, and the power, and the glory, forever and ever. Amen.
We ask all this in the name of Your Son, Jesus Christ, who taught us the way of love, truth, and life.
Amen. 🙏
Completely. Yes. Build your life with Jesus at the center. Build any marriage with Jesus at the center. Only date people who are serious Christians. My brother gave me advice of go into marriage with the mindset that divorce is not even an option. Marry someone who holds that a belief.
People who believe divorce is an option divorce. People who do not even see it as an option do not.
Go find a woman with your same values in church. That Desire of yours for a younger woman is a selfish need. You will meet who G-d wants you to meet. By putting preconceptions on your desires you may totally miss your chances. If you are out of shape, and not thin, focus on improving yourself physically first. Ignore your perceived sexual needs and work on yourself only! Most guys aren't aware that improving how you look is part of what women really want. DO NOT AGGRESSIVELY PURSUE ANY WOMAN. BE RESPECTFUL, NICE AND SUPPORTIVE. YOU WANT WOMEN TO FEEL. SAFE AROUND YOU. WOMEN PICK UP DESPERATION FAST AND RUN FROM IT. I have never had any trouble meeting women because I never appear to be looking to meet women. I just talk to them showing no attempt to hook up. MAKE SURE YOU ARE NOT TALKING ABOUT YOURSELF UNLESS IT'S TO COMPARE YOUR EXPERIENCES. WOMEN WANT TO BE HEARD AND FEEL IMPORTANT. I have no idea why you got divorced. Whatever reason that happened, you need to address the reason why this happened and don't repeat it. Good luck! I know what I'm talking about. I'm the type of guy incels hate because I have always supported women in what they do and they are all wound up in their own needs and have no idea why women avoid them! It could take you lots of time to find someone but that's if you pray, and act unselfishly, women will feel safe and like you. Just remember women expect men to hit on them. Don't hit on them or flirt. Just ask questions that are about things they like and don't get caught analyzing them. Don't judge. Trust me, at 54, even 18 year olds respond to the way I speak to them because I'm not trying to get in their pants.
That is so true, God dropped my first and only wife in front of me when I wasn’t even looking for a relationship, I was more focused on my career. Now we’ve been married for 25 years and have two blessed children who are now adults, yet the internet become their faith, I continue to pray for them and speak with them frequently. My wife is 8 years older than me and her wisdom had a profound impact on me. Pray, it’s is a powerful tool, don’t go searching for a companion, God will help you with that. Pray every day, as each day is a gift. 🙏
A Poetic Prayer for Sacredness, Self-Control, and Community
Heavenly Father, hear our plea,
Guide us in Your love, so free.
The gift of sex, sacred and pure,
For marriage and life, may it endure.
“Be fruitful and multiply,” Your words so grand,
Genesis 1:28, Your divine command.
In a world where casual views abound,
Let sacredness of sex resound.
For those in struggles, feeling alone,
In Your grace, let their strength be shown.
To find true love, deep and sincere,
Not based on looks, but hearts that cheer.
Online temptations, everywhere,
Protect our minds, in Your care.
Strength and self-control we seek,
Your guidance, Lord, makes us meek.
Marriage pure, as Hebrews tell,
In love and faith, may we dwell.
Doctors’ greed, for profit’s gain,
Guide us, Lord, through health’s terrain.
Community centers, synagogues of old,
Places of faith, where stories are told.
Help us revive, churches anew,
Teaching Your word, faithful and true.
Thirty-two times, synagogues we see,
In the Gospels, their role so key.
Prayer and fasting, tools so great,
Draw us closer, to our fate.
Rediscovering the Bible’s lore,
In its wisdom, we implore.
Most published book, history’s tale,
In Your teachings, we prevail.
As we pray, with hearts so pure,
The Lord’s Prayer, we now ensure:
Our Father, who art in heaven,
Hallowed be Thy name.
Thy kingdom come, Thy will be done,
On earth as it is in heaven.
Give us this day our daily bread,
And forgive us our trespasses,
As we forgive those who trespass against us.
And lead us not into temptation,
But deliver us from evil.
For Thine is the kingdom, and the power,
And the glory, forever and ever. Amen.
In Jesus’ name, our prayers we send,
For love, truth, and faith to blend.
Amen. 🙏
If your allowing a 20+ yr old to lay around & play video games you are not doing them a favor. My grandson had to be put out of the nest. He wasn't going anywhere to meet a female in person. He then had to work full time to support himself & had less time for game addiction. Started back to church & met a young lady. Now married & expecting a son.
People are so unself aware. Young men want Barbie, and young women want Ken. I understand that everyone wants the best they can get, but at some point reality needs to play a part in this. I have seen pretty girls, with good personalities, they weren't super models but not overweight, get overlooked by average guys that won't give them the time of day because the guy has his sights on some self involved superficial girl who would never give him the time of day. Then complain that they can't get a girl. And girls do the same. It's just sad and ridiculous.
That partially comes from porn addiction.
The lockdown and control was a catalyst for isolation
you do not wrestle against flesh and blood but spiritual principalities in high places!
be friendly to make friends!
Could not agree more! What damage we have done to our kids.
Thanks, Chuck!
I just told my sister yesterday that I think the internet at this point has done more harm than good to our youth.
I am seeing this everywhere and notice it. I truly believe taking God outta schools and our country has really hurt us in the west. GREAT show Chuck! God Bless.
Get a cat or dog, they add so much to your life . As others said go to college, move to an larger area , join activities.
Get connected with God , God loves you. A church men's group could advertise within their community to invite these young men to their group and they could be mentored.
Gawd
"If, one lives in fear; fear is what one possess."
Being angry and unhappy are not great traits, if you want to attract any partner.
That is the truth
Just be happy bro
This was a good video - my dad was born in 1912 - I was born in 1955 -
Most of my friends dad's were in there 20s when I was a kid my dad was in his 50s -
I grew up in the deep South - my dad did not seem to worry about me going into the swamps to go hunting -
My dad was a. Business man, I was also -
My wife took flight when my son's were 4&5 - I raised them as a single parent -
Instead of TV we had books - instead of air-condition we had fans, instead of gas or electric heat we had a old box wood heater -
I was ridged with my son's, when I raised them - I had worked the offshore oilfields for yrs - also I was a contractor in large prisons - so I have a I.T. attitude -
Both my son's have been married around 18 yrs or so -
They also were both making several thousand dollars a day by the time they were both making a serious living by the time they were 30 -
There is a saying to raise a child in the way they will go - I stayed on my son's as they grew up, they came out really good -
Amazing 'story'...
Excuse me, but what is an "I.T. attitude"?
@@LionsOfHope-23means institutional training attitude -look it up the meaning
God bless you, Mr. Holton.
This podcast is awesome! My son’s( 3 out of 4) turned out well! Had some issues but came through strong!
Women with children need a backup plan in case things don’t work out. Be self reliant and independent. Lived it!
Are you a feminist?
Prayer for Sacredness, Self-Control, and Community
Heavenly Father,
We come before You with hearts open to Your guidance and wisdom. We acknowledge the sacredness of the gift of sex that You have bestowed upon us, a gift meant for the sacred bond of marriage and for the purpose of procreation. Your word says, “Be fruitful and increase in number; fill the earth and subdue it” (Genesis 1:28). In a world where sex is often treated casually, we pray for a return to the sacred view of this gift, as intended by You.
Lord, we lift up those who struggle with the concept of “INCEL” and the feelings of isolation it may bring. Help us understand that this struggle is not abnormal, and grant us the grace to find our way in life and seek meaningful, compatible relationships based on deeper values rather than mere appearances. Your scripture reminds us, “That is why a man leaves his father and mother and is united to his wife, and they become one flesh” (Genesis 2:24).
Father, we are deeply concerned about the rampant availability of online pornography and the harmful impact it has on both children and adults. We pray for strength and self-control to resist these temptations and focus on nurturing our spiritual lives. Guide us to protect our minds and hearts from such harmful influences. As Your word teaches, “Marriage should be honored by all, and the marriage bed kept pure, for God will judge the adulterer and all the sexually immoral” (Hebrews 13:4).
We also lift up the issue of medical practices driven by profit rather than genuine care, particularly in the context of testosterone and men’s clinics. Grant wisdom to those seeking treatment and help them to make informed decisions for their health. Remind us that our bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit and that true health comes from balance and care. Your word guides us, “The husband should fulfill his marital duty to his wife, and likewise the wife to her husband” (1 Corinthians 7:3).
Lord, as we reflect on the role of synagogues in ancient times, we see how they served as community centers and places of learning. We lament that many of today’s churches have strayed from these principles. We ask for discernment to find churches that truly teach the Gospels and adhere to Your teachings and principles. Your scriptures tell us the importance of gathering, as synagogues are mentioned 32 times in the Gospels, showing their significant role.
We pray for a revival of the sense of community within our places of worship, where faith can flourish through fellowship and shared learning. Remind us that prayer is a powerful tool, and fasting is a practice that draws us closer to You. May we not overlook these vital aspects of our spiritual journey.
Help us to rediscover the teachings of the Bible, the most published History book ever, and to grow in faith as we learn from its timeless wisdom. Let us return to the true essence of community and faith, just as in the days of old.
As we pray, we remember the words Your Son taught us:
Our Father, who art in heaven,
Hallowed be thy name.
Thy kingdom come, thy will be done, on earth as it is in heaven.
Give us this day our daily bread,
And forgive us our trespasses, as we forgive those who trespass against us.
And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil.
For thine is the kingdom, and the power, and the glory, forever and ever. Amen.
We ask all this in the name of Your Son, Jesus Christ, who taught us the way of love, truth, and life.
Amen. 🙏
One of the major reasons and problems is high school ‘cliques’ and if you’re not part of one, whether jocks, motorheads, druggies, the elite crowd or whatever, then you’re often ostracized because you don’t fit in to one of these groups.
Kids need fathers!!! Fathers who care, fathers who guide them, wise fathers, mature fathers. I married a loser and tried for 35 to raise a healthy family . The 3 older kids survived but my youngest son is the victim of his narcissistic father, and is now well. Pray for him!!!
Tots and pears 🍐
As the father of an 18 yr old son, this is probably the best socio-theological analysis of the average young male in America. I plan to sit down with my son, watch the video, and then have a great discussion with him. Thank you! A completely spot on analysis!
Exactly! My wife passed of cancer several months ago and have had much joy spending my time with Jesus and doing what is purposed in His will. I miss my wife who has gone on to be with the lord, and have no desire to go out to find another woman to take her place. If it is purposed for me to have another wife, that will be in the Lord's will. Outside of that, I am very happy spending my time lifting up prayer for those who feel they must have a prson in their lives
A Poetic Prayer for Sacredness, Self-Control, and Community
Heavenly Father, hear our plea,
Guide us in Your love, so free.
The gift of sex, sacred and pure,
For marriage and life, may it endure.
“Be fruitful and multiply,” Your words so grand,
Genesis 1:28, Your divine command.
In a world where casual views abound,
Let sacredness of sex resound.
For those in struggles, feeling alone,
In Your grace, let their strength be shown.
To find true love, deep and sincere,
Not based on looks, but hearts that cheer.
Online temptations, everywhere,
Protect our minds, in Your care.
Strength and self-control we seek,
Your guidance, Lord, makes us meek.
Marriage pure, as Hebrews tell,
In love and faith, may we dwell.
Doctors’ greed, for profit’s gain,
Guide us, Lord, through health’s terrain.
Community centers, synagogues of old,
Places of faith, where stories are told.
Help us revive, churches anew,
Teaching Your word, faithful and true.
Thirty-two times, synagogues we see,
In the Gospels, their role so key.
Prayer and fasting, tools so great,
Draw us closer, to our fate.
Rediscovering the Bible’s lore,
In its wisdom, we implore.
Most published book, history’s tale,
In Your teachings, we prevail.
As we pray, with hearts so pure,
The Lord’s Prayer, we now ensure:
Our Father, who art in heaven,
Hallowed be Thy name.
Thy kingdom come, Thy will be done,
On earth as it is in heaven.
Give us this day our daily bread,
And forgive us our trespasses,
As we forgive those who trespass against us.
And lead us not into temptation,
But deliver us from evil.
For Thine is the kingdom, and the power,
And the glory, forever and ever. Amen.
In Jesus’ name, our prayers we send,
For love, truth, and faith to blend.
Amen.
Tots and pears 🍐
It's not just young people it's also the older generation
My great grand children 3 & 5 just got their own i pads. Really concerns me
Chuck is spot on here. We can all strive to be strong independent godly men. I grew up riding dirtbikes, scuba diving, shooting BB guns, the whole shebang, and my dad would constantly kick us off the Xbox and computer so I am grateful. I’m 23 now and still single but I pray to find a wife and start a family once I’m finished with flight school.
I teach teach tech-wood shop, what you are describing is being overtaken by DEI and the whole boys can be girls plus cell phone addiction ! When I was 18 I was painting houses, camping and boating. Your dad was my type of man! I bet if men did more things as mentioned there would be less crime and wars!
@@stevehauser4500 I agree with the cell phones, and computer and high tech things they don't get the opportunity to meet any girl or guy. Take those away and get them outside and into church activities, GOD will send them the right person without all this high tech, cell phones and computers and computer games.
Interesting topic today's societal (?
Norm) My assessment is that church affiliations is a partial answer. Pornography presents an impossible expectation.
Something to know men. “A women cannot make any man happier then he makes her.” Bill Taylor, MIT, evangelist, New Hampton, NH
You said it! An Ephesians 5:25 Man has the burden on him before a woman can be an Ephesians 5:24 wife. 1 Peter 3:7 Peter says that husbands have to honor and love the wife or his prayers will be hindered with the Lord! Have a blessed day!
@@rhondahart2416gawd bless Murica 🤓🖕
22 is still so young...chase your dreams, life is full of adventures. Love will find you in due course and if it doesn't at least you'll have amazing adventures. Immerse yourself in whatever interests you. Go have fun.
lonliness is real. we need smiles, hugs, conversation, touch, and unconditional love. not just sexual expression. some people only company is social media..so sad.🕊
The church is sad bc ppl don't reach out like Jesus teaches. Some exceptions but few.
Thank you Chuck for having the COURAGE to tell it like it is . ❤
Very important difficult subject that you chose to address .
I pray for this ministry you presented to be fruitful.
Every school should have your talk playing 24 7
Watching from South Afrca you are such a wise man this is so true that you say .Thank you blessings
The dating maket is terrible anymore even sence the 90s. People have through the roof expectations both girls and guys, and it seemed like everyone just wants to hook up no commitment.
@@crossstitch1652 my husband passed almost ten years ago I so don't want to go through that again so I'm with you there ❤️, ps I hope you two will still have many years together.
Such a good video. Thankyou. I grew up in the 1950’s and even though I am female I can identify with your assessment of today’s youth.
We were always outside. Knew all the kids in the area etc.
What can I say…… but 🎯🎯🎯🎯 thank you Mr Holton for the truth! I’m 54 and my mom made us pickup and wash our dishes, make our bed before we went to school. Clean the whole yard every Saturday. Walk to school at least 1 mile rain or shine. Such a lost art but not completely. I make my grandson do these things when he’s with Grandma and he does it with no problem. You know why because it was passed on to him from his mama who I passed to her who my mom taught me. ITS TAUGHT. This generation isn’t lost. Let’s not give up passing this along to our kids our grandkids. Time to stop letting phones and tablets be a babysitter.
I’m 54 and my mom lives with me and my wife of 25 years, we are all close but the internet has been such a horrible influence on our children. I pray daily for them and everyone.
A Poetic Prayer for Sacredness, Self-Control, and Community
Heavenly Father, hear our plea,
Guide us in Your love, so free.
The gift of sex, sacred and pure,
For marriage and life, may it endure.
“Be fruitful and multiply,” Your words so grand,
Genesis 1:28, Your divine command.
In a world where casual views abound,
Let sacredness of sex resound.
For those in struggles, feeling alone,
In Your grace, let their strength be shown.
To find true love, deep and sincere,
Not based on looks, but hearts that cheer.
Online temptations, everywhere,
Protect our minds, in Your care.
Strength and self-control we seek,
Your guidance, Lord, makes us meek.
Marriage pure, as Hebrews tell,
In love and faith, may we dwell.
Doctors’ greed, for profit’s gain,
Guide us, Lord, through health’s terrain.
Community centers, synagogues of old,
Places of faith, where stories are told.
Help us revive, churches anew,
Teaching Your word, faithful and true.
Thirty-two times, synagogues we see,
In the Gospels, their role so key.
Prayer and fasting, tools so great,
Draw us closer, to our fate.
Rediscovering the Bible’s lore,
In its wisdom, we implore.
Most published book, history’s tale,
In Your teachings, we prevail.
As we pray, with hearts so pure,
The Lord’s Prayer, we now ensure:
Our Father, who art in heaven,
Hallowed be Thy name.
Thy kingdom come, Thy will be done,
On earth as it is in heaven.
Give us this day our daily bread,
And forgive us our trespasses,
As we forgive those who trespass against us.
And lead us not into temptation,
But deliver us from evil.
For Thine is the kingdom, and the power,
And the glory, forever and ever. Amen.
In Jesus’ name, our prayers we send,
For love, truth, and faith to blend.
Amen. 🙏
exactly 100% @rplata4242
That was alot of great information about the young men of today...Thank you. I grew up with my friends being outside, so that's where I wanted to be too. Our society is very different now.
Wow, this explains a lot of what were seeing as a society today, in my opinion at least.
modeling industry made us all feel inferior in some way..like we're not good enough. we are humans with hearts, with compassion, and hope.. "LOVE LIKE JESUS"..chivalry is not the most important ideal. love is. it doesn't hurt to smile and acknowledge people. there are lots of lonely people young and old. we need someone who really cares about us. everyday knowing we are welcomed.🐦
God bless You, Mr. Holton.
My x husband was a narcissist and hated women. He ruined my youngest son. He is a monster.
Chuck these guys need some heavy-duty church community relationships. Church and God are community and relationships. It also means love of our neighbor and self. If you leave God behind, you leave all this behind. I go to church and I do not see as many young people in church, only older men and women. Society need to go back to what made us great and that is love, family, community and church. It all means the love of God.
The problem I see is children these days dont have an imagination I grew up in the country and I would go out and pretend I was in the army and go in to combat all by myself
The causes come from not having God in their lives. Go To Church! Everyone loves you at Church. There are plenty of nice girl’s at Church. They also are looking for a nice boy who care about the same things.
As a rule that is good advice but in some cases the church can be one of the cruelest places for social and dating people can be meen, I have seen it in a few churches.
Churches are the last place I'd look for caring. Where I live, unless you were born and raised in that church you are NOT one of them.
Churches are country clubs with tax exempt status. They sing rock n roll, don't preach the Gospel and run home as soon as the one service is done. Believe me we've gone to 22 churches in this area. All but one were worthless. That one had NO young people.
@@tiffanygrever8092 I found a different Church! There’s evil everywhere in this world. It’s sad to say, it can even seep through the church doors. God, is for you. Keep the Faith. 💛
Unfortunately there are people in churches who can't find a spouse , theres a shortage of guys and honestly the single guys are often unusual.
@@Lazydaisy646 lol…I’m sorry. It’s funny how you put that. But, you might want to find another church. It sounds strange, but I went Church shopping. I am a Biblical Christian. Which means I had to find a Church with the same values that I believe.
The outcasts, the rejects...its not just them
Chuck, this was such a good video. I never heard of this. It's so sad. I know some will think this is ridiculous, but I've seen a really good solution. These young men could join a good church. I've seen it work out so well for a couple guys. Jesus is the answer. Might not happen overnight, but they should know that there are many young women in churches who want to meet Christian men. First, turn over your life to Jesus and He understands the desires of your heart. As I mentioned, I HAVE SEEN LOVE BLOSSOM when people meet in church. God bless these young men.
Yes I stated something similar , maybe a church men's group could advertise to men that are lonely and they could mentor them.
Watching from Va.
Omg this says it all. My son is 30 just went to prison for doing something over a breakup. Everything u say thiese girls expect from guys is everything he has been talking to about for 4 yrs. He says they don’t commit, play on social media, flirt with other guys (just a friend not boo) is what they say. This had me crying so bad!! Thank you Chuck for your message. Please do more on this! These guys need to hear your messages.
Traci I wonder if you sent him one of Chuck’s books what would he think about that? Is he going to get out anytime soon?
will pray for your son 🙏
Chuck, you are a treasure!
i am 60 soon. We did a little more then go outside and play :) i don't think some gaming is bad. Depends on what you are playing. But ofcourse, get a life and meet ppl. Do something for someone and get out where there are ppl. Reading books does not need to be better then gaming. At least when they play, they have gamingcomunities where the talk/meet ppl. By the way, it is not so easy to tell kids what they should do anymore. The world has changed A LOT since we grew up. i have 4 sons over 20. And they all act like men..
Same here. Hanging out on RUclips to watch people's videos can be just as time consuming as playing video games.
..society has too much sight on images of flawed people. we are all flawed. it should matter what is in the heart..not what is seen on the outside body..we all need and desire to be loved unconditionally. .without love from significant other, life is lonely. we all need companionship. to be loved/liked for who we are..not stereotyped to modeling industry. breast implants, tummy tucks, botox injections..etc. BE REAL, accept yourself, your worth is not measured by what others see. wrinkles will come, teeth will go, body parts will go, ...keep your heart/soul real. be a friend to someone..first.🐑🐑🐑🐑🐑🐑🐑
when you pray and ask God to find the right person and guide you to them He will!
Not always . I have beautiful friends , women, attractive, intelligent and good jobs ... But are now past child bearing age , I don't know why they can't find anyone..
no not always im a single parent and thats the way its been
I came across this video on an incel website that I have been spreading the Gospel on now for over a year.In my comment on the thread I gave a sincere an impassioned plea for all to come to Jesus Christ.I would love to talk with the video creator more.God Bless !!
My dad made me go to work part time at age 16. I loved it and learned how to interact with people and take on responsibility. I met girls at work and we had fun during work hours and more fun after hours. Fast food restaurants is where the action is...(was) !!
The window pane analogy was perfect.
I have three single adults in their early thirties in my family. They deal with this too. My daughter's told me that she's content in her singleness. She's seen so much crap her friends have gone through.
There's worse things that singleness for sure, wise daughter.
@rhondahart2416 enjoy your cats 🐈
Agreed, fighting 'can' b a good thing 'for growth'.
💯💯💯 excellent podcast!
I had my first job at 12 working with my dad and my first job at 15 as a bagger.
Not only actual porn but today's movies and TV shows give the impression that first dates mean sex and highly erotic sex at that! All in the name of romance.
Distance of range of play is very interesting information. My paternal grandmother, the oldest child, took her brothers and sister out on weekends and all summer from Burnaby British Columbia Canada to the North Shore Vancouver forest by street car and water taxi for a whole day. 1910s ... home for supper and don't miss the last water taxi. Independent business men for each brother, business women for both women. 1930s and until retirement in the 1970s. In the1990s my youngest brother and I drove my grandmother on a four hour trek to retrace her footsteps. It was an impressive adventure especially without highways, cars and cellphones. Not to mention wild animals and no 911 for emergencies and search and rescue organizations.
This was a great video. Important stuff.
People use filters that make them barely resemble the real imperfect self
If you don't have someone like Chuck near by, try 4-H, FFA, great programs for kids and not just about cows and pigs etc
Valiancy and virility were what I was drawn to as a teen
Blessings and prayers for you and your family!🇺🇸🌹🇮🇱😇❤️🙏🎶
Hi from Ohio with prayers
Now that you mention it, I'm startled to remember what a fight club my childhood and early teens in the Sixties and the Seventies of last Century had been! Not a day without a fight, and throwing these fun and rather firm Loess earth clods at each other, when it was not actual Geology going kinetic, was a favorite pastime! Getting dropped to one's knees by a hit on the forehead was not at all uncommon, and I still remember that "AT" slingshot pellet wrecking my bicycle's light at a hundred yards! Also, Scouting was a thing, a place where boys would be boys and their annoying sisters were allowed to be, yeah, girls, and where all of us could get the kind of life skills education and socialization schools did not provide. I could build a hearth, cook on it, navigate with a map, and draw accurate caricatures by age twelve. Many of us would also have gotten quite good with musical instruments by that age, and then our scouting organization became co-ed and all Hell broke loose. And yes, we survived that too, learning, the hard way, how girls that were not your sisters could be brought to your side, so to speak...
BTW, one of my sisters was really happy at Army's basic training, she said it felt like being back in our Scout Summer camps. I beg to differ on that, but at least having to pitch a tent and sleep in it was not a big deal for me at all, as it was for my cityboy buddies.
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That’s a very sad attitude .
Insecurity & fear is the producer as well as Internet.
"The 'Brain Sucker' of one's life; are the causes."
Coming in loud and clear to me Chuck
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I heard this quote once, an idle mind is a devil’s workshop.
Gawd bless Murica 🤡 🖕
thank you
I worked on vacation when I was younger when I visited my grandmother in Bear Skin Neck Massachusetts at an exclusive dress shop I made my money to buy leather jacket and boots
Well said!
Just awesome chuck, keep doing this sir
Your comments remi ded me of something I witnessed in Texas. Mgy chilqcdren and I went on a day trip that famous steak house there. While. There two teenagers came in look like they were on a date. They sat down and pulled out their ell phon. Not once did they talk to. Each other. I thought then how sad we had gotten to that point
Huge fan of the show and a very important topic that needs to be discussed more. That said, i dont know if its realistic to limit internet time to such a degree. I would however suggest instilling a love for the outdoors in your children. Teach them to hunt, fish, lift weights, box, work on cars etc. Guide them twords enjoying things besides video games and tiktok
We have to stop demasculating men. I love my husband’s manly side. That’s what attracted me to him. My oldest son is an alpha male but my youngest son is definitely not. The youngest hates the oldest for it. QUESTION: MY DAUGHTER IS 29 AND HASN’T SPOKEN TO US FOR 6 MONTHS NOW. SHE CLAIMS ITS A BOUNDRY ISSUE BUT WILL NOT ELABORATE. ITS BEEN DEVASTATING FOR US. WHAT DO WE DO?
Thank You Chuck for talking about this issue.
You are a brave Man that makes a difference.
Absolutely!
Great ! A little soccer player, 6ish, laying on the ground said "He stepped on me!", the Ref said "Yeah, tough game". Yes, that's the way life is. Help the kids learn that. Oh, we could talk about the way football has changed. We've become a bunch of Candy-asses.
Women have long been known to be attracted to a "good provider" .... that was an economic reality, but fortunately not any longer in the developed world. But providing well for yourself and your needy and elderly parents does cost women a heck of a lot of potential mates that can not handle your economic success.
We rode ponies bareback and swam with snakes in ditches under highways lol
Yes, it is great. Good idea!
I'm around your age. When my son was little in Chicago and Atlanta I had to be concerned about kidnappers.
Guys who couldn't "get girls" have always been around. It's people who have allowed these weirdos to hide and feel safe behind "protected status". Being chronically online is another issue, especially for western kids. Every time stuff like this happens, the focus always goes on the perp and not enough on victims. You're giving them the attention they seek and notoriety.
I don't see Chuck doing what you're saying.
My daughter and son go to BJJ Judo i’m really proud of him. my daughter is fifth in a nation in points this year. she is 15 years old and fights international Judo.
Wonderful Chuck.
I would've preferred you to remind listeners that sex is for marriage alone, and how damaging premarital sex and pornography are to a marriage/committed relationship even if it's stopped (which it rarely is) once married. A healthy marriage requires saving oneself totally for your spouse. Pornography is sick and it makes sick men who have sick marriages who raise sick kids.
We went skinny dipping at the lake with my big brother's and cousins at night 😊
❤ Amen
Gawd bless Murica 🤓 🖕
What’s causing this problem is the absence of strong Christian male father figures. The absence of strong Christian male figures, even in the pulpit. When our country has abandoned God are we surprised God finally chooses to abandon us? But who said the last days would be easy?
Gawd
Young ladies,girl can't take all the rejection of it's marriage and when this happens there is no more that avenue will ever be open to him or no one they become like messenger of the father and all glory praise thankfulness is given praise too what they had and this is enough He really loves us.
Thank you Chuck for great explanation on this but girls also can go through this. Mom never hugged me only only child became sexual at 13 to many guys two divorces gave it all just to get "love" in return. Drugs alcohol suicide thoughts. Today my man is Jesus he has healed my soul.
My radias of play, was usually 10-15 miles; generally speaking.😂🎉❤
AUDIO is good.
Can anyone verify the “city ordinance” in Colorado that says kids under 16 must always be supervised outside?
Hello from Oklahoma 🙏🏾❤️