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  • @josalmon4742
    @josalmon4742 3 года назад +46

    He’s so sweet. You seem annoyed with him the entire time.

    • @Lisatwade
      @Lisatwade Год назад +2

      He talks under her constantly. I'd be frustrated too

  • @RosarioMataH
    @RosarioMataH 3 года назад +39

    Marnie, let him speak! LOL it's so cute how you know Michael can extend his answers and you aye roll so funny. Also, I didn't know you started college as an Anthropology major and got a Sociology BA, I'm a Cultural Anthropologist myself!! (currently a PhD candidate)

  • @joannamiller8017
    @joannamiller8017 3 года назад +84

    Girl... that man loves you.. look at this video and you can see it in his eyes. I’ve never seen a man with so much flattery for his spouse. God Bless you both!

    • @cinma4890
      @cinma4890 3 года назад +6

      I totally agree @ Joanna Miller and they make a wonderful sweet couple.

    • @stevdaughtr6098
      @stevdaughtr6098 3 года назад +3

      My sister’s husband looks like him and completely worships her to it’s amazing. So I get that I’ve seen that it exists ladies

  • @robinp2039
    @robinp2039 3 года назад +32

    I really love you guys. I could watch this kind of video every day.
    I’d love to hear more Michael’s financial advice.
    It’s never too long. Make it a series!💕💕

  • @texaslyoness8537
    @texaslyoness8537 3 года назад +9

    I love 💙 watching these. I don’t mind if he is long-winded. Just relax and let him answer in his way. I always feel you’re super stressed in these Q&A’s. I do not mean that to be rude. Everyone likes MIchael, so let him roll. :) I see he tries to calm you down. You got a great one and that is such a blessing.

  • @veehart6600
    @veehart6600 3 года назад +11

    Wow Michael is a sweetheart, the world needs more men like him. He’s soo sweet!

  • @sandyj502
    @sandyj502 3 года назад +58

    The interrupting each other is annoying. Otherwise, thanks for the video. Good information.

  • @2CorgiMom
    @2CorgiMom 3 года назад +26

    I was in tears listening to Michael talk about his love for you, Especially how it’s grown over all the years you’ve been together. What a great gift, ❤️ I lost my husband five years ago unexpectedly, and he too adored me similarly. I tell others in my life to not waste a chance to show your love to your spouse, for you really don’t know when you’ll lose that love and you don’t want to leave this earth with there being any doubt.

    • @MomaRain
      @MomaRain 3 года назад

      I agree with you, Steph. I'm so sorry for your loss. Hugs...Lorraine

    • @queens6583
      @queens6583 3 года назад

      So true, my good friend lost her husband to a sudden heart attack 3 weeks ago at the age of 61.

    • @MsGoldgirl
      @MsGoldgirl  3 года назад +2

      Oh Steph...my heart aches for you!! I never take him granted for a minute!

  • @barbr100
    @barbr100 3 года назад +10

    If parents are willing to spend $50K -100K on a wedding, I feel that money would be better spent on a downpayment for a home. I think weddings expenses have gotten completely out of control. Maybe I am just too practical and therefore never wanted a lavish affair. And don’t get me started on bachelor/bachelorette weekends....😂

  • @elizabethleddy973
    @elizabethleddy973 3 года назад +10

    You all are a wonderful couple 🥰 I like hearing Michael talk and you definitely don’t have to worry about it going long. We like it!

  • @karenejkleinfineart
    @karenejkleinfineart 3 года назад +9

    Hi Marnie and Michael, The talking over each other doesn't bother me either. My husband and I do the same thing and we have been married and in love for almost 41 years now. I thought your video was fun, and light hearted. It's always nice to see you and I enjoyed your video. I'm glad that you guys are ok and hanging in there with this crazy unusual weather that has hit Texas so hard. Praying for you all. Have a wonderful Sunday!! xoxo, Karen

  • @cdesmon
    @cdesmon 3 года назад +14

    Finding a job may not be the easiest due to the pandemic. Be kind to your new graduates.

  • @sandeekustermann3997
    @sandeekustermann3997 3 года назад +7

    My husband retired from a paycheck when he was 38, we live from that now in our 70’s.

  • @njmomof1128
    @njmomof1128 3 года назад +13

    Michael needs his own channel! 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

  • @rhonda99301
    @rhonda99301 3 года назад +21

    I couldn't watch anymore.... You are so annoyed with Michael.

    • @margaret77494
      @margaret77494 3 года назад +3

      To quote Thumper from Bambi’s father,” If you can’t say something nice, don’t say anything at all.”

    • @ginathomas2487
      @ginathomas2487 3 года назад +1

      She's so bitchy to him. Talks over him and for him. So annoying

  • @ambero.9754
    @ambero.9754 3 года назад +6

    He seriously needs his own podcast or youtube channel I would 100% watch!

  • @pleinaire8698
    @pleinaire8698 2 года назад +2

    WOW!!!! just let MICHAEL answer those questions asked of HIM..NOT you!!

  • @abigailh7715
    @abigailh7715 3 года назад +5

    You're adorable! Love Michael's sweet beautiful 100 watt smile and how kind and loving he is to you. And he's right - you are a supermodel! What a lovely couple! May you have many more years! 😍🥰🔥

  • @faithcross4017
    @faithcross4017 3 года назад +9

    Loved listening to you guys talk about your lives.
    You both are so adorable and very lucky to have such a wonderful relationship.

  • @tonivizgirda296
    @tonivizgirda296 9 месяцев назад +2

    He has smiling’ eyes. So nice to see a happy man. 😊

  • @leannezdravecky6261
    @leannezdravecky6261 3 года назад +7

    Thank you for sharing a bit of your lives; it is so nice to see a happy couple. Being somewhat new to your channel (with you almost a yr now) I have enjoy all your videos Marine, and the two of you together. Especially the financial wellness series.

  • @annarosati5246
    @annarosati5246 3 года назад +5

    Marnie and Michael ... thank you for sharing a bit of yourselves with us. I love listening to the both of you together. Michael’s eyes sparkle when he speaks of you and the way he pulls you in towards him .... you can’t make that up. What a blessing to have that still almost after 25 years of marriage.
    Marnie you made me smile when speaking of your children getting married some day and the possible birth of a grand daughter. Your boys truly had wonderful role models in their lives. I enjoyed watching this with a coffee on a Sunday morning. I can’t wait until you do this again.
    I think one of the first videos I saw and how I stumbled upon you was you sitting alone giving advice on how to find a life partner. You both have chosen well. 💕

  • @domemo2960
    @domemo2960 3 года назад +17

    Please make this a series, or better yet, Michael needs his own channel or podcast! He's great.

  • @Mimiplansandknits
    @Mimiplansandknits 3 года назад +7

    My husband and I are the same. One person's traits compliments the others. 38 years together 34 years married this summer. And we still love spending time together ❤💕
    Really enjoy these videos with you both!

  • @kimjorg
    @kimjorg 3 года назад +15

    Michael needs his own channel for sure! He has the best outlook on life and advice

  • @Katrn30
    @Katrn30 Год назад +2

    Wow! I was told on the eve of my high school graduation that I had to move out. I was blindsided, I could not go to university as I didn’t qualify to get a student loan since my father made too much money. I moved out and struggled for years. Listening to your husband be so gentle and generous about helping his kids brought tears to my eyes! My son will never be thrown to the wolves like I was.

  • @christinemack2153
    @christinemack2153 3 года назад +6

    You compliment each other so beautifully and you are truly blessed. Michael needs to start his own channel.

  • @themousehouse.
    @themousehouse. 3 года назад +4

    I died a little when you wanted to move on from the investment question lol. I would love to hear more about that! My husband and I are trying to “retire” early by investing and always love hearing tips and tricks on how to go about doing that

  • @RJ-mw2gw
    @RJ-mw2gw 3 года назад +6

    You guys are absolutely lovely. Thank you for the self-disclosure. Your talk has given me a lot to think about.

  • @NormaDelRizzo
    @NormaDelRizzo Год назад +1

    Seems like a really sweet guy, you, not so much. You should watch the video and see how you condescend. Just a thought.

  • @susanknuppe8099
    @susanknuppe8099 3 года назад +3

    Love this! We would tease and say to our kiddos (their friends included) Dad and I are going to go 'wash the car"! They knew what that meant and would say "Ew you guys" and their friends would laugh and so we kind of called their bluff. Half of the time we didn't "wash the car". Just loved teasing them. Now that their 25-35 they say that they were comforted that we had a "love life" because so many of their friends family's were not happy homes.

  • @eiyiyiyi
    @eiyiyiyi 3 года назад +2

    My husband and I have lived the same path. He retired at 52 and I was 47. We have always lived below our means and still lived graciously. We are now 79 and 74 and have never wanted for a thing. Like Michael he is an active money manager for our assets. We have loved, loved, loved our life.

  • @jenniferm586
    @jenniferm586 3 года назад +4

    I love that y'all have been so financially responsible and now can enjoy life, debt free.

  • @efnaha9303
    @efnaha9303 3 года назад +5

    Good morning Goldbergs - glad you are warm and safe!

  • @anavaldesuso8607
    @anavaldesuso8607 3 года назад +3

    Aww this was such a great video!! Love ❤️ you guys as a couple God Bless!! Loved how Michael speaks of you so much love!! And Marine I loved your Spanish!!!

  • @pampam6629
    @pampam6629 3 года назад +1

    How sad that americans don't speak more languages! I'm from South America and I speak fluently 3! But I can tell, that most of them just speak English and nothing more :( Why don't they make an effort to learn? if it is wonderful to be able to speak several :)

  • @Robanna..
    @Robanna.. 3 года назад +3

    Love hearing both perspectives! When I hear Michael speaks of the financial crisis and mortgage banking my ears always perk up as that was my industry for over 20 years.

  • @MsBoliqua
    @MsBoliqua 3 года назад +3

    I always love these videos with you both! I was laughing at the end talking about what you fight over-the route to get to your destination 😂.

  • @wendymontemayor3081
    @wendymontemayor3081 3 года назад +3

    Married 29 years here and our main fight is him choosing the wrong area to park at La Cantera!😂🤣😂

  • @BettySmith-m3s
    @BettySmith-m3s Месяц назад

    You’re a lovely couple and I enjoyed learning more about you. I’m sorry but I felt it was painful to watch this one because Michael was totally out of line with his long-winded replies. I hope he doesn’t act like this all the time. He reminded me of my son-in-law who talks over my daughter. I really enjoy your videos with all your good advice and all of your great finds. Thank you for your hard work.

  • @rachelweinstein9008
    @rachelweinstein9008 3 года назад +2

    You guys are great together. I love. This format. Marnie, the eye rolls! Michael is a gem. You both are so perfect together. And funny! Great tips. Didn’t know Michael was a guitar player. That was a surprise. Excellent video. Do more! Xo Rachel 🐕🐕🐕💕🌷🐈🥰

  • @katrinap2432
    @katrinap2432 3 года назад +4

    You guys are very cute, love this video.

  • @rosariodavila4695
    @rosariodavila4695 2 дня назад

    OMG!! This is the first time I’ve seen your couple segments! You are TOO CUTE!!

    • @MsGoldgirl
      @MsGoldgirl  2 дня назад

      @@rosariodavila4695 so glad you found this series!

  • @Baileybooandecho
    @Baileybooandecho 3 года назад +9

    I have found that through 24 years of marriage and knowing my husband most of my life that allowing each other to continue being themselves is the key! We are 54 years old and still in love.💕
    You are adorable together!

  • @marieschmidt9416
    @marieschmidt9416 3 месяца назад

    Two genuine people who are loving and financially savvy AND both talkers who interrupt each other often (way, way, way too much). Generally, a fun video and I would watch another like it.

  • @montycawalter2054
    @montycawalter2054 3 года назад +1

    Great video:) your both so luck to have a wonderful marriage. I would give my right arm to have that..well, that might be to extreme. Looking forward to the next one@

  • @nancyhope-landon9185
    @nancyhope-landon9185 3 года назад +2

    I also advise my husband on the best way (my way) to get to a place when he is driving a way I don't want to. It was good of Michael to agree to be in the video and open about his personal life.

  • @idacavazos-lindau9663
    @idacavazos-lindau9663 3 года назад +2

    Great video! Don't worry about the time/long winded ness. You two are so great together. We will stick around and listen. Beautiful couple❤️

  • @maailieca
    @maailieca 3 года назад +2

    I really enjoyed this!! I don't often catch all your videos but i learn a lot when you have a joint video. I think it's so sweet how in love you are after all these years. I look up to you two and your practical financial advice.

  • @carolynhamilton3316
    @carolynhamilton3316 10 месяцев назад

    Cute video. You two are adorable. Speaking of a Les Paul guiter, my Uncle, the story goes, knew Les Paul in the early 1950s . My uncle owned a les paul guiter from that time frame. I had heard the guitar was signed. My mom, his sister sold it for 100.00 dollars in 1999 after my uncle died. My sisters and i almost died when we found out what she had done. Poor mom, she didnt know the value .

  • @soussou7816
    @soussou7816 3 года назад +3

    I love how you take care of your boys 🙌🏼🙌🏼

  • @megank3412
    @megank3412 3 года назад +2

    Marnie, Michael is such a sweetheart. My husband is a guitar player and has a “guitar room” too so I can empathize with you!

  • @carolynhamilton3316
    @carolynhamilton3316 Год назад

    I'm jealous. You two are great. Wait til l tell you what my mom did. My uncle in the 50s somehow met Les Paul. My uncle became owner of a les paul guitar SIGNED by Les Paul!!!! When he passed, my mom was in charge Of
    the guitar. She moved out
    of state. I had forgot She had it. She sold it for 100.00 OMG!!!!! 😫

  • @gracievelazquez5795
    @gracievelazquez5795 3 года назад +1

    Ok, she called him “mijo”, so yeah, she’s official now! 😄 Marnie, hermana, ya eres Mexicana! 😁

  • @acleonards1179
    @acleonards1179 3 года назад +1

    As a mother of two married boys- I was always told we were to wear beige and shut up!!! My reply was- Silence was never my strong suit and I look dang good in red!!!🤣🤣🤣

  • @JuicyJuice1313
    @JuicyJuice1313 Год назад

    Sure this might sound vain and off topic...but you guys are just such a good looking couple 🙂

  • @QuinceyG
    @QuinceyG 3 года назад +1

    Forgot to add - It would be so cool to have Michael play guitar in a video sometime :) Also, regarding the comments in you both interrupting each other, I can tell it is just your dynamic and it is sweet. Me and my guy have been together for close to 20 yet as and we do the same thing. And o want to say that we all need to find a man that looks at them like Michael looks at Marnie

  • @charlievalencia5401
    @charlievalencia5401 3 года назад +1

    And thank you Mr. Michael for the detailed answers.

  • @victoriabriseno7946
    @victoriabriseno7946 3 года назад +1

    It's so nice to see you and Michael together and how your'e both devoted to each other still, you're very lucky. I've always loved your family vlogs until your boys left for college when you shared bits here and there of them. I've learned so much when you both sit down and discuss finances, buying cars or house updates. I lost my husband a year and a half ago and we were married for nearly 39 years, he too loved playing the guitar. I hope that one day you might share a glimpse of Michael singing. My husband missed so much of our kids growing up because he too was always working. By the way, your Spanish is very good and I'm sure you can make yourself understood. I've always tried very hard but sometimes slaughter my words, I don't ever give up speaking though. Saludos desde Northern California.

  • @phyllisanngodfrey6137
    @phyllisanngodfrey6137 8 месяцев назад

    You can tell Michael talked for a LIVING as a lawyer 😉

  • @amandalillie4543
    @amandalillie4543 3 года назад +8

    Ha ha! Too cute when you were talking about alone time. Our kids are getting older now and it’s much more trickier finding that alone time.

  • @lmmbchampion
    @lmmbchampion 3 года назад +1

    I could’ve easily watched this video if it was 3x longer! You two remind me of my hubby and myself! We will be celebrating 25 happy years of marriage on July 20th. I guess no Italy this year for us, though:)

  • @SuperB719
    @SuperB719 3 года назад +2

    How lucky you both are to have each other.

  • @rhonj4603
    @rhonj4603 3 года назад +1

    I totally agree with everything you believe. We set our financials up exactly the same. From the moment we married. Best decision we made.

  • @polkprincess2714
    @polkprincess2714 3 года назад +2

    More Michael

  • @LibraLibra-mg9ck
    @LibraLibra-mg9ck 3 года назад +1

    You two really are adorable. 💐 Thanks for sharing; I love your back & forth & whatever works for you two is obviously working!! ❤️🥰

  • @QuinceyG
    @QuinceyG 3 года назад +1

    I never realized that Michael has quite a bit of a TX accent LOL! I enjoy the both of you and your dynamic. :) These videos are really fun

  • @kathydaughety5406
    @kathydaughety5406 9 месяцев назад

    Marnie, I started watching you just a few months ago. I'm a native Texan and currently live in East Texas. I've been to S.A. many, many times having lived in Austin and attended SWTSU. Anyway, this is a very interesting vlog and amusing at the same time! I've been curious about you and your life. Thanks, Marnie!

    • @MsGoldgirl
      @MsGoldgirl  9 месяцев назад

      I’m so glad you found me!

  • @nonilady1577
    @nonilady1577 3 года назад +1

    Y’all are so adorable! Unfortunately my girls did graduate with school debt because I was a single mom I could not afford the cost of college. However I do pay on the loans as well to help. Luckily my girls found good jobs and have been financially independent. However I did pay for all living expenses through college and probably about a year after graduation till they could handle the responsibilities on there own. My husband is at retirement stage and he is great with finances. #1 pay off all loans and credit cards which we are almost there. Love these videos! Thanks guys. I have electricity and water now! Wahoo

  • @jerzpyt
    @jerzpyt 3 года назад +1

    You guys are adorable! Very blessed to have had such a attraction and commitment that grew together through the 20’s, 30’s and 40’s!

  • @acleonards1179
    @acleonards1179 3 года назад +1

    Definitely stay in your home. You’ll need room for the grandkids!!

  • @beths5923
    @beths5923 3 года назад +1

    I loved this video Marnie and Michael. Your advice and banter between you two is just infectious. Please consider doing a YT live together. Happy Sunday!

  • @elizabeths4272
    @elizabeths4272 3 года назад +1

    We are 30 years into our marriage and still best friends. So good to see another long-term couple so clearly happy together! Thanks so much for the video!

  • @kittyquick9325
    @kittyquick9325 3 года назад +1

    I’ve always loved when Michael makes it into a video! You guys are so adorable and definitely set the marriage bar high! Congrats.

  • @JenniferHernandez-lw6iq
    @JenniferHernandez-lw6iq 3 года назад +1

    You two are adorable, that man loves you to the moon an back!

  • @tiffanygrace6377
    @tiffanygrace6377 3 года назад +1

    Love it when you guys do these!!❤️❤️enjoyed that so much!

  • @YAYISCORNER
    @YAYISCORNER 3 года назад +1

    Good morning!!! Grabbing my coffee and going to watch this video! ☀️ 🙏 for Texas ❤️ I just received The Deep End can’t wait to read it. Thank you for all your recommendations.

  • @charlievalencia5401
    @charlievalencia5401 3 года назад +1

    I love that you are honest is your answers and yourself in the videos.

  • @vmacares
    @vmacares 3 года назад +4

    You two looks so good together and is so lovely how Michael looks at you and the love you two shares. Love looking at you two.

  • @jillfrancis3975
    @jillfrancis3975 3 года назад +1

    You have the most beautiful relationship ❤️

  • @claudiarangel1904
    @claudiarangel1904 Год назад

    You are a Lovely couple!!!Greetings from Monterrey,México🤗

  • @diannsanford2436
    @diannsanford2436 2 месяца назад

    I really like your husband. Great video.

  • @marykayandelle
    @marykayandelle 3 года назад

    did you fill out the FAFSA

  • @courtneyharrel5500
    @courtneyharrel5500 Год назад

    Retired? Wow!

  • @stanleyjaneway7834
    @stanleyjaneway7834 4 месяца назад

    You all are sweethearts! Hope everything goes smoothly as you are planning. Remember grandchildren are wonderful.

  • @lindatoews5265
    @lindatoews5265 Год назад

    I really enjoyed you both. The quitar playing is familiar indeed! Women used to say, “your so lucky.” My response was, “do you like to dance?!” “Oh yes!” My response, “ We’ll forget about!” I got married and became a wallflower, which I resented as I was 19. Just after we got married he joined a band, I hated it! I was terribly lonely. When the kids came along I had infants and was dragged out until 1:00 am. Now I would say, “Are you out of your mind!” I think it made him feel like he wasn’t abandoning me, it wasn’t how I felt!
    Now that we’re in our sixties… I’m like be free, I’m very good at being alone. I love people but, I’ve had lupus and scleroderma for decades. Maybe a bit to good.
    I really enjoy your honesty, information on clothing and as I listened to you both I learnt we share similar taste in reeding. I would love it if would provide a list of books you really enjoy, I don’t read a lot as I’m an artist but, when I’m on vacation I love to dive into a great book. Thank you and all the best to you and your family. PS. Still married 45 yrs.

  • @amygarland5331
    @amygarland5331 Год назад

    Love this😂😍

  • @deborahneat5523
    @deborahneat5523 3 года назад +1

    Love these! You guys make a great couple!

  • @hannahlynne5522
    @hannahlynne5522 3 года назад

    I think it's great you will help financially for your sons weddings. It's so interesting today because 1/2 of my friends pay all themselves and about 1/2 involve parents.
    I got married in 2007. My husband and I paid for our entire wedding. We didn't want to ask for financial help. It was tight for sure. Everyone was happy and we didn't short our guest list. We didn't go on a honeymoon. We put a new roof on our garage with the "gift" money we received.

  • @overcomingobstacles8675
    @overcomingobstacles8675 3 года назад

    Marnie you remind me of myself so much. Listen guys, yes is she annoyed that her husband keeps going on and on, yes! It’s a RUclips video, she’s trying to keep it short, sweet and to the point. I get annoyed daily with my husband talking too much. Her husband just explains things in great detail! Sometimes the details don’t matter, hence her annoyance. Let’s show love instead of criticizing. We’ve all been in quarantine/pandemic and dealing with our families TOO MUCH!

  • @nancyzahradnik6021
    @nancyzahradnik6021 3 года назад

    Hi Marnie and Michael. You both are cute together and are enjoying each other. Marnie, do you ever call Michael Mike? My husband’s name is Michael, and I always call him Michael, and not Mike. Don’t know why!

  • @libbylife7161
    @libbylife7161 3 года назад +1

    God bless you both ! 😍

  • @janetragan-woessner3882
    @janetragan-woessner3882 3 года назад

    Hi guys from Orange County California. I had to chuckle when you were talking about staying in your home for the long run. I know so many of us planned that however when the grandkids come along do you want to be somewhere near them. So you may be getting an extra little place wherever they end up being and keeping your place in Texas. Just a thought. Adios

  • @cynthia-n9w
    @cynthia-n9w 3 года назад

    Last year SMU offered my daughter $25K merit/yr for all 4 years with a minimum GPA without us applying for anything. I was shocked. (She had great grades and fairly good test scores but not stratospheric.) Anyway, she chose another college but just FYI for any parents. (We're in NY so out of state.)

  • @corinneM0818
    @corinneM0818 3 года назад +1

    Very adorable couple. Did I hear you were both in the military? Must be why y'all were/are so disciplined. Very cute video!

    • @MsGoldgirl
      @MsGoldgirl  3 года назад +1

      Just Michael! He was an attorney (JAG) in the Air Force.

    • @corinneM0818
      @corinneM0818 3 года назад

      @@MsGoldgirl very cool.❤💯

  • @shartmann2008
    @shartmann2008 Год назад

    Bless you for speaking Spanish. I did immersion Spanish...SO FUN as an adult!

  • @wt30001
    @wt30001 3 года назад

    Travel destinations and ways to get there. Qprah and Stedman have the exact same thing.
    My husband and I will be married nearly 40 years. We have never had what y’all have. I think y’all are great.

  • @betsybabf748
    @betsybabf748 3 года назад

    I have 4 sons and 1 daughter (not including foster children). My mother was a bridal designer for 30 years. What I learned there is the couple has 100% input and control. Parents should have 0%, whether they give the gift of paying or not. It's their life event and memories as adults, so 100% what they want. My family still laughs about when I was 4 and my parents didn't know I saw them in bed. I called my mother's family screaming "My dad is strangling my mother!", while resulted in them rushing over where they lived so close, to my parent's horror and shock, thankfully not calling police first.

  • @teacherlife3350
    @teacherlife3350 3 года назад

    My hubby and I met in 1994 as well when he was a senior in high school and I was a sophomore in college. We too will be married 24 years in July. ❤️