33:56 "Indeed, Allāh confers blessing upon the Prophet (ﷺ), and His angels [ask Him to do so]. O you who have believed, ask [Allāh to confer] blessing upon him ( ﷺ) and ask [Allāh to grant him] peace."
It's very important to be kind and loving to all children in the Masjid. Scolding them, which unfortunately is usually done in public, can put them off returning and make them feel negatively towards attending the Masjid. We must instill love of the Masjid in our children and encourage them to attend. The trustees of the Masjid along with the Sheyukh should accommodate them in the Masjid where possible. Children are the next generation and if the Masjid isn't a welcoming place for them then they'll go elsewhere that is. Sadly it could lead to bad.
"If you don't hear children making noise at the back of the mosque, worry for your future generations” Especially in the west where it is easy for young kids to get involved in the wrong crowds, and schools are promoting liberal agendas children should be encouraged to go to the masjid. Even if kids are playing and making a little bit of noise, as long as its not excessive, we all need to learn to tolerate it. In London personally know many people who have had negative experiences as kids that made them stop attending the masjid, over time and they are no longer practicing muslims. Abu Dhar narrated from the Prophet that he said, “Do not disdain a good deed, (no matter how small it may seem) even if it is your meeting with your brother with a cheerful face” (Sahih Muslim)
Liberalism isn't the problem Extreme liberalism is (I may be wrong but hear me out) Liberalism is just you can do whatever really, as long as you abide by law Extreme liberalism is just straight up do whatever. And in some places kids see drag queens doing explicit dances even though they are bleeding kids bruv Honestly I don't care about liberalism, it's promoting random weird acts
true. also sheikh didn't prohibit anyone to take their children to masjid. he's just saying if you cant control your kid better not to bring him. but if you do no one can say nothing to you.
When I was 10 years of age, and I was praying, that time, an uncle pulled me from first row and pushed me back, even he didn't see that I was praying 5:51
I remember this happening to my little brother too when we were kids. I don't think he has forgiven that old man. As far as I am concerned, he doesn't deserve it.
Same situation for me, i pray 5 times a day, having a son of 7 years and a dougheter of 3 years, and a father with Parkinson And dementia, belive me its not mentally so simple for a man to take care of everything. But Allah gives us strength Alhamdulilah. I know that my dougheter cries when i go to Masjid, but when i go to Masjid i feel so relaxed after praying there, i gain all my energy when i pray in Masjid with jemah. But some one there that never asked if a have a problem told me that i should pray at home and not bring my kids at Masjid. Since that day i have a lot of distracton on my Salah, i think shejtan comes and make me thing about that thing. I normaly dont remeber what they sad to me but in Salah that situation comes to my mind and distract me. Literaly i was crying watching this video.
Someone told my dad not to bring my brothers and I to the mosque when we were around 5-6 years old,my dad told him no this should be the place that they visit the most and they should get used to it.
A man used to bring his grandson to the mosque and that kid would walk in front of worshippers during prayer. It's not just the crying, children can be bothersome in many other ways. There are some who are well behaved, but some like to walk all over the place and do other things.
The people who yell at the kids and their mother cause more disturbance and noise than the kids they are trying to make quiet! This is the most baffling thing. The ignorance of some people!
Children should be controlled by their parents while in the masjid, but you see people shouting at kids who are just playing and running around, and not even during prayer. These elders have to make a scene as if they are better and have no kids. It's these kinds of people who turn masjids into graveyards. I wouldn't attend such masjids. Masjids are more than just places of worship - it needs to be community centres.
If it's a small child, about 1 or 2 or maybe 3 years old, that's hard to control😂😂😂 especially if it's a special child😔 yes, sometimes parents have a reason to take their child to the Masjid, one of the reasons is that no one will look after them.
@@aleyaahmad2867 If they have no choice, I would understand. It's the reaction of other people who get on their high horses and judge the parents, as if there is no place for children there.
Bringing young children to masjid is fine for the most part the only time it becomes problematic is during taraweh prayers. Here in canada taraweh time is late in the summer / spring months im talking past 10 pm and people are bring their kids (6 and under). Who are screaming and yelling amd loud and soo tired and they legit ruin the prayer for everyone else and these parents dont care.
Hasan husain used to climbe on the back of rasool when hi used to pray when he prayed for jamaat when going to sajada he used to bring them down with his hand. But if childern by shouting and running in the prayer area while jamaat is going on it disturbed praying people.
@SlisnakSlis Oke your making conclusions based on assumptions. E: even if he was making ibadah and even if I was lauching loud. You claim now the prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam would slap children?
@@tinkablocker "you think The Prophet Saw would write yt comment ?" What Kind of Argument is that ? Fact is : YOU DIDNT BEHAVE AND YOU GOT THE CONCEQUENCES.
It's not the job of other worshippers in the mosque to parent/control your children, if it can't behave and needs potty training don't bring your child. Mosque is for adults and children who are quite, respectful and observant in the mosque. Fortunately this is less of problem in hanafi mosques.
So interesting. Read this please. Once I had a strange dream. I met prophet Muhammad, saw, who was tall, had light dark, moist, and soft hair. He was smiling as he approached me and greeted me with a Salam Aleykom. "Wa aleykom salam", I answred. "Who are you?" "I'm prophet Muhammad. Let's go and take wudhu". A fountain was gushing its waters from a spire and down to a basin, where we washed as is tradition. After that, we went to the masjid for salah. He sat in front of us, but the masjid quickly got crowded so I was left alone outside, but still happy and studying the khutba he gave us. To the point. As he was sitting and speaking, a dozen children "ambushed" him as he was preaching. Some were hugging him, others tried to climb on his shoulders and back. One was also on the top of his head. They pulled his turban, and hands and laughed. yet other children ran aorund him as if it was tawaf of the Hajj All this while Muhammad, saw, kept preaching to us, and was constantly smiling, totally unbothered. Then came the adhan and all started to pray. I was still outside but made my Rukkhu and Sajda, then with a wide smile left the area, running in happiness and joy, first right then left, around the allies of this unknown town to do the Lord's job.
The other day in jumah the brother with 4 year old son has him colouring a colouring book even when jumah started there was a gap where the kid was playing is that ok just asking just curious as i didnt want to say anything to the brother
Kids should absolutely go to the masjid so they can grow a relationship with the house of Allah and once they grow up they frequent the masjid. If they dont start as kids where would u prefer they attaned?
Thank you Syaikh. Children and babies in the masjid realy make people stressful. They screaming and runing here and there and sometime they hit each other.
@rightouserightouse-wh6rw Assalamualaikum warahmatullāhi wabarakatuhu sister, May Allāh SWT bless you and grant you jannah. It's the whisper of shaitan that you should use false lashes. Beware of the tricks and traps of shaitan. May Allāh SWT protect you.
From 6 they supposed to learn how to pray. But they must get comfortable with the mosque from the age of 4/5. They must understand their deen. Here at 3/4 you leave your kids in daycare or at school. They get brainwashed about Christianity or atheism. It’s your minimum job to teach them the right way and not let them be lead astray by kufar.
@bjwkusgxjdks correct my small brother wants to celebrate Christmas bec in his school his teacher is celebrating Christmas in class and she's a Muslim hijabi and I'm living in a Muslim country 😭 astagfirullah 😭😭
@rightouserightouse-wh6rw Oooff, May Allah be with you. And guide your sister to the straight path. I said what I said cuz we in Netherlands, and we saw 2 problems my lil bro did when he was 3 and 4. At 3 he crucified my other brother. He literally drew the cross on his back and started saying “oh Jesus Christ”.. At 4, he celebrated his first “Sinterklaas” basically Dutch version of Christmas at school. When he saw my black friend he said “Hey bro look it’s “zwarte Piet”!” Zwarte Piet is Sinterklaas black face slave.. Yeah they taught him racism too, eventho we always educated him on these matters.. it’s crazy that you guys are in a Muslim country and this happens.. it’s the end of times..
I’d bring all of my children to the masjid, it’s the house of Allah swt, not yours. Ofc ill make sure they don’t create a mess etc but not bringing them is ridiculous. If there’s no children in your masjid, fear for the next generation a3udhubillah.
sound noisyness, u can bring them but you need to see as a parent whether your child would cause issues in the mosque. if ur child is mature enough i see no problem. it is not prohibited tho
I bring my children to the masjid at times. They don’t cause issues and if your baby cries you can always walk outside or to another room if there is one and relax the baby. They don’t understand they are pushing our youth away from Islam by being mean to children.
Nobody minds well-mannered children in the masjid. Parents need to be responsible and control their children in the masjid. TEACH YOUR CHILDREN THIS PLACE NEEDS TO BE RESPECTED BY BEHAVING WELL . THIS IS A PLACE WHERE THEY NEED TO SPEAK IN THEIR INDOOR VOICES. THIS IS A PLACE FOR WORSHIP. NO SHOUTING SCREAMING AND RUNNING AROUND. AND NO MUSIC. PARENTS HAND THEIR CHILDREN CELL PHONES WHICH IS PLAYING MUSIC DURING PRAYERS ! THESE ARE THE PEOPLE THEY SHOULD PRAY AT HOME.
@taimurahmad if I'm not mistaken, saudi govt was doing things like reducing quran in public places, "advising" ppl to not bring children to the Masjid. I don't know, I can't put my finger on it, something feels weird about the whole situation there. but what do I know
Prophet Muhammad was never annoyed with children in the Masjid what makes you so special to be annoyed with them?
wait, when did he say that?
He implied that he doesn't want kids in the masjid.
@@RedBirdz-zp2tt 😅i think he said to try your best not to bring kids, unless you have a valuable excuse
One or two children is ok but wait untill they come in a group and they screaming together when we pray 😂😂😂😂. Children always out of control 😂😂😂
33:56
"Indeed, Allāh confers blessing upon the Prophet (ﷺ), and His angels [ask Him to do so]. O you who have believed, ask [Allāh to confer] blessing upon him ( ﷺ) and ask [Allāh to grant him] peace."
May Allah grant that brother a good life and remove his difficulties 🤲. Ameen.
AAMEEEN
ameeen
AMEEN❤
aameen
Ameen ya Rabb
It's very important to be kind and loving to all children in the Masjid. Scolding them, which unfortunately is usually done in public, can put them off returning and make them feel negatively towards attending the Masjid.
We must instill love of the Masjid in our children and encourage them to attend. The trustees of the Masjid along with the Sheyukh should accommodate them in the Masjid where possible.
Children are the next generation and if the Masjid isn't a welcoming place for them then they'll go elsewhere that is. Sadly it could lead to bad.
"If you don't hear children making noise at the back of the mosque, worry for your future generations”
Especially in the west where it is easy for young kids to get involved in the wrong crowds, and schools are promoting liberal agendas children should be encouraged to go to the masjid. Even if kids are playing and making a little bit of noise, as long as its not excessive, we all need to learn to tolerate it. In London personally know many people who have had negative experiences as kids that made them stop attending the masjid, over time and they are no longer practicing muslims.
Abu Dhar narrated from the Prophet that he said, “Do not disdain a good deed, (no matter how small it may seem) even if it is your meeting with your brother with a cheerful face” (Sahih Muslim)
Liberalism isn't the problem
Extreme liberalism is
(I may be wrong but hear me out)
Liberalism is just you can do whatever really, as long as you abide by law
Extreme liberalism is just straight up do whatever.
And in some places kids see drag queens doing explicit dances even though they are bleeding kids bruv
Honestly I don't care about liberalism, it's promoting random weird acts
I felt that brother weeping.
Lost wife, have kids, about to lose job, final hope he remember Allah and goes to mosque and this happens😢
Just imagine someone weeped because of you... Allahu akbar
May Allah Azzawajal the most merciful forgive me if someone weeped because of me.
Sheikh prophet Muhammad has never prohibited children from coming to masjid .
Parents will leave them as it is in Masjid brother.They will disturb other's prayers.
He is talking about infants like 2-3 years old kids
true. also sheikh didn't prohibit anyone to take their children to masjid. he's just saying if you cant control your kid better not to bring him. but if you do no one can say nothing to you.
When I was 10 years of age, and I was praying, that time, an uncle pulled me from first row and pushed me back, even he didn't see that I was praying 5:51
That must of hurt 😂
You should have said you are praying. They do this at our masjid as well but the kids here are extremely noisy and uncontrollable.
@@ebrahimi44 As if they care about you
dumbass uncle
I remember this happening to my little brother too when we were kids. I don't think he has forgiven that old man. As far as I am concerned, he doesn't deserve it.
Why not bring the kids at masjid. How they going to learn then?
He means very small children, like a toddler who doesn't have any understanding yet. Of course, for older kids it is better to bring them.
He Said obviously Kids WHO dont pray or know how to pray. Just there To make noise.
Same situation for me, i pray 5 times a day, having a son of 7 years and a dougheter of 3 years, and a father with Parkinson And dementia, belive me its not mentally so simple for a man to take care of everything. But Allah gives us strength Alhamdulilah. I know that my dougheter cries when i go to Masjid, but when i go to Masjid i feel so relaxed after praying there, i gain all my energy when i pray in Masjid with jemah. But some one there that never asked if a have a problem told me that i should pray at home and not bring my kids at Masjid. Since that day i have a lot of distracton on my Salah, i think shejtan comes and make me thing about that thing. I normaly dont remeber what they sad to me but in Salah that situation comes to my mind and distract me. Literaly i was crying watching this video.
May Allah make it easy for you my dear brother--your brother in Islaam.
@ Allah bless my brother , May He give you goods on this life and jennah in hereafter 🤲
May Allah make it easy for brother Ameen
Someone told my dad not to bring my brothers and I to the mosque when we were around 5-6 years old,my dad told him no this should be the place that they visit the most and they should get used to it.
JazakAllah khairan kaseer Shykh
Profound advice by our beloved sheikh! May Allah preserve him.
A man used to bring his grandson to the mosque and that kid would walk in front of worshippers during prayer. It's not just the crying, children can be bothersome in many other ways. There are some who are well behaved, but some like to walk all over the place and do other things.
What do you expect from a child, be for real
@@khadija-o8wsis then dont Bring child Like this in the masjid ? Its that easy.
The people who yell at the kids and their mother cause more disturbance and noise than the kids they are trying to make quiet! This is the most baffling thing. The ignorance of some people!
Children should be controlled by their parents while in the masjid, but you see people shouting at kids who are just playing and running around, and not even during prayer. These elders have to make a scene as if they are better and have no kids. It's these kinds of people who turn masjids into graveyards. I wouldn't attend such masjids. Masjids are more than just places of worship - it needs to be community centres.
If it's a small child, about 1 or 2 or maybe 3 years old, that's hard to control😂😂😂 especially if it's a special child😔 yes, sometimes parents have a reason to take their child to the Masjid, one of the reasons is that no one will look after them.
@@aleyaahmad2867 If they have no choice, I would understand. It's the reaction of other people who get on their high horses and judge the parents, as if there is no place for children there.
Bringing young children to masjid is fine for the most part the only time it becomes problematic is during taraweh prayers. Here in canada taraweh time is late in the summer / spring months im talking past 10 pm and people are bring their kids (6 and under). Who are screaming and yelling amd loud and soo tired and they legit ruin the prayer for everyone else and these parents dont care.
جزاك الله
Hasan husain used to climbe on the back of rasool when hi used to pray when he prayed for jamaat when going to sajada he used to bring them down with his hand. But if childern by shouting and running in the prayer area while jamaat is going on it disturbed praying people.
Just of that Hadith then I don’t know how someone can say a child disturbed a prayer ???
Allahu Akbar
Ive also been slapped in the masjid just because of laughing.
Was even outside of prayer time.
But yea may Allah subhanahu lead the old uncle.
May Allah lead you for laughing so loud and annoying that a Uncle cant concetrate To His ibada.
@SlisnakSlis
Oke your making conclusions based on assumptions.
E: even if he was making ibadah and even if I was lauching loud. You claim now the prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam would slap children?
@@tinkablocker "you think The Prophet Saw would write yt comment ?" What Kind of Argument is that ? Fact is : YOU DIDNT BEHAVE AND YOU GOT THE CONCEQUENCES.
@SlisnakSlisbe nice to a brother, bro. this is the second time I see negative comment from you
@@ada0015 cause You people are To dumb to think .
Alhamdulillah for islam
May Allah help us be kinder and more patient, Ameen
It's not the job of other worshippers in the mosque to parent/control your children, if it can't behave and needs potty training don't bring your child. Mosque is for adults and children who are quite, respectful and observant in the mosque. Fortunately this is less of problem in hanafi mosques.
Where does it say not to bring children to the mosque?
Respect the elders, have mercy towards children.
May Allah help that brother ameen what a sad story
Allahu akbar
So interesting. Read this please. Once I had a strange dream. I met prophet Muhammad, saw, who was tall, had light dark, moist, and soft hair. He was smiling as he approached me and greeted me with a Salam Aleykom. "Wa aleykom salam", I answred. "Who are you?" "I'm prophet Muhammad. Let's go and take wudhu". A fountain was gushing its waters from a spire and down to a basin, where we washed as is tradition. After that, we went to the masjid for salah. He sat in front of us, but the masjid quickly got crowded so I was left alone outside, but still happy and studying the khutba he gave us. To the point. As he was sitting and speaking, a dozen children "ambushed" him as he was preaching. Some were hugging him, others tried to climb on his shoulders and back. One was also on the top of his head. They pulled his turban, and hands and laughed. yet other children ran aorund him as if it was tawaf of the Hajj All this while Muhammad, saw, kept preaching to us, and was constantly smiling, totally unbothered. Then came the adhan and all started to pray. I was still outside but made my Rukkhu and Sajda, then with a wide smile left the area, running in happiness and joy, first right then left, around the allies of this unknown town to do the Lord's job.
The other day in jumah the brother with 4 year old son has him colouring a colouring book even when jumah started there was a gap where the kid was playing is that ok just asking just curious as i didnt want to say anything to the brother
Kids should absolutely go to the masjid so they can grow a relationship with the house of Allah and once they grow up they frequent the masjid. If they dont start as kids where would u prefer they attaned?
SubhanAllah
1:19 That jet sound 😂😂
"Zeooowkh" - 🛩😂
Balance...bring your well behaved children so not to disturbed the jemaah..
Don't judge people
Thank you Syaikh. Children and babies in the masjid realy make people stressful. They screaming and runing here and there and sometime they hit each other.
❤❤❤
I have a question can i wear false lashes at home and remove it when i need to make wudu🤔?
I just went on Islamic Q&A and no it is haram even if you are at home and I knew this as it comes under wearing a wig. So no to your Question
@Lasagna-z8w but I can remove it tho and I won't wear it for long only when I am playing with makeup and want to experiment with lashes
@rightouserightouse-wh6rw Assalamualaikum warahmatullāhi wabarakatuhu sister,
May Allāh SWT bless you and grant you jannah.
It's the whisper of shaitan that you should use false lashes. Beware of the tricks and traps of shaitan.
May Allāh SWT protect you.
@@callgh_st ok jazakallah khair may Allah bless u too
Yes
Did the Prophet Muhammad ﷺ stop people from bringing the children to the masjid?
Yes don't bring ur children because a random man with anger issues may scold them . And then won't have courage to own his mistake.
Its ok to bring 6 and up kids not below tho
From 6 they supposed to learn how to pray. But they must get comfortable with the mosque from the age of 4/5. They must understand their deen. Here at 3/4 you leave your kids in daycare or at school. They get brainwashed about Christianity or atheism. It’s your minimum job to teach them the right way and not let them be lead astray by kufar.
@bjwkusgxjdks correct my small brother wants to celebrate Christmas bec in his school his teacher is celebrating Christmas in class and she's a Muslim hijabi and I'm living in a Muslim country 😭 astagfirullah 😭😭
@rightouserightouse-wh6rw May Allah guide them to the Haqq
@rightouserightouse-wh6rw Oooff, May Allah be with you. And guide your sister to the straight path.
I said what I said cuz we in Netherlands, and we saw 2 problems my lil bro did when he was 3 and 4.
At 3 he crucified my other brother. He literally drew the cross on his back and started saying “oh Jesus Christ”..
At 4, he celebrated his first “Sinterklaas” basically Dutch version of Christmas at school. When he saw my black friend he said
“Hey bro look it’s “zwarte Piet”!”
Zwarte Piet is Sinterklaas black face slave..
Yeah they taught him racism too, eventho we always educated him on these matters.. it’s crazy that you guys are in a Muslim country and this happens.. it’s the end of times..
@ Yeah but I never specified girls, I said kids in general😉
HAQQ
I’d bring all of my children to the masjid, it’s the house of Allah swt, not yours. Ofc ill make sure they don’t create a mess etc but not bringing them is ridiculous. If there’s no children in your masjid, fear for the next generation a3udhubillah.
What do u mean
Seryously? If the person live in a non Muslim country i would say he MUST bring
Why shouldn't I try to bring children to the masjid?
sound noisyness, u can bring them but you need to see as a parent whether your child would cause issues in the mosque. if ur child is mature enough i see no problem. it is not prohibited tho
dont bring a child that is too young to benefit from it and would only be a nuisance to the people, probably 1-4 year olds
I bring my children to the masjid at times. They don’t cause issues and if your baby cries you can always walk outside or to another room if there is one and relax the baby. They don’t understand they are pushing our youth away from Islam by being mean to children.
@@Ummkelechi you are doing exactly what i and sheikh discribed. You are not ment by him or me but other people
Nobody minds well-mannered children in the masjid. Parents need to be responsible and control their children in the masjid. TEACH YOUR CHILDREN THIS PLACE NEEDS TO BE RESPECTED BY BEHAVING WELL . THIS IS A PLACE WHERE THEY NEED TO SPEAK IN THEIR INDOOR VOICES. THIS IS A PLACE FOR WORSHIP. NO SHOUTING SCREAMING AND RUNNING AROUND. AND NO MUSIC. PARENTS HAND THEIR CHILDREN CELL PHONES WHICH IS PLAYING MUSIC DURING PRAYERS ! THESE ARE THE PEOPLE THEY SHOULD PRAY AT HOME.
is he talking about children or baby
Seems like no compassion.
Dammm sp children are not respected
this sounds like a saudi govt fatwa
How? I don't see a problem with it.
@taimurahmad if I'm not mistaken, saudi govt was doing things like reducing quran in public places, "advising" ppl to not bring children to the Masjid. I don't know, I can't put my finger on it, something feels weird about the whole situation there. but what do I know
@@deoshah is he authentic sheikh because my Islamic teacher said not to listen to ppl who call themselves scholar on the internet
@deoshah that's a lie. This never happened in saudi
@@deoshah from where do u even get of all this rubbish news
I want to ask question... What procedure should i follow..@asimal hakeem