Many children, who are learning two or more languages, may APPEAR to be experiencing a speech delay, when actually, they are not. He'll be speaking, non stop, in no time! He's smart!❤
He is experiencing a speech delay beyond what is normal and being conscientious parents they brought him in for evaluation and he was receiving therapy prior to covid shutdowns. Early intervention is key and it is not true that he will be “fine” by ignoring it. I have had students turn up in kindergarten who were hardly speaking because their parents did not bring them in for therapy at a younger age.
@@laurenj8888 Where in my statement did you see me advising them to ignore ANYTHING??? I'm a Therapist in Child and Family Services, so I am well aware of the advantages of Early On Intervention. HOWEVER, they did state that they were told that no abnormalities were discovered and there is also a family history of delays in reaching some developmental milestones. This may have more to do with child rearing practices than anything else. I stated a fact in my original statement and I stand by that statement.
@@detphemale They stated that he has been receiving speech therapy from a speech therapist but he has been cleared of any other underlying conditions. So it is a speech delay diagnosed by a speech therapist.
Pani and Tae, I wish you and your family, nothing but the very best in this season and in the coming year! May God continue to rain blessing into your lives!
I seriously love how honest you two are! It’s definitely not easy to document your lives for everyone to see on the internet so I’m not surprised you would get very personal questions. But the fact that you choose to address them and in such a patient/honest manner is truly applaud worthy!! I hope you never stress about the negative things(if any) and that you find the strength to continue a happy healthy life! ❤️
As a mother of a bilingual child... My son was raised in a multilingual home (I spoke solely Spanish to him and his father spoke English to him). My son’s speech was delayed as well, but once he mastered them, he was a chatter machine! 🙂 So don’t worry, Lance will come around.
2nd year graduate speech student here. Often when a child learns two (or more) languages at the same time you see that other kids might know 50 words but your little one only knows 25. You have to remember that 25 in English and 25 in Korean still equals 50 words. Which is totally normal. If they are late language talkers it can be even less. Moms and dads who care and are intentional reading and talking their their kids is the most important. Sounds like you guys are doing all the right things! God bless!
You guys are younger than me age-wise but so much more experienced in life! I really appreciate your videos because I'm recently married and just starting to think about serious grown-up/family things. I'm also half (Chinese/American) and my husband is Japanese...and I love your trilingual home environment and it's really exactly how I hope to raise my kids if I can have any! (My Japanese is a work-in-progress and my Chinese is beyond broken so it's gonna be another added complexity but seeing your guys' videos is really an inspiration!) Anyway, I guess I just want to say I'm a fan and thanks for sharing your lives with us!
That's one of the questions I get a lot as an engaged 32-year old; why I haven't moved in with my fiancé. 10년 넘게 사귀어 그런지 더 궁금해 하더라구요 주위에서 It's so refreshing to hear from a fellow Christian that you were waiting to get married to move in.. or that you'd rather get married early. 이런 영상 너무 좋네요 ~
I think you bring great points about home schooling. As a person who went through public school, there were many situations where I dealt with difficult situations but, it has allowed me to understand/deal with different teachers, students, and perceptions outside of my family and so forth. I think it's great you're being flexible about it because, every child is different :).
Although i went to a public school, i also did online school... as an introverted high school student, i actually learned to be more conscious and respectful of others... i really think almost all of homeschooled are shy at first and kind in general... they also seem more matured than other kids bc they don’t really get “peer pressured” as much (not as affected as others)...
@@swagwanhyung8413 Good point, I have worked with kids who were homeschooled and boy, it was a challenge for them to be engaged in class (I taught Saturday school so kids who were homeschooled would come as well). They weren't used to structure by adults outside of their parents. But if the parents socialize them accordingly and give other options in terms of expressing themselves, then probably, those issues I faced won't be issues. I think online schools are great as well, especially if you feel like a class environment isn't suitable for you :).
It’s actually pretty rare that you hear of someone getting married before living together, especially in the younger generations. It’s wonderful to see couples that have high morals and standards, but more importantly putting God first! 💝💞💝
축복합니다. 한일커플 여러 커플들 보고있는데 pray in the name of Jesus 들었을때 너무 감동헸고 이사한 집에서 두 분이 기도하시는 모습 정말 좋았어요. 아버님께서 목사님이시라 그 분께서 천국창고에 쌓아두신 그 크신 축복이 함께 하시리라 믿습니다. 한일커플들 중에서도 기도하는 모습 보고 싶네요. 어머니 나라 위해서 기도많이 하시길^ 사랑하고 축복합니다^^
Thank you for sharing loving beautiful story... As far as Lance I would say not to worry cuz my grandson was just like Lance, took him to many many specialists but around 6, 7 he start speaking as a lot, express himself very well. Every child is different with the development... I love watching your family 😊 stay safe! 💕 from Seattle!!
I speak 9 languages and so do both my brothers. Both didn’t speak until 3rd grade and it wasn’t because he couldn’t learn... he was just translating. I spoke earlier, and girl just can process easier. So do not worry! ( collectively, we speak 3 of the same languages so be at ease!)
Hi! ☺️ I've been a silent follower for a while and I just wanted to tell you guys how much I love your channel. Your videos always make my day! I'm also half Japanese, half Finnish/American and a christian! I moved from Belgium to Finland when I was 8. I often feel kind of confused with all the cultures mixed but seeing you guys make it work inspires me a lot (if that makes sense).. 🌟 You guys also seem like such understanding, loving and just overall great parents! Bless you guys and your beautiful family. ❤️
Yay im so happy to hear about Lance's issue. He's just taking his time. Im excited to hear him speak in full sentences in the future. I also hope he learns Japanese when he grows older. I really like hearing kids speaking in Japanese. God bless!!
Another wonderful video. With today's current situation in the US, I would love to go back to either Japan or Korea to live. It was a bit different back in the early 80's when we lived in Korea. I will never forget how my wife would change out the three charcoal pieces in the heater system. Something I had a very hard time to do, but she easily did it.
Stephanie and Tae, you are so funny! As mother of three I really appreciate your way of thinking. You are younger than me, but you are also very mature. I think Stephanie is very beautiful and with a bright personality, nobody can dislike her even if coming from different culture. Tae is so generous and thoughtful. I'm Catholic and I understand your beliefs. I hope to watch more videos from you because they cheer me up in this difficult time in Italy, with never-ending lockdown. Stay safe and healthy.
I loved this video. Also, love the couple/matching-look (I used to live in Korea). It's so amazing to see that a couple's faith is so strong and that you would hold your core-beliefs to make such an important decision like marriage. It's not easy to meet a partner like that these days. In the future when you start homeschooling Lance, would you consider talking about the lessons you use to teach, the programs you use, and how transcripts will work when he's older?
I live in Malaysia and I am Chinese. As a chinese, my parents speak to us in Chinese and the Chinese dialect. Plus during pre-school we only speak English. So you could say I learn 3 languages in a very young age. My brother had problem speaking too when he was very young but as he grew up he started to speak normally too in all 3 languages.
I am Brazilian-Japanese and I remember my brother had a speech delay. My 2 brothers and I would go to Brazilian school in the morning and to a Japanese school in the afternoon. I met my American husband in Japan and we moved to Austin - Texas 25 years ago. We have a son and he was homeschooled all the way to college. Every year I would ask him if he wants to go to public school and he always opted to homeschool. Fortunately, we have a big group of homeschoolers here who was very helpful to me. When my son was in High School, he had a chance to go 'one-day school' which offered academics courses. I was raised Buddhist and became a Christian when I had my son 22 years ago. That was the best decision I made in my life. I love watching your family on RUclips and I do believe God chose you and your husband Tae, to be the parents to Lance, Lidia and the next baby. You both are doing a great job raising them. May God continue blessings you and your family.
I wanted to encourage you about “late speakers.” My son didn’t put two words together until he was almost 4- One day when he was about 8, we were laying on his bottom bunk together chatting( yes he completely caught up with one year of speech therapy just as a good measure while in school) I was telling him about his silent years and he stunned me- he said he remembered everything from those times, even though he couldn’t speak back.... So remember that language is receptive as well - *never stop talking 🙊 in the absence of a response!*
Love your responses. You guys are such lovely decent couples. Thank you for allowing us this little window into your lives as a family. May your household be filled with lots of happiness, unconditional love, and unspeakable peace.
I'm hoping you and your families have a very Merry Christmas and a Happy and wonderful New Year. Thank you for sharing your daily life with so many people and showing us love. You both are so special. God Bless you.
Y’all are so great!! Thank you for the Q&A. It’s nice to learn more about you. You are right about Lance. My daughter didn’t speak very well until she was almost 5. She is in her 20’s now and has no problems with speaking. Praying for y’all, it’s hard to be in the spotlight in this day and age. Much love to you all. ❤️
It's so much fun watching your family grow! Lance is so adorable, I don't notice any speech delay-appears to be a smart kid that will grow up very well rounded. I have a son myself and watch these videos to remind me of the younger years that went by too fast. I worried about every assumed delay, issue and it doesn't help to hear other people criticize or judge. You're amazing to not listen to viewers too much to heart, not sure why people judge so much. Enjoy these wonder years with your kiddos! You guys are amazing parents.
I live in Germany and it is quite normal, if your parents are international couple, then you are a little bit behind in “speaking language”, but all my friends- who had this problem- are now really successful in their life. So just don’t worry! 😎👍
Thank you for a great Q&A episode. I struggle a lot with depression and have been to some very low points recently. Your videos have been a great encouragement. Your love for God, your love for each other, your love for your children, your family , bring gentle reassurance to me that God is still in control in this world. His lovingkindness is just as strong in Korea as it is here in the U.S. Thank you again for the hard work you do to put these videos together. I'll be praying for a safe delivery of your baby and hope you have a great Christmas. God bless!
My now 11 year old son also had delayed speech and to walk but in his own time, he made it happen.💞 So our kids do at their own pace 💞i, too was worried and asked his pediatrician but she assured me that he was fine and that he would do the steps in his own time when he was ready. Keep being AMAZING parents and inviting us into your beautiful lives. Merry Christmas to you and your family from us in Texas💞🎄
My daughter couldn't speak 'a sentence' until she became 3.5 year old, couldn't walk until she became 2 year old. She is now an attending pediatric ER in one of the best children's hospital in US. If your kid can't speak a 'word', that's a problem. If not, you don't have to worry about. It doesn't even link to their intellectual capacity, for sure. Keep calm and carry on!
You guys are patient and supportive with your children and each other. I think you will do great as home school teachers. I love your positive family dynamics. You are also frank about everything, transparency is obvious, so sweet. My son didn't speak until he was three, but then he spoke in sentences. My husband and I took him to various specialists prior to that. No issues found and it was just timing of his own. He is bilingual. I love your videos so much - entertaining and love watching you guys, sometimes just doing mundane things. :). Thank you for the videos.
A new subscriber here from New Zealand. I’d like to say thank you so much to both of you for sharing your personal/family lives, thoughts & beliefs with us audiences ❤️❤️
What a beautiful family you are. I’ve just met you and subbed. I’m a 57 year old English woman from London. Hello to you. I love your approach to questions and comments. Your kiddies are doing great. You are right, boys are slower than girls, but you all speak 2/3 languages too. Amazing. I have to say, you are hilarious. Lydia especially is so funny. I’ve watched many of your videos, they are so entertaining. Such a wonderful family with good Christian values. My daughter’s name is Stefani and if my son Jacob had been a girl, he would have been Lydia. My hubby is Sam. Great names 💗 BTW I think Little Lance is very much like your brother Sam. All gorgeous 🌺
You are speaking truth when you say 0 to 1 child is harder. It’s such an adjustment. I personally wasn’t prepared. But we learn and grow and it can only go up from there. Thank you for answering the questions!
I love you beautiful family you guys are totally awesome I was a late bloomer some kids are late bloomers they're still awesome and I think you're wonderful and thank you for being positive and I'm a Christian too
Thank you for this video! My third child could only say 'yes', 'no', 'daddy', 'mommy' at 2 y.o. (western way to calculate age). We began to use baby sign language. He really liked it and even started to invent his own signs (i.e.: Opening his mouth to mean the door was open!). We could see that he understood soooo much more than what he could express. All the bright deductions, ideas he had... By 3 y.o, he was a chatty box and speaking like an older kid. That was beyond our expectations. He was also a 'late' walker ( 15 months, but he never fell, started running instead!). So to each his own pace. Really happy Stephanie already feels that way. :)
Wow, it's cool that you're so books about your beliefs, it's not something you see often! I was homeschooled 5th-12th in the USA and I'm so grateful to my parents!
Wow, it was refreshing to see you guys in blue😍No, this is 100% praise not that kind of comment. ❤You guys are cool. I am still watching this video while commenting but great video as always🥰
It is great to watch your video. My son is slow in speech too. I am now much more optimistic! They have no real big issue, just learning and growing at their own pace.
Not all kids are alike, I had the same issue with my son, first he was the first child, it was me and my husband alone without our family around. He was a late talker. Took him to the different doctors. Nothing was wrong. He even walked, when he was a little bit more then a yr. Then came my daughter she was totally different. She walked at 8 months talked real early was super intelligent. But little did I know she was the one with the autism spectrum. My son went on to talk, and boy was he a talker, also very intelligent. My daughter on the hand was way beyond her age. Super intelligent, but she had the spectrum. So you really don’t know with children. Just live, people’s comments can be very harmful. I know that for a fact, I lived it. So live on ! Peace ✌️
I'm a mother to a toddler and I have never once thought that Lance screams or cries more than other kids his age. Also, all of the kids that I know who grew up bilingual were very "slow" with their speech. I think it's great that you got him checked out...but the delayed speech in a household that has multiple languages going on is so so common. Your family is awesome and you and Tae are so cute in this video. PS: Digging the Christmassy vibes with your blue outfits. :-)
Many children, who are learning two or more languages, may APPEAR to be experiencing a speech delay, when actually, they are not. He'll be speaking, non stop, in no time! He's smart!❤
Ahh this is true!!!
He is experiencing a speech delay beyond what is normal and being conscientious parents they brought him in for evaluation and he was receiving therapy prior to covid shutdowns. Early intervention is key and it is not true that he will be “fine” by ignoring it. I have had students turn up in kindergarten who were hardly speaking because their parents did not bring them in for therapy at a younger age.
@@laurenj8888 Where in my statement did you see me advising them to ignore ANYTHING??? I'm a Therapist in Child and Family Services, so I am well aware of the advantages of Early On Intervention. HOWEVER, they did state that they were told that no abnormalities were discovered and there is also a family history of delays in reaching some developmental milestones. This may have more to do with child rearing practices than anything else.
I stated a fact in my original statement and I stand by that statement.
@@detphemale They stated that he has been receiving speech therapy from a speech therapist but he has been cleared of any other underlying conditions. So it is a speech delay diagnosed by a speech therapist.
Pani and Tae, I wish you and your family, nothing but the very best in this season and in the coming year! May God continue to rain blessing into your lives!
I seriously love how honest you two are! It’s definitely not easy to document your lives for everyone to see on the internet so I’m not surprised you would get very personal questions. But the fact that you choose to address them and in such a patient/honest manner is truly applaud worthy!! I hope you never stress about the negative things(if any) and that you find the strength to continue a happy healthy life! ❤️
パニちゃん、心無いコメントにこれまで傷ついてきたんですね‥😢2人の子供なのに赤の他人がなんて失礼な‥驚きながらこの動画を見ました。
私はいつも可愛いランスとリディアに癒やされているし、優しいテヨルさん(ズボン履いて)、美しく飾らないパニちゃんのファンで動画を楽しみにしています。
最近はランスが少しずついろいろな単語を話している様子がとても可愛いです🥰
うまく言えませんが、パニちゃんが心を痛めることが少しでも減りますように‥。
ソウルも寒くなってきたと思いますが、お身体に気をつけて過ごしてくださいね♡😊
I feel like Lance is soaking all the words in and waiting until he can surprise you all by speaking in full sentences! :)
As a mother of a bilingual child...
My son was raised in a multilingual home (I spoke solely Spanish to him and his father spoke English to him). My son’s speech was delayed as well, but once he mastered them, he was a chatter machine! 🙂 So don’t worry, Lance will come around.
두분 항상 작은것에도 서로 감사해 하고, 친구 같이 재밌게 지내는 모습이 너무 보기 좋아요. 보기만 해도 기분이 좋아지는 부부!
행복해보여요. 아름답고 밝은 아내 자상한 남편~ 웃음이 끊이지 않는 집이라는게 영상만 봐도 느껴져서 좋네요.
천생연분이란 게 있다는 걸 이 부부 보면서 믿게 되네요. 다시 태어나도 서로랑 결혼할 거라는 말을 할 때 두 분의 눈빛이 완전 진심인 거 보고 확신하게 됐네요.
If it's any consolation, Einstein was a late speaker, too. And he turned out okay.
More than okay...lol
Way more than okay
I read that he did start speaking until he was 4.
2nd year graduate speech student here. Often when a child learns two (or more) languages at the same time you see that other kids might know 50 words but your little one only knows 25. You have to remember that 25 in English and 25 in Korean still equals 50 words. Which is totally normal. If they are late language talkers it can be even less. Moms and dads who care and are intentional reading and talking their their kids is the most important. Sounds like you guys are doing all the right things! God bless!
You guys are younger than me age-wise but so much more experienced in life! I really appreciate your videos because I'm recently married and just starting to think about serious grown-up/family things. I'm also half (Chinese/American) and my husband is Japanese...and I love your trilingual home environment and it's really exactly how I hope to raise my kids if I can have any! (My Japanese is a work-in-progress and my Chinese is beyond broken so it's gonna be another added complexity but seeing your guys' videos is really an inspiration!) Anyway, I guess I just want to say I'm a fan and thanks for sharing your lives with us!
あなた達みたいに綺麗で賢いお母さんお父さんがいたら、子ども達は絶対それだけで世界一幸せだ🥰
두 분다 정말 건강한 사고를
가지고 계셔서 행복한 가정
이루어 가고 계십니다.
육아방법도 매우 안정적이세요.
하나님께서 함께 하십니다.
응원하고 지지 합니다.
영상 감사합니다.
대한민국 교회는 임쥭었다
게독덜
더이상 하나님 욕보이게 하지말고 퉷
@@ethnic57871 나도 신 안믿는데 그냥 자기들 믿는다는곳 와서 욕할필요 있냐
Fun video! Don't worry about Lance's speech delay, he'll be fine.
That's one of the questions I get a lot as an engaged 32-year old; why I haven't moved in with my fiancé.
10년 넘게 사귀어 그런지 더 궁금해 하더라구요 주위에서
It's so refreshing to hear from a fellow Christian that you were waiting to get married to move in.. or that you'd rather get married early.
이런 영상 너무 좋네요 ~
그나저나 3개국어로 자막 하시다니.. 정말 대단합니다..
전 2개 하는거도 너무너무 힘든데 ㅠㅠ
아내분 미모도 뛰어나지만 도대체 얼마나 똑똑하기에 저렇게 몇개국어를 원어민 수준으로 하는지요?
二人を見てると本当にほっこりします~💓
喧嘩もするだろうけど、お互い愛し合ってて、生まれ変わってもまた結婚したいっていうのが本当に素敵✨
色々教えていただき、ありがとうございました♥素敵な夫婦!本当にお二人とも大好きです✨これからも楽しみにしてます😁
I think you bring great points about home schooling. As a person who went through public school, there were many situations where I dealt with difficult situations but, it has allowed me to understand/deal with different teachers, students, and perceptions outside of my family and so forth. I think it's great you're being flexible about it because, every child is different :).
Although i went to a public school, i also did online school... as an introverted high school student, i actually learned to be more conscious and respectful of others... i really think almost all of homeschooled are shy at first and kind in general... they also seem more matured than other kids bc they don’t really get “peer pressured” as much (not as affected as others)...
@@swagwanhyung8413 Good point, I have worked with kids who were homeschooled and boy, it was a challenge for them to be engaged in class (I taught Saturday school so kids who were homeschooled would come as well). They weren't used to structure by adults outside of their parents. But if the parents socialize them accordingly and give other options in terms of expressing themselves, then probably, those issues I faced won't be issues. I think online schools are great as well, especially if you feel like a class environment isn't suitable for you :).
결혼도 인생도 제가 많이 선배겠지만 그럼에도 불구하고 두 사람 보면서 많이 배우고 있습니다. 잘 하고 계시니까 지금처럼만 하신다면 좋겠습니다. 어른스럽기도 하고 진솔한 부부라서 부담없이 지켜보고 있습니다.
아무리 봐도 이번 헤어스타일 신의 한숩니다
원래도 엄청난 미녀이신데 금상첨화 으허허
물론 남편분도 여전히 귀여우십니다 하하하
It’s actually pretty rare that you hear of someone getting married before living together, especially in the younger generations. It’s wonderful to see couples that have high morals and standards, but more importantly putting God first! 💝💞💝
大丈夫!言葉が出る時はすごいスピードで出てきますよー
うちの三人は早かったから、孫が言葉がなかなかで…意思疎通が上手くできないから大きな声だしたり、大騒ぎしてましたが、ここ2~3ヶ月ですごい成長して話してます。
意思疎通出来るようになったら泣いたり騒いだりもほとんど無くなって🤣
今、ランスの頭の中では言葉のプールが出来てますよ。そしてある時から噴水のように出てきます👍
女の子は比較的早いかなぁ🤭
焦らないで❢心配しないでね❣
質問に答えて下さり、ありがとうございました😊ステキなご夫婦ですね。ランス君の事、大丈夫🙆♀️👌ですよ。これからも動画楽しみにしています。お腹の中にベイビーがいるので、無理しないでくださいね。動画は、じっくり待ってますので。寒くなりました。お身体に気をつけて。パパさん助けてあげてね。私パパさんの優しい目が大好きです。ステファニーのこと、よろしくお願いしま〜す❤️
예전에, 어르신들 하시는 말씀 중에, 말이 늦는 아이일수록 ,
머리가 아주 영특 하다고 하셨어요~
전혀, 걱정하지 마세요~
가족 영상 잘 보고 있어요^^부인의 찐 팬 이예요
いつも二人の信頼し合っている様子を見ると素敵だなぁと感動します。これからも楽しく仲良く過ごしてくださいね!
とても良い動画でした。何よりもお2人がめっちゃ仲良く思い合っている事がわかる動画で涙でました。いつも楽しく拝見しています。
I like the Christmas background, and I like that you guys match in this video 😁 🎄
ゆっくり育つ子や、早い段階で話し始める子や沢山いると思います☺️比べられたり、他人に言われたりしても、ランス君は伸び伸び育つと思います!
これからもRUclips楽しみにしています☺️
정말 즐겁게 친구 처럼 때론 애인 처럼 서로 위하는 모습이 영상 보는 이로 하여금 기분 좋게 하는거 같네요
Q&A를 통해서 두분을 더 알게되니 너무 좋네요.
태열님 “그러면 댓글로 난리나”라면서 자꾸 구독자분들의 시선을 의식하는 모습 재미있고.구독자들의 시선을 무시보다는 의식하는 모습이 더 보기 좋아요~
축복합니다. 한일커플 여러 커플들 보고있는데 pray in the name of Jesus 들었을때 너무 감동헸고 이사한 집에서 두 분이 기도하시는 모습 정말 좋았어요. 아버님께서 목사님이시라 그 분께서 천국창고에 쌓아두신 그 크신 축복이 함께 하시리라 믿습니다. 한일커플들 중에서도 기도하는 모습 보고 싶네요. 어머니 나라 위해서 기도많이 하시길^ 사랑하고 축복합니다^^
일본을 위해 축복기도가 터자네요
각자 부모님의 모국어로 말하는게 바이링규어 아이들한테 가장 효과적이라고 저도 배웠어요 :) 렌스 화이팅!❤️
Thank you for sharing loving beautiful story... As far as Lance I would say not to worry cuz my grandson was just like Lance, took him to many many specialists but around 6, 7 he start speaking as a lot, express himself very well. Every child is different with the development... I love watching your family 😊 stay safe! 💕 from Seattle!!
3ケ国語で話す2人がユニークでいつも楽しく見させてもらってます👍
You guys handle all of these questions so great. With such grace and poise. Something I think I can learn from you two 😊
私も成長が遅く発達障害だと母は思ったそうですが、今では健康な社会人です😊
ランスくんも自分のペースで成長しているんですね、優しい家族の支えがあれば少しの障害なんて全然へっちゃらですから!笑
これからもご家族の動画楽しみしてます🌱
오늘 영상은 초집중(?)하면서 보게 됩니다 ㅎㅎㅎ
질문에 대한 답변이 모두 알찹니다 재밌게 봤구요
태어날 셋째와도 더불어 지금처럼 행복한 가정 되시길 바랍니다
두분 정말 천생연분이네요 잘어울려요❣
2年ぐらい、このチャンネルを観てますが、なんとく気になってた謎が解けました😇これからも楽しみにしております
Every child learns on his/her own pace, like we all adults do!
Love you guys!
Btw, I'm from Nagasaki (reside in overseas) too😉 応援してます🎶
You probably have seen a lot of progress by now with Lance, and I’m a new viewer. Nonverbal toddlers benefit from sign language.
I speak 9 languages and so do both my brothers. Both didn’t speak until 3rd grade and it wasn’t because he couldn’t learn... he was just translating. I spoke earlier, and girl just can process easier. So do not worry! ( collectively, we speak 3 of the same languages so be at ease!)
待ち遠しくもありますがランスくんを見てると気づいたら喋っているんじゃないかな〜と思いますしきっと喋り出したら止まらなそうで楽しみです🥰
最近はみんなが健康に生きているだけでありがたく幸せなことだと思っています。ただ生きていれば良いわけでもないのが人生ですが、どのような状況でも健康で笑っていて欲しいです💝
ネット上には無自覚の失礼な心無い発言が溢れていますがどうか害虫の羽音ぐらいに捉えて下さい。
첫째가 딸이여서 남들 걸을때 걷고 남들 말할때쯤 말하고 큰걱정없이 키웠는데 둘째는 아들인데 말도 다른애들보다 느려서 정말 많이 걱정했습니다. 올해 중학교 올라가는데 사춘기와서 엄마랑 말싸움하는거 보면 잘합니다.
얘키울때가 매시간이 힘들죠.
힘내세요.
Hi! ☺️
I've been a silent follower for a while and I just wanted to tell you guys how much I love your channel. Your videos always make my day!
I'm also half Japanese, half Finnish/American and a christian! I moved from Belgium to Finland when I was 8. I often feel kind of confused with all the cultures mixed but seeing you guys make it work inspires me a lot (if that makes sense).. 🌟
You guys also seem like such understanding, loving and just overall great parents!
Bless you guys and your beautiful family. ❤️
こんばんは。
初めてコメントします。
いつも楽しく拝見しています。
ステファニーさんの「韓国に来てのカルチャーショック」の話を聞いて、はぁ〜確かにそうだわ!違っててあたり前じゃないかとそれを当たり前のように言われてて……かっこよかったし納得しました!ありがとうございます。
렌스아부지 보면 볼 수록 매력터져요😆
いつも動画を楽しみにしています❤️
2人からたくさん学ぶことも多くて、夫婦の関係も家族の関係もとてもステキだと思います☺️
私もハーフです、子供の時に日本にきました!
言葉の問題はたくさんありました!
そして私のhusbandも違う国の人だから、子供には3つの言葉を教えたいと思っています。
でもおふたりのように、あせらず ゆっくり学ばせたいと思っています❤️
問題は色々あっても、子供たちが幸せで元気な事が1番大事だと思います☺️
動画みてて、おふたりの子どもで産まれたランスくん、リディアちゃんは 本当に幸せそうです❤️
これからも応援してるので、幸せな動画をたくさん見せてください💕💕
특별히 문제가 없다면 좋아질겁니다. 아이가 어릴 때 했던 걱정의 대부분은 조금 크면 곧 다 사라집니다. 너무 걱정하지 마세요. 화이팅~
남편이 복많이 받았네요 행복하세요 화이팅
Yay im so happy to hear about Lance's issue. He's just taking his time. Im excited to hear him speak in full sentences in the future. I also hope he learns Japanese when he grows older. I really like hearing kids speaking in Japanese. God bless!!
Another wonderful video. With today's current situation in the US, I would love to go back to either Japan or Korea to live. It was a bit different back in the early 80's when we lived in Korea. I will never forget how my wife would change out the three charcoal pieces in the heater system. Something I had a very hard time to do, but she easily did it.
Stephanie and Tae, you are so funny! As mother of three I really appreciate your way of thinking. You are younger than me, but you are also very mature. I think Stephanie is very beautiful and with a bright personality, nobody can dislike her even if coming from different culture. Tae is so generous and thoughtful. I'm Catholic and I understand your beliefs. I hope to watch more videos from you because they cheer me up in this difficult time in Italy, with never-ending lockdown. Stay safe and healthy.
I loved this video. Also, love the couple/matching-look (I used to live in Korea). It's so amazing to see that a couple's faith is so strong and that you would hold your core-beliefs to make such an important decision like marriage. It's not easy to meet a partner like that these days.
In the future when you start homeschooling Lance, would you consider talking about the lessons you use to teach, the programs you use, and how transcripts will work when he's older?
ほんとに愛いっぱいのふたり!!大好きです
I live in Malaysia and I am Chinese. As a chinese, my parents speak to us in Chinese and the Chinese dialect. Plus during pre-school we only speak English. So you could say I learn 3 languages in a very young age. My brother had problem speaking too when he was very young but as he grew up he started to speak normally too in all 3 languages.
I am Brazilian-Japanese and I remember my brother had a speech delay. My 2 brothers and I would go to Brazilian school in the morning and to a Japanese school in the afternoon. I met my American husband in Japan and we moved to Austin - Texas 25 years ago. We have a son and he was homeschooled all the way to college. Every year I would ask him if he wants to go to public school and he always opted to homeschool. Fortunately, we have a big group of homeschoolers here who was very helpful to me. When my son was in High School, he had a chance to go 'one-day school' which offered academics courses. I was raised Buddhist and became a Christian when I had my son 22 years ago. That was the best decision I made in my life.
I love watching your family on RUclips and I do believe God chose you and your husband Tae, to be the parents to Lance, Lidia and the next baby. You both are doing a great job raising them. May God continue blessings you and your family.
I wanted to encourage you about “late speakers.” My son didn’t put two words together until he was almost 4-
One day when he was about 8, we were laying on his bottom bunk together chatting( yes he completely caught up with one year of speech therapy just as a good measure while in school)
I was telling him about his silent years and he stunned me- he said he remembered everything from those times, even though he couldn’t speak back....
So remember that language is receptive as well - *never stop talking 🙊 in the absence of a response!*
ランス君のペースがあるじゃないですか💕お二人とも素敵なご両親だと思います。外野がごちゃごちゃ言うのは違うと思いますよ😁このファミリーが私は大好きです!💫
역시 사랑스런 부부십니다
Love your responses. You guys are such lovely decent couples. Thank you for allowing us this little window into your lives as a family. May your household be filled with lots of happiness, unconditional love, and unspeakable peace.
정말 훌륭한 아내입니다..다른말이 필요 없네요..
I'm hoping you and your families have a very Merry Christmas and a Happy and wonderful New Year. Thank you for sharing your daily life with so many people and showing us love. You both are so special. God Bless you.
많은 질문에 답해주셔서 더 많이 알게 된거 같네요.
항상 행복하세요.
영상 잘봤습니다.
엌ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ지금 보니까 진짜 축구 잘할것 처럼 생겼어요 태열상!! ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ 구자철 느낌도 조금 나구요 ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ
Y’all are so great!! Thank you for the Q&A. It’s nice to learn more about you. You are right about Lance. My daughter didn’t speak very well until she was almost 5. She is in her 20’s now and has no problems with speaking. Praying for y’all, it’s hard to be in the spotlight in this day and age. Much love to you all. ❤️
You are a great parent. Be blessed two of you and 4 children! I pray your God supply all your needs according to His riches in glory.
It's so much fun watching your family grow! Lance is so adorable, I don't notice any speech delay-appears to be a smart kid that will grow up very well rounded. I have a son myself and watch these videos to remind me of the younger years that went by too fast. I worried about every assumed delay, issue and it doesn't help to hear other people criticize or judge. You're amazing to not listen to viewers too much to heart, not sure why people judge so much. Enjoy these wonder years with your kiddos! You guys are amazing parents.
I live in Germany and it is quite normal, if your parents are international couple, then you are a little bit behind in “speaking language”,
but all my friends- who had this problem- are now really successful in their life.
So just don’t worry! 😎👍
Thank you for a great Q&A episode. I struggle a lot with depression and have been to some very low points recently. Your videos have been a great encouragement. Your love for God, your love for each other, your love for your children, your family , bring gentle reassurance to me that God is still in control in this world. His lovingkindness is just as strong in Korea as it is here in the U.S. Thank you again for the hard work you do to put these videos together. I'll be praying for a safe delivery of your baby and hope you have a great Christmas. God bless!
This is my favorite family channel, I love you guys!!!
My now 11 year old son also had delayed speech and to walk but in his own time, he made it happen.💞 So our kids do at their own pace 💞i, too was worried and asked his pediatrician but she assured me that he was fine and that he would do the steps in his own time when he was ready. Keep being AMAZING parents and inviting us into your beautiful lives. Merry Christmas to you and your family from us in Texas💞🎄
楽しかった~。当方、在英ママです。ミックスの息子二人(母日本語、父英語)を育てています。ランスくんのおしゃべりについて、問題がある?など私には微塵も感じられません。遅いですか?むしろ、言葉がよく出ていると感心していたぐらいです。たとえ、今現在、遅いと言われたとしても、まだ人生3、4年しか生きてないですから。3、4年であーだ、こーだと問題視されるのは、大人が性急すぎだと思います。あと数年たてば、同じ年のこと比べて、ちっとも引け劣らないおしゃべりさんになっていると思います。ママとパパもユーモアたっぷりのおしゃべり上手さんですから。3か国語のコミュニケーションの中で育てることも、長~い目で見れば、全く無理なことではないと思います。それぞれの言語の発達は遅くても、ゆっくりじっくり、自然に3か国語を操れるようになると思います。継続は力なり。親が諦めず、長い目で見て、繰り返し繰り返し長年続けることが成功への道だと思います。3か国語を操れる能力は、何よりの強力な武器になると思います。あきらめないで、じっくり、ゆっくり、生活の中で自然に使って💛
이렇게 재밌는 큐엔에이 처음이에요 ㅋㅋㅋ 잘 보고 갑니다!!
렌스 보러 왔는데...ㅠㅠ
이쁜 렌스 보여주삼..ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ
배려와 이해 이 두가지면, 헤쳐 나가지 못할 일이 없습니다. 지금도 좋아 보이시지만, 앞으로 더 좋아지실거라 믿습니다.
렌스 보여주삼~ㅋㅋㅋ
You guys are amazing hahaha. My kids will be English and Korean too so it’s interesting to hear your guy’s stories and experiences.
My daughter couldn't speak 'a sentence' until she became 3.5 year old, couldn't walk until she became 2 year old. She is now an attending pediatric ER in one of the best children's hospital in US. If your kid can't speak a 'word', that's a problem. If not, you don't have to worry about. It doesn't even link to their intellectual capacity, for sure. Keep calm and carry on!
Oh, I thought it was only Pani and Sam on her side of the family, not five. Will we ever get to see them? 😄
Amazing parental role models - 감사합니다 and God bless!
You guys are patient and supportive with your children and each other. I think you will do great as home school teachers. I love your positive family dynamics. You are also frank about everything, transparency is obvious, so sweet. My son didn't speak until he was three, but then he spoke in sentences. My husband and I took him to various specialists prior to that. No issues found and it was just timing of his own. He is bilingual. I love your videos so much - entertaining and love watching you guys, sometimes just doing mundane things. :). Thank you for the videos.
My fav couple! I would love to see a video on why tae prefers living in Japan over Korea and why steph prefers Korea over Japan (if that’s the case)
보기좋아요 늘 가정에 좋은일이 가득하길
A new subscriber here from New Zealand. I’d like to say thank you so much to both of you for sharing your personal/family lives, thoughts & beliefs with us audiences ❤️❤️
I am so encouraged to know there are Christian RUclipsrs! Thank you
What a beautiful family you are. I’ve just met you and subbed. I’m a 57 year old English woman from London. Hello to you. I love your approach to questions and comments. Your kiddies are doing great. You are right, boys are slower than girls, but you all speak 2/3 languages too. Amazing. I have to say, you are hilarious. Lydia especially is so funny. I’ve watched many of your videos, they are so entertaining. Such a wonderful family with good Christian values. My daughter’s name is Stefani and if my son Jacob had been a girl, he would have been Lydia. My hubby is Sam. Great names 💗 BTW I think Little Lance is very much like your brother Sam. All gorgeous 🌺
You are speaking truth when you say 0 to 1 child is harder. It’s such an adjustment. I personally wasn’t prepared. But we learn and grow and it can only go up from there. Thank you for answering the questions!
I love you beautiful family you guys are totally awesome I was a late bloomer some kids are late bloomers they're still awesome and I think you're wonderful and thank you for being positive and I'm a Christian too
Thank you for this video! My third child could only say 'yes', 'no', 'daddy', 'mommy' at 2 y.o. (western way to calculate age). We began to use baby sign language. He really liked it and even started to invent his own signs (i.e.: Opening his mouth to mean the door was open!). We could see that he understood soooo much more than what he could express. All the bright deductions, ideas he had... By 3 y.o, he was a chatty box and speaking like an older kid. That was beyond our expectations. He was also a 'late' walker ( 15 months, but he never fell, started running instead!). So to each his own pace. Really happy Stephanie already feels that way. :)
The ending cracked me up lmao it’s also so funny how taes always worried we’ll come for him in the comments! No way tae!
영상 잘보고 갑니다.남편분은 애국자!ㅎㅎ
Wow, it's cool that you're so books about your beliefs, it's not something you see often! I was homeschooled 5th-12th in the USA and I'm so grateful to my parents!
Wow, it was refreshing to see you guys in blue😍No, this is 100% praise not that kind of comment. ❤You guys are cool. I am still watching this video while commenting but great video as always🥰
두분 참 보기 좋은 부부입나다.
그리도 아내분 외국어 실력이 천부적이네요.
영어 일어 한국어
뭐가 서툰게ㅜ없으니 놀라와요.
항상 건강하시고 행복하세요.^^
It is great to watch your video. My son is slow in speech too. I am now much more optimistic! They have no real big issue, just learning and growing at their own pace.
I love you guys you have such great advice about Lance and you are totally right Lance will talk in his own time you have beautiful children
Aw man, I could listen to you guys talk about things for hoursss :')
Not all kids are alike, I had the same issue with my son, first he was the first child, it was me and my husband alone without our family around. He was a late talker. Took him to the different doctors. Nothing was wrong. He even walked, when he was a little bit more then a yr. Then came my daughter she was totally different. She walked at 8 months talked real early was super intelligent. But little did I know she was the one with the autism spectrum. My son went on to talk, and boy was he a talker, also very intelligent. My daughter on the hand was way beyond her age. Super intelligent, but she had the spectrum. So you really don’t know with children. Just live, people’s comments can be very harmful. I know that for a fact, I lived it. So live on ! Peace ✌️
I'm a mother to a toddler and I have never once thought that Lance screams or cries more than other kids his age. Also, all of the kids that I know who grew up bilingual were very "slow" with their speech. I think it's great that you got him checked out...but the delayed speech in a household that has multiple languages going on is so so common. Your family is awesome and you and Tae are so cute in this video. PS: Digging the Christmassy vibes with your blue outfits. :-)
really wish your channel will hit big!! merry christmas!!