Dr. Mary Neal, Her Loss, Her Hope | Scarred Beautiful Story
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- Spinal Surgeon and New York Times Best Selling Author, Dr. Mary Neal, reveals the pain of the tragic loss of her son, but shares that hope was never lost. Hear her story.
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Wow, amazing testimony. As a father who just lost his oldest child & only son at 18 (dui driver hit him a month before he was to begin attending a D1 college on a football scholarship) I can only hope & pray that God will somehow work a miracle through this. To say I believe that, I'd be lying. But I am going to start living today for today & trust God's promises. Please shock me lord. If you read this, please pray for me. I'm not doing very well & I have 3 younger girls who also lost their brother. I'm trying, but life just seems pointless to me now. You loose that part of you, part of your identity it's just this special, most sacred part of your soul that's stolen from you one day. And life goes on, just not for you. Please change my mind lord, heal my shattered heart & my families. Cause without some divine intervention, I don't know if I'm making it to year 2 or 3. And I'm just 4 months in which feels like a lifetime.
I'm so sorry for your loss. 😭😭😭
God please share your soul with this father who lost some of his when his son passed away. Life moves too fast but this man has seen his slow so much. Help him live in today and see that one day his son will greet him and say I am proud of you dad and I love you always.
I listen to many, many NDEs all the time but I keep coming back to this lady. There is something so valuable and trustworthy about her.
I feel the same way. She did an hour long speech for iands years ago. It's still on youtube and I always find myself rewatching it.
I didn't lose a child, but I lost the most important person in my life for 52 years. I did not have any other family. I was so alone. The second year was definitely worse. My life has changed forever. Every day, I love and miss my Mom. God has given me a wonderful life today and listening to Dr. Neal is helping me move forward in trust. God Bless All.
Kasey you are loved
@@wonsgnem4436 Thank You.
God bless you now and forever..❤️❤️❤️
Kasey...how are you doing now?
How are you getting over the loss in this 4 year mark.
I recently lost my mom to heaven who is the most precious person in my life...just like what you said about your mother.
I am so sad and miss her so much.
Do you feel any better now?
I am 55 years old and married but no kid.
I assume that people with kids seem to grieve far less when they lose their parents because their love or attachment are so much toward their kids and they place only part of their love for their parents...
Hi
It will be 14 years this year. The first 9 were really difficult. I've adjusted. Not a day goes by that I don't talk about my mom and miss her. No, I have no children and no siblings.
I know and feel her pain. My wife and I buried our only son a few weeks ago. My life will never be the same.
Sending love to you & your wife Robert 💕💕
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Sending your family love ❤
😢 my condolences 💐
I can say amen to all that she said. We lost our oldest son who was 19, on February 25, 1992. He was a passenger in the front seat of a car that hydroplaned and hit a utility pole. He never serviced and the other passengers and driver only had minor injuries. As a Christian you wonder why did this happen? Our son wanted to be a youth pastor and loved the Lord and others. After the funeral everyone who attended went back to normal; but we had to find a new normal. As a family of four then when we were together we were NOT ALL together anymore. God is good and if we as a family didn't have that hope, faith and God's promises we would be most miserable of people. We are blessed with two fine married sons and their loving wives and seven grand children. Someone said after the death of a child you have a choice to make; to become better or bitter; we chose better by God's grace. The pain will always be there, but we are still blessed and thank God for His loving kindness and saving grace. The Lord gives and the Lord takes away, blessed be the name of the Lord!
I lost my beautiful 4 year old boy Maksim to brain cancer August 26, 2019 , this is the worst pain possible. I miss him so much
@ Slavik - So very sorry for your loss... :(
Dr. Mary, it really is a horrible experience. I have two, my only two who are in heaven. My daughter passed Auguste 21, 2019. Your message has been the most helpful message for me on this journey of living without them - it is hard to see a future - however, you have thrown to me an anchor ‘trust’ - trust in the One who loves them most, who loves me most and still has a plan for my life. Thank Dr. Mary Neal for your life, your story.
Jesus is our great comforter 🙏
This woman is terrific. Her combination of intelligence and sincerity is impressive. Apparently, this video is a little over 5 years old, so I pray that she and her family are doing well today.
I know her pain..my beautiful daughter died in August of acute leukemia...I still trust the Lord Jesus with all my heart and look forward to the day when we can be reunited...thank you for sharing this painful story
God Bless You!
So very sorry for your loss, Darlene. May the good Lord comfort and support you.❤️
I had a cousin that died from leukemia he had bruises on his body n he thought he got them from falling he went to the hospital not feeling well 8 days later he died 5 days after going in they found out he had no immune system so they gave him Kemo but it was to late his name was Abby.
hope you are doing well darlene, never lose hope
@@mpat100 I am doing better every year. I miss her terribly, but I look forward to seeing her again when the Lord calls me home. Thank you for asking and God bless you.
Her son looked like an angel!
What a compassionate, caring and intelligent woman Mary is. Whenever I hear her speak I feel both sad and uplifted at the same time. God bless her.
I can't think of anything so terrible to lose a child. I have two daughters and I love them to the core of myself.
Her book is the best book i ever read. It is second to the bible for me. She is an amazing person and speaker i think that is why God chose her to speak
The peace and love she radiates would persuade even the most ardent skeptic that something extraordinary touched her life.
I lost my son in February. Nothing can prepare you for losing a child. As a sing from Les Miserable says, “there’s a grief that can’t be spoken, there’s a pain goes on and on.” It’s of great comfort to know he’s in heaven waiting for me.
She's my favorite near-deather.
Poor woman. Nobody wants to bury their child no matter what age your child is. My heart goes out to all those who have lost their children to death. May the dear Lord, support you in your hour of need. Peace and Love.🙏❤️🙏
I'll say that I've been skeptical, but Dr. Neal seems so genuine and eloquent.
The loss of a child is an undesirable journey of survival and it great to know I will see my child again when it’s my time to be with him. Thank you 🙏
Mary Neal YOU are a true Light in this world and you understand and explain that kind of trust in God that I could never find in all the books I have read. I have watched all your videos and know the pain you felt at losing your angel son. First I have seen it and hard as it is to see - made me cry - it's beautiful too. The depth of your humanity. You are a true saint whatever that term means. God bless you and the day you meet your son again. xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx Ireland.
Having my own NDE, and overcoming
tremendous physical limitatations I will say that death is not a finality...your soul begins life!
I would say your soul being acknowledge of G-d's LIFE
What did you experienced
She is amazing. She inspires me.
What a beautiful story of love,trust and faith
I was struck by your story. We lost our only daughter (it was her choice actually) two years ago. And to be honest I don't know that I could have done what you did. Know in advance. I think the Lord knew that my coming "loss" would be less painful if it were thrust upon me. Now two years gone and I realize that I still have things to do and accomplish. People to help. And yet, there isn't a day that goes by that I don't relieve that Sunday when I was told by the authorities and my little girl had taken her life. But you're right about life being pretty short so I, like you, look forward to the day when I will be with her again. There is nothing more difficult (including cancer, illness, etc.) than losing a child. And in a strange way, nothing that requires more courage. Bless you.
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I’m really sorry to read this. My parents have lost two of their Childeren. I’m the last one left and looks like I will be leaving too at 32! My sister was 29 and my youngest sister was a baby. Life doesn’t make sense but I am sending you one big hug 💙.
He is a in a better world we're is not pain or sadness he be waiting for you guys 😪😥😊
I love Mary Neal and thank God for her.❤
So true, all you said is true. Hardest time I have ever went through in my life, it has been 7 yrs, it is still painful, but the first 3 to 4 years were so much more painful. But we will meet up again.
God bless you Dr. Neal. I just lost my mom. To anyone who has lost a loved one...allow yourself to grieve and just know you will feel sad at times but be grateful for the time you had with your loved one. Go to God in prayer every day. He will give you strength.
Jon Vaughn god bless you and you are so strong ❤️ she would be so proud of you.
We lost our daughter. It pretty much went down exactly as Dr. Neil said: it devastates families. It’s been 8 years for us and nothing seems to have changed; our family is still in a shambles. I am stubborn and have a lot of faith but I’m finally starting to despair of ever having another happy day. It’s that bad.
AvieMare I’m so sorry for your loss and I as I read your comment my heart felt love for you and your family .
I don’t know what it’s like to lose a loved one , but my heart wants to hug you and family .
May you feel the love of the almighty G-d
He is close to the broken-hearted.
You are loved ❤️
AvieMare My heart goes out to you. I am a mother and cannot imagine what you are going through. But I am so very sorry for your loss.
We lost our 18 year old son, 23 years ago to bone cancer and yes, she expresses the emotional turmoil and pain that comes with this sad life experience. But for those who hope in the LORD, there is a wonderful reunion and that is what we hang on to. The pain never goes, the missing never ends, but faith softens everything. It takes a lot of time to come to a place of peace, in fact, a life time but with prayer and support you will find that place eventually and also find joy in knowing your daughter is safe.
*hugs*
God bless u and I pray you have that happy day. Your daughter would want that for her mother... I do believe u she will be waiting for her mamma when it's your time love.baby steps. Just try for her to be happy. God bless..
What a strong woman!
Michael Hanson she is amazing!
I lost my 17 year old boy in 2001. I was really tough on him in life. Now that he's gone, all I can think about is what an idiot I was. Will he have forgiven me when we meet again? As we get older, we realize the mistakes we may have made in the past with our children and have an opportunity to say, "I'm sorry" or a chance to really make it up to them. But not here. He's gone! And there is no way to make anything up to him. The memories I have now are thinking how sad I must have made him in this life. This pain is impossible to bear. I don't know why I'm not dead.
Jeanette, I doubt it. I could feel really gutted for the smallest things I might have done for my wife, acceded to the least of her wishes and preferences, without waiting or expecting to be prompted, and didn't. She was so stoical, and that upsets me more now than it did while she was here. I'm feelng a bit emotional writing this, though I try NOT to think of her most of the time.
At the moment I'm going through trials I wouldn't have thought God would allow to be inflicted on anyone (then I thnk of the little children murdered by Brady and Hindley) , but I know he doesn't make mistakes, and as Mary says, trust is all. The recompense always outweighs the pains we suffer, and come along - particularly the biggest ones - when we least expect them. And we should always remind ourselves that it serves a greater purpose the more painful it is.
The other day, I told a young lad who was begging that his suffering wa redemptive, helping the redemption of all mankind. And he replied rather ruefully, not to say, drily : 'I've been doing a lot of that lately.'
A few days afer my wife's death a blue tit flew through the window in my stepson's bedroom, into the passage and into the living-room where I was sitting at the computer. It must have flown past me without my noticing, and settled on a large potted plant on a shelf about six feet away on my right. Si came in and sat near where his mother used to sit and watched the bird fly up to the frieze high on the wall opposite him, beneath the ceiling, and look down at him. Scared that he might 'flap' and njure himself, I'd opened the bottom half of the side panes of the bay window, but wasn't game at that time to try opening the big, central one, but he ignored it. Si looked at it for a few moments and pulled down the blinds on the other windows, just leaving one of the side wndows open and clear of its venetian blind. The bird looked briefly at his handiwork and flew straight out. I said to Si, I think he/she was saying : Thank goodness someone's got a head on his shoulders!' But then, more seriously, told him what had really come to my mind, namely that his mother was telling him via the bird that she would always be with him, never far away. Anyway, we took a lot of comfort from our wee avian friend's neighbourly visit.
To loose a loved one may be the most difficult challenge we will face in life,I know because I lost a son and like others who have had deal with a such loss I slowly adjusted, still today,there are times of sadness, and while the sun still rises those precious moments of memories remind me how good it was to know him and own those repositories from baby to man and how lucky it is have them to cherish.
Lord be with you and yours, Mary.
I thought when I heard first your story of dying and going to God, yes you are a beautiful intelligent and an accomplished woman certainly you are one of God's chosen ones. Everyone there was so happy to see you no surprise, and you know you will see your beloved son again. God loves you and so do I.Thank you so much for sharing.
My God I understand her pain, I lost my daughter and I couldn’t get out of bed. Such an inspirational story🙏🏽
Big fan of Dr. Mary! What a great boy her son was/is. Stay with us Mary until your number is called, you are doing such great work telling your story of hope!
Dr Neal helps me deal with the grief of losing my husband suddenly. I used to say I should not be at large because I felt crazy with grief.I miss him daily. I felt unspeakable pain and grief. But, to lose a child. I pray I never experience that. I just lost my sweet mana this year.But. as Dr Neal says we just have to trust. And we will be together again. Thank you.
I'm sorry for your loss. I truly believe that we all agree to our "plan" before we're born but rest assured you can always rely on the comfort of knowing that you WILL see him again. Our life on Earth is more or less like a quick trip that we all have to take and we all finish the trip and head back home at different times.... in the end, we all meet each other again when we go home. :)
Amazing!!..He is in the best of care with God. God bless you
I watched this video 3 weeks before my only son and first born was killed on his way to work. I found this today 5 months after my son has died. I am a mother who lost the most precious gift God gave me.I have had a broken heart, but I would say that now it's a broken soul. How is the trust that you speak of work? I know God, I am not mad at him, but how? Thank you in advance.
Your son is beautiful💞
I loved reading Mary's book, a must read!
Chelsea C I did soo hopeful and sad
impressive and kind and warm personality God bless her and her family
And sometimes you don't want to recover! It feels like you're not a good parent. The one thing I knew I wouldn't survive was the loss off my son! How am I still here! Well it's been 12 years and I'm Just now understanding I'm not serving him or me living in loss or lack and guilt. Frank was a beautiful gift the universe shared with me for 26 years. And I thank God I know he is here,Alive and well! He wants me to find my athletic self and live. And he will help me. There is nothing real but Love ❤️
She's one of those Brilliant gifted people and she raised Brilliant gifted children,I wish I was raised by her.
Your story gives us hope to see our loved ones again .Thank you for sharing.
Yes
That's what I'm going through right now I just lost my son two months ago and I feel dead inside everything has changed for me and my family💔
Thank you!
It's been five years. The world does move on and it seems unfair and can create anger. The loss of a child can and does destroy families and marriages. I felt I had nothing left to hold onto that was true other than the sturdy basic faith that my loving mother had given me. Over the years I had built upon it a bit and strengthened it prior to our son's death. If I didn't have that personal anchor and trust I would've gone crackerjacks or far worse. My sympathies to all who are enduring horrific loss.
Wise words, and will help many !! Blessings
Thank you for sharing your experience. I lost my daughter which was emotionally painful. But to discovery she was assassination by the people (police) I had trusted my life span stung all the more. Compounded by those stings she was laid other issues for she was classified as a suicide with "No" justice in sight. I wish that I were as strong as you.
Im on year four and my anxiety seems more noticeable than ever. I recognize my grief but the anxiety is like this stranger that follows me.
hello Dr Mary I am sorry love you are a strong lady thank you for sharing this personal video darling I did not like seeing you upset you make a lot of sense look after yourself love ❤💕⚘
mary yes you are beautiful what a story well done
Lost my daughter Nicole, the Love of God His commas ion, Mercy, He held me so tight, my problem is I lost that closeness with Him miss it He never changes, ❤ Want to help others in there loss, so I can give hope, read your book not knowing at the time I going to lose my daughter, God bless you
I wonder if the feeling of euphoria and joy she felt when she, "hit the
saved button." for her manuscript, may have been the same time her
son had been hit and killed. Is it possible she was experiencing, and
sharing, in the moment he passed from this physical life to his eternal
life?
Love this thought! I'd say very possible :)
Thats what happened.
Thank you, Dr Neal, for sharing. This was so helpful. God bless you.
I agree- she is so beautiful a spirit- I read her two books and she has had an impact on me because I believe her story and believe she accepts her mission- please Cary on-
What a brave Mom.
I always think to myself and often say to others that our time here on Earth is a drop in a bucket compared to time in Heaven/Eternity. Whether we live 10 years or 70 years, it is all still almost nothing in comparison.....
Dr Mary. No words coukd ever fully exoperss my gratitude for every singel word ive hear you say. And esp on the death of your son. Ive lost three sons. And just the end of aoril my third died. You tital honesty and exoerience of losing your chikd is just what all mothers who have lost their hearts titally get your way of exoressing how aweful it is
Omg my heart is in disbelief for you losing three sons. I cannot even begin to understand your torment. I truly hope you are doing okay, I don't understand how someone can lose three sons thats just terrible. Hugs for you. xx
Love is surrender.
My mom is dying and I only feel the trust in god and his love is the only way. I am learning a very important lesson of my life and I believe that my mom will be in a better place. If god permits, I would spend more time with her, if not I will meet her one day in heaven.
I feel the same, My 26-year-old son died to suicide. It's is the most difficult human experience I am to cope with. Beautiful beyond words, I love and loved him to the depth of my being and beyond. It is horrible, it is devastating, it's inescapable grief, but at the same time, I know I can live my best life because of my child. The depth of understanding I have now, I would never have if he were alive today. We cannot help but grow because of a tragedy so deep we don't wish to comprehend it.
Very profound truths, Wenz.
Beautifully said...pearls of wisdom. Thank you.
According to Mary, she was told during her NDE in 1999, that her son would die, ( not in this video) and she accepted that as one of many reasons she had to return to life. The NDE transformation was one about trust in God’s will, and go with it. Wonderful things are seen in the midst of a major loss. “Keep on walking forward... “....has she really grieved? And happy with a god that set that major loss. Confounding.
Dr. Neal:. You're such an inspiration to all be of us who have suffered the loss of loved and some of us who struggle with depression. Your message lifts our spirits up to continue living in this world with hope.
Thank you for sharing your heart-wrenching account. You are so courageous and inspirational. God Bless.
My beautiful daughter died at 26 . I haven’t experienced anything except utter despair and devastation. It is indeed the most harrowing experience life can throw at you.
Cathy 2021. I lost my beautiful Godly husband 6 years ago and I am stuck in the wonderful past we had. Trying to engage in the here and now, but it is so hard. I lost Paul, my husband, my mother, my father, 3 brothers and it is hard to see the future. I live for my daughters. I want to be with Paul, but know I must keep waiting.
God is great!!!! I watched a lot of your videos and really appreciate what you do keep up the awesome job, because people are starving of God
I lost my daughter on May 5, 2020. I just live in the past everyday wishing that this year had never happened. I can not explain how badly her lost is. Her absence is always there the first thing in the morning and I have to read a prayer before I am able to even get up. I dont.know.how to get beyond it. I constantly pray and talk to GOD about her. I cant imagine a life without her. I know exactly how Mary feels. I wouldnt wish this.on anybody. I can not wait to see .my daughter again.
I am so sorry. When you think of her know she is near you and that you can talk to her still she will hear you.
It's people like you who make life so bearable. You bring sunshine to so many lives. Bless you.
I heard about her story from a italian youtube channel. Im really sorry for her lost. Hug darling.
I lost my beautiful son last year he died the day after I buried my mother I miss my son so so much I feel my life is just a misery and I just exsist how can I be happy without my son
I lost my son to . He was 34 years old .. I miss him so much and I feel the same it’s hard to exist and be happy .. but I try to keep trusting the lord every single day ..
@@maryjeancola that's what I try to do i know I will see him again that's the only thing that keeps me going x
We know that all of us who hold our faith in Jesus and what He did for us by dying for us and being raised back again to life - we will not only experience heaven, but will be with all of those who also put their life and trust in Him. If you haven't yet, make it your highest priority to know Jesus and have an intimate relationship with Him. It will be the more important decision you ever make.
marconi314 how can you help with worrying even as a person who’s given they life over to Jesus?
Jahnosha McDowell just remember you are talking about the most trustworthy righteous holy being to ever exist.
Beautiful...thank you....🙏
Thank you Jesus. Her's has been a story that has opened my eyes. Help me change.
Your boy looked like an Angel...
I am so glad i heard this. She is an inspiration and god bless her family.
It was still hard to lose a son even after you had experienced the heaven and been told about your loss...
A month ago I lost my mom to heaven who was everything to me.
It was like an end of the world.
Since then, just like dr. Mary said, what I desire has been the past only, not the present and not the future.
Thank you honey for your kindness and explanation of what your loss of your son. Xoxoxo 😇
Incredible lady . God bless her 💖💖💖
he was beautiful.
Wow. Beautiful light this really shines such wisdom, thank you. I know life is eternal but received a lot from her words about living in the present and looking forwards💛
she speaks with wisdom
She gives me a lot of hope
She has so much wisdom. But the music in the background is distracting and doesn’t fit with the story.
Love you Dr Mary Neil.
when some one die you have to let them go. it is important.... don't cry because I died but be thankful to G-d that I lived and you could have me...
So sorry..i know the pain now💔💔💔💔lost my youngest son10/23/21😪😪😪😪😪😪
Wow! I learned something I can take in,and be able to share with others in times of need.
Dr Mary Neal, I am keeping up with your story, am so sorry, you are so brave, I am lifting you up today,to Jesus,
Thank you Dr Mary for sharing about your beautiful Son. I have lost my Brothers Sisters my misscarriages my first Husband. It does get easier.
Your testimony is truly God inspired
THANK YOU!!!
Thanks for sharing this video. I watched another of her videos few days ago with my husband. She described her experience in Heaven. We started watching videos about people who experience being in heaven after the death of my only son, 10 years old, on Christmas's day. Our faith is strong and continues to be strong. But the pain is real and strong, overwhelming at times. Watching her video helped us to keep Trusting on God. The Word we got from God since my son died was .."TRUST ME" ... over and over again ... "TRUST ME" .... even though you don't understand what I am doing in your life. .... Trust Me!. then when I heard about how God revealed to her that her 9 year old son will died later in life (10 years after) ... I searched to find her video talking about it. Like ... I wanted to hear what she felt, how she handled it, like ... please help me ... to understand my lost :( ....... and like she said in this video ... losing a child it is the hardest experience in a mother / father's life. I lost my father on a car accident when I was 21, then I lost my mother after several years sickness at the age of 34, then I went through a terrible 3 years experience with my husband, ... some how God helped me every time to overcome these 3 major experiences in my life. But the death of my little, only boy. I never imagine I will experience something so devastating like this. But God is Love, God is Sovereign and God is in control, then I guess .... I know (I don't know how yet) ... He is going to help me to go through this lost too. Thanks Dr. Neal for sharing your story ... you have no idea how much as help me, us to continue believing that I will see my boy again and m mom and my dad, and God and Jesus in Heaven ... one day ... I just hope it doesn't take too long. With love and appreciation. Elizabeth Wilcox
Remarkable woman
I’m about to order the book, I was skeptical but those tears and pain are so real. I know they pain personally
Lost my 18 yr old Natalie in 2019 hit by a semi. She left behind a twin who looks just like her also. ♡
I cant even spell spinel surjun. what a great person..a gift...
I lost my son 5 yrs ago. I always had the feeling that I was going to lose him at a young age. I hoped that I was just being an over protective mother but just could not shake this feeling of foreboding. He passed away the day before his brother's wedding.
Awww😢