Behind The Song: Supposed To Be (+ my emotional breakdown)

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  • Опубликовано: 5 окт 2024

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  • @lunaeverwood4007
    @lunaeverwood4007 8 лет назад +87

    I REALLY wanna hear the second version she wrote. Come on Icon Army, lets back them and make that "better"song(the way it is now is already pretty good imagine a better one) happen!

  • @dreamthief9201
    @dreamthief9201 8 лет назад +50

    I want to hear the story to Hope of Morning.

    • @thatgirl4527
      @thatgirl4527 7 лет назад +1

      Bad Karma heck you little rat, I'm just trying to binge

    • @gimmeabreakplease3634
      @gimmeabreakplease3634 6 лет назад +4

      That song basically describes my life. Especially the 'All the secrets hidden from the shame.' I've done a lot of horrific things. I'm a monster and I hate myself for it. I promised myself to never tell anyone what I have done.

    • @LordSauron22
      @LordSauron22 6 лет назад

      Bad Karma same

  • @otepfan8562
    @otepfan8562 8 лет назад +20

    Ariel : " REALLY ITS NOT GOOD ENOUGH! Tell me how its suppose to be now! Make this song better! It cant stay half way dead forever!"

  • @fighting4happiness95
    @fighting4happiness95 8 лет назад +9

    The fact that there was a lot of hesitation and second guessing reminds of one of the lyrics in "Pulse": "You hold your breath like you're second guessing, what you put out"

  • @Un-NamedO.o
    @Un-NamedO.o 8 лет назад +36

    I'd love to hear the second version if it's no trouble for you

  • @jackerslynn
    @jackerslynn 7 лет назад +3

    I'm glad you didn't throw out the song, I absolutely love that song. listen to it on repeat.

  • @Dissyuri
    @Dissyuri 8 лет назад +7

    Stay calm and know we won't kill you over a song. You get involved with your fans on a personal level. We love you, Ariel.

  • @AnythingBtOrdinary91
    @AnythingBtOrdinary91 8 лет назад +25

    I would LOVE it if you guys put out a CD of the "original" versions of your songs. It'd be cool to see the growth of the lyrics that comes throughout the editing process as a songwriter. Hope that made sense. Love your music by the way!!!!!!!

  • @emeraldm0on-yt
    @emeraldm0on-yt 8 лет назад +2

    SUPPOSED TO BE MUSIC VIDEO!!!!!! YASSS!!

  • @tassified2881
    @tassified2881 6 лет назад +1

    It's amazing to me to think that there's a 'better' version of Supposed to Be floating around - Supposed to be is the song that made me fall in love with Icon!

  • @moontalon3124
    @moontalon3124 8 лет назад +2

    Supposed To Be quickly rocketed to one of my all time favorite Icon songs. I'd say it's in my top 5 if not my top 3. Hearing what went into creating it made me appreciate it that much more!

  • @monkeyman850
    @monkeyman850 8 лет назад +2

    She is one of my favorite people

  • @eleventyelena
    @eleventyelena 8 лет назад +8

    Supposed To Be is probably one of my all time favorite Icon songs. I love it so much!!!

  • @ashleepanda4776
    @ashleepanda4776 7 лет назад +2

    Supposed to be is one of my favorite songs. ❤

  • @your_name_here2158
    @your_name_here2158 4 месяца назад

    Dear Ariel,
    We have likely never spoken, but I feel a certain commeradery with you after listening to your music for a decade.
    Recently in my own life I have found, my writing, my studies, my actions, ..etc nothing was good enough for me. I could only see the flaws.
    I hit some breaking points. Then I realized it.
    Perfectionism.
    That trait that brings artists pain and suffering beyond belief, it was what was harming me.
    I have decided to perform an experiment where I let go of perfectionism and see if mental health and ability improves and for now at least I have found it greatly does.
    See here's the kicker:
    I'm a theological pelagian, that means I believe perfection is actually possible (although not likely) for humans.
    Yet I've found that my doctrinal beliefs don't help me do better. Thus, in order to find progress in all areas, I have moved the time table for improvement further out and the steps split into gradual improvements, whether that be in abilities, projects, work, actions, whatever.
    It is yielding good fruit so far in my opinion.
    Anyways, I'm not telling you how to live your life or anything. If you are able to do the perfectionist thing, and it isnt hurting your mental health, than I have no doubt you'll be great. But if you're more like me than I would advise you, go easy on yourself, it takes time to achieve perfection, if that.
    Shalom sister,
    YNH

  • @ninadawson8232
    @ninadawson8232 7 лет назад +2

    I actually LOVED the song supposed to be

  • @callistatello3200
    @callistatello3200 8 лет назад +3

    you guys should definitly put out a video or something with the other versions of songs n stuff that youve worked on so it can show the growth n change in the music

  • @toryroseharris6153
    @toryroseharris6153 8 лет назад +1

    Honestly this is probably one of the songs that I relate most with. For me it's more of my eating disorder (anorexia) that has become a huge part of who I believe myself to be. That's why I jump back and forth so much between recovery and relapse, because I can barely remember my life without it, and I just don't know who I would be without that toxic part of me.

    • @emeraldm0on-yt
      @emeraldm0on-yt 7 лет назад

      Taylor Harris if you need anyone I'm here

  • @kendrajump4325
    @kendrajump4325 8 лет назад +3

    for me this song illustrates my fear of getting better, trying to figure out what i am, what i really feel and what is my illness. i'm sure in a week i'll latch onto another lyric but right now it's mostly my anthem for my process as it is right now, stuck in this anxiety of letting my depression go and figuring out who i really am or who i should be. so clearly i am binge listening to get well and iodine too :P

  • @uniquelymade3852
    @uniquelymade3852 8 лет назад

    Supposed To Be is my life song. It is how i feel everyday.

  • @spacebutterfly8013
    @spacebutterfly8013 7 лет назад +3

    Icon's and Famous Last Words are the only two bands that I like all of their songs.

  • @jasper.andi98
    @jasper.andi98 7 лет назад +1

    Rel, I LOVE "Supposed To Be," it's a beautiful song. Glad we could help you love it again. The song means a lot to me. Love you, girl.

  • @adamseymour5036
    @adamseymour5036 6 лет назад +1

    "Supposed to Be" is tied with Happy Hurts for my favorite song by you guys. I connected so much with each of those songs, and to hear what went into Supposed to Be it makes me appreciate it so much more! Keep up the hard work because it definitely paid off!

  • @monicap8561
    @monicap8561 8 лет назад +7

    Will you ever release the second version, even just a live version on youtube?

  • @_Edition-qx9hf
    @_Edition-qx9hf 8 лет назад

    That song is really one of my favorites.

  • @acornsoundsquirrel
    @acornsoundsquirrel 8 лет назад +1

    Wow wow wow this is crazy to hear because Supposed to Be jumped out at me dramatically in that group of three songs. Loved this video, thanks for making it!

  • @Demortixx
    @Demortixx 8 лет назад +1

    great story and really my fave song of the new set so far. as a Creator I have that same love/hate back and forth quite often. I don't think that makes you a bad artist, it means you want the best and are always growing. sometimes it's easy, sometimes it requires blood sweat and tears because it's not just what you do its who you are. pouring your heart and soul into something is often painful but also worth it.

  • @serenityfox4
    @serenityfox4 7 лет назад +1

    I honestly loved the song before you even got to the chorus!

  • @aris1200
    @aris1200 8 лет назад +10

    Supposed to be is helping me through a difficult moment an it's wonderful as it is, I LOVE IT! I'd like to hear some "straight, old school rock" from you guys again, though, so... maybe in one of your future songs...? ;)
    Love you guys, all hail Icon for Hire!

  • @VictoriaSanchez021
    @VictoriaSanchez021 8 лет назад +2

    I am such a big fan I have huge posters in my room of icon for hire

  • @cyanbackup4224
    @cyanbackup4224 8 лет назад

    Please release the second version. I would love to hear that.

  • @emmahandy6038
    @emmahandy6038 8 лет назад +2

    it's OK we are all here for you

  • @AngieCadenaColmenares
    @AngieCadenaColmenares 8 лет назад +1

    I guess there's nothing I could change of you both. I really love every song you create, all your videos, photos, and clothes since I heard 'bout u in 2010. Ariel ur designs are so amazing damn, I love every single thing of you BOTH. Shawn what a brave story of life, thanks for let us know how hard anything could be, but how awesome is to overcome it.

  • @WalkingRumor
    @WalkingRumor 8 лет назад

    We got a lot of anxiety going on while being in the studio and before testing out a new song live.
    There is always that FEAR, if people are going to like it or not!
    So we can totally relate.
    It's the fans that makes the whole thing worth believing in.
    We would never miss out on ours.
    Keep Rocking #iconforhire

  • @Moonrocks02
    @Moonrocks02 8 лет назад +1

    I really REALLY loved the breakdown of now you know. it's my favorite icon for hire song and I loved the meaning behind it and how close the song is to you. the song is really empowering for women and even some guys love it as well. it's really cool how songs like that can empower so many people. also you should keep rapping in songs because it songs cool and catchy and emphasizes the point of the songs

  • @DUBAplaysgames
    @DUBAplaysgames 8 лет назад +1

    It's such a sick jam! Thanks for the inside look. Really like the message and style. It's beastly!

  • @shadows-singmusic9589
    @shadows-singmusic9589 8 лет назад +1

    Ariel, you are such an inspiration for me. You're music has helped me through so much crap in my life, and Supposed To Be and Happy Hurts both came out at times where I really needed them, and I do not think I would be where I am without them. They reminded me that I'm not alone in how I feel. Thank you for everything you've done and put out into the world. One day I hope to be like you and help people with my music.
    Keep being amazing, Ariel! Keep showing your passion through the things you love!

  • @Ishi_hagane01
    @Ishi_hagane01 7 лет назад

    I'm so happy I found this band and these help videos it's been 3 days and I'm already healing so much

  • @johnkelly651
    @johnkelly651 8 лет назад +5

    Ariel never, ever doubt yourself! Your songs are amazing and evocative! I jam out to your songs every time they come on and look like a crazy person just singing my heart out. I can't help it because my heart aches every time I listen to any of your songs and just have to sing to relieve the pain. It feels so amazing to sing to your songs even if I don't sound great. You are amazing and are doing awesome work! Never forget that! Lots of love and best wishes!

  • @savannah6497
    @savannah6497 8 лет назад +1

    I honestly love how much work you guys put into your songs because they turn out so amazing. I also love the REL show because I actually feel like I can connect with a member and or members of the band and they become more of an idol to my life. I'm thankful for alot of the advice that you give through your videos, please keep up the good work and sorry for the giant paragraph.

  • @bioticheart
    @bioticheart 8 лет назад +5

    You should just release them both. Could be good marketing anyway. With us knowing this story that is.

  • @thecrazyloudgirl
    @thecrazyloudgirl 8 лет назад

    I'm really glad you kept Supposed to Be. :)

  • @e.B.FanFic
    @e.B.FanFic 8 лет назад +1

    WOW! I really really loved this video!
    As a writer I kind of know what it feels like... it was so interesting to hear of someone else's creative process!
    By the way, I really like supposed to be and find it very interesting, despite the fact that I don't quite relate with the whole asking-someone-else-how-to-get-better-and-who-to-be thing (I strongly belive that you are the only one who can make yourself better), but if I interpretate it in a different way I just love it (both the lyrics and the music). Between Here We Are, You Were Wrong (at the beginning it was so weird and so powerfull to hear YOU sayng "I shoot to kill") and Supposed to Be at the beginning Supposed to Be was the one that I loved the most, but right now I really wouldn't know, I love them all so much. And the new songs are just amazing! Right now my beloved is Pulse, I just feel it in my blood, music and meaning (Pulse and Theatre rule my heart!), but also Happy Hurts (so strong, so empathic, and SO POETIC!) and Get Well II are fantastic... you two are just TOO GOOD! Love you! Looking forward to hearing more of your music!

  • @XAussieBenX
    @XAussieBenX 8 лет назад

    I love Ariel. Such a beautiful person with an incredible soul!

  • @mosspirate
    @mosspirate 8 лет назад +1

    I'm glad that you released the first version (though it'd be awesome to hear the second one!), I love it so so much

  • @brettcrandall3601
    @brettcrandall3601 5 лет назад

    I loved the song when I first heard it. I’ve really connected to the new acoustic version. It’s really one of the most beautiful acoustic songs I’ve ever heard. Love you girl!

  • @kuroinamida4630
    @kuroinamida4630 6 лет назад

    Would love to hear the stories behind Happy Hurts, Under The Knife or The Grey

  • @hi41333
    @hi41333 8 лет назад +1

    Hey I really love your band. I think what you guys are doing is awesome and making a great impact in the country. I like the old sound more but the new sound is cool too. I actually used your song off with her head to help me get through some insaine running times at the gym and give me hope through some rough times. So thank you for that you guys are awesome keep up all the great work you are making an impact every day one song at a time.

  • @unbeatable750
    @unbeatable750 8 лет назад

    I think for 20,000 subscribers you should show off your amazing rapping skills. probably with a new rap song, or maybe a rap battle with fans or something like that. maybe even invite Whitney Peyton back on the show for it.
    P.S. A rap battle between Ariel and Whitney Peyton would be beyond epic!!

  • @radioactiveherpes548
    @radioactiveherpes548 7 лет назад +1

    I wanna hear the second one now lol

  • @Lilyflower443
    @Lilyflower443 8 лет назад +1

    Hello, I love your music and Supposed to Be is one of my favorites out of the recent releases. I wanted to ask if you would ever do a behind the song for "Hope of Morning" though. It's my all time favorite song and I relate to it so hard. I would love to hear your thought process on it and how it came to be :) Thanks!

  • @7Annamallover7
    @7Annamallover7 8 лет назад

    You are such an interesting person. Obviously! I just love listening to an artist speak.

  • @chupposity
    @chupposity 7 лет назад

    Great song. Thanks for the back story.

  • @360dudex
    @360dudex 6 лет назад

    THANK YOU! Thanks so much. That song is my favorite out of all of yours! It's so good. Your work was well spent and not wasted.

  • @KowaiKawaiiChibi
    @KowaiKawaiiChibi 8 лет назад +4

    Question: What's it like playing/singing the performance versions compared to the studio versions and hearing the mixed versions? (Overlapping lines, harmony, etc.)

  • @TG-nd9rj
    @TG-nd9rj 8 лет назад +6

    I'd love to hear the other version just for comparison....

  • @jay-yk3ng
    @jay-yk3ng 7 лет назад +1

    is another version of it ever gonna be released? because i feel like i can't be the only one wanting to hear that

  • @missywednesday479
    @missywednesday479 8 лет назад

    love you !

  • @foreverawarriorcat4451
    @foreverawarriorcat4451 6 лет назад

    Hi! I just wanted to say thank you so much. Your music helps me out so much because I can relate to like every single song. Thank you so much.

  • @VictoriaSanchez021
    @VictoriaSanchez021 8 лет назад

    Awe

  • @BethRockChick97
    @BethRockChick97 8 лет назад

    Love you Ariel. You are amazing xx

  • @b1tstr3am
    @b1tstr3am 8 лет назад

    Hey Ariel, I just wanted to say that, I love you guys and what you do. Your music is awesome! :) Thank you for doing what you do!

  • @KowaiKawaiiChibi
    @KowaiKawaiiChibi 8 лет назад

    I love it. It means so much, and resonates with me even more. ♡

  • @rockermv10
    @rockermv10 6 лет назад

    I love the song! It sucks how frustrating it was though.

  • @kayliemancino6269
    @kayliemancino6269 8 лет назад

    I love you so much and your songs have seriously changed my life.

  • @clarissa1909
    @clarissa1909 8 лет назад

    lovelovelove you

  • @JamesLeisenring
    @JamesLeisenring 8 лет назад +18

    Sounds like you had trouble deciding what "Supposed to be" was... supposed to be. #Meta

  • @roseshira5690
    @roseshira5690 4 года назад

    I struggle with anxiety and depression. Ariel can u make something I can relate 2 as far as my anxiety and PTSD? I’ve never been the same since I got diagnosed

  • @Emm_R_Guitar
    @Emm_R_Guitar 7 лет назад +2

    Its because you didnt knownwhat it was 'Supposed to Be' ;)
    This makes me feel better about my song writing tbh aha

  • @Bartallstar123
    @Bartallstar123 8 лет назад

    No comments yet.. Quick, I need something funny to say D:

  • @gimmeabreakplease3634
    @gimmeabreakplease3634 6 лет назад

    Honestly, I don't want to be happy.

  • @pussysuperstar
    @pussysuperstar 8 лет назад +36

    For 20k she should do a Flyleaf cover. like, the old Flyleaf with Lacey

    • @andianne1197
      @andianne1197 8 лет назад +2

      Maybe I'm so sick

    • @pussysuperstar
      @pussysuperstar 8 лет назад

      +Avril LaRitz I was thinking Missing or All Around Me. Maybe something off New Horizons. A bit more mellow

    • @pussysuperstar
      @pussysuperstar 8 лет назад +1

      +Andy White I think that may be a little heavy for Ariel. but then again, she shocks us with everyone song they put out

    • @collinmccarter5194
      @collinmccarter5194 8 лет назад +1

      +Avril LaRitz
      Or maybe a Skillet cover.

    • @cheyennepickles5744
      @cheyennepickles5744 8 лет назад +2

      "Who gave us the idea that female fronted is a genre anyway?" ~ Now You Know.

  • @Demortixx
    @Demortixx 8 лет назад +1

    great story and really my fave song of the new set so far. as a Creator I have that same love/hate back and forth quite often. I don't think that makes you a bad artist, it means you want the best and are always growing. sometimes it's easy, sometimes it requires blood sweat and tears because it's not just what you do its who you are. pouring your heart and soul into something is often painful but also worth it.

  • @savannah6497
    @savannah6497 8 лет назад +2

    I honestly love how much work you guys put into your songs because they turn out so amazing. I also love the REL show because I actually feel like I can connect with a member and or members of the band and they become more of an idol to my life. I'm thankful for alot of the advice that you give through your videos, please keep up the good work and sorry for the giant paragraph.