How Men "SUBCONSCIOUSLY" Seek Female Validation & Reassurance

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  • @alpha_male_s
    @alpha_male_s  3 года назад +61

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  • @esejames1992
    @esejames1992 3 года назад +799

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    • @Zidane9ful
      @Zidane9ful 3 года назад +10

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    • @mrdeecroft3114
      @mrdeecroft3114 3 года назад +17

      And he still making as much money as the fancy ones, legendary

    • @ir4355
      @ir4355 3 года назад +10

      @@SuperYtc1 you fell for it. he commented that on purpose to make people like you think he fell for it.

    • @t5396
      @t5396 3 года назад

      What fancy ones?

    • @ronniepratt8710
      @ronniepratt8710 3 года назад +2

      Just because he's not showing it, does not mean he has it.

  • @Jay-gs7sp
    @Jay-gs7sp 3 года назад +1136

    This fellas, is God tier game - tested and proven. You not gonna see this anywhere else on RUclips.

    • @Rami-el
      @Rami-el 3 года назад +70

      lmao u sound like a advertisement

    • @Jay-gs7sp
      @Jay-gs7sp 3 года назад +62

      @@Rami-el reading it over, you right. I sound like one of them bots

    • @AD45
      @AD45 3 года назад +32

      At least you'd be a truthful one, not one of them scam bots

    • @cihancelikel9411
      @cihancelikel9411 3 года назад +3

      💯

    • @jackthegod9988
      @jackthegod9988 3 года назад +7

      You’re new on RUclips then

  • @BelalMasvidal
    @BelalMasvidal 3 года назад +1339

    Women at 20 : "don't talk to me !"
    Women at 30 :" Men don't approach us anymore ".
    Women at 40 :" hey I'm talking to you ".
    Women at 50:" here kitty kitty".

  • @nathand4500
    @nathand4500 3 года назад +263

    I'm almost 40, look 30. In the last nine months I've pulled more women consistently than ever before. I look fit, dress well, go to the right venues and the final piece is I actively DO NOT seek out women. I stand in the right positions at the venue, wait for the signals and in a lot of cases, they are actually approaching me. They've ranged in ages from 22 to 40ish. If she wants you, she wants you. But also make yourself attainable to approach. Apart from that, I am literally NOT thinking about women: I talk with my friends, have a laugh, and am not wasting energy pursuing. Almost by magic they are suddenly right up in my face. Use economics in your personal life fellas and realise they are truly not that important.

    • @xavierjames9270
      @xavierjames9270 3 года назад +4

      Facts

    • @Poussyeater-w5e
      @Poussyeater-w5e 3 года назад +8

      Thanks for the words my guy

    • @oluwaseyia8548
      @oluwaseyia8548 3 года назад +2

      It's called Astral attributes or characteristics. Once you reach certain age automatically certain positive events come your way. You have to be conversant on how to make things happen at that age

    • @jeygee3736
      @jeygee3736 2 года назад +4

      Woman can sense when a guys is chasing ass from a mile away. It's like a special sense

    • @antoniomitchell1883
      @antoniomitchell1883 2 года назад

      I’m 43, I look 20

  • @rmont8516
    @rmont8516 3 года назад +791

    Just when the world needed him the most he’s back!!

    • @o.9763
      @o.9763 3 года назад +6

      Facts !!!!!

    • @eatmyturdd6697
      @eatmyturdd6697 3 года назад +1

      @Mike Silva 🤣🤣🤣

    • @MrOnlineHelper
      @MrOnlineHelper 3 года назад +4

      Avatar

    • @romain8390
      @romain8390 3 года назад +2

      @@MrOnlineHelper he’s like aang, if aang wasn’t a bitch

    • @gkus7008
      @gkus7008 3 года назад +1

      @@romain8390 lol

  • @ThUnfilteredGamer_
    @ThUnfilteredGamer_ 3 года назад +581

    The power we have by simply ignoring them attracts them 100x more. Truth be told a lot of us wouldn’t mind having them around so we can do business then hop back on the game. That’s our power is to not need attention or validation.

    • @shynepo5867
      @shynepo5867 3 года назад +22

      You guys keep lien to yourselves let the attractive smart fit feminine and friendly woman be beside you ignore her that will get her .... Speak up

    • @theglochasers1739
      @theglochasers1739 3 года назад +29

      Omm when you ignore women they try to fw u harder. I been noticed this

    • @shynepo5867
      @shynepo5867 3 года назад +10

      @@theglochasers1739 Its bull shiiit every woman I have ever slept with I spoke to them first go ignore the girl in the mall and get her number

    • @alonzor.2912
      @alonzor.2912 3 года назад +17

      I stopped talking to a girl on instagram when i realized she wouldn’t make the first move at all. I was waiting to see if she would at the very least reach out but nothing. Im ignoring the shit out of women now and I instantly attract. Without question.

    • @shynepo5867
      @shynepo5867 3 года назад +8

      @@alonzor.2912 that makes more sense ignore them for bad behaviour

  • @streetsiswatching9660
    @streetsiswatching9660 3 года назад +224

    AMS starts spitting game at 00:01

    • @alltheworldsastage4785
      @alltheworldsastage4785 3 года назад +7

      0:00

    • @cde4875
      @cde4875 3 года назад +3

      If I had access to this level of game, or even knew it existed, I would have remained single.🤷🏾‍♂️

    • @AyoooVictor
      @AyoooVictor 3 года назад +2

      😂

  • @starwarscantina7130
    @starwarscantina7130 3 года назад +62

    I genuinely never watch full videos. 38 mins later I didn’t actually want the video to end.fucking validate my comment.

    • @alpha_male_s
      @alpha_male_s  3 года назад +35

      Had to

    • @starwarscantina7130
      @starwarscantina7130 3 года назад +5

      @@alpha_male_s of course you did. I expect that in return for teaching you my ways lad😏

  • @jeremyjones6324
    @jeremyjones6324 3 года назад +74

    Every wise man or leader has grown mentally in isolation

    • @We_Must_Rebel
      @We_Must_Rebel 3 года назад +8

      facts

    • @RufusTompkins-hm7fg
      @RufusTompkins-hm7fg 3 месяца назад

      Allah will send you into an isolated state simply to process what was going on in your life but also to protect yourself from the wickedness

  • @Madina_CR
    @Madina_CR 3 года назад +377

    It just stuns me how much you know about all this shit. You're a blessing

    • @ericpowell4350
      @ericpowell4350 3 года назад +1

      An institution of learning on two feet! Much props!

    • @jkkennedy8919
      @jkkennedy8919 3 года назад +10

      To be honest this mind set is built in most mens DNA

    • @sergiocamacho3915
      @sergiocamacho3915 3 года назад +3

      Modern day philosopher

    • @beardedsawyer6322
      @beardedsawyer6322 3 года назад +3

      @@jkkennedy8919 Not in the average simp's DNA though

    • @roundball6592
      @roundball6592 2 года назад +3

      @@jkkennedy8919 it just needs to be activated. Normally happens in the earlier 20’s after the teenage heartbreak shenanigans.

  • @JnoEL1
    @JnoEL1 3 года назад +210

    This man has been hardened for war lol

    • @punanny123
      @punanny123 3 года назад +48

      Yep dating in America is like guerilla warfare .

    • @activelifeg5237
      @activelifeg5237 3 года назад +20

      We are Spartan 😤🔥🔥

  • @worldtraveler8613
    @worldtraveler8613 3 года назад +60

    That too much sex thing is a big one. Every time i had a hot chick that i wanted to have sex with every day, she was down with it, but after a few weeks she would lose interest or at least pull back. I learned from experience. Its subconsciously overvalidating them. A woman has to complain about not getting enough time. Only then can she be happy. Validation is a turn off. Women dont even know this about themselves.

    • @oahts5906
      @oahts5906 2 года назад

      Damn I didn’t know that either! We used to fuck like every day I wonder if that’s why she was unhappy?

    • @atemalual
      @atemalual 2 года назад +2

      Bro. F A C T S

    • @ceeb107
      @ceeb107 Год назад

      great point albeit i think subconsciously most women will pullback if there is no marriage coming. They give you just enough to get comfy and some will give you sex for years dating but some will cut you off if no marriage after a few months. You can basically countdown from the first time you have sex with her till when she will demand marriage or leave you. If yo marry her you can overdose on sex cause they feel secure.

  • @AlenAlic
    @AlenAlic 3 года назад +131

    This is so facts. In my early 20’s I would seek constant validation from women and didn’t even realize it then I eventually realized I constantly was seeking it.

    • @Gameplay1511
      @Gameplay1511 3 года назад

      We bosnian the same

    • @activelifeg5237
      @activelifeg5237 3 года назад +11

      I didn’t realize that until I built muscle mass , haircut , confidence

  • @vokehub8791
    @vokehub8791 3 года назад +129

    I'm getting older and my game is getting colder,thanks sir for the content.

  • @Dbo_Sports
    @Dbo_Sports 3 года назад +36

    In a biblical sense… the man was placed here to build something. To build a civilization.. to build a business… to build a family. The woman was created for the man. She wasn’t placed here to build things. She was placed here to assist the man in building families. The instincts that AMS is speaking of, is natural for them because they were placed here for us. We have a hard time understanding the woman’s nonsense because we weren’t created for women. We were created to do good works for the Lord. Hence your purpose. We make mistakes with them, because they are not our purpose.

  • @karna5998
    @karna5998 3 года назад +101

    What a time to be alive, I can already feel like in a few years I'll be nostalgic about the time when one man single handedly made men greater on the daily basis. Salute to you AMS, Huge respect from India

    • @ShaferHart
      @ShaferHart 3 года назад

      Archive his videos bro, this will be as valuable as the rosetta stone in a few years.

    • @SkippyPB.
      @SkippyPB. 2 года назад +1

      Are women from India different?

  • @EddyxDiaz
    @EddyxDiaz 3 года назад +95

    Number one thing AMS done taught me is the MINDSET I can’t complain when is everything i always thought but just never done. Every mistake i made w women was a decision based off emotion this man right here makin it clear as day it don’t gotta be like that. I appreciate you AMS! Changin my life fr. 💯💪

    • @EddyxDiaz
      @EddyxDiaz 3 года назад

      @cyborg1320 everybody gotta start somewhere. Have fun a be great that’s the way to make money chase YOU

    • @t5396
      @t5396 3 года назад

      @@cinnamonmadonna Unless?

  • @jonathanwatkins4604
    @jonathanwatkins4604 3 года назад +54

    This definitely one of his best videos.. this is exactly how dudes fuck up their game without even knowing

  • @menoswater1032
    @menoswater1032 3 года назад +188

    As men we should be improving ourselves for OURSELVES. It’s natural to try and and maximise female attention. But if that’s the main reason for self improvement then you need to change that. Great video as always AMS 💪🏾

    • @SimplyMalibu
      @SimplyMalibu 3 года назад +15

      I find most men, including myself, start their self improvement journey in order to maximize women's attention but as they see what they're capable of achieving, that focus switches away from women to be motivated purely by self.

    • @TheSuperrapper20
      @TheSuperrapper20 3 года назад +7

      Self improvement is self improvement. The reason why is irrelevant. The results are what matters

    • @menoswater1032
      @menoswater1032 3 года назад +9

      @@TheSuperrapper20 Wrong. If your improving yourself only for female validation, then what are you worth without that attention? You may have improved yourself but you’re going to be insecure inside and you will never be happy.

    • @TheSuperrapper20
      @TheSuperrapper20 3 года назад +7

      @@menoswater1032 bruh just go improve and stop splitting hairs

    • @menoswater1032
      @menoswater1032 3 года назад +7

      @@TheSuperrapper20 Nah I’ve been there done that. I don’t want younger guys to make the same mistakes I did.

  • @apemodeperformance7850
    @apemodeperformance7850 3 года назад +122

    I’m bout to buy all this mans books In honor for all the gems he drops He’s really looking out for us man

  • @dkt_1530
    @dkt_1530 3 года назад +82

    “Everything I tell you guys is from my mistakes.” And this is why AMS has the best videos. Thanks for the content and gems brother.

  • @brandonharwell95
    @brandonharwell95 3 года назад +90

    Mann yall I'm a man who's started taking the red pill but I'm coughing up the simp outta my body, mind, and soul. This process isn't easy but it's very rewarding in the long run, keep going don't stop!

    • @lifewithbreion1392
      @lifewithbreion1392 3 года назад +14

      It hurts @ first.... you will LOVE who you become in the end!!!

    • @brandonharwell95
      @brandonharwell95 3 года назад +4

      @@lifewithbreion1392 I know man, it's like deprograming frfr

    • @lifewithbreion1392
      @lifewithbreion1392 3 года назад +10

      @@brandonharwell95 yep, just like the matrix.. that movie had more knowledge than we give it credit for!!

  • @IaNoZ01
    @IaNoZ01 3 года назад +310

    I cringe thinking back at myself and realising I had all these simptastic traits 3 years ago before I was RP’d.

    • @andreferguson8372
      @andreferguson8372 3 года назад +33

      I wish I didn’t see this comment lol..horrible flashbacks

    • @lessssssgooooo
      @lessssssgooooo 3 года назад +29

      Its a good thing tho you evolved my friend

    • @Nyc12u
      @Nyc12u 3 года назад +7

      Welcome brotha

    • @siphosakhengcongo6724
      @siphosakhengcongo6724 3 года назад +3

      Khabazela uncono wena mina ngidivose last year ngiqale ngoMay still have these simpastic traits kodwa ngyasizakala

    • @mgbm8335
      @mgbm8335 3 года назад +2

      Don't remind me yo

  • @smokerx6291
    @smokerx6291 3 года назад +166

    My girl left me yesterday by sending a basically it's over text. I didn't ask any questions, replied "Alright". She got mad I didn't care and blocked me.😂

    • @smokerx6291
      @smokerx6291 3 года назад +22

      @TOOL I school with her. She'll claim a false sexual harrassment charge if I do that.😂

    • @AA-dr2rx
      @AA-dr2rx 3 года назад +48

      Be careful though don't get too cold with it cause eventually you're gonna run into a crazy bitch and this tactic will backfire on you lol speaking from experience

    • @Faniswrld
      @Faniswrld 3 года назад +27

      She gon be back

    • @Daddy__CR
      @Daddy__CR 3 года назад +4

      @@smokerx6291 Do you have advice From me i am in highschool

    • @theglochasers1739
      @theglochasers1739 3 года назад +2

      @@Faniswrld facts they always come back

  • @montezharper9932
    @montezharper9932 3 года назад +34

    He really not giving us game. He showing us a mindset to adapt. Thank you Ams💪🏾

  • @KingKluch
    @KingKluch 3 года назад +129

    I think when you say they have better instincts, you mean they naturally have better emotional intelligence, an ability to pick up on subtle behaviors. Men on the other hand naturally have more straightforward, logical thinking. Understanding people at a deeper level requires emotional intelligence.

    • @GutsAndGlory734
      @GutsAndGlory734 3 года назад +21

      Yes, I agree with you, this is what AMS was attempting to convey.

    • @alltheworldsastage4785
      @alltheworldsastage4785 3 года назад +1

      That's it! I've seen it myself.

    • @max_rove
      @max_rove 3 года назад +16

      One of the biggest factors in having good instincts is to always look at the "context" and bigger pitcure, instead of the content. Women do this naturally. Men can train themselves to do it just as well, or even better.
      Some examples:
      1. She replies with something flirty 1 week later. The content is funny, but the context is that she didn't get back to you in one week. Prioritize that second fact, and judge accordingly.
      2. She hasn't talked to you in a long time, and now is really friendly all the sudden. You gotta wonder, does she need something?
      3. She seems to flirt with you (content), but is too busy to go out. (context)
      Basically, read between the lines. Pay attention to body language, tone, respect, etc..

    • @oluwaseyia8548
      @oluwaseyia8548 3 года назад +1

      They're intuitive..........unless guys are extremely crafty

    • @oluwaseyia8548
      @oluwaseyia8548 3 года назад

      Men are more emotional........most women aren't

  • @Jack-goff
    @Jack-goff 3 года назад +53

    Man the one about not being on the social media, stories specifically, is spot on. I don’t follow my main chick or watch her stories and it drives her INSANE. She trying to play that role and not follow me back but she damn sure watches every story I post. I get a good laugh out of that shit

    • @jacobdizon6429
      @jacobdizon6429 3 года назад +7

      she dont follow u and she be watching ur stories? 🤣🤣👀

    • @ryangriffiths8329
      @ryangriffiths8329 3 года назад +11

      I definitely used to do this. Now I will watch her story and throw her a bone once a month view also.

    • @zackmccall1503
      @zackmccall1503 3 года назад +10

      @@ryangriffiths8329 the once a month or two is key. Shows your indifferent about it and u don't come off looking like ur purposely trying not too view her

  • @toluajayi9593
    @toluajayi9593 3 года назад +69

    What I’ve learnt yea is that all these masculine frame and red pill knowledge comes naturally to us when we’re dealing w average girls. It’s when we’re w baddies that the bullshit jumps out😂 so if we can just train our mind to see ALL women the same, we should be good

    • @BanHammerFiend
      @BanHammerFiend 2 года назад +6

      Too fuckin right my man; the fuckin don until a 9 comes across then I'm rethinking how to talk to women

    • @nabil706
      @nabil706 2 года назад +6

      Yea that’s right you‘re only really RP if you treat a 10 like a 5, AMS said the kryptonite to an alpha male is a dime aka a 10

    • @engell3707
      @engell3707 2 года назад +3

      Easier said than done. I want to see you acting all red pill with a dime that genuinely wants you.

    • @CiluhStyle1
      @CiluhStyle1 2 года назад

      Big fuckin facts man damn

    • @Pingvin666
      @Pingvin666 Год назад

      Ive to this level, but Im a postman I have practice, just like they have

  • @mikelovebmt
    @mikelovebmt 3 года назад +60

    Best dating coach on RUclips hands down. Trust me. AMS got the game down to a science.

    • @reclaimtheframe
      @reclaimtheframe 3 года назад +12

      And unlike other scientists he's willing to change his previous hypothesis when new results come in

    • @mikelovebmt
      @mikelovebmt 3 года назад +1

      @@reclaimtheframe Facts brother, facts.

  • @mr.k9144
    @mr.k9144 3 года назад +49

    It's interesting you mentioned a chick having to make an appointment to see you. The last chick I was dealing with, she got so comfortable to where she just showed up to my house unexpectedly one day. Gave her a warning and told her don't do it again. Weeks later, this chick showed up to my house unexpectedly again on a Saturday morning. Told her she had to go and she caught an attitude.
    You have to stand on your principles and be willing to lose one even if she was half way decent.
    Some women will sh*t-test you on purpose to see if your masculine frame is real. If they can't get in line when you check them. Let them go. You'll be glad you did early.

    • @nathand4500
      @nathand4500 2 года назад

      the ones that over do the shit tests are going to be never ending pains in the ass.

  • @alanknuth1671
    @alanknuth1671 3 года назад +61

    When someones attraction is too high, it feels like they are selfishly trying to take things away from you rather than give or share what they have.

    • @brandonsaunders7515
      @brandonsaunders7515 3 года назад +2

      Trueeeee

    • @renebleu8711
      @renebleu8711 3 года назад +10

      Facts. That’s how females try to make us beta and simp. Don’t fall for it.

  • @chrissteele9497
    @chrissteele9497 3 года назад +25

    This was a good one AMS the only disagreement is most of these girls in there 20’s all think they are IG models so they are posting half naked pics

  • @dontemoore9020
    @dontemoore9020 3 года назад +54

    Honestly, this man and his videos are life changing. It saved me from being a beta and now I'm gaining the knowledge I need to be an alpha. I appreciate you AMS

  • @don_0020
    @don_0020 3 года назад +9

    This shit for the men for real, AMS delivery is just more striking than the other bloggers I’ve listened to.

  • @azenh
    @azenh 3 года назад +15

    i’m a beta, i’m trying to stop being one, thank you man i’m going to watch this entire video

  • @Bebevegetto
    @Bebevegetto 3 года назад +36

    I laughed so fkn hard when he said, "Bytch It's something you wanna say??". Need to be a shirt

  • @imshaun4563
    @imshaun4563 3 года назад +45

    What pisses me off, is when a woman leads with all kinds of compliments then slowly takes them out until they are obsolete until you ask. They are not only better instinctively but they strategize for you to lead in compliments

    • @johnsmith23ist
      @johnsmith23ist 3 года назад +17

      Classic narcissist

    • @scottlopez9822
      @scottlopez9822 3 года назад +1

      Good observation on your part … their actions speak louder than their words

  • @bebintime
    @bebintime 3 года назад +29

    I’ve messed up the last 4 girls I’ve been with because of seeking their validation. Thank god the solution is here 😭

  • @oscartan1906
    @oscartan1906 3 года назад +20

    AMS the only guy I look forward to 30mins plus video.

  • @AndrewZambetti
    @AndrewZambetti 3 года назад +22

    I havent watched a girls story in years for this reason and they will start sending you pics directly when they really love you

    • @James_150
      @James_150 3 года назад +1

      😀😀 my girl complains that I don’t watch her stories like I use to do…Me: I’m getting RP gal

    • @AndrewZambetti
      @AndrewZambetti 3 года назад +5

      @@James_150 tell her you don’t watch stories anymore because you’re playing your life so she doesn’t take it personal

    • @phresco732
      @phresco732 3 года назад +4

      Same bro, I stopped liking and watching stories and it drives girls I date crazy lol

    • @AndrewZambetti
      @AndrewZambetti 3 года назад

      @Gym Douche this is a boss move so it would be better in every way than the alternative no matter how you look

  • @chuppa1chups
    @chuppa1chups 3 года назад +42

    Knowing the difference between *validation* and *appreciation* is critically important.

  • @Jumpshot_-xm5zt
    @Jumpshot_-xm5zt 3 года назад +14

    I too, am guilty of being too cold and emotionally unavailable. And you're right about how it drains their interest in you. This 1 hit home for me. Bug ups to you for this 1🎯

  • @Dad_of_War
    @Dad_of_War 3 года назад +37

    I swear I've made the mistake of not validating a woman at all, I swear it backfires, you have to find the right balance

    • @antoniomitchell1883
      @antoniomitchell1883 2 года назад

      Why is it a mistake? What exactly is it you’re looking for?

    • @Dad_of_War
      @Dad_of_War 2 года назад +2

      @@antoniomitchell1883 what am I looking for? Nothing in particular.
      My point was if you don't at least let them know you find them attractive, they think you don't and get spooked. It only matters if they like you tho

    • @elvismylove48
      @elvismylove48 2 года назад

      It's called narcissism. Our generation is sad.

    • @leonelorozco2514
      @leonelorozco2514 2 года назад +2

      Antonio Mitchel is about feeding her scraps. On the begining for example you complement her choice in clothing but not her apearience. Feed her a little bit but have her wanting more. No direct complement untill you are in a relationship and even then moderate complements.

  • @bigvize8782
    @bigvize8782 3 года назад +36

    Only years of experiences can teach this wisdoms. This is a solid 10 out of 10 video ams. No joke. Teenage or early 20s guys can’t even rap there heads around this content bro. Take notes guys especially younger guys. 🇯🇲💯

  • @smiley4l
    @smiley4l 3 года назад +113

    It's ok uncle Ams... yu can admit you miss the sunday chick lol

  • @_cigwe_
    @_cigwe_ 3 года назад +8

    Definitely needed this heading into the year being stable & growing my business.

  • @xX420rulezXx
    @xX420rulezXx 3 года назад +31

    This guy knows his shit

  • @12Messenger
    @12Messenger 3 года назад +38

    Omg if you dont believe in the instincts part. Just listen...you know when a girl catches you looking at her in a social situation or she thinks youre staring...notice how she disappears into a corner somewhere where you cant see her but she can see you...and she'll observe if you're looking around to see if youre looking for her

  • @FamilatheG
    @FamilatheG 2 года назад +4

    What I like about AMS is that he's made the mistakes , and improved himself.
    That deserves respect.
    Go on bro 💪

  • @rachellebrown9959
    @rachellebrown9959 3 года назад +39

    This man should teach lectures at colleges or have his own class and curriculum. AMS insight and information be so on point!!! 💯💯💯💯💯

  • @agent009vs007
    @agent009vs007 3 года назад +24

    It’s true , imagine sleeping with a 5-7 ain’t nobody going down on that . But them 8-10 you going down on them ones … I agree with AMS why y’all picky with what you eat if you like eating it 🤣🤣

  • @tigerpause2470
    @tigerpause2470 3 года назад +4

    Too many fools liking and complimenting on women's post.Stop validating these very arrogant insecure women.

  • @splashjayy
    @splashjayy 3 года назад +10

    my biggest struggle is throwing a bih a bone. i really truly believe im better and dont need them. its not an act. they come and go and i literally cant care

  • @qualityquotes229
    @qualityquotes229 2 года назад +8

    19:40 For IG, I recommend for all the chicks you follow to mute her posts and stories.
    Trust me, they do the same to us!
    No Validation

  • @Houston_Realtor
    @Houston_Realtor 3 года назад +21

    AMS is the GOAT 🐐

  • @BananaPajamaGamer
    @BananaPajamaGamer 3 года назад +16

    I found as soon as I got a life, I stopped caring anymore, I forgot about the outcome altogether

  • @thedeanogaming
    @thedeanogaming 3 года назад +46

    They have low self esteem without our validation. There's always had to be a balance with it.

    • @malachirobinson3243
      @malachirobinson3243 3 года назад +4

      Yeah man mash up dem self esteem then control dem

    • @juneapowell7078
      @juneapowell7078 3 года назад +3

      Dem gyal yah… bwoii

    • @ohawaiki
      @ohawaiki 2 года назад +2

      Trust me. Confident women don’t need your validation.

    • @NotstarvinMarvin
      @NotstarvinMarvin 2 года назад

      @@ohawaiki sure :)) u thots always lack confidence.

  • @newsentertainment1550
    @newsentertainment1550 3 года назад +9

    I much more appreciate these longer videos where you go into the fine-grained details of game. Long live AMS.

  • @ryanward3822
    @ryanward3822 3 года назад +12

    AMS wordplay is immaculate

  • @koban4max
    @koban4max 3 года назад +10

    My big bro. The lesson that your first taught me….from the beginning

    • @alpha_male_s
      @alpha_male_s  3 года назад +4

      I made a mistake on the previous title. Check it now bro

    • @koban4max
      @koban4max 3 года назад

      @@alpha_male_s it still the core lesson my bro. Thx

  • @hansumprince3355
    @hansumprince3355 3 года назад +21

    AMS you have taught me alot I love your advice but I decided to just be myself. If a woman walks away when I'm being myself she did me a favor. I'm happy with who I am and if she doesn't like it it's her loss

    • @renaldsunset
      @renaldsunset 3 года назад +7

      Oh you will be back !

    • @oneydjacks
      @oneydjacks 2 года назад +3

      That, young man, is confidence.

  • @anonymousrydr8399
    @anonymousrydr8399 3 года назад +6

    This shit does take time. Not everyone can be like you but can take this information into their own lifestyle!!! Don’t let this change your life but use it as an ADD-ON.

  • @fatality614brid4fun
    @fatality614brid4fun 2 года назад +2

    This video is gold. Would solve 90% of mens problems w women

  • @gotchabud3047
    @gotchabud3047 2 года назад +5

    That eating a girl out thing is hard to believe man, i been told i eat it like no other and lowkey that has made girls do me favors like drive 20 minutes just to scoop me up. I just don’t see how they wouldn’t like it

  • @deshanpillay3064
    @deshanpillay3064 2 года назад +1

    The Boss Player Returns With Some Classic Material📖💯

  • @tmack7563
    @tmack7563 3 года назад +15

    The balance is KS and AMS, guaranteed to get a young mans head right and game tight. Peace!!!!

    • @kennycherry7684
      @kennycherry7684 3 года назад

      Throw some fresh and fit and mtr as well

    • @Tdawg93a
      @Tdawg93a 3 года назад +5

      @@kennycherry7684 don't need mtr and don't even get me started on fresh & fit

    • @Poussyeater-w5e
      @Poussyeater-w5e 3 года назад

      @@Tdawg93a what's wrong with MTR lol

    • @ssj4goku18825theepic
      @ssj4goku18825theepic 3 года назад

      @@kennycherry7684 fresh and fit is trash. They entertaining tho

  • @stagbeetle195
    @stagbeetle195 Год назад

    Dude, the had some ah-hah eye opener moments for me. You sir, are a gentleman & scholar of game.

  • @hosseing
    @hosseing 3 года назад +7

    99.9999% of what you say is correct and comes from real no BS experiences in real daily life! Thanks for your advice!

  • @gouthamabhishek1395
    @gouthamabhishek1395 2 года назад +2

    Oh boy... This guy videos are legit funny and at the same time hardcore bitter facts. 👌🏼👌🏼🔥🔥🔥

  • @renaldsunset
    @renaldsunset 3 года назад +60

    I disagree with the compliment part. I compliment my girls as a reward for when they’ve made an improvement on pleasing me. For example when she’s wearing something just for me because she knows I like it. Or when I’m too distant. It’s all about balance

    • @BakaryD
      @BakaryD 3 года назад +19

      Just donnt validate her too much. Say "nice dress, let's go out now" that's it

    • @Nosirrl4747
      @Nosirrl4747 2 года назад +3

      You not listening homie. The compliments are supposed to be given as rewards. That's why they are called feeding em scraps.

  • @TheBlackFilipino
    @TheBlackFilipino 3 года назад +5

    So true. I remember I would have girls drooling over me but then I would seek validation from other women. Seeking their validation.

  • @DM-ox6sh
    @DM-ox6sh 3 года назад +3

    Yo AMS. I'm currently reading The Autobiography of Malcolm X and there's so much red pill knowledge in there. It's amazing. Malcolm X had so much experience with women during his earlier years that he really understood female nature

  • @bluesmoke8826
    @bluesmoke8826 3 года назад +41

    I like this guy. He is coming at us with a real human approach. I'm still learning to this day. I'm learning from this content and some of the guys here on the comments section. So young guys pay attention to this shit because it's dead accurate

  • @goatonthatrack
    @goatonthatrack 3 года назад +18

    38 min thats what I'm talking about 💯🇧🇷

  • @goldbee6150
    @goldbee6150 3 года назад +6

    Man AMS knowledge is powerful as F. I’m running circles round these woman after listening to AMS.

  • @michaelrangel7280
    @michaelrangel7280 3 года назад +8

    You showing the weak to be strong no room for soft men Alpha make strategies shows us how to be top notch in life and doing it correctly with woman and with out them ✊🏽

  • @autobahn1758
    @autobahn1758 2 года назад +1

    I been binge watching your videos over the last 2 weeks. This video shows your growth. Appreciate you!

  • @Pride0FTh3Lion
    @Pride0FTh3Lion 3 года назад +4

    This vid is right on time for me! I been on my cold attitude. Gotta balance it out. Appreciate it, AMS.

  • @j3ffMov
    @j3ffMov 2 года назад +3

    this guy deserves a Nobel peace prize or something

  • @thedavisdimension
    @thedavisdimension 3 года назад +10

    I'm 23, Thing is, Its going to come naturally to make these mistakes because we aren't taught this stuff early on. I had to find out things the hard way of course. But it didn't take too many mistakes get it right.

  • @BigVic687
    @BigVic687 3 года назад +2

    Best video yet! I would also add in always agreeing with her validates her as well. Have a backbone fellas!!

  • @jemelrahclark8911
    @jemelrahclark8911 3 года назад +3

    The big brother I never had. Salute bro.

  • @gabriellove8488
    @gabriellove8488 3 года назад +6

    Focus on you and the women will too

  • @Allen216.
    @Allen216. 3 года назад +5

    18:24 “A picture of Malcolm X” I’m dead lmao!!!

  • @RoseRose-hp4rq
    @RoseRose-hp4rq 2 года назад +11

    Last guy I dated texted me “I miss you” after The 2nd DATE. I didn’t say it back. It was WAAAY too soon. We faded after 3rd date cuz he said other validation-seeking comments.. it was a turn off.

    • @designthinkingwithgian
      @designthinkingwithgian 2 года назад +2

      goes to show Billy Joel's
      song "Tell her about it" is a load of BS 😂

    • @RoseRose-hp4rq
      @RoseRose-hp4rq 2 года назад +1

      @@designthinkingwithgian 😅 well I guess it has to do with being able to read social cues. When someone writes you that early on to say they miss you, I don’t really take it as a compliment. I take it more as them being clingy or someone who needs a lot of validation. I think that sometimes men interpret this as we just don’t like guys who like us back. That is not the case, we are just put off by men that need our validation so early on. It shows some kind of lack of security on their part.

    • @designthinkingwithgian
      @designthinkingwithgian 2 года назад +2

      @@RoseRose-hp4rq true. but some men also aren't the most sophisticated communicators. "I miss you" might actually be his way of saying "Really enjoyed our time. You've been on my mind and I'd like to see you again soon."
      So it may be a sign of insecurity and emotional immaturity, but it could also just be that the dude is head over heels for you. Romance is a tough business.

    • @RoseRose-hp4rq
      @RoseRose-hp4rq 2 года назад +2

      @@designthinkingwithgian you’re right. I never thought of that.

  • @ryangriffiths8329
    @ryangriffiths8329 3 года назад +5

    Regarding clicking on their story’s IG or FB for example you can either mute them on IG or on FB click on the treble dot of say a picture they post and snooze for 30days. You’ll see no posts or story’s off them. Your welcome 😉👊🏻

  • @thashift
    @thashift 3 года назад +6

    "Might've had plans to go surfing" 🤣😂🤣😂

  • @DjmadnassScrewed
    @DjmadnassScrewed 3 года назад +4

    Ams purpose has increased his game thank you for your time and knowledge you know it's funny but seeing how far youve come the maturity and approach gets better and better year after year thank you loyal Pateron supporters and your questions along with Ams game so we men can build for a brighter day of getting some

  • @Charvisgreen
    @Charvisgreen 3 года назад +28

    23:08 😂😂😂😂 I remember I felt this way about a chick. That’s why you can’t date down after you date up.

  • @day-vid
    @day-vid 3 года назад +2

    Thanks to you, I stopped watching fb stories months ago
    Then they started cramming the stories on the timeline lol

  • @IaNoZ01
    @IaNoZ01 3 года назад +17

    South African Sleez Ball Gang

  • @Andrerosenguyen
    @Andrerosenguyen 3 года назад +2

    AMS you are truly a modern day 21st century dating and psychology phenomenon

  • @chukwumaorji2986
    @chukwumaorji2986 3 года назад +10

    "wham bam,thank you ma'am"
    Ams got some pretty good rhymes 🤣

  • @gcyang83
    @gcyang83 3 года назад +1

    Truth that having to much sex stuff holds true. Let her want it more. AMS on point with all this. Learning every day

  • @jacobcajita2680
    @jacobcajita2680 3 года назад +36

    Took you long enough AMS! I see u pulling back😂 appreciate the content bro

  • @TheBlackFilipino
    @TheBlackFilipino 3 года назад +1

    You are so right about training women they should be initiating everything

  • @chukakaelo2275
    @chukakaelo2275 3 года назад +6

    Please do a video on what’s too cold. Might’ve lost a butch overdoing it not replying for 30 days 😂

  • @ad_stayfly7
    @ad_stayfly7 3 года назад +1

    Great video. I made the mistake of showing of this dime piece I had a few years ago. As soon as I got her on my team the first thing I went did was go through my hood where the homies be at and parked the car, got out, and left her in on for about 5 minutes while I chopped it up with them. After that she went no communication on my ass. Rookie mistake. But now I’m married so I more “Purple pilled” I guess. I’m finna watch your video on the purple pulled and still being happy I’m a few. Preciate the content AMS. Salute !

  • @CosminPerisan
    @CosminPerisan 3 года назад +4

    This is like a Masterclass